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Love Without Losing Your Mind w/ Todd Baratz
7 juni 2024 · 57 min
Have you ever been so in love that you lost your mind? I totally get it, and so does today's guest, sex therapist, author, and host of the podcast Diagnonsense, Todd Baratz, who joined me to chat about all things relationship and why dating can be such a struggle today.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow oral sex can make or break your relationship
What to do when you date men who don't know how to connect emotionally
Why we need to stop diagnosing everyone
Show Notes:
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Are You Touch-Starved?
4 juni 2024 · 36 min
Did you know that the lack of physical touch can exacerbate anxiety and depression? How have you been feeding your skin hunger? Ever since the pandemic, many of us have been touch-starved, but now it’s time to feast. On today’s throwback show I’ll share how to satisfy your skin hunger and bring more touch and intimacy back into your life.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerWhat questions to ask yourself to figure out if your relationship is where you want it to be
How to introduce new techniques (and toys) into the bedroom
How to get back into the dating scene
Show Notes:
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Pleasure Planner + Other Guides
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Ejaculation Education w/ Gabrielle Blair
31 mei 2024 · 59 min
Why is it that vulva owners are the ones tasked with preventing pregnancy? That’s the burning question we’ve all been thinking about since 2017.
On today’s throwback show, we’re diving into this hot topic with Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the mastermind behind a viral thread and the book, Ejaculate Responsibly. Joining us is my dear friend, anthropologist, and author, Dr. Wednesday Martin, to help unpack this loaded discussion. In our post-Roe world, Gabrielle—mother of six and a devout Mormon—is fiercely advocating for the importance of women’s lives and their pleasure. Get ready for an eye-opening conversation!
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow society pressures vulva owners to become mothers
Why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies
How to talk to young penis owners about ejaculating responsibly
Show Notes:
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Best Of: Ready to Get Naughty?
28 mei 2024 · 35 min
Let's face it: sex isn't just a switch you can flip on and off. It's more like a whole playlist of tension, arousal, body exploration, playful antics, and steamy teamwork — there’s a lot more than just the main event. So, what do you do when you're ready to get it on, but your body keeps hitting snooze? In today’s show, I’ll show you my favorite tips and tricks and address even the most perplexing arousal questions.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerMy special trick for giving oral sex with a gag reflex
How to deal with vaginismus
Why communication can fix (almost) every sex problem
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The Science Behind Sexual Attraction
24 mei 2024 · 35 min
Imagine: You've got that special someone who makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. The trust is there, the connection is solid. But sometimes the fire just fizzles out when it comes to sex. I get it. When the routine starts feeling a bit too...routine, it's time to switch things up and rediscover what really gets your engine revving (and sometimes, it’s not your partner!).
On today’s throwback we're diving deep into the world of sexual attraction - what it is, how it's different from romantic love, and most importantly, how to use that knowledge to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Because at the end of the day, switching it up never hurt anybody.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerWhy sexual attraction can feel so distinctly different than long-term love
What to do when you and your partner are both submissive
When you should hang onto your friend with benefits – and when to let them go
Show Notes:
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Sex and Psychology
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Self Love is Sexy w/ Shaun T
21 mei 2024 · 1 uur 11 min
In today’s throwback show, I talk to the one and only Shaun T, host of the podcast “Trust and Believe,” a world renowned fitness trainer, and a professional dancer. Not to mention a wonderfully sex positive man, but, as you’ll learn in the episode it took a journey – I repeat, a JOURNEY – to get there. But hey, if he can do it, you can too. Trust me: if you’ve been looking for inspo to feel yourself in the bedroom, this convo is an absolute must.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow Shaun and his partner keep things interesting after 12 years and two kids
Why you have to do the work to heal from trauma – and why it’s so rewarding
Shaun’s genius sex and arousal hacks
Show Notes:
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What’s Your Arousal Type?
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Best Of: Conscious, Casual Sex
17 mei 2024 · 37 min
Let’s face it: casual sex often gets a bad rap. It’s thought of as just another swipe, a fleeting moment, a reflection of society’s current hookup culture, or something disposable. But hold up! It doesn't have to be that way. When you bring a little intention and mindfulness into the mix, casual sex can be the spark that reignites your erotic energy. In my opinion, the secret sauce is all about knowing yourself and being crystal clear about what you want from your casual encounters. This episode, I’ll be teaching you how to dive into casual sex with purpose and channel your inner Samantha Jones. Lees meer
In this episode you’ll learn:
All the different types of casual sex out there
How to know if casual sex is right for you (because it isn’t for everyone!)
