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Why Your Voice is Your Secret Pleasure Tool
27 mei 2025 · 39 min
In this intimate episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily teams up with Dr. Scott Lyons, a licensed holistic psychologist and body-based trauma expert, to explore how vocalizing pleasure can transform your intimate experiences. From a candid discussion about their couples massage experience in Vegas to practical advice on overcoming sexual silence, this episode reveals why making authentic sounds during sex creates deeper connection and more intense pleasure. Lees meer
We dive into the psychology behind sexual silence, examining how childhood conditioning, shame, and societal expectations keep us quiet when we should be expressing ourselves. Dr. Scott explains the nervous system science behind vocalization, including how making sounds stimulates the vagus nerve and helps regulate our bodies during intimate moments. We also tackle the difference between authentic pleasure sounds and performative moaning influenced by porn culture.
This episode addresses common concerns like being too loud with roommates or kids in the house, offers practical exercises for gradually increasing your vocal expression, and explores how sound creates crucial feedback loops between partners. Whether you're naturally quiet or overly performative, you'll learn how to find your authentic voice of pleasure.
Show Notes:
00:00:00 - The Vegas Massage Story: Learning from Authentic Sound
03:00:00 - Why We Stay Silent During Pleasure
06:41:00 - Men, Masturbation & the Culture of Quiet Sex
08:26:00 - Sound as Nervous System Regulation
11:07:00 - Authentic vs. Performative Vocalization
15:38:00 - The Sixth Limb: Your Voice as Extension of Your Body
18:06:00 - Shame, Control & Sexual Expression
23:10:00 - Practical Exercises: Touch for Pleasure Practice
28:14:00 - Sensory Play & Exploration
30:04:00 - Parents, Kids & Sexual Noise Concerns
33:08:00 - The 10% Challenge: Starting SmallJoin Dr. Emily and Dr. Scott as they share personal insights and professional expertise on breaking through sexual si…
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Why We Struggle With Commitment
20 mei 2025 · 39 min
In this episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, we dive into the complexities of commitment by exploring our contrasting perspectives—one of us grappling with a fear of merging in relationships, the other reflecting on a tendency to overcommit. We unpack how childhood experiences, parental relationship models, and societal pressures shape our views on intimacy, boundaries, and compatibility. From the gamification of dating culture to generational differences in approaching relationships, we examine the challenges Gen X and Gen Z face in defining commitment. We also discuss the emotional weight of erectile dysfunction and the unrealistic expectations placed on male sexuality. Through honest conversation, we question traditional norms and explore the idea that commitment doesn’t have to be one-size-fits-all—sometimes, a redefined or intermittent approach may lead to healthier, more fulfilling connections. Lees meer
Show Notes:
00:00:00 - Commitment Phobia
00:02:21 - Commitment & Relationship Anxiety
04:40 - Commitment & Childhood Trauma
07:39 - Commitment Phobia & Dynamics
10:25 - Commitment, Casual Sex & Polyamory
13:10 - Commitment Issues & Attachment
15:14 - Avoidant Attachment & Dynamics
17:41 - Commitment vs. Incompatibility
20:00 - Commitment & "Perfect" Partners
22:20 - Dating Exhaustion & Sex Drought
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The Ultimate Guide to Having Better Sex
20 mei 2025 · 1 uur 4 min
This podcast episode tackles five common sex questions: communicating about sex and trying new things; improving oral sex; spicing up the sex life; increasing sex drive; and lasting longer. The episode emphasizes open communication as key to better sex, offering practical advice on navigating awkward conversations, addressing defensive responses, and prioritizing individual needs. Specific techniques for improving oral sex, addressing low libido (including medical and psychological factors), and dealing with differing sex drives are discussed. Several listener emails are addressed, providing personalized advice on various sexual challenges, including premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and overcoming discomfort with oral sex. The episode also recommends resources like Ian Kerner's work and suggests strategies for increasing sexual satisfaction and communication within relationships. Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00:16 - Top 5 Sex Questions
00:03:30 - Improving Sex Communication
06:57 - Overcoming Barriers to Sex Talks
09:33 - Communicating Sexual Needs
15:43 - Boosting Sex Drive
18:49 - Libido & Relationship Issues
21:29 - Spice Up Your Sex Life
24:19 - Relationship Sex Issues
29:40 - Mastering Oral Sex
44:04 - Listener Questions & Intimacy
55:49 - Premature Ejaculation Issues
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How to Build a Relationship That Actually Lasts Forever
13 mei 2025 · 1 uur 11 min
In this episode, we explore the science of lasting relationships with insights grounded in the Gottman Method. Discover the four behaviors that predict divorce with 94% accuracy, why emotional connection is key to great sex, and how couples can deepen intimacy with better communication—not perfect compatibility. From sleep-deprived parents to long-term partners, this conversation is packed with research-backed tips to transform your love life. Lees meer
#love #relationship #divorce
Timestamps:
00:00:00 - Relationship Success & Gottman Institute03:14 - Couple's Coffee Shop Love Story
06:33 - Predicting Relationship Success/Failure
10:03 - Four Horsemen of Apocalypse
17:03 - Relationship Workshops & Education
20:22 - Post-Baby Relationships
23:50 - Relationship Challenges & Communication
27:25 - Deepening Relationships Through Dates
30:23 - Rediscovering Shared Dreams & Values
46:33 - Factors in a Great Sex Life
1:00:00 - Prioritizing Relationships & Intimacy
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Why Your Sex Life Isn't as Good As It Could Be
9 mei 2025 · 1 uur 9 min
In this powerful episode of Sex with Emily and Shroter, we’re joined by Dolly, a renowned sexological bodyworker featured in Cosmopolitan and Hustler, for a deep dive into somatic sex therapy and the true path to embodied pleasure. Lees meer
Dolly opens up about her healing journey after a sexless marriage—how breathwork, mirror work, and intentional self-touch led her to reclaim her body and reawaken her desire. Together, we unpack what it means to stop performing and start feeling, breaking down the difference between orgasm and climax, and how to explore your body with curiosity, not pressure.
