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  1. Manifesting is Not Woo Woo – Practical Tools to Making Your Goals a Reality

    24 december 2024 · 28 min

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    In today’s episode, we’re talking all about manifestation and how you can use it to bring your dreams to life. But here’s the thing—it’s not about waiting for things to magically happen. Manifestation is about getting clear on what you really want, aligning your thoughts and actions, and actually putting in the work.

    We’ll break down the process, how to avoid the common mistakes, and how to shift your mindset so you’re actually ready for the things you want to attract. If you're ready to stop wishing and start doing, this episode is for you. Let’s dive in and see how you can start manifesting with intention and purpose.

    What Was Discussed:

    00:00 Intro

    00:38 What is Manifestation?

    03:49 The First Time I Manifested Something

    06:38 Common Mistakes to Avoid in Manifestation

    9:35 How to Bring Your Desires Into Existence

    10:53 Are You Ready for Your Manifestation?

    13:20 You Manifest What You Believe You Deserve

    16:26 Be Grateful and Patient Through the Process

    18:00 Three Types of Goals

    23:44 Clean Out What’s Limiting You From Achieving Your Goals

    25:09 Surrendering Your Desires

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  2. Terri Cole: Stop Trying to Fix Everyone. Signs You’re a High-Functioning Codependent and How to Break the Cycle

    17 december 2024 · 1 uur 17 min

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    What does it really mean to help someone, and where do we draw the line? Lees meer

    In this episode of A Really Good Cry, I sit down with the incredible Terri Cole, a psychotherapist whose own life experiences offer a profound look into the world of high-functioning codependency. Terri shares an unforgettable story about the night she brought a stranger home from the train station—a gesture that sparks our exploration into the blurred lines between helping and interfering.

    Join us as we delve into the psychological impacts of codependency, discussing how our desires to help can sometimes control both our lives and those around us. Terri provides crucial insights on recognizing when empathy exceeds healthy limits and the vital importance of establishing boundaries for our well-being.

    If you’ve ever found yourself in the role of a rescuer, or if you’re seeking to understand the emotional intricacies of codependency, this heartfelt discussion is not to be missed.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:56 Bringing home a stranger

    03:13 What is high functioning codependency?

    06:02 Signs of an HFC

    07:47 The line between helping and controlling

    11:14 How to support without overstepping

    15:59 The power of asking expansive questions

    18:30 The burden of being 'nice'

    20:47 Breaking the cycle of auto advice-giving

    25:20 Letting someone be their own hero

    28:03 Why parents should let kids fail sometimes

    39:05 Asking before giving advice

    43:20 How projection affects our relationships

    46:07 Why asking for help feels so hard

    52:26 How to stop tying worth to helping others

    58:09 Stop caring what others think

    1:02:18 Showing up the same online and offline

    1:07:40 The cost of perfectionism

    1:12:25 How to truly rest your mind and body

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  3. Are You a Prisoner of your Pain and Past? 4 Steps to Forgiveness and the Power to Letting Go

    10 december 2024 · 22 min

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    Why is it so hard to forgive and let go? Lees meer

    I’ve been there–caught up in replaying moments where other people hurt me, and waiting for apologies that never come. And honestly? It’s exhausting.

    In this episode, I’m sharing my own struggles with forgiveness and the surprising things I’ve learned about how much holding onto pain can weigh us down. We’ll talk about what forgiveness really is (hint: it’s not about them), how our emotions affect us physically, and some simple practices that can help us let go and feel lighter.

    If you’re ready to stop letting the past take up so much space and make room for peace and joy, this one’s for you

    What Was Discussed:

    00:00 Intro

    01:08 Do we really need an apology to heal?

    04:05 Getting hurt is just part of life

    04:54 The impact of pent-up emotions on your body

    05:36 Just let it go

    06:29 Forgiveness isn’t about them, it’s about you

    08:09 Forgiveness is strength, not weakness

    10:22 How journaling helps you heal

    12:33 Putting forgiveness in God’s hands

    15:53 The 4 steps to forgiveness

    17:43 Becoming forgivingly fit

    21:11 Imagine forgiveness in your mind

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  4. Liz Moody: Simple Ways to Break Bad Habits and Change Your Life

    3 december 2024 · 1 uur 16 min

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    In this episode of A Really Good Cry, I’m sitting down with the wonderful Liz Moody, author of 100 Ways to Change Your Life, and we’re talking all about making wellness simple, fun, and actually doable. Liz shares her journey from dealing with anxiety to creating a life she truly loves, and she’s got so many beautiful tips on building self-trust, finding motivation that feels real, and ditching all the “perfect” wellness routines that just don’t work.

    We chat about creating small changes that last, embracing our bodies with love, and tuning into what really lights us up. If you’re ready for a fresh take on wellness that lets you just be you, then come join us—this episode is all about finding joy in every step.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    03:07 "Never be the one to say no to yourself"

    07:25 What does your best life look like?

    11:37 When comfort foods don’t bring comfort

    15:46 The power of curiosity to break bad habits

    17:48 Why accountability helps you stick to goals

    21:00 Purpose and connection keep us alive longer

    24:12 Fear won’t get you to your goals

    26:23 Finding your motivation to workout

    31:49 Living in your body vs. Looking at it

    37:50 Micro choices that redefine your life

    44:02 Temptation bundling

    47:11 Staying in touch with family and friends

    49:47 Think about your death

    56:30 Identify energy drains in your life

    1:02:57 Setting boundaries to reclaim your energy

    1:08:56 Be gentle with yourselves

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  5. How to Overcome Social Anxiety: Simple Tools to Build Your Confidence

    26 november 2024 · 28 min

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    Ever walked into a room and felt like everyone’s eyes were on you, every flaw on display? You're not alone! Lees meer

    In this episode, we’re diving into what social anxiety really is, where it comes from, and why it affects so many of us. I’m sharing my own journey, my little tips and tricks, and how I found a path to feeling more calm and present.

    So, if you’ve ever felt the urge to bail on a party last-minute or felt uncomfortable in a crowd, tune in! We’ll explore the roots of this feeling and, hopefully, help you see that social anxiety doesn’t have to control your life. Let’s find that inner calm, together.

    What Was Discussed:

    00:00 Intro

    02:34 Why I’ve Canceled Plans Last Minute

    05:29 It’s Not Always About You

    07:47 Are You Stopping Yourself From Feeling Better?