When it’s best to turn down a potential partner
Show Notes:
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7 Myths of Non Monogamy
Friends With Benefits: A Guide
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LOKI WAVE 2
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Dating Bootcamp w/ Amy Chan
14 mei 2024 · 1 uur 6 min
Today I had the pleasure of talking to the “Scientific Carrie Bradshaw”, a.k.a Amy Chan, the revolutionary mind behind Renew Breakup Bootcamp, to talk about all things relationship. We chat about how her heartbreak helped in creating Breakup Bootcamp, why being present during dates is hard but necessary, and why dating outside of your comfort zone might be the key to finding the one. If you’re sick of swiping left and tolerating toxicity, this one’s for you.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to measure your chemistry compass
Why it’s important to date that short person (even if they aren’t exactly your type!)
How to spot the “green flags” in a relationship
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How to Turn Sexual Fantasies into Reality
10 mei 2024 · 38 min
Eager to transform your hottest sexual fantasy into reality? Then today’s throwback Ask Emily show is for you! I'll be taking calls about fantasies and offering concrete tips on how to actualize them. However, it's essential to recognize that this journey is a blend of creativity and strategy. You must embrace your sensual desires, visualize intensely passionate — and perhaps even forbidden — scenarios, and explore what genuinely excites you! Lucky for you, I’ve given you tips on how to do just that. Right this way for some sexy self-discovery…
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to go about finding a “third” if your partner’s been hinting at cuckolding
The 411 on play parties (and how to stay safe if you go to one!)
What to do if you’ve been craving a sexual fantasy, but your imagination’s been letting you down
Show Notes:
The Yes, No, Maybe List
Fetlife
Feeld
#Open
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Masturbate (All May) with Emily
7 mei 2024 · 40 min
It’s my favorite month of the year: Masturbation May! On today’s throwback show, I’m honoring the month of self-love and giving you a brief history of the celebration, the health benefits of masturbation, and my favorite toys and lubes for bringing you pleasure this May and all year long. Lees meer
In this episode you’ll learn:
What to do if you feel yourself relying too much on your vibrator
Why masturbation can help you have orgasms during sex with your partner
Signs that you’re masturbating too much
Show Notes:
Mutual Masturbation Guide
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Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 2
3 mei 2024 · 51 min
Today, I continue my conversation with my friend, YouTube personality, public speaker, and author Matthew Hussey. We chat about his latest book, Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily No Matter What, Matthew’s texting skills, and why it’s best to follow your path and not your feelings. And if you were wondering about the texting cliffhanger from Part 1, it’s answered in today’s show. Enjoy!
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerWhy “avoiders” can be more of a red flag in relationships than liars
When to make things work and when it's not worth it
Why speaking your truth is sexy
Show Notes:
Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 1
Matthew’s New Book: Love Life
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Best Of: Sex & The Senses
30 april 2024 · 46 min
When it comes to sex, a lot of us find ourselves getting in our head about the way it “should” go down. “I should look a certain way.” “They should kiss me a certain way.” “We’ll both orgasm at the same time.” In other words, we expect things to be straight out of a movie…
But here’s the real deal: you’re going to orgasm way easier – and more intensely – if you get out of your head, and into your body. So on today’s throwback show, I’m helping you have fully embodied sex using your senses. If you're not turned on or inspired to have sex, I’ve got sensory tools you can use to remove mental blocks and seduce yourself or your partner…and feel all the electric sensations leading up to the big O. Lees meerIn this episode you’ll learn:
Why you’re dissociating during sex and how to stop
Ways to talk dirty without swearing
How to bring back an MIA orgasm
Show Notes:
Just Thrive (use this link to automatically get 20% off sitewide or use code SEXWITHEMILY at checkout!)
