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128. What To Do When You Stink At Delegation
20 mei 2024 · 31 min
This episode delves into the challenges and benefits of effective delegation, particularly for those who struggle with letting go of control and the fear of entrusting tasks to others. Somer and Michelle share their personal experiences and discuss what changed their perspectives on "sharing the load." They also have a big announcement for our podcast community and an invitation to the Summer Challenge—something they never had on their radar for SWHW... but God. This is an episode that will leave you encouraged and excited. Lees meer
00:00 Welcome and BIG Announcement
03:15 Last Episode Before the Break: Join Us on Patreon!
06:22 Delegation: The Key to Leadership and Capacity
18:06 The Power of Delegation and Trust in God
19:37 The Importance of Responsibility and Growth
21:03 Personal Delegation: A Strategy for Success
22:15 Personal Insights from Learning WHY To Delegate
25:18 Investing in Others Through Delegation
26:55 The Challenge of Delegation and Personal GrowthJOIN THE SUMMER CHALLENGE HOSTED IN PATREON
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127. What To Do When You Feel Like Too Much
13 mei 2024 · 34 min
In this episode Somer welcomes SWHW teammate and friend, Callie Holland, as they talk about what it feels like to wonder if you're "too much." They both share personal experiences and lessons learned, eventually getting to the root of the issue with scripture. Lees meer
02:28 Navigating the Complexities of Ambition and Identity
05:43 The Challenge of Leadership
07:58 Embracing Our True Identity in Christ
11:05 Exploring the Power and Presence of the Holy Spirit
19:11 The Role of the Holy Spirit in Overcoming Insecurity
22:08 Battling Spiritual Warfare and Embracing Your 'Too Muchness'
22:42 The Power of Prayer and Vulnerability in Leadership
27:43 Peter's Journey: From Insecurity to the Rock of the Church
31:11 Inviting the Holy Spirit into Every Aspect of Life
32:10 Closing Thoughts and Invitation to the CommunityJoin The Patreon Here! (We have a summer challenge coming you'll want to jump in on!)
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126. Parenting with Hope in a Secular Age with Melissa Kruger
6 mei 2024 · 34 min
Melissa Kruger has journeyed with me [Michelle] through motherhood, and right on time -- just two weeks after my oldest became a teenager -- she released a new book on raising teens for Christ. In this episode, we dive deep into God's heart for parenting our teens, including: Lees meer
the risks of defaulting to parent out of motivations other than hope
laying the foundation for the teen years in childhood years
biggest challenges + opportunities in raising teens today
the reminder that it's never too late to parent (or grandparent!) out of hope
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125. How To Know When It's Time To Quit: Part 2
29 april 2024 · 31 min
This episode, inspired by one of our Patreon Besties, delves into the often times confusing emotions we encounter when we want to know if it's time to walk away from something. In part 2 of How To Know If It's Time To Quit, Somer and Michelle talk through the signs and symptoms that they've often felt when it was the Lord leading them to quit, rather than their own wants or desires. This episode puts the 'explanation point' on the entire conversation and we hope leaves you with clear indicators that help you to identify or at least intentionally listen for the voice of God. Lees meer
00:00 Recognizing the Signs
03:50 A Sign of Divine Stirring
11:54 The Power of Prayer + Community
15:06 Emotional Signals
19:09 The Fruit of the Spirit
21:36 The Gift of Restlessness
28:06 Seeking Clarity and DirectionJoin The SWHW Patreon
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124. How To Know When It's Time To Quit: Part 1
22 april 2024 · 26 min
124. This episode, inspired by one of our Patreon Besties, delves into the often times confusing emotions we encounter when we want to know if we need to quit something. Somer and Michelle give you part 1 this week which talks through the signs and symptoms that they've often felt when it was their flesh that was pushing them towards quitting. This conversation serves as a bit of a guide in helping you recognize when your impulse to quit is a selfish reflex versus a God-led command. Lees meer
01:25 Exploring Personal Responses to Quitting
04:24 The Signs of When to Quit: Boredom and Discontentment
12:47 Quitting When It's Hard
16:33 Confronting Rebellion and Avoidance
23:38 Evaluating the Urge to Quit
24:12 When Quitting is the Right ChoiceJoin The SWHW Patreon
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123. Our Best Lessons Learned In The Marketplace and Corporate America
15 april 2024 · 38 min
In this episode, Somer and Michelle share some of their most valuable lessons learned from experiences working in corporate America and the marketplace before transitioning to ministry work. Coming from a variety of industries, including banking, retail, scientific research, fitness, network marketing, and pharmaceutical sales, they are sharing how each of their assignments have shaped them and prepared them for their current roles and reminding you how your current assignment is probably doing the same thing. Lees meer
00:48 Diving Into Our Diverse Career Histories
05:05 Embracing Being Set Apart in the Workplace
10:58 Mentorship Doesn't Require a Formal Invitation
14:42 The Power of Little Things in Making a Big Impact
18:53 Embracing the Small Things in Life
19:07 Learning from the Fashion Industry: Counting the Cost
22:49 The Leap to Gym Ownership
26:04 The Power of Contentment: Beyond Financial Success
31:05 Leadership Insights: The Value of Collective Wisdom
35:37 Reflecting on Lessons Learned and the Impact of LeadershipJoin The SWHW Patreon For More!