    08:17 Show Up as Your True Self

    10:23 Setting Goals and Giving Yourself an Exit Strategy

    11:29 Get Comfortable with Uncomfortable Conversations

    15:13 Be Honest About Your Anxiety

    16:11 The “So What” Method

    17:47 Ask More Questions and Become Curious

    20:22 Sometimes You Just Have to Show Up

    21:36 Ayurvedic Tips for Managing Anxiety

    22:39 The Cost of Anxiety

    23:42 Join A Club

    24:40 How Clothing Impacts Confidence

    26:03 Self-Love is Key to Confidence

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  6. Meghan Swidler: Are You Bloated Everyday? Signs of Toxins in the Body and What Detox is Best For You

    19 november 2024 · 1 uur 10 min

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    In this week’s episode of A Really Good Cry, I’m sitting down with the wonderful Meghan Swidler, a holistic health coach and detox queen! We’re diving into all the little (and big!) ways that toxins sneak into our daily lives and what they do to our bodies—yes, even things like your skin, energy, and gut! Meghan shares so much wisdom on how to listen to what your body is telling you, clear out what it doesn’t need, and create space for feeling our absolute best.

    From simple food swaps to ditching hidden household toxins, this episode is filled with practical tips that don’t feel overwhelming. It’s all about getting back in tune with ourselves and building little habits that help us thrive from the inside out.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    02:44 Signs You Need a Detox Right Now

    05:50 The Four Main Channels of Elimination

    07:03 Common Gut Issues Aren’t Normal

    11:27 How Blockage in the Colon Creates Toxins

    13:40 Toxins Are Everywhere

    16:34 Top 3 Ways to Reduce Toxins In Your Body

    20:08 What’s Really in Your Water?

    25:58 The Hidden Dangers of Hormonal Contraception

    34:11 Top Toxins to Avoid While Grocery Shopping

    39:25 Your Most Important Investment Is Your Health

    42:53 Reducing Toxins at Home

    47:18 The Detox Formula

    52:14 Deprivation vs. Freedom

    54:53 How to Safely Start Your Detox

    59:34 Embracing Detox Symptoms

    1:03:54 Best Tests for Toxins

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  7. Are You Filling Every Moment with Screen Time? How Phone Addiction is Affecting Your Relationships

    12 november 2024 · 29 min

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    Did you know that your phone is the biggest thief of joy in your relationships? Lees meer

    In this episode, we’re talking all about breaking free from that scrolling habit and creating deeper, more meaningful moments with the people we cherish. I share my own journey of realizing how mindlessly checking my phone was stealing away the precious time I could spend with my family and friends.

    We'll explore how being present, like really present, can transform your relationships and fill you with joy. Plus, I'll share practical tips to help you set boundaries, swap screen time for connection time, and find little ways to show love through acts of service. Let’s learn to be more present, embrace the moments, and build memories that last a lifetime!

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    02:22 Is Your Phone Stealing Your Time?

    03:28 How Much of Your Life Is Spent Scrolling?

    05:45 The Impact of Phones on Real Communication

    08:39 Personalizing Quality Time for Each Loved One

    12:06 Building Healthy Boundaries with Your Phone

    15:46 Replacing Phone Time with Family Connection

    17:30 How Acts of Service Bring Us Closer

    21:42 Become A Better Listener

    24:06 What Are You Really Scrolling Away From?

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  8. Dr Taz: Experiencing Weight Gain, Hair Loss, Low Energy or Mood Disorders? How to Improve Hormone Health for Vitality

    5 november 2024 · 1 uur 7 min

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    Did you know that hormones affect so much more than just big life changes? Lees meer

    In this week’s episode of A Really Good Cry, I sat down with the wonderful Dr. Taz Bathia to chat about all things hormone health and balance. You know, so often we think hormones are just about periods or menopause, but they actually affect everything—from our mood and energy to even our relationships and decisions!

    Dr. Taz opens up about her own journey with hormone struggles and shares powerful insights on how we can start understanding our bodies better. We’ll talk about how things like stress, diet, and even sleep play such a huge role in our well-being. I’m so excited for you all to tune in and learn some simple but life-changing ways to feel balanced, connected, and empowered in your own health journey.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:56 How "The Hormone Shift" Began

    06:05 Why Studying Your Body Matters

    07:55 How Hormones Shape Every Part of Life

    09:56 Key Signs of Hormone Imbalance

    12:44 Getting Doctors to Support Preventative Care

    14:45 What Is Adrenal Fatigue?

    19:04 How Cortisol Affects Women & Men’s Health

    21:27 Foods to Balance Hormones and Cortisol

    23:12 The Truth About Birth Control

    29:37 Why Period Pains Shouldn’t Be the Norm

    32:16 Understanding PCOS

    35:17 Holistic Approaches to Managing PCOS

    38:12 Helping Teens Manage Hormonal Changes

    40:40 Hormone Hell

    47:32 Finding Clarity and Balance Through Alignment

    54:55 Influence of Hormones on Relationships

    57:13 Why Men Should Care About Their Hormones

    1:02:09 30 Days Hormone Reset

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  9. Is The Healthcare System Failing You? Why Taking Medicine Isn’t Always The Best Solution and How Holistic Medicine Can Improve Your Health

    29 oktober 2024 · 24 min

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    In this solo episode, I’m getting real about something I think a lot of us feel—how modern medicine sometimes leaves us disconnected from our bodies, relying on quick fixes and pills that don’t always get to the heart of things. I’ll be sharing my own journey, from working as a dietitian to exploring Ayurveda and holistic healing, and how I finally found a way to trust my body and really listen to what it needs.

    This isn’t about blaming doctors; it’s about us learning to reconnect and feel in control of our own health. So, let’s sit down together and dive into these beautiful, age-old practices that help us feel more balanced and truly cared for. We deserve to love and nurture our bodies, and I can’t wait to share how we can start doing that!

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    02:00 Misinformation in Modern Healthcare

    06:09 Profit over People

    09:31 Overprescription and overmedication

    13:22 The Problem with Standardized Health Metrics

    15:46 The History of Harmful Medications

    18:56 Questioning the Safety of Medications

    21:24 There is Always a Way and Another Option

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  10. Camilla Marcus: The Crisis of the Food System - The Impact on Female Health and Why Sustainable Practices Matter

    22 oktober 2024 · 47 min

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    In this episode of A Really Good Cry, I chat with Camila Marcus, an inspiring chef, restaurateur, and sustainability advocate. Known for her pioneering work in promoting ethical dining, Camila shares her journey from growing up in Los Angeles to creating a more sustainable future for the food industry.

    We explore the concept of regenerative farming, how restaurants can drive environmental change, and practical ways to contribute to a healthier planet. Camila’s wisdom on balancing innovation, responsibility, and profitability offers a fresh perspective on the future of food.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:38 What is regenerative farming?

