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  1. How to Stop Feeling Like Roommates Instead of Partners | Sex With Emily

    8 mei 2026 · 46 min

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    In this episode of Sex With Emily, I answer your real questions about long-term relationships, desire, pleasure, communication, and what it actually takes to keep intimacy alive over time. We get into why so many couples feel disconnected after years together, how shame and stress impact our ability to receive pleasure, and why better sex starts with curiosity instead of pressure or performance. Lees meer

    I also talk about receiving pleasure, mismatched desires, body confidence, communication, keeping attraction alive after moving in together, and why anticipation and novelty play such a big role in desire. This episode is all about learning how to communicate more openly, better understand yourself and your partner, and create a sex life that feels more connected, exciting, and sustainable long-term.

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    ABOUT EMILY:

    Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

    CONNECT:

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    WANT MORE?

    Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

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  2. The Real Reason Sex Feels Like Pressure Instead of Pleasure

    5 mei 2026 · 54 min

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    In this episode live recording of Sex With Emily, I break down what’s really getting in the way of your pleasure, from the way most of us were taught about sex to why so many people feel disconnected, pressured, or stuck in their heads during intimacy. I explain how performance-based thinking replaces sensation, why desire changes over time, and what it actually takes to build trust with your body again. Lees meer

    We also get into how to communicate what you want with a partner, how to bridge the gap between solo pleasure and partnered sex, and why slowing down is the key to feeling more present and connected. If you’ve ever felt like something is off in your sex life or struggled to relax and enjoy it, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening and how to create more confidence, clarity, and pleasure moving forward.

    Note: This was a live recording from November 2025.

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    ABOUT EMILY:

    Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

    CONNECT:

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    Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

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  3. The Real Reasons You’re Not Satisfied in Bed

    1 mei 2026 · 52 min

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    In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I answer your real questions about sex, desire, and relationships while breaking down some of the biggest myths we’ve been taught, from porn shaping unrealistic expectations to the truth about size, pleasure, and communication. Lees meer

    I also dive into why so many people feel blocked or “not normal” in their sex lives, how fantasies actually form, what really leads to better sex (hint: it’s not performance), and how to talk to your partner about what you want without shame or shutdowns. My goal is to help you understand your body and your desires more clearly, release the judgment around them, and ultimately create more pleasure, confidence, and connection in your sex life.

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    ABOUT EMILY:

    Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

    CONNECT:

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    WANT MORE?

    Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

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    Chapters:
    0:00 Introduction & Safe Space Guidelines

    2:14 Understanding Sexual Desires & …

  4. How To Ask For What You Want in Bed: Fantasy Edition

    28 april 2026 · 33 min

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    In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I’m diving into the truth about fantasies… why we have them, why so many of us are afraid to share them, and how to talk about them with a partner without pressure or shame. I break down what fantasies actually are (and what they’re not), why silence in relationships often comes from self-protection rather than secrecy, and how to create space for honest, judgment-free conversations about sex. I also take live questions from a caller who’s navigating dating transparency, emotional boundaries, and how to communicate clearly without rushing intimacy. This episode originally aired as a live stream, and I’m so excited to bring it to you as a podcast- real talk, real questions, and practical tools to help you feel more connected, confident, and open in your sex life. Lees meer

    ABOUT EMILY:
    Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

    CONNECT:
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/
    X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily
    Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily

    WANT MORE?
    Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.
    Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/
    Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text
    Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe
    Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

    Chapters:
    00:00 Fantasies Are Not What You Think

    01:16 How To Talk About Fantasies Without Pressure

    02:45 Creating A No Judgment Space

    04:33 …

  5. Is Your Sex Life “Normal”?

    24 april 2026 · 41 min

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    In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I’m answering your real, unfiltered questions, covering everything from casual sex and whether it’s actually right for you, to performance anxiety and what really happens to your sex life after the honeymoon phase ends. We get into how to talk to your partner about things like blood flow and stress playing a bigger role in arousal than you think, and how to reignite connection when sex starts to feel routine or less frequent. I also break down why scheduling sex isn’t boring- It’s actually one of the most powerful tools for long-term intimacy! Also, solo pleasure can support (not replace) your relationship. If you’ve ever wondered “is this normal?” when it comes to your sex life… this episode is for you. Lees meer

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    ABOUT EMILY:

    Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

    CONNECT:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/

    X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily

    Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily

    WANT MORE?

    Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

    Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/

    Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text

    Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe

    Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

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    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction to the LIVE

    01:10 Let’s Talk…

  6. Missionary Isn’t Boring, You’re Just Doing It Wrong

    21 april 2026 · 32 min

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    I know what you're thinking. Missionary? Really? But hear me out, because I genuinely believe missionary might be the most underrated position in existence, and the reason most people are bored by it has nothing to do with the position itself. It has everything to do with what they're not doing in it. Lees meer

    In this episode, I'm breaking down every missionary myth, sharing the techniques that actually work for clitoral stimulation during penetration, and answering your listener's questions on everything from G-spot orgasms to asking your partner to bend you over the kitchen table.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why the porn version of penetrative sex works for only about 30% of vulva owners and what the rest of us actually need to get there, including the CAT technique that makes missionary the best position for clitoral stimulation

    • How to tell your partner you want them to dominate you, talk dirty, and bring more intensity to sex without making them feel like they've been doing it wrong this whole time

    • Why incorporating a vibrator into partnered sex is one of the best things you can do for your sex life, and how to ask for it even if you're a people pleaser who's spent years putting everyone else's comfort before your own pleasure

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    • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

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  7. Why You’re Not Having the Sex You Want (& How to Fix It)

    17 april 2026 · 32 min

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    In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I dive into your real-time questions about sex, dating, desire, and connection… breaking down what might actually be blocking you from the intimacy and pleasure you want. From why it can feel harder to approach people or build attraction, to how stress, overthinking, and disconnection from your body and partner impact desire, I unpack the hidden patterns shaping your sex life. We explore everything from casual sex after breakups to how couples can reignite the spark, approach intimacy more intentionally, and create more ease, confidence, and fun in both sex and modern dating. Lees meer

    ABOUT EMILY:

    Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

    CONNECT:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/

    X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily

    Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily

    WANT MORE?

    Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

    Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/

    Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text

    Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe

    Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction to the LIVE

    01:16 How to Call/Text Your Questions

    01:49 Valentine’s Day & 21 Years of Podcasting

    02:36 Why Couples Love Listening Together

    04:33 Desire vs. Arousal Explained

    05:21 Can You Coregasm at the Gym?

    06:59 Blood Flow & Body Responses

    07:53 Is This Normal?

