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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 + Men Tell All | A Bewitching Hometown, Villains Gone MIA, & First Impression Rose Head
30 augustus 2022 · 51 min
Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Aven's Hometown and Men Tell All. Lees meer
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
0:57 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 8/Men Tell All
1:57 - Episode 8 Kick Off
3:52 - Aven’s Hometown
10:53 - Evening
14:15 - “Rose Ceremony”
14:45 - Men Tell All Kick Off
22:28 - Chris
24:46 - Hayden
26:20 - Logan
34:14 - Nate
38:50 - Paradise
39:44 - Jesse
41:56 - Gabby And Rachel Arrive
42:07 - Mario
44:18 - Jordan V
44:45 - Jacob
45:19 - Tyler
46:19 - Shameless Movie Plug
49:11 - Shandy Word Watch
50:55 - Predictions
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Q&A! Hot For Teacher, Turning The Other Cheek, & A 25 Year Age Difference
25 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 16 min
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend accidentally sees your fetish in your search history, should you address it or leave it be? Is it worth it to explore a crush on your tutor? And is a relationship with a man 25 years older doomed to fail? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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0:00 - Q1: How Should I Break Up With Him If I’d Have To Travel To Do It In Person?
11:18 - Q2: Does He Only Want What He Can’t Have?
24:37 - Q3: I Exchanged A Gift My Boyfriend’s Mother Gave Me And Now She Won’t Drop It—What Should I Do?
40:12 - Q4: My Boyfriend Saw My Fetish In My Search History And Now I Want To Hide Forever
51:21 - Q5: I’ve Had A Longtime Crush On My Tutor—Should I Make Move?
1:04:44 - Q6: I’m Dating A Man 25 Years Older—Are We Doomed To Fail?
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | A Clown Car Of Hometowns
23 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 17 min
Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7. Lees meer
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping (And Other Tangents)
3:25 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 7
4:13 - Episode 7 Kick Off
5:53 - Jason’s Hometown
10:24 - Evening
14:12 - Zach’s Hometown
15:21 - Evening
23:00 - Johnny’s Hometown
25:26 - Evening
29:06 - Tyler’s Hometown
42:53 - Erich’s Hometown
50:36 - Evening
53:09 - Tino’s Hometown
1:10:05 - Credits
1:10:36 - Andy’s A-Game
1:10:55 - Shandy Word Watch
1:13:06 - Predictions: Gabby
1:14:53 - Predictions: Rachel
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LOVE FEST! Blake Horstmann & Giannina Gibelli Talk DJ Life And Misconceptions
18 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 8 min
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Blake Horstmann (The Bachelorette, Season 16) and Giannina Gibelli (Love Is Blind, Season 1), who met filming Paramount Plus' All-Star Shore! They share how familiar they were with each other prior, some early hurdles post-filming, how they complement each other, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a questionable Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game but all's well that ends well! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Lees meer
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome Blake And Giannina!
4:19 - Were They Familiar With Each Other Before Meeting On All-Star Shore?
6:13 - First Impressions
12:07 - Do They Think The Powers That Be Intended For Them To Meet?
14:13 - How They Complement Each Other
22:19 - What’s The Most Common Misconception About Their Relationship?
24:21 - How They Fight
27:01 - What Was An Early Hurdle In Their Relationship?
29:44 - What Has It Been Like Being Exposed To The Other’s Dating Show Culture?
33:25 - What Makes This Relationship Successful Versus Past Relationships?
42:32 - The Newlyweds Game
59:29 - Shandy Debrief
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Did You Know Hometowns Are Around The Corner?
16 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 9 min
Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6. Lees meer
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 6
2:24 - Episode 6 Kick Off
4:00 - 1-On-1 Date Cards
7:20 - Jesse Chats With The Bachelorettes
10:03 - Nate’s 1-On-1 With Gabby
15:46 - Zach’s 1-On-1 With Rachel
25:57 - Evening
33:37 - Gabby Visits Her Guys
35:24 - Gabby’s Group Date
40:21 - Evening (aka Logan)
44:58 - Rachel’s Group Date
46:52 - Evening
58:47 - The Next Day
1:02:22 - Rose Ceremony
1:06:57 - Andy’s A-Game
1:07:45 - Shandy Word Watch
1:10:56 - Predictions: Gabby
1:13:09 - Predictions: Rachel
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My Dad Won't Stop Talking About His Divorce From My Mom—Help! - Ep 150
11 augustus 2022 · 52 min
It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Abby, has a family dynamic she has been navigating her entire adult life. While her parents divorced well over a decade ago, her father continues to badmouth Abby's mother and stepfather while deflecting his responsibility in the marriage's demise. Should Abby just "keep the peace" by continuing to bite her tongue, or is it time for a confrontation? Listen on for the Shandy take! Lees meer
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Caller Abby!