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122. Social Media And Your Spiritual Health: Should I Stay, Should I Go, Or Should I Adjust
8 april 2024 · 31 min
Yep, we're talking about the good ole' social media... again. But don't worry, Somer and Michelle are keeping it fresh with a nuanced approach to a spiritually healthy relationship with your internet friends and follows. Whether you're a content consumer, a content creator, or somewhere in between, we promise you'll be inspired, not beat up, by this conversation. Lees meer
00:41 Diving Into the Social Media Dilemma
02:27 The Impact of Social Media on Spiritual Life
05:43 Evaluating Time Spent on Social Media
17:17 Navigating Personal and Professional Boundaries on Social Media
25:32 Practical Tips and Final ThoughtsJoin The Patreon!
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121. I Need A Break
1 april 2024 · 45 min
In this episode, Somer talks to her friend, Linda Lotich from Seedtime. Linda shares a little of her own story which has led her to a deep desire to see women not only feel permission to rest, but to understand that stepping away with the Lord, even from their own families, is vital to their soul and ministry. Lees meer
00:00 Welcome and Introduction of Linda
01:46 The Importance of Taking Breaks for Moms
03:14 Linda's Personal Journey and Insights on Rest
08:31 Implementing Rest and Its Impact
16:31 Exploring Jesus' Example of Rest and Its Application
18:52 Practical Steps Towards Prioritizing Rest and God
21:58 Recognizing the Need for Rest and Turning to God
24:55 The Transformative Power of Rest and Prioritizing God
26:17 The Power of Prayer and Fasting in Jesus' Life
28:46 Embracing the Prodigal Son's Lesson: Everything God Has is Already Ours
33:33 Practical Tips for Deepening Your Prayer Life
40:12 Finding Rest in God Amidst Life's ChallengesJoin The Patreon
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120. How To Avoid Drama At The Water Cooler
25 maart 2024 · 35 min
In this episode Somer and Michelle address the issues of gossip and drama, particularly at the workplace, emphasizing why it can be a huge concern for everyone, but especially Christian women. They are breaking it all down and giving you some practical and realistic tools to help you avoid it. Lees meer
00:48 Navigating Workplace Drama
02:08 The Spiritual and Moral Effects Of Gossip
12:37 Cultivating a No Gossip Zone
18:44 A Real Life Story
20:11 The Ripple Effect
20:12 Challenging Gossip: Strategies and Mindsets
21:35 Leadership's Role in Eliminating Gossip
25:52 Assuming the Best Is A Path to Freedom
26:54 Practical Tips for Gossip-Free Conversations
30:49 Looking For The Truth
32:32 Encouragement to Stand Against GossipJoin The Patreon for more on Gossip in our April Q&A!
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119. How To Navigate Being The Strict Mom
18 maart 2024 · 55 min
In this episode, Somer welcomes her and Michelle's good friend, Lauren Diggs to discuss what it's like and what it takes to be confident when your parenting style and boundaries look different than the rest of the worlds. Lauren is a mother of 5 ranging in ages 9 to 32 and even a new grandma so she is speaking from a place of both experience and being in the trenches with you. Lean in! This is a good one. Lees meer
00:35 Discussing the Challenges of Being a 'Strict' Mom
01:27 Meet Lauren
04:19 Reflecting on Childhood and Parenting Styles
07:25 Adapting Parenting Approach for Different Children
10:31 Navigating The Hard Parts
20:08 The Role of Confidence in Parenting
25:31 Maintaining Open Conversations with Children
29:37 Understanding Your Child's Perspective
29:58 Teaching Kids to Make Beneficial Choices
30:23 Trusting God with Your Child's Journey
34:05 Q&A
52:26 Conclusion: Embracing Your Role as a ParentJoin The Patreon
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118. Why You Need Hobbies And How To Find Them
11 maart 2024 · 41 min
This is a FUN one. Michelle and Somer do their best to encourage you to find and build in hobbies... and they do a pretty convincing job. Need your affections stirred for the Lord? This conversation might be just the one you need! Lees meer
02:40 A Case For Hobbies
02:52 Our Favorites
06:13 The Intersection of Hobbies and Work
07:35 The Spiritual Significance of Hobbies
09:33 Hobbies as a Means of Connection
13:37 The Role of Hobbies in Evangelism
17:41 Building Hobbies into Daily Life
23:24 Letting the Gospel Shape Your Imagination
25:06 The Intersection of Hobbies and Spirituality
29:57 Defining Fun for Yourself
35:54 Your Kids' Hobbies
38:29 Praying for HobbiesJoin The Patreon
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117. I Need You. You Need Me. We Need Boundaries!
