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1. Episode 36 - Our Boyfriend, Our Abuser, Episode 3: Gaslighting - Am I Going Crazy? | 1-800 CHATLINE

   1 november 2026 · 50 min

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   On Episode 36 of 1-800 CHATLINE… we're asking a question so many people in emotionally abusive relationships find themselves asking: Am I going crazy? Lees meer

   Welcome back to Our Boyfriend, Our Abuser, a special series exploring domestic violence, emotional abuse, coercive control and relationship red flags.

   Amy Dickinson is joined by Taylor Davies, who dated the same man at a different time. After discovering their shared experiences, they're unpacking the psychological dynamics they now recognise and how their confidence in their own reality was gradually undermined.

   Because sometimes, the most damaging part of an abusive relationship is being made to question whether your own experiences are even real.

   🖤 GASLIGHTING: AM I GOING CRAZY?

   Amy and Taylor explore gaslighting, a pattern of psychological manipulation that can cause someone to question their own memory, perception and judgement.

   From having experiences denied to being told they were insane, irrational or mentally unwell, they discuss how repeated manipulation can erode self-trust and leave you questioning your own reality.

   🎙️ IN THIS EPISODE:

   • What gaslighting is and how it differs from ordinary disagreements
   • How we started questioning our own reality
   • Epistemic trust: Why we began believing someone else's version of events over our own
   • Cognitive dissonance: Wanting to believe someone is good while experiencing behaviour that contradicts it
   • Denial, minimisation and conversations being turned around
   • Being called crazy, insane, mentally ill or delusional
   • Hypervigilance: Constantly monitoring someone's moods and reactions
   • Learned helplessness: When you stop trying to explain yourself because you no longer believe you'll be heard
   • How gaslighting affects confidence, self-trust and our perception of reality
   • Recognising the patterns and rebuilding trust in ourselves

   💭 WHY GASLIGHTING IS SO HARD TO RECOGNISE

   Gaslighting isn't simply two people remembering an argument differently. It's a repea…

2. Episode 35 - Our Boyfriend, Our Abuser, Episode 2: Coercive Control: When the Mask Slips | 1-800 CHATLINE

   25 oktober 2026 · 40 min

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   On Episode 35 of 1-800 CHATLINE… we're talking about the moment the mask starts to slip, the behaviours we couldn't explain at the time, and how we slowly lost parts of ourselves in relationships we wanted to work. Lees meer

   Welcome back to Our Boyfriend, Our Abuser, a special series exploring domestic violence, emotional abuse, coercive control and the relationship red flags we wish we'd recognised sooner.

   Amy Dickinson is joined by Taylor Davies, who dated the same man at a different time. After discovering their shared experiences, they're unpacking what happened, the patterns they now recognise, and why putting language to abuse matters.

   Because sometimes, what feels like isolated incidents is actually part of a much bigger pattern.

   COERCIVE CONTROL: WHEN THE MASK SLIPS

   Amy and Taylor discuss how coercive control gradually changed their behaviour, chipped away at their confidence and left them walking on eggshells.

   From arguments that seemed to come out of nowhere to silent treatment, isolation and the fear of triggering another fight, they explore how control can develop so gradually that you don't recognise it until you look back.

   🎙️ IN THIS EPISODE:

   • The first signs that his behaviour was changing
   • What coercive control is and how it differs from normal disagreements
   • Creating fights before spending time together and a lack of empathy
   • Silent treatment as a form of emotional abuse
   • Walking on eggshells and anticipating his reactions
   • Changing what we wore, who we saw and how we socialised to avoid conflict
   • How isolation from friends and family develops
   • Why we didn't recognise coercive control while experiencing it
   • Being in love, turning a blind eye and wanting the relationship to work
   • How abuse erodes confidence and makes leaving harder
   • The sunk cost fallacy, embarrassment and fear of losing a relationship we've invested in

   💭 WHY THE BIGGER PATTERN MATTERS

   Coercive control isn't always one dramatic incident. It can involve repeated behaviours…

3. Episode 34 - Our Boyfriend, Our Abuser, Episode 1: The Honeymoon Phase | 1-800 CHATLINE

   18 oktober 2026 · 34 min

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   On Episode 34 of 1-800 CHATLINE… we're starting a conversation that is deeply personal, confronting, and one we never expected to have. Lees meer

   Welcome to Our Boyfriend, Our Abuser - a special series exploring domestic violence, abusive relationships, relationship red flags and the warning signs we wish we'd recognised sooner.