    04:58 The language of food

    09:06 Why farmers choose monocropping

    11:17 “Lab food never solved any problems…”

    14:17 Intellectual property rights in the food industry

    16:10 Sustainability vs. trends in food

    18:56 How to get started with regenerative living

    25:17 Misconceptions about healthy eating

    27:29 Starting a farm at home

    34:26 Balancing motherhood and career with four kids

    37:14 Camila’s IVF journey

    41:59 The importance of community

    44:28 Why we need to talk about IVF more

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  11. Do You Want Healthy Hair? Ayurvedic Tips for Hair Loss & How to Identify Your Hair Type

    15 oktober 2024 · 36 min

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    We all dream of ‘good hair days,’ but what if the secret isn’t just in the products? Lees meer

    In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we’re talking all about the frustrating struggle with hair health, from breakage to thinning, and everything in between. I’m diving into my personal journey of dealing with post-COVID hair loss, how it totally knocked my confidence, and what I did to turn it around. Spoiler: it took way more than just a new shampoo!

    We’ll chat about the holistic and Ayurvedic methods that have made a real difference in my hair’s strength and growth—and yes, I’ll be sharing all the practical tips that worked for me. From scalp massages to gut health, and even the crazy impact of stress on our hair, we’re covering it all.

    So, if you’re ready to figure out how to get your healthiest, strongest hair yet (without breaking the bank or pulling your hair out—literally), grab your favorite snack, get comfy, and let’s dive in together. Because you deserve to love your hair, and we’re here to make that happen!

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    02:17 Good hair is a result of good health

    05:25 Three types of hair according to Ayurveda

    08:16 Embracing your natural hair type

    11:04 How external care transforms hair health

    12:32 Benefits of using hair oils

    14:35 Hair oiling tips

    16:24 Do a scalp massage

    17:25 Derma roller for hair loss

    18:28 More practical tips to protect your hair

    21:57 How food & your diet affects your hair

    28:53 Stress and hair loss

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  12. Thais Gibson: How Attachment Styles Control Your Love Life and How to Reprogram It

    8 oktober 2024 · 1 uur 15 min

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    What if your childhood experiences shaped your relationships more than you ever realized? Lees meer

    In today’s episode, I’m joined by Thais Gibson, an expert in attachment theory, who reveals how our subconscious rules for love shape every connection we form. Thais breaks down how these attachment styles influence not just romantic relationships but also our friendships, family dynamics, and most importantly, our relationship with ourselves.

    Thais and I dive deep into the roots of attachment theory, exploring how core wounds from our past can keep us stuck in unhealthy patterns—and more importantly, how we can heal and reprogram these wounds. With her insights and actionable strategies, Thais explains how anyone can shift from an insecure attachment style to a secure, thriving connection.

    We also discuss the transformative power of understanding your own needs, setting healthy boundaries, and learning how to cultivate emotional regulation for deeper, more fulfilling relationships. This episode will leave you inspired to change the way you approach love and connection.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    02:27 What is Attachment Theory?

    07:38 Identifying your core wounds

    13:16 Reprogramming emotional triggers

    17:27 How past emotional scars shape present reactions

    20:55 Why do you keep dating the same type?

    23:37 Heal yourself first

    26:52 Learn what your needs are in a relationship

    28:52 Communicate your needs vulnerability and transparently

    31:34 Have healthy boundaries

    32:23 Why do you find secure people boring?

    35:23 The six stages of relationships

    37:13 Are you hooked on the drama or the person?

    40:40 The difference between sacrifice and compromise

    43:45 Being in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant person

    46:13 Enmeshment

    52:04 Can you be a mix of attachment styles?

    54:41 When anxious meets avoidant

    57:17 What are your non-negotiables?

    59:51 What are your standards or needs?

    1:01:19 How do you actually feel when you’re around someone?

    1:04:16 Three…

  13. How To Stop Caring About What Others Think, People Pleasing and Overthinking

    1 oktober 2024 · 31 min

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    Why do we care so much about what other people think? Lees meer

    In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we’re having an honest chat about that constant need for approval and why it's so exhausting! I’m diving into my own journey of always worrying about others’ opinions and how I finally learned to let that go (well, mostly… still working on it!). We’ll talk about the moments when I felt like a total stranger in my own life because I was living for everyone else instead of just being myself.

    We’ll get into the nitty-gritty of why we feel this way, how to start letting go, and what it actually means to show up as the most authentic version of you. And yes, I’ll be sharing some practical tips and little exercises that have helped me stop overthinking and just be ME.

    So, if you’re ready to have a heart-to-heart about living life on your own terms, grab a cup of tea, get cozy, and let’s figure this out together. You deserve to be loved for who you really are, and this episode is all about helping you see that!

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:40 Let’s start with an affirmation

    01:23 Are you living in your own life?

    03:47 Embracing how we’re always changing

    05:22 Focus on being in the present

    06:21 The danger of losing yourself to fit in

    09:28 Approval addiction

    09:40 Signs that you care too much about what others think

    13:58 Ask yourself this when you start worrying about what others think

    17:13 The real reason we’re obsessed with being liked

    20:00 Get to know yourself

    22:03 Identify your purpose and value in life

    23:30 Setting boundaries

    24:49 Practice perspective

    25:45 Sit in that discomfort of not being liked

    26:36 Finding freedom in being yourself

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  14. Lisa Bilyeu: How to Master Your Ego and Build Radical Confidence

    24 september 2024 · 1 uur 11 min

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    In today’s episode, I’m joined by someone who knows exactly how to turn challenges into confidence. Lisa Bilyeu, co-founder of Quest Nutrition and the host of Women of Impact, shares her powerful insights on pushing past fear and self-doubt to unlock your full potential.

    Lisa and I dive into the uncomfortable truth about confidence: it’s earned by facing failure and embracing growth. She shares her personal journey of overcoming limiting beliefs, offering practical tips on how to break through the barriers holding you back.

    We also talk about the critical role of building habits that reinforce confidence, and why stepping outside your comfort zone is the only way to truly grow. Lisa’s advice on embracing failure as part of the process will leave you inspired to tackle your own challenges with courage and resilience.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    04:49 What is Radical Confidence?

    07:37 Name your fear

    12:25 Your body stores trauma

    15:56 Dressing down is killing your confidence

    18:42 How to make confidence a habit

    22:52 Show up differently and watch others notice

    25:59 Getting out of your comfort zone

    29:14 Confidence vs. Arrogance vs. Ego

    33:31 Insecurity or ego?

    35:38 How to accept change

    39:46 Stop trying to please everyone

    43:37 Contempt and resentment in relationships

    45:16 The first step to building confidence

    53:35 Don’t be scared to fail

    56:47 Break through your limits

    1:06:18 Rapid fire questions with Lisa

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  15. Do You Have A Healthy Period? Holistic and Ayurvedic Tools to Reduce Mood Swings, Pain and Cravings

    17 september 2024 · 29 min

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    Periods can be a pain—literally—but what if we could turn that pain into power? Lees meer

    On this episode of A Really Good Cry, we’re getting cozy and chatting about something we don’t talk about enough—our periods! It’s time to embrace this beautiful, natural process and learn how to love and honor our bodies every step of the way. I’ll be sharing my personal journey from seeing my period as a hassle to viewing it as a time for deep connection and self-care.