    09:02 What Some Wome…

  8. The Sex Conversations You're Too Afraid to Have

    14 april 2026 · 48 min

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    I've said it a thousand times and I'll say it again, the number one thing standing between you and the sex life you actually want is probably one conversation you haven't had yet. Not a new position. Not a new toy. A conversation. And I know that sounds simple, but if it were easy, you wouldn't be talking yourself out of it every single time. Lees meer

    Today, I'm taking live listener calls on some of the most awkward, most avoided, most necessary conversations in sex and relationships, and giving you the exact words to have them.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • What to do when everything in your relationship is great except the sex — and how to bring it up without making your partner feel like the last nine months were a waste

    • How to give feedback about a smell, a skill, or a habit that's getting in the way of your pleasure — without shame, without cruelty, and without killing the mood

    • Why if you're freezing up every time you want to initiate, the problem probably isn't your partner's response — it's the story you're telling yourself before you even open your mouth

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    • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

    • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

    • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

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  9. Can Making Sound Unlock Better Pleasure? W/ Taryn Toomey

    10 april 2026 · 55 min

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    What if the key to better sex wasn't about technique — it was about learning to feel your own body again? Taryn Toomey, founder of The Class, joined me live at Eudaimonia to break down how 13 years of somatic movement quietly rewired her relationship with pleasure, sound, and receiving — and why the two aren't as different as you'd think. Lees meer

    From faking orgasms in her 20s to purring her way through her "delicious" 40s, Taryn gets raw about her two-year stretch of only receiving oral sex, falling deeply in love after divorce, and what it really means to let someone in — body and soul.

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    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why the sounds you make in a workout and the sounds you make in bed come from the exact same place — and how unlocking one unlocks the other

    • How Taryn's two-year "oral sex only" era taught her more about receiving, boundaries, and her own body than any relationship ever did

    • The one breathwork tool that works both in The Class and during sex to get out of your head and back into your body — instantly

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  10. What Kills the Spark (And How to Get It Back)

    7 april 2026 · 37 min

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    Whether you're trying to work up the nerve to ask out your office crush, figuring out what you actually want in bed, or navigating a decades-long relationship that's hit a sexual wall — the answer almost always comes back to the same thing: you have to be willing to go there. Say the thing. Ask the question. Have the conversation you've been putting off. Lees meer

    In this episode, I'm taking listener calls on everything from the first nervous steps back into dating to the hard conversations that long-term couples are too scared to start.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why dating is a muscle — and what to actually do when you've been out of the game so long that even asking someone out feels impossible

    • What really happens to a vulva when a woman is fully aroused, why morning sex resentment is almost never just about morning sex, and what to do when your sexual awakening happens 20 years into a committed relationship

    • How to talk to your kids about sex early and often in a way that builds confidence instead of shame — starting with something as simple as using the right words for their body parts

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    • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

    • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

    • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

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    Chapters:

    0:00 - Intro

    2:07 - How to Ask Out an Office Crush Without Overthinking It

    6:06 - Breaking Out of …

  11. How Trauma Makes You Say Yes When You Mean No

    3 april 2026 · 45 min

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    Most women can name every product in their skincare routine but can't tell you the last time they actually paid attention to their vulva. Not because you don't care — because nobody ever taught you to. And that silence is costing women their pleasure, their comfort, and sometimes their health. Lees meer

    In this episode, I sit down with OB-GYN and women's sexual health expert Dr. Sherry Ross — author of the V-ology book series and someone I consider one of the most important voices in women's intimate health — for the most practical, shame-free conversation about vulva and vaginal health I've ever had on this show.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why your vulva needs the same care and attention as your face — and what most of us are getting completely wrong about cleaning, moisturizing, and maintaining vaginal health at every age

    • The truth about painful sex, perimenopause, and recurring infections — what's actually causing them, why doctors keep dismissing the symptoms, and the solutions most women have never been told about

    • Whether every woman can learn to squirt, what your labia is supposed to look like, and why the clitoris — the road to success — might be the most important thing you're not paying enough attention to

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    • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily’s favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply).5

    • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

    • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

    • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

    • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

    • Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube

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  12. Everything About Your Vulva Explained

    31 maart 2026 · 25 min

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    Most women can name every product in their skincare routine but can't tell you the last time they actually paid attention to their vulva. Not because you don't care — because nobody ever taught you to. And that silence is costing women their pleasure, their comfort, and sometimes their health. Lees meer

    In this episode, I sit down with OB-GYN and women's sexual health expert Dr. Sherry Ross — author of the V-ology book series and someone I consider one of the most important voices in women's intimate health — for the most practical, shame-free conversation about vulva and vaginal health I've ever had on this show.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why your vulva needs the same care and attention as your face — and what most of us are getting completely wrong about cleaning, moisturizing, and maintaining vaginal health at every age

    • The truth about painful sex, perimenopause, and recurring infections — what's actually causing them, why doctors keep dismissing the symptoms, and the solutions most women have never been told about

    • Whether every woman can learn to squirt, what your labia is supposed to look like, and why the clitoris — the road to success — might be the most important thing you're not paying enough attention to

    This episode is sponsored by...

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    • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

    • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

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  13. What Happens to Your Body During Anal (Surgeon Explains)

    27 maart 2026 · 51 min

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    If you've ever avoided anal because it hurt, felt intimidating, or just had too many unanswered questions — you haven't had the right conversation yet. Whether you're completely new to backdoor play or you've been doing it for years without the proper foundation, most people are skipping the steps that actually make it feel good. And that's not a problem. That's an education problem. Lees meer

    In this episode, I sit down with nationally renowned anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein — founder of Bespoke Surgical and Future Method — for the most honest, shame-free breakdown of anal health and pleasure you're going to find anywhere.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why anal sex should never be painful, what's actually causing the pain, and the exact 4-6 week protocol that prepares your body the right way

    • The truth about douching, wet wipes, and why most people are unknowingly damaging their anal microbiome before sex even starts

    • How to navigate anal with hemorrhoids, skin tags, or past injuries — and what your options actually are when something goes wrong

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    More Dr. Emily:

    • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily’s favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply).5

    • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

    • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

    • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

    • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

    • Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube

    • Let’s text: Sign up here

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    Chapters:

    0:00 - Intro
    …

  14. The Night a 20 Year Marriage Changed Forever

    24 maart 2026 · 28 min

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    If you've ever felt like everyone else is having the sex life you're supposed to have — and you're just white-knuckling your way through it, faking it, or coming up empty — you're not broken. You're just not talking about it yet. Whether it's a desire you've been too scared to voice, a fantasy you've kept to yourself for years, or a body that's never quite gotten there with a partner, the shift almost always starts the same way: someone finally said the thing out loud. Lees meer

    In this episode, three real listeners share the moments that changed everything for them — and none of it looks the way you'd expect.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • What finally happened when one husband spent months asking his wife for something she wasn't sure about — and why one unexpected text message changed their relationship and sex life forever

    • How a 20-year marriage, a night out dancing, and a chance encounter with a stranger led to a first threesome that was hotter, messier, and more human than any fantasy

    • Why so many vulva owners can't orgasm during penetration — and the exact combination of communication, touch, and mindset that finally got one woman there after years of trying

    This episode is sponsored by...

