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  1. Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 4 | Bacon, Eggs & A Side Of John Henry - Ep 256

    20 oktober 2023 · 43 min

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    Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 4! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Housekeeping

    1:05 - Episode 4 Kick Off

    3:59 - John Henry

    6:51 - John Henry’s Date

    9:06 - John B

    12:16 - Evening

    14:03 - John B’s Date

    15:08 - A Lot Happens At The Beach

    31:22 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

    39:29 - Credits

    39:42 - Andy’s A-Game

    40:26 - Who We Would Go For

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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  2. Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Kathy & Theresa Take It Outside - Ep 255

    16 oktober 2023 · 45 min

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    Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Housekeeping

    0:58 - Episode 3 Kick Off

    3:53 - Group Date

    8:10 - Evening

    10:41 - The Next Day

    16:39 - Ellen’s 1-On-1

    26:14 - At The Mansion

    26:47 - Cocktail Party

    35:06 - Rose Ceremony

    36:12 - Post-Rose Ceremony

    39:11 - Credits

    39:37 - Andy’s A-Game

    39:58 - Shandy Word Watch

    41:53 - Shandy’s Predictions

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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  3. Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 3 | Cold Kat And Hot Sh$t - Ep 254

    13 oktober 2023 · 41 min

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    Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 3! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Housekeeping

    1:45 - Episode 3 Kick Off

    11:48 - Tanner’s Date

    15:26 - Tyler

    24:11 - Evening

    30:54 - Tyler’s Date

    33:10 - Back On The Beach

    36:25 - Credits

    37:25 - Andy’s A-Game

    38:24 - Who We Would Go For

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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  4. Q&A! Asking A Woman To Shave Her Legs, Paying For A Friend's Birthday, And Wanting A New Ring - Ep 253

    11 oktober 2023 · 1 uur 10 min

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    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions, and today is an Am-I-The-Asshole BONANZA! If you're invited to a birthday gathering by the birthday boy, who's paying? Is it wrong to want a new ring when being proposed to for a second time? And is asking a woman to shave her legs akin to a woman asking a man to shave his balls? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Q1: My Boyfriend Won’t Let Me Go On A Mixed-Gender Climbing Trip—Help!

    8:24 - Q2: I Was Invited To A Birthday Gathering And Sent A Venmo Request By The Host The Next Day—Who's In The Wrong?

    18:38 - Q3: My Boyfriend Wants To Re-Propose But I Want A Different Ring—Help!

    31:29 - Q4: My Boyfriend Hates My Friend And Wants Me To End The Friendship—Help!

    38:26 - Q5: Was He Just Not That Into Me?

    47:36 - Q6: Asking A Woman To Shave Her Legs Vs Asking A Man To Shave His Balls

    1:02:12 - Q7: Bad Breath Vs Frizzy Hair

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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    Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine

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  5. Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | Gerry, Take The Wheel - Ep 252

    6 oktober 2023 · 44 min

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    Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2. Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Overall Thoughts

    1:48 - Episode 2 Kick Off

    5:51 - Theresa’s 1-On-1

    16:24 - Group Date

    27:09 - Gerry’s Birthday Party

    32:51 - Rose Ceremony

    35:24 - Credits

    35:57 - Andy’s A-Game

    37:38 - Shandy Word Watch

    39:39 - Shandy’s Predictions

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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  6. Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 2 | Hannah Brown's Bonfire Of Bummers - Ep 251

    6 oktober 2023 · 45 min

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    Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 2! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Housekeeping

    1:24 - Episode 2 Kick Off

    3:02 - Aven

    6:59 - Aven’s Date

    17:32 - Hannah Brown

    24:10 - Bonfire

    28:03 - Evening

    30:00 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

    37:25 - Rose Ceremony

    39:00 - Previews

    39:25 - Credits

    40:56 - Andy’s A-Game

    41:37 - Who We Would Go For

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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    Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

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  7. Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | It's Gerrrrrr-ific - Ep 250

    29 september 2023 · 45 min

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    Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the hotly-anticipated series premiere. Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Housekeeping

    1:03 - Overall Thoughts

    2:50 - Getting To Know Gerry

    5:14 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails

    13:33 - Jesse And Gerry

    14:06 - Night One

    24:44 - First Impression Rose

    26:09 - Rose Ceremony

    31:16 - Previews

    32:11 - Credits

    33:53 - Andy’s A-Game

    34:31 - Shandy Word Watch

    36:22- Shandy’s Predictions

    42:25 - Closing Thoughts

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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    Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

    More Andy

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  8. Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | These Toes Were Made For Sucking - Ep 249

    29 september 2023 · 48 min

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    Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the Season Premiere! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Housekeeping

    2:20 - Episode 1 Kick Off

    4:27 - Meet The Cast

    10:42 - Arrivals

    24:27 - Paradise Begins

    25:43 - Evening

    28:42 - Kylee’s Date

    35:16 - The Next Day

    43:16 - Credits

    44:13 - Andy’s A-Game

    45:29 - Shandy Word Watch

    46:16 - Who We Would Go For

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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    Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

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  9. LOVE FEST! Hayley Kiyoko & Becca Tilley Are An Island & A Wave - Ep 248

    27 september 2023 · 1 uur 10 min

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    It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by overwhelmingly beautiful power couple for a Love Fest that has been nearly a year in the making! In what has been your top-requested Love Fest to date, celebrated pop sensation Hayley Kiyoko and Becca Tilley (Bachelor S19 and S20) join Shandy from their Los Angeles home to share the ins and outs of their partnership! Lees meer