Timestamps:
00:01:08 - Healing Journey: Sex & Pleasure
00:07:17 - Post-Divorce Healing & Femininity
10:57 - Embodied Sexuality & Vulva Mapping
14:10 - Vulva Mapping & Frustration
20:06 - Embodiment, Self-Touch & Vulva Hug
23:50 - Vulva Hug Meditation Practice
32:03 - Vulva Anatomy & Trauma Release
43:41 - Reclaiming Your Vulva: Love & Healing
46:16 - Expanding Orgasmic Potential
01:00:51 - Q&A & Vulva Hug Meditation
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Beyond the Body Count: Reframing Sexual History in Dating
6 mei 2025 · 42 min
This week on Sex With Emily, we're tackling one of the most harmful and outdated questions in modern dating: "What's your body count?" In conversation with holistic psychologist and trauma expert Dr. Scott Lyons, we explore the troubling origins of this term, once used to count military casualties, and how it’s been repurposed to judge sexual history, often unfairly targeting women. We unpack the double standards rooted in purity culture, the insecurities this question provokes, and the shame it can breed in both high and low numbers. More importantly, we discuss why the number of sexual partners has nothing to do with sexual skill, emotional readiness, or compatibility. Lees meer
#intimacy #love #relationships
Timestamps:
00:00:00 - Body Count: A Sex-Positive Discussion
00:03:00 - Judging Past Relationships
05:51 - Body Count & Insecurities
08:24 - Why Judging is Wrong
10:46:38 - Historical Shame Roots
13:22 - Societal Shame & Body Count
15:47 - Regrets & Sexual Experiences
18:13 - Reframing the Conversation
22:44:04 - Ditching the Question
25:38 - Addressing Relationship Insecurities
37:53 - Pleasure, Goodbyes & Outro
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Why Great Sex Starts Outside the Bedroom
2 mei 2025 · 34 min
This episode of "Sex with Emily" dives deep into the psychology and practice of foreplay, redefining it as encompassing all forms of connection, not just physical acts preceding intercourse. We discuss the importance of arousal, highlighting physiological differences between men and women and emphasizing the brain's role as the largest sex organ. Lees meer
This episode features practical tips for enhancing intimacy using all five senses, incorporating various sensual aids, and exploring different forms of touch and communication.
#foreplay #intimacy #sex
Show Notes:
00:02:50 - Foreplay: Psychology & Importance
03:49 - Foreplay & Gender Differences
10:04:20 - Secrets to Great Sex
13:29 - Setting the Mood: Five Senses
16:22 - Enhancing Foreplay & Sensory Play
19:43 - Enhancing Intimacy & Communication
22:26 - Intimacy Beyond Penetration
25:27 - Improving Sex Life & Teasing
28:14 - Reciprocated Foreplay & Issues
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Where’s the Line? Redefining Cheating in the Digital Age
29 april 2025 · 49 min
In this episode of Sex With Emily, Dr. Emily takes a deep dive into the evolving landscape of infidelity in 2025. She unpacks how cheating today goes far beyond physical acts—covering emotional connections, digital interactions like DMs, social media behaviors, and even fantasies. Dr. Emily challenges listeners to rethink old assumptions and instead foster open conversations about boundaries, values, and intimacy, drawing insights from how polyamorous relationships navigate these topics. Lees meer
With real-life stories, listener questions, and expert advice from holistic psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons, this episode explores the impact of porn, the gray areas of "micro-cheating," and how communication can prevent betrayal. Dr. Emily also shares strategies for healing after trust is broken, including key statistics, self-reflection practices, and tips to understand your attachment style.
#relationship #dating #cheating
Show Notes:
00:00:00 - Defining & Preventing Infidelity00:03:15 - Defining Infidelity in Relationships
08:12 - Relationship Boundaries & Communication
13:41 - Marriage Insecurities & Betrayal
19:19 - Confessions of a Reformed Cheater
22:31 - Open Relationships & Cheating
25:00 - Regret, Empathy & Modern Love
35:38 - Overcoming Relationship Hurdles
38:28 - Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity
45:44 - Monogamy, Polyamory & Attachment
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Unlocking Your Sensual Self | A Woman's Guide to Pleasure
25 april 2025 · 1 uur 1 min
In this episode of the podcast, host Emily Morse is joined by guest Pamela Madsen to explore the transformative power of "back-to-the-body" retreats for women and couples, focusing on reclaiming pleasure and improving communication. Pamela, a retreat leader with over a decade of experience, details a 7-day program emphasizing self-pleasure through clothed genital work, addressing issues such as vaginal pain and low libido.
Positive outcomes from the retreats include increased self-esteem, improved communication, and better consent negotiation. The retreats also involve sexological bodywork, including genital mapping, fantasy exploration, and elements of BDSM and tantra. Men’s participation is discussed, highlighting the positive impact these retreats have on couples.
The conversation also covers practical techniques like the "lotus lift" meditation and sensate focus exercises for embodied self-expression—even for those unable to attend in person. Emily and Pamela address common challenges such as body image issues, societal pressures, and communication barriers in long-term relationships. Lees meerPamela Madsen
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The Truth About The Spark in Relationships
22 april 2025 · 1 uur 4 min
Is the spark gone? Dr. Scott Lyons, as I explore how to get the spark back in relationships and
sex. We're talking about why the spark is not what you think and what you're actually looking for. Lees meerIn this episode, Dr. Scott Lyons and I discuss:
● Why the initial 'spark' might be misleading.
