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  1. Jessica Hagy on How to Be Fearless

    11 augustus 2021 · 55 min

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    Jessica Hagy is an artist and writer of many books which have been translated into over a dozen languages. Her blog, Indexed, won a Webby award. She is a visual storyteller and her simple, brilliant drawings illustrate the connections between things.
    In this episode, Jessica and Eric talk about her book, How to Be Fearless: In 7 Simple Steps.
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    Her book, How to Be Fearless: In 7 Simple Steps

    That inside every fear is a hope

    Dwell on what you want instead of what worries you

    How envy isn’t shameful, it’s powerful

    How her diagrams boil things down to their essence

    Ways we can build hope within ourselves

    How one small accomplishment motivates you towards your next

    Resourcefulness as finding treasure everywhere

    That intense emotions aren’t a problem, they can be our power

    The importance of making plans to make progress

    The relationship between isolation and fear

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  2. Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor on Whole Brain Living

    6 augustus 2021 · 56 min

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    Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor is a Harvard-trained and published neuroanatomist. In 1996, Jill experienced a severe hemorrhage in the left hemisphere of her brain, causing her to lose the ability to walk, talk, read, write, or recall any of her life. Her memoir, My Stroke of Insight documents her experience with her stroke and her 8-year recovery and it spent 63 weeks on the New York Times bestseller list. Her new book is Whole Brain Living: The Anatomy of Choice and the Four Characters that Drive Our Life.
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    Her book, Whole Brain Living: The Anatomy of Choice and the Four Characters That Drive Our Life

    The wolf parable as it relates to the right and left hemispheres of the brain

    The differences between the right and left brain and how they work together

    Losing her left brain function as a result of a stroke and being left with just the present moment

    The division between the science of the left brain and the spirituality of the right brain

    The function of the amygdala in the left and right hemispheres

    Four different “characters” of the brain

    How we can change the habitual patterning of our circuitry

    Mindfulness is choosing purposefully to train our automatic responses

    A “brain huddle” is bringing the four characters together as a team

    B.R.A.I.N. huddle: breath, recognize, appreciate, inquire, navigate

    Our lives are a collaboration of our whole brain

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  3. Adyashanti on Spiritual Awakening

    4 augustus 2021 · 55 min

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    This is Adyashanti’s fourth time as a guest on the show! He’s an American spiritual teacher who offers talks, online study courses, and retreats in the U.S. and abroad. He’s also the co-founder of the Open Gate Sangha Meditation Center and is the author of many books, including the one he and Eric discuss in this episode, The Direct Way: Thirty Practices to Evoke Awakening.
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    His book, The Direct Way: Thirty Practices to Evoke Awakening

    The evolution of his innate competitive nature and its role in his spiritual growth

    That we tend to go towards our strengths in any situation, regardless of whether or not it’s what the situation actually calls for

    How he describes spirituality

    His teacher’s instruction to him: “Always and only teach from your own experience.”

    His answer to the question What do you trust?

    The Spiritual Heart

    The difference he sees in awakening and enlightenment

    The damaging myths of awakening

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  4. Johann Hari on Lost Connections

    30 juli 2021 · 1 uur 4 min

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    Johann Hari is the New York Times bestselling author of Chasing the Scream, which has been adapted into a feature film. Johann was twice named ‘National Newspaper Journalist of the Year’ by Amnesty International UK He has written for the New York Times, the Los Angeles Times, and many other publications. His latest book is Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression and the Unexpected Solutions,
    In this episode, Johann and Eric discuss his book that proposes a more holistic, societal look at the causes and treatment of depression.
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    His new book, Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression and the Unexpected Solutions

    The two kinds of human connection

    Intrinsic (internal) and extrinsic (external) motivations

    “Junk” values

    The more you’re driven by extrinsic values, the more likely you’ll suffer from anxiety and depression in your life

    Our society drives us to live in this extrinsic way

    The whole point of advertising is to make us feel inadequate and our problems can be solved by buying

    Extrinsic motives can crowd out the more fulfilling intrinsic motives

    The 9 causes of depression and anxiety

    The need to look more holistically at anxiety and depression than just a chemical imbalance

    The loneliest culture that has ever been

    The importance of addressing the deep environmental factors/reasons why we’re so depressed and anxious

    Our sense of home and sense of belonging

    The problems manifested by being isolated and alone and the benefit of being part of a “tribe”

    Realizing that you’re not the only one who struggles and feels the way you do

    Grief and the diagnosis of depre…

  5. Sonya Renee Taylor on Radical Self Love

    28 juli 2021 · 55 min

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    Sonya Renee Taylor is a former national and international poetry slam champion, author, educator, and activist. She is also the founder of The Body Is Not An Apology, which is a digital media and education company promoting radical self-love and body empowerment as the foundational tool for social justice and global transformation.
    In this episode, Sonya and Eric discuss radical self-love: what it is, why we struggle to practice it, and the pathways to cultivate it so that we become the highest version of ourselves
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    Her book, The Body Is Not An Apology: The Power of Radical Self Love

    Natural Intelligence says that we come here already wired to become the highest version of ourselves

    How she defines our “body” and how to uncover our issues which are the result of damaging societal messages

    How we can heal our issues with our body

    How to remove the obstructions that tell us we’re not enough, clearing the way to radical self-love

    The role of inquiry and insight on the path to radical self-love

    That even after profound insights, it can take a while for us to live these harmful conditionings out of our system

    The three “peaces”

    The metaphor of the acorn and the oak tree

    The four pillars of practice

    The collective nature of this journey

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  6. Rainn Wilson & Reza Aslan on Spiritual Journeys

    23 juli 2021 · 59 min

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    Rainn Wilson is a well-known actor, comedian, podcaster, producer, and writer. He’s also a former guest of The One You Feed, and this time, he is with Reza Aslan, Reza is a professor of creative writing at the University of California, Riverside, and is the best-selling author of Zealot, The Life and Times of Jesus of Nazareth. Rainn and Reza host the popular podcast, Metaphysical Milkshake.
    In this episode, Rainn & Reza discuss spirituality, religion, and this journey called life.
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    Their new podcast, Metaphysical Milkshake

    Happiness, positive psychology, and Dr. Martin Seligman’s work

    How increased joy and well being comes from acts of service

    Realizing that what you are seeking is already within you

    The spiritual act of pausing rather than reacting

    Rituals as a form of remembering

    Beliefs are meaningless if we don’t practice regularly

    The journey to find God is internal, not outside of us

    Esoteric and exoteric properties of religion

    Faith and doubt and how they are meant to go together

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  7. Mingyur Rinpoche on Falling in Love With the World

    21 juli 2021 · 58 min

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    Mingyur Rinpoche is a much-loved and accomplished Tibetan Buddhist meditation teacher. When not attending the monasteries under his care in Inda and Nepal, Rinpoche spends time each year traveling and teaching worldwide.
    In this episode, Mingyur Rinpoche talks about his book, In Love With The World: A Monks Journey Through The Bardos of Living and Dying.
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    His book, In Love With The World: A Monk’s Journey Through The Bardos of Living and Dying