    Today Hayley and Becca share their first impressions of one another and how those have changed, how they complement each other, how they handle the distance when Hayley's on tour, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a particularly exciting Newlyweds Game filled with laughs and a few surprises to boot ! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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    More Becca:

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/beccatilley/

    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@beccatilley5

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    More Hayley:

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/hayleykiyoko/

    TikTok - https://www.instagram.com/hayleykiyoko/

    Latest Album, "Panorama" - https://open.spotify.com/album/2TJlASpVb5tgcEY0RMyZjQ

    Book - https://static.macmillan.com/static/wednesday-books/girls-like-girls/

    Fragrance - https://www.huebyhayley.com/

    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Welcome To Becca & Hayley!

    3:16 - How They Met

    7:57 - Did Hayley Know Of Becca When They Met?

    10:32 - Their First “Date”

    14:45 - First Impressions & How Those Have Changed

    21:11 - How They Complement Each Other

    24:28 - Love Languages

    26:30 - Early Hurdle

    29:24 - Did Becca …

  10. I Accidentally Stoked My Boyfriend's Jealousy—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 247

    21 september 2023 · 41 min

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    It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Elizabeth. Elizabeth and her boyfriend have a great relationship but there's one issue, and it's an elephant in the room: his jealousy. An event occurs where she's invited out by a colleague, sending her boyfriend into a jealous frenzy. Was Elizabeth the "A-hole" in how she handled that situation, or is her boyfriend's mistrust a red flag? Listen on for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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    Referenced Q&A:

    - https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos

    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Welcome To Caller Elizabeth!

    34:23 - Shandy Debrief

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

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    Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com

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  11. 3 Year Anniversary Q&A! Answering YOUR Questions - Ep 246

    14 september 2023 · 1 uur 4 min

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    It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 3 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received quite the selection of Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, and of course, the random stuff in between! Thank you, Shandies, for another year of laughs, rabbit holes, and analogies. We deeply appreciate you and the community we've built. Come join us in our living room to chat! Lees meer

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    1 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE9711623600.mp3?updated=1694617411

    2 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE8112889855.mp3?updated=1694627652

    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Introduction

    2:15 - What Is Your Favorite Feature On Each Other’s Bodies?

    5:39 - Did Sharleen Always See Herself Moving To The US?

    6:35 - Does Shandy Have Plans To Move To A Bigger Apartment?

    8:50 - Are You More Or Less Goofy In Real Life?

    9:42 - How Many White V-Necks Does Andy Own?

    11:00 - Is Sharleen Embarrassed By Andy’s White V-Necks?

    11:12 - How Does Shandy Fight?

    15:57 - Why Can’t We Know What Andy Does For A Living?

    17:11 - Do You Think Your Relationship Would Be What It Is If You’d Met Younger?

    19:32 - What Are The Hardest And Easiest Parts Of Being A Public Figure Couple?

    24:45 - Do You Ever Get Annoyed When Recording With Each Other?

    28:26 - How Many Couples Have Declined Or Ignored Love Fest Requests?

    29:16 - How Do You Feel When Love Fest Couples Break Up?

    30:28 - Has There Been A Reaction To An Episode That Has Been Challenging To Reckon With?

    39:09 - If You…

  12. Q&A! "Always A Cheater", A Locked Room In A Shared Home, & Helping A Shandy Make Friends - Ep 245

    7 september 2023 · 1 uur 21 min

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    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it weird if your partner wants a private, locked room in your shared home? What are Shandy's thoughts on "Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater"? Is there a "right" way to break up with someone? And let's help a Shandy find friends in her new city! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Q1: Are My Boyfriend’s Friendships Weird?

    7:30 - Q2: My Boyfriend Wants A Private, Locked Room In Our Shared Home—Thoughts?

    20:14 - Q3: I’ve Moved Cities And Am Having A Hard Time Making Friends—Help!

    28:28 - Q4: I’ve Been The Cheater—What Are Shandy’s Thoughts On “Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater”?

    41:27 - Q5: I Just Learned About My Boyfriend’s Cheating History—Is This A Dealbreaker?

    1:05:38 - Q6: I Know I Need To End It But Am Dreading It—Tips On Breaking Up?

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com

    Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy

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    Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine

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  13. LOVE FEST! Chelsea Vaughn & Austin Tinsley On Life After Paradise Canada - Ep 244

    31 augustus 2023 · 1 uur 10 min

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    It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined AT HOME for their third ever in-person Love Fest, by a couple whose relationship Shandy got to witness firsthand when Sharleen hosted Bachelor In Paradise Canada! Last Summer Chelsea Vaughn (Bachelor S25 & BIP S7) and Austin Tinsley (Bachelorette S17) met on Canadian soil and left as a couple in love. Because the season didn't air until a near year later, Chelsea and Austin had to keep their relationship under wraps for a whopping 13 MONTHS! Needless to say, they've learned a thing or two about each other in the interim! Lees meer

    Today Chelsea and Austin join Shandy to share fun Paradise Canada #BTS, how they complement each other, what it felt like learning to text each other (yes, really!), and of course, how they fight! Finally, a kooky Newlyweds Game with answers you will not see coming! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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    More Chelsea:

    https://www.instagram.com/chelseavaughn

    https://linktr.ee/vaughnerable

    More Austin:

    https://www.instagram.com/austinsley

    Shandy on Vaughnerable: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000612139370

    Austin on Vaughnerable, P1: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000621364510

    Auston on Vaughnerable, P2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vaughnerable-with-chelsea-vaughn/id1654415005?i=1000622115759

    Referenced Hot Cheetos Reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsXB9Q5NnoP

    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Welcome To Chelsea & Austin!

