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1. 307: Perfectionism, Anxiety, and Relationships with Trevor Huskey

   3 november 2026 · 51 min

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   Learn more about Shane's 6-week live training program, Couples Therapy Intensives: The Blueprint, here: https://cit.shanebirkel.com/blueprint

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   In this episode, Shane talks with Trevor Huskey about perfectionism, anxiety, and relationships. Trevor Huskey, LCSW is a Therapist, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and Author & Host of The Breathtaking World of Anxiety. Hear how people experience anxiety & perfectionism, how perfectionism & anxiety impact each other, the situations where anxiety & perfectionism are a good thing, how perfectionism & anxiety show up in relationships, and how to provide your clients with hope if they have some of these qualities.

   To learn more about Trevor Huskey and check out his books & podcast, visit:

   HopeForABetterTomorrow.com/Trevor-Huskey--LCSW

   The Breathtaking World of Anxiety books on Amazon

   The Breathtaking World of Anxiety Podcast

2. 306: Boundaries & Generational Trauma with Judy Hu

   26 oktober 2026 · 51 min

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   Sign up for Shane's 6-week live training program, Couples Therapy Intensives: The Blueprint, before it starts on October 27, 2026 here: https://cit.shanebirkel.com/blueprint

   Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/

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   In this episode, Shane talks with Judy Hu about boundaries & generational trauma. Judy Hu, LMHC is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Trauma Therapist of over 20 years, turned Boundary Coach, and Bestselling Author of The Boundary Revolution: Decolonize Your Relationships and Discover a New Path to Joy. Hear how to move your clients into compassion, why kids become people pleasers, how to hold yourself accountable as a parent, why everyone is valuable, and how to help your clients move back to the truth.

   To learn more about Judy Hu and check out her book, visit:

   JudyHuBoundaryCoach.com

3. 305: Working with Narcissism in Couples Therapy with Wendy Behary

   21 oktober 2026 · 44 min

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   Sign up for Shane's 6-week live training program, Couples Therapy Intensives: The Blueprint, before it starts on October 27, 2026 here: https://cit.shanebirkel.com/blueprint

   Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/

   Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new

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   In this episode, Shane talks with Wendy Behary about working with narcissism in couples therapy. Wendy is the Bestselling Author of Disarming the Narcissist and the Founder and Director of The Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and The Schema Therapy Institutes of NJ-NYC and DC. Hear how the perception of narcissism has changed over the past 30 years, what narcissism looks like in a relationship, how to think about leverage when it comes to couples therapy, how to empower the partner of a narcissist, and why schema therapy is a good fit for these types of relationships.

   To learn more about Wendy Behary and check out her book, visit:

   DisarmingTheNarcissist.com

   You can also listen to Wendy Behary on Episode 82 & Episode 210 of The Couples Therapist Couch

4. 304: Attachment Theory & Relationships with Dr. Thais Gibson

   13 oktober 2026 · 1 uur

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   Sign up for Shane's free live training "What Do You Actually Do in a Couples Intensive? The 4 Cs in Action" on October 16, 2026 at Noon ET here: https://us02web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_lCoPXtPfTxaP_s2ATDr98Q

   Sign up for Shane's 6-week live training program, Couples Therapy Intensives: The Blueprint, before it starts on October 27, 2026 here: https://cit.shanebirkel.com/blueprint

   Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/

   Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new

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   In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. Thais Gibson about attachment theory & relationships. Thais is a Relationship Expert, Co-Founder of The Personal Development School, and Author of 3 books on attachment theory. Hear why it helps to understand why we feel stuck, how influential attachment theory is on our lives, how to explore core wounds with your clients, how to set up goals with your clients, and how to help your clients find their truth.

   To learn more about Dr. Thais Gibson, visit:

   PersonalDevelopmentSchool.com

   YouTube @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

   Instagram @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool

5. 303: Are You Practicing the Way You Actually Want to Practice? With Shane Birkel

   6 oktober 2026 · 25 min

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   Sign up for Shane's 6-week live training program, Couples Therapy Intensives: The Blueprint, before it starts on October 27, 2026 here: https://cit.shanebirkel.com/blueprint

   Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/

   Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new

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   In this solo episode, Shane poses the question: Are you practicing the way you actually want to practice? Hear how to think outside the box when it comes to your couples therapy practice, why we should question the traditional couples therapy model, what your clients will think if you start offering intensives, the difference between competency & certainty when it comes to couples therapy, and how to get over what's holding you back as a couples therapist.