● The importance of evolving and growing in relationships.
● How trauma responses affect attraction and intimacy.
● The difference between intensity and intimacy.
● Practical ways to cultivate a sustainable and fulfilling connection.I share personal experiences and insights on dating, attraction, and the journey toward deeper
self-understanding. Dr. Scott Lyons brings his expertise as a trauma therapist and somatic
healer to help us understand the complexities of relationships and sexuality.Show Notes:
00:00:00 - Rekindling the Spark: What You Need to Know
00:02:45 - The Reality of Growth: Attraction Can Evolve
00:07:57 - Freedom vs. Attachment: Different Relationship Patterns
00:11:10 - Evolving Attraction: Hemisexuals, Saposexuals, and Demisexuals
00:15:03 - The Attraction ICK: Is There an Attraction Spark?
00:19:29 - Peeling Away the Layers: The Beauty of Intimacy
00:22:49 - The Honeymoon Period Is Drunk: Sobering Up and Finding Organic Excitement
00:27:40 - Variety and Newness: Keeping the Spark Alive
00:31:17 - Passion or Safety: Cultivating Eroticism in Safety
00:35:56 - Arousal Runway: Pottery Classes and Cooking Meals
00:40:19 - Developing New Habits: Making Time for Connection
00:42:51 - Chasing the Familiar: Red Flags as a Spark
00:46:16 - The Importance of Feeling Safe
00:49:54 - Childhood Was Perfect: Somatic Therapy and Nervous System Regulation
00:53:10 - Grounding in Our Senses: Getting Back to Sensuality and Connection
00:56:26 - Healing Patterns: Not Taking the Bait
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Praise, Humiliation & Other Kinks
18 april 2025 · 41 min
What feeling are you chasing in bed? No, I’m not talking about orgasm. I’m talking about an emotion, like feeling worshiped, praised, or unbelievably desirable. On the other hand, maybe it arouses you to feel degraded, objectified – even humiliated.
On today’s show, I’m unpacking a kink that’s getting a ton of attention on social media: praise kink. It falls under the larger umbrella of core erotic desires, which we all have. I show you how to identify your core erotic desires and how to turn them into realities. I also get into your kinky questions, including: when you adore your fiancée, but fantasize about sex with your much kinkier ex, what now? And when your partner constantly gets hit on my other men, is it healthy to get turned on by it? All this and more in today's episode. Lees meerJoin the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
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Sex and Self-Confidence
15 april 2025 · 27 min
You’ve heard this one before: the sexiest quality in the world is confidence. And that’s true...but...it’s not always easy to muster. Confidence is an inside job, but here’s the good news. Once you generate it on your own terms, life - and sex - gets a whole lot easier. Lees meer
So on today’s Ask Emily show, I’m joined by my dear friend and former co-host Menace from The Woody Show, as we talk confidence, jealousy, What happens when you adore your partner, but can’t stop thinking about their high body count? Or want to have hot phone sex, but don’t know where to start? We talk through both. How about when you feel too short to find a great partner, or don’t know how to be dominant in bed? We help you think through both. Finally: discovering your partner’s can of delay spray. Our listener wonders whether he’s sleeping with someone else; we think it’s time for open communication.
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Am I The Asshole? My Partner Never Wants Sex
11 april 2025 · 33 min
We’re back for another AITA episode! This time it’s all about sexual mismatches. First: they’ve got a 12-year age difference, and she suspects his sex drive is dwindling. She doesn’t want to cheat, but she also wants more sex…what now? Next, he wants sex for pleasure, she was raised to do it only for procreation. Is there any way to meet in the middle? A self-professed "pillow princess" writes in, is she the asshole for wanting to receive pleasure – but not give it? Finally, they’re in a dead bedroom of 10 years. “She’s repulsed by my touch” he writes, but is he really asserting himself to make healthy changes? You decide Lees meer
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Hotline Calls: I’m Sore from Oral Sex
8 april 2025 · 38 min
You’re in my Hotlines today, and Producer Erica and I are taking your calls! Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners.
First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you’re sleeping with other people? We’re all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she’s on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? Or should her partner have a deeper conversation with her about turn-ons? After that, we’ve got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She’s sore afterwards -- is it a medical condition or underlying shame? Finally, she just discovered her partner watches porn… and the subjects don’t look like her. How can she talk to him about it without judgment? Lees meerHave a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.
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Forget These Myths for Better Sex
4 april 2025 · 24 min
What’s a common stereotype you’ve heard about sex? Maybe it’s that “guys just want one thing” or that “once you have kids, say goodbye to your sex life.” But not only are these stereotypes tiresome on a societal level, they actually hurt your sex life. Why? Because if you buy them, they limit your pleasure potential.
So on today’s show, I reveal the top 3 sexual stereotypes penis owners and vulva owners told me they were tired of, and the new truths that are going to empower you in bed. I also give you quick communication hacks to help you get curious with any partner, whether they’re long-term or brand new, so that you can have the sex you actually want. Lees meerJoin the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse.
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Am I The Asshole for Watching Porn Without Telling My Partner?
1 april 2025 · 32 min
Ever wondered: Am I the asshole for watching porn without my partner knowing? Am I the asshole for feeling a little misled about our sex life before we walked down the aisle? Or how about: Am I the asshole for just feeling plain bored with our sex life? You’re not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I read your AITA questions and let you know if you’re approaching asshole territory. Lees meer
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:
How to be a supportive partner to someone with sexual trauma
How to get clearer on your sexual desires
About the experiences of sex workers
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Hotline Calls: Can We Fix Our Chemistry?