    6:50 - Shandy’s Appearance On Chelsea’s Podcast, Vaughner…

  14. I'm Accidentally Involved In A Cheating Scandal—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 243

    24 augustus 2023 · 43 min

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    It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Kelly. Kelly's cousin's choices in her relationship have had a ripple effect in their shared friend circle and Kelly has wound up more involved than she ever intended to be or would have liked. When is someone else's infidelity your information to share, and in Kelly's case, should she have done anything differently? Listen on for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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  15. Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Charity Finds Love & Other Stuff Happens - Ep 242

    23 augustus 2023 · 54 min

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    Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale! Lees meer

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    3:45 - Rose Ceremony

    9:43 - Live: Aaron B

    10:44 - Charity With Her Family

    12:43 - Joey Meets Charity’s Family

    13:49 - Live

    14:29 - Dotun Meets Charity’s Family

    19:18 - Charity Seeks Clarity

    22:45 - Joey’s Final Date

    24:58 - Live

    26:00 - Dotun’s Final Date

    28:47 - Neil Lane

    31:34 - Proposal Day

    33:17 - Joey

    36:23 - Live: Joey

    37:30 - Live: Charity Joins

    39:19 - Dotun

    41:32 - Live

    42:27 - Live: Charity & Dotun

    45:34 - Bachelor Reveal

    48:42 - Overall Thoughts On Charity’s Season

    49:45 - Shandy Word Watch

    50:37 - Reviewing Night One Predictions

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  16. Navigating Narcissism With Dr. Ramani - Ep 241

    17 augustus 2023 · 1 uur 28 min

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    Today's the day, Shandies! We've been wanting to tackle the ever-relevant topic of NARCISSISM since Dear Shandy's inception, however, we insisted on waiting until we could get the best of the best to join us. Our patience paid off as today we're joined by the acclaimed, unparalleled expert on narcissism, the one and only Dr. Ramani. Trust us, she does NOT disappoint! Lees meer

    Today Dr. Ramani sets the record straight on the definition on narcissism, how social media has changed the narcissist landscape, and how many of us fall on the narcissism spectrum. She gives us insight on how aware of their own narcissism narcissists are, whether or not they have a moral compass or can improve, and whether or not you can "win" in your battle against a narcissist. We wrap with actionable tips for those healing from their relationship with narcissists, those who have no choice but to live or work with narcissists, and what "red flags" to look out for.

    Our minds were blown multiple times during this conversation and this is easily one of our all-time favorite Hot Topics to date. We promise you will learn something new (and useful) to apply to your most challenging relationships.

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    2:59 - The Clinical Definition of Narcissism (So We’re All On The Same Page)

    4:35 - Is There A Point On The Spectrum Where A Personality Style Becomes A Personality Disorder?

    8:27 - Nature And Nurture

    13:09 - How Wrong Is It To Throw The Term “Narcissist” Around?

    15:41 - What Percentage Of People Fall …

  17. Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | FP and Lukewarm Tea - Ep 240

    15 augustus 2023 · 52 min

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    Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down Men Tell All! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Housekeeping

    1:35 - Men Tell All Kickoff

    7:35 - A Guy Named Peter

    10:43 - Brayden’s Hot Seat

    17:02 - Xavier

    20:28 - Charity Arrives

    27:16 - Xavier’s Hot Seat

    37:13 - Unseen Footage

    40:04 - Captain Tom

    40:45 - Former Bachelorettes

    41:22 - Gerry, Our Golden Bachelor

    45:18 - Credits

    45:44 - Andy’s A-Game

    46:37 - Shandy Word Watch

    49:37 - Overall Thoughts

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  18. Q&A! Massively Passive, Don't Tell Me I'm Pretty & A Womp-Womp Wedding Gift - Ep 239

    10 augustus 2023 · 1 uur 28 min

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    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a red flag if your date leads with compliments about your physical appearance? If your mother's wedding gift is a check that seems to be missing a "0", is it worth bringing up? And if your brother has created a web of lies so big you're forced to play a part in the charade, when is enough enough? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

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    2:48 - Q1: Don’t Tell Me I’m Pretty… Yet

    13:57 - Q2: My Boyfriend Lacks Initiative—Should I Be Concerned?

    26:04 - Q3: My Mother Gifted Us A Surprisingly Low Amount Of Money For Our Wedding—Can I Say Something?

    44:34 - Q4: My LDR Is Rocky But We’re So In Love—When Is It Too Much To Overcome?

    54:14 - Q5: My Boyfriend Didn't Do Anything For My Birthday :(

    1:07:39 - Q6: My Brother Can’t Keep It In His Pants—Help!