    We’ll explore how aligning with our cycles can help us live more harmoniously with our bodies, how we can manage discomfort naturally, and why understanding what a healthy period looks like is so important. I’ll also be dropping some Ayurvedic gems on balancing hormones and soothing cramps, plus a few of my favorite self-care rituals (like the magical ovary massage) that’ll leave you feeling supported and nourished.

    Whether you experience irregular cycles, or painful periods, or just want to deepen your connection with your body, this episode is filled with loving guidance, practical tips, and a whole lot of compassion for your amazing female body. I promise you’ll walk away seeing your period in a whole new light!

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:34 How my relationship with my period changed

    05:32 Why I stopped complaining about my period

    07:04 Breaking the taboo around periods

    08:05 How do you know if your period is healthy?

    10:22 Sync your workouts with your menstrual cycle

    12:52 Why your period heightens emotions and what it means

    15:44 Foods to eat during your period

    20:10 Ovary massage

    22:09 How holistic health can help you

    24:17 Period acne

    26:10 Finding the right period products for you

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  16. Lauren London: Moving Through Grief and Finding Self Acceptance

    10 september 2024 · 58 min

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    Grief can test our faith, but it can also strengthen it in unexpected ways. Lees meer

    Today, I have a truly special guest whose journey through loss has inspired so many. Lauren London, an acclaimed actress, entrepreneur, and mental health advocate, opens up about her personal experiences with grief and resilience.

    In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Lauren and I chat about the transformative power of faith and vulnerability in navigating grief. She shares her touching story of love and loss, offering heartfelt insights into finding strength and purpose through spiritual connection.

    We also dive into practical strategies for managing grief, like the healing power of prayer and journaling. Lauren's advice on creating supportive environments for healing and maintaining connections with loved ones who have passed is truly inspiring.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:26 How Lauren got into acting

    04:02 Growing from past versions of yourself

    10:56 “True faith requires curiosity…”

    15:37 How to talk with God

    19:55 Getting into journaling

    22:09 Lauren & Nipsey’s meet-cute

    25:29 Things Lauren learned from Nipsey

    29:01 Coping with grief

    31:10 What is shadow work?

    33:53 Judging less and loving more

    36:02 Laughing and living after grief

    38:28 Teaching kids about grief

    40:54 Stepping out of your comfort zone

    43:51 Embracing self-love after loss

    47:38 Prioritizing self in a demanding industry

    50:48 Having no idea what to do next is okay

    55:09 The last time Lauren cried

    56:57 Rapid fire questions with Lauren

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  17. Do You Want To Sleep Better? Ayurvedic Hacks To Reset Your Sleep Cycle

    3 september 2024 · 35 min

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    We all know how it feels to toss and turn, staring at the ceiling, wondering why sleep feels like an impossible dream. On this episode of A Really Good Cry, we're diving deep into the world of sleep—what makes it so essential and why it can be so hard to get. I’ll be sharing some personal stories (because yes, I’ve been there with sleepless nights and groggy mornings) and what I've learned along the way about making sleep work for us, not against us. Lees meer

    We’re talking all things sleep—from the basics of setting up a good nighttime routine to some lesser-known tricks like Ayurveda’s take on the best sleep habits. I’ll walk you through easy, everyday changes you can start tonight—like the power of a calming bedtime snack and how even small tweaks to your sleep environment can help you relax more easily. And let's not forget those simple, practical tips for when your mind just won’t switch off.

    Whether you're a light sleeper, a night owl, or just someone who wants to feel more rested and energized, this episode is packed with practical advice and real talk. Trust me, with these tips, you’ll be on your way to sleeping better and feeling better in no time!

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:33 Relationship between sleep and health

    04:10 What happens when you sleep?

    05:38 Have a sleep routine

    07:52 Ayurvedic guide to sleep

    13:25 The best sleeping position

    14:28 Separate your sleep space

    15:35 Why an evening self-care routine is important

    17:48 Set up the environment and ambiance

    19:53 Avoid artificial lights

    22:24 Journaling before bed

    23:57 Stop watching horror movies at night

    24:54 Pray

    26:12 Take a deep breath

    27:47 The best time to eat dinner

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  18. Camila Alves McConaughey: How to Build Your Community and a Better Relationship with Yourself

    27 augustus 2024 · 1 uur 4 min

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    They say home is where the heart is. Lees meer

    But it’s not just about the places we live—it’s about the people and connections that fill those spaces with warmth and meaning.

    This week, I had the opportunity to chat with Camila Alves McConaughey, an entrepreneur, mother, and the founder of "Women of Today," a platform dedicated to empowering women by fostering a vibrant community that offers support, advice, and shared experiences. Camila discusses the community interactions on her journey, the pivotal role of community in personal well-being, and how she’s used her platform to connect and empower women globally.

    They also explore the transformative power of community, the importance of cultural identity in shaping our interactions, and how initiatives like "Women of Today" are pivotal in creating spaces for women to learn, connect, and grow together.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:43 Camila on leaving Brazil

    06:26 Women of Today

    09:08 Universal community struggles

    10:20 Having friends in different age groups

    14:27 The power of sharing wisdom and advice

    17:52 How to build community wherever you are

    31:08 Handling life’s transitions

    33:48 Embracing change and growth

    39:00 Being comfortable with the uncomfortable

    44:19 Writing a children’s book

    48:56 What’s next for Camila?

    53:07 Greenlights Grant Initiative

    55:27 Camila’s fast fire

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  19. Stop Forcing Friendships - Signs You’ve Outgrown Certain Friends

    20 augustus 2024 · 26 min

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    Friendships are supposed to last forever, right? But what happens when the people who once felt like home start feeling like strangers? Lees meer

    In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we dive deep into the bittersweet reality of outgrowing friendships. As we grow and change, so do our needs and desires, and sometimes that means the friendships we’ve held onto for years no longer fit the person we’re becoming.

    I’ll share my personal journey of recognizing when certain friendships were no longer serving me, and how I navigated the emotional turmoil that comes with letting go. We’ll explore the signs that indicate you might be outgrowing a friend—like when conversations start to feel repetitive or when spending time together leaves you drained rather than energized. But this isn’t just about saying goodbye; it’s about understanding that outgrowing a friendship doesn’t mean failure. Instead, it’s an opportunity for growth, both for you and the other person.