40:55 - Shandy Debrief
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | The Villain Soundtrack Is On Repeat In Belgium
9 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 4 min
Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5. Lees meer
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Time Stamps:
00:41 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 5
01:41 - Episode 5 Kick Off
2:30 - Logan Visits Rachel
7:47 - Rachel’s Group Date
9:15 - Jesse Visits Rachel
13:42 - Logan Visits Gabby
17:36 - Gabby Visits Rachel
28:00 - Evening
31:24 - Gabby’s Group Date
34:50 - Evening
44:15 - Aven’s 1-On-1 With Rachel
45:29- Evening
50:07 - Johnny’s 1-On-1 With Gabby
51:30 - Evening
55:16 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
56:51 - Rose Ceremony
58:29 - Andy’s A-Game
59:50 - Shandy Word Watch
1:02:13 - Predictions: Gabby
1:05:58 - Predictions: Rachel
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Parenthood Clarity With #ChildfreeByChoice Clarity Coach Keltie Maguire
4 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 12 min
Today's conversation has been a loooong time coming! So many of your questions over the last 2 years have swirled around whether or not to become a parent, or seeking #parenthoodclarity. Since Shandy is far from qualified to give you advice on the matter, we're thrilled to be joined by clarity coach Keltie Maguire who also happens to be #ChildfreeByChoice. Obviously none of us can answer this deeply personal question for you, but what we can do is have a conversation. We chat about everything from how Keltie came to make her decision, the shades of grey of uncertainty, "but who will look after you when you're old", and our thoughts on regret. Just as this is personal for you, it's personal for Shandy, too, so please respect us and each other when discussing. Lees meer
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Clarity Coach Keltie Maguire!
3:07 - Getting To Know Keltie
5:03 - When And How Did She Decide To Be Childfree?
14:07 - Does She Get This Question As A Clarity Coach?
17:30 - How Much Does She Think Her Lifestyle Has Informed Her Decision?
20:30 - Her Thoughts On The Following: "Having a baby is like getting a tattoo on your face. You really need to be certain it’s what you want before you commit.”
24:44 - Does She Find People Get Defensive When They Hear Her Choice?
26:01 - Advice For Dealing With Friends And Family Who Judge Or Don't Accept Your Choice?
29:03 - How Did Her Parents/In-Laws Handle Her Choice?
31:24 - "But You Would Make Such Great Parents"
33:36 - "But Who Will Look After You When You're Old?"
36:23 - Freedom
39:28 - The Happiness Quotient
43:27 - Why Is It Such An Emotional Topic?
45:06 - Regret
51:45 - What Are Her Husband's Feelings?
55:06 - The State Of The World
1:01:54 - Are We Overthinking This?
1:04:52 - Shandy Debrief
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | The Two Camps Set Sail In France
2 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 3 min
Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4. Lees meer
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
1:27 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 4
2:36 - Episode 4 Kick-Off
8:13 - France!!!
11:37 - 1-On-1 Dates
27:12 - Gabby's Group Date
35:22 - Rachel Confronts Her Guys
38:57 - Rachel's Group Date
49:36 - Logan
50:00 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
1:00:24 - Rose Ceremony
1:02:19 - Andy's A-Game
1:03:42 - Shandy Word Watch
1:05:02 - Predictions: Gabby
1:07:08 - Predictions: Rachel
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Q&A! Farting, Skeletons In The Apartment, & Sharleen's True Feelings On Andy's White V-Necks
28 juli 2022 · 1 uur 4 min
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a woman is open to dating older, what should that actual bracket be on the apps? If a guy won't let you see his place, is that a red flag? And how does Sharleen *really* feel about Andy's white V-neck uniform? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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0:00 - Q1: What Should Be My "Max" Age When Dating Online?
12:08 - Q2: My Boyfriend Won't Let Me Visit His Apartment—Is He Hiding Something?
26:35 - Q3: "Can Flatulence Portend The Waning Of Sexual Attraction?"
45:37 - Q4: Shandy's Thoughts On A Woman Accompanying Her Boyfriend Engagement Ring Shopping?
56:20 - Q5: How Does Sharleen Feel About Andy's White V-Neck Uniform? And Does Andy's Age Beliefs Apply To Women In Their 70s?
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | All Power Struggles Lead To A Fork In The Road
26 juli 2022 · 1 uur 8 min
Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Lees meer
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
2:42 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 3
4:31 - Episode 3 Kick-Off
6:32 - Zach's 1-On-1 With Rachel
15:06 - Matt White (Platinum Package)
16:10 - Zach's Date, Resumed
22:29 - Erich's 1-On-1 With Gabby
34:35 - Group Date
51:08 - The Next Day
56:23 - Rose Ceremony
1:04:36 - Credits
1:05:02 - Andy's A-Game...?
1:05:54 - Shandy Word Watch
1:07:11 - Predictions: Gabby
1:08:31 - Predictions: Rachel
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LOVE FEST! Abigail Heringer & Noah Erb On Misconceptions And Scheduled Walks
21 juli 2022 · 1 uur 9 min
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by lovebirds Abigail Heringer (The Bachelor, Season 25) and Noah Erb (The Bachelorette, Season 16), who you saw meet and date on Bachelor In Paradise, Season 7! They share the behind-the-scenes we didn't see on Paradise, when and how Noah reached back out to Abigail post-filming, how they complement each other today, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Lees meer
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Abigail And Noah!
1:57 - Did They Watch Each Other's Seasons and First Impressions
6:31 - How First Impressions Have Changed
9:41 - How They Complement Each Other
14:01 - The Biggest Misconceptions About Their Relationship
18:27 - Had They Not Broken Up On Camera, Would Their Edit Have Played Out Differently?