4 maart 2024 · 43 min
This week Somer and Michelle talk through a conversation they were able to have when they spoke together at a conference a few weeks back. They were addressing a group of female ministry leaders and reminding them that they are needed, they need others, and all of us need boundaries. Find out which one is harder for you, needing others or being needed, and listen in as we remind you what the gospel definition of boundaries is! Lees meer
02:55 The Importance of Community
03:41 I Need You You Need Me We Need Boundaries Introduced
04:42 Exploring the Concept of Boundaries
15:53 The Danger of Self-Deprecation and Pride
21:03 The Role of Faith in Relationships
22:45 The Danger of Misplaced Dependence
23:50 The Importance of Processing with God First
25:09 The Role of Prayer in Processing
26:53 Understanding Mutual Submission vs Codependency
32:23 The Importance of Unity in the Body of Believers
34:05 The New John 17 Challenge
38:52 The Power of Prayer in Setting BoundariesJoin The Patreon to get your downloadable resource and join our John 17 Challenge starting NOW!
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116. Praying Like Monks. What's That About?
26 februari 2024 · 36 min
Somer and Michelle have a little book club meet-up to chat through a book that they both, YES WE SAID BOTH, really enjoyed. Tyler Staton's book, 'Praying Like Monks, Living Like Fools' is one of the most powerful books on prayer that they have ever read! And good news for you... on this episode they're going to give you a synopsis + a few of their big takeaways with the hopes that you will go pick it up and let it change your prayer life too. Lees meer
00:51 Overview of the Book
03:07 The Impact of the Book and Their Personal Reflections
05:48 The Power of Prayer
06:06 The Importance of Practice in Prayer
08:36 Sharing Top Takeaways from the Book
17:36 Finding Comfort in Prayer
18:23 The Power of Silence and Solitude
19:39 Conversations with God
20:19 Overcoming Distractions for a Richer Prayer Life
22:47 Dealing with Internal Noise and Clutter
26:01 Breaking Attachments to the World for True Love
33:21 The Vital Role of Prayer in Our LivesJoin The Patreon
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115. A Note To Gen Z + Millennials With Special Guest Callie Holland
19 februari 2024 · 43 min
In this episode, Somer has an honest conversation directed towards the 20 and 30 somethings but really, for all of us, with one of her good friends, Callie Holland. They cover the pressure you feel to have life figured out, the issue of loneliness, the need for connection, what the real hold up is on pursuing discipleship, and how those of us no longer in our 20's and 30's can step up and begin investing in these younger women. They also recap the Super Bowl Half Time show and why Usher > Rihanna sooo yeah, it's a pretty good one. Lees meer
01:04 Welcome + If You Had A Doctorate What Would It Be In
07:40 The Impact of the Younger Generation
09:56 The Power of Failure and Learning
11:57 The Importance of Pursuing God's Will
21:29 The Role of Mentorship and Discipleship
23:22 The Power of God's Word
24:54 The Importance of Community
25:11 The Dangers of Fake Connection
25:38 The Loneliness Epidemic
26:37 The Role of the Local Church
30:24 The Importance of Serving
33:07 The Power of Prayer
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114. Home Vibe Check Part 2
12 februari 2024 · 39 min
Michelle and Somer follow up last week's conversation with Dara LaPorta by talking through their own experiences creating sweet atmospheres at home. If you've ever wanted a little extra motivation to make your home a hub of laughter and peace, today's episode is for you! Lees meer
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113. Home Vibe Check: Creating a Sweet Atmosphere at Home Part 1
5 februari 2024 · 34 min
In this episode, Somer chats with one of our favorites, Dara LaPorta, a She Works His Way OG from way back. Dive into Dara's world as she joyfully navigates the chaos as a mom of four with one foot in the health and fitness world and another leading in women's ministry. Dara gives us her take on creating a cozy family vibe, and why she swears by intentional peace and chill family rhythms. Tune in for these nuggets of wisdom on slowing down, being intentional, and finding a relaxed rhythm in our crazy fast world. Lees meer
00:33 Getting to Know Dara
01:04 Dara's Family and Career
05:06 The Importance of A Sweet Home Atmosphere
06:00 The Role of Mothers in Setting Home Atmosphere
13:34 Juggling Attention With Multiple Children
17:49 Answering the Call
23:03 Cultivating a Rhythm of Rest
27:26 The Power of Apology
33:10 Conclusion: The Journey of MotherhoodThe SWHW Patreon
