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The Hottest Episodes of 2022
30 december 2022 · 46 min
As the year comes to an end, what are the biggest revelations you’ve had when it comes to pleasure? What is something new you’ve learned that has redefined your sex life - now and in the new year? To answer this, I turned to you - the Sex With Emily community - for a roundup of the best of the best. From oral secrets to solo sex, your sex language and your sex fantasies, these are some of my favorite moments from the episodes you listened to the most this year. Consider this your end of year send off, from Emily with love.
Show Notes: Lees meerArticle: How to Write Your New Year’s Sex Resolutions
Magic Wand
Breathe App
Podcast: Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed
Podcast: Your Sex Language w/ Dr. Jen Freed
Podcast: How to Relationship Better w/ John Kim a & Vanessa Bennett
Podcast: Best Blow Job Ever
Podcast: Orgasms with a Capital O
Podcast: Sex & Loving Your Body w/ Shaun T
Podcast: Therapy: The Relationship Game Changer
Podcast: Sex + Creativity w/ Liz Goldwyn
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Hotline Calls: The Do’s and Don'ts of Non-Monogamy
27 december 2022 · 42 min
Are you considering opening up your relationship? When and how did you decide to do so? And did moving away from monogamy change your perspective on sex and pleasure? Today, I’m taking your calls all about being in open relationships. First up: a group sex success story after a married couple learned to communicate their fantasies – always love hearing those. Next, they have a great sex life, but after a threesome gone wrong, she’s worried he’ll leave. How can she alleviate her anxiety and share her fears? Finally, we define compersion and discuss what to do when your partner wants a threesome… but you don’t. We get into all this and more on today’s hotline show.
Show Notes: Lees meerArticle: The Podcast Eps + Articles You Loved in 2022
Promescent
Article: These Are The 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?
SWE Pleasure Planner, Yes No Maybe List & More Guides
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Better Dates, Better Sex
23 december 2022 · 37 min
Variety is the spice of life – as well as vital to your sex life. But how many times have you turned to your partner on Friday night and said: “how about dinner? Usual spot?” Planning a creative date requires thinking outside of the box. That’s why I’ve done the legwork for you of helping you create playful dates that are as unique as they are arousing. From role playing sexy strangers to planning out a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market, these date ideas will give you a break from the norm - while also building sexual tension and enhancing intimacy.
Show Notes: Lees meerArticle: How to Train Your Penis
VUSH (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Next Gen Vibes)
Article: These Are The 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?
Podcast: What’s Your Arousal Type?
The 36 Questions That Lead to Love
OhMiBod blueMotion Panty Vibe
Podcast: Sex & Loving Your Body w/ Shaun T
Fleur Du Mal x SWE Bundle (FLEURWITHEMILY for 10% off 1st order)
Je Joue Luxury Massage Candle
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What Makes Oral Sex Hot w/ Alex Cooper
20 december 2022 · 47 min
Alex Cooper, host and creator of “Call Her Daddy” knows a thing or two about the pursuit of a more fulfilling sex life. From transcendental oral to disastrous anal, she walks us through the good, the bad, and the funny when it comes to trying new sexual experiences. Alex also shares her mindful masturbation routine and what her partner does to make oral incredible (hint: vulva worship). All this and more in today’s fan favorite best of episode.
Show Notes: Lees meerEmily on Call Her Daddy: How to Have an Orgasm | 104- The Roadmap to his A**hole | 96- The Orgasm Gap & Forced Sex Fantasies
Article: 9 Ways to Elevate Your Solo Sex
Article: Ask Emily: Oral Sex for Beginners
More Alex Cooper: Instagram | Twitter
Call Her Daddy: Website | Instagram | Twitter | TikTok
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Mismatched Sex Drives: Here’s the Fix
16 december 2022 · 41 min
Mismatched sex drives: it’s one of the most common issues longterm relationships face. Frequently one partner has an insatiable appetite for sex, while the other treats sex more like a chore. But just because your libidos aren’t synced up now doesn’t mean they’ll be that way forever. On today’s Hotline show, I answer questions all about you and your partner’s differing sex drives and how to communicate your way to better alignment. From a caller who misses the drama and excitement their sex life once had, to another whose partner’s medication has caused his desire to be depleted - I’ll break down step by step how to broach this sensitive subject. Because if left unaddressed, issues around sex can be fatal to a relationship - and working through it will only make you and your partner stronger.
Show Notes: Lees meerArticle: Best Sexy Stocking Stuffers 2022
FirmTech Tech Ring (Emily20 for 20% off)
Article: These Are the 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?
Podcast: Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed
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Like Your Body, Love Your Sex Life
13 december 2022 · 44 min
We’ve all heard of “body positivity” - the idea that we should celebrate the skin we’re in, rather than emphasize how we think others see us. But in practice, how really is your relationship with your body? Today’s show is all about giving our bodies the respect they deserve. I’m first joined by Bethany C Meyers, whose fitness company the be.come project aims to change our motivation behind working out. Bethany also shares why sex takes on a new, rich depth when we learn to connect with our movement on a daily basis. Afterwards, I’ll answer questions from listeners struggling to accept their own bodies. Because if we can’t learn to love our own bodies, how can we share them intimately with someone else?
Show Notes: Lees meerArticle: 4 Sex Toys So Pretty, They Double As Art
Article: Ask Emily: How Can I Be More Confident in the Bedroom?
Promescent
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The Become Project: Website | Instagram
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Your 2023 Sex Goals (& the Toys to Get There)
9 december 2022 · 50 min
As we wind down the year, what are your pleasure goals? Do you want to explore your body? Incorporate a new pleasure ritual? Try out a new toy? Today on the show, I pull back the curtain on Sex With Emily and invite my team to share their pleasure goals and the toys to get there. From vibrators to arousal gels, they give their honest reviews on what to stuff your stockings with this holiday season. I’ll also break down the science behind them that makes them so effective. If you’re looking to create your own pleasure goals for the new year, these products are a great place to start.