   Amy Dickinson is joined by Taylor Davies, a woman she never knew existed until Taylor reached out after watching Amy's TikTok series, My Boyfriend, My Abuser.

   The plot twist? Amy and Taylor dated the same man at different times, without knowing each other's stories.

   After connecting and discovering striking similarities, they're sharing their experiences to raise awareness, unpack the warning signs and help others better understand abusive relationships.

   💌 HOW WE FOUND EACH OTHER

   How Taylor discovered Amy's TikTok series

   The DM that connected two separate stories

   The similarities they uncovered when they compared experiences

   Why they've decided to share their stories

   💘 THE HONEYMOON PHASE
   Abusive relationships don't always begin with obvious red flags. Sometimes, they start with intense chemistry, affection and the feeling that you've finally met someone who truly understands you.

   ❤️‍🔥 LOVE BOMBING, MIRRORING & EARLY RED FLAGS
   Amy and Taylor unpack:

   Love bombing: Intense affection, attention and promises that may form part of a pattern of manipulation or control.

   Mirroring: Reflecting someone's interests, values or personality to create a powerful feeling of compatibility.

   Boundary testing: Pushing limits, disregarding preferences or making someone feel guilty for saying no.

   Affection and shared interests aren't automatically red flags - it's the broader pattern of behaviour that matters.

   🎙️ IN THIS EPISODE:

   The story behind Our Boyfriend, Our Abuser

   Who Amy and Taylor were before the relationship

   What the honeymoon phase felt like

   Love bombing, mirroring and boundary testing

   Early relationship warning signs

   Why recognising abus…

4. Episode 33 – LOVE SPELLS, FESTIVAL CHAOS & DATING DJS | 1-800 CHAT LINE

   2 oktober 2026 · 31 min

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   Episode 33 – LOVE SPELLS, FESTIVAL CHAOS & DATING DJS | 1-800 CHAT LINE Lees meer

   On Episode 33 of 1-800 CHAT LINE, Amy Dickinson and Sasha Heath are officially entering their witchcraft era — because apparently swiping on dating apps wasn’t getting the job done.

   And first things first… we have a NEW CATCHPHRASE. 🔮

   ☎️ 1-800 CHATLINE, WHERE WE FUEL YOUR INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS.

   We kick things off with a formal apology before getting straight into this week’s chaos.

   🏕️ Sasha’s Solo Festival Adventure

   Sasha went to a camping festival ALONE with nothing but a duffel bag and vibes.

   Naturally, she made friends, found her people and somehow managed to get herself into VIP.

   Because if there’s one thing Sasha is going to do, it’s network her way into a better experience.

   💘 Amy’s THREE-STEP Dating Program

   Amy reveals her three-step approach to dating — because apparently we’ve reached the point where dating requires a formal strategic framework.

   Consider this your unofficial guide to navigating modern dating.

   🔮 WE’VE STOPPED SWIPING

   Dating apps? Deleted.

   Logic? Gone.

   We’ve officially moved on to love spells, Post-it notes and witchcraft.

   Yes, really.

   Amy and Sasha unpack the increasingly unhinged lengths we’ll go to when we want the universe to deliver us a man.

   🎧 THE PROS & CONS OF DATING DJs

   Are DJs actually good boyfriend material?

   We break down the perks, the red flags, the lifestyle, the late nights, the attention from other women and everything else that comes with dating someone who works in nightlife.

   Because sometimes you want a boyfriend.

   Sometimes you want a boyfriend who plays at 2am.

   Sometimes you need to know what you’re signing up for.