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    More Dr. Emily:

    • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily’s favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply).5

    • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

    • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.

    • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

    • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website

    • Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube

    • Let’s text: Sign up here

    • Wa…

  15. Why This Athlete Has the Best Sex of Her Life

    20 maart 2026 · 38 min

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    If you've built a life that looks great from the outside but still feels like something's missing on the inside, the problem might not be your relationship — it might be how much of yourself you're actually bringing to it. Whether it's a body image spiral that shuts you down in the bedroom, a long-term dynamic that's gone quietly cold, or a fear of vulnerability that's been running the show since day one, the shift almost always starts with one honest conversation. Lees meer

    In this episode, volleyball legend, entrepreneur, and mother of three Gabby Reece gets real about what it actually takes to keep desire, respect, and intimacy alive after decades together — and why most of us are working harder than we need to.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why the masculine and feminine dynamic has been completely misunderstood — and how redefining it can transform your relationship and your sex life

    • What Gabby and Laird's 48-hour rule actually looks like in practice, and whether a structure like that could work for you

    • How to stop torturing yourself in the bedroom and finally get out of your head long enough to actually feel something

    • The real reason long-term relationships lose their spark — and the daily habits that keep attraction from quietly dying

    • How to talk to your kids about sex, body image, and peer pressure in a way that actually lands

    • Why vulnerability isn't a personality trait you either have or don't — it's a skill, and it's one you can learn

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  16. The Talk Every Couple Needs to Have

    17 maart 2026 · 37 min

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    If you've ever felt completely lost when it comes to dating, desire, or keeping the spark alive in a long-term relationship, you're not doing it wrong — you're just missing the conversation. Whether it's an office crush you can't read, a sexual awakening at 48 that's putting your 20-year relationship in crisis, or a partner whose needs feel totally out of sync with yours, the answer almost always comes back to the same thing: talking about it. Lees meer

    In this episode, I'm taking live calls and listener questions on some of the messiest, most real situations in sex and relationships — and giving you the clarity to actually move forward.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • How to stop overthinking and finally make a move — whether it's an office crush, a first date, or reconnecting with someone from your past

    • What to do when your long-term partner's needs and yours no longer match up, including mismatched sex drives, resentment around morning sex, and the conversation most couples are too scared to have

    • How to talk to your kids about sex and bodies starting at age four — without shame, without awkwardness, and in a way that actually sticks

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  17. How to Have FaceTime Sex (Without the Awkwardness)

    13 maart 2026 · 36 min

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    If the idea of FaceTime sex makes you want to immediately close your laptop and never speak of it again, I get it — but hear me out. Whether you're in a long-distance relationship, traveling, or just looking to try something new with a partner you see every day, virtual sex is one of the most underrated tools for keeping intimacy alive. And when you do it right, it's genuinely hot. Lees meer

    In this episode, I'm walking you through everything you need to know — from the practical setup to what to actually say — so it stops feeling awkward and starts feeling like real sex.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • How to actually set up, prepare, and get in the mood before the call — including the one thing you can do beforehand that builds confidence and arousal at the same time

    • What to say during FaceTime sex, even if dirty talk doesn't come naturally to you — plus how to use past memories, future fantasies, and simple direction to keep things moving

    • How to handle it when your partner's virtual kinks don't match yours, when sexting with someone outside your relationship starts bleeding into your real one, and how to know when a sexting session is actually over

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  18. The Truth About Hookup Culture Nobody Tells You

    10 maart 2026 · 35 min

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    Casual sex gets a bad reputation — but most of that reputation comes from doing it wrong. When it's rushed, unspoken, or emotionally misaligned, it can leave you feeling used, confused, or chasing someone who was never on the same page. But when you approach it with self-awareness and a willingness to actually say what you want, it can be exactly what you need. Lees meer

    In this episode, I'm breaking down what conscious casual sex actually looks like — the different forms it can take, how to know if it's right for you right now, and the two things that separate a genuinely satisfying hookup from one that sends you into a shame spiral.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • The real difference between casual sex and hookup culture — and why "casual" doesn't have to mean disposable, careless, or emotionally disconnected

    • How to know if casual sex is actually a good fit for you right now, including the one attachment pattern that almost always makes it backfire

    • What to say before, during, and after a casual encounter to make sure your needs actually get met — and how to navigate hooking up within a friend group without blowing everything up

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  19. Why Your Fantasies Are Sexually Healthy

    6 maart 2026 · 39 min

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    If you've ever felt ashamed of a sexual fantasy, I want you to know that having one isn't a sign that something is wrong with you — it's actually a sign of a healthy sex life. Fantasies can reveal what you truly crave, deepen your connection with a partner, and completely transform your relationship with your own desire. But most of us were never taught how to think about them, let alone talk about them out loud. Lees meer

    In this episode, I'm breaking down what your fantasies actually mean, why you don't need to act on all of them, and exactly how to bring one up with a partner without it feeling terrifying.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • What the most common fantasies reveal about your psychological needs — and why the ones that embarrass you the most are usually the most telling

    • My step-by-step framework for communicating a fantasy to a partner (even if you've never done it before and have no idea where to start)

    • What to do if you can't seem to fantasize at all — including why a history of trauma or a conservative upbringing can shut down your erotic imagination, and how to gently rebuild it

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    1:47 - The Most Common Fantasies (Group Sex, BDSM, Voyeurism & More)

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  20. How to Have Sex While On Antidepressants

    3 maart 2026 · 41 min

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    If you're on antidepressants and your sex drive has completely disappeared, I want you to know that you're not broken, and you don't have to choose between feeling mentally well and having a fulfilling sex life. Lees meer

    SSRIs like Lexapro, Zoloft, and Prozac are genuinely life-changing for so many people, but nobody warns you that they can tank your desire, make orgasms nearly impossible, and quietly wreck your relationship in the process.