28 maart 2025 · 26 min
Are you and your partner sexually compatible? That’s the theme of today’s Hotline Calls show, as my Producer and I break down these couples' sex and relationship issues. First, when your partner isn’t pleasuring you as much as you’d like, does that mean they aren’t attracted? Or just nervous? Next, do you squirt during sex? It’s a goal for many, but what if it’s happening more than you’d like? How about sex drive discrepancy? When you’ve had more chemistry with past partners – and more sex – is your current partner not a fit? Or do you need to find a middle ground? Finally, what happens when your partner’s got a kink that weirds you out? We don’t yuck anyone’s yum here, but one caller needs advice on navigating brother-sister role play. Lees meer
Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:
The surprising truth about sexual compatibility—and why mismatched libidos aren’t the end of the road.
Why squirting too much can actually be a turn-off (and how to control it if it’s becoming an issue).
The best way to respond when your partner’s kink catches you off guard—without killing the mood.
Show Notes:
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Am I The Asshole? Is It Cheating If We Were on a Break?
25 maart 2025 · 37 min
Have you ever wondered if you’re the asshole in your sex life and relationships? Today, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory - and not the good kind. One listener hooked up with someone else while they were on a break, and now her partner says she can’t be trusted. Who’s the asshole here? Another listener wants to spice it up in the bedroom, but her husband with a kinky past sees her as a “delicate little angel.” Sounds like a case of the classic Madonna-Whore complex. What about when your partner won’t perform oral sex? Are you the asshole for craving it? We get into all this and more. Lees meer
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:
The importance of identifying your sexual fantasies
How to work through ultimatums in relationships
Why your sex life should evolve over time
Show Notes:
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Hotline Calls: How to Fantasize Together
21 maart 2025 · 27 min
The Sex With Emily Hotline is open! On this episode, I’m joined by my Producer, Erica, as we talk about disappearing erections, prostate massages, and so much more. Lees meer
First, what do you do when your partner has health issues that cause them to lose their erections? I give one caller ideas for how to work around this issue and thoughts on what might be causing it in the first place. Next, why don’t couples fantasize together more often? A couple calls in to share their sexual fantasies, and we give you inspo on how to do the same with your partner. When your partner wants a prostate massage, how do you pull it off? I tell you what to feel for, how to apply pressure and fun toys you can use. Finally, when your partner has never had an orgasm before, how can you help? And should you?
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why erectile challenges aren’t just about the penis—and how you can spice things up while finding solutions
How to co-create fantasies with your partner for hotter, more connected sex
The secret to unlocking prostate pleasure (and why so many men are missing out)
Show Notes:
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How to Use Your Hands: Fingering & Handjobs
18 maart 2025 · 41 min
Two of your most powerful sex accessories? Your hands. Hands set the tone of your sexual energy. For example, caressing their cheek while you make out versus pinning their hands down while you have sex. And while we talk a lot about what to do with our mouths or genitals on this show, today I’m focusing on a lost art: hand play. Specifically, how to finger, give a hand job, and use your hands with sexual intention.
Today, my Producer, Erica, and I first share how to penetrate a vulva with your fingers. We give you tricks to stimulate the labia and clitoris, different forms of pressure and touch, and how to find the G-spot when you finger. Next, we give the penis some love with hand job techniques and upgrades like toy play and perineum stimulation. Finally, we discuss secondary erogenous zones and answer your hand play questions.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerWhy hand play—fingering and handjobs—is the underrated pleasure tool you need to master.
How to turn up the heat with expert hand techniques for both vulvas and penises.
The secret to making manual stimulation feel even better than penetrative sex.
Show Notes:
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Hotline Calls: Strip Clubs & Sex Boundaries
14 maart 2025 · 26 min
It’s Hotline Calls time! And we’ve got one common theme: trust - the foundation of hot sex. Because when you trust yourself and the person you’re with, you can fully let go in bed and relax into your deepest pleasure.
When oral sex gets too rough, how can you ask your partner to be more gentle and respectful? I’ve got some thoughts. When your partner doesn’t love booty play – but you definitely do – can you still ask for a rim job? Let’s say your partner goes to strip clubs, and it makes you super uncomfortable. How do you set boundaries together? Finally, when you’re the non-primary partner in a polyamorous relationship, what resources can you turn to for advice & guidance?
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to communicate boundaries and advocate for your pleasure in oral sex (without the sore throat aftermath)
The best ways to introduce your partner to rimming—yes, even if they’re hesitant
How to navigate mismatched libidos, strip club discomfort, and polyamory as a secondary partner
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Opening Up, Tristan Taormino: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
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“The Challenges of Being a Secondary,” Conscious Polyamory
“Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First,” Multiamory
Polyamory in BLACK!
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How to Be a Better Partner w/ John Kim & Vanessa Bennett
11 maart 2025 · 54 min
Dating as an adult is exhausting. While experience comes with age, actually applying that experience is easier said than done…even for professionals.
With me today are two therapy professionals who also happen to be partners: John Kim and Vanessa Bennett. Their book “It’s Not Me, It’s You” offers an anecdotal road map of how to “relationship better,” from overcoming commitment issues, to fanning the sex flames, to breaking the blame cycle. John and Vanessa expertly dissect their own relationship to inspire us to create healthy bonds with the people we love. Listen to learn why “the one” is a myth, how to wean ourselves off codependency and how to replace obligatory sex with erotic collaboration.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerWhy “The One” is a myth and what actually makes relationships last
How to turn obligatory sex into erotic collaboration
The secret to avoiding resentment before it ruins your connection
Show Notes:
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Initiating Sex After a Dry Spell
7 maart 2025 · 31 min
Initiating sex, dry spells, and mismatched libidos: the Hotline Calls are open, and your sex questions are answered! Today’s sexual concerns are especially relatable: I’m willing to bet you’ve experienced one of these yourself.
