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1. Ask Muriel Anything: Getting Recognized at Work, Managing Team Conflict, and Responding to Tough Feedback

   26 oktober 2026 · 33 min

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   How do you make sure your contributions are recognized when the things you do best seem to go unnoticed? Lees meer

   How should you handle conflict between two employees who don't get along?

   What should you do when colleagues describe you as intimidating, even though you see yourself as collaborative and approachable?

   In this episode of Ask Muriel Anything, Muriel and her producer, Mary, answer listeners’ questions about navigating workplace dynamics, understanding your value, and becoming a more effective leader. They discuss how to test your assumptions about what your organization values, when to step in to address team conflict, and how to use difficult feedback to expand your leadership range without losing sight of who you are.

   For further reading:

   Getting Along: How to Work with Anyone (Even Difficult People) by Amy Gallo: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1647821061?lv=shuf&channelId=500&plpRedirect=mhFallback

   Why Employees Need Both Recognition and Appreciation: https://hbr.org/2019/11/why-employees-need-both-recognition-and-appreciation

   How to Fix Dysfunctional Team Dynamics: https://hbr.org/podcast/2025/05/how-to-fix-dysfunctional-team-dynamics

   Want to stay connected? You can find Muriel here:

   Website: murielwilkins.com

   LinkedIn: @Muriel Maignan Wilkins

   Instagram: @CoachMurielWilkins

   Want to be coached by Muriel?

   If you’re facing a professional challenge, apply to be coached by Muriel on the Coaching Real Leaders podcast: Apply here

   Keep the conversation going:

   Join the Coaching Real Leaders Community where Muriel hosts live debriefs and Q&A sessions: coachingrealleaderscommunity.com

   Go deeper:

   Read Muriel’s newest book, Leadership Unblocked: LeadershipUnblocked.com

   For executive coaches:

   Learn more about Evolve, Muriel’s immersive program for executive coaches: murielwilkins.com/evolve

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2. “Cold Call”: How Strong Teams Leverage Different Personality Types

   19 oktober 2026 · 28 min

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   Today, we’re sharing an episode from Cold Call, the chart-topping management podcast from our colleagues at Harvard Business School. Lees meer

   Hosted by HBS Chief Marketing and Communications Officer Brian Kenny, Cold Call explores the real-world business case studies taught at HBS, with the professors who write them and often the executives and innovators who lived them. From the history of Hershey to today's biggest AI case studies, Cold Call breaks down the decisions, tradeoffs, and leadership lessons behind some of the most fascinating organizations.

   In today’s episode, Harvard Business School Professor Len Schlesinger and TypeCoach President Rob Toomey join host Brian Kenny to discuss how managers can recognize and work across cognitive differences to improve team dynamics. They dig in on two team case studies where dysfunction isn’t loud or dramatic, and they explore how to address that subtle tension before it derails performance or strains relationships.

   To listen to more episodes, follow Cold Call on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get podcasts.

   Connect with Muriel:

   Website: murielwilkins.com

   LinkedIn: @Muriel Maignan Wilkins

   Instagram: @CoachMurielWIlkins

   Join the Coaching Real Leaders Community: coachingrealleaderscommunity.com

   Read Muriel’s book: LeadershipUnblocked.com

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3. How Do I Ensure I Get Promoted?

   12 oktober 2026 · 50 min

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   She’s a leader who has worked hard to grow her career, but is currently feeling held back from reaching the next level. She wants to know what she needs to do to earn a promotion, especially given the challenges she faces with her team. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through how to manage the tension she’s feeling, and helps consider how she can keep developing even when there’s no guarantee of promotion. Lees meer

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   For Further Reading:

   Leadership Unblocked by Muriel Wilkins Chapter 5: LeadershipUnblocked.com

   Connect with Muriel:

   Website: murielwilkins.com

   LinkedIn: @Muriel Maignan Wilkins

   Instagram: @CoachMurielWIlkins

   Join the Coaching Real Leaders Community: coachingrealleaderscommunity.com

   Read Muriel’s book: LeadershipUnblocked.com

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4. Ask Muriel Anything with Special Guest Matt Abrahams

   28 september 2026 · 41 min

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   How do I show my team I’m listening when I don’t agree with them? Lees meer

   How do I project confidence when I don’t know what the future holds?

   How do I balance empathy with accountability?

   How do I influence others when I don’t have formal authority?

   In this episode, Muriel and communication expert Matt Abrahams, lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business and host of Think Fast, Talk Smart, answer listeners’ questions about some of the trickiest communication and leadership challenges. They discuss how to demonstrate that you’re listening without having to agree, how to communicate with confidence in uncertain situations, and how to hold people accountable without sacrificing empathy.