22:38 - Early Hurdle
25:15 - How Long After The Show Did They Get Back Together?
30:12 - How They Fight
39:36 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed
45:21 - The Newlyweds Game
1:04:50 - Shandy Debrief
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | A Villain Comes And Goes... And Comes Back Again
19 juli 2022 · 57 min
Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2. Lees meer
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
4:00 - Episode 2 Kick-Off
5:39 - Group Date/"Pageant Of Sorts"
9:15 - Evening
14:12 - Jordan V's 1-On-1 With Rachel
20:27 - Evening
25:46 - Nate's 1-On-1 With Gabby
28:12 - Evening
32:12 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
34:29 - Chris
42:43 - Rose Ceremony
45:21 - Andy's A-Game
46:04 - Shandy Word Watch
48:56 - Predictions: Gabby
52:20 - Andy's A-Game Revisited
54:05 - Predictions: Rachel
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My Fiancé Won't Write Personalized Wedding Vows For Our Big Day—Help!
14 juli 2022 · 1 uur 11 min
It's a 2-for-1 Caller Day! Today's first caller, Nicki, is in the thick of wedding planning, and while she and her fiancé agree on just about everything, they don't see eye to eye on wedding vows. He wants to opt out of writing them at all. Should she insist or prioritize his comfort zone? Lees meer
Our second caller, Kate, finds herself involved in a confusing "friendship", years after extricating herself from the emotionally manipulative ex they have in common. How should she handle this relationship, and should she be concerned by the old emotions that still seem to linger? Listen on for the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Caller Nicki!
23:35 - Shandy Debrief
32:00 - Welcome To Caller Kate!
1:04:06 - Shandy Debrief
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Bachelorette Recap: Two's A Crowd But So Far They're Still Friends
12 juli 2022 · 1 uur 5 min
Shandy is back with Bachelorette(s) Season 19 recaps! Today we're breaking down the premiere. Lees meer
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0:00 - Housekeeping
2:42 - Overall Thoughts
9:08 - Intro Videos (Or Lack Therof)
9:58 - Opening
13:46 - Night One
19:36 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails
26:13 - Notable 1-On-1 Time
41:10 - First Impression Roses
42:25 - Eliminations
50:39 - Rose Ceremony
52:33 - Credits
53:04 - Andy's A-Game (New Segment!)
55:23 - Shandy Word Watch
57:49 - Predictions: Gabby
1:06:02 - Wild Cards: Gabby
1:07:21 - Predictions: Rachel
1:12:50 - Wild Cards: Rachel
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Q&A! A First Date Venmo, Safe Sex = Equal Effort?, & A Shandy's Love Letter
7 juli 2022 · 1 uur 8 min
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it a dealbreaker if a guy asks you to Venmo him for your first date together? Is it reasonable to expect your date to be as invested in safe sex as you are? Where's the line between sharing the laughs and respecting your partner? Finally, a beautiful letter written by a Shandy. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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0:00 - Q1: My Date Asked Me To Venmo Him Back For Our First Date—Is This Weird?
11:40 - Q2: How Can I Make Sure HIs Parents Like Me?
24:50 - Q3: I'm East Asian And My New Guy Has A History Of Mainly Dating East Asians—Am I Being Fetishized?
38:18 - Q4: Is It Reasonable In A New Relationship To Expect Both Partners To Make An Equal Effort In Protection?
56:37 - Q5: My Boyfriend's Upset I Shared His "Personal Medical Information" With Our Friends—Am I The Asshole?
1:09:49 - A Shandy's Letter
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My Boyfriend Still Lives With His Ex—Help!
30 juni 2022 · 48 min
It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Emily, is at her wit's end. Her boyfriend still lives with his ex, and while he has his reasons, she's wondering how patient she should be. At what point is having empathy detrimental to our own selves, and is this relationship automatically doomed by its rocky start? Listen on for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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0:00 - Welcome To Caller Emily!
49:06 - Shandy Debrief
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Bittersweet: How Sadness Is A Superpower With Susan Cain - Ep 138
23 juni 2022 · 1 uur 12 min
This is Sharleen's all-time favorite Hot Topic conversation. You will probably also learn more about Andy's mind and thought process here than in any other episode Shandy's ever done. Are you deeply moved by sad music? Do you find comfort in a rainy day? Does the word "poignant" resonate with you? If you answered "yes" to these, you just may be the Bittersweet type. (Spoiler alert: so are both Sharleen and Andy!) According to our esteemed guest, author Susan Cain: "Bittersweetness is a tendency to states of longing, poignancy, and sorrow; an acute awareness of passing time; and a curiously piercing joy at the beauty of the world." She argues there's great power in the bittersweet outlook on life and why our society has been so blind to its value. We discuss everything from being inherently melancholic in a happiness-obsessed culture, to navigating being a Bittersweet type's partner, to several existential questions of Andy's.To say this episode was a highlight of Shandy's near two years of podcasting is an understatement. And be sure to listen to the Shandy Debrief to understand why speaking with Susan meant so much to Sharleen! Lees meer
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0:00 - Welcome To Our Esteemed Guest, Author Susan Cain!