    The power of choosing where we place our attention

    How the opportunity to experience yourself differently is always available

    Why it’s important to differentiate between yourself and your emotions

    What his father told him about his panic attacks as a young child

    Object-oriented meditation vs. Subject-oriented meditation

    The power of letting feelings come and go while resting in awareness, which is something bigger

    The only reliable liberation from suffering

    That it’s our preoccupation with a problem that nails it in place

    How to work with difficult feelings and situations in life so that we suffer less

    His 4-year wandering retreat

    The lesson he learned: If you love the world, the world loves you back

    His near-death experience

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  8. Sophia Bush on Curiosity and Activism

    16 juli 2021 · 1 uur

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    Sophia Bush is an American actress, activist, director, and producer. She starred as Brooke Davis in the WB/CW drama series One Tree Hill and as Erin Lindsay in the NBC police procedural drama series Chicago P.D. She hosts the podcast, “Work in Progress” and is also well known for her philanthropy work and social activism.
    In this episode, Eric and Sophia share a meaningful conversation about a variety of things including spirituality, nature, curiosity, maturity, growth, and activism.
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    The dangerous idea of trying to be perfect and ignoring the bad feelings

    Seeing the “flat” versions of others and not the whole person

    How her work is what she does, but not who she is

    Her desire to make connections with real people

    The ebb and flow of balancing her work and personal life

    Nature and the environment as her house of worship

    Spirituality and how it allows her to relinquish her desire for control

    The wisdom in spiritual traditions

    Maturity is learning to be okay with not having answers

    Her capacity to be more tender and curious

    Asking what we can do to change policies and systems

    Everyone has a part to play in activism on important topics

    How anxiety and self-criticism show up in her life

    Her collection of affirmations and evidence of the truth

    Making space for fear and leaning into the truth from trusted people

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  9. Philip Goldberg on Perspectives and Spiritual Practices

    14 juli 2021 · 47 min

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    Philip Goldberg is a skilled public speaker, meditation teacher, and an ordained Interfaith Minister. He also leads tours to India and cohosts the popular podcast, “Spirit Matters Talk.”
    In this episode, Eric and Philip discuss his book, Spiritual Practice for Crazy Times: Powerful Tools to Cultivate Calm, Clarity, and Courage
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    His book, Spiritual Practice for Crazy Times: Powerful Tools to Cultivate Calm, Clarity, and Courage

    How a spiritual practice gives us a foundation for managing life’s challenges

    His experience of seeking equanimity over the years

    The importance of practicing meditation daily

    Incorporating practices before meditation, such as movement or yoga pose

    Practices for after meditation when you’re in a deeper, quieter place

    Learning to pay attention and shift our thoughts from the extremes

    How resilience comes from regularly practicing these approaches

    Spiritual perspective expands your view from a bigger place

    Scientific perspective of finding the awe and vastness of time and space

    Historical perspective of looking at world conditions throughout history

    Perspective from asking what we can learn from this experience

    Perspective of human interconnectedness

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  10. Christopher Keevil on Finding Zen in the Ordinary

    9 juli 2021 · 53 min

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    Christopher Keevil is an ordained Zen teacher who has been practicing since 1991 and teaching since 1998 in the lineage of his teacher, Zen Master Bo Mun. He is also the Managing Director and founder of Wellspring Consulting and is the founder and host teacher of Garden Oak Sangha.
    In this episode, Eric and Christopher discuss his book, Finding Zen in the Ordinary: Stories and Reflections
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    His book, Finding Zen in the Ordinary: Stories and Reflections

    Learning to live life by choosing to be here and now

    Paying attention in the present moment and seeing what’s here without judgment

    Meditation tips for beginners

    Meditation practice is training to become present

    His process of writing and finding deeper meaning

    Visualizing spiritual growth as a helix that has movement and cycles

    How our deeper self can move us to take action

    Having both faith, doubt, and courage in life

    The emotional imperative of “I am” is a mirage

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  11. Resmaa Menakem on Racialized Trauma

    7 juli 2021 · 50 min

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    Resmaa Menakem is a therapist with decades of experience who is currently in private practice in Minneapolis, Minnesota. He specializes in trauma, body-centered psychotherapy, and violence prevention. He has also appeared on the Oprah Winfrey Show and Dr. Phil as an expert in conflict and violence.
    In this episode, Eric and Resmaa discuss his book, My Grandmother’s Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending our Hearts and Bodies.
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    His book, My Grandmother’s Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending our Hearts and Bodies

    His definition of Trauma: Something that happened too much, too soon, too fast, or too long without something that was reparative

    A sense of stuckness as an indicator of Trauma

    Racialized Trauma

    Looking at White and Black Body Trauma

    White body supremacy

    Being nice vs. being anti-racist

    Tuning into our bodies to heal racial Trauma

    Collective healing

    The power of not jumping to intellectualizing the wounds that need healing

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  12. Rutger Bregman on Human Nature and Hope

    2 juli 2021 · 59 min

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    Rutger Bregman is one of Europe’s most prominent young thinkers. A historian and author, Rutger has published several books on history, philosophy, and economics. His book, History of Progress, was awarded the Belgian Liberales Prize for best nonfiction book of 2013.
    In this episode, Eric and Rutger discuss his book Humankind: A Hopeful History, where they delve into the scientific, historical, and philosophical components of human nature.
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    His book, Humankind: A Hopeful History

    Asking the scientific questions and the philosophical questions

    The opposing theories of basic human nature

    Evolutionary biology and the survival of the friendliest

    Collective intelligence is what makes humans special

    The paradox of humans being the kindest and also the cruelest species

    His rules for a realistic view of human nature: when in doubt, assume the best

    The broken systems that are created for the small percentage rather than the largest percentage of people

    Pygmalion effect is the power of expectations; we become what we think we will become

    Important distinctions between empathy and compassion

    Understanding that changing the world begins with changing ourselves

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  13. Jacqueline Suskin on Poetry in Everyday Life

    30 juni 2021 · 55 min

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    Jacqueline Suskin is a poet, educator, and author of many books and collections. She is best known for her project Poem Store, where she composes improvisational poetry for patrons who choose a topic in exchange for a unique verse. Poem Store has been her main occupation since 2009 and has taken her around the world writing nearly 40,000 spontaneous poems. Her new book is Every Day is a Poem: Find Clarity, Feel Relief, and See Beauty in Every Moment.
    In this episode, Eric and Jacqueline share a meaningful conversation about the beauty of poetry and how it is accessible to everyone simply by bringing awareness and cultivating awe in our everyday lives.
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    Her book, Every Day is a Poem: Find Clarity, Feel Relief, and See Beauty in Every Moment

    How darkness can be a beautiful teacher

    Poetry bridges the gap between pain and greater possibility

    Listening to peoples’ stories and being able to reflect what they’re feeling through her poems