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112. Dealing With Unfulfilled Hopes and Dreams
29 januari 2024 · 35 min
Michelle and Somer talk about what it feels like for things not to go the way you hoped they would, and how to see the beauty in God's plan even when it's hard. Lees meer
03:00 The Struggle with Unfulfilled Dreams and Hopes
05:00 The Book of Ecclesiastes and its Lessons
07:21 The Inspiring Story of Ruth
10:22 Our Experiences with Unfulfilled Hopes and Dreams
14:54 It's Okay To Ask God Why
15:50 Dealing with Disappointment and Finding Purpose
17:20 Finding Joy in the Presence of God
18:54 Drawing Closer to God through Trials
21:31 Finding Fullness in Christ
22:01 Embracing Unfulfilled Hopes and Dreams
23:00 Developing Patience in Waiting for God's Promises
25:47 Living a Fulfilled Life through the Holy Spirit
32:27 Finding Goodness in God's SurprisesThe SWHW Patreon
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111. The Sacredness of Secular Work with Jordan Raynor
22 januari 2024 · 34 min
In this episode, Michelle chats with one of her favorite authors, Jordan Raynor, and together they discuss the upcoming release of his newest book, 'The Sacredness of Secular Work'. Lees meer
01:24 Joy and Excitement in Faith and Work
03:00 The Intersection of Ministry and Marketplace
04:03 The Sacredness of Secular Work
05:17 The Concept of Anti-Bucket List
05:46 The Eternal Perspective of Work
18:21 Scratching Off Glimpses of the Kingdom
23:01 Practical Ways to Make DisciplesBuy Jordan's book
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110. The Joy Factor: Our Philippians Conversational Commentary Is Here!
15 januari 2024 · 37 min
With millions of Americans struggling with their mental health, it's safe to say that JOY could be a game changer for a lot of us. In this conversation Somer and Michelle, mostly Michelle because SHE WROTE A NEW COMMENTARY, discuss the value in practicing and pursuing joy using the book of Philippians and the example of Paul as their anchoring truth on the matter. Whether you are struggling with joy or you are close to someone who is, this is a convo you'll want in on! Lees meer
04:50 The Importance of Joy and Endurance
05:09 Unveiling the New Commentary on Philippians
05:39 The Joy Factor: A Deep Dive
12:51 The Struggle for Joy and the Power of Practice
15:37 Joy in Salvation and Sharing the Gospel
17:27 The Challenge of Being Joyful and Critical
23:39 The Role of Faith in Cultivating Joy
26:40 The Power of Decision in Cultivating Joy
27:47 The Joy in Sacrifice and Hard Work
31:45 The Importance of Community in Achieving Joy
34:13 The Role of Joy in Christian WitnessThe SWHW Patreon
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109. Health, Wellness, & Body Image: But Make It About God
8 januari 2024 · 46 min
In this episode Somer's husband, Kent, joins her for a talk we usually leave the men out of. Today we're kicking off Season 2 of The SWHW Podcast talking about the same thing EVERYBODY is talking about... our bodies. With insights from a Pastor and 'girl dad', they explore how cultural pressures can distort our perceptions of our bodies and undermine our self-esteem, hindering us from being able to live fully on mission for God. Lees meer
00:01 Introduction and Welcome to Season Two
01:13 Introducing the Topic
01:44 Trigger Warning for those with Eating Disorders
02:29 The New Year and Fitness Resolutions
04:14 The Impact of Kent and Somer's Sabbatical on their Physical Health
17:31 The Connection Between Physical and Spiritual Health
18:58 Dealing with Body Image Issues in a Family Setting
21:18 The Role of Scripture in Shaping Perspective
22:07 Navigating Body Image and Insecurity
25:19 The Role of Spiritual Health in Addressing Body Image Issues
32:55 The Importance of Taking Care of the Body as a Form of Worship
36:20 The Importance of Prioritizing Spiritual Health Over Physical Appearance
42:03 The Importance of Glorifying God with How We Treat and See Our BodyJoin The SWHW Patreon
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108. Unwrapping Our Top 10 Favorite Christmas Movies
4 december 2023 · 53 min
Holiday Movie Showdown: Celebrating Christmas Classics & Hidden Gems Lees meer
In one of your favorite episodes each year, Somer and Michelle countdown their all time favorite Christmas movies (and a few of their not so favorites). Let them put together your Christmas movie playlist for this holiday season while you focus on the other 11 billion Christmas tasks on your list! Grab your peppermint mocha and let's goooo.
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Become a Donor00:52 Christmas Movie Time: The Excitement Begins
01:10 The Christmas Movie Showdown: The Preparation
03:48 Is Die Hard a Christmas movie?