   🎧 IN THIS EPISODE:

   • The brand-new 1-800 Chatline catchphrase

   • Our formal apology

   • Sasha’s solo camping festival adventure

   • Going to a festival alone

   • Making friends at festivals

   • How Sasha got into VIP

   • Amy’s three-step dating program

   • Dating advice and modern dating

   • Love spells and manifestation

   • P…

5. Episode 32 – BASHED, LOVE-BOMBED & THE ALBANIAN MAFIA | 1-800 CHAT LINE

   16 augustus 2026 · 42 min

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   On Episode 32 of 1-800 CHAT LINE, Amy Dickinson and Sasha Heath are bringing you some of their scariest dating stories yet — plus one absolutely unhinged life update. Lees meer

   🚨 Amy’s Friday Night Horror Story

   Amy reveals how she was bashed in Brisbane’s Fortitude Valley by three women on Friday night. A completely unprovoked attack, three women, one very chaotic story… and obviously, we had to unpack it.

   💍 The Girl They Date Before They Get Married

   We discuss the universal experience of being that girl — the one a man dates before he suddenly settles down and marries someone else.

   Except Sasha has a very specific grievance: she’s more devastated that her ex’s new fiancée has stopped watching her Instagram Stories since they got engaged.

   Honestly? Understandable.

   🚩 Our TWO Scariest Dating Stories

   This week gets DARK.

   Amy tells the story of the man who love-bombed her, swept her off to a remote farmhouse with his friends, and then verbally abused her — ending in a genuinely terrifying situation.

   Sasha reveals how she accidentally dated a married Albanian man… and received a “hey girly” message from his wife WHILE SHE WAS STILL IN BED WITH HIM.

   The wife then threatened to deport Sasha and claimed her family had connections to the Albanian mafia.

   So, naturally, we discuss what could possibly be worse than finding out your date has a wife.

   🚩 How to Spot Dating Red Flags Before It’s Too Late

   From love-bombing and isolation to controlling behaviour and stories that simply don’t add up, Amy and Sasha break down the red flags they wish they’d recognised sooner.

   📅 The August Dating Theory

   And finally, we unpack the August dating theory — because apparently the month you meet someone might tell us something about where your relationship is headed.

   🎧 IN THIS EPISODE:

   • Amy’s Brisbane Fortitude Valley attack story

   • Being the girl men date before they get married

   • Sasha’s ex getting engaged

   • The devastating loss of an Instagram Story viewer

   • Amy’s love-bombing …

6. Episode 31 – Three Apologies, Indie Clinton, Boy Sober & Men Who Never Recovered | ⁠1-800 CHAT LINE⁠

   24 juni 2026 · 40 min

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   On Episode 31 of 1-800 CHAT LINE… we begin with not one, not two, but three formal apologies. Lees meer

   Potentially three and a half.

   We then dive into a weekend recap, including Amy’s 33rd birthday celebrations, proof that she still hasn’t grown up, and confirmation that she remains very much single and deep in the trenches.

   There was also an unexpected run-in with someone from Amy’s past.

   No, you won’t guess who.

   👕 The Indie Clinton Conversation

   This week, Amy and Sasha unpack the t-shirt that had the media talking, the renewed discussion around Ben Azar’s unfair dismissal case, and the way Indie Clinton continues to be portrayed in mainstream media.

   Why does the conversation around female influencers always seem to become something much bigger?

   💄 The Death of the Clean Girl Aesthetic

   Are we witnessing the end of the clean girl era?

   Amy and Sasha discuss why the internet seems to be moving away from minimalist perfection and why chaotic, messy, party-girl energy is making a comeback.

   🚩 Men Who Were Cheated On Once and Never Recovered

   You know the type.

   A man gets cheated on at 15 years old and somehow it’s still being used as evidence in every relationship conversation 20 years later.

   Amy and Sasha discuss why some people use past relationship trauma as an explanation for their behaviour without ever actually doing anything to heal from it.

   📚 Boy Sober?

   This week’s obsession is It’s Not Love, Actually by Dee Selman.

   After listening to the audiobook, Amy and Sasha discuss the concept of being “boy sober,” why everyone seems to be talking about it right now, and whether removing men from the equation might actually be the key to inner peace.

   Will they be committing to a boy sober era?

   The answer may disappoint you.