Show Notes: Lees meerSexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
Article: 4 Sex Toys So Pretty they Double as Art
Book: Court of Thorns
Guide: The Pleasure Planner
7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Good Vibrations
Je Joue (Emily30 for 30% off all products)
OhMiBod bluMotion NEX1 Wearable Panty Vibrator
Lelo Sona 2 Cruise
B-Vibe Triplet
Lelo Hugo Prostate Massager
Playground Lube (SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)
Promescent Female Arousal Gel
Fleur Du Mal Sex With Emily Bundle (FLEURWITHEMILY for 10% off all orders)
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Masculinity, Masturbation & Marriage w/ Larry Hagner
6 december 2022 · 44 min
It’s the question married men often ask themselves: why is my marriage just OK? How do I get the spark back? And when did our sex life become so mediocre? Life coach and fellow podcaster Larry Hagner has not only worked through these issues himself, but has devoted his life to helping other men become better husbands and fathers. His project the Dad Edge was inspired by both his struggles in parenting and a lack of having a father during his own childhood. On today’s best-of show, Larry breaks down his four pillars of a good marriage (which absolutely includes sex), as well as how to talk to sons about sex, porn and masturbation.
Show Notes: Lees meerSexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
Vush Destination: Play (SEXWITHEMILY for 40% off Destination: Play)
More Larry Hagner: The Dad Edge | Instagram
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Dating Smarter w/ Dr. Helen Fisher & Dr. Justin Garcia
2 december 2022 · 48 min
Dating - for most of us, it's a necessary evil. We fear rejection, don’t know where to look for our people, or simply feel it's a hopeless waste of time. But as my guests on today’s show can attest, the research behind dating may tell a different story. Today, I’m joined by Anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher and evolutionary biologist Dr. Justin Garcia of the Kinsey Institute. They pulled data from 5,000 American singles ages 18-89 as part of Match’s annual Singles in America survey, and the results are fascinating. People dating more consciously - hookup culture is dead, and singles are prioritizing things like political awareness rather than looks. We’ll unpack their findings and why today’s singles should be more optimistic than ever about finding their match.
Show Notes: Lees meerSexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
Article: Cold Weather Date Ideas
7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Singles in America Study
More Dr. Helen Fisher: Website
More Dr. Justin Garcia: Kinsey Institute Bio | Instagram | Twitter
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The Sex Lives of College Students
29 november 2022 · 46 min
What do you wish you knew about pleasure when you were in college? Maybe it's how to please yourself? Or the signs of sexual incompatibility? Or maybe you just need permission to break up? I answer your questions all about sex in college. From making casual hookups more stimulating, to embracing queerness in heteronormative spaces, to simply finding your people - I give the advice we all wish we could tell our younger selves. I also asked for your hottest college sex stories, and you absolutely understood the assignment. All this and more on today’s best of show.
Show Notes: Lees meerSexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
Article: A Submissive’s Guide to Being Dominant
Promescent Delay Spray & Arousal Gel
Article: Is Casual Sex Right For You?
Article: 7 Books to Teach Your Kids About Queer Sex & Identity
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Hotline Calls: Why Can’t I Orgasm?
25 november 2022 · 48 min
How’s your orgasm lately? Do you wish it was more intense? More frequent? More predictable with a partner? Orgasms don’t have to be a thing of mystery. And that’s why today's call in show is devoted to all things O. First up: she fears a loss of control while climaxing, which derails her arousal altogether. Can she relax and stay present? Next, he’s fit and athletic, with a girlfriend who loves sex. The problem? It takes him a long time to finish – maybe too long. Finally - when you’re with a partner who loves giving you oral, but it’s not exactly getting you off…what gives? I answer these questions and more from our brave live callers.
Show Notes: Lees meerSexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
Promescent Delay Spray & More
Article: I’ve Never Had An Orgasm
Article: Where is the Clitoris?
Article: 6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful Masturbation
Article: How To Respond When Your Partner Can’t Stay Hard
The Yes No Maybe List & Other SWE Guides
Episode: More Sex, Less Pain with Heather Jeffcoat
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Ask and You Shall Receive (Oral)
22 november 2022 · 37 min
Getting the sex we want: it’s easier said than done. Sharing your needs with a partner can be difficult and awkward. But what if we feel undeserving of the gift of pleasure all together?
On today’s best-of episode, I’ll answer your questions all about giving and receiving. From trouble with orgasms to insecurities around body parts - how we receive the gift of oral is often where mental blocks around sex begin - and end. Plus, we hear some giving success stories. Because improving our pleasure potential is all about communicating our needs - ask, and you shall receive.
Show Notes: Lees meerSexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
LELO HUGO (code ‘EMILY’ for 25% off all products)
Article: The Kivin Method
Article: How Do I Go Down on a Vulva?
Article: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex?
Article: How Can I Be More Confident in the Bedroom?
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Love, Lust & Lexapro
18 november 2022 · 42 min
Mental health and sexual desire - do you really have to choose between one or the other? While antidepressants like Lexapro can be lifesaving — all too often, they can deflate our sex drive. But conversely - it’s hard to get aroused if your depression goes untreated. Is there any way out of this predicament? On today’s show, I’ll discuss how to overcome this struggle that is more common than you think - as you’ll hear from some of our listeners. From alternative treatments to hacks around timing and dosage, I’ll help you keep pleasure in your life without compromising your mental health.