    How poetry and art reflect the energy needed to make important choices in life

    The word awe contains both fear and wonder

    How we can learn to cultivate awe in our lives

    Learning to see things in the way a poet does

    The heart of poetry is curiosity, observation, and connecting small things to large things

    Learning to choose meaning in your life

    How writing things down clarifies things for yourself

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  14. Krista Tippett on Being Human

    25 juni 2021 · 46 min

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    Krista Tippett is the host of On Being, the Peabody Award-winning public radio show and podcast. On Being opens up the animating questions at the center of human life. What does it mean to be human and how do we want to live? Krista is the author of “Speaking of Faith: Why Religion Matters” and “Einstein’s God: Conversations About Science and the Human Spirit.”
    In this episode, Eric and Krista talk about what it means to be human and the importance of learning to listen when asking the big questions in life.
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    Her work as a journalist trying to bring humanness to the stories

    How science and religion ask different questions

    Listening is a spiritual virtue that we need to cultivate

    The big question of what it means to be human

    Loving and living life’s questions

    Paradox and ambiguity of human existence

    Having a reverence for mystery

    Depression as a black pandora’s box

    The things that go wrong for us become part of our gifts to the world

    The path to spiritual genius is through being fully human

    Spirituality is the inner work that accompanies the outer work of our lives

    Humor as a spiritual virtue

    How she has never met a wise person who does not laugh often

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  15. Seifu Singh-Molares on Spiritual Direction

    22 juni 2021 · 48 min

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    Reverand Seifu Singh-Molares is the Executive Director of Spiritual Directors International and an ordained Zen Buddhist Priest. He’s a practicing Spiritual Director and Companion and motivational speaker. In a previous life, he was an executive at Microsoft where he successfully grew international groups and divisions and provided leadership to multicultural teams around the world.
    In this episode, Eric and Seifu talk about the role of a Spiritual Director or Spiritual Companion in helping us find our way on our own spiritual path.
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    That we have choices and we become our intentions

    What the terms Spiritual Direction or Spiritual Companion means

    The role of deep listening in Spiritual Direction

    The intimate infinite

    The difference between a Spiritual Companion and a Priest or Reverend

    What goes on during a Spiritual Direction session

    The role of relaxing into the unknowing to find our own way

    Learning to live into and love the questions of our life

    Finding authenticity in the world’s great religions

    The mystery of the truth that love permeates the universe

    What the word spiritual means to him

    The role of music in his spiritual journey

    His experiential shamanic education

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  16. Jonah Sachs on Unsafe Thinking

    18 juni 2021 · 57 min

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    Jonah Sachs is an author, speaker, and viral marketing trailblazer who helped spur the 21st-century values revolution, which brought the ideas of social change to the forefront of business and popular culture. Jonah’s work has been featured in the New York Times, Washington Post, CNN, Fox News, NPR, and many others. He also pens a column for Fast Company, which named him one of today’s 50 most influential social innovators.
    In this episode, Eric and Jonah talk about the ways he encourages and challenges us to think differently in an effort to bring forth important social change.
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    His book, Unsafe Thinking: How To Be Nimble and Bold When You Need It Most

    His organization “One Project” and its important mission

    How his unique storytelling approach creates a compelling narrative for important social change

    What individuals can do to contribute to change

    The radical act of volunteering more and working for pay less

    The safe thinking cycle is relying on your old patterns of thinking

    What fear and stress do in our brain

    Learning to use fear as a way to empower yourself

    How stepping out into the uncomfortable zones is what leads to change

    Motivational synergy is about focusing on both the intrinsic motivational factors and extrinsic motivation to keep it going

    Creative work and understanding the trap of intuition

    Cultivating intuition by continuing to explore new ideas and ways of thinking

    How redefining problems can lead to new solutions

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  17. Scott Stabile on Perfecting Self-Love

    16 juni 2021 · 1 uur

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    Scott Stabile has amassed a sizable following on social media with his inspirational and provocative quotes, essays, and videos. His previous work includes Big Love, Just Love, Iris, and the Li’l Pet Hospital series. He also wrote a feature film entitled Oogieloves In The Big Baloon Adventure. He’s a regular contributor to the Huffington Post and runs empowerment workshops nationally and internationally.
    In this episode, Eric and Scott talk about self-love; the myths about it, the things that stand in the way of it, and how we can cultivate more of it.
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    His game-changing realization that he can show up with love for himself no matter which wolf he’s feeding

    How he’s releasing self-judgment and what he’s then left with

    That our thoughts create our feelings and it’s worthwhile to explore that within ourselves

    How we can become addicted to our misery

    Expansion as a healthy and healing coping mechanism

    His beautifully extreme practice of self-love

    How he cultivates peace and ease in his life through his choices

    Knowing for ourselves that we can feel our feelings and survive them

    The truth that we all have divine, creator energy within us, the same energy that created planets and stars is within us

    The relationship between our thoughts and our emotions

    The big impact of realizing the ways we are already loving ourselves throughout our day

    That the reason we want the things we want is because of how they will make us feel and how we can give ourselves the gift of these feelings now

    The things we can do to create more joy and connection in our life

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  18. Valerie Mason-John on Recovery Through Buddha's Teachings

    11 juni 2021 · 55 min

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    Dr. Valerie Mason-John is a public speaker and master trainer in the field of conflict transformation, leadership and mindfulness. Valerie is the award-winning author of 8 books, and the co-author and co-founder of Eight Step Recovery: Using The Buddha’s Teaching to Overcome Addiction. Since its publication, it has won the Best USA Book Award 2014 and Best International Book Award 2015 in the self-motivational and self-help category.
    In this episode, Eric and Valerie discuss: Eight Step Recovery: Using the Buddha’s Teaching to Overcome Addiction
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    Their book, Eight Step Recovery: Using the Buddha’s Teaching to Overcome Addiction

    Their history of addiction to drugs, alcohol, and disordered eating

    Their traumatic history leading to multiple addictions

    Thinking of expansive values at the center of our lives

    How addiction is an adaptive behavior to soothe ourselves

    The first 3 steps of their recovery process are based on the 4 noble truths

    How we can’t avoid pain, but we can learn to avoid suffering

    How we can become addicted to our “stinking thinking”

    Meditation helps regulate the central nervous system

    What it means to seek refuge in dealing with addiction

    How the Buddha achieved freedom from the prison of the mind

    Dharma teachings that point us to the truth and freedom

    The benefit of Sangha or community in overcoming addiction

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  19. Jay Michaelson on Enlightenment by Trial and Error

    9 juni 2021 · 52 min

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    Jay Michaelson is a columnist for The Daily Beast and a frequent commentator on MSNBC and NPR. Jay is also a teacher and an editor at Ten-Percent Happier, a leading meditation platform. He has written several books on contemplative practice.
    In this episode, Eric and Jay discuss his book, Enlightenment by Trial and Error: Ten Years on the Slippery Slopes of Jewish Spirituality, Postmodern Buddhism, and Other Mystical Heresies
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    His book, Enlightenment by Trial and Error: Ten Years on the Slippery Slopes of Jewish Spirituality, Postmodern Buddhism, and Other Mystical Heresies