3:21 - What Does “Bittersweet” Mean?
4:35 - What Strengths And Weaknesses Do Bittersweets Have And How Do Those Play Out In Relationships?
6:56 - Advice For Non-Bittersweets In Relationships With Bittersweets?
9:50 - Is There A Correlation Between Bit…
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Q&A! To BJ Or Not To BJ, Changing Your Date's Style, & The Women's Equivalent To Andy's "Men Are Mature At 36" Rule
16 juni 2022 · 58 min
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you like the guy but not his style, is it superficial to want to change it? Andy has long said the "maturity threshold" for men is age 36—does he have an age equivalent for women? And is refusing to go down on your partner a potential dealbreaker in the world of dating? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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0:00 - Q1: What Is The Straight Woman's Equivalent To Andy's "You're Not A Mature Man Until Age 36"?
11:12 - Q2: When Can I Tell My Friend She Sucks At Dating?
26:44 - Q3: I Have Zero Interest In Giving A Blowjob—Shandy's Thoughts?
39:59 - Q4: I Was A Covid Bride And Can't Decide If We Should Have A Wedding Do-Over—Shandy's Thoughts?
54:51 - Q5: I Like My New Guy But I Hate His Style—Am I Superficial For Wanting To Change It?
1:01:16 - Q6: My Husband And I Squabble Over The Fact That I Don't Like Hanging With His Friend—Thoughts?
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LOVE FEST! Sarah Nicole & Shane Landry On Harnessing Jealousy & The Romance Of Logistics
9 juni 2022 · 1 uur 10 min
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by a true ambassador for body positivity, Sarah Nicole Landry, and her partner in crime, her husband Shane Landry. Lees meer
You already know Sarah from her massive The Birds Papaya empire, spanning her Instagram, blog, app, and podcast, and we're thrilled Shane agreed to join so we could talk the dynamics of their partnership in true Shandy fashion! We learn about their "high school"-like courtship, how parenting four (yes, FOUR!) children affects their relationship, how their prior divorces influenced their mindset in dating, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Newlyweds Game outcome we were not expecting! Who knows who better? Listen on to find out!
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0:00 - Welcome To Sarah And Shane!
3:12 - How They Met
6:01 - First Impressions
20:30 - How They Complement Each Other
25:57 - Early Hurdle
31:42 - Jealousy
36:37 - Divorce
46:35 - How They Fight
59:40 - How Parenthood Plays Into Their Partnership & How Shane Grew Into Being A Father Figure To Sarah's First 3 Children
1:06:11 - The Newlyweds Game
1:16:36 - Shandy Debrief
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He Wouldn't Quit Following Racy Accounts—Was I Being Too Uptight?
2 juni 2022 · 57 min
And just like that... it's Caller Day again! Today's lovely caller, Taylor, was in a passionate romance that felt like The One. But when she confronted her partner about something that made her uncomfortable, things unraveled pretty quickly. Who was in the right, and did she overreact or execute poorly? And looking bigger picture, was this relationship always doomed? Listen on for the Shandy take! Lees meer
0:00 - Welcome to Caller Taylor!
45:50 - Shandy Debrief
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Unpacking Purity Culture With Blair Of @TalkPurityToMe
26 mei 2022 · 1 uur 3 min
Today we have the pleasure of speaking with Blair, the “exvangelical” brains behind @TalkPurityToMe, a humorous account dedicated to unlearning the shame taught by purity culture, both on Instagram and TikTok. Purity culture, based on the belief that sex should be had only within heterosexual marriage and that all lustful thoughts before marriage are sinful, has been a theme among our Shandies' questions, so we're excited to finally have a conversation on the topic. Lees meer
With Blair's help, we unpack everything from how to go from sex being bad to suddenly a beautiful part of marriage, navigating judgment from friends and family, and the ways in which purity culture resembles abuse. If you're currently struggling to shed the shame "purity" has cursed you with, or if you experience shame but aren't exactly sure where it comes from, today's conversation just might be for you.
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Time stamps:
0:00 - Welcome to Talk Purity To Me's Blair!
2:52 - Defining Purity Culture
4:54 - Blair's History With Purity Culture
10:10 - How Far Into Her Own "Deconstruction Process" Is She And Does She Still Struggle?
13:12 - Her First Sexual Experience
14:04 - What Inspired Her To Start An Account Dedicated To Unlearning Purity Culture?
15:35 - How Have Her Family And Friends Reacted?
20:39 - What Are The Most Common Themes She's Seen In Terms Of The Damage Purity Culture Can Cause?
23:52 - Has She Found A Stronger Response From A Particular Age Range?
24:14 - Have Any Responses She's Gotten Taken Her By Surprise?
25:48 - Are There Any Less Obvious Ways S…
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Q&A! In Ick We Trust, "If He Wanted To, He Would", and To Kill Or Not To Kill?
19 mei 2022 · 1 uur 19 min
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does "The Ick" speak to good instincts or just being overly picky? Should we trust that if a man wants to make a move, he will? Is sending an ex a letter always a bad call or are there exceptions? Finally, a great "Am I An Asshole?" question. (Turns out we like those!) Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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0:00 - Q1: I Always Seem To Catch The "Ick" From My Dates—Am I Being Too Picky?