   For further reading:

   Think Fast, Talk Smart: https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/business-podcasts/think-fast-talk-smart-podcast

   Matt’s book Think Faster, Talk Smarter: How to Speak Successfully When You're Put on the Spot: https://www.amazon.com/Think-Faster-Talk-Smarter-Successfully/dp/1668010305?tag=bookplease06-20&geniuslink=true

   Building Influence Without Authority (Coaching Real Leaders): https://hbr.org/podcast/2021/03/building-influence-without-authority

   Exerting Influence Without Authority (Harvard Business Review): https://hbr.org/2008/02/exerting-influence-without-aut

   Connect with Muriel:

   Website: murielwilkins.com

   LinkedIn: @Muriel Maignan Wilkins

   Instagram: @CoachMurielWIlkins

   Join the Coaching Real Leaders Community: coachingrealleaderscommunity.com

   Read Muriel’s book: LeadershipUnblocked.com

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5. How Do I Lead with Confidence Without Always Needing To Be Right?

   14 september 2026 · 55 min

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   She’s a leader who’s built a reputation for being direct, confident, and decisive. But she’s recently received feedback that her communication can create tense interactions with colleagues. Host Muriel Wilkins helps her look beyond the feedback itself to understand what’s driving those moments, and how she can exude confidence without the need to always be right. Lees meer

   For further reading:

   The Right Way to Respond to Negative Feedback: https://hbr.org/2018/05/the-right-way-to-respond-to-negative-feedback

   How to Make Sense of Conflicting Feedback on Your Leadership: https://hbr.org/2022/01/how-to-make-sense-of-conflicting-feedback-on-your-leadership

   How Do I Stop Being Defensive?: https://hbr.org/podcast/2021/11/how-do-i-stop-being-defensive?

   What Leaders Get Wrong About Listening: https://hbr.org/podcast/2025/06/what-leaders-get-wrong-about-listening

   Leadership Unblocked Chapter 5: LeadershipUnblocked.com

   Own the Room: https://us.amazon.com/Own-Room-Discover-Signature-Leadership-ebook/dp/B00BAH7PQY/ref=sr_1_2?_encoding=UTF8&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.epwJb2QC4llONZO6YeARJmJmT5QGtcapVuFP9fuTNbE.N4ouJEbmhKVyJS8dDcnMA_s1Ieg-1Da9XjVKtTDekp8&dib_tag=se&keywords=B00BBJZX2O&nsdOptOutParam=true&qid=1789330493&s=digital-text&shoppingPortalEnabled=true&sr=1-2

   Connect with Muriel:

   Website: murielwilkins.com

   LinkedIn: @Muriel Maignan Wilkins

   Instagram: @CoachMurielWIlkins

   Join the Coaching Real Leaders Community: coachingrealleaderscommunity.com

   Read Muriel’s book: LeadershipUnblocked.com

   See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

6. Ask Muriel Anything: Staying Motivated, The Pros and Cons of People Management, and Handling Ambitious Employees

   31 augustus 2026 · 35 min

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   How do you stay motivated in your career after years of success - and conquering so many mountains? Lees meer

   How do you decide if taking on people management is the right move for you?

   How should you respond to an ambitious employee that you think needs to be more patient?

   In this episode, Muriel and her producer, Mary, answer listeners’ questions to help leaders of all levels navigate the challenges they are facing.

   For further reading:

   A Guide to Motivating Yourself at Work: https://hbr.org/2023/07/a-guide-to-motivating-yourself-at-work

   The 7 Hidden Beliefs That Hold Leaders Back: https://www.radicalcandor.com/podcast/hidden-beliefs

   How Do I Stay Motivated After Surviving Layoffs? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wjy_GCrZTnQ

   Should I Become a People Manager? https://medium.com/@fun_cuddles/should-i-become-a-people-manager-the-difficulty-of-identifying-management-potential-8fbfb534f0b1

   Want to stay connected? You can find Muriel here:

   Website: murielwilkins.com

   LinkedIn: @Muriel Maignan Wilkins

   Instagram: @CoachMurielWilkins

   Want to be coached by Muriel?

   If you’re facing a professional challenge, apply to be coached by Muriel on the Coaching Real Leaders podcast: Apply here

   Keep the conversation going:

   Join the Coaching Real Leaders Community where Muriel hosts live debriefs and Q&A sessions: coachingrealleaderscommunity.com

   Go deeper:

   Read Muriel’s newest book, Leadership Unblocked: LeadershipUnblocked.com

   For executive coaches:

   Learn more about Evolve, Muriel’s immersive program for executive coaches: murielwilkins.com/evolve

   See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

7. Behind the Scenes: A Coaching Debrief

   24 augustus 2026 · 32 min

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   Join host Muriel Wilkins as she unpacks last week’s Coaching Real Leaders’ episode, “Why Haven’t I Made It To The C-Suite”, where she coached Randy - a leader who has spent years coming close to landing the most senior level executive roles, only to be passed over without clear feedback. In this special bonus and companion episode, Muriel debriefs the coaching conversation with her Coaching Real Leaders Community and provides additional context to what was really going on during the coaching session and helps listeners better understand her coaching approach. Lees meer

   Be sure to listen to the episode we debrief: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/best-of-crl-why-havent-i-made-it-to-the-c-suite/id1545444200?i=1000783849495

   Want to stay connected? You can find Muriel here:

   Website: murielwilkins.com

   LinkedIn: @Muriel Maignan Wilkins

   Instagram: @CoachMurielWilkins

   Want to be coached by Muriel?