    The goal of becoming 10% happier by meditating

    The myth that meditation is about finding your Zen

    Realization and responsibility in the Jewish mystical path

    His review of Leonard Cohen’s song “The Goal”

    His short story “The Beard”

    How letting go allows for more opening

    Living aspects of the middle way

    How his LGBT activist work and meditation work enriched each other

    The commonality between his Buddhist and Jewish spiritual practices

    Remembering to remember – how the mind eventually learns to remember with practice

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  20. Grace Schireson on Practical Zen

    4 juni 2021 · 55 min

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    Grace Schireson is president of Shogaku Zen and received her doctorate in Clinical Psychology at the Wright Institute in Berkeley, California. She founded two practice centers and a retreat center under the Central Valley Zen Foundation.
    In this episode, Eric and Grace discuss her book, Naked in the Zendo: Stories of Uptight Zen, Wild-Ass Zen, and Enlightenment Wherever You Are
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    Her book, Naked in the Zendo: Stories of Uptight Zen, Wild-Ass Zen, and Enlightenment Wherever You Are

    How we need to recognize our ego

    The importance of seeing our existence within the large space of awareness

    “WITBOW” (Wishing It To Be Otherwise) is a formula for suffering

    The essential koan “When nothing will do, what will you do?

    Awareness is recognizing your true self and your connection to the entire universe

    Mindlessness is just pure awareness and no ownership

    The 4 stages of developing awareness

    The important lesson of making mistakes often and publicly

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  21. Chris Bosh on Playing the Inner Game

    2 juni 2021 · 52 min

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    Chris Bosh is a NBA Hall of Famer, eleven-time All Star, two-time NBA Champion, and Olympic Gold Medalist. Chris had his playing days cut short in their prime by a freak medical condition but he hasn’t let that stop him.
    In this episode, Eric and Chris discuss his book, Letters to a Young Athlete.
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    His book, Letters to a Young Athlete

    What inspired him to write this book

    The way his career ended and the surprising impact it had on his soul

    How your “what” can be taken away but your “why” cannot

    Digging in and getting to your deeper why

    The role of intrinsic and extrinsic motivations

    The difference between ego and confidence

    How he handles criticism

    The context and impact of daily habits

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  22. Radha Agrawal on How to Find Joy and Community

    28 mei 2021 · 43 min

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    Radha Agrawal is the co-founder and CEO of Daybreaker, the early morning global dance and wellness move-ment in 30 cities and five continents. She recently launched the science-backed platform, DOSE by Daybreaker, a first-of-its-kind membership and community to practice JOY with the goal of making “practicing joy” as ubiquitous as practicing yoga and meditation.
    Eric and Radha discuss her book, Belong: Find Your People, Create Community, and Live a More Connected Life about the importance of finding community and practicing joy every day.
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    Her book, Belong: Find Your People, Create Community, and Live a More Connected Life

    How having poor social connections is harmful to your health

    Her work connecting joy and belonging

    Problems with labeling ourselves as an introvert or extrovert

    How our bodies remember what our minds may not

    Honoring the balance of internal joy and collective joy

    How we can feel safer to live in our trauma stories

    Understanding how joy is a daily practice

    To increase our joy, we must get out of our heads

    Her joy practices, including dancing while sober and blindfolded

    Breathwork and moving meditation

    What the brain does with music and dancing

    Practicing being in joy across different ages and generations

    Auditing your life and finding what brings you joy

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  23. Dr. Chris Niebauer on Neuropsychology and the Thinking Mind

    26 mei 2021 · 50 min

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    Dr. Chris Niebauer holds a Ph.D. in cognitive neuropsychology, specializing in the differences between the left and the right sides of the human brain. He is currently a professor at Slippery Rock University in Pennsylvania, where he teaches courses on consciousness, mindfulness, left and right brain differences, and artificial intelligence.
    In this episode, Eric and Chris discuss No Self, No Problem: How Neuropsychology is Catching Up to Buddhism
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    His book, No Self, No Problem: How Neuropsychology is Catching Up to Buddhism

    How the “Mind 1.0 program” is an outdated program that we’re all running on

    We don’t update this “program” because we don’t know it’s there

    Understanding the concept of self and the idea of who we think we are

    Our thinking mind is not accurate, but we think our thoughts are reality

    More thinking doesn’t solve a thinking problem

    Differences between left and right brain thinking

    Disconnecting the thinking mind from consciousness in meditation

    Realizing the limitations of the thinking mind

    How the thinking mind is not who you are and is geared to finding problems

    Recognizing that consciousness is far more vast than the thinking mind

    Neuropsychology function is to tell us who we’re not

    Buddha’s teaching of everything changes

    How perception is a biological function

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  24. Angus Fletcher on Inventions in Literature

    21 mei 2021 · 1 uur 1 min

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    Angus Fletcher is a Professor of Story Science at Ohio States Project Narrative, the world’s leading academic think-tank for the study of stories. He has dual degrees in neuroscience and literature and received his Ph.D. from Yale. He also taught Shakespeare at Stanford and has published several books and dozens of peer-reviewed articles on the scientific workings of novels, poetry, film, and theater.
    In this episode, Eric and Angus discuss his book, WonderWorks: The 25 Most Powerful Inventions in the History of Literature, and how we can use literature to bring wisdom, love, courage, creativity, and curiosity into your life.
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    His book, WonderWorks: The 25 Most Powerful Inventions in the History of Literature

    His unique and opposing view to parables

    Life is about learning to be more skilled at being who we are

    How literature affects the brain

    His definition of invention in reference to literature

    Literature is the first technology for spirituality

    How reading in school lean into our primary responses from literature

    His inspiration and hero, Mayou Angelou

    The dilemma of sharing our wisdom with children

    Affirming the underlying emotions and values in our livesGrowth in life is changing the external things

    Our life is like a plant that grows into its place in the sun, the garden of life

    Commitment is an act of courage

    Feelings aren’t what define usHow being human is really hard

    How literature can help with regulating emotions

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  25. George Saunders on Writing and Transformation

    19 mei 2021 · 1 uur 1 min

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    George Saunders is the author of eleven books including, Tenth of December, which was a finalist for the National Book Award and won the inaugural Folio Prize in 2013 (for the best work of fiction in English) and the Story Prize (best short story collection). He has received MacArthur and Guggenheim Fellowships, the PEN/Malamud Prize for excellence in the short story, and is a member of the American Academy of Arts and Letters, and the American Academy of Arts and Sciences. George also teaches in the Creative Writing Program at Syracuse University.
    In this episode, Eric and George discuss his book, A Swim in a Pond in the Rain.
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    His book, A Swim in a Pond in the Rain

    That we are not powerless to decide what kind of person we’ll become

    Some key Cognitive Distortions from which we all suffer

    The Darwinian Confusions that we have

    Living with the Ego while also renouncing the Ego

    The question of can people change and if so, how?