    If you’ve ever felt guilty about outgrowing a friendship or wondered if you’re the only one going through this, this episode is for you. Tune in as we tackle the challenges of evolving relationships, offer tips on how to handle these transitions with grace, and ultimately remind you that it’s okay to move forward. After all, personal growth sometimes requires leaving old connections behind to make room for new ones.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:16 Outgrowing friends

    05:44 You’re now in different phases of your life

    07:21 Are they your friend or not?

    09:40 Why is it difficult to cut ties with people

    11:38 Letting go to grow

    12:59 Evolving friendships without cutting all ties

    15:33 Redefining your friendship

    17:28 Understanding the purpose of every connection

    19:30 Friendships should be taken seriously

    19:58 Knowing who belongs where in your life

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  20. Dr. Ramani: Narcissism 101 - How to Identify Toxic Traits and Set Boundaries

    13 augustus 2024 · 1 uur 22 min

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    How can you spot a narcissist? Lees meer

    It's quite a surprise to think that someone close to us might actually have those traits—or maybe, in some ways, we share them ourselves. Narcissism isn't always obvious; it can hide in plain sight, making it tough to tell who's who and leading us to question whether we see it in others or within ourselves.

    Today I welcome Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist known for her expertise in narcissism, personality disorders, and mental health. She's authored several books, including "Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist" and “It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People".

    In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Dr. Ramani dives into narcissism, breaking down what makes someone a narcissist and how it affects relationships and society. She talks about spotting narcissistic traits, whether they're innate or learned, and how tough it is to change these behaviors.

    I hope this episode provides you with practical insights and a deeper understanding of narcissism, enabling you to navigate relationships with clarity and confidence.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:47 What is a narcissist?

    02:43 The continuum of narcissism

    07:08 Insecurity vs. Narcissism

    08:00 Definition of empathy

    14:50 How to identify a narcissist

    17:32 Can you be born with narcissism?

    22:45 Healing a narcissist

    26:21 Narcissist living in the society

    28:29 Changing a narcissistic personality

    30:49 Spotting a narcissist in a relationship

    33:28 Is a narcissistic person capable of love?

    36:42 Two narcissists in a relationship

    38:05 How does a narcissists express their emotion?

    38:54 Staying with a narcissistic partner

    44:31 Growing up with a narcissistic parents

    46:57 Practicing self regulation

    57:19 Narcissism in history and leadership

    1:02:32 Setting boundaries in social situations

    1:06:10 Navigating trauma and finding inner peace

    1:11:04 Healing through therapy and motherhood

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  21. This Isn’t a Lecture - The Pros and Cons of a Plant Based Lifestyle

    6 augustus 2024 · 35 min

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    Have you ever questioned the true cost of what’s on your plate? Lees meer

    We often choose our meals based on convenience, tradition, or taste, without fully considering the broader impact of our choices. But what if those everyday decisions are affecting more than just your body—what if they’re influencing your soul and the world around you?

    In this week’s episode, we explore the profound connection between what we eat and the lives we touch. From the ethics of our food choices to the spiritual insights of Ayurveda, discover how a shift to a plant-based diet can transform not just your health, but your entire perspective on life.

    Join us as we delve into my journey of going vegan, the challenges and rewards of conscious eating, and how simple changes in your diet can resonate far beyond your plate.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:58 How I became vegan

    03:14 Plants-based vs. vegan

    04:53 How eating meat affects people

    05:53 The modes of nature

    11:52 “Every single being on Earth has a soul…”

    14:39 Reflecting on our food choices

    22:03 Drinking milk

    24:08 Effects of going dairy-free

    25:10 Animals in labs and farms

    29:09 Vegan culture is not healthy

    30:32 How going vegan will impact the planet

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  22. Alexis Ren: How to Utilize your Feminine Energy in this Masculine World

    30 juli 2024 · 1 uur 14 min

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    Ever felt overwhelmed by the constant push to fit into a masculine mold? Lees meer

    In this week’s episode A Really Good Cry, let’s welcome Alexis Ren to share her wisdom on harnessing the power of feminine energy in a predominantly masculine world. Discover how Alexis navigates her journey with grace and strength, turning challenges into opportunities for growth and empowerment.

    From mastering financial literacy to embracing vulnerability, Alexis reveals the secrets to showing up fully and authentically in every aspect of life. With practical tips and heartfelt stories, this episode promises to inspire you to embrace your true self and thrive.

    Join us for an engaging conversation that breaks down barriers, challenges norms, and empowers you to live boldly and confidently. Don't miss this chance to learn how to balance your energies and step into your power with Alexis Ren!

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:10 Women and finance

    06:22 The paradox of life

    09:00 Balancing your masculine and feminine energy

    15:32 Impostor syndrome

    18:11 Learning to be a teacher

    20:21 “Was I just performing or being authentic?...”

    28:28 How you can show up for yourself

    35:03 When life gives you opportunities

    37:52 Find things you want to give your 100% into

    41:25 Manifestation and success

    46:02 Fear of losing everything

    49:43 Why you should think about death

    57:00 Embracing the feeling of sadness

    1:01:26 Becoming comfortable with crying

    1:05:08 What kind of crier are you?

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  23. How Your Food is Affecting Your Mood - A Guide to Improve Your Mood, Energy and Focus Through Your Meals

    23 juli 2024 · 1 uur 2 min

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    Is your comfort food really comforting you? Lees meer

    We often turn to our favorite snacks and meals in times of stress or sadness, seeking solace in the familiar tastes and textures. But have you ever wondered if these foods are truly comforting your mind and body, or if they might be doing more harm than good?

    In this week’s episode, we’ll dive into the fascinating relationship between what we eat and how we feel, uncovering the hidden impacts of our dietary choices on our emotional well-being.

    We’ll also explore mindful eating practices, the wisdom of Ayurveda, and the transformative power of nourishing your body, mind, and soul.

    Discover how small changes in your diet can lead to profound shifts in your mood and overall health.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:10 Food can be medicine

    02:39 Association of comfort with food

    04:31 Feel what your body is feeling

    05:52 Change how you view comfort foods

    09:04 Control what you eat, don’t let food control you

    11:45 Stop labeling food as good and bad

    13:24 The Four Pillars of Health

    16:46 The categories of food in Ayurveda

    32:19 Adaptogens and spices

    35:50 Get your blood tested

    38:05 The nutrients you need to boost your mood

    41:14 Anti-inflammatory foods

    44:06 Invest in your health

    53:36 Relationship between our gut and brain

    56:16 Glucose spikes in our body

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  24. Cleo Wade: Toxic Self Talk - A Path to Reclaiming Yourself

    16 juli 2024 · 1 uur 20 min

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    Ever feel like anxiety is taking over your life? Lees meer

    Today, I welcome Cleo Wade, an acclaimed poet, author, and speaker known for her profound insights on self-love, mindfulness, and authentic living. Cleo has touched countless lives with her heartfelt words and has authored several best-selling books that inspire readers to embrace their true selves.