Come As You Are - Dr. Emily Nagoski
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Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 1
26 april 2024 · 54 min
Listen in on my conversation with my friend Matthew Hussey. You may know him as the inspirational YouTube personality, author, and public speaker who has revolutionized the world of dating advice with his amazing methods. We chat about emotional journeys, what Matthew has learned in his experience as a relationship coach, and ways to take charge of your love life. If you've been in a dating slump, this is the episode for you.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to take charge of your love life
Why reflecting on your instincts is a game changer
The value of valuing yourself first
Show Notes:
Matthew’s New Book: Love Life
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Sex And Emily Pt. 2
23 april 2024 · 31 min
Today, I continue my candid convo with my friend Falguni, answering all your hottest and most personal sex questions. From my experiences in threesomes to my favorite positions, no question goes unanswered. If you’ve ever wondered what the mile high club is like or how to tell your partner they could step up their sex game, tune in. Trust me, this is an episode you won’t wanna miss.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerWhy penetration alone might not always give you an orgasm
How to take control of your orgasm
Why communication is the most important part of your threesome
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Best Of: Climax with Cannabis
19 april 2024 · 22 min
Happy 4/20! While direct research is still in development, there's no denying the potential benefits of cannabis for enhancing your sexual experiences. Researchers theorize that the plant can unlock a world of heightened eroticism, tranquil minds, and pain-free sex. On today’s show, I chat about ways cannabis might light up your sex life, my favorite products and delivery methods for the occasion (I’m a huge edible fan!), and how to figure out if cannabis is right for you.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow cannabis can affect sexual performance
How to decide if you should bring cannabis into the bedroom
My fave product recommendations for 4/20 fun
Show Notes:
6 Ways to Use Cannabis for Sex: A Guide
The Journal of Cannabis Research Study
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Sex And Emily Pt. 1
16 april 2024 · 36 min
Buckle up: Today’s show is one you’ve all been waiting for…and spoiler alert, it’s all about me! I sat down with my good friend Falguni to flip the script and spill the tea on what sex with Emily is actually like (pun intended)! Tune in to hear me get up close and personal about my sexual journey, why I faked my orgasms until my 30s, and sex trends that I see making a comeback in the near future.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow I stopped having performative sex
How to push past the pleasure thieves for fulfilling sex
My go-to positions and products for the best orgasms
Show Notes:
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Why Gut Health is Sexy w/ Tina Anderson
12 april 2024 · 1 uur 1 min
In today’s gut-busting episode I dive deep into the tango between your belly's bacteria and your sexual wellness. And who better to guide us through this intestinal intrigue than Tina Anderson, the gut guru and CEO of Just Thrive, the brand whose mission is to reboot your microbiome. Prepare to have your life changed as Tina spills the beans on how bacteria in your gut really calls the shots, influencing everything from your mood swings to your mojo.
Buckle up, lovers and health hackers, as we explore the steamy science that'll have you rethinking your next date night dinner.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerWhat low libido, keeping the spark alive, erectile challenges, and gut issues all have in common
How hormones and the gut biome each affect each other in a bi-directional system
Why the 3 pleasure thieves (stress, trauma, and shame) also impact our general health and wellness
Show Notes:
Just Thrive (use this link to automatically get 20% off sitewide at checkout!)
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Communicate Your Sexual Needs
9 april 2024 · 38 min
It’s 2024, and there’s no denying that everybody has sexual needs. However, it can be really difficult to articulate them and share them with your partner. On today’s throwback Ask Emily show, I’m here to help you take that vital next step and get your needs fulfilled. From those who’ve never had an orgasm before to those who just want to communicate with their partners better, I’ve got you!
Just remember: for every sex problem, there is a path forward.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to communicate your sexual needs (even if your partner shuts down sex convos)
Techniques to give your partner a crazy orgasm
What to do if your partner desires things you might not be sure about like swinging
Show Notes:
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Pleasure Mapping & Full-Body Orgasms w/ Dolly Josette
5 april 2024 · 1 uur 7 min
Today I revisit my conversation with Dolly Josette, the PleasureMuse who turned the world of breathwork into the ultimate erotic adventure! Imagine unlocking a treasure chest of sensations and full-body orgasms you never knew you had with the work of meditation.. Dolly isn't just any guide on this journey; she's the Gandalf of sexual enlightenment, hailed by the high councils of Cosmopolitan and Hustler Magazines as a pioneering Sexological Bodyworker. But what truly sets her apart isn't the accolades; it's her magical ability to awaken the dormant erotic energy within women and couples, guiding them from numbness to dizzying heights of orgasmic bliss. So, if the idea of exploring the vast, uncharted territories of pleasure sounds good to you, Dolly Josette is ready to lead the way!
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to hack your nervous system for better sex
Why so many vulva owners are trained to numb from the waist down (and how to fix it!)
How to become a great masturbator
Show Notes:
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Best Of: Love, Lust & Lexapro
2 april 2024 · 43 min
Mental health and sexual desire – do you have to choose between one or the other? It's a conundrum that's more common than you think, and it's a topic that's sure to get you thinking! Antidepressants like Lexapro can be lifesavers for many, but they can also leave you feeling a little, well, deflated in the bedroom department. On the other hand, if your depression goes untreated, it can be tough to get in the mood. So, how do you navigate this predicament?