Let’s start with orgasms. When you can only get off in one very specific position, how can you retrain your body and mind? I give you tips on switching up your technique. Next: coming out of a sexual dry spell, how do you learn to initiate again? I help you collaborate with your partner. When you’re always a top (the more dominant one during sex), how can you tell your partner that you’d like to bottom (be more submissive) occasionally? I walk you through that conversation. Finally, when your spouse has next to zero interest in sex, what now? I offer insights on changing your relationship patterns to experience mutual pleasure and compatibility.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerThe secret to orgasming in any position (without wrecking your calves).
How to bring back the heat after a dry spell—without the pressure.
The power move that gets your partner to switch things up in bed.
Show Notes:
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Hotline Calls: Hook-Ups & Opening Up
4 maart 2025 · 27 min
When you’re not turned on by your partner, should you open the relationship? What does it mean when they don’t finish during sex? In today’s Hotline Calls episode, I’m taking all your pressing sex questions.
First, when you want to bring sex toys and lube into the bedroom, but your partner is firmly opposed…what now? I offer communication tips to help bring down defenses. Next, when you’re loving sex with your partner but they never orgasm, is that a cause for concern? I talk about delayed ejaculation and why it happens. We also get into non-monogamy: when you’re not turned on by your partner, should you open up the relationship? Or is a different, deeper conversation needed? Finally, when you’re happily hooking up, how do you keep casual sex from turning into serious relationships?
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerWhy performative sex is killing your pleasure—and how to stop.
How to ditch “porn mode” and tap into real turn-ons.
The secret to being fully present (and having better orgasms).
Show Notes:
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We’re Giving Up Performative Sex
28 februari 2025 · 35 min
We all experience performance anxiety in bed from time to time. We get in our heads, we worry we’re not hot / good / skilled enough, and sometimes we try to be people we’re not during sex. That’s why today’s episode is about identifying different types of performance anxiety, so that we can show up more confident and relaxed for sex.
First I talk through O-blockers: common reasons your orgasm and overall pleasure hit a limit. Next I bring up popular “personas” people adopt in bed, like the cool girl/guy who’s down for whatever (even when you’re actually not) and the super dominant, in-charge lover (even when you’re actually more submissive). Finally, I give you strategies to increase your sexual confidence and take all of your sexual anxiety questions.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerWhy performative sex is killing your pleasure—and how to stop.
How to ditch “porn mode” and tap into real turn-ons.
The secret to being fully present (and having better orgasms).
Show Notes:
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The Kinkiest Sex Positions Are…
25 februari 2025 · 31 min
How do you take a classic sex position and make it kinky? On today’s show, I’m telling you exactly how. Inspired by the positions chapter in Smart Sex, I’m talking through two specific positions that bring the kink – and another classic that you can spice up with a little power play.
First, I’m looking at Cowgirl/Cowboy and talking through its pros, cons, and evolutions to introduce kinky dynamics. Next, I’m talking Doggy Style (or as I like to call it: Rear Entry) and breaking down its inherent kink dynamics and ideas to make it even more exciting. Finally, we’re looking at Missionary, which I think we can all agree needs a kinky rebrand. I’ll give you ideas to make it more surprising and sexy.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to turn classic sex positions into kinky, pleasure-boosting experiences.
Why even small tweaks—like tempo and control—can make you kinkier than you think.
The secret to better orgasms in any position (hint: clitoral stimulation is key).
Show Notes:
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Playing Without a Partner w/ Dr. Megan Stubbs
21 februari 2025 · 39 min
I’m joined by sexologist, relationships expert, body image specialist, and author of Playing Without a Partner Dr. Megan Stubbs. We dive into how to embrace every aspect of singlehood (hello, masturbation!) and why being single doesn’t have to be a layover, it can be your destination. We give tips for loving your body, ways to elevate your orgasm, and how to alleviate skin hunger when you aren’t in a relationship. Plus, we’re sharing tips for sending nudes, ways to create an optimal pre-date ritual, and ideas for being with a new partner.
We also answer your questions about what to do if you feel insecure about the number of people you have slept with, how to increase emotional intimacy in the bedroom and what to do if you feel you’re in a “dry spell.”
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerWhy being single isn’t a “waiting room”—it’s a destination for confidence, self-love, and incredible orgasms.
How to turn your solo pleasure game all the way up with masturbation, edging, and next-level orgasm hacks.
The secrets to emotional intimacy in the bedroom (even if your partner struggles with it).
Show Notes:
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Calming The Chaos w/ Tal Rabinowitz
18 februari 2025 · 47 min
There’s no such thing as an “easy life” which is why it’s SO important to develop the right tools to help you handle everyday chaos. Today, I’m talking with Tal Rabinowitz who’s helping people around the world learn to find calm in their daily commotion with her company The DEN Meditation.
She gives tips for beginners who’ve never tried calming their minds and shares how meditation can totally change your outlook on your relationship. We also talk about judgment, specifically how you can stop labeling everything as ‘bad’ or ‘good’ and simply let things be what they are. It’s 2025—and time to meditate, masturbate, and manifest for a better year.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow meditation can transform your relationship—See your partner clearly and stop the blame game.
Why chaos is personal—and powerful—Own it, don’t let it own you.
The magic of breath—Calm your mind, spark your pleasure.
Show Notes:
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Sexy Bonding Hacks
14 februari 2025 · 48 min
How do you kickstart sexual arousal? Would you believe me if I told you that sometimes, the best ways to get turned on have nothing to do with sex itself? When you take the focus off the bedroom, and turn your focus toward adventure – the kind that gets your heart-pumping, your adrenaline going, and your anticipation building – a cool thing happens in your brain. You’re excited, and that excitement spills over from the activity into…sex. Pretty nifty, right?