Show Notes: Lees meerSexiest Gift Guide Ever: Emily’s Picks for 2022 Holidays
Article: These Are The 5 Arousal Styles. Which One Are You?
Episode: What’s Your Arousal Type?
The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness (36 Questions)
Article: How Do I Have Good Sex During Menopause?
Hormone Intelligence by Aviva Romm, MD
Article: How Do I Deal with Anxiety During Sex?
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Make Scheduling Sex Sexy?
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Someone Cheated. Now What?
15 november 2022 · 47 min
Infidelity - it’s one of the most painful emotional experiences out there. But once the pain heals, it can also create enormous opportunities for growth and self-reflection.
In this episode, I’ll unpack infidelity and all the ways it can play out. It doesn’t always mean the end of a relationship. Sometimes, monogamy just isn’t the right fit. Other times, it means a couple needs to work on deepening intimacy and trust with one other. Whether you’ve been cheated on or you’re the cheater, I’ve got advice to help you work through it to create the love life you want.
Show Notes: Lees meerArticle: Ask Emily: My Wife Cheated
VUSH (code ‘EMILYBFCM’ for 60% off Empress 2 OR Big O Bundle)
More Tom Goss: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Website
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Hotline Calls: How to Squirt & Find a Third
11 november 2022 · 40 min
We all strive to be lifelong learners - as the world and people around us change, we need to adapt and evolve to keep up. And nowhere else is this more true than our sex lives. Our sexual intelligence can only reach its full potential if we’re open to nurturing its growth. That’s the mission of today’s call-in show. I answer your questions all about picking up new sex skills. From a fun-loving couple who wants to incorporate others into their play but can’t find the right candidates, to a twenty-something who wants to learn how to squirt on her own - these brave callers’ questions offer something for everyone to learn from.
Show Notes: Lees meerArticle: The Different Kinds of Unconventional Couples
Article: The Guide to a Successful Friends with Benefits Relationship
Article: Ask Emily: How Do We Prepare for a Threesome?
7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Playground
Je Joue (use code ‘Emily30’ for 30% off)
#Open
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Oral Sex Secrets
8 november 2022 · 26 min
Got hangups around oral sex? You’re not alone. While oral sex can provide abundant intimacy and pleasure, lots of us struggle with giving – and sometimes, receiving – it.
Today, we’re getting out of our heads and communicating with our partners: two essential steps for mind-blowing oral sex. Love giving oral, but it’s not being reciprocated? Concerned about hygiene issues – either your own, or your partner’s? What if your partner takes a while to orgasm during oral, but your jaw gets tired along the way? From hangups to hygiene - I answer your questions so you can amp up your oral and enhance your pleasure.
Show Notes: Lees meerVUSH Destination: Play (code ‘SEXWITHEMILY’ for 40% off)
Article: Ask Emily: Oral Sex for Beginners
Article: How to Give a Better Blowjob
Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex?
Article: Ask Emily: I Hate Giving My Partner Oral Sex
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Sex Toys for Penis Owners
4 november 2022 · 35 min
Life is short, so why not add sex toys to your pleasure routine? Vulva owners seem to understand this, but today I’m talking toys for penises. Whether you have one or you want to please one, sex toys offer tons of benefits. Plus, toys are not just for solo play - they can enhance connection (and pleasure) with your partner.
But it can be difficult to know what to look for, how to use them, and why you may need them at all. And that’s why on today’s episode, I’m myth-busting misconceptions and sharing my top products and tips for penile pleasure. From lasting harder and longer, to discovering those pleasure points a hand alone simply can’t reach - if there’s a penis in your life, I’ve got the toy for it.
Show Notes: Lees meerJe Joue Mio Vibrating Cock Ring
Magic Wand
Playground (SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off 1st order)
Aneros Helix Trident
Promescent Delay Spray
Article: How Do I Buy My Boyfriend a Sex Toy?
Hot Octopuss Pulse III Solo / Duo
Fleshlight
Tenga
LELO HUGO (EMILY for 25% off all products)
Fun Factory NOS
We-Vibe Verge
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Ask Emily: Oral, Orgasms & Anal
1 november 2022 · 44 min
First comes love, then comes anal. Isn’t that how the song goes? On today’s best of show, we’re talking your sexual firsts: your first dating app, oral sex experience, anal play, and so much more. I help you face your fears so you can radically expand your pleasure potential.
Up first: she’s 32 weeks pregnant and wants to keep her partner satisfied – but she’s never given him oral. Where to begin? He wants his wife to experience sex with another woman, so they can have their first threesome. But is she truly into the idea or just going along with it to please him? And last but not least - she’s got a play partner who wants to try anal, but has her reservations regarding pain and hygeine. How do you avoid a messy situation? We will unravel all this and more.
Show Notes: Lees meer7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Ask Emily: How Do I Deal with Anxiety During Sex?
6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful Masturbation
How to Make an Awesome Dating App Profile
Ask Emily: How Do I Attract a Healthy Relationship?
How to Give a Better Blowjob
Ask Emily: I Hate Giving My Partner Oral Sex
Ask Emily: How Do We Prepare for a Threesome?
Ask Emily: How Do We Find Someone for a Threesome?
Yes, No, Maybe List: Find New Ways to Play
Sex With Emily Guides
How to Explore Anal Sex
8 Tips for the Best Anal Ever
Easing Into Anal (Everything But Insertion)
The 7 Best Positions For Butt Sex
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Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed
28 oktober 2022 · 41 min
Sexual fantasies are not only normal, they’re a key component of your sexual health. But why are we attracted to certain fantasies? And is it normal to have certain fantasies, or no fantasies at all?