07:03 The Christmas Movie Dishonorable Mentions
13:05 The Christmas Movie Countdown Begins
26:39 Discussing Favorite Movie Soundtracks
27:41 The Grinch vs. The Grinch
27:52 Feel-Good Christmas Movies
28:35 Introducing Lesser-Known Christmas Movies
31:11 Nostalgic Christmas Movies
34:58 Unconventional Christmas Movies
41:14 Classic Christmas Movies
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107. A Conversation About Prepping To Take Time Off
27 november 2023 · 39 min
Somer and Michelle are pumped to have this conversation with you about taking time off and put everything they discuss into practice as we slow waaaaaaayy down at the end of the year. Taking time off isn't easy, but God both created us to rest and He commands us to rest. Bottom line: taking time off matters. This conversation is jam-packed with practicality as we discuss: Lees meer
best practices to plan for rest
how to prioritize rest when you and your spouse rest differently and/or you have young kids
defining rest for yourself (because rest is personal!)
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Become a Donor01:11 The Importance of Taking Time Off
02:22 Theological Foundation of Rest
04:31 The Practice of Sabbath
06:16 The Significance of Rest in Creation
07:22 The Struggle of Taking Time Off
09:16 Planning for Time Off
17:15 The Importance of Rest for Productivity
20:51 Patience and Slowing Down
21:43 Preparing for a Sabbatical
22:33 Communicating Rest to Your Kids
24:19 Rest is Personal
27:12 The Delight in Rest
27:18 Resting Differently in Marriage
29:25 The Rhythm of Rest
30:08 Communicating Your Rest
33:08 Planning for Rest
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106. A Conversation About Our Favorite New Assessment
20 november 2023 · 40 min
In this episode Somer and Michelle share a game-changing assessment they have been using for a year now! Using red, yellow, and green as your answer, they'll ask you to check in on four crucial areas of your life. They are the areas we all tend to brush off, but it can be a dangerous game to keep ignoring the signs. Lees meer
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00:50 The Importance of Self-Assessment
01:05 The Role of Questions in Self-Reflection
02:06 The Struggle of Remembering and Forgetting
04:00 The Origin of the Assessment
05:57 The Impact of the Assessment
08:09 The Magic of The Three Step Planner
17:19 Understanding Personal Assessment: The Green Goal
17:45 Vulnerability is Necessary
18:03 The Importance of Writing Down Your Thoughts
18:42 The Best Time for Effective Self-Assessment
19:56 The Impact of Emotional and Mental Health
21:08 The Role of Physical Health in Overall Well-being
26:33 Spiritual Health
31:05 Relationships
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105. A Conversation About Big Spending & Black Friday
13 november 2023 · 33 min
In this week's conversation, Somer + Michelle do a deep dive into big spending (if you're listening in real time, just in time for the Black Friday + Cyber Monday crazy!) Listen in if you need reminders on: Lees meer
the difference between genuine generosity and pressure-driven obligation
guilt-free missing out
practical tips for protecting your joy
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00:59 Discussion on Big Spending
01:39 Reminiscing About Podcast Beginnings
02:24 Black Friday Experiences
07:26 The Pressure of Holiday Spending
07:36 Generosity vs Obligation in Gift Giving
16:49 The Pressure of Gift Giving for Kids
18:06 Setting Boundaries with Family
19:31 The Joy of Christmas and Family Traditions
20:58 The Role of Parents and Grandparents in Gift Giving
22:19 The Obligation of Gifts and Time
24:19 Creating Healthy Rhythms for the Holiday Season
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104. A Conversation About Thanksgiving: The Good The Bad and The Ugly
6 november 2023 · 43 min
Ready to laugh and cringe? In honor of kicking off the holiday season, Somer + Michelle are re-living their best + worst Thanksgiving memories, plus doing a little this or that Thanksgiving style. Whether you love Thanksgiving or you're a bit a turkey Scrooge (like a certain co-host to be revealed in the episode), we've got something for you. Lees meer
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103. A Conversation About Confidence: Part 2
30 oktober 2023 · 30 min
In this week's conversation, Michelle + Somer talk about what they felt last week's confidence quiz (go listen to the previous episode if you missed it!) revealed to them personally + what is missing from the way the world measures confidence, including: Lees meer
releasing yourself from the pressure of trying to build confidence the world's way
helpful ways (and not-so helpful ways!) to talk about confidence to the next generation
where your confidence belongs
Scriptures referenced:
- Philippians 1:6
- 2 Corinthians 3:4-5
- Ephesians 3:12
- Hebrews 4:16
- 1 John 5:14The SWHW Patreon
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102. A Conversation About Confidence: Part 1
23 oktober 2023 · 30 min
In this week's conversation, Michelle + Somer take a confidence quiz in real time. (You'll have to listen to learn where we got it!) Listen + take this quiz with us to determine: Lees meer
what elicits your confidence + what exposes your insecurity
the root of your confidence
how other people's perceptions affect your confidence
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101. A Conversation About Scarcity Mindset vs. Abundance Mindset
16 oktober 2023 · 40 min
In this conversation requested by our Patreon community, Somer and Michelle dig into: Lees meer
TWO very special birthdays we're celebrating
what our perspective on human limits ultimately reveals about our trust in God
how an abundance mindset without Christ is still scarcity
the throw back MTV show Rich Kids Of Beverly Hills
lack, comparison + fear vs. peace, joy + contentment (and a whole lot more!)