    In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Cleo and I delve into the transformative journey of overcoming anxiety. We explore the healing power of words, discussing how journaling can be a tool for self-discovery and emotional release. Cleo shares her personal experiences and practical strategies for recognizing anxiety and replacing it with grounded choices.

    We also talk about the importance of creating daily rituals that nourish the soul and provide a sense of peace amidst the chaos. From simple practices like mindful breathing to the profound impact of connecting with nature, Cleo offers actionable advice for anyone looking to find calm in their daily lives.

    So, find a quiet place, perhaps with a comforting cup of tea, and join me and Cleo for a conversation that promises to inspire and uplift. This episode is a heartfelt journey towards self-acceptance and empowerment that you won't want to miss.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:48 Using words to express yourself

    07:26 Fear-based decisions

    09:30 Anxiety is fear

    11:53 The impact of what we watch and listen to

    16:40 Adapting self-care to fit your daily routine

    20:21 Finding your unique path to wellness

    23:48 How physical activity fuels mental clarity

    31:11 Being lost and finding yourself

    36:21 “Acceptance is truly our natural state…”

    39:56 Understanding pain

    44:04 Where is negative self-talk coming from?

    48:53 You are what you watch

    50:43 Reconnecting with your body and mind

    57:15 The power of gratitude

    1:02:47 Watching people fall in love

    1:06:14 Most difficult emotion to deal with

    1:09:05 Why we need to cry more often

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  25. Is Your Help Doing More Harm Than Good? Signs It's Time to Stop Helping Someone

    9 juli 2024 · 35 min

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    How much help is too much? Lees meer

    This question hits close to home for many of us. We all want to be there for our friends and family, but there comes a point where we need to step back.

    Offering too much help can end up making them dependent on us, preventing them from learning to stand on their own.

    It's all about finding that middle ground – being supportive without taking away their chance to learn and grow independently.

    Today, let's explore the idea of figuring out when our help might be excessive, and whether it's causing any negative impacts on us or the person we're assisting. We've all been in situations where we give a lot without receiving the same in return. To handle this, we need to understand what genuine support truly means.

    Always remember that there are times when you don't have to be the hero for everyone. Sometimes, it's important to take care of yourself first before reaching out to help others.

    What We Discuss:
    00:00 Intro
    00:29 The Savior Complex
    06:49 How do you know if you’re helping someone too much?
    13:54 Are you helping them get better or make themselves feel better?
    16:07 What you want for someone is not necessarily what they want
    18:57 Are you invited to help?
    21:18 Pathological altruism
    26:38 What if helping is harming you?
    30:00 True support

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  26. Louise Hazel: Fitness Misconceptions - What it Means to Get Into the Best Shape of Your Life

    2 juli 2024 · 1 uur 28 min

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    Strong is the new beautiful, but how can women truly embrace their power? Lees meer

    Today, I welcome Louise Hazel, a heptathlete and fitness professional. She gained recognition for her athletic achievements, including competing in the heptathlon, which consists of seven track and field events.

    In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Lou and I cover many topics, from why lifting weights is way more than just a workout to busting myths about strength training. But that's not all! We also talked about how our bodies have their own seasons, and why it's a good thing to really listen to them.

    Ever wondered what to eat before and after hitting the gym? We talked about that too! We also shared our experience of surrounding ourselves with a supportive community for growth.

    Lastly, we shared a candid conversation about dealing with tough times and finding strength in letting go. So, grab a cozy spot, maybe a cup of tea, and join me and Louise for a chat that's as heartwarming as a good friend's hug.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:13 Strength training for women

    03:53 The biggest misconception in weight training

    06:21 Aesthetics is not athletics

    10:58 What it takes to achieve your body goal

    19:02 Macronutrients

    22:12 Building muscle while losing weight

    24:27 What to do if you can’t afford personal trainers?

    28:45 Our bodies cycle through seasons

    30:28 Listen to your body

    32:12 Pre and post-workout meal

    40:48 Body positivity

    49:31 Embracing transformation

    55:48 Quick fitness and workout questions

    57:42 Sacrifices to reach goals

    1:01:00 Building a community for growth and transformation

    1:08:14 Coping with grief through surrendering

    1:19:49 Retreating to come back stronger

    1:22:57 Go-to emotional release

    1:24:32 What type of crier are you?

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  27. Breaking the Cycle of Family Trauma: How to Create New Thought Patterns and Communicate Authentically

    25 juni 2024 · 31 min

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    How many relationships could be saved by a single honest conversation? Lees meer

    Assumptions can be silent relationship killers, creeping into our interactions and creating unnecessary barriers. In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we dive into how unspoken assumptions can drive people apart and how open communication can bring them back together.

    We’ll also explore why we make assumptions, how they affect our lives, and offer practical tips to break the habit. Discover how challenging your assumptions can lead to stronger, more genuine connections.

    Tune in to learn how questioning your assumptions can transform your relationships for the better.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:47 Resolving family drama

    02:24 The problem with taking assumption as truth

    03:55 Why do we have assumptions?

    06:43 How do you stop yourself from making assumptions?

    09:09 Everything is not about you

    10:24 Let go of your fear of discomfort

    13:07 Assumptions can ruin relationships

    15:44 How honest conversations can transform your relationship

    17:15 Give someone the benefit of your doubt

    19:05 “Humans have the need to know…”

    21:05 What to do when you find yourself assuming?

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  28. Alok Vaid-Menon: Accepting Yourself - How to Not Let the Judgement of Others Mold Who You Are

    18 juni 2024 · 1 uur 7 min

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    Real compassion breaks down the barriers that divide us. It's not just about doing nice things, it's about creating a safety net of care. True compassion blurs the lines between "me" and "you." It's about understanding that we're all connected and that looking out for each other is what really matters. Lees meer

    Today, I welcome Alok Vaid-Menon, a writer, performer, and advocate known for their activism in the LGBTQ+ community. They're recognized for their insightful discussions on gender, identity, and social justice. Alok's work often challenges societal norms and perceptions, aiming to promote acceptance and equality for all genders. Their powerful storytelling and performances resonate with audiences worldwide, sparking important conversations about inclusivity and self-expression.

    In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Alok and I talked about how they were able to live authentically and how they found confidence through writing. We also explore finding beauty in the little things and how we connect in this digital world. Alok shares insights on dealing with hate using compassion and where all that hate might actually come from.

    Make sure to sit back and relax as you listen to this insightful and inspiring conversation with Alok!

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:29 Living authentically

    02:15 Finding confidence through writing

    06:17 Growing up different in Texas

    08:24 Cultural influence on parenting

    14:20 Appreciating parent’s sacrfices

    16:34 The beauty in the mundane

    20:24 Connection and community in a digital age

    24:35 Handling hate with compassion

    29:44 Where does hate come from?