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  19. Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | What Could Go Wrong In Fiji? - Ep 238

    8 augustus 2023 · 1 uur 10 min

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    Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 7, aka Fantasy Suite Week! Lees meer

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    0:44 - Episode 7 Kick Off

    3:34 - Xavier’s Overnight

    35:31 - Joey’s Overnight

    40:55 - Flashpoint

    46:21 - Dotun’s Overnight

    55:11 - Aaron B

    58:40 - Credits

    1:01:16 - Andy’s A-Game

    1:02:12 - Shandy Word Watch

    1:05:59 - Shandy’s Predictions

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  20. LOVE FEST! Alexis Waters & Tyler Fernandez Prove Opposites Attract - Ep 237

    3 augustus 2023 · 54 min

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    It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bachelor Nation's favorite "dolphin", Alexis Waters (Bachelor S21) and her fiancé, Tyler Fernandez! We knew going into this Love Fest that the "fun meter" would not be a concern, but we did not expect our cheeks to hurt as much as they did from laughing so hard! Lees meer

    Today Alexis and Tyler join Shandy to share how they were introduced by former Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay, how they went from party acquaintances to lovebirds, what it feels like to receive pressure to get engaged, and of course, how they fight! Finally, an absolutely hilarious Newlyweds Game that we promise will have you in stitches. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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    Time Stamps:

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    2:54 - True Or False: Rachel Lindsay Introduced Them

    6:03 - Did Tyler Watch Alexis On The Bachelor?

    9:08 - How Did They Go From Party Acquaintances To Serious Couple?

    10:06 - First Impressions

    14:57 - How They Complement Each Other

    17:52 - Early Hurdle

    20:47 - How They Fight

    24:46 - The Pressure To Get Engaged

    28:02 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

    32:00 - True Or False

    32:55 - The Newlyweds Game

    49:29 - Shandy Debrief

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  21. Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | What's Love Got To Do With It? - Ep 236

    1 augustus 2023 · 40 min

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    Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 6! Lees meer

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    19:20 - Xavier’s Hometown

    27:11 - Dotun’s Hometown

    30:41 - Los Angeles

    32:14 - Rose Ceremony

    36:13 - Credits

    36:36 - Andy’s A-Game

    37:11 - Shandy Word Watch

    39:14 - Shandy’s Predictions

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  22. My Parents Are Beefing—Am I Wrong To Pick A Side? - Ep 235

    27 juli 2023 · 39 min

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    It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Cierrah. Cierrah lives in the basement suite of her parents' house but they haven't been displaying the most role model-esque behavior of late. Is she within her right to pick a side and get involved, or is her parents' dynamic their business and no one else's? Should what happens between our parents STAY between our parents?Listen on for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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    31:27 - Shandy Debrief

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  23. Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family... - Ep 234

    25 juli 2023 · 57 min

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    Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 5! Lees meer

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    1:29 - Episode 5 Kick Off

    3:51 - Joey’s 1-On-1

    7:28 - Evening

    15:48 - 2-On-1 Date

    20:04 - Evening

    27:12 - Dotun’s 1-On-1

    29:54 - Evening

    36:24 - Sean

    38:51 - Group Date

    47:06 - Evening

    51:26 - Credits

    53:07 - Andy’s A-Game

    53:46 - Shandy Word Watch

    56:10 - Shandy’s Predictions

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  24. UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 2! - Ep 233

    20 juli 2023 · 1 uur 24 min

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    Have you ever found yourself wondering "where are they now?" when listening to our caller episodes and Q&As? Well... drumroll, please... UPDATES ARE BACK, BABY! This is our second ever installment of what we hope to make a biannual tradition. Lees meer

    We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, good or bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats!

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  25. Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | Big Stick Energy - Ep 232

    18 juli 2023 · 1 uur 26 min

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    Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Housekeeping

    1:32 - Episode 4 Kick Off

    3:38 - Dotun’s 1-On-1

    11:33 - Evening

    25:11 - Group Date

    34:30 - Evening

    48:16 - Xavier’s 1-On-1

    50:30 - Evening

    1:00:32 - The Next Day/Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

    1:02:36 - Brayden Returns

    1:17:32 - Rose Ceremony

    1:21:08 - Credits

    1:21:24 - Andy’s A-Game

    1:23:05 - Shandy Word Watch

    1:25:15 - Shandy’s Predictions

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  26. Q&A! Too Much Perfume, Feeling Shallow, & The Lost Art Of Going Slow - Ep 231

    13 juli 2023 · 1 uur 14 min

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    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend still has "favorited" photos of his ex on his phone, is that cause for concern? Are you shallow if you'd like your partner to make a cosmetic change? If your mother-in-law's perfume stays in the house long after she's gone, is it worth saying something? And whatever happened to taking things slow? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Housekeeping (Sort Of?)

    1:39 - Q1: My Boyfriend Still Has Photos Of His Ex On His Phone—Is This A Red Flag?

    6:09 - Q2: My Brother’s Girlfriend Is Sensitive That He Used To Date My Friend—Should I Distance Myself In The Friendship To Support My Future Sister-In-Law?

    9:45 - Q3: Is “Taking Things Slowly” A Lost Art?

    21:38 - Q4: I Love My Husband Except For One Cosmetic “Flaw”—Should I Bring It Up Or Am I Just Shallow?

    36:47 - Q5: A Friend Called Me By The Wrong Name—Should I Correct Him Or Is This A Fluke?

    41:03 - Q6: At What Point Do You Weigh Stability Against Happiness?

    59:35 - Q7: My Mother-In-Law’s Perfume Is Stinking Up Our House—Help!