18:31 - Q2: Is "If He Wanted To, He Would?" Always True?
33:08 - Q3: My Engagement Ended Recently And I Want To Send My Ex A Letter—Yay or Nay?
57:32 - Q4: I'm Dating A Guy My Girlfriend Introduced Me To And She Doesn't Speak To Me Anymore—What's Shandy's Take?
1:18:25 - Q5: To Kill Or Not To Kill?
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LOVE FEST! Courtney Robertson & Humberto Preciado On Instagram Vetting & Keeping The Peace
12 mei 2022 · 1 uur 6 min
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by a Bachelor Nation icon, Courtney Robertson Preciado, and her husband, Humberto Preciado! Lees meer
You certainly know Courtney as the winner of season 16 of The Bachelor (and the New York Times Bestselling Author of her subsequent tell-all, "I Didn't Come Here To Make Friends") and we're thrilled Humberto agreed to join for his first ever pod appearance! These lovely parents struggled finding a sitter for their 5 month old daughter, Paloma, so we get a very cute cameo partway through. :)
Today we learn how meeting in your 30s just may be reflected in a relationship, how Courtney and Humberto feel parenthood has affected their bond, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a tight race of a Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Listen on to find out!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome to Courtney and Humberto!
2:06 - How They Met
10:23 - First Impressions
15:56 - How They Complement Each Other
21:53 - Early Hurdles
26:13 - Andy Has Some Questions
27:28 - How They Fight
31:27 - How Parenthood Has Affected Their Partnership
36:57 - What's Different About This Relationship Versus Past Ones?
40:20 - Has Humberto Seen Courtney's Bachel…
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Navigating Romance When You Have Anxiety, OCD Or Depression With Allison Raskin
5 mei 2022 · 1 uur 2 min
Today's guest, Allison Raskin, is a New York Times best selling author and mental health advocate. Her 3rd and latest book, “Overthinking About You: Navigating Romantic Relationships When You Have Anxiety, OCD, and/or Depression” just came out on Tuesday (May 3). When we polled you, our Shandies, over on Instagram about this topic, the floodgates of messages and emails opened, so we do our best to cover the most common themes today, including when to reveal your mental health struggles in a new relationship, how to communicate your needs (and what to leave out), and how to tell the difference between your anxiety and your gut instincts. If you've ever found yourself obsessively agonizing over whether or not someone's right for you, today's conversation just might be for you. Lees meer
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0:00 - Welcome To Allison Raskin!
5:19 - When Should One Share Their Mental Health Struggles With Someone They're Dating?
9:32 - The Difference Between Process And Content—How Much Should You Share?
15:43 - Where's The Line Between Unnecessary Anxiety And Listening To Your Gut?
17:28 - Attraction
21:24 - How To Combat A Lifetime Of Being Told What A "Right" Relationship Looks Like
25:21 - What If Your Partner Doesn't Know How To Help Or Understand?
28:35 - Thoughts On If One's Partner (Or Partner-To-Be) Expresses Hesitation Because Of Their OCD?
36:01 - How To Prevent Your Partner From Eventually Taking Things Personally?
39:58 - Must One Have Their Mental Health Struggles Under Control Before Dating?
41:40 - Tips For Navigating Dating When …
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I Think I'm In Love With My Platonic Life Partner—Help!
28 april 2022 · 59 min
It's Caller Day! Today's lovely caller, Kelsey, introduces us to a popular new term (Platonic Life Partner, or "PLP"), redefining what one's "soulmate" might look like. But Kelsey also has quite the conundrum: she has developed romantic feelings for her PLP. Are these feelings real and should she act on them, even at the risk of the special platonic bond and partnership they've developed? Listen on for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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0:00 - Welcome to Caller Kelsey!
52:06 - Shandy Debrief
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Q&A! Fantasize On, Being The Other Woman, & When You Can't Find A Great Person Attractive
21 april 2022 · 1 uur 11 min
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it wrong to fantasize about other people if you're in a committed and happy partnership? If you find someone great but just can't come to find them attractive, is that worth ending things over? And just how important does Shandy find sleep compatibility? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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0:00 - Q1: I'm Happily Married But Fantasize About Someone From The Gym—Help!
6:45 - Q2: Should I Tell My Friend That I Slept With Our Mutual Friend?
23:08 - Q3: My Boyfriend Talks In His Sleep And It's Affecting My Ability To Function By Day—Help!
33:12 - Q4: My Crush Is In A Relationship With A Clear Expiration Date And He's Already Emotionally Cheated With Me—Thoughts On Possibly Being The Other Woman?
56:03 - Q5: I've Been Seeing An Amazing Guy But Just Can't Find Him Attractive—Should I End It?
1:08:28 - Q6: My Boyfriend Won't Sell The Ring From His Former Engagement—Thoughts?
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LOVE FEST! Dave Neal & Tasha Courtney On Grand Gestures & Being Friends First
14 april 2022 · 1 uur 3 min
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today's couple has been hotly requested for so many months, it's about time we brought them into the Shandy fold for a double date! Lees meer
Dave Neal, standup comedian and host of the wildly popular Bachelor Nation News Youtube channel, and his fiancée, blogger Tasha Courtney, join us to chat. We learn about the long journey that led to their courtship (complete with a grand gesture or two), how their first impressions have changed, how they navigate working together, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game with the most shocking score to date. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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0:00 - Welcome to Dave and Tasha!