So on today’s show, we’re going to trust, touch, and titillate our way towards arousal, with bonding hacks you can use on your next date whether it is with a long term partner or someone new. Plus, I take your questions! Ways to feel confident and sexual again after a breakup, how to have kinky sex with a partner who says they aren’t interested, how to decide if you should wait to develop a relationship with a super busy person or cut em’ loose, how to take sexy pictures with each other, and how to communicate your needs efficiently outside the bedroom so that you can reignite the spark when you’re back inside.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerSexy bonding hacks that build trust, boost intimacy, and turn you on
How adrenaline-fueled dates like rock climbing or karaoke make you hotter for each other
The fix for mismatched kinks, low libido, and getting your sex life back on track
Show Notes:
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Dating Apps, Red Flags & Bad Habits w/ Logan Ury
11 februari 2025 · 50 min
Logan Ury, the author of How to Not Die Alone and director of Relationship Science at Hinge, joins me to share her best tips for all things dating. Logan provides practical tips for avoiding dating blindspots, the drawbacks of unrealistic expectations, and algorithms to live by for finding a satisfying relationship.
We discuss how ‘dealbreakers’ may be an excuse for avoiding connection, how attachment styles affect our dating outcomes, the paradox of choice in the dating world, and how to get out of the checklist mindset. She also breaks down the most common dating tendencies, shares strategies behind making the best decisions, explains why ‘the spark’ may be B.S., and even offers how-to advice for creating a powerful dating profile. Even if you’re not dating, you will learn techniques that will strengthen all your relationships.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerWhy the spark is total BS—and what actually makes a relationship last
How your dating type (romanticizer, maximizer, or hesitator) is messing with your love life
The secret to making better choices in dating—so you can finally find your person
Show Notes:
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Want Better Orgasms? Fix Your Gut First
7 februari 2025 · 45 min
Better sex starts in your gut—who knew? Microbiologist Kiran Krishnan joins me to break down the gut-sex connection, from how digestion impacts libido and orgasms to why stress and diet could be killing your pleasure.
We’ll get into what “leaky gut” actually is, how it messes with your hormones, and the simple, science-backed habits that will boost your energy, balance your body, and supercharge your sex life.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow your gut health affects your sex life—from libido to orgasms and even erections.
Why stress wrecks your gut and lowers your desire (plus how to fix it).
Five simple gut-friendly habits to boost energy, balance hormones, and have better sex.
Show Notes:
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Behind The Porn Curtain w/ Jacky St. James & Ana Foxxx
4 februari 2025 · 48 min
Ever wonder what happens behind the scenes of your favorite porn? Today I’m joined by adult film director Jacky St. James and performer Ana Foxxx. We discuss their hottest scenes, what it’s like being on set, what constitutes ‘ethical porn’ and whether porn actors fake their orgasms.
Plus, Jacky walks me through her approach to creating an adult film and how porn industry has evolved over time. Ana shares what it’s like dating as a porn star, details from her dirty 30 birthday party and how porn has shaped her sex life on and off-screen. We also answer your questions like: is porn scripted or spontaneous and is it normal to get jealous when your partner watches porn?
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerWhat really happens on a porn set, from fake orgasms to real chemistry.
How porn shapes real-life sex and what actually feels good.
Why ethical porn hits different with real pleasure, real connection, and no male gaze.
Show Notes:
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Sexy Gifts & Pleasure Tips for Valentine’s Day
31 januari 2025 · 40 min
Valentine’s Day is here, and we’re making it hot. Whether you’re single, partnered, or just here for the pleasure tips, I’m joined by Dr. Scott Lyons to talk all things intimacy, gift ideas that actually turn up the heat, and how to keep things exciting beyond February 14th. We’re covering the best sexy gifts (hello, remote-control vibes), why curiosity is the key to lasting passion, and how to avoid becoming that couple scrolling at dinner.
Plus, our wildest V-Day stories—think surprise proposals, foursomes, and one very awkward TSA moment. Let’s make this Valentine’s Day one to remember. 💋
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to make Valentine’s Day sexy—whether you’re single or partnered.
Why curiosity keeps intimacy alive (and how to avoid stale relationships).
The hottest pleasure products to upgrade your solo or partnered play.
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The Truth About STIs w/ Dr. Ina Park
28 januari 2025 · 51 min
Fact: Your STI doesn’t make you ANY less sexy! In today's episode, I’m joined by the author of Strange Bedfellows and medical consultant, Dr. Ina Park who has made it her life's work to reduce the shame and stigma associated with sexually transmitted infections, AKA, STIs. Ina shares everything you need to know if you or someone you’re sleeping with is infected, how to reduce your risk of transmission, and when to disclose your status to a partner.
We also discuss Ina’s #1 tip for STI prevention, what to know about how your personal grooming can impact transmission and a surprising discovery about The Bachelor’s casting process. Finally, we answer your questions about transmission through oral sex, when it’s possible to get intimate without a condom and why having an STI isn’t a death sentence for your relationships. Let’s ditch the shame and bring on the sex.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to disclose an STI and still have an amazing sex life.
Why shaving might increase your STI risk (and how to avoid it).
Why HPV is common—and totally manageable.
Show Notes:
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It Begins With You: Hard Truths About Love & Dating w/ Jillian Turecki
24 januari 2025 · 1 uur 3 min
Tired of repeating the same relationship mistakes? Relationship coach Jillian Turecki joins me to break down the nine hard truths about love that will change your life. From healing heartbreak to understanding why you keep attracting the wrong people, Jillian shares how true love starts with you.
We’re talking about breakups, dating struggles, and why lust isn’t love (even though it feels amazing). Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this episode will help you build healthier connections and finally get the love you deserve.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to break free from toxic dating patterns.
The red flags you’re probably ignoring.
Why self-acceptance is the key to love.