Today, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of this struggle, and you'll hear from some of our listeners who've been there.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to understand the effects your mental health has on your sex drive
Sexy strategies to manage the side effects of antidepressants
Alternative treatments and lifestyle changes to maximize your pleasure
Show Notes:
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The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness (36 Questions)
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Best Of: Secrets to Happier Sex w/ Dr. Amen
29 maart 2024 · 33 min
It's commonly said that the brain is the most significant sexual organ in the human body. But is it possible to manipulate our brains to enhance happiness or even improve our sexual experiences? Dr. Daniel Amen, a psychiatrist and acclaimed author, has compiled the most extensive collection of brain scans globally. Through analyzing this data, he has uncovered intriguing insights: by adopting habits grounded in neuroscience, we can significantly enhance our mental well-being, elevate our mood, and indeed – enrich our sexual lives. Tune in now to discover how to take control of your mind and enjoy the benefits.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerThe way stress hormones can interfere with our sexual hormones
Techniques to shield yourself from mental "noise"
The reasons why individuals who are happier generally enjoy longer lives, maintain healthier relationships, achieve greater success professionally, and experience more fulfilling sex lives
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How to Send Your Best Sext
26 maart 2024 · 30 min
Sexting: it’s basically the foreplay of the 21st century - a steamy, sultry way to turn up the heat without even being in the same room. But let's be real, sending a bunch of suggestive emojis out of the blue might leave your partner scratching their head. That's why you need to master the art of sexting, and I'm here to help you do just that. In this show, I'll give you the inside scoop on how to craft the perfect sext, from the right tone to the perfect use of emojis. With my pro tips, you'll be able to turn up the heat and leave your partner begging for more. So buckle up, because we're about to take your sexting game to a whole new level!
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow emotional intelligence influences your sexting skills
How to manage your devices so messages don’t end up in the wrong place
How to have good phone sex in a long distance relationship
Show Notes:
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Creating The Love You Desire w/ Mark Groves
22 maart 2024 · 1 uur 7 min
Looking to connect with your partner on a whole new level? Lucky for you, today’s episode with human connection specialist Mark Groves will give you the tools to do just that. Mark uses his emotional translation skills to give accessible relationship and wellness advice to others and shares his relatable ways to be your most authentic self. From discussing a Thanksgiving dinner that changed his life to examining past toxic behavior, Mark and I dive deep into ways to become wiser in love. Get ready to get vulnerable, today’s show gets DEEP!
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to break free from codependent relationships
Why reflecting on past experiences is the key to better relationships
Why we should all be using the word “boner again
Show Notes:
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Pre-order Mark’s new book: LIBERATED LOVE
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
LELO (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
LELO F1S V3
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Best Of: Where Did My Orgasm Go?
19 maart 2024 · 58 min
WARNING, WARNING: Your climax has exited the premises. Ever wondered why achieving orgasm can feel effortless with one partner but challenging with another? Or why squirting might occur without reaching climax? On today's throwback episode of Hotline Calls, we're delving into the topic of orgasm and its hidden secrets. Tune in for an orgasmic time.
Got a burning question? Feel free to reach out and leave a voicemail anytime at 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739).
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerThe difference between squirting and orgasming
How to orgasm for the first time, if you never have
How to create masturbation routines that support the orgasms you deserve
Show Notes:
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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How to Have Honeymoon Sex Forever
15 maart 2024 · 40 min
Weddings: They're like a beautiful blend of tradition and flowers, but let's be real – Is married sex worth all the hype? Let's face it, folks. Married sex often gets stuck in this rut of tired old cliches. But guess what? It doesn't have to be that way!
We're so over settling for dull or non-existent intimacy as we journey through life with our partners. So, buckle up because on today's show, I'm all about shaking things up to make sex with your spouse hot again. From crafting your own set of sex vows before you take that stroll down the aisle to pleasure planning with your long-time partner, we're rewriting the playbook on honeymoon passion. Oh, and we're diving into the cultural landscape of love, sex, and relationships because times are definitely changing!
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to navigate bisexuality in a straight marriage
What it means if you find yourself jealous at your friend’s wedding
How to bring back the spark…even when the spark was a little dim in the first place
Show Notes:
Buy tickets to my San Diego, CA Show on April 10, 2024 HERE!
Buy tickets to my Phoenix, AZ Show on April 18, 2024 HERE!
Yes, No, Maybe Guide
Pleasure Planner
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Magic Life Hacks & Micro Intimacy w/ Liz Moody
12 maart 2024 · 1 uur 1 min
Today I’m joined by Liz Moody, the best-selling author and podcast host who shares insightful tips to help transform your life in all different aspects in her new book, 100 Ways to Change Your Life: The Science of Leveling Up Health, Happiness, Relationships & Success. We discuss her personal strategies for prioritizing wellness, ways to run your home like a CEO, and how to make your ideal Sex Bill of Rights. Tune in for so many amazing tips and tricks to upgrade your life!