5:17 - How They Met
23:33 - First Impressions And If/How Those Have Changed
28:00 - What Is Different About This Relationship Versus Previous Ones?
30:13 - How Do They Fight?
34:38 - How Do They Navigate Working Together?
36:42 - How Involved Is Tasha In Dave's Bachelor Empire?
41:31 - Is Tasha Surprised By Dave's Youtube Success?
49:16 - Any Beliefs About Relationships That Have Been Changed By This One?
56:04 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game
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Confessions of a Divorce Attorney ft. Nicole Sodoma
7 april 2022 · 1 uur 6 min
Today's lovely guest, Nicole Sodoma, is a seasoned divorce attorney of over two decades and the managing principal at Sodoma Law, based in Charlotte NC. Her debut book, "Please Don't Say You're Sorry: An Empowering Perspective on Marriage, Separation, and Divorce from a Marriage-Loving Divorce Attorney" will be released on May 24. She has also been through a divorce of her own, so needless to say, she's beyond qualified for today's "Confessions" episode! Nicole answers all of YOUR burning questions, and our conversation covers everything from her personal observations to (oftentimes surprising) divorce stats to invaluable life advice. Lees meer
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3:57 - Did She Always Want To Be A Divorce Attorney?
5:41 - If She Could Go Back In Time And Do Something Else, What Would It Be?
8:54 - Is Divorce One Of The Most Expensive Things In The World?
13:40 - What's The Average Time A Divorce Takes From Beginning To End?
16:32 - If You Get Married In One State But Reside In Another, Which State's Divorce Laws Apply?
17:22 - What Percentage Of The Divorces She's Dealt With Had Prenups? (Are Prenups In And Of Themselves An Indicator For Separation?)
23:50 - What Are The Top 3 Reasons She Sees For Divorce?
26:16 - What Percentage Of Divorces Are Amicable Versus Contentious?
29:53 - What's The Most Common Thing Couples Fight Over, And What's The Most Shocking Thing She's Seen A Couple…
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His Words And His Actions Don't Align—Should I Reach Back Out?
31 maart 2022 · 49 min
It's Caller Day! Today's call will likely be very relatable for those dating out there. Today we're joined by Lauren, a young single mom who knows what she wants and has been crystal clear in what she's looking for. However, the guy in question says one thing and does another. Is this a dealbreaker? And how much does "double dipping" affect things? Listen on for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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52:06 - Shandy Debrief
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Q&A! When You're Annoyed By Your Partner's Hobby & How To Slide Into A Celeb's DMs
24 maart 2022 · 1 uur 1 min
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How should you proceed if you love your partner but not his very frequent, very loud hobby? Why do guys stop trying when they get the girl? And what are Shandy's thoughts on the woman proposing to the man? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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0:00 - Q1: Why Do Men Stop Trying When They Get The Girl?
13:42 - Q2: I Want To Ask A Semi-Celebrity Out Via DM—Any Tips?
27:23 - Q3: I'm A Woman And Am Considering Being The One To Propose To My Boyfriend—Thoughts?
39:09 - Q4: I Have A Crush On My Manager—How Should I Make A Move Or Is It Too Risky?
50:27 - Q5: I Love My Fiancé But Can't Stand His Constant Singing—What Should I Do?
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Bachelor Recap: Finale | Twists, Controversy, and Empathy... Oh My!
17 maart 2022 · 1 uur 29 min
Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand finale. Lees meer
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0:00 - Housekeeping
04:09 - Overall Thoughts On The Finale
04:26 - Finale Part 1 Kick Off
7:41 - The Rose Ceremony From Hell
33:37 - Clayton's Family
35:35 - Gabby Meets Clayton's Family
36:23 - Rachel Meets Clayton's Family
47:41 - Finale Part 2 Kick Off
52:06 - Susie
56:15 - The Breakup
1:05:21 - Live: Gabby
1:10:46 - The Breakup, Continued
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1:20:28 - The Show Resumes
1:21:41 - In The Countryside
1:25:29 - After The Final Rose
1:27:56 - Next Bachelorette
1:29:44 - Overall Thoughts
1:32:59 - Recapping Our Original Predictions
1:34:54 - Shandy Word Watch
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Parasocial Relationships With Josh Peck
17 maart 2022 · 1 uur 6 min
Parasocial relationships are defined as one-sided relationships, where one person extends emotional energy, interest and time, and the other party, the persona, is completely unaware of the other’s existence. Lees meer
Have you ever wondered how the celebrity in this situation, or the "persona", feels about this dynamic? Today we're joined by accomplished actor, writer, and Youtuber Josh Peck, to chat how it feels to be on the other side. With 3.5 million Youtube subscribers, 7 million TikTok followers, 12.6 million Instagram followers, and having been on TV since age 10, it's safe to say Josh is on the receiving end of millions of parasocial relationships.