    How and why small adjustments do matter in the grand scheme of things

    The exponential impact of setting an intention

    The way he maintains a beginners mind amidst repetition

    The “urgent patience” he’s cultivated within himself

    The “cousins” of meditation

    Valuing and blessing our own reactions to what we read

    How to know when we should trust ourselves

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  26. Susan Piver on The Four Noble Truths of Love

    14 mei 2021 · 57 min

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    Susan Piver is a New York Times bestselling author of 9 books and a renowned Buddhist teacher. Her book, The Four Noble Truths of Love: Buddhist Wisdom for Modern Relationships walks us through the Four Noble Truths of Buddhism as they apply to relationships.
    In this special episode pulled from our archive, Susan and Eric discuss her interpretation of the four noble truths and how she applies this wisdom to love and relationships.
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    Her book, The Four Noble Truths of Love: Buddhist Wisdom for Modern Relationships

    The emotions underneath fear, hatred, and greed

    Depression being a calcified sadness

    The four noble truths of love

    Feeling your feelings without the story and ask yourself what it feels like in your body and environment

    Differences between anger and irritation in the body

    How enormous space opens up when we drop expectations

    The threefold path: Precision, Openness, Going beyond

    The role and importance of good manners and honesty in relationships

    Opening to the other person as they are in a relationship

    Intimacy in relationships has no end

    How you can’t think your way into intimacy or inspiration – they come when you make the space

    Passion between two people will constantly arise, abide, and dissolve

    Relax with what is and space will open up

    Her interpretation of the concept of non-attachment/detachment

    A spiritual practice frees people up to feel everything in the moment, as it is

    Your life IS the spi…

  27. Paul Mc Carroll on Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder

    12 mei 2021 · 58 min

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    Paul Mc Carroll is an Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and anxiety specialist, therapist, and mental health trainer from Belfast, Ireland. As someone who once struggled greatly with OCD, Paul’s story is unique: he now works as a mental health trainer in the hospital in which he was once a patient. He uses his story to inspire hope, reaffirm that recovery is possible, and help clients to stop struggling and start living.
    In this episode, Paul and Eric discuss OCD, including what it is, what it’s like to suffer from it, and various treatment options that exist that can help someone to heal from this disorder.
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    Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

    His experience suffering from Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) beginning in his teenage years

    His truth and life story of “the wounded becomes the healer”

    The Japanese proverb, “Fall down 7 times, get up 8” as it relates to recovery being non-linear

    What to do with intrusive thoughts when they show up

    The difference between extreme worry and OCD

    Ruminating thoughts

    Treatments for OCD

    How somatic mindfulness ties into OCD

    Ways to relate differently to our thoughts so that we suffer less

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  28. Sebene Selassie on Belonging and Connection

    7 mei 2021 · 54 min

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    Sebene Selassie is a teacher, author, and speaker who explores the themes of belonging and identity through meditation, creativity, and spirituality. She is also a teacher on the 10 Percent Happier meditation app. Sebene began studying Buddhism 30 years ago and is a three-time cancer survivor of stage 3 and 4 cancer. Her book, You Belong: A Call for Connection is discussed in today's episode.
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    In This Interview, Sebene Selassie and I Discuss Belonging and Connection and...

    Her book, You Belong: A Call for Connection

    Belonging is the feeling of not being separate from anything

    The absolute and relative truth of belonging

    Navigating our imbalances and aversions

    How separation begets domination, which leads to clinging to being right

    The comparing mind measures everything as better than, less than, or equal to

    How our society is structured for comparison and competition

    Our thoughts are often not our own, but come from our culture

    The challenge of recognizing our unconscious bias

    Embodiment practice is bringing mindfulness to your bodily sensations

    Differences between thinking about the body and actually feeling the body

    The different phrasings of the 5 Buddhist Precepts

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  29. Dr. Edith Eger on Life Lessons

    5 mei 2021 · 51 min

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    Dr. Edith Eger is a Holocaust survivor who went on to graduate with a PhD from the University of Texas. She is a prolific author and maintains a busy clinical psychology practice. She is also frequently invited to speaking engagements around the world. Eric and Dr. Eger discuss her book, The Gift: 12 Lessons to Save Your Life
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    Her book, The Gift: 12 Lessons to Save Your LifeI

    If you don’t love yourself, you can’t love others

    How she views her experience in Auschwitz as an opportunity for discovering her inner strength

    The prison of victimhood

    Looking at things from different perspectives

    How we are hungry for affection, attention, and approval

    The opposite of depression is expression

    The prisons of guilt and shame

    The prison of judgment

    Having spiritual freedom

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  30. Special Episode: Knowing vs. Doing (cont.)

    30 april 2021 · 35 min

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    In this special episode, Eric discusses the obstacles that get in the way of us bridging the gap between what we know and what we do and how to overcome these obstacles so that our lives really transform.
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    The obstacle of thinking we need to make big changes

    Having a clear plan

    Triggers are any stimulus that impacts behavior

    Time-based triggers

    Preceding event triggers

    Location-based triggers

    Random triggers (ex. using an app for reminders to do an action)

    Emotional state triggers

    Having too much information makes it harder to apply our knowledge

    Changing the ratio of learning new things to applying what we learn

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  31. Lisa Feldman Barrett on Lessons About the Brain

    28 april 2021 · 1 uur 3 min

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    Lisa Feldman Barrett is among the top one percent most cited scientists in the world for her revolutionary research in psychology and neuroscience. She is a University Distinguished Professor of Psychology at Northeastern University, with appointments at Harvard Medical School and Massachusetts General Hospital. She also received a Guggenheim Fellowship in 2019, the APS Mentor Award for Lifetime Achievement in 2018, and the APA Distinguished Scientific Contribution Award in Psychology in 2021. She is the author of many books including the one discussed in this episode, Seven and a Half Lessons About The Brain.
    In this episode, Eric and Lisa Feldman Barrett discuss key findings about how our brains work and how these findings can help us live a healthier, happier life.
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    Her book, Seven and a Half Lessons About The Brain

    The ways that humans regulate one another contributing to the wellbeing or burdening one another

    That we are the caretaker of other people’s nervous systems

    The fact that we are all also responsible for ourselves

    We are responsible for certain things not necessarily because they’re our fault, but because we’re the only one’s who can change them

    Difference between responsibility and culpability

    The brain’s most important job

    The biggest predictor of illness in adulthood

    What makes you more vulnerable to stressors later in life

    That brains specialize in predicting rather than reacting

    Things we can do to make the quality of our day to day experience feel better

    Flexibility being the key to resilience

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  32. David Kundtz on The Art of Stopping

    23 april 2021 · 45 min

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    David Kundtz is a former director and presenter of Inside Track seminars and a former clergyman turned author. David has sold more than 113,000 books in English, Spanish, and Japanese and has also established a psychotherapy practice in Berkeley, CA. Eric and David discuss his book, The Art of Stopping: How to Be Still When You Have to Keep Going
    In this episode, Eric and David talk about what it means to practice “stopping” in life, including the three components and the many benefits of stopping.
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    His book, The Art of Stopping: How to Be Still When You Have to Keep Going

    Stopping is doing nothing as much as possible in order to wake up, remember who you are and what you want.