6. 302: Guilt & Relationships with Dr. Jennifer Reid

   1 oktober 2026 · 51 min

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   Sign up for Shane's free live training "Beyond the 50-Minute Session: How to Start Offering Couples Therapy Intensives" on October 2, 2026 at Noon ET here: https://us02web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_WPzz0aBYTlObz31MdlDpKg

   Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/

   Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new

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   In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. Jennifer Reid about guilt & relationships. Jennifer is a board-certified psychiatrist, award-winning educator, creator and host of A Mind of Her Own podcast and Substack, and the author of Guilt Free: Reclaiming Your Life from Unreasonable Expectations. Hear how women & men tend to experience guilt differently, what to do when there's seemingly no way to satisfy your guilt, how guilt often shows up in relationships, how to avoid losing your voice in your relationship, and how boundaries relate to guilt.

   To learn more about Dr. Jennifer Reid and Guilt Free: Reclaiming Your Life from Unreasonable Expectations, visit:

   JenniferReidMD.com

7. 301: Longer Therapy Sessions with Shane Birkel

   21 september 2026 · 18 min

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   Sign up for Shane's free live training "Beyond the 50-Minute Session: How to Start Offering Couples Therapy Intensives" on October 2, 2026 at Noon ET here: https://us02web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_WPzz0aBYTlObz31MdlDpKg

   Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/

   Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new

   Join The Couples Therapist Couch Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/295562197518469/

   In this solo episode, Shane talks longer therapy sessions. Hear why couples therapists need to be working in longer sessions when meeting with couples, what to do if you run out of time in a couples therapy session, why you should focus on the betrayer first in an affair, why couples therapy is a very difficult art form, and how long couples therapy intensives should be.

8. 300: Brave Love, Great Sex with Dr. Laurie Watson & George Faller

   14 september 2026 · 42 min

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   Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/

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   In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. Laurie Watson & George Faller about Brave Love, Great Sex. Laurie is an internationally recognized sex therapist, couples counselor, and educator with over 35 years of experience helping people heal their most intimate relationships. George is a husband, father, therapist, educator, speaker, author, and global leader in helping people reconnect and strengthen their relationships. Their latest book is Brave Love, Great Sex: Harnessing Attachment Theory for Passionate Relationships. Hear the sexual side of attachment theory, the 3 systems in a romantic relationship, how to work with clients where only 1 partner wants to have sex, the role of compassion when it comes to sex, and the safety couples therapists provide to clients when talking about sex.

   To learn more about Dr. Laurie Watson & George Faller, visit:

   LaurieWatson.com

   GeorgeFaller.com

   Brave Love, Great Sex Book & Podcast

   You can also listen to George Faller on Episode 47 of The Couples Therapist Couch

9. 299: Understanding Shame with Dr. Frank Spinelli

   7 september 2026 · 52 min

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   In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. Frank Spinelli about understanding shame. Frank is a Physician, Health Coach, Author, and passionate advocate whose groundbreaking work bridges healthcare, storytelling, and social justice. His latest book is The Shame Compass: A Radical Framework for Trauma Healing and Self-Acceptance. Hear why shame is like a beach ball, why there's nothing positive about toxic shame, why guilt can be healthy for couples, what happens with adults who were shamed as a kid, and the top reasons women & men feel shame.

   To learn more about Dr. Frank Spinelli, visit:

   FrankSpinelli.com

   The Shame Compass: A Radical Framework for Trauma Healing and Self-Acceptance

10. 298: Part 2: The Tao of Love, Sex, and Deep Intimacy with Arjuna Ardagh

    3 september 2026 · 55 min

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    In this Part 2 of 2, Shane talks with Arjuna Ardagh about The Tao of Love, Sex, and Deep Intimacy. Arjuna supports couples in the practice of conscious relationships and Taoist sexual practices. Hear how to help couples deepen their sense of truth in the world, what to do when partners have different levels of sexual desire, the most common ways couples start relationships, how to help partners share what they truly want with each other, and how couples can practice these concepts at home.

    To learn more about Arjuna Ardagh and The Tao of Love, Sex, and Deep Intimacy, visit:

    TaoOfDeepIntimacy.com

    Instagram @TheTaoOfDeepIntimacy

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