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow planning your funeral helps you live a fulfilling present life
Why it's important to run your home like you’re the CEO
My new term "micro intimacy” and why that will be a game changer
Show Notes:
Check out Liz’ New Book HERE
LELO F1S V3 (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off all products)
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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AITA For Being Pushy About My Fantasies?
8 maart 2024 · 33 min
Listen up, assholes! Relationships and sex dynamics can be pleasure-filled and intimate, and also complicated and messy. Today, Producer Erica and I are reading your AITA questions and letting you know if you’re being an asshole in your sex life and relationships. We answer questions like: AITA for wanting more sexual tension and intimacy in our relationship? AITA for re-evaluating a new relationship after they told me they have an STI? AITA for breaking up with my partner because they won’t go down on me? And more.
In this episode you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to communicate your sexual needs effectively with your partner
What to do if your partner tells you they have an STI
How to heighten sexual tension
Show Notes:
Promescent.com/Emily (Use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout!)
Episode: Hot Sex with STIs w/ Dr. Ina Park
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Underestimated: The Wisdom of Teenage Girls w/ Chelsey Goodan
5 maart 2024 · 51 min
Today, I had a candid conversation with Chelsey Goodan, also known as the Teenage Girl Whisperer, about empowering teenage girls in today's society. Chelsey shares her insights from working with teenage girls for over a decade and discusses the challenges they face regarding sexuality, self-expression, and societal expectations. Join us as we explore the power of communication, empowerment, and authenticity in supporting teenage girls on their journey to self-discovery and empowerment.
In this episode you’ll also learn: Lees meerEffective communication strategies
The power of radical honesty and authenticity in building relationships
How to break cycles of criticism, self-doubt, and judgment
Show Notes:
Chelsey’s Book: Underestimated
Promescent.com/Emily (15% off your order!)
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Best Of: Sex Up Your Love Language
1 maart 2024 · 47 min
Ever wondered if there's a way to spice things up in the bedroom AND reignite the spark between you and your partner? Well, today I'm about to help you crack the code of the 5 Love Languages and supercharge your relationship. I'll also tackle your burning questions like what to do when you and your partner speak different love languages (more common than you’d think), how to keep the love alive in a long-distance relationship, and sex hacks based on your unique love language combo.
And if that wasn't enough, I also discuss some awkward situations like accidentally critiquing your partner's penis or navigating that awkward phase when you and your partner feel like the spark is gone.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerAll about the 5 Love Languages
How to keep the flame burning in a long-distance relationship
How to best express your desires with your partner (even if your love languages are different!)
Show Notes:
Je Joue Mimi Soft
Talk Dirty to Me w/ Joanna Angel
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How to Raise Good Humans w/ Dr. Aliza Pressman
27 februari 2024 · 46 min
Today I teamed up with the brilliant developmental psychologist and host of the Raising Good Humans podcast, Dr. Aliza Pressman, for a rollercoaster ride through the wild world of parenting, sexuality, and relationships. From decoding the mysteries of "the talk" with kids to unraveling the enigma of why millennials and Gen-Zers might be having sex less often, we left no stone unturned. Join us as we dive headfirst into understanding and embracing children's gender identities and sexual orientations, all while figuring on how to be the best humans we can be.
Get ready, because this episode isn't just about parenting—it's about living your best life and loving fiercely along the way!
Show Notes: Lees meer5 Principles of Parenting OUT NOW!
More Dr. Aliza Pressman: Website | Instagram
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Best Of: You're Kinkier Than You Think
23 februari 2024 · 33 min
When you think of BDSM and kink, I’m sure leather and whips come to mind. But what if I told you that there’s much more to kink than that? Today, I’m here to sprinkle some spice and shed light on the art of BDSM and kink. First up, we'll define key terms and provide a comprehensive understanding of BDSM because let's face it, who really knows what "BDSM" stands for anyway? Then, we'll explore the psychology behind power dynamics and the core desires behind kinky practices. And last but certainly not least, we'll serve up some tantalizing tips for bringing a bit of kink into your bedroom – whether you're flying solo or have a partner in crime.
So, buckle up (or should I say, buckle down?), because we're about to embark on a journey into the wild and wonderful world of kink!