Can he even process that so many people caring about him or feeling like they know him? How does it feel to know he could be shaping the identities of so many? And does he ever feel a reverse dynamic, where he feels attached to his fans or even betrayed by them? Listen on for a fascinating discussion about human nature, our relationship with ourselves, and the strange dynamic that is parasocial relationships.
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My Long Distance Relationship Has Gotten Rocky—Help!
10 maart 2022 · 50 min
It's Caller Day! Today's is Andy's all-time favorite call. We're joined by Fiona, who is in a one year old relationship. As things have become long distance she finds herself and her partner fighting more than usual. However, the more questions we asked, the more we learned there's more to her story and her reservations. Listen on for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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Bachelor Recap: WTA + Ep 9 | The High-Wire Act That Is Overnights
9 maart 2022 · 1 uur 37 min
Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down Overnights. Lees meer
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0:00 - Housekeeping
2:53 - Women Tell All
4:31 - Cassidy
6:54 - Shanae
14:27 - Sarah
17:30 - Teddi
20:40 - Serene
22:33 - Clayton
29:39 - Bloopers
30:00 - Jesse's Season Recap
34:34 - Episode 9 Kick Off
37:51 - Rachel's Overnight
48:12 - Gabby's Overnight
57:27 - Susie
1:34:26 - Credits
1:35:29 - Shandy Word Watch
1:36:47 - Shandy's Predictions
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Our Wedding Story, Part 2 (aka Wedding Q&A!)
3 maart 2022 · 1 uur 5 min
After Our Wedding Story episode, we were overwhelmed by follow-up questions. We asked if you wanted a Part 2 and you said yes! So, combining your emails, comments, DMs, and Instagram poll questions, here are our answers! Lees meer
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0:00 - Introduction
1:58 - Who Was At Our City Hall Wedding?
6:47 - What Was The City Hall Process Like?
8:38 - Did Anyone Give Us a Hard Time For Doing City Hall Initially?
9:16 - Thoughts On First Look Versus Waiting Until The Aisle?
10:54 - Did Either Of Us Have Last Minute Jitters/Cold Feet?
17:59 - Advice On Plus-Ones? And What About Kids?
23:25 - Did You Take It Personally If Someone Did Not Come?
27:05 - What Was Our First Dance Song?
29:14 - Did We Do A Choreographed Dance?
32:03 - Did We Drink?
35:19 - Thoughts On Guests Who Only Attend The Reception?
41:13 - How Did You Pick Your Photographer?
50:28 - How Did You Pick Your Wedding Party?
58:06 - How Can We Have Energy For The Bedroom That Night?
59:43 - Did Either Of Us Experience Guilt Trips From Our Families During Planning?
1:02:16 - What Did We Do For A Gift Registry?
1:03:37 - Did We Have A Honeymoon?
1:04:11 - What Did Guests Compliment The Most?
1:04:21 - What's Something You Wish You'd Had On Hand?
1:04:39 - If You Could Have A Do Over, Would You Do Anything Differently?
1:05:35 - Which Anniversary Do You Celebrate?
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Bachelor Recap: Episode 8 | Meta Language & Outdoorsy Lessons In Hometown Week
1 maart 2022 · 1 uur 7 min
Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down Hometown week. Lees meer
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0:00 - Housekeeping
0:34 - Overall Thoughts on Episode 8
2:13 - Susie's Hometown
11:34 - Gabby's Hometown
32:43 - Serene's Hometown
52:46 - Rachel's Hometown
1:07:56 - Back In Los Angeles
1:08:52 - Rose Ceremony
1:09:57 - Shandy Word Watch
1:12:30 - Shandy's Predictions
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Q&A! Returning The Ring, My BF Misses His Ex's Family, And DWI = Dealbreaker?
24 februari 2022 · 1 uur 9 min
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there *ever* a case to be made for keeping the engagement ring after the relationship ends? Is a DWI an absolute dealbreaker, or should one focus instead on the honesty in revealing it? And is it cause for concern if your new boyfriend reveals he misses his ex's family? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer
0:00 - Q1: After A Broken Engagement, Should The Woman *Always* Return The Ring, Regardless Of Circumstance?
6:40 - Q2: Is A Recent DWI A Dealbreaker?
18:01 - Q3: Should I Still Make The Guy Chase If The First "Date" Was Virtual?
39:10 - Q4: I've Been With My Partner For 11 Years But Still Wonder About Our Mutual Friend With Whom I've Had An Emotional Affair
56:42 - Q5: My New Boyfriend Is 6 Months Out Of A 6-Year Relationship And Has Expressed Missing Parts Of That Life—Should I Be Concerned?