On this episode, I reveal your top sex fantasies and why you have them. I also divulge your fantasy success stories and questions, from CNC to cuckolding. I give you tips for expanding your erotic imagination.
Show Notes: Lees meer7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Ask Emily: How Do We Prepare for a Threesome?
Your Guide to Consensual Non-Consent
Ask Emily: How to Become More Dominant In Bed
Pegging 101: How to Try Strap-On Sex
The Beginner’s Guide to Role-Play
The 5 Best Ways to Have Sex Outside
How Do I Explore Bisexuality While in a Relationship?
What to Do When Your Partner Says ‘No’ to Trying New Things
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How to Have Game: The Dating Show
25 oktober 2022 · 37 min
So what’s the hardest part about dating? Meeting people? Making conversation? Figuring out if there’s enough chemistry? How do you have dates that leave you happy, aligned and energized, rather than defeated and hopeless?
On today’s best-of show, I’m here for your dating dilemmas. He’s new to dating, and nervous to talk to women – I give some talking points. She wants to have sex, but also wants it to be more than casual – I help refine her approach. He’s super honest about being polyamorous, but they think he needs to grow up – I coach him on how to find the right partners, while still being open. Because when it comes to dating, your people are out there – you just have to learn how to look.
Show Notes: Lees meerHigher Dose Infrared Sauna Blanket (use code EMILY 15% off sitewide**)
Got A Sex or Relationship Question? Call me.
Ask Emily: How Do I Attract a Healthy Relationship?
How to Make an Awesome Dating App Profile
Is Casual Sex Right For You?
What Exactly is an “Open” Relationship?
**(excluding Full Size Saunas)
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Sex + Creativity w/ Liz Goldwyn
21 oktober 2022 · 49 min
We’re all looking for better ways to have sex. But what if I told you the thing holding you back is your own beliefs around sex and sexuality? My guest today knows a thing or two about how to realize our own sexual well-being.
Author, filmmaker, and founder of The Sex Ed, Liz is a sexual wellness connoisseur. In her new book Sex, Health & Consciousness, Liz explains how to build a sexual consciousness for a radically happier, healthier life. She’ll help me answer your questions on masturbation, shame, BDSM, and how to rewire the way we think about pleasure.
Show Notes: Lees meer7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Pre-Order Liz’s Book: Sex, Health, and Consciousness
More Liz Goldwyn: Website | Instagram | Twitter
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I Love My Partner, But My Coworker Is Hot
18 oktober 2022 · 45 min
Got relationship drama? Don’t we all. On today’s Best of show, I’m helping you navigate choppy relationship waters, to get to the other side safely.
First up: he just divorced, and jumped right into an ultra-serious relationship. Too soon? Next: when you’ve got a massive crush on your coworker, should you divorce your spouse and pursue your colleague instead? And if you’re not so into your partner’s bedroom style, can you teach them to be more dominant? All this and more on a particularly juicy Best Of show. Lees meerShow Notes:
Article: You and Your Partner Have Mismatched Sex Drives
Article: What Your Attachment Style Says About Your Love Life
Podcast: The Clit Notes
XConfessions.com
Article: 7 New Ways to Use a Magic Wand
Foria: Awaken Arousal Oil with CBD
Hot Octopuss Pulse III Solo
Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo
Aneros Helix Trident
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The Lube Show: The Wetter, the Better
14 oktober 2022 · 35 min
If you know me, you know that my dream is to have a bottle of lube on every nightstand. But why? Enhanced pleasure is one reason. And on this episode, I’ll give you several more.
Think of this as your consumer reports on lube: I’m answering all of your lube inquiries, giving you the low-down on key ingredients, and helping you reach for the right lube at the right time. I’m also breaking down the science behind lube’s benefits, and walking you through the best options for every type of sexual occasion.
Show Notes: Lees meerArticle: How To Find The Best Lube For You
Playground (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off first order)
Uberlube “Good to Go” Travel Sets from Good Vibrations
Woo More Play Coconut Oil
Pjur’s Back Door Lube
Sliquid Silk
System Jo
Coconu
OhLavinia
Foria CBD Intimacy Oil
GoLove CBD Intimate Lube
First Response Pre-Seed
Good Clean Love Biogenesis
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Just the Tip(s): How to Please a Penis
11 oktober 2022 · 36 min
When it comes to penis parts, do you know which ones are rich with nerve endings? Which areas need a gentle touch? And which can handle more force? On today’s Best of show, I’ll give you tips for penile pleasure from head to shaft, perineum to prostate.
We also take your listener questions: when you’re in a long term relationship, who should initiate sex? If you’re not turned on by your partner of nearly a decade, what’s next? And when you’ve been masturbating for years, but discovered your entire family could hear you…how do you deal? We’ll cover all this and more.
Show Notes: Lees meerPlayground (use code SEXWITHEMILY for 15% off first order)
10 (Super Hot) Ways to Pleasure a Penis
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Hotline Calls: Should You Break Up?
7 oktober 2022 · 50 min
It’s the question everyone has asked themselves at least once. Should I break up with my partner? Relationship success depends on so many factors - communication, emotional intimacy, and of course - sexual connection. Figuring out which problems are worth solving and which ones are directing you to the exit sign can be confusing, exhausting and painful.
So on today’s show, I take your questions - live - to figure out if you should make up or break up. Is bad sex worth leaving someone over? What about an age gap that puts both of you in much different life stages? Or how do you know if an affair has the potential to turn into something real? We learn so much from other people’s relationships. No matter where you are in your own, this will teach us all how to make better choices going forward.
And if you want your questions answered on the next Hotline Call show, please reach out! You can leave messages online at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily or by calling 559-TALK-SEX (825-5739). Just leave your name, age, where you live and how you listen to the show! (You can always change your name or choose to remain anonymous.)