    In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly why this happens, and more importantly, what you can actually do about it. From simple timing hacks to alternative treatments that are showing real promise.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why SSRIs suppress desire and arousal on a hormonal level — and the one hack that can reduce side effects as soon as tonight

    • How to rebuild your sex drive when both you and your partner are medicated (yes, this is more common than you think)

    • The alternative treatments — TMS therapy, ketamine, and psilocybin — that are helping people get off antidepressants entirely

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  21. The Beginner's Guide to Anal Pleasure

    27 februari 2026 · 28 min

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    Solo anal play might be the most misunderstood sex act out there, and I’m done letting shame, myths, and bad porn narratives keep you from one of the most pleasurable things you can do for yourself. Whether you're completely new to anal or just looking for a place to finally start, this episode is your no-judgment, fully practical guide to exploring on your own terms. Lees meer

    From the anatomy behind why it actually feels so good (yes, for all genitals) to the exact tools, lube, and prep you need to get started safely, I break it all down with zero shame and a lot of science. Plus, I answer real listener questions about positioning, bringing it up with a partner, and the mess concerns that are quietly keeping most people from ever trying.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why anal stimulation can unlock full-body orgasms for every anatomy — and the nerve science that explains it

    • The three biggest anal myths (and why they're completely wrong)

    • Exactly how to prep, what to buy, and how to start — so your first experience is actually pleasurable

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  22. Why This Is Halle Berry’s Sexiest Chapter Yet

    24 februari 2026 · 46 min

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    After years of thinking love wasn't in the cards, Golden Globe, Emmy and Academy Award winning actor Halle Berry stopped chasing and that's exactly when everything changed. In this live conversation from Eudemonia, Halle and I get into what it really takes to have a loving connection and incredible sex in your 50s, why she thought her partner gave her herpes (spoiler: it was perimenopause), and how becoming whole on her own finally attracted the relationship she'd always wanted. Lees meer

    From faking multiple orgasms in her 20s to now having no problem telling her partner exactly what she needs, Halle shares why the "zero fucks to give" era might just be the sexiest time of a woman's life. She also opens up about misdiagnosis, advocating for women's health in Washington, and why she's throwing herself a "siesta" party when she officially hits menopause in March.

    Don't forget to watch the full video podcast on YouTube!

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why chasing a relationship kept Halle attracting the wrong partners—and what shifted when she finally prioritized herself

    • How vaginal dryness got misdiagnosed as herpes and Sjögren's disease, and what that taught her about the gaps in women's healthcare

    • The permission slip every woman needs to stop performing in bed and start asking for what actually feels good

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  23. You’re Missing Out on Better Orgasms (and Sex!) – Here’s Why!

    20 februari 2026 · 41 min

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    Blood flow might not sound sexy, but it’s the fuel behind satisfying sex. Lees meer

    In this live episode from the A4M Longevity Conference in Las Vegas, I sit down with certified nurse practitioner and ⁠Medical Director at GAINSWave, Chrislyn Chaloupka, to discuss how GAINSWave’s non-invasive regenerative therapy is reshaping sexual wellness by addressing root causes rather than simply masking symptoms.

    We dive into why your body might not be responding the way it used to, from erections that fade under pressure to that frustrating gap between wanting sex and your body just not cooperating.

    Chrislyn breaks down how this painless 15-minute treatment works (that I even tried myself), and we get real about everything from porn-induced desensitization to why erectile challenges can actually be your heart trying to tell you something important.

    Don't forget to watch the full video podcast on YouTube!

    What you'll learn:

    • Why "just relax and use more lube" isn't solving your arousal problems—and what actually will

    • How shockwave therapy can help with everything from weak orgasms to stress urinary incontinence (yes, the sneeze-and-pee situation)

    • The psychological factors that can make even the best physical treatments fail until you address the deeper story

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  24. Your Sexting Is Boring (Here's How to Fix It)

    17 februari 2026 · 28 min

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    Sexting sounds simple until you're actually staring at your phone, cursor blinking, wondering if what you're about to send is hot or just... weird. In this episode, I'm giving you the full breakdown on how to text dirty with confidence—because good sexting is really just foreplay with a keyboard. Lees meer

    I'm answering your questions about everything from how to build tension with something as small as three dots, to what to do when your partner wants to sext around the clock but you're just not feeling it. Plus, I'm sharing some of the hottest sexts the Sex With Emily community has ever received (you asked, you delivered, and wow).

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • The "past and future" technique that makes writing a sext way less intimidating—and way more effective

    • What to say when your long-distance partner's sexting pace doesn't match yours (hint: you're allowed to set your own rhythm)

    • How sexting can actually help you communicate desires that feel too awkward to say face-to-face

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  25. Chemistry vs Compatibility: Know the Difference

    13 februari 2026 · 33 min

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    Whether you're questioning who you're attracted to or wondering why someone incredible on paper leaves you feeling nothing below the waist, you're not alone. In this episode, I unpack the messy, confusing space between wanting someone and wanting to build a life with them—and why those two things don't always line up. Lees meer

    From a woman who's always identified as straight but can't stop fantasizing about women, to a listener who's been getting nothing but one-arm hugs after six dates, I get into the questions most people are too afraid to ask out loud. I also share what the science actually says about attraction—including why your post-gym crush might not be as real as it feels, and what your birth control could be doing to your "type."

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why putting a label on your sexuality might be the last thing you need to do right now—and what to try instead

    • The conversation that can save you months (or years) of wondering where you stand with someone who won't make a move

    • What to do when you and your partner are both waiting for the other person to take control in bed

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  26. Listen to This If Valentine’s Day Stresses You Out

    10 februari 2026 · 36 min

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    A Pressure-Free Reframe on Desire, Connection, and Sex Lees meer

    This isn't your typical Valentine's Day episode. I'm skipping the performance pressure and Pinterest-perfect expectations to focus on what actually matters: real connection. Drawing from thousands of your survey responses—and two decades of hearing the same struggles around desire mismatch, stress, and intimacy—I built this Valentine's guide around your actual pain points, not trending hashtags.