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- Philippians 4
- Matthew 14:13-21The SWHW Patreon
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100. A Conversation About THE Weddings (And Parenting)
9 oktober 2023 · 47 min
In this conversation, Michelle asks Somer all the questions about what God showed her over the last year as both of her daughters got engaged and married. If you saw the wedding pics from a few weeks ago, and and wanted more - it's all here, including: Lees meer
why parents should ultimately be the biggest encouragers for our kids to "leave and cleave" to their spouse + how to do it
the beauty of God's faithfulness to grow your marriage while watching your kids fall in love
how she felt when she met their husbands, THE DRESS, a wedding day haircut, Rockefeller Center proposals, and other moments that make her internal highlight reel...
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99. A Conversation About Soul Care
2 oktober 2023 · 40 min
In this live recording from a conference Somer spoke at earlier this year on the topic of Soul Care, she uses the example of Jesus withdrawing from the crowds to help us understand how we need to sometimes eliminate the external noise so that we can give attention to our souls. If you feel tired, burnt out, or on the verge of either of those, you might want to listen in! Lees meer
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98. A Conversation About Following Jesus When Life Is Hard
25 september 2023 · 49 min
This week is another LIVE podcast recording alongside our incredible SWHW fam. This time, Michelle is here for a conversation about following Jesus when life is hard. She covers: Lees meer
responding to the gospel in your circumstances instead of simply responding to your circumstances
why "you deserve this" language is so spiritually unhealthy
how to know if you're fighting the right battles
Scriptures referenced:
2 Timothy 2:1-7
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97. A Conversation About Pursuing Small Things + Big Things: Part 2
18 september 2023 · 30 min
This week's episode continues the conversation Michelle + Somer started last week, this time focusing on: Lees meer
- redefining big things
- how obedience produces endurance and disobedience results in exhaustion
- why burden is a better motivator than ambitionThe SWHW podcast is fueled by the generosity of amazing women like you! Thank you for allowing us to extend this crucial dialogue on how to prioritize what truly matters in today's fast-paced world to women who are desperate for hope only found in Jesus. We're deeply grateful for your role in making this transformative mission possible. If you're ready to join hands with us on this incredible journey, you can make a donation here. Thank you for helping make this ministry possible!
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96. A Conversation About Pursuing Small Things + Big Things: Part 1
11 september 2023 · 32 min
In this week's episode, join Somer + Michelle for a conversation about: Lees meer
- redefining small things
- how to know if you're comfortable or content
- real life examples of "small things" that in hind sight were big thingsOur podcast thrives on the unwavering support of amazing women like you. Your generous contributions fuel this vital conversation about navigating the complexities of doing what matters in a world that values simply getting things done. Thank you for making this ministry a reality for the women already gathered here + providing hope for those yet to come. If you're moved to unite with us in this mission, you can make a donation here. Thank you for supporting what God is doing here!
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95. A Conversation About Mom Guilt
4 september 2023 · 46 min
Join us in this week's convo! Somer and Michelle delve deep into the common yet often unspoken struggle of mom guilt. In this candid conversation, they dig into: Lees meer
distinguishing between guilt and conviction (this is key!)
truths to combat persistent doubts + guilt that creeps in
practical tips to confront mom guilt when it hits
Remember, the SWHW podcast thrives thanks to your support. Your contributions play a vital role in fostering this essential dialogue about prioritizing doing what matters most in a world that emphasizes getting things done. By donating, you help us provide resources to local churches, extend support to individual women in need, and help sustain this impactful ministry. If you're moved to link arms with us and drive this mission forward, you can make a donation here. (No amount is too small!)
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94. A Conversation About Co-Vocational Work, Part 2
28 augustus 2023 · 26 min
This week picks up where last week's episode left off, continuing Somer + Michelle's conversation on co-vocational work. This week's discussion points include: Lees meer
how Jesus turned curiosity of others into gospel opportunities (and how to do the same!)
loving people without desiring their approval
how to have the tough gospel-conversations with co-workers
staying focused on what people believe more than how people behave
We also brought back one of your favorite segments: Keep It/Toss It!
Michelle's Keep It: ReShoeVn8er
Somer's Keep It: Lip Mask
Michelle's book recommendation: A Meal with Jesus
We love being able to say that the SWHW podcast is made possible by the generosity of God's people. If these conversations encourage and equip you to chase harder after Jesus, link arms with us in this mission by becoming a SWHW donor.