Show Notes: Lees meerArticle: How to Have Sex When You're In a Full House
Use code EMILY for 15% off Higher Dose at-home wellness products
Episode: Manifest Your Partner (It Worked for Me)
Yes No Maybe List
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Squirting Is My Love Language (& Other Ways To Play)
4 oktober 2022 · 33 min
So you want to try a new kink? Well, you’ve come to the right podcast. On today’s Best Of show, I answer your questions and help open your mind (and body) to all things kink and BDSM - from squirting to nipple-gasms. Pushing ourselves outside our comfort zone can lead to enhanced intimacy and heightened pleasure. All you need are the right tools, compassionate communication, patience and plenty of lube.
Show Notes: Lees meer6 Kink Styles (& How To Explore Them)
Tickets to Book Release Event with Jen Freed
Playground (get 15% off first order with code SEXWITHEMILY)
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Are You Quiet Quitting Your Relationship?
30 september 2022 · 41 min
Quiet quitting: the act of leaving without leaving. At a job, it’s refusing to stay late, not seeking out extra projects, and only doing exactly what your role requires. Critics call it lack of inspiration or hustle – but proponents say it’s simply setting boundaries.
But can quiet quitting apply to our relationships? I’ll explain the signs to look out for and how to initiate the hard conversations you may need to have with your partner. If we can put aside our inner people pleaser, we can avoid long term resentment and articulate our needs.
Show Notes: Lees meerPlayground (get 15% off first order with code SEXWITHEMILY)
Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & Conversation
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Real Men Do Kegels (And Other Tips for Edging)
27 september 2022 · 38 min
Let’s train our orgasm muscle: the pelvic floor. We all have one. And like our other muscles, strengthening it can yield physical benefits. In this case, a more explosive orgasm.
On today’s show I put the spotlight on edging – a sex technique for more intense orgasms – and give you a slew of additional tips for maximizing your pleasure. Penis owners, do you use toys yet? Because I’ve got killer recommendations for you. People in relationships, ever been cheated on? I help one caller move through the process. Stuck in the friendzone? Through direct communication, we can all escape platonic purgatory.
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Playground (get 15% off first order with code SEXWITHEMILY)
How to Climax Harder and Faster
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All Bi Myself: Jen Winston on Bisexuality
23 september 2022 · 52 min
How do you know if you’re bisexual? In honor of Bisexuality Visibility Day, author Jen Winston helps me answer just that. In her book Greedy: Notes From a Bisexual Who Wants Too Much, Jen reveals how she came to terms with her bisexuality, in a world that loves to slap stereotypes on it: greedy, slutty, and constantly confused.
Whether you’re a vulva owner in a heterosexual partnership who wants to explore same sex fantasies, or a penis owner who has recently come out as gay but still has thoughts about the opposite sex, Jen helps us all understand why sexuality is about so much more than who you’re sleeping with. Because after all, your sexuality is less about the destination and more about the journey to get there.
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Jen Winston’s book Greedy: Notes From a Bisexual Who Wants Too Much
Open by Rachel Krantz
Jen Winston on Twitter
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Manifest Your Partner (It Worked For Me)
20 september 2022 · 31 min
Let’s manifest our dream partners and our best sex. Because listen: if our romantic lives aren’t aligned with the people we actually are, we have an opportunity to change that.
Today, I’ll tell you how I manifested my own partner, the specific steps used to get there, and why the science behind this practice works. I’ll also answer your questions about finding the one and how manifestation can apply to your everyday dating and sex dilemmas.
Show Notes: Lees meer15 Types of Sexuality and Attraction To Help You Understand Your Desire Style
Joe Dispenza - Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself
Introducing Playground's chief sexologist
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My Orgasm Has Left The Building
16 september 2022 · 30 min
Do you fake orgasms? Be honest. Whether we feel pressured to end the sexual experience, or simply don’t know how to orgasm with a partner, faking it is common for every gender and orientation.
So on today’s episode, we discuss how to hold out for the real thing while also restoring your sex life. What do you do when it’s not just your orgasm that’s gone missing, but your entire sex life? Or how about when it's physical pain holding you back from having more pleasure? I’ll help callers with these questions and others as we embark on a mission to get you back to orgasming and back to a more pleasurable sex life.
Show Notes:
How Do I Tell My Partner I've Been Faking Orgasms?
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Your Sex Language w/ Dr. Jen Freed
13 september 2022 · 39 min
What’s your sex language? We all have one. And once we’re fluent in the four types, we can expand our repertoire to more effectively please our partner – and advocate for what we want.
In today’s episode, we will explore just that with psychologist and astrologer Jen Freed. Her forthcoming book “A Map to Your Soul: Using the Astrology of Fire, Earth, Air, and Water to Live Deeply and Fully” explains how these elements relate to the type of sex we want and how to create an erotic field with our partner. Dr. Freed offers a formula for alchemizing amazing sex by combining the principles of psychology and astrology, along with curious communication. Lees meerShow Notes:
Is Casual Sex Right For You?
Pre-order A Map to Your Soul
More Jen Freed: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | Website
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How to Relationship Better w/ John Kim & Vanessa Bennett
9 september 2022 · 55 min
Dating as an adult is exhausting. While experience comes with age, actually applying that experience is easier said than done…even for professionals.