    Stopping allows you to be still in order to access the wisdom within us

    The “mountain of too much”

    How stopping allows us to make a distinction between what is important and not important.

    The numbness of moving through life and not experiencing it

    How slowing down helps you to remember

    True relaxation is one of the gifts of stopping

    The 3 components of stopping

    Stillpoints are opportunities to stop, breathe, and remember

    Using your creativity to bring meaning to your still points

    Making triggers to help you remember your still points

    Stopping is a form of meditation

    How spending time in nature is compatible with stopping

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  33. Marianne Williamson on a New Revolution

    21 april 2021 · 49 min

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    Marianne Williamson is an internationally acclaimed author and lecturer. For the last 35 years, Marianne has been one of America’s most known public voices having been a popular guest on television programs such as Oprah, Larry King Live, Bill Maher, and many others. She was also a presidential candidate in the most recent election. Seven of her 12 published books have been New York Times Bestsellers and today she talks about her book, A Politics of Love: A Handbook for a New American Revolution.
    In this episode, Eric and Marianne Williamson discuss the ways forward to create positive change in our society and our world, in the midst of all the difficulties that surround us.
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    Her book, A Politics of Love: A Handbook for a New American Revolution

    How the ego is so loud and the spirit is quiet

    That a common mistake we make when we’re younger is that we don’t take life seriously enough

    The path forward from where we find ourselves today

    What to do when you encounter someone of a different point of view

    That once you start asking the deeper questions, the deeper answers will come

    The starting point for getting involved in creating change

    How to remain involved in actively changing the broken parts of the system

    That we need to display as much conviction behind our love as some display behind their hate

    The invitation to rise to the challenges before us

    Healing the polarization of today’s political climate

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  34. James Nestor on The Science of Breathing

    16 april 2021 · 56 min

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    James Nestor is an author and journalist who has written for Outside Magazine, The Atlantic, National Public Radio, The New York Times, and many more. Eric and James discuss his NY Times bestseller book, “Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art”
    In this episode, Eric and James Nestor discuss the science of breathing, the importance of nasal breathing as opposed to mouth breathing, and the tremendous health benefits of breathing well.
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    His book, Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art

    How breath is the missing pillar of good health

    His experience of participating in a study where he did only mouth breathing for 10 days

    The detrimental effects of mouth breathing such as high blood pressure, sleep apnea and snoring

    Understanding that the nose is the first line of defense for our bodies

    His experience of only nasal breathing and how the negative effects of mouth breathing were immediately reversed

    The best breathing is gentle breath in for 5-6 seconds and gentle breath out for 5-6 seconds

    Good breathing increases the connections between the different areas of the brain

    Breathing slower and exhaling longer can help with anxiety or panic attacks

    How lung capacity can improve with healthier breathing habits

    How we get more energy from the air than good nutrition

    The different breathing methods and techniques are like interval training for your lungs

    Breathing well is vital to good health and longevity and is as important as eating well and exercise

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  35. Knowing vs. Doing: Overcoming the Obstacles that Get in Our Way

    15 april 2021 · 13 min

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  36. Lenuta Hellen Nadolu on Courage and Survival

    14 april 2021 · 43 min

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    Lenuta Hellen Nadolu is a loving mother, a successful entrepreneur, and, as you’ll find out in this interview – a survivor. Most recently, Helen was a guest speaker at a United Nations High Commissioners For Refugees Charitable Event in Support of Women and Girls in The Democratic Republic of Congo.
    In this episode, Eric and Hellen discuss her new book, Give Me Courage: The Inspiring True Story Of Survival and Escape.
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    Her book, Give Me Courage: The Inspiring True Story Of Survival and Escape

    Her experience growing up in a struggling communist country

    Meeting her future husband, the doctor who cared for her mother in the hospital

    The extraordinary circumstances under which she was able to marry her husband

    Her move to Africa in consideration of her daughter

    The love, care, and, respect she found in Ghana

    When her husband decided to marry a 2nd wife

    Her experience as the first white woman to divorce a black man in the Ghanian court

    Why she decided to pack her bags, take her children and fly illegally – smuggling her children – out of Ghana

    Her dream of giving her children a life free of the racist abuse they had experienced

    The psychic who told her where to what country she would move

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  37. Eiman Al Zaabi on Finding Grace

    9 april 2021 · 49 min

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    Eiman Al Zaabi is a Muslim spiritual teacher who integrates the principles of harmony, beauty and unity into her teachings. Eiman is a facilitator and transformational coach who helps individuals transform their relationships and careers, heal from past trauma, and live authentically.
    In this episode, Eric and Eiman discuss her book, Finding Grace: Daily Comfort for Uncertain Times
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    Her book, Finding Grace: Daily Comfort for Uncertain Times

    Empowering herself by exploring self-help and energy healing

    Her journey of evaluating her universal truths and what violates these truths

    Staying in integrity with beliefs while discovering new alternative practices

    Values are things that we are drawn towards

    Differences between values and morals

    The law of evolution is about your own personal growth and self-actualization

    The law of awakening is about the spiritual journey

    Disconnection is when you betray yourself and are not living in alignment with who you are

    Moving from information to transformation

    Surrender is going through a spiritual journey of finding your source of divine

    What it means to surrender in your daily life

    Where our control ends is where the divine takes over

    Information toxicity depletes our ability to make good decisions

    The core self, the contextual self, and the developmental self

    Allowing the inner self to exhibit itself in the outer self

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  38. Bruce Feiler on Life Transitions

    7 april 2021 · 52 min

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    Bruce Feiler is the author of 7 New York Times best-sellers and he’s also the presenter of two primetime series on PBS as well as the inspiration for the drama series on NBC, Council of Dads. Bruce’s two TedTalks have been viewed millions of times.
    In this episode, Eric and Bruce discuss his book, Life Is in the Transitions: Mastering Change At Any Age.
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    His book, Life Is in the Transitions: Mastering Change At Any Age

    That our lives are fairy tales – and fairy tales all have difficulties in them

    His quest to help other people tell their life’s stories

    The myth of a linear life course and how we suffer because we expect linearity

    Life quakes

    How he defines a life disruptor vs. a life transition

    The three phases of a life transition

    The skill of rewriting your story after a life quake

    The importance of telling our stories

    Identity transitions

    “Don’t shield your eyes when the scary parts start because that’s when the heroes are made.”