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93. A Conversation About Co-Vocational Work, Part 1
21 augustus 2023 · 32 min
This week's conversation is extra special to us because: Lees meer
1) It's our first ever LIVE podcast recording with our amazing network present! (To be there for next month's LIVE podcast recording, join the network here!)
2) Michelle + Somer start a conversation that's super close to the heart of this ministry, on co-vocational work, including:
what to do when you feel the tension between what God's calling you to do and what the world expects from you
being called to multiple places with one mission simplifies more than it complicates
how we often compartmentalize the spiritual from the secular but God does not
As a reminder, the SWHW podcast is completely you-funded. Your generous donations help other women join this important conversation about how to do what matters in a get-things-done world. From helping us supply resources and support to local churches to ministering to individual women with needs we can meet, thank you for making this ministry possible. You can donate to link arms with us in this mission here. (Every amount helps!)
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92. A Conversation About Not Liking Where God Has You
14 augustus 2023 · 39 min
This week, Somer + Michelle jump into a conversation about how to move forward when you're frustrated where God has you, including: Lees meer
using God's past faithfulness to increase your confidence
relying on the Holy Spirit to make the same tasks (or people!) less draining
avoiding jumping straight into "fixer" mode
how exhausted you'll be if you keep shifting your hope
Scriptures referenced:
- Psalm 13
- Colossians 1:23
- James 1:2-5The SWHW podcast is a free resource to equip and encourage women, made available to you by the generosity of God's people. If these conversations serve you to live empowered by the gospel, please support our ministry and help other women find our podcast by becoming a donor. From the bottom of our hearts, we are grateful to God for you!
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91. A Conversation About What Doing Life Together Is Really Like
7 augustus 2023 · 58 min
This week, Michelle + Somer jump into a conversation about: Lees meer
how to read the Bible as a conversation God starts with us that we continue with one another
discerning the tone we should use in tough topics
the importance of basing our relationship with one another on God's authority in our lives
remembering the lost and fulfulling your ministry
Conversational Commentary on 2 Timothy releases August 8, 2023! Grab your copy here.
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90. A Live Q&A From Our Summer Book Club
31 juli 2023 · 42 min
This week we are letting you in on our most recent Q&A that Michelle + Somer hosted live for their She Works His Way Summer Book Club girls. The questions submitted were SO good and so honest, you don't want to miss this one. Lees meer
Here are a few things they chatted through:
it all boils down to practice
the way Jesus modeled making disciples
simple ways we can teach our kids to depend on God
flying by the seat of your pants vs flying by the seat of the Holy Spirit
Would you like to submit your own questions for the next time Somer and Michelle do a Q&A episode? Just email hello@sheworkshisway.com or DM us on Instagram!
Love these conversations and want to make sure they keep coming? We love making this podcast available to all women at no cost, and we need you to help other women find us! The two main ways you can help:
Subscribe, give us 5 stars + leave us a review wherever you listen.
Become a donor. (If every listener gave $1/month, we'd meet our annual ministry budget!)
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89. A Conversation About Keeping The Peace
24 juli 2023 · 45 min
In this week's conversation, Michelle + Somer discuss: Lees meer
the difference between peacekeeping and peacemaking
how to pursue peace when you desire justice
practical ways to bring peace into our broken world
Scriptures referenced:
Romans 5:1
Matthew 5
Colossians 1:19-20
James 3:17
We'd love to connect with you more!
send us a DM on Instagram
sign up to receive our emails
become a financial supporter
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88. A Conversation About Gossip (With A Special Guest!)
17 juli 2023 · 43 min
In this week's episode, Somer and a surprise guest go all in on the topic of gossip, including: Lees meer
a spot on definition for gossip you may have never heard
gossip in the church and what it really does to the Bride of Christ
gossip masked as "seeking counsel"
raising kids who won't gossip
gossip in marriage
Love these conversations and want to make sure they keep coming? We love making this podcast available to all women at no cost, and we need you to help other women find us! The two main ways you can help:
Subscribe, give us 5 stars + leave us a review wherever you listen.
Become a donor. (If every listener gave $1/month, we'd meet our annual ministry budget!)
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87. A Conversation About Performing
10 juli 2023 · 41 min
In this week's episode, Michelle and Somer do a deep dive into performing, including: Lees meer
links between performing, pretending and people pleasing
how to avoid reinforcing performing to our kids
why loving Jesus most and knowing God more is the only way to end performance tendencies
Accountability is key when it comes to checking your motives, and that's one of the main reasons why we love bringing new women into our 5-month High Level Mastermind we mentioned in this episode. If you're interested in one of the remaining spots for the fall semester, view the details and sign up here. We can't wait to meet you!