    From why sensory play beats a five-star reservation to how sleep might be the sexiest gift you can give yourself, I break down the science and stories behind lasting desire.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why prioritizing rest is actually foreplay—and how just one extra hour of sleep can increase desire by 14%

    • How to use your senses (not grand gestures) to create genuine intimacy and take the guesswork out of date night

    • The difference between romance as performance and connection your body actually feels—and why that distinction changes everything

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  27. I Don't Know What I Want Sexually (Help)

    6 februari 2026 · 36 min

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    Whether you've been with your partner for ten months or ten years, knowing what you actually want in bed is harder than it sounds—especially if you never got the chance to explore. In this episode, Dr. Emily takes listener calls about the real challenges that keep couples stuck: shame around masturbation, mismatched experience levels, and the fear that fading passion means something's broken. Lees meer

    From a wife who's never had a partner ask what she wants to a husband hiding his solo sessions in the basement, Emily breaks down why sexual self-discovery isn't selfish—it's essential. She also tackles what to do when your partner wants to swing but you're not sure, and why taking penetration off the table might be the fastest way to bring the heat back.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why being a skilled lover has nothing to do with how many people you've slept with—and everything to do with curiosity and communication

    • How to take the lead in bed without becoming a completely different person (even if you've always been submissive)

    • The "hell yes or hell no" rule for navigating swinging, threesomes, and any sexual experience that makes you feel vulnerable

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  28. "Shame Around Masturbation Ruins Your Sex Life"

    3 februari 2026 · 38 min

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    Solo sex is one of the most powerful tools you have for better partnered sex — and most people are barely scratching the surface. In this throwback episode, Dr. Emily makes the case for why your relationship with yourself might be the most important sexual relationship you'll ever have. Lees meer

    From finding out what actually turns you on to using masturbation as a way to manage stress and boost confidence, Emily covers everything you need to know about flying solo — including how to bring toys into the mix without awkwardness. She also takes listener calls about navigating different libidos in relationships, dealing with performance anxiety, and figuring out how to ask for what you want in bed.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why masturbation is essential for sexual self-awareness — not just a fallback when you're single

    • How to explore fantasies and toys on your own so you can communicate better with partners

    • The connection between solo pleasure, stress relief, and overall sexual confidence

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  29. Why Does Sex Stop After Marriage?

    30 januari 2026 · 39 min

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    When the wedding’s over and real life kicks in, it’s so common for sex to shift — sometimes fast. In this throwback live show, Dr. Emily tackles the myth that marriage equals the end of your sex life, and breaks down how to bring back that “honeymoon energy” without forcing it or turning intimacy into another chore. Lees meer

    Emily shares a simple framework for staying connected long-term (including her idea of “sex vows”), then takes calls from listeners navigating a sudden post-marriage libido drop and the emotional whiplash of being single while everyone around you is getting engaged.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Why desire often drops after commitment — and how to address it before resentment builds

    • Practical ways to revive novelty and reconnect (including “sex vows” you can actually use)

    • How to handle the pressure and loneliness when it feels like everyone else is getting married

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  30. LIVE With Emily - What Nobody Taught You About Dirty Talk

    27 januari 2026 · 46 min

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    You want to talk to your partner about sex. You really do. But every time you try, your throat closes, your chest tightens, and suddenly it feels easier to just… not. You're not bad at communication — your brain is literally wired to treat these conversations like threats. In this live show, I break down exactly why sex talks trigger fight-or-flight, how shame keeps us mute in the bedroom, and what to do when you've been together for years and never actually talked about what you want. Lees meer

    This episode was recorded LIVE across my social platforms at @sexwithemily — part of a new evolution of the show as we head into my 21st year of the podcast. After over two decades of talking about sex, I've learned that real, unscripted conversations create the deepest breakthroughs.

    You'll hear real questions, real interaction, and the energy of being LIVE together as we explore how to build a sex life that actually feels good, without shame or judgment. Tune in most Tuesdays and Thursdays at 5 PM PST on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, Facebook, and Twitch all @sexwithemily.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why your brain treats sex conversations like danger (and how to override it)

    • How to find your sexual voice and stop cringing when you try to speak up

    • A husband's honest question about rekindling intimacy after kids

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  31. LIVE With Emily - Stress Is Stealing Your Orgasms

    23 januari 2026 · 40 min

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    You're in love. You're committed. So why does sex feel like it dropped off the priority list somewhere between laundry and meal prep? You're not broken — you're just busy, stressed, and maybe a little stuck in your head. In this live show, Dr. Emily answers your unfiltered questions about what happens when desire fades, how to talk to a partner who clams up about what they want, and why the "how often should we be having sex?" question is missing the point entirely. Lees meer

    This episode was recorded live across my social platforms at @sexwithemily — part of a new evolution of the show as we head into my 21st year of the podcast. After over two decades of talking about sex, I've learned that real, unscripted conversations create the deepest breakthroughs. You'll hear real questions, real interaction, and the energy of being live together as we explore how to build a sex life that actually feels good — without shame or judgment. Tune in most Tuesdays and Thursdays at 5 PM PST on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, Facebook, and Twitch all @sexwithemily.

    You can now watch the full video podcast on YouTube!

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why "how often should we have sex?" is the wrong question — and what to ask instead

    • The three pleasure thieves silently wrecking your libido

    • How to help a shy partner open up about their desires (without making it awkward)

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  32. LIVE With Emily - Sex Became a Chore for Me Too

    20 januari 2026 · 52 min

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    Let's be honest — for all the progress we've made, most of us still don't know how to talk about sex. We can talk about work, money, kids, literally everything else. But ask your partner what actually turns them on? Cue panic. Lees meer

    In this live show, Dr. Emily opens up the gates for your questions and wow, you did not hold back. She tackles why sex stops feeling fun and starts feeling like a chore, what's really going on when desire disappears, and how to flip the script from obligation back to connection.

    This episode was recorded live across my social platforms at @sexwithemily — a new evolution of the show as we head into my 21st year of the podcast.

    After over two decades of talking about sex, I’ve learned that real, unscripted conversations create the deepest breakthroughs. You’ll hear real questions, real interaction, and the energy of being live together as we explore how to build a sex life that actually feels good — without shame or judgment. Don't forget to tune in on most Tuesdays and Thursdays at 5 PM PST on Instagram, Tiktok, YouTube, Facebook, and Twitch all @sexwithemily.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why sex becomes "just another item on the to-do list" and what that really means

    • The difference between duty and desire — and why confusing them breeds resentment

    • How to rebrand sex as connection instead of obligation

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  33. Your Body Is Craving Your Attention

    16 januari 2026 · 49 min

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    Dolly Josette is a somatic sexologist and intimacy coach known as "The Pleasure Muse" who helps people reconnect with their bodies to unlock deeper pleasure. In this episode, Dolly returns to the show to explore why so many of us feel disconnected from our own sensations, where trauma actually lives in the body, and how a few minutes of daily practice can transform your relationship with pleasure. She and Dr. Emily get into embodiment work, why your genitals might be holding onto more than you realize, and what it really means to stop abandoning yourself for others.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • What somatic sexology actually is and how it differs from talk therapy