    33:33 What is true compassion?

    39:38 Embracing every emotion in our growth

    48:27 The intersection of religion, spirituality, and gender

    52:19 Balancing masculine and feminine energies

    55:52 Living your truth

    58:12 Love across religious divides

    1:01:14 The last time Alok had a good cry

    1:04:12 What kind of crier is Alok?

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  29. What Your Gut Health Says About You: 5 Changes You Can Make to Improve Your Gut

    11 juni 2024 · 35 min

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    Ever heard of the saying, “Listen to your gut?” Lees meer

    Your gut health plays a pivotal role in your overall well-being, influencing everything from digestion and nutrient absorption to immune function and even mood regulation.

    It's like a second brain residing in your abdomen, communicating with your body in ways we're only beginning to understand.

    Today, let's dive deep into simple yet effective ways to maintain a healthy gut. We'll cover practical tips for improving digestion and highlight common foods that can naturally enhance your gut health. We'll also touch on recognizable signs that might indicate if you're experiencing any gut-related issues.

    By following these tips and incorporating digestion-friendly foods into your diet, you're taking a positive step towards a healthier gut and a happier version of yourself.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Everything is linked to our gut

    01:07 What is gut health?

    02:01 Signs of gut issues

    05:56 Your body cleanses your insides at night

    07:22 Tip #1: Control your sugar intake

    13:54 Tip #2: Eat the rainbow - have a variety of natural foods in different colors

    21:38 Tip #3: Stop drinking cold water

    25:10 Tip #4: Incorporate spice in your food

    29:10 Tip #5: Avoid eating raw foods

    32:13 We have a responsibility to look after our health

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  30. Deepica Mutyala & Francia Raísa: Single, Married, or It’s Complicated? Society’s Expectations on Women and How To Find Your Identity Beyond the Stereotypes

    4 juni 2024 · 1 uur 55 min

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    Today, Radhi welcomes two of her amazing best friends to A Really Good Cry, Francia Raisa and Deepica Mutyala!

    In this episode they openly discuss the joys and challenges of their friendship, highlighting the importance of genuine connections and the power of sisterhood. Francia and Deepica also share their personal journeys of defying these expectations and finding happiness in their own paths, proving that life doesn't always follow society's timelines.

    Tune in to this captivating episode and witness the magic that happens when authentic friendships and personal transformations come together.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    04:18 Being single-shamed

    11:08 Choosing not to have kids

    13:08 It’s okay to change your mind

    14:14 Growing on your own first

    18:09 Changing the social norms

    20:38 Trusting yourself first, gain confidence after

    22:51 Handling negative comments

    24:40 Embracing every season of your life

    29:40 “Don’t set yourself up for failure…”

    33:12 Having a community and surrounding yourself with good people

    40:22 Fear of doing something first

    41:17 Masculine and feminine qualities in relationships

    45:27 Definition of man and masculinity in dating

    49:07 Financial responsibility in relationships

    51:33 Be okay with your partner’s vulnerability

    54:04 What makes a woman?

    1:00:05 Qualities of a good friend

    1:12:27 Check up on all your friends

    1:14:44 How to handle unrequested opinions

    1:20:18 Gossiping in relationships

    1:27:12 Things to work on to become a better friend

    1:34:03 Communicate with your friends better

    1:39:53 Be open to new friendships

    1:48:36 What type of crier are you?

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  31. Are You Tired All The Time? Easy to Follow Tips to Increase Your Energy Throughout The Day

    28 mei 2024 · 47 min

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    Feeling tired is something we all deal with—it's like running on empty, trying to keep up with everything on our plates.

    But what if there are simple ways to avoid that drained feeling without making things overly complicated? In this episode, we're diving into eight easy tricks to sidestep that overwhelming tiredness.

    From small adjustments in your routine to proven strategies, we'll uncover these simple yet effective ways to shake off that tiredness. No need for complex routines—just straightforward steps to get back your spark and enthusiasm.

    Here are the 8 ways you could do to avoid feeling tired:

    Get a full-body check-up

    Understand your hormones and cycles

    Take care of your gut

    Make sure to get enough sleep and rest

    Start exercising

    Connect with other people

    Avoid relying on sugar and coffee

    Do meditation and breathing exercises

    Join us as we explore these eight practical techniques, helping you bid farewell to feeling worn out and greet each day feeling energized!

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    02:26 Your body is asking for a break

    04:45 Get a full-body check-up

    06:45 What are the vitamins that you need?

    13:37 The two main minerals

    17:58 Effects of processed foods on our body

    18:38 Hormones and cycles

    24:40 Take care of your gut

    28:45 How to solve your gut issues

    31:29 Sleep and rest

    35:22 Get moving and start exercising

    37:23 Connect with other people

    39:07 Sugar and coffee won’t give you energy

    41:40 Meditation and breath work

    43:01 Why you need to stay hydrated

    44:09 Energy vampires and leaks

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  32. Jessie Inchauspé: The One Ingredient That’s Ruining Your Health. 4 Hacks on How to Eat Sugar and Carbs the Right Way and Curb Your Cravings

    21 mei 2024 · 1 uur 3 min

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    You've heard the saying, 'You are what you eat.' But how true is that really? Lees meer

    On this week’s episode of A Really Good Cry, I had the pleasure of speaking with Jessie Inchauspé, a biochemist and author widely known as the Glucose Goddess. She's revolutionized how we think about diet, glucose, and overall wellness.

    In this episode, Jessie dives into the science of glucose management and its profound impact on our daily lives. She shares her own story of figuring out how to feel better by changing what she eats.

    Don't miss this episode with Jessie as she talks about her easy hacks for managing glucose, discusses the misleading world of food labels, and the personal breakthroughs that have made her a champion of change in nutritional science.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    01:06 Jessie’s backstory

    04:11 You are what you eat

    05:27 What is glucose?

    08:19 When should you get your glucose levels checked?

    13:35 Sugar is addicting

    15:09 The correct order of eating your foods

    20:34 Dress your carbs

    22:10 Exercise after your meal

    24:36 Why you should add vinegar to your foods

    27:26 Have a savory breakfast

    31:06 Find the right diet for you

    35:50 Do you want to start wearing a glucose monitor?

    36:45 Symptoms are messages from your body

    38:10 Food labels red flags

    41:54 The role of diet in fertility

    51:11 Sugar and dementia

    53:28 Can sugar make you depressed?

    56:36 Fast round with Jessie

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  33. Distorted Self Image: Let Go of Negative Self Talk and Create a Positive Relationship With Your Body

    14 mei 2024 · 29 min

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    Breathe in positivity, exhale negativity. Lees meer

    Ever caught yourself looking in the mirror and just feeling, well, not great about what you see? We all have those moments, and they can lead to us being super hard on ourselves.