Show Notes:
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Dirty Talk Your Way To Your Next Orgasm
21 januari 2025 · 39 min
I’ve heard from a lot of my listeners that they struggle with talking dirty in the bedroom. Today I’m joined by porn star, author, exotic dancer, and dirty talk expert Joanna Angel to break down what to say, how to start if you’ve never tried it and how to crank your dirty talk up from dusty to undeniably filthy.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerDirty talk made easy with simple tips to start and spice it up without feeling awkward
Sexting secrets to tease, turn on, and build anticipation like a pro
Confidence in the bedroom by owning your desires and feeling empowered in and out of bed
Show Notes:
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Hotline Calls: Mutual Masturbation, Oral Sex, and your Toxic Ex
17 januari 2025 · 52 min
On today’s show, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex with Emily hotline.
Topics include: how to tell your partner you want more oral sex, what to do if you can’t get over the sex you had with your toxic ex, how to explore your bisexuality without unnecessary drama, the best ways to avoid negative thought patterns while dating and how to explore mutual masturbation and edging with a partner.
Have a question of your own? You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to ask your partner for more oral sex and introduce fun tools like flavored lubes.
Ways to break free from a toxic ex and open yourself to healthier relationships.
Tips to explore mutual masturbation and edging for better intimacy.
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Mindfulness for Better Sex
14 januari 2025 · 54 min
Today I’m joined by meditation teacher, speaker, and author Light Watkins to share how we can better practice mindfulness in and outside of the bedroom. We discuss how meditation can transform relationships, reduce stress, and allow you to be more present during all areas of your life—including sex.
Plus, we’re sharing easy hacks to curate a meditation routine, how you can cultivate happiness and fulfillment, and why training your brain is important to your overall well-being. Light also shares the ways that sex is similar to meditation, the importance of following your intuition, how to foster true positive change, and the best ways to maintain a gratitude practice.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow meditation enhances your sex life and keeps you present.
Why managing stress is the secret to better relationships.
Simple gratitude hacks to transform your mindset.
Show Notes:
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Influencers, Threesomes and Narcissism w/ Jenny Mollen
10 januari 2025 · 50 min
Jenny Mollen is the author of City of Likes, a fictional comedy about mommy influencer culture and the intensity of female friendships – especially when one of them is a narcissist. Are they obsessed with each other? Do they want to have sex with each other? And what do you do when someone’s perfectly-curated facade finally cracks?
Jenny and I met years ago, and I know you’ll love her just as much as I do. Besides being a bestselling author, she’s also an actor, a mom, and wife to actor Jason Biggs. In this episode, she talks about the personal experiences with social media that inspired her book, why she wants to see a sex therapist, and helps me answer your sex and relationship questions. For example, if you’re in a relationship, is it ok to comment on someone else’s Instagram telling them how attractive they are? Jenny and I give it to you straight. Lees meerIn this episode, you’ll learn:
How to navigate the tricky relationship dynamics of long-term partnerships and social media.
Why laughter and authenticity are key to maintaining intimacy over the years.
The surprising connections between personal vulnerability, desire, and self-discovery.
Show Notes:
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Red Flags & Therapy w/ the Stallone Sisters
7 januari 2025 · 45 min
I’m joined by the hosts of the Unwaxed podcast, Sophia and Sistine Stallone. Find out what really happens on the dating apps, how to spot red flags and why a bad first kiss doesn’t have to be a deal breaker. I encourage them to make time for masturbation and we discuss if watching porn is considered cheating.
I also take your calls and answer a bunch of your questions. I cover prostate play, adult virginity, partner toys and what to do when your partner takes too long to orgasm.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerThe secret to turning a bad kisser into your perfect match.
How to unlock your sexual confidence through self-exploration.
Game-changing tips to get what you want in the bedroom—without the awkwardness.
Show Notes:
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Keeping Your Sexy Resolutions
3 januari 2025 · 39 min
The best sex of your life doesn’t happen by chance. If it did, we’d all be having it. In this episode, I share my own sex and dating intentions for the year and help you plan your own. I guide you through our Pleasure Planner, and we explore how prioritizing your sex life will benefit your overall life. I also answer questions about confidence in the bedroom, STIs and condoms, and if it’s possible to repair a relationship after someone cheats. If you need some inspiration to create your own sex and love goals, download our free Pleasure Planner sexwithemily.com/guides. Or just click the link HERE!
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to use the Sex With Emily Pleasure Planner
Practical ways to communicate your desires and co-create a sex life that excites you
How to set and stick to sex and pleasure goals that truly prioritize your needs
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Closure w/ Your Ex & Other Success Stories
31 december 2024 · 54 min
Here’s the secret formula to better sex: prioritize it! In this episode, we’re talking all about sex success stories and how taking just one step can take your sex life from static to ecstatic. From finding closure with an ex to trying out swinging and finding it works, and looking for sex after a life after not having any, each of these people have taken a big step towards changing their lives. Get inspired to create your own sex-cess story.
I also answer questions about what to do if your boyfriend won’t communicate openly with you about your sex life, how to be more confident rocking the cowgirl position and what to do if mismatched libidos are making you feel insecure in your relationship.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow real listener stories of self-discovery and sexual growth can inspire your own journey.
The keys to building confidence, communicating needs, and reigniting passion in your relationship.
Actionable tips for embracing pleasure, navigating mismatched desires, and taking control of your sex life.
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How To Be Sexually Confident w/ Serena Kerrigan
27 december 2024 · 40 min
Confidence is everything. It affects the way we perceive ourselves, how we interact with others, and definitely shapes our sex life. On today’s show, I am joined by Serena Kerrigan, the ‘Queen of Confidence.’