    • Why your body stores emotions and trauma in your fascia and genitals

    • The simple exercise that can help you release blocks you didn't know you had

    • Why you can't figure out what you want sexually until your body feels safe

    • How to do a "vulva hug" and why your genitals might be craving your attention

    • The real reason pleasure fades after the honeymoon phase

    • Why embodiment isn't another thing on your to-do list — it's how you live

    • How long it actually takes to build an embodiment practice that sticks

    • The one song a day practice that can pull you back into your body

    • What your body is trying to tell you when you feel frozen or shut down

    • How to access your partner's prostate for maximum pleasure

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  34. Liberated Love vs Codependent Love

    13 januari 2026 · 1 uur 6 min

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    Mark Groves is a human connection specialist who transformed his own painful relationship patterns into wisdom he now shares with millions. In this episode, Mark opens up about the Thanksgiving dinner betrayal that shut him down at 19, the years he spent as an emotionally unavailable guy, and the breakthrough that finally let him receive love. In this episode we dig into codependency, why chemistry fades, and what it actually takes to build a relationship where you can be fully yourself. Lees meer

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why a failed one-night stand taught Mark more about himself than years of relationships

    • The real definition of codependency and why it's not just about addiction

    • How to identify your "Thanksgiving dinner moment" that shaped how you love

    • Why the space between partners disappears and chemistry dies in long-term relationships

    • The question that reveals if you're being codependent in the bedroom

    • What "liberated love" looks like and why truth-telling is the foundation

    • How Mark and his wife broke up, had a closing ceremony, and came back stronger

    • Why your capacity to love equals your capacity to lose

    • The three things you can do now to get on the path toward the love you want

    • How parenthood changes intimacy and why the six-week clearance is misleading

    • What to do when you can't stop fantasizing about past flings while in a relationship

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  35. Menopause Myths Your Doctor Still Believes

    9 januari 2026 · 35 min

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    Dr. Emily visits the office of urogynecologist Dr. Patricia Wallace to explore the hidden world of pelvic health—and why it matters so much for sexual pleasure. From the muscles that control your orgasms to the hormones that fuel desire, Dr. Wallace breaks down what's actually happening in your body and what you can do about it at every age.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • What your pelvic floor actually is and why 80% of women can't properly contract it

    • The connection between pelvic floor strength and orgasm intensity

    • How to do a kegel correctly using yogic breathing techniques

    • Why recurrent UTIs happen and the supplement hack that prevents them

    • The truth about hormone therapy and why that 20-year-old study shouldn't scare you

    • What "optimal" hormone levels mean versus just "normal" lab ranges

    • How testosterone affects women's sex drive—and when supplementation helps

    • The real timeline for postpartum sexual recovery (hint: it's not 6 weeks)

    • Why the Emsella chair delivers 12,000 pelvic floor contractions in one session

    • How core strength affects everything from incontinence to back pain to sexual confidence

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  36. How to Know When Someone Is Actually Available

    6 januari 2026 · 54 min

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    Dr. Emily sits down with relationship expert Matthew Hussey to decode modern dating, from confusing chemistry with compatibility to knowing when someone's actually emotionally available. Matthew breaks down why we keep choosing the wrong people, how to set boundaries without sabotaging connection, and the texting behaviors that reveal true interest levels.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • The difference between chemistry and compatibility—and why excitement often masks anxiety

    • How to identify emotional availability in the first few dates

    • Why having standards matters more than having a "type"

    • The art of expressing needs without coming across as needy

    • Red flags in texting culture and what silence really means

    • How to break patterns of settling and choose better partners

    • Why vulnerability creates attraction (and how to practice it)

    • When to walk away from situationships that aren't serving you

    • How self-worth directly impacts who you attract and keep

    • Strategies for building sexual tension while deepening emotional intimacy

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  37. How to Actually Get Your Needs Met in Bed

    2 januari 2026 · 27 min

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    Dr. Emily shares three listener success stories that prove honest communication transforms sex lives. Graham's pegging journey opened up conversations he and his wife never had before. Calvin and his wife of 20+ years had their first spontaneous threesome after a night of dancing. And Jasmine finally experienced her first penetrative orgasm after years of frustration—by standing up for her needs and incorporating breathing techniques.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Why scheduling difficult sexual conversations (outside the bedroom) leads to breakthrough moments

    • How embodiment during sex—staying present with both sensations AND emotions—deepens connection

    • The grinding technique that helps many vulva owners orgasm during penetration

    • Why breathing and edging practices intensify orgasms

    • How to guide your mind back when it wanders during sex

    If you have a sexy story to share, send it to feedback@sexwithemily.com with "sexy story" in the subject line.

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  38. We Have Sex Every 48 Hours (Here's Why)

    30 december 2025 · 58 min

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    In this episode, Emily sits down with volleyball legend Gabby Reece—professional athlete, podcast host of The Gabby Reece Show, entrepreneur—to talk about the unsexy truths that actually keep long-term relationships alive. Gabby pulls no punches as she reveals her controversial "48-hour sex rule," and how treating sex like going to the gym (just get your shoes on and show up) has sustained their passion for decades.

    This conversation dismantles the romanticized version of marriage and replaces it with raw honesty about vulnerability, stoicism almost ending her relationship, and why "misogynists are bitches" but real masculinity is powerful, protective, and tender. Gabby shares her four rules for keeping an alpha male happy (hint: food and sex made the list), the farmer versus flower dynamic that prevents resentment, and why her self-care hierarchy puts herself first, her relationship second, and her kids third—unapologetically.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • The 48-hour sex rule works—scheduling sex isn't sexy, but it's sexier than one partner begging and the other constantly rejecting; Gabby and Laird have sex every other day, and she admits she strategically loads her calendar the day after because she "doesn't have to answer to anyone"

    • Clear the decks daily to avoid divorce—Laird confronts everything immediately (every look, tone, word) so resentments never build; Gabby credits this practice with saving their marriage after years of her being too stoic nearly ended it

    • Understanding the farmer vs. flower dynamic—sometimes one partner is in the spotlight (the flower) while the other supports (the farmer), and the roles switch; when one person is always the farmer, resentment builds and relationships suffer

    • Real masculinity isn't misogyny—true masculine strength includes compassion, protection, and tenderness; we've trained men to feel bad about their masculinity, and bringing kindness (not anger) while setting boundaries helps everyo…