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  27. Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Will The Real AI Bachelorette Contestant Please Stand Up - Ep 230

    11 juli 2023 · 1 uur 21 min

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    Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3! Lees meer

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    21:54 - Group Date

    34:09 - Evening

    41:53 - Warwick’s 1-On-1

    46:50 - The Next Day

    47:12 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party

    1:10:28 - Rose Ceremony

    1:11:13 - Credits

    1:12:01 - Andy’s A-Game

    1:11:25 - Shandy Word Watch

    1:15:43 - Shandy’s Predictions

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  28. He Won't Forgive Me For My Debt—Are We Doomed? - Ep 229

    6 juli 2023 · 55 min

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    It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Riley who is calling about her 6 year relationship. Riley made some poor financial decisions in the past which has caused her boyfriend to pull back and distrust her. Can he get over this, what does this mean for their partnership, and how long is too long to be punished for past mistakes? Listen on for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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  29. Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Worst Spring Break Ever - Ep 228

    4 juli 2023 · 1 uur 20 min

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    Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2! Lees meer

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    9:50 - Evening

    19:02 - 1st Group Date

    26:40 - Evening

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    43:56 - Evening

    51:18 - Joey’s Hard Earned 1-On-1

    52:57 - BBQ

    1:03:12 - Rose Ceremony

    1:07:07 - Credits

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    1:09:23 - Shandy Word Watch

    1:12:30 - Shandy’s Predictions

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  30. LOVE FEST! Joe Amabile & Serena Pitt From Paradise To City Hall - Ep 227

    29 juni 2023 · 1 uur 34 min

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    It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today is our second ever in-person Love Fest and an absolutely epic one! You watched them meet and get engaged on Paradise S7, and now 2 years later, Bachelor Power Couple® Joe Amabile and Serena Pitt join us in the living room to dissect the ins and outs of their relationship. Lees meer

    Today Joe and Serena share their honest first impressions of each other—in Serena's eyes, was Joe in fact the "George Clooney" of Bachelor Nation we described him to be? They get specific with adjectives about each other (yay!), discuss how and when the 11 year age difference rears its head, unpack the early hurdle that took time to overcome, and of course, describe how they fight! This episode is loaded with goodies including Serena and Sharleen's biggest City Hall regret and the surprising ways in which the native Chicagoan and native New Yorker are similar. Finally, a Newlyweds Game that is heavy on "OR"s but not remotely lacking on fun! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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    3:03 - Their City Hall Wedding

    8:47 - Serena & Sharleen’s City Hall Regret

    10:53 - How Familiar Were They With Each Other? (Was Joe “George Clooney” As Shandy Described In Their Recaps?)

    17:09 - First Impressions

    27:47 - Specificity!

    38:22 - The 11 Year Gap

    40:08 - How They Complement Each Other

    43:07 - Early Hu…

  31. Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | Undercover Brother & Operation Kiss & Tell - Ep 226

    27 juni 2023 · 1 uur

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    Shandy is back with The Bachelorette, Season 20 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big Premiere! Lees meer

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    2:17 - Episode 1 Kick Off

    4:03 - Charity’s Dress

    5:45 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails

    12:43 - Charity’s Speech

    13:06 - Notable 1-On-1 Time

    20:45 - Nehemiah

    22:02 - Notable 1-On-1 Time, Continued

    32:46 - Nehemiah’s Reveal/Nehemiah Reports To Charity

    42:40 - Brayden

    46:13 - Rose Ceremony

    47:38 - Credits

    49:48 - Andy’s A-Game

    50:34 - Shandy Word Watch

    53:01 - Shandy’s Predictions

    56:34 - Wild Cards

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  32. How To Be Your Own Therapist With Owen O'Kane - Ep 225

    22 juni 2023 · 1 uur 12 min

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    Today's Hot Topic conversation is great for just about anybody, but *especially* those who have considered therapy but haven't pulled the trigger for whatever reason (accessibility, cost, finding the right match...)! Our guest, Owen O'Kane, is an acclaimed London-based psychotherapist and the best selling author of Ten Times Happier, Ten to Zen, and most recently, How To Be Your Own Therapist. But that's not all! Before pursuing psychotherapy, Owen spent a decade working with the dying as a Clinical Nurse Specialist in Palliative Care, which we think adds a unique dimension to his perspective. Needless to say, he is abundantly qualified to help us tackle the journey of self-therapy today! Lees meer

    Today, beyond sharing his own personal story of self acceptance, Owen discusses what drives us, victim mentality, gratitude, tips for handling our anxious episodes, what 10 minutes of self therapy a day looks like, and what "The Goal" of therapy even is (happiness? meaning??). Last but not least, Andy picks Owen's brain after his experience working in Palliative Care—what did caring for the dying on a daily basis teach him? This episode has a little something for everyone and even includes a peek into Andy's own thoughts and fears. Whether you consider "therapy" a dirty word or part of your regular vernacular, you won't want to miss this chat!

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  33. Q&A! Can "In Sight, Out Of Mind" Work, Differing Beliefs, & A Fetid Fetish - Ep 224

    15 juni 2023 · 1 uur 24 min

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    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your long distance relationship is at a standstill because he doesn't have a passport, how long is too long to wait? If you and a friend are each passionate about vastly different beliefs, has the friendship run its course? What to do when "Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind" isn't an option? And finally, Shandy gives a backup plan for a particularly amusing fetish. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Q1: How Can “Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind” Work When We WORK Together??