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 7 | Couples "Therapy" And A Villain On The Side
22 februari 2022 · 1 uur 3 min
Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode7. Lees meer
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0:00 - Housekeeping
2:24 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 7
3:12 - Episode 7 Kick Off
6:08 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
12:54 - Rose Ceremony
15:45 - Vienna, Austria
20:52 - Susie's 1-On-1
27:02 - Group Date
56:58 - Serene's 1-On-1
1:01:44 - Rose Ceremony
1:04:43 - Shandy Word Watch
1:06:30 - Shandy's Predictions
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LOVE FEST! Krystal Nielson & Miles Bowles On Opposites Attracting & The Fun Of Parenting
17 februari 2022 · 1 uur 10 min
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Bachelor Nation's most iconic women, Krystal Nielson and her partner, Miles Bowles! Lees meer
You may remember Krystal from Arie's season of The Bachelor and season 5 of Bachelor In Paradise. We learn how Krystal and Miles balance each other out, how parenthood has changed their lifestyle, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game with questionable scoring but sufficient entertainment to make it A-OK. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Undesirable "Dates", Simmering Beef, & Marionette Strings
15 februari 2022 · 1 uur 9 min
Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6. Lees meer
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0:00 - Housekeeping
2:29 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 6
5:29 - Episode 6 Kick Off (2-On-1 Date Resumes)
25:02 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party
30:19 - Rose Ceremony
32:39 - Hvar, Croatia
35:42 - Teddi's 1-On-1
42:40 - Group Date
55:43 - The Clocktower "Date Card"
57:51 - The Next Day
59:46 - Sarah's "1-On-1"
1:06:38 - Credits
1:07:23 - Shandy Word Watch
1:09:24 - Shandy's Predictions
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Does My Fling Think I Moved For Him? Help!
10 februari 2022 · 50 min
It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by caller Anna, newly single and looking to mingle. Her casual fling was great while it lasted, but things have taken a turn. Does this guy think he played a role in her career-driven move? Watch on for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | The Art of Comedy And The No-Shame-Ae Show Heads To Toronto
8 februari 2022 · 1 uur 5 min
Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5. Lees meer
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0:00 - Housekeeping
1:25 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 5
2:18 - Episode 5 Kick Off
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Finding Purpose—With Or Without A Relationship—With John Kim, "The Angry Therapist"
3 februari 2022 · 57 min
Are you waiting for The One to finally begin living your life? Or are you in a partnership so comfy you've lost sight of your own individuality? Today we're joined by John Kim, aka The Angry Therapist, to discuss how singledom is more opportunity than pitfall. Lees meer
John Kim is a licensed marriage and family therapist, life coach, best-selling author, and host of The Angry Therapist podcast. His latest book, Single. On Purpose. helps you prioritize your relationship with yourself, with or without a partner, and is available now.
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | BBQ Crashers & When Shrimp Cancels Cocktail Parties
1 februari 2022 · 1 uur 3 min
Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 4. Lees meer
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0:00 - Housekeeping
0:53 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 4
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Q&A! Whack-A-Mole Of Life, A Sexless Marriage, And Once Bad In Bed, Always Bad In Bed?
27 januari 2022 · 1 uur 14 min
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If the guy you're into goes radio silent, is is possible to salvage things? Is it possible a few years of experience could turn an ex from a bad lover into a good one? And what are Shandy's thoughts on a sexless marriage of 8 years? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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0:00 - Q1: I'm 23 And Stuck In A Cycle Of Situationships—Should I Take Myself Off The Market For Now?
12:21 - Q2: My Crush Has Gone Radio Silent—What's My Next Move?
25:36 - Q3: I Have Anxiety Over Interacting With My Ex-Best Friend At An Upcoming Wedding—Am I Overreacting?
33:14 - Q4: I Have Been In A Sexless Marriage For 8 Years—Give Me Guidance!
55:01 - Q5: My Longtime Friend And Ex Was Bad In Bed Then But It's Been Years—Is It Worth Risking The Friendship To Pursue Romance Again?
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Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Loose Lips Sink Ships, High Thigh, and The Same Ol’ Playbook
25 januari 2022 · 1 uur 12 min
Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Lees meer
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0:00 - Overall Thoughts On Episode 3
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LOVE FEST! Jacqueline Trumbull & Paul Seli On Overcoming Jealousy & The Art Of Making A Move
20 januari 2022 · 1 uur 14 min
It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by one of Sharleen's closest Bachelor Nation friends, Jacqueline Trumbull, and her fiancé Paul Seli! Lees meer
You may remember Jacqueline from Arie's season, where she, like Sharleen, withdrew in Week 7. She and Paul are both in psychology (Jacqueline is a PhD student at Duke University, where Paul is a professor of Psychology and Neuroscience), so needless to say, there's fun analysis of relationship dynamics in today's conversation. We learn how Paul overcame jealousy in the early stages, how their psychology backgrounds play a role in their relationship, and their thoughts on The One. Finally, a real nail-biter of a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!
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The Hunt For Red Flags
13 januari 2022 · 1 uur 10 min
It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers. Our first caller, Lisa, is in the very early stages of dating a guy who seems accompanied by red flags. Should she end things before she gets invested, or is it too soon to throw away the first "butterflies" she's felt in awhile? Our second caller, Danielle, is an introvert in a relationship with a full-blown extrovert, and she feels their differences in this regard could be causing a red flag. Should she attempt change her ways or does this speak to a deeper problem? Watch on for the Shandy take! Lees meer
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0:00 - Welcome to caller Lisa!
34:42 - Shandy Takeaways
42:56 - Welcome to caller Danielle!
1:09:20 - Shandy Takeaways
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Bachelor Recap : Ep 2 | Hilary Duff, Kissing Fatigue, & Shanae-nah
11 januari 2022 · 1 uur 9 min
Shandy is back with Bachelor Season 26 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2. Lees meer
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