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerWhat BDSM and Kink are really about
The psychology behind dom/sub dynamics
How to fearlessly bring kink into the bedroom
Show Notes:
What NOT to Say to Your Partner When Talking About Sex
How to Squirt (For Real)
Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
LELO Tiani Duo
We-Vibe Melt
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5 BDSM Games To Spice Up Your Sex Life Tonight
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Manifest Your Best Sex Life w/ Gabby Bernstein
20 februari 2024 · 39 min
In today's episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with #1 NYT Bestselling author Gabby Bernstein. As a spiritual leader and motivational speaker, Gabby shares how you can manifest the sex life you want but through a practical, less woo, lens and how to work through sexual trauma and change your core beliefs around sex. We also get into Internal Family Systems therapy and how young women today speak about sex differently than our generation.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow spirituality can enhance your sexuality
How to boost your confidence (in and out of the bedroom)
Tools for working through trauma
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:My appearance on the Dear Gabby podcast!
More Gabby Bernstein: Website | Instagram
Happy Days
The Universe Has Your Back
Self Help (coming 2/31/24)
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: Squirting, Toys & Threesomes
16 februari 2024 · 37 min
We all want to grow and become better versions of ourselves. And no where is that more true than our sex lives. That’s the mission of today’s call-in show. I answer your questions all about picking up new sex skills. From a fun-loving couple who wants to incorporate others into their play but can’t find the right candidates, to a twenty-something who wants to learn how to squirt on her own - these brave callers’ questions offer something for everyone to learn from.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to find solid friends with benefits
Masturbation techniques
The anatomy of the vulva!
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
The Psychology of Your Kink
How to Squirt (For Real)
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Playground Lube
Je Joue Mimi
Je Joue Hera
Magic Wand
Insertion Toys
Dual Stimulation Toys
#Open
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Seduce Yourself: Solo Sex Tips
13 februari 2024 · 42 min
It’s the season of love - self love! That’s right, this Valentine’s Day, I’ve got all of you singles covered. In today’s Best Of episode, you’ll learn the health benefits of self-pleasure and how it helps you not only reduce stress but elevate your mood. It's also a gateway to understanding your body, boosting your self-esteem, and giving you some serious pleasure.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow often you should masturbate in a relationship
How to try masturbation when you never have
The magic of mutual masturbation
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
The Psychology of Your Kink
How to Squirt (For Real)
Your February Solo Sex Challenge
LELO DOT (up to 50% off until the end of February, code EMILY10 for an additional 10% off)
We-Vibe Touch
Je Joue Mimi
We-Vibe Rave
We-Vibe Nova
Pjur Water-Based Lube
Aneros Prostate Massager
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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AITA for Watching Porn While in a Relationship?
9 februari 2024 · 35 min
Ever wondered: Am I the asshole for watching porn without my partner knowing? Am I the asshole for feeling a little misled about our sex life before we walked down the aisle? Or how about: Am I the asshole for just feeling plain bored with our sex life? You’re not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I read your AITA questions and let you know if you’re approaching asshole territory.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to be a supportive partner to someone with sexual trauma
How to get clearer on your sexual desires
About the experiences of sex workers
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
How to Give a Prostate Massage
15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
Erika Lust porn
Vice Series: Sex Before the Internet
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Orgasms, Explained.
6 februari 2024 · 40 min
Orgasms are one of the most pleasure-filled parts of sex. But what’s actually happening in your body when you have one? Today, I’m breaking down the physiological process of different kinds of orgasms and explaining how to have them. I also reveal how to find your G-area and have a G-spot orgasm, what it means to have a dry orgasm, what squirting really is and how to do it. Plus, I get into your orgasm questions.