Love these conversations and want to make sure they keep coming? We love making this podcast available to all women at no cost, and we need you to help other women find us! The two main ways you can help:
Subscribe, give us 5 stars + leave us a review wherever you listen.
Become a donor. (If every listener gave $1/month, we'd meet our annual ministry budget!)
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86. A Conversation About Rest
3 juli 2023 · 47 min
In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle discuss rest in all of it's forms, including: Lees meer
why you shouldn't feel guilty for resting
busting the myth that not resting is noble
differences between rest to engage and numbing to escape
the unexpected interruption of identity issues for rest
Thank you for helping us keep our podcast advertisement-free so we can focus on our real mission: encouraging you and equipping you to have gospel conversations with the people in your life. Become a partner in our work by becoming a financial supporter here.
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85. A Conversation About Our Favorite Things: Summer Edition
26 juni 2023 · 49 min
In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle take one of their most-listened to episodes from December + give us a summer edition of their favorite things. Lees meer
A few highlights we think you'll be especially excited about:
Somer's fashion picks for her mother of the bride era + Michelle's comfort picks -- including athletic shorts that are actually the right length without awkward pockets
permission to eat carbs...with your protein
a brief tangent to relive the summer Olympics of 1994, Limited Too + sparkly blue eyeshadow from Claire's
We're also SUPER excited to announce the launch of our Amazon storefront! We used to be able to receive donations through Amazon Smile, but with that platform dissolving, we have a new way you can shop and support SWHW! Every time you shop one of the links from our storefront, you also make a small donation to SWHW. So grab a few of their favorites (that will also become your favorites!) and support the SWHW mission too.
SHOP SWHW AMAZON STOREFRONT HERE.
The only item from the episode you won't find in our Amazon storefront: Colleen Rothschild Illuminating Tinted Eye Cream
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84. A Conversation About Doing The Right Things For The Wrong Reasons
19 juni 2023 · 36 min
In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle talk about: Lees meer
Refusing to be sad when what God calls us to is small + refusing to be scared when what God calls us to is big
Public ministry vs. ministry to be seen
The critical role of accountability
Scriptures referenced:
1 Corinthians 3:10-15
Matthew 6
Verbal High Fives to:
Camp Ridgecrest for Boys
Camp Crestridge for Girls
Biltmore Church Adventure Week (Asheville, NC)
South Shore Church VBS (Annapolis, MD)
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83. A Conversation About One Of The Biggest Threats To Marriage
12 juni 2023 · 44 min
In this week's episode, Kent (Somer's husband) joins Somer on the show to discuss what he sees as one of the current biggest threats to marriage. (So if you're married, grab your husband + listen together!) Lees meer
Some of our favorite takeaways of the convo are:
How we can't let weariness lead to neglect
The tragic impact our cell phone can have on our relationship
Proper self checkout etiquette (So Kent kind of goes off at the end in a special "I Disagree With" segment)
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82. A Conversation About Designer Hand Bags
5 juni 2023 · 41 min
In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle have an honest dialogue about materialism, including:
- how materialism reveals more about your heart than your possessions
- when the desire for more competes with your desire for God
- the link between materialism and anxiety Lees meerScriptures referenced:
- Matthew 6:25-34
- Matthew 19:16-22 -
81. A Conversation About Summer Bucket Lists
29 mei 2023 · 43 min
In this week's conversation, Somer and Michelle discuss what's on their summer bucket lists including: Lees meer
water Fridays + city Saturdays
a new learning rhythm that focuses on retention
exercising for FUN
Here are Michelle's 3 fiction book recommendations:
The Lion, the Witch + the Wardrobe by C.S. Lewis
The Last Thing He Told Me by Laura Dave
The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah
Ready to join the SWHW Summer Book Club? Make a tax-deductible donation here (we suggest a minimum of $15 but please give as you feel led!) We'll follow up with next steps via email! [If you don't have the book yet, get yours here.]
Want a mentor through She Works His Way this summer? Join the network here.
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80. A Conversation About Fighting Nice
22 mei 2023 · 35 min
In this week's episode, Michelle welcomes her husband, James, into the conversation for a discussion on fighting nice. (So if you're married, grab your husband + listen together!) Lees meer
Some highlights of their convo are:
how conflict is one of God's tools to make you more like Jesus
the reality that avoiding conflict only delays conflict
considering both facts + feelings matters for conflict resolution
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79. A Conversation About Lasts
15 mei 2023 · 32 min
In this week's episode, Somer and Michelle pick up where they left off last week, discussing the lasts we encounter in motherhood. Some highlights of the convo include:
loving being a mom without idolizing motherhood/your kids
prioritizing the Lord + others as we walk through lasts
how lasts are another reminder that earth is just our temporary home Lees meerScripture to study:
- Psalm 16
- James 4:13-15