    How we all can be and need to be the heroes in our own stories

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  39. A Teaching, a Song, and a Poem - 4/3/21

    3 april 2021 · 15 min

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    Teaching: Deconstructing Emotions
    Song: Monster Ballad by Josh Ritter
    Poem: Of Being by Denise Levertov
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  40. Caroline Myss on Intimate Conversations with the Divine

    2 april 2021 · 47 min

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    Caroline Myss is a five-time New York Times bestselling author and internationally renowned speaker in the fields of human consciousness, spirituality and mysticism, health, energy medicine, and the science of medical intuition. She is the former host of the TV Series “The Journey with Caroline Myss” on the Oxygen Network, and a guest on Oprah Winfrey’s Super Soul Sunday.
    Eric and Caroline discuss her book, Intimate Conversations with the Divine: Prayer, Guidance, and Grace
    If you are interested in learning more about how to integrate and embody spiritual principles into the moments of your daily life, Eric teaches people how to do just that in his 1-on-1 Spiritual Habits Program. Click here for a free 30-minute call with Eric to learn more.
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    Her book, Intimate Conversations with the Divine: Prayer, Guidance, and Grace

    Her spiritual journey of understanding the nature of God

    Learning that we are not here for life to serve us, but for us to serve life

    The great transformation of the shedding of separatism and the emergence of holism

    Our struggles with knowing what we believe or have faith in

    Lacing faith in yourself makes it impossible to have faith in anything else.

    Having faith and trust are essential to our well being

    How there is no logic to mystical matters

    Humans are designed to sense vulnerability in other people

    “Upper level” thoughts are about our mutual survival

    “Lower-level” thoughts are about our personal survival

    How prayer can help keep the dark, “reptilian” thoughts at a distance

    Forgiveness is not a rational thing, but the first thing we must do for ourselves
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  41. Michael Brody-Waite on Leading in Life

    31 maart 2021 · 55 min

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    Michael Brody-Waite is a recovering addict, acclaimed speaker, entrepreneur, award-winning three-time CEO, and leadership coach.
    Eric and Michael discuss his book, Great Leaders Live Like Drug Addicts: How to Lead Like Your Life Depends on It,. This interesting discussion dives deep into the principles used to recover from drug addiction and how they can be applied to lead successfully in both our personal and professional lives
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    His book, Great Leaders Live Like Drug Addicts: How to Lead Like Your Life Depends on It

    How everyone is a leader, even if it’s just leading ourselves

    The parallels between active addiction and behavior in the corporate environment.

    How the problem is often being addicted to hiding yourself

    Learning to practice the principles from recovery in real life

    The importance of surrendering the outcome

    Learning to practice rigorous authenticity

    Challenging yourself on doing the uncomfortable work

    Learning to remove the “masks” we wear to avoid showing our true selves

    Helpful tools for when you’re avoiding difficult conversations

    Learning how to be comfortable with the discomfort

    The value of being in community with others who are working on the same things

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  42. James Hollis on Living Between Worlds

    26 maart 2021 · 47 min

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    James Hollis is an American Jungian psychologist. He is a public speaker and the author of 16 books. He runs a private practice as a Jungian Psychoanalyst and is the Executive Director of the Jung Educational Center.
    Eric and James have an interesting conversation about his newest book, Living Between Worlds: Finding Personal Resilience in Changing Times, his work with depth psychology, and what it means as we go through different passages in life.
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    His book, Living Between Worlds: Finding Personal Resilience in Changing Times

    Depth Psychology is trying to engage and work with the unconscious

    Looking at the patterns in your life and working backward to see what produces behavior

    How dreams represent self-regulatory dimensions of the psyche

    As we have conversations with the external world, we must have one with our internal world

    Self is the guiding energy that tries to heal your wounds

    Self is the natural motive towards wholeness and development

    A passage is when something has died and you’re in between

    The first half of life is asking what the world is asking of me?

    The second half of life is asking what the soul is asking of me?

    Meaning is a by-product of being in the right relationship with one’s own soul

    Asking yourself what your fears make you do or keep you from doing?

    Investigating the archaic fear that is keeping us …

  43. Toni Bernhard on Living with Chronic Illness

    23 maart 2021 · 47 min

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    This is Toni Bernhard’s second time as a guest on the show and we’re so glad to have her back. She is a former law professor at the University of California, a practicing Buddhist for 25 years, and the author of many books including the one she and Eric discuss in this episode, How to Be Sick: Your Pocket Companion.
    Eric and Toni talk about her experience living with chronic illness, what she has learned and what she now has to teach others about how they might suffer less amidst their own experience with chronic pain and other long term health conditions.
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    Her book, How to Be Sick: Your Pocket Companion

    How we can feel our emotions without necessarily feeding them

    That pushing feelings away in aversion just makes them stronger

    Repressing emotions intensifies them

    Her own experience with chronic illness

    The three components of pain

    Examining the meanings that we give things

    The liberating Zen teaching of “Don’t know mind”

    What to do when things don’t go our way

    Why it can be so hard to be kind to ourselves

    That being sick is part of being alive, not because you’re not doing something wrong

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  44. Alex Jamieson and Bob Gower on Conversations for Radical Alignment

    16 maart 2021 · 52 min

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    Alex Jamieson is a holistic weight loss and nutrition and lifestyle coach who has appeared on Oprah, Martha Stewart Living, CNN, Fox News, USA Today, and People Magazine.
    Bob Gower is a consultant who helps organizations become future-ready and more effective. He has worked with leaders at organizations from multinationals like Chanel, Ford, and GE all the way to non-profits like New York Public Radio and The Studio Museum in Harlem.
    In this episode, Eric, Alex, and Bob discuss the 4 prompts that can be used in any conversation to produce a better outcome for all people involved.
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    Their book, Radical Alignment: How to Have Game-Changing Conversations That Will Transform Your Business and Your Life

    How their son’s diagnosis of dyslexia and ADHD got them both involved in positive psychology

    That we actually calm our nervous system when we speak our concerns out loud

    How helpful it can be to get specific about our fears

    The fact that we need to feel good physically to talk about important things

    The tools that helped them process emotions better

    The conversation formula of Intentions, Concerns, Boundaries, and Dreams

    Why, in a relationship, you should absolutely go to bed angry

    That the point of their method is to make more of the relationship iceberg visible

    The importa…

  45. A Teaching, a Song, and a Poem - 3/13/21

    13 maart 2021 · 14 min

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    Teaching: "Don't Believe Your Thoughts"
    Song: The Ghost of Rockschool by Belle and Sebastian
    Poem: Everyday Grace by Stella Nesanovich
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  46. Steven Kotler on The Art of Impossible