In this episode, you’ll also learn: Lees meerThe anatomy of the clitoris, vulva, and penis so you can better stimulate them
The many benefits of orgasms, for both your mental and physical health
Tips for communicating with a partner if you no longer want jackhammer sex
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
How to Give a Prostate Massage
15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts
LELO Tiani Duo (up to 50% off sitewide until the end of February)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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How to Bounce Back from a Sex Slump w/ Dr. Emily Nagoski
2 februari 2024 · 46 min
I’m bringing you all into a LIVE conversation I had with renowned sex educator and researcher, Dr. Emily Nagoski, during a recent event in New York! After releasing her bestselling book on sex, Come As You Are, in 2015, Emily’s own sex life took a hit. Today, we discuss how she brought her sex life back from the dead, the Pleasure Thieves, and why it’s okay to stop sex once it’s already started.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to identify your sexual brakes and accelerators
About the connection between wearing socks and having more orgasms
How stress impacts your sex drive desire
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)
Magic Wand Micro
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The Do’s and Don’ts of Valentine’s Day
30 januari 2024 · 44 min
Valentine’s Day is coming up, and I’m here to make sure it’s your best one yet. First, I get into some common Valentine’s Day myths and things you should never do on the sexy holiday. After that, I’ll share some creative ways you should celebrate to ensure that your Valentine’s Day is hot, intimate and of course, sexy. Plus, I share some of my listeners’ favorite Valentine’s Day moments for some hot inspiration.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to incorporate blindfolds into sexual play
Which toys can be used during penetration
How to cultivate sexual desire & intimacy
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)
How to Do the Kivin Method
LELO Tiani Duo (up to 50% off sitewide until the end of February 2024)
Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
Massage Candles
Le Wand Crystal
Glass Dildo
Cozy Earth (code “SEXWITHEMILY” for 35% off)
Magic Wand
Masterclass (use link for 15% off the 1st year of an annual subscription)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: I Can’t Stop Thinking About My Ex
26 januari 2024 · 1 uur 3 min
On today’s Best Of episode, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex With Emily Hotline. We get into: how to handle it when your partner wants to have sex with someone else and stay in your relationship, what it means when you fantasize about your ex, how soon is too soon to start dating someone new after a breakup, and ways to avoid ghosting.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to set intentions for new relationships
How cannabis can improve your orgasms and intimacy
How to guide a partner during oral sex
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)
How to Do the Kivin Method
The Pleasure Planner, Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
EMDRIA
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
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Best Of: Stop Blocking Your Sex Life
23 januari 2024 · 46 min
When it comes to sex, do you have a growth mindset? Whether you’re a new parent and your sex drive has tanked, or you’re trying to break free from a mental pattern that’s blocking your pleasure, we all experience sexual roadblocks. Never fear: you can have a sex reset! On today’s Ask Emily show, I’m helping you ID the obstacles to your sexuality, from trauma to a repressive upbringing, to a disconnect with a partner. And one by one, I help you figure out solutions that open the door to self-exploration.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerWhat “spectatoring” during sex means, and how to overcome it
Tips for sharing a sexual fantasy with a new partner
How to navigate mismatched libidos in a long-term relationship
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean)
Solaray (code 20STAGES for 20% off)
We-Vibe Nova Shop Site
Podcast: Hotline Calls: Why Can’t I Orgasm?
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Hotline Calls: I Can’t Trust My Partner
19 januari 2024 · 36 min
To feel turned on, we first have to feel safe. So today, I’m taking some of my favorite Hotline calls on trust and how to repair it. What happens if your spouse cheated on you, and now sex feels sorta gross? What if you tell a new partner you love them, and they don’t reciprocate? Or how about being “too picky” of a dater - is it really because they’re all duds, or are there some underlying trust issues there? The bottom line is this: when we feel free, we feel sexy. And on today’s Best Of episode, I’m helping you radically reclaim your erotic freedom.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to move forward after infidelity, whether you were the cheater or the cheated on
Tips for feeling comfortable with new partners
What to do when it feels like the “spark” is gone
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean)
Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
Podcast: Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex w/ Ian Kerner
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Hotline Calls: Is My Kink Normal?
16 januari 2024 · 37 min
I’m answering my listeners’ most personal sex and relationship questions LIVE today. Can you only orgasm with straight legs? I’ve got positions and recommendations to help you get there. Nervous that chastity play is giving your partner delayed ejaculation? I ease your worries and help you collaborate with your partner for mutually fulfilling sex. Plus, we get into other kinky calls like erotic lactation and anal sex.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerHow to teach your body new ways to orgasm
Common causes of vaginal pain
About chastity play and penis cage safety
Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.Show Notes:
How to Initiate Sex
LELO Hugo 2 Remote (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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AITA for Wanting Less Sex?
12 januari 2024 · 39 min
Sometimes, in our sex lives and relationships, it can be easy to wonder: Am I the Asshole? Don’t worry, because in today’s episode, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory in your sexual situations, like: AITA for wanting oral sex every time, not just on special occasions? AITA for rejecting my partner’s advances in the middle of the night? Or how about: AITA for getting upset when my partner turns me down? It’s a juicy one.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerCreative solutions for mismatched libidos
What to do if you’re in a sexless relationship
Tips for healthy sex conversations
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Show Notes:
How to Initiate Sex
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Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides
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Hotline Calls: I’m Kinky, But My Partner Isn’t
9 januari 2024 · 47 min
Today I am bringing back LIVE Hotline Calls! Not only that, holistic psychologist, author, and my newest friend, Dr. Scott Lyons, joins me back on the show to help me answer your questions. From concerns about sexual compatibility to avoiding jackhammer sex, you will hear the change in these callers’ voices as we help them in real-time.