   If you’re facing a professional challenge, apply to be coached by Muriel on the Coaching Real Leaders podcast: Apply here

   Keep the conversation going:

   Join the Coaching Real Leaders Community where Muriel hosts live debriefs and Q&A sessions: coachingrealleaderscommunity.com

   Go deeper:

   Read Muriel’s newest book, Leadership Unblocked: LeadershipUnblocked.com

   For executive coaches:

   Learn more about Evolve, Muriel’s immersive program for executive coaches: murielwilkins.com/evolve

   See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

8. Best of CRL: Why Haven’t I Made it to the C-Suite?

   17 augustus 2026 · 48 min

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   He’s spent years coming close to landing the most senior level executive roles, only to be passed over without clear feedback. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches him through what to do when you feel you've done everything "right" but still don't get the opportunity you were hoping for. Lees meer

   For further reading:

   What to Do After a Final-Round Job Interview: https://hbr.org/2021/01/what-to-do-after-a-final-round-job-interview

   Cracking the Code That Stalls People of Color: https://hbr.org/2014/01/cracking-the-code-that-stalls-multicultural-professionals

   What Do Black Executives Really Want?: https://hbr.org/2021/11/what-do-black-executives-really-want

   Connect with Muriel:

   Website: murielwilkins.com

   LinkedIn: @Muriel Maignan Wilkins

   Instagram: @CoachMurielWIlkins

   Join the Coaching Real Leaders Community: coachingrealleaderscommunity.com

   Read Muriel’s book: LeadershipUnblocked.com

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9. Ask Muriel Anything with Special Guest Damien Faughnan

   3 augustus 2026 · 47 min

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   Have you ever been passed over for a promotion? Lees meer

   Are you wondering whether you're ready for the CEO role—or your next big career move?

   Are you struggling to figure out when it's time to leave for good?

   In this episode, CEO Coach and Advisor, Damien Faughnan, joins host, Muriel Wilkins, to answer questions from the Coaching Real Leaders community.

   For further reading:

   Learn more about Damien: https://damienfaughnan.com/

   Rewriting the Playbook: Leading Through Compounding Uncertainty: https://www.russellreynolds.com/en/insights/articles/rewriting-the-playbook-leading-through-compounding-uncertainty

   Leaders, It’s Time to Build Your Tolerance for Uncertainty: https://hbr.org/2026/01/leaders-its-time-to-build-your-tolerance-for-uncertainty

   How to Become a First Time CEO: https://www.russellreynolds.com/en/about/careers/careers-with-our-clients/how-to-become-a-first-time-ceo

   The Midlife Chrysalis: https://www.meawisdom.com/podcast/

   Connect with Muriel:

   Website: murielwilkins.com

   LinkedIn: @Muriel Maignan Wilkins

   Instagram: @CoachMurielWIlkins

   Join the Coaching Real Leaders Community: coachingrealleaderscommunity.com

   Read Muriel’s book: LeadershipUnblocked.com

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10. How Do I Lead Someone Who Doesn’t Seem to Fit the Team Culture?

    20 juli 2026 · 1 uur 5 min

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    She’s recently taken on a bigger leadership role and with that shift comes a new challenge: how to lead a team where one person’s style doesn’t seem to fit the culture she’s worked so hard to build. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through how to manage a difficult dynamic while addressing the larger team leadership issues it raises. Lees meer

    For further reading:

    More on the DISC assessment: https://www.businessnewsdaily.com/8692-disc-assessment.html

    Difficult People: https://hbr.org/podcast/2018/02/difficult-people

    Stop Hiring for Culture Fit: https://hbr.org/2018/01/how-to-hire

    How To Handle Employees Who Don’t Fit Your Culture: https://www.linkedin.com/posts/handandassociates_what-should-you-do-if-current-employees-don-activity-7299836392640020480-nzc0/

    How to Support a New Employee Who Doesn’t Seem to Fit In: https://quickbooks.intuit.com/ca/resources/manage-employees/employee-doesnt-fit-in-corporate-culture/

    Connect with Muriel:

    Website: murielwilkins.com

    LinkedIn: @Muriel Maignan Wilkins

    Instagram: @CoachMurielWIlkins

    Join the Coaching Real Leaders Community: coachingrealleaderscommunity.com

    Read Muriel’s book: LeadershipUnblocked.com

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