   🎧 In this episode:

   • Three (and a half) formal apologies

   • Amy’s 33rd birthday recap

   • An unexpected run-in from the past

   • Indie Clinton, media narratives and influencer scrutiny

   • The death of the clean girl aesthetic

   • Why party girls …

7. Episode 30 – Dating App Burnout, Avoidant Men, Breakups & The Loneliness Epidemic | 1-800 CHAT LINE

   31 mei 2026 · 1 uur

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   On Episode 30 of 1-800 CHAT LINE, Amy is issuing a formal apology. Lees meer

   Just one week after dramatically announcing she was leaving the dating market forever, she’s back.

   After spending a deeply committed two weeks in what was clearly going to be a lifelong relationship, Amy has now completed the five stages of grief following a devastating breakup and officially re-entered the dating trenches.

   The dating series is back.

   Unfortunately.

   Joining Amy this week is Sasha Heath as they unpack the absolute state of modern dating, why everyone is exhausted by dating apps, and how we’ve somehow reached a point where every man is an “avoidant” instead of simply admitting he’s an eff-boy.

   💔 Amy’s Breakup Era
   A relationship began.
   A relationship ended.
   A lesson was learned.

   Amy shares what happened, why she’s back on the apps, and why dating in your 30s somehow feels both more self-aware and more chaotic than ever.

   📱 Dating App Burnout Is Real
   Why does modern dating feel like a second full-time job?

   Amy and Sasha discuss:
   • endless swiping
   • dating fatigue
   • situationship culture
   • the emotional exhaustion of constantly starting over
   • why everyone seems to be looking for a connection but nobody wants to commit

   🧠 Has Therapy Speak Ruined Accountability?
   A controversial conversation about:
   • attachment styles
   • avoidant men
   • therapy language on TikTok
   • weaponised self-awareness
   • why some people are using psychology terms to avoid taking responsibility for their behaviour

   Because sometimes he’s not an avoidant.

   Sometimes he’s just not that interested.

   😵‍💫 The Loneliness Epidemic & Comparison Culture
   Why are so many people feeling behind in life?

   Amy and Sasha unpack:
   • social media comparison
   • feeling late to milestones
   • being single in your 30s
   • friendship, relationships and societal pressure
   • why everyone’s highlight reel is making us question our own timeline

   Spoiler alert: the timeline might actually be complete BS.

   ❤️ Healing, Therapy & Growing Up
   The girl…

8. Episode 29 – Jayde Quits, Men Being Dodgy & Amy Leaves the Dating Market | 1-800 CHAT LINE

   24 mei 2026 · 34 min

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   On Episode 29 of 1-800 CHAT LINE… we have huge news. Lees meer

   Jayde has officially quit the podcast.

   Before anyone spirals: we’re still on amicable terms, still roommates, and allegedly still best friends according to ChatGPT. So naturally, the show must go on.

   Enter: new semi-permanent co-host Sasha Heath.

   This week, Amy and Sasha unpack who Sasha actually is, how they met, and why this friendship somehow escalated into podcast co-hosting responsibilities.

   We also debut our brand new segment: Men Being Dodgy™.

   Because unfortunately there’s simply too much material.

   🤠 Amy’s Love Life Update

   Against all odds… cowboy/ranch king is still in the picture.

   Things are going well enough that Amy has officially quit the dating series and declared herself off the market. She doesn’t want to get ahead of herself, but for the first time in a long time, she might actually like someone normal.

   Or at least emotionally available enough to text back.

   🚩 Situationships That Ruin You

   Amy and Sasha unpack the kinds of situationships that genuinely alter your brain chemistry, including:

   • men who breadcrumb professionally

   • relationships that never technically started but somehow still destroyed you

   • why “we’re just seeing how things go” should qualify as psychological warfare

   📱 AL-GO or AL-NO

   The ultimate red flag detection system.

   Amy and Sasha discuss the key indicator of whether a man is good or deeply concerning:

   his algorithm.

   That’s right — we’re judging men entirely based on the content they consume online.

   Because if his feed is:

   • gym bro podcasts

   • alpha male motivation

   • girls interviewing billionaires on yachts

   • “high value male” content

   …we regret to inform you it may already be over.