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meerEffective ways to tell your partner you want to explore sexually
How to have sex talks with a partner who gets uncomfortable
How to feel confident going into a date
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
Magic Wand Micro
Dr. Scott Lyons: Instagram | Website
The Embody Lab
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F These Dating Myths w/ Damona Hoffman
5 januari 2024 · 53 min
Burnt out from dating? Do you feel like you’ll never meet “the one?” In today’s episode, celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman dispels common dating myths and suggests new dating pillars. Plus, she tells us which dating rules to follow (and which to disregard), the #1 expectation for men on dates with women, and how to make your online dating profile stand out.
In this episode, you’ll also learn: Lees meerHow much chemistry really matters on a date
Who should make the first move
How to track your dates to be more strategic
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024
F the Fairy Tale, Damona Hoffman: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
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Dates & Mates Podcast: Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Website
DamonaHoffman.com/DateTracker
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Best Of: More Foreplay, More Orgasms
2 januari 2024 · 40 min
I dive into the psychology of foreplay and how to get aroused with specific (and quite sexy) pre-game tips. I also talk about what to do if foreplay and overall sex with your partner has gotten a bit stale, how to tease and arouse yourself, what to do if your partner doesn’t want to explore new things, and how to handle a partner who won’t reciprocate foreplay. Plus, I answer your questions! Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to set the mood for hotter, more intimate sex
Specific sex tips to seduce a partner
The key differences between couples with ‘great’ vs. ‘bad’ sex lives
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
How to Have the Best NYE Kiss Ever
5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024
Podcast: The Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & Conversation
Flavored Lubes
Massage Candles
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Get Better at Dirty Talk?
Podcast: Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna Angel
Article: 6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful Masturbation
Yes, No, Maybe List & Other Guides
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Your Top Sex Questions of 2023
29 december 2023 · 42 min
I’m answering your top asked sex questions of 2023 and taking a trip through the hottest moments of the year. It’s the last episode of 2023, and there were definitely some standout episodes you all loved the most. So I’m playing some of the highlights, from my fascinating conversation with Esther Perel to my top Hand Play tips, before answering your top questions. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
What squirting really is and how to do it
How often the average couple has sex
How to have satisfying sex on SSRIs
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
How to Have the Best NYE Kiss Ever
Podcast: Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? w/ Esther Perel
More Esther Perel: Website | Instagram | Twitter
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Have Better Sex in 2024
26 december 2023 · 38 min
I’m always encouraging you all to set goals for yourself in your sex life and relationships, and there’s arguably no better time than in the New Year. Today, Producer Erica and I review predictions for 2024 sex and relationship trends, make some of our own predictions, and suggest some New Year’s resolutions to make 2024 your sexiest year yet. Lees meer
In this episode you’ll learn:
About the living apart, together movement
What pleasure mapping is, and how to do it
What percentage of successful couples schedule sex
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
Get to Know Your Body with “Vulva Mapping”
LELO Dot
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Hotline Calls: I Fantasize About My Partner with Other People
22 december 2023 · 39 min
Is it okay to get turned on thinking about my partner with someone else? How can we maintain intimacy amid financial stress? Is it possible to be a feminist and also want to be submissive in the bedroom? Should I be honest with my partner that I’ve never had penetrative sex before? You all ask the best questions, and I’m here to answer them in today’s juicy Hotline Call episode. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to create new fantasies, when you always have the same one
How to watch porn creatively with a partner
How to prioritize pleasure, even during your busiest weeks
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
Last-Minute Amazon Prime Panic Gifts For Lovers & Friends
Bathmate (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide)
Opening Up: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
The Ethical Slut: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
Open Deeply: Amazon | Barnes & Noble
Insight Timer
Breathe App
Where Should We Begin? Card Game
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The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
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Best & Worst Sex Advice of 2023
19 december 2023 · 45 min
Some sex and relationship advice is better than others. Today, Producer Erica and I review some of the most trending sex and relationship advice from TikTok this year, from “how to make them fall in love with you” and love bombing, to when you should sleep with someone or if the “bird test” will tell you whether you should stay with your partner or not. While reviewing all this advice, we’ll let you know if we agree or disagree. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How to maintain sexual tension in long-term relationships
How to avoid “mothering” your partner
Whether it’s possible to make someone fall in love with you
See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:
2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever
2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide
How to Use a Penis Pump
Last-Minute Amazon Prime Panic Gifts For Lovers & Friends
LELO Sona 2 Travel (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)
SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
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