Serena talks about what she has learned from going on over 50 online dates with men, how to make the “whoring twenties” fun, and her passion for masturbation. Plus, we answer your questions like how to feel confident after hooking up for the first time and how to feel sexy no matter what.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to build unshakable confidence through self-love, manifestation, and daily affirmations.
Why approaching dating with curiosity (and a sense of humor) can completely change your experience.
The connection between knowing your body through masturbation and feeling empowered in the bedroom.
Show Notes:
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Hotline Calls: Unlock Your Best Orgasm Yet
24 december 2024 · 54 min
In this episode I take calls from our Sex With Emily Hotline and we get into it!
Your questions include: What to do if you masturbate but can’t orgasm during sex, the best ways to meet people and date when newly sober, and what happens when your partner’s sexual fantasy creates issues in your relationship. Plus, I review how to start having sex again after a dry spell and when it might be time to break up if you’re sexually incompatible.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to embrace fantasies like cuckolding while avoiding shame and regret.
What to do when your partner’s sexual style doesn’t match your needs.
Sexy hacks to keep intimacy alive—even when living with parents.
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Unleash Your Kink w/ Justine Cross
20 december 2024 · 42 min
Do you want a little more kink in your life, but aren’t sure how to get started? If so...you’ll definitely want to tune into my interview with professional dominatrix & kink expert, Mistress Justine Cross. We discuss the myths and basics of BDSM starting with what the hell it even means (bondage, discipline, domination, submission and masochism). We show you how to begin exploring your kinks even if you are brand new to the game and we discuss some of the most common fantasies.
We also answer your questions about: techniques for restraining your partner (fun!), the importance of communicating your fantasies, and how to explore dom/sub dynamics.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to explore BDSM, from restraint play to introducing kinks.
The biggest myths about BDSM and why it’s not all whips and chains.
Simple ways to master consent, boundaries, and better communication.
Show Notes:
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My Top Tips for 69ing & Oral Sex
17 december 2024 · 33 min
Let’s 69! It’s one of those sex acts where you tend to be a full-on lover or hater. But no matter what camp you fall in, chances are that if you’re having sex, you’re going to come across the famous, the controversial, 69 sex position. Why not learn some pointers to make the whole thing more hot, and more comfortable?
First, I share research with you that might motivate you to put 69 on regular rotation in your sex life. Next, I give you techniques for being an excellent oral giver, and strategies like mindful masturbation, to help you become a more relaxed and erotic receiver. Finally, I talk position tips like the Sideways 69 and the Power 69 for you to play with, and take all your pressing questions on 69ing and oral sex.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerGame-changing 69 positions to maximize pleasure.
Oral sex tips to elevate giving and receiving.
How to relax and fully enjoy receiving pleasure.
Show Notes:
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WTF is “Normal” Sex w/ Dr. Maria Uloko
13 december 2024 · 37 min
Ever wonder if your penis/vulva/genitalia are normal? In this episode, I’m joined by urologist Dr. Maria Uloko who’s revolutionizing sexual healthcare. We get into why vulva-owners need testosterone, what happens when penis-owners masturbate too aggressively, how shame can interfere with getting the care you need, and how common it is to experience sexual dysfunction.
I also answer your questions including when it’s time to date again after a toxic relationship, what to do when your partner’s porn preferences look nothing like you, how to be dominant in the bedroom and toy recs to amplify oral sex on a vulva.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to address common causes of pain during sex
Treatments for sexual health challenges
Why there’s no “normal” when it comes to sexual health
Show Notes:
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Hotline Calls: Wetter is Better
10 december 2024 · 40 min
On today’s show, it’s all about finding answers to your trickiest questions and unleashing your full pleasure potential. How do you orgasm when you don’t know how? Or have sex for the first time, when you’re a virgin? How do you ease into an open relationship or threesome? How do you find balance in your masturbation routine?
Whether you’re too dry (and it’s puzzling your partner), or too wet (and it’s puzzling both of you) I help you figure out solutions to overcome your biggest sexual challenges.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to break through orgasm barriers with self-pleasure tips.
The essentials for navigating open relationships and threesomes.
Why embracing the messiness of sex leads to better intimacy.
Show Notes:
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Finding Your Bedroom Voice w/ Lake Bell
6 december 2024 · 42 min
When it comes to your sexual style, have you ever thought about your voice? Do you moan? Slow things down? Pitch up or down an octave?
Actor, writer and director Lake Bell is obsessed with the human voice. On today’s show, we’ll discuss her audiobook Inside Voice, which explores this obsession, including the “sexy baby voice” phenomenon - which happens to be her least favorite choice for bedroom talk. We also discuss your takes on dating in your 40s, and why things often get better with age when it comes to the pursuit of romance. All this and more with my amazing guest, Lake Bell.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow your voice can enhance intimacy and authenticity in and out of the bedroom.
Why playful and respectful communication is the key to better sex.
The joys of dating in your 40s, from confidence to self-awareness.
Show Notes:
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Hotline Calls: Should You Make Up or Break Up?
3 december 2024 · 49 min
It’s the question everyone has asked themselves at least once. Should I break up with my partner? Relationship success depends on so many factors - communication, emotional intimacy, and of course - sexual connection. Figuring out which problems are worth solving and which ones are directing you to the exit sign can be confusing, exhausting and painful.
So on today’s show, I take your questions - live - to figure out if you should make up or break up. Is bad sex worth leaving someone over? What about an age gap that puts both of you in much different life stages? Or how do you know if an affair has the potential to turn into something real? We learn so much from other people’s relationships. No matter where you are in your own, this will teach us all how to make better choices going forward.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to navigate the crossroads of making up or breaking up—and what signs to look for in your relationship.
Why communication, boundaries, and therapy are game-changers when deciding whether to stay or go.
The truth about age gaps, open relationships, and the role of emotional honesty in finding real compatibility.
Show Notes:
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