   🎧 In this episode:

   • Jayde officially quits the podcast

   • Sasha Heath enters the chat

   • How Amy and Sasha became friends

   • Men Being Dodgy™

   • Situationships that permanently damage your frontal lobe

   • Amy officially quitting the dating series

   • Cowboy/ranch king upd…

9. Episode 28 – Dating Updates, Invisible Strings & Date 11/50 Goes Off the Rails | 1-800 CHAT LINE

   13 mei 2026 · 36 min

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   On Episode 28 of 1-800 CHAT LINE… the dating updates are extensive, the delusion is thriving, and unfortunately… the man with the girlfriend still has a girlfriend. Lees meer

   This week, Amy and Jayde unpack every chaotic development in their romantic lives, plus Amy introduces her official formula for making new friends as a mature adult - because apparently dating isn’t the only social experiment happening right now.

   🧵 Jayde’s Invisible String Theory
   Jayde explains her invisible string theory with new man, and honestly?
   The coincidences are getting suspicious.

   Are they soulmates?
   Is the universe intervening?
   Or is she just connecting dots like a conspiracy theorist with a crush?

   The jury’s still out.

   💋 Date 11 of 50 First Dates
   Amy gives the full breakdown of her latest date - officially Date 11 in her quest for 50 first dates.

   What starts as a promising evening takes a very unexpected turn by the end of the night…
   And naturally, she shares every detail.

   We also revisit the guy who, shockingly had another girlfriend.

   Spoiler alert: Nothing has changed.
   He still has one.

   And somehow the story only gets worse.

   🎧 In this episode:• Amy’s formula for making adult friendships• Jayde’s invisible string theory with new man• Date 11/50 and the unexpected twist of the night• Updates from the trenches of modern dating• The man who continues to be someone else’s boyfriend• Delusion, romance, chaos and unnecessary emotional investment

   If you’re here for:• Oversharing• Dating disasters• Best friend debriefs• Romantic delusion• “You’re not going to believe this” stories• Women documenting their own downfall in real time

   …this episode is for you.

   🎧 1-800 CHAT LINE - emotionally unstable but self-aware.

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10. Episode 27 – Dangerous Dating, Accidental Kidnapping & Amy Falls in Love (Again) | Chaos Era Continues

    29 april 2026 · 37 min

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    On Episode 27 of 1-800 CHAT LINE… we pivot. Again. Lees meer

    This week takes a sharp (and slightly unhinged) turn into what we’re calling Dangerous Dating - a new segment that somehow starts chaotic… and ends deeply serious.

    And yes, for once… Jayde gets airtime.

    🎙️ Welcome to the Chaos Era

    The theme of today’s episode?

    Kidnapping. Specifically… men.

    Before we go any further, a quick disclaimer:

    The activities discussed in this episode were conducted under highly questionable judgment and we absolutely do not recommend trying this at home.

    Seriously.

    👀 Amy’s “First Date” Strategy

    Amy walks us through the time she low-key kidnapped a man for a first date.

    Was it romantic?

    Was it criminal?

    Was it… effective?

    You decide.

    🚨 Jayde’s Plot Twist

    In a turn no one saw coming, Jayde shares her own story…

    Except hers isn’t funny.

    She actually got kidnapped.

    What starts as a light, chaotic dating segment quickly shifts into something much deeper - and we didn’t see it coming.

    ❤️ Amy Falls in Love (Again)

    In completely unsurprising news, Amy has fallen in love for the 10th time this financial year.

    This time?

    He’s planned her perfect first date…

    Which will involve…

    …you’ll have to listen to find out.

    🎧 In this episode:

    • Dangerous Dating: the segment we probably shouldn’t have created

    • Amy’s chaotic approach to romance

    • Jayde’s unexpected and serious story

    • The fine line between funny and “wait… what?”

    • Falling in love fast, often, and with full delusion

    If you’re here for:

    • Unhinged dating stories

    • Real-life plot twists

    • Chaotic best friend energy

    • Slightly concerning decision-making

    • Laughing… then immediately not laughing

    …this is the episode.

    🎧 1-800 CHAT LINE - no longer making sense, but always making content.

    👉 Follow on Spotify so you never miss an episode.

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