    10:10 - Q2: He’s My First And The Sex Is Uncomfortable—Any Guidance?

    27:31 - Q3: My Long Distance Relationship Is At A Standstill Because He Doesn’t Have A Passport—How Long Is Too Long To Wait?

    37:03 - Q4: My Friend And I Have Differing Beliefs—Is It Against My Values To Stay Friends With Her?

    46:27 - Q5: My Friend Keeps Sending Unwelcome Messages To My Wife—Should I Say Something?

    1:01:00 - Q6: Do I Have A Right To Be Annoyed That My Friends Don’t Attend My Performances?

    1:10:14 - Q7: My Husband Is Perfect But His Fetish Makes Me Squirm—Help!

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    …

  34. LOVE FEST! When Love Lands In Your Inbox With Bennett Jordan & Emily Chen - Ep 223

    8 juni 2023 · 1 uur 15 min

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    It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Bennett Jordan (Bachelorette S16) and his lovely fiancée, renowned yoga instructor Emily Chen. This Love Fest came about rather unexpectedly; Bennett and Emily were kind enough to jump in last minute when our previously planned couple cancelled. We're so happy we spontaneously got to meet and hang out with these two! Lees meer

    Today Bennett and Emily join Shandy to share how persistence paid off, how they're the yin to the other's yang, and of course, how they fight! (Do yogis fight??) Finally, a Newlyweds Game with a twist ending that Shandy decides perfectly sums up this couple. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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    Time Stamps:

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    4:38 - How They Met

    9:59 - Had Emily Seen Bennett’s Season?

    11:44 - First Impressions

    16:54 - Defining The Relationship

    23:51 - How They Complement Each Other

    26:56 - How They Fight

    34:52 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

    40:30 - True Or False

    41:19 - The Newlyweds Game

    1:03:41 - Shandy Debrief

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  35. Do My Dating Requirements Make Me A Gold Digger? - Ep 222

    1 juni 2023 · 59 min

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    It's Caller Day and today we're joined by not one but TWO lovely callers! First we're joined by Megan, who has been wrestling with her dating requirements and being labeled a "gold digger" by friends. Are professional and fiscal success too superficial to put in the "needs" column? Next we're joined by Sarah, who's been scratching her head over pre-first-date etiquette. Is it a bad chess move to send a check-in text before the first date, and if so, where's the line between being pursued and simply getting logistical information? Listen on for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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    18:31 - Shandy Speaks

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  36. Q&A! Engagement Envy, Torn Between Two Weddings, & Emotional Cheating, But... - Ep 221

    25 mei 2023 · 1 uur 8 min

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    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you know you have no future with a person, is it still worth a potentially great hookup? Is it wrong to feel envious when your friends are all getting engaged? And is secretly chatting with an ex on the regular emotional cheating? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Q1: Without A Future, Is It Still Worth The Hookup?

    16:22 - Q2: I’m Green With Engagement Envy!

    27:48 - Q3: Two Weddings, One Weekend—Help Us Decide!

    36:45 - Q4: I’m Secretly Chatting With My Ex Every Day—Am I Emotionally Cheating?

    52:30 - Q5: My Husband’s Friend’s Wife Is Coming Onto Him—What Should He Do?

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  37. We Plan To Elope But Fear His Parents Will Freak Out—Help!

    18 mei 2023 · 1 uur 12 min

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    It's Caller Day and today we're joined by two lovely callers! We're joined by our first ever caller COUPLE (!), Barbie and Ken. They plan to secretly elope even though Ken's mother has explicitly asked them not to. Should they alter their plans to avoid future friction, or do what feels true to them and let the chips fall where they may? Caller Elana a very relatable Am-I-The-Asshole question involving her best friend. Where's the middle ground when you both think you're in the right? Listen on for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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    12:09 - Shandy Speaks

    31:27 - Shandy Debrief

    40:21 - Welcome To Caller Elana!

    59:51 - Shandy Speaks

    1:09:41- Shandy Debrief

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  38. The Psychology Of Reality TV Dating With Dr. Kirk Honda

    11 mei 2023 · 1 uur 15 min

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    This Hot Topic episode has been one of THE! MOST! hotly requested conversations to date! Ask and you shall receive, Shandies, because today we are joined by professor and therapist Dr. Kirk Honda, aka @PsychologyInSeattle, famed for his reaction videos and analyses of reality TV relationship dynamics. Lees meer

    Today Dr. Honda has answers to our personal musings about the psychological aspects of falling in love on TV. We also cover the manipulation, the aftermath, the audience, and last but not least, the ethics. Sharleen shares several experiences from her Bachelor days and Dr. Honda helps break them down. Frankly, this conversation is overdue and probably one of the most quintessential "Shandy" conversations to date. Come and listen to why we call this the elusive and final collector's card of Dear Shandy Hot Topic episodes!

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Welcome To Dr. Kirk Honda!

    1:19 - What’s His Favorite & Least Favorite Aspects Of Watching Reality Dating Shows?

    4:41 - Does Feeling “Chosen” On These Shows Amplify Romantic Feelings?

    8:45 - Can A Desire For Money And/Or Fame Result In Chemical Love?