  39. You're Not Too Much, You Need the Right Match

    26 december 2025 · 55 min

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    In this episode, Emily sits down with Todd Baratz—sex therapist and author of How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind—to challenge everything you think you know about relationships. Todd dismantles the fairy tale myth of "the one" and reveals why our obsession with diagnosing every difficult person as a narcissist is keeping us stuck. From exploring how oral sex can make or break your relationship to understanding why some people view emotional depth as "too much," this conversation reframes love as messy, complicated, and beautifully imperfect. T

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Your relationship "shoulds" are sabotaging you—every rule you've internalized about what partners should text, do, or provide creates unnecessary conflict and anxiety; letting go of these expectations (especially "the one" who fulfills all your needs) is the first step to realistic, sustainable love

    • Not everyone is a narcissist—our tendency to diagnose and label ourselves and others amplifies anxiety rather than solving problems; sometimes people are just incompatible, not disordered, and that's okay

    • You're not "too much," you just need the right match—if someone views your emotional depth and authenticity as intensity, it's because they lack the capacity to handle genuine connection; finding someone who can meet you where you need to be met is about compatibility, not fixing yourself

    • Sex is really about connection—when you're craving sex, you're often actually craving intimacy, vulnerability, touch, and being truly seen; understanding this deeper need helps address desire discrepancies and creates more fulfilling sexual experiences

    • Dating people who can't connect emotionally—approach them with compassion and curiosity, try to create space for vulnerability, but if they can't or won't open up, accept that they might not be your person and walk away without trying to force everyone to do the work you're doing

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  40. You Keep Dating the Same Person Over and Over

    23 december 2025 · 1 uur 5 min

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    In this episode, Emily sits down with Amy Chan—founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and author of Breakup Bootcamp: The Science of Rewiring Your Heart—to explore why we keep choosing the wrong partners and how to break the cycle. Amy shares her revolutionary 12-person dating experiment that forces clients to date outside their type, revealing how our "type" isn't about physical traits but the emotional patterns we unconsciously repeat. From spotting unavailable partners to understanding the difference between passionate love and companionate love, this conversation reframes dating as a discovery process rather than a high-stakes audition. Amy breaks down why great daters often struggle in relationships, how to recognize your recurring emotional patterns, and why your best friend you want to make out with might be the person you've been overlooking all along.

    In this episode, you'll learn:

    • Your "type" is an emotional pattern, not a physical one—by identifying the five main emotions from your last three relationships, you can spot the cycle you keep repeating (like anxiety from chasing unavailable partners) and consciously choose different experiences

    • The dating experiment that rewires your brain—dating 12 people outside your type without getting into a relationship removes the pressure of finding "the one" and trains you to be present, recognize how you actually feel with someone, and notice who genuinely treats you well

    • Why passionate love fades and what replaces it—the neurochemical high of early romance naturally transitions to companionate love, and understanding this shift helps you stop mistaking familiarity for incompatibility and start building the deeper intimacy that sustains long-term relationships

    • The dating funnel approach—treating early dates like lead generation (just asking "Am I having fun? Do I want to see them again?") instead of evaluating someone as your future life partner eliminates job-interview energy and lets auth…

  41. This Is What We’re Gifting for Better Sex

    19 december 2025 · 38 min

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    Emily breaks down her 2025 Holiday Gift Guide through the lens of the five pillars of sexual intelligence—embodiment, health, self-knowledge, self-acceptance, and collaboration. Lees meer

    She explores how shifting from performance to presence can transform your relationship with pleasure, offering curated tools and practices that help you slow down, feel your body, and understand yourself as a sexual being.

    This episode is for anyone ready to move beyond quick fixes and embrace a more holistic approach to sexuality, turning intimacy into something that nourishes your whole system.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • The five pillars of Sex IQ create a holistic framework for understanding your sexuality and taking responsibility for your pleasure—moving you from performance to presence

    • Embodiment practices like breathwork and sonic wave toys help you overcome the mind-body disconnect during sex by bringing you back to physical sensations instead of staying in your head worrying about how you look or what you need to do

    • Self-acceptance isn't about waiting for your body to change—it's about recognizing and reframing the pleasure thieves (stress, trauma, and shame) that tell you you're unworthy, and actively replacing negative thought patterns with affirmations that honor your body right now

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  42. People Pleasing Killed Your Sexual Pleasure

    16 december 2025 · 52 min

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    In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with Chelsey Goodan—the teenage girl whisperer whose new book "Underestimated" is revealing what happens when we actually start listening to the demographic we've been underestimating for generations.

    The surprisingly simple question that gets teenage girls to open up after years of shutting everyone out—and why the adults in their lives have been approaching these conversations completely backwards (hint: it's the same reason your last "how was school today?" got a one-word answer).

    Why teenage girls can spot your hidden agenda from a mile away, and the radical honesty approach that creates trust faster than any parenting book you've read—even when you think you're being subtle with your "protective" white lies.

    The age that girls start dieting that will make you rethink every compliment you've ever given a child—and the unconscious behavior women are modeling that's sabotaging the next generation's relationship with their bodies before they even hit puberty.

    That thing you keep saying is "fine" when it's absolutely not fine, and how the people-pleasing patterns you picked up as a teenage girl are still running your sex life, your relationship…

  43. Dating Apps Are Making You Hate Dating

    12 december 2025 · 41 min

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    Jordana Abraham and Jared Freed from the U Up? podcast join Dr. Emily for a lively conversation about navigating modern dating without losing your mind. They kick things off with dating horror stories—including Jared's epic backwards fall off a patio chair that took out a sandwich board and a heat lamp.

    The conversation dives into why so many dates feel like obligations instead of opportunities. Jared and Jordana explain the "sure, I'll go" trap—how settling for matches that are just "fine" leads to boring dates and dating burnout. They emphasize trusting your gut and only going on dates when you're genuinely excited, not just because you feel like you should.

    They tackle dating app fatigue, discussing why some people thrive on apps while others find them soul-crushing. The key insight: it's about how you use them. Treating apps like a binge-worthy Netflix show instead of something you check in on intentionally (like one hour a week) kills the fun and makes everything feel transactional.

    The episode includes a listener question about a toxic long-distance relationship where a 22-year-old woman keeps breaking up and getting back together with an insecure boyfrien…

  44. The One Question That Ends All Relationship Confusion

    9 december 2025 · 1 uur 1 min

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    In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with Liz Moody—bestselling author, podcast host, and the woman who turned her life around from severe agoraphobia to help others level up their lives with science-backed strategies.