    When we see a distorted image of ourselves, especially about our body and how we look, we tend to become self-critical and resort to negative self-talk.

    Today, we are going to focus on breaking out of that kind of mindset and focusing on giving ourselves so much love. Let's talk about how to get out of this distorted mindset and focus more on self-appreciation. We start by discovering three things we truly love about ourselves and how to be in a space where societal expectations and opinions no longer hold sway over your authenticity.

    There is a profound impact in changing the way we talk to ourselves. Positive self-talk isn't just about words; it's about nurturing inner dialogue that ignites joy and self-compassion.

    But it doesn't end with self-love. Compliments are more than words; they're a gift of affirmation that uplifts not just the recipient, but also the giver.

    Let's celebrate the magic of being unapologetically ourselves and embrace the beauty we hold within us.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Surprise energy work with a stranger

    02:20 The 3 things you love about yourself

    07:50 It’s so freeing to not just care

    10:57 Change how you talk to yourself

    12:59 Appreciate your body

    15:09 Compliment other people

    18:04 Negative relationship with the concept of being skinny

    18:42 Take social media breaks

    20:02 The truth about comparison

    24:40 The clothes for when I…

    26:16 You are the soul and not the body

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  34. Tan France: Your Past Doesn't Define You - How To Find Strength to Break Barriers and Be Yourself

    7 mei 2024 · 1 uur 17 min

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    Remember the feeling of excitement as a child when you spotted someone who looked like you on TV? That rush of validation and connection is at the heart of why representation matters. Lees meer

    On this week’s episode of A Really Good Cry, I had the pleasure of speaking with Tan France, a prominent fashion designer, television personality, and author. He’s best known for his chic style and groundbreaking role as a fashion expert on the Emmy-winning series, "Queer Eye."

    In this episode, Tan delves into how his unique background has shaped his perspective on fashion and identity, and he shares his journey of overcoming cultural barriers to become a voice of change in the fashion industry.

    Don't miss this episode with Tan France, as he opens up about his life challenges, cultural influences, and the personal evolution that has shaped him.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:42 From pain to purpose

    03:38 Moving out of the UK

    09:56 Finding freedom in love

    14:15 Relationship between race and self-acceptance

    20:03 The burden of minority representation

    24:55 Fame and responsibility

    28:07 Embracing the duality and maintaining happiness

    32:56 What determines a real friendship?

    41:26 Is Tan a member of the Illuminati?

    44:34 Building confidence and overcoming imposter syndrome

    51:59 Wanting to walk away from fame

    58:11 Maintaining positivity online

    1:01:55 Practicing gratitude

    1:04:37 Dealing with rudeness

    1:06:23 Rapid fire questions with Tan

    1:13:41 What type of crier is Tan France?

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  35. Are You Emotionally Unavailable? How To Control Your Emotions So They Don’t Control You

    30 april 2024 · 38 min

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    When was the last time you cried? Lees meer

    For some, crying can be seen as a sign of weakness or vulnerability. Society often teaches us that showing our feelings, especially by crying, should be avoided or suppressed, especially in certain situations or if we want to appear strong.

    But it's crucial to understand that crying is a natural and healthy way to release bottled-up emotions and stress. It's a physical response that helps us deal with different situations and emotions. Trying to hold back tears can negatively affect our mental and emotional well-being, possibly making us more stressed, anxious, or even physically unwell.

    Today, let's talk about the positive effects of crying and releasing our emotions. Crying is not a sign of weakness, but rather an essential aspect of being human. It provides an avenue for emotional release, stress relief, enhanced mood, mental clarity, and deeper connections with others.

    So, the next time you feel like shedding a tear, don't hold back. It's perfectly okay and can be quite beneficial for your overall well-being.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:39 Story behind ‘A Really Good Cry’

    03:34 Crying and emotional release

    05:32 Embracing and processing emotions

    07:54 Emotions are signs from our body

    10:20 Recognizing and understanding your emotions

    14:02 Why do we suppress emotions?

    18:01 Signs and symptoms of trapped emotions

    22:19 Where do you carry your emotions?

    24:56 “Learn how to see people in the gray and live in the gray…”

    29:15 Other types of emotional release

    34:00 Be equanimous

    36:36 Different kinds of criers

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  36. Tia Mowry: You’re Unhappy and You Don’t Know it - Learn to Leave the Comfort of Being Unhappy

    23 april 2024 · 1 uur 14 min

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    In a world where everyone keeps telling us who we should be, finding the courage to love ourselves authentically can be a breakthrough. Lees meer

    Today, I had the great opportunity to speak with Tia Mowry, an actress, producer, author, and television personality, best known for her role on the sitcom "Sister, Sister," which she starred in alongside her identical twin sister, Tamera Mowry.

    Discover how Tia, known for her vibrant energy and magnetic personality, sets out on a path of self-discovery and healing From the highs of fame to the challenges of personal growth, Tia shares her candid experiences with learning to prioritize self-care, embraces her inner strength, and find joy in the solitude of her own company.

    Tia's story is a powerful testament to the importance of self-love in a world that often pushes us toward external validation. Whether it's through meditation, journaling, or simply taking a moment to acknowledge her accomplishments, Tia's journey is a reminder that self-love isn't just about self-care rituals; it's about creating a life where you are the source of your happiness and fulfillment.

    So, tune in to be inspired by Tia's journey and learn how to cultivate a deeper sense of self-love in your own life. It's a conversation that promises to uplift, inspire, and empower you to embrace the beauty of being your own best friend.

    What We Discuss:

    00:00 Intro

    00:58 Learning to choose yourself

    03:03 Positive affirmations and being present

    06:12 Finding courage in the unknown

    10:47 Being comfortable in an unhappy place

    15:16 Going to therapy

    20:34 Letting go of your past self

    24:09 Breaking free from approval

    30:45 Coming back home to yourself

    35:09 Nurturing spiritual curiosity in children

    40:17 Taking responsibility for your life

    46:18 Building confidence

    49:53 Overcoming negative self-talk

    55:37 Going on a solo trip for the first time

    1:01:50 Being okay with change

    1:05:17 Tia’s go-to self-care products

    1:07:57 Dealing with anxiety and ang…

  37. Introducing: A Really Good Cry with Radhi Devlukia

    16 april 2024 · 1 min

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    A Really Good Cry with Radhi won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. A space to feel it all: laugh, cry and everything in between. As you go through the seasons of life, the emotions, the uncomfortable, the good stuff and even on those days you ‘just don't want to’, these conversations will have something for you. Whether it's vulnerable moments with friends, discussions with experts, or the wisdom, research and experiences that Radhi learns herself and shares with you; this podcast will be the bridge between you and the person you’re becoming. Lees meer

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