    20:56 - Sensory Deprivation And Behavioral Shaping

    27:43 - Contestant Autonomy And Learned Helplessness

    32:14 - Can Trauma Expedite A Relationship?

    35:07 - If He Had Met His Wife On A Reality Show, Would Their Relationship Have …

  39. Q&A! Forced Hugs, When Generosity Goes Too Far, and Who Should Have Paid?

    4 mei 2023 · 1 uur 25 min

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    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there an age where never having been married or engaged is a red flag? If your car is towed while your first date is making a move on you, who pays? And if you don't particularly like your coworker but she's a hugger, to hug or not to hug? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Q1: When is Never Having Been Married a Red Flag?

    10:06 - Q2: My Car Was Towed At His Place—Should He Have Paid For It?

    27:39 - Q3: My Fiancé’s Friends Are Taking Advantage Of His Generosity—Help!

    41:32 - Q4: Can I Expect A Partner To Move With Me?

    47:29- Q5: When Single And Dating, Is It Ok To Keep Photos Of My Late Spouse On Social Media?

    56:54 - Q6: My Coworker Keeps Forcing Me To Hug Her—Help!

    1:10:18 - Q7: I’m 4 Years In And The Thrill Is Gone—Is It Over?

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  40. Love Is Blind Recap: Finale + Reunion | Three Weddings & An Entertainment Funeral

    2 mei 2023 · 1 uur 12 min

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    Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down the Finale and Reunion! Lees meer

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    0:00 - Housekeeping

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    1:05:18 - Best Dressed

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  41. How To Get Rich With Ramit Sethi

    27 april 2023 · 1 uur 7 min

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    Today's Hot Topic tackles a recurring theme among our Shandies' questions: MONEY, BABY!! 💵💵💵 We're joined by superstar Ramit Sethi, who not only wrote 2009's megahit and NYT bestseller "I Will Teach You To Be Rich", but whose very own Netflix show, "How To Get Rich" just premiered on April 18th! Lees meer

    Today Ramit begins by helping us define what our own individual "Rich Life" looks like. But he goes even further with the clearest, most concise, direct answers to your most burning relationship-meets-money questions: When one partner has a significantly higher income, should that be reflected in the bills? When and how should you bring up your debt with your partner? Is there a "gold standard" when it comes to shared and separate bank accounts? And what about PRENUPS?? What bank accounts and credit cards does Ramit himself use? (Oh yeah, we go there!) Listen on for your lesson in getting RICH.

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Welcome To Ramit Sethi!

    2:22 - What Is A “Rich Life”?

    3:38 - How Can One Change From Being A Spender To A Saver?

    9:38 - Join Sharleen In An Exercise: Define Your “Rich Life”

    18:42 - How Can You Design Your Rich Life When You Feel Like You’re Struggling To Get By?

    22:30 - Investing And Saving 101

    27:49 - Ramit’s Picks For Bank Accounts & Credits Cards (WITH ACTUAL ANSWERS)

    31:02 - How Should You Divvy Up Finances When One Partner Makes More $$$?

    37:31 - Is The A Certain Number You Should Have In The Bank Before Starting A Family?

    39:24 - Prenups

    44:59 - When Should One Broach The Topic Of Money And/Or Debt In A New R…

  42. Love Is Blind Recap: Seattle Pt 2 | Countdown To Marriage-ageddon

    25 april 2023 · 1 uur 12 min

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    Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down episodes 9-11, aka Seattle Part 2. Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Housekeeping

    1:55 - Episode 9

    29:04 - Episode 10

    55:21 - Episode 11

    1:08:02 - Predictions

    1:10:45 - Who We Would Go For

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  43. Q&A! When Is It *Really* Over, Romance MIA, & Pickleball Fights

    20 april 2023 · 1 uur 4 min

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    It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you have a history of staying in relationships longer than you should, what are Shandy's tips on knowing it's time to break up? (Don't miss Andy's tips on the post-breakup withdrawal!) Is it a red flag if your boyfriend of 6 months didn't get you a birthday gift? And when it comes to adult friendships, where's the line between blind loyalty and pursuing the relationships that might fulfill us? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Q1: How Do I Know It’s Really Over & We Shouldn’t Get Back Together?

    17:12 - Q2: My Friend Group Imploded Over Pickleball—Help!

    31:37 - Q3: My Long Distance Boyfriend Didn’t Get Me A Birthday Gift—Is This A Red Flag?

    42:22 - Q4: I’d Like To Befriend My Friend’s Ex-Husband’s New Girlfriend—Would This Make Me Disloyal?

    49:46 - Q5: I’ve Been In An Arranged Marriage For 13 Years & Missed Out On Romance—Help!

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  44. Love Is Blind Recap: Seattle Pt 1 | Bliss Is Back... But Not For Everyone

    18 april 2023 · 1 uur 6 min

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    Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down episodes 6-8, aka Seattle Part 1. Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Housekeeping

    3:50 - Episode 6

    30:14 - Episode 7

    43:48 - Episode 8

    1:11:33 - Predictions

    1:13:33 - Who We Would Go For

    1:13:56 - A Request From Shandy

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  45. LOVE FEST! Ivan Hall & Tailour Roberson On Parting Ways To Grow Together (Oh, And Booking Brand Deals)

    13 april 2023 · 1 uur 9 min

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    It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by engineer Ivan Hall (Bachelorette S16 & Bachelor in Paradise S7) and his fiancée, anesthesiologist Tailour Robison. These two *just* got engaged and Tailour has never done a public interview to date, so we're thrilled to get the exclusive on this legit power couple. Lees meer

    Today Ivan and Tailour share how young love can be mature love as well, how they complement each other, how they fight, and they even prove Shandy wrong on the adage "you break up because it's broken"! Finally, a hilariously academic Newlyweds Game that has Andy on the edge of his seat even more than usual. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Welcome To Ivan And Tailour!