With me today are two therapy professionals who also happen to be partners: John Kim and Vanessa Bennett. Their book “It’s Not Me, It’s You” offers an anecdotal road map of how to “relationship better,” from overcoming commitment issues, to fanning the sex flames, to breaking the blame cycle. John and Vanessa expertly dissect their own relationship to inspire us to create healthy bonds with the people we love. Listen to learn why “the one” is a myth, how to wean ourselves off codependency and how to replace obligatory sex with erotic collaboration. Lees meerShow Notes:
More John Kim: Instagram | Twitter | Website
More Vanessa Bennett: Instagram | Website | Podcast
Pegging 101: How to try strap-on Sex
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Big Pegging Energy
6 september 2022 · 30 min
To peg, or not to peg? That’s the question we’re going to push into today… and yes, pun intended. Pegging, which typically involves a penis owner being penetrated through the use of a strap-on dildo by a vulva owner, seems to be more popular than ever.
But arguably more than other forms of pleasure, strap on sex challenges the way we think about masculinity, femininity and heteronormative pleasure. Role reversal and anal play require a great deal of trust, empathy and vulnerability. But if partners can work through these challenges, the payoff can be immense. And that’s why on today’s episode, I want to explore not just the steps partners should take to responsibly explore strap on intercourse, but also how the benefits can go way beyond the bedroom.
Show Notes: Lees meerDo’s and Dont’s of Anal Sex
How to Find The Best Lube For You
Savage Love by Dan Savage
Best Sex Toys for Couples
Harnesses and Anal-Safe Dildos from Good Vibrations
Ask Emily: My Partner Is Friendly With Other Guys
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Bolder Self, Better Sex
2 september 2022 · 34 min
How can you be bold in the bedroom? I’ve got the boldness queen herself, Jen Cohen of the “Habits & Hustle” podcast, to tell us how to design the life you actually want — including, of course, your sex life.
Jen explains the 10% Target Mindset, the difference between what you want and what you need when it comes to sexual partners, how to build better intimacy habits, and how to normalize failure so that you take more risks. That’s where boldness comes in: to identify what you want, and be brave enough to work for it.
Show Notes: Lees meerJen Cohen TED Talk
Falling Forward by Jen Cohen
Website
Instagram
“Habits & Hustle” podcast
Embodied is the New Sexy: 5 Benefits of Living A Radically Embodied Life
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Alternative Relationships w/ Nico Tortorella + Jason Ellis
31 augustus 2022 · 51 min
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to have a sexually fluid relationship? As in, you and your partner discuss bisexuality openly…either yours, theirs, or both? What about having multiple partners? Or trying a threesome together? Are these possibilities you’d consider, or are you like: NO THANK U, NEXT!
Well on today’s best-of show, I’ve got two individuals who can tell you exactly what it’s like to be in a successful, alternative relationship. First you’ll hear from actor/model Nico Tortorella on navigating bisexuality, how sex changed once they got sober, and what it’s like for them to fall for someone outside of their primary partnership.
Next, you’ll hear from MMA fighter, fellow podcaster and Aussie fan fave Jason Ellis on how he and his fiance (now wife) conduct a radically open relationship, why he’s thrilled for another man to give her sexual pleasure, and his best recommendations for your first threesome. Come for the open minds, stay for the sex tips.
Show Notes: Lees meerWhere is the Clitoris?
The Love Bomb w/ Nico Tortorella
The Jason Ellis Show
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Conscious, Casual Sex
27 augustus 2022 · 35 min
Casual sex gets a bad rap. We associate it with hookup culture, with disposability, with mindless Tinder swipes. But it doesn’t have to be that way: when approached with an intentional, conscious mindset, casual sex can be exactly what you need to feel erotic and energized again. The key? Knowing yourself – and knowing precisely what you want to get out of your casual sex experience.
On today’s show, I parse out all the different types of casual sex out there, and offer some research that may surprise you. Next, I discuss how you know if casual sex is right for you, and when it’s best to say, “no thank you.” Finally, I coach you on how to make your casual sex encounters fulfilling, with maturity, self-awareness, and of course – an orgasm or two. Or ten.
Show Notes: Lees meer7 Myths of Non Monogamy
Friends With Benefits: A Guide
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3 Ways to Boost Your Sexual Confidence
23 augustus 2022 · 37 min
What’s holding you back in bed? We’ve all got our pain points: body image, not being able to tell your partner what you want, feeling embarrassed to make noise or express yourself. But I asked you how you overcame sexual insecurities, and you came back with SOLID advice. So on today’s show, along with my advice, we’re spreading the sexual confidence gospel using tips from the Sex With Emily community.
First, we get into body image: how to hack your brain to feel more comfortable in your skin. Next, I talk about my favorite subject: communicating with your partner, to create a culture of sex positivity. Finally, I’ve got a particularly juicy tip to help you let go in bed and express yourself without inhibition — to hear it, just take a listen to this episode.
Show Notes: Lees meerAsk Emily: My Partner Watches Porn a LIttle Too Enthusiastically
Feeld
Fet Life
First Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome
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How to Build a Sex Room w/ Melanie Rose
20 augustus 2022 · 46 min
If you build a sex room, they will come. That’s the idea behind the new Netflix show “How to Build a Sex Room,” and on today’s episode I’ve got designer Melanie Rose here with me to discuss her real-life erotic renovations.
From a rock n’ roll dungeon to a high-end sex spa, Melanie has all kinds of decor ideas you can steal: spanking benches, wall-mounted handcuffs, soundproofing wall art. All of these are client-approved sex innovations, but the show has a touching side too. You get to see all kinds of clients, from suburbanites to polycules, parents to long-distance couples, discuss their fantasies and sexual desires – some of them for the very first time. And you know I’m all about that.
Show Notes: Lees meerFor More Melanie Rose: Netflix show | Instagram | Website | Pinterest
Where is The Clitoris?
Liberator Throw Blanket
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Boss in the Streets, Sub in the Sheets
17 augustus 2022 · 32 min
Let’s get sexually adventurous, people. On today’s hotline calls show, you’re bringing the novelty, and I am one hundred percent here for it.