    9 maart 2021 · 58 min

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    Steven Kotler is a New York Times bestselling author, award-winning journalist, and the Executive Director of the Flow Research Collective. The author of 13 books, 9 of which best sellers, Steven is one of the world’s leading experts on human performance. His work has been nominated for two Pulitzer Prizes, translated into 40 languages, and has appeared in over 100 publications.
    In this episode, Eric and Steven discuss his book, The Art of Impossible: A Peak Performance Primer. They break down the idea of “impossible” into its component parts that, when cultivated, come together to propel us towards states of flow and otherwise unattainable performance in any area of life.
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    His book, The Art of Impossible: A Peak Performance Primer

    The fact that you “go where you look”, i.e. where you put your attention is where you end up

    His experience having Lymes Disease and his mystical experience when surfing one day

    The two types of impossible

    The neurobiology involved in the state of peak performance called “flow”

    How we can increase our motivation, learning, and creativity

    The fact that more “meaningful” does not always mean more “pleasant”

    The importance of getting very good at being uncomfortable when working towards our “impossible” goals

    Exercises people can do to find their curiosity

    That passion lies at the intersection of multiple curiosities

    An unexpected way to cultivate grit

    The five steps to learn anything

    Learning means being uncertain

    The process of “crawl, walk, run”

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  47. John Perkins on How Perception Creates Reality

    3 maart 2021 · 52 min

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    John Perkins is an author and activist whose 10 books on global intrigue, shamanism, and transformation have been on the New York Times Best Seller list for more than 70 weeks, sold over 2 million copies, and are published in at least 35 languages. John was formerly a chief economist at a major consulting firm advising the World Bank, United Nations, the U.S., and other governments. He is now the founder and board member of the Pachamama Alliance and Dream Change, non-profit organizations that partner with indigenous people to protect the environment and offer global programs to change the destructive ways of industrial societies.
    In this episode, Eric and John discuss his book, “Touching the Jaguar: Transforming Fear into Action to Change Your Life and the World”, and the importance of understanding how our perceptions create our reality.
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    His book, Touching the Jaguar: Transforming Fear into Action to Change Your Life and the World

    His past role as an “economic hit man

    A “death” economy is based on the perception of maximizing short term profits, regardless of the social and environmental costs

    The difference between capitalism and predatory capitalism

    How he learned the meaning of “touching the jaguar” (facing your fears)

    How changing your perception changes your reality

    A “life” economy is about maximizing long term benefits for people and the environment

    His work with the indigenous communities in the Amazon and how they came together after being “enemies”

    Understanding our power and our role as consumers and what we can do to contribute to a life economy

    Asking ourselves 5 imp…

  48. Adrienne Bankert on How to Choose Kindness

    24 februari 2021 · 53 min

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    Adrienne Bankert is an Emmy award-winning national news correspondent for ABC News, covering some of the most historic headlines of the past decade. She calls herself a “tour guide” – coaching and mentoring, teaching and speaking across the U.S. Her new book is called, Your Hidden Superpower: The Kindness That Makes You Unbeatable at Work and Connects You With Anyone.
    In this episode, Eric and Adrienne talk about what it means to be kind – how to practice it, cultivate it within yourself, and how it can serve as your beacon and guide no matter the circumstances that come your way.
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    Her book, Your Hidden Superpower: The Kindness That Makes You Unbeatable at Work and Connects You With Anyone

    How helping others discover their purpose can also help you discover your own

    That kindness helps us turn away from self-focus and towards a focus on the needs of others

    The way kindness can be at the core of our identity

    Choosing kindness even when you don’t feel it

    How to grow in kindness

    Ways to respond kindly to people who are unkind to you

    Her favorite stories of kindness

    That kindness can be an anchor to us when we’re struggling or lost

    Practical ways to practice kindness

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  49. Ralph De La Rosa on The Energy of Emotions

    17 februari 2021 · 59 min

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    Ralph De La Rosa is a psychotherapist in private practice and a seasoned meditation instructor. His work has been featured in The New York Post, CNN, Tricycle, GQ, SELF, Women’s Health, and many other publications and podcasts. Ralph regularly leads immersive healing retreats at Omega Institute, Spirit Rock, and Kripalu. His newest book is Don’t Tell Me to Relax: Emotional Resilience in the Age of Rage, Feels, and Freak Outs.
    In this episode, Eric and Ralph talk about the energy of emotions and how bringing awareness and compassion to our strong emotions creates resilience within us.
    But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you!
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    His book, Don’t Tell Me to Relax: Emotional Resilience in the Age of Rage, Feels, and Freak Outs

    How we are hard-wired for anxiety, fear, and anger

    Compassion is needed for the negative energies within us

    The two kinds of suffering, the one you turn toward and the other your turn towards

    Turning away from suffering and turning towards suffering

    Allowing our anger to come up, then mindfully speak for that anger

    Bringing awareness to strong emotions

    Listening and acknowledging your inner critic helps the anger move on

    The internal family systems (IFS) model of identifying all the parts of us here

    How emotions are a living energy within you

    Giving form and naming these emotions brings clarity

    The inner critic is a defensive energy that is trying to keep us safe

    How suffering points us to compassion

    Meditation is a training in remembering (to remember)

    Setting reminders on your phone or post-it notes on the mirror are tools to bring meditation practice into our daily lives

    Radical non-pathology is viewing sy…

  50. Lodro Rinzler on Meditation for Anxious People

    10 februari 2021 · 53 min

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    Lodro Rinzler is the co-founder of MNDFL meditation studios, has taught meditation for 20 years in the Tibetan Buddhist tradition, and is the award-winning author of 7 books. He has spoken across the world at conferences, universities, and businesses as diverse as Google, Harvard University, and the White House.
    In this episode, Eric and Lodro talk about his new book, Take Back Your Mind: Buddhist Advice for Anxious Times and they walk through many practical strategies to employ on the spot when you’re feeling stressed or anxious to help you come back to a sense of “okay-ness” in the present moment.
    But wait – there’s more! The episode is not quite over!! We continue the conversation and you can access this exclusive content right in your podcast player feed. Head over to our Patreon page and pledge to donate just $10 a month. It’s that simple and we’ll give you good stuff as a thank you!
    In This Interview, Lodro Rinzler and I discuss Meditation for Anxious People and…
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    His book, Take Back Your Mind: Buddhist Advice for Anxious Times

    The difference between anxiety and stress

    Useful vs Not Useful thinking

    What to do when thoughts come up during meditation

    The question “Is this helpful?”

    The question “Is this useful?”

    Discovering what happens when we unhook from anxious thoughts

    How to deliberately experience “30 seconds of contentment”

    Dispelling the myth that your mind is too busy to meditate

    Buddhists connecting our faith as being rooted in our direct experience

    How turning a boat one degree at a time leads to a completely different land

    Working with your mind vs your mind working you

    Meditating without judging ourselves

    Learning to be with difficult emotions through meditation

    Saying to yourself, “It’s ok to feel this”

    What it means to drop the story and feel the feeling

    Asking yourself, “What can I enjoy right now?”

    What it means to have a “thought party”

    The idea of “basic goodness”

    The metaphor of going to get a box of cereal from the grocer…