    3:50 - How They Met

    8:49 - Did Tailour Watch Ivan On TV?

    11:18 - Considering Their History, What Are Their Thoughts On “You Broke Up Because It was Broken”

    13:25 - First Impressions

    20:43 - How They Complement Each Other

    25:10 - Did Going On The Show Bring Ivan Out Of His Shell?

    27:15 - Early Hurdle

    29:53 - How They Fight

    36:18 - Was There A Moment When They “Knew”? Do They Believe In “The One”?

    41:06 - Any Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed

    44:42 - Is The Plane Ivan Is Working On The Plane From ‘Top Gun: Maverick’?

    49:50 - The Newlyweds Game

    1:07:20 - Shandy Debrief

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  46. Love Is Blind Recap: Mexico | Love Less Blind Than Previously Thought

    11 april 2023 · 1 uur 13 min

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    Shandy is back with another Love Is Blind, Season 4 recap! Today we're breaking down episodes 4 and 5, aka MEXICO. Lees meer

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    0:00 - Intro

    0:46 - Episode 4

    39:34 - Episode 5

    1:14:53 - Predictions

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  47. Goodbye Perfect: Overcoming Perfectionism With Homaira Kabir

    6 april 2023 · 1 uur 9 min

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    Today's Hot Topic will likely resonate with many a Shandy. If you struggle with perfectionism, your inner critic, feeling the need to prove yourself, and/or analysis paralysis, this conversation is a must. We're joined by Homaira Kabir, author of ‘Goodbye Perfect: How To Stop Pleasing, Proving and Pushing For Others… and Live For Yourself’, whose career is built on the research of how you (yes, you!) can flourish. Today we cover everything from the difference between being a perfectionist and just having high standards, how to not grow resentful when others can't live up to your "perfect" ideals, whether or not perfectionism equates to competitiveness, how not to raise perfectionist children, and how our purpose ties into all of the above. This one really tugged on Sharleen's heart strings and she thinks it will speak to you, too. Listen on for a lesson in letting go... Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Welcome To Homaira Kabir!

    3:48 - What Are Optimal Confidence and Fragile Confidence?

    6:42 - Can We Have Fragile Confidence In Some Parts Of Our Lives And Optimal Confidence In Others?

    9:30 - Since So Much Is Programmed Into Us As Infants, How Much Free Will Do We Even Have?

    13:35 - What Are We Looking For When We Put So Much Out There And Are Disappointed By The Response?

    16:05 - Is To Desire Perfection To Live In The Past?

    19:30 - Is Perfectionism a Result Of Nature Or Nurture?

    21:42 - How To Avoid Passing On This Trait To Children

    22:58 - Are Perfectionists Trapped In The Wrong Gear?

    26:53 - Is To Be A Perfectionist To Either Competitive Or Envious?

    2…

  48. Love Is Blind Recap: The Pods | Shandy's First Ever LIB Recap & First Impressions

    4 april 2023 · 1 uur 8 min

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    Shandy is back with something new! By very popular demand, Shandy is testing the waters with recapping the 4th season of the hit show Love Is Blind. Today, in addition to a recap, we're also sharing our first impressions of the show. Listen on for episodes 1-3 (+ a few minutes), aka THE PODS. Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Housekeeping

    1:44 - Episode 1

    33:04 - Episode 2

    1:00:15 - Episode 3

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  49. My Ex Said He Wanted To Stay Friends—Should We?

    30 maart 2023 · 49 min

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    It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Sarah, whose ex broke things off around 6 months ago. While things ended with a lot of question marks on Sarah's end, he did tell her he'd like to remain friends. Should Sarah take his recent text as a sign to embark on a platonic friendship? Listen on for the Shandy take! Lees meer

    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sarah!

    11:32 - Shandy Sleuthing

    37:06 - Shandy Debrief

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  50. Bachelor Recap: Finale | Love Triangle Of Sadness

    29 maart 2023 · 58 min

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    Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 27 recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand finale! Lees meer

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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 - Housekeeping

    2:09 - Finale Kick Off

    2:59 - Live: Ariel

    5:42 - Back In Thailand

    7:26 - Gabi Meets Zach’s Family

    11:31 - Kaity Meets Zach’s Family

    13:57 - Kaity’s Last Chance Date

    21:10 - Evening

    24:08 - Gabi’s Last Chance Date

    27:23 - Evening

    29:53 - Live: It’s Sean Lowe Time

    32:24 - Back In Thailand

    33:06 - Proposal Day: Gabi

    40:54 - Live: Gabi

    44:29 - Zach Joins

    49:58 - Proposal Day: Kaity

    50:49 - Live: Zach & Kaity

    56:29 - Reviewing Night One Predictions

    57:56 - Charity’s Season Preview

    59:23 - Shandy Word Watch

    1:00:13 - Special Announcement

    1:01:15 - Special Surprise

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