Jumping right in: can you use the same sex toy with multiple partners? Let’s find out. If you’re in your 20s and hooking up with a much older woman, is that ok? Or what if you’re all about female empowerment, except you ARE a female, and you DO want to be choked and spanked in bed? Finally: there’s a first time for everything, so should you tell a partner that you’ve never had penetration before? Or what if you’re married, and ready to experience your first open relationship – except your spouse isn’t on-board? All this and more on a particularly juicy hotline calls show.
Show Notes: Lees meerShop Page
Vesper Vibrator Necklace
Bellesa
Sex, Porn & (Erika) Lust
No Shame, Just Sex w/ Erin Tillman
Opening Up by Tristan Taormino
The Ethical Slut
Open Deeply
It’s Open (Relationship) Season w/ Dr. Wednesday Martin
Orgasms & Oral (No Penetration Required)
First Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome
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Live, Laugh, Stop Being Codependent w/ Adam Ferrara
13 augustus 2022 · 39 min
Gotta love relationship advice delivered in a thick New York accent. I’ve got Adam Ferrara on the show today, and we’re healing your emotional triggers so you can have thriving interpersonal connections. Capiche?
Adam and I talk meditation and breathwork for anxiety, the difference between responding and reacting to your partner, how to cultivate a felt sense of your emotions, and the difference between worry and responsibility. As a self-described co-dependent, Catholic Italian, Adam is as real as it gets about getting vulnerable and doing self-work, so you can experience better love, sex, and communication. We also help a caller in her 20s get more selfish in the bedroom – because when it comes to sex, selfishness can be a real virtue.
Show Notes:
More Adam Ferrara: Youtube Comedy Special | Website | Instagram | Twitter | Podcast
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It’s Open (Relationship) Season w/ Dr. Wednesday Martin
10 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 12 min
Let’s talk about non-monogamy! In the nearly two decades since I’ve been doing the show, I’ve never gotten so much interest in this topic as I am right now. Which is why I’m joined today by cultural anthropologist Dr. Wednesday Martin, who in addition to researching non-monogamy for her books and articles, has first-hand experience opening up her own marriage.
On today’s episode, Wednesday reveals what modern sex research shows about female sexuality and long-term, monogamous relationships: a woman’s desire typically wanes between year 1 to 4. In addition, Wednesday and I discuss the difference between non-monogamy, swinging and polyamory, how to go about finding a partner outside of your primary relationship, how to set rules, and the surprising ways opening up improved her own partnership.
Show Notes: Lees meerMore Wednesday Martin: Website | Instagram | Twitter | Youtube
Untrue by Wednesday Martin
7 Myths of Non-Monogamy
Feeld
Opening Up by Tristan Taormino
Open Monogamy: A Guide to Co-Creating Your Ideal Relationship Agreement by Tammy Nelson
The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships
Crazy on the Inside: A Memoir of Nobody Special
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non Monogamy
The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go
More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory
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All About Anal
6 augustus 2022 · 48 min
Have you ever tried anal play? Anal sex? Because if not, here’s my question to you…what’s holding you back?
For most folks, the answer is fear. We’re scared it will hurt, scared that we don’t know what we’re doing, scared we’ll feel ashamed if we just so happen to love it. That’s why I’ve got two of the anal pleasure experts on the show today, to help demystify and destigmatize anal play, and help you open up yet another pathway to pleasure. Dr. Evan Goldstein and Alicia Sinclair talk to me about anal orgasms (not a myth), the importance of anal training, how to prepare hygienically, and how to strengthen the mind-booty connection for a successful, erotic anal experience.
Show Notes: Lees meerAnal Play: A Beginner's Guide OR Prostate Play 101
More Evan Goldstein: Website | Instagram | Bespoke Surgical | Future Method
More B-vibe: Website | Instagram
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Babe, Let’s Talk About Our Sex Life
3 augustus 2022 · 25 min
If you’ve never talked about your sex life with your partner before, there’s a good chance they’ll push back. Why? Because most of us go into fight or flight mode when talking about sex: it’s not normalized in our culture, we get defensive, we feel like we’re being criticized. But never fear – you can create a culture of sex communication in your relationship, one talk at a time. Be the change, is what I’m saying.
On today’s hotline show, I take your calls about having a sex talk. Like: telling your wife you want her to massage your prostate. Or telling a partner you want your vanilla sex to be a little spicier. How to relax into oral and give your partner tips to make you scream, and how to tell your partner: “you know what? I need to be seduced a little before we jump into penetration.” If we can talk about sex like we talk about dinner, everyone wins! So take a listen to this episode, and see if your next sex talk isn’t a little bit easier.
Show Notes: Lees meerEmbodied is The New Sexy: 5 Benefits of Living a Radically Embodied Life
A+ Oral Sex for Vulvas
Everybody Loves Oral
Ask Emily: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex?
Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method
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Break Your Bad Dating Habits
29 juli 2022 · 44 min
Do you always have sex on the the first date? Do you always swipe right on people who aren’t good for you? What are your bad dating habits – and how can you break them?
I asked you to tell me what negative dating patterns you’re trying to change, and you all delivered! On today’s show, I’m addressing your top dating problems so we can solve them together. Having sex too soon, trying to “fix” less-than-ideal partners, fear of asserting yourself, having misaligned expectations, the tendency to audition people for the role of life partner – we’re covering it all, so you can feel empowered with new partners and have an amazing time with existing partners.