    The morbid exercise that Liz swears by for making better decisions in bed and everywhere else—and why thinking about your 85-year-old self might be the permission slip you need to stop worrying about how your thighs look in those pants.

    Why "friends with benefits" might mean something completely different to you than it does to your partner—and the crucial conversation most couples skip before slapping labels on their relationship (spoiler: this applies to marriage too).

    The biggest myth about what makes someone "good" in bed, and why Liz believes your sex life can transform no matter where you're starting from.

    That one body part you've never considered an erogenous zone—until Liz reveals hers and suddenly you're rethinking everything you thought you knew about turn-ons.

    The re…

  45. When Sexual Preferences Become Deal Breakers

    5 december 2025 · 39 min

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    In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica tackle your trickiest relationship and sex questions—and some of these situations are messier than you think.

    The wife having sex 5+ times a week who's being pressured to set midnight alarms so her husband can wake her up for more—why this isn't about frequency at all, and the real need he's actually trying to fill.

    That guy who insists oral sex should only happen "on special occasions" because it gets "taken for granted": what this scarcity mindset reveals about his past relationships, his skill anxiety, or his actual preference—and whether this is a dealbreaker you're discovering early.

    The biological reason men wake up ready for sex in the middle of the night while their partners are deep asleep—and why disrupting your sleep hygiene to feel "desired" is a Band-Aid on a much deeper issue.

    When your partner believes do…

  46. How to Know If You're Actually Having an Orgasm

    2 december 2025 · 38 min

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    Episode Description

    In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily breaks down what's really happening in your body during orgasm—and why you might not even know if you've had one.

    The physical signs that prove you're orgasming—even when there's no "explosive release" moment, and why your experience might look nothing like what you've been told to expect.

    That partner who goes full jackhammer the entire time: the exact conversation framework to redirect them without crushing their ego—and why most people need those fast strokes eventually, just not the whole damn time.

    A listener whose new partner believes orgasms damage your mental health and relationships—what this anti-climax philosophy gets right about connection, and what the science actually says about orgasms strengthening your bond.

    The guilt trap of needing fantasy to finish during oral: why your imagination became your default pathway to orgasm, and the fi…

  47. Pelvic Positioning Changes Everything

    28 november 2025 · 34 min

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    Episode Description

    In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily takes live listener calls and answers the questions you're dying to ask but won't.

    A caller discovers she can only finish one very specific way—what's really happening in your pelvis when your legs are straight, and why changing this pattern might unlock entirely new pleasure.

    The masturbation habit that's secretly limiting your orgasms—and the exploration technique that expands your body's repertoire without any pressure to "fix" yourself.

    Why one couple finds anal more pleasurable than vaginal sex, what this reveals about nerve endings you didn't know you had, and the specialist who can actually help if penetration hurts.

    Plus, what happens when you stop chasing what you think should feel good and start discovering what actually does.

    Timestamps:

    0:00 - Intro

    1:57 - Orgasming with Straight Legs: Finding Positions That Work for Your Body

    7:42 - Why Having One Way to Orgasm Is Completely Normal

    8:38 - Dating After Loss: Navigating Chastity Play & Delayed Ejaculation

    16:21 - Male Chastity Explained: Pleasure Beyond the Dominant Role

    17:43 - Erotic Lactation: A Surprisingly Common Intimacy Practice

    24:15 - When Anal Sex Feels Better Than Vaginal: Understanding Different Pleasure Pathways

    27:40 - The Clitor…

  48. How to Talk to Teens About Sex

    25 november 2025 · 48 min

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    In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with developmental psychologist Dr. Aliza Pressman—and discovers why her parenting book kept her up at night, even though she's not a parent. Why an entire generation is having less sex: the isolation epidemic where teens sit next to each other scrolling instead of connecting—and why even being in the same room doesn't mean being together anymore.

    The porn conversation most parents get wrong: instead of saying "this isn't good for you" (which teens reject), try "watching this is a vote for exploitation"—because teenagers care more about justice than their own wellbeing. The five principles that work for every parenting crisis—from catching your kid watching porn to finding your vibrator: relationship, reflection, regulation, rules, and repair. Why your reaction when your nine-year-old feels aroused by porn determines whether they carry shame for years—and the exact words to say instead. The pronoun and gender panic parents are feeling: why we don't have the data yet, the pendulum always …

  49. 5 Things Secretly Stealing Your Pleasure

    21 november 2025 · 43 min

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    In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily brings on sex educator Dr. Emily Nagoski for a live conversation—and they get brutally honest about their own sex lives falling apart.

    Why even bestselling sex experts lose their desire—and how Dr. Emily's nervous system was so shot she didn't even want orgasms.

    The myth that kept her terrified to stop sex once it started: believing "blue balls" required hospitalization—and the truth that you can stop and start anytime.

    A parent worried their college-age kids aren't having sex or relationships—the questions to ask instead of pushing sex on them, and why nobody dies from not having sex but people do die from loneliness.

    The most important thing parents can do around sexuality: unlearn your own shame first—because your embarrassment when they ask questions teaches them more than any words ever could.

    The reframe for anyone struggling with desire: what you actually want when you want sex (it's not orgasm—you can do that alone), and what you don't want when you don't want sex.

    Timestamps:

    0:00 – Introduction

    1:26 – Sex Experts Lose Desire Too

    7:24 – The Pleasure Thieves

    17:53 – Why It's Okay to Stop During Sex

    20:20 – Cold Feet …

  50. Your Dating List Is Keeping You Single

    18 november 2025 · 52 min

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    In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman to dismantle the fairy tales keeping you stuck in your dating life.

    Why your mile-long partner checklist (six feet tall, specific job, perfect abs) is sabotaging your search for real compatibility—and the question you should ask instead: "How do I want to feel?"

    The difference between dating for superficial traits versus shared life goals—why wanting a yoga partner matters way less than wanting the freedom to pursue your own interests in a relationship.

    A caller who's getting ghosted on dating apps wonders if women have too many options—the real reason your profile isn't working, and it has nothing to do with competition.

    The "three C's" that'll transform your dating profile overnight: strategic color to stand out, context that tells your story, and character that shows who you really are (no sunglasses photos—we need to see your eyes).

    Why "chemistry at first sight" is actually lust, and you can't know if you love someone the minute you look into their eyes—the three-date rule that gives real connection time to build.

    The reframe that takes the pressure off: stop trying to be liked and start being upfront about what you want—it'll filter out the wrong people and attract your actual match.

    Timestamps:

    0:00 – Introduction
    1:21 – F T…