Show Notes: Lees meerAsk Emily: Tips for French Kissing
Am I Dating a Narcissist? w/ Dr Ramani
How to Not Die Alone w/ Logan Ury
Orgasms and Oral (No Penetration Required)
More About EMDR Therapy
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Ejaculate Responsibly w/ Gabrielle Blair
26 juli 2022 · 1 uur
When it comes to sex, why was the world set up so that vulva owners are the ones in charge of preventing a pregnancy? That’s the central question of a Twitter thread that went viral in 2018, and on today’s show I’ve got Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the author of that thread – and a forthcoming book, Ejaculate Responsibly – here to talk about it. I’m also joined by anthropologist, author, and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin, to unpack this fascinating topic.
In a post-Roe world, Gabrielle is calling for a wholesale shift in the way we think about pregnancy prevention: namely, by inviting penis owners and their bodies into the conversation. On today’s show, we talk condoms and sexual pleasure, how society pressures vulva owners to become mothers, how to talk to young men about ejaculating responsibly, why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies, and why Gabrielle – mother of six and a Mormon – is passionate about arguing that women’s lives matter, and so does their pleasure.
One more thing: Can pre-ejaculate, or pre-cum, cause unwanted pregnancy? Pre-ejaculate actually does NOT contain sperm. However, any sperm remaining in the urethra from a previous ejaculation may be carried out with pre-cum which would have a chance of causing a pregnancy.
The solution? Urinate before having sex to flush out any leftover sperm, and, as always, wear a condom!
For more information, visit Teen Health Source.
Show Notes: Lees meerMore Gabrielle Blair: Instagram | Twitter | Website
Gabrielle’s Viral Twitter Thread
More information about her forthcoming book: Ejaculate Responsibly
More Dr Wednesday Martin: Instagram | Twitter | Website
The Secret to Better Sex? Talking About It
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Talkin’ Sex w/ My Therapist Dr Anadel Barbour
22 juli 2022 · 52 min
Anxiety, depression and low self-worth all block our sexual pleasure. But on a more fundamental level, they block us from showing up in the world the way we’d like: as confident, happy, sexy people. That’s why I invited my own therapist, Dr. Anadel Barbour, to talk to us through healing those intrusive thoughts. If you’re ready, your internal work starts today.
On this best-of episode, Dr. Barbour and I discuss EMDR therapy, the four foundations of mindfulness, how to physically move through trauma, healing shame, and how to know if you’re in constant fight or flight. We also touch on sex and pain, and mindfulness in and out of the bedroom. If you’ve ever considered therapy but are on the fence about it, I hope this episode gives you some encouragement – because healing emotional wounds can truly transform your sex life. Lees meerShow Notes:
More Dr Anadel Barbour: Website | Instagram | Twitter
Sex In Sobriety by Dr Anadel Barbour
More About EMDR Therapy
Overcoming 4 Common Sex Fears
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Honeymoon Sex 4ever
19 juli 2022 · 40 min
Ah, weddings. So ceremonial. So floral. After two years of postponements and cancellations, IRL weddings are back – but are all those newlyweds talking about their sex life? They probably should be!
Married sex is full of tired, toxic cliches that I’m personally ready to bust. We don’t have to settle for absent or boring sex as we grow old together. So on today’s episode, I’m making the case for writing your sex vows before you walk down the aisle, helping you recreate honeymoon sex if you’ve been married for ages, and giving you a lay of the land culturally-speaking on how we’re thinking about sex and relationships now. Plus, I take your questions: how to navigate bisexuality in a straight marriage, what it means if you find yourself jealous at your friend’s weddings and how to bring back the spark…when the spark was a little dim in the first place.
Show Notes: Lees meerAsk Emily: Tips for French Kissing
The Yes No Maybe List
The Pleasure Planner
Hinge
Bumble
Feeld
#Open
FetLife
Skirt Club
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Best of: No Shame, Just Sex w/ Erin Tillman
15 juli 2022 · 43 min
What cultural or religious programming do you have around sex? Even if you didn’t grow up in a church, sexual shame is – in so many ways – the air we breathe. But here’s the reality: you didn’t put those thoughts there. Someone else did. And on today’s show with guest Erin Tillman, we’re calling out those judgmental messages, and choosing the sex messaging that actually serves us. The result? A radically more authentic, more liberated sex life.
As an inclusive dating coach, Erin is no stranger to shame – and she’s heard it all from her clients. Whether it was that one rude thing a partner said that haunted you for years, or a parent that told you masturbation was dirty, shame love to hide in the shadows…and hold you back in the bedroom. So on today’s show, Erin and I talk about how we healed our own sexual shame, dropped performative sex, and got comfortable with the word “no.” You’ll also learn the difference between “no” and “not yet” when it comes to dating, how to make good choices on dating apps, and how to flip your internal shame script.
Show Notes: Lees meerMore Erin Tillman Website | Twitter | Instagram
Yes No Maybe List
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Orgasms & Oral (No Penetration Required)
12 juli 2022 · 35 min
It’s a good time to expand our definition of sex. At the end of the day, sex is play for adults: it’s where we collaborate with another person, creating a momentary world of pleasure and eroticism with them. But so often, we assume that sex equals penetration, and here’s the problem with that: not everyone orgasms during penetration. Not everyone feels erotic during penetration! So let’s make sex more interesting and exploratory, shall we?
On today’s show, I’m talking up all the different types of non-penetrative sex – like mutual masturbation, sensual massage, toys, hand stuff – to help you break out of a conventional sex script, and have sex that’s more tailored to your personality and desires. Because you never have to take penetration off the table entirely…but what would happen if you took it off the table for a little while? (Hint: probably more orgasms.)
Show Notes: Lees meerProstate Play 101
Want to Try a Sex Cleanse?
Penis Problems, Solved
Shop with Emily
4 Ways to Close The Orgasm Gap
First Date, First Orgasm, First Threesome
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