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189: He married her in 5 months. He made you wait 7 years. Here's why.
1 november 2026 · 17 min
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In this episode she answers your real questions on narcissists, porn, situationships, why he married someone else after 7 years, how to get your husband into conquering mode again, what to do when a man says he is unsure, and why after 13 years there is still no proposal. Plus updates on Selfish 30 and why December is your month to lock in.
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188: Your Life Won’t Change Until You Become More Selfish.
25 oktober 2026 · 24 min
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Welcome back to Being Her, where we are officially entering our selfish era. After years of talking about how to get over an ex, move from anxious to secure attachment, and create the life you want, Margarita has realised the answer to all of it is the same: become a little bit more selfish. Not selfish as in taking from others, but deliciously selfish, putting yourself at the centre of your own life and owning it. In this episode, Margarita explains why “decentring men” keeps you thinking about men, why being the good girl hasn’t made you happier or more valued, and how guilt conditioning keeps women convenient instead of unforgettable. She gets candid about her own people-pleasing, finally buying herself caviar, and the difference between being needed and being valued. She also reveals Selfish 30, her brand new 30-day challenge to help you stop delegating your life to others and actually start doing the behaviours of a woman who puts herself first.
In this episode:
1. How is being a good girl actually working out for you
2. Your life is a result of what you repeatedly prioritise
3. Stop volunteering for self sacrifice nobody is giving you a medal
4. Why being selfish feels so uncomfortable
5. Nobody is coming to hand you the life you want
6. Selfish women ask for what they want because they know what they want
7. Become less available to everyone else to become more available to yourself
8. Stop confusing being needed with being valued
9. You cannot think your way into becoming a different woman you have to do the behaviours
10. Selfish 30, 30 days to become the woman you actually want to be
If you are ready to stop thinking about it and actually do something, this is your sign.
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187: "Just Leave Him" Is the Laziest Relationship Advice on the Internet
18 oktober 2026 · 27 min
This week’s episode comes straight from the DMs: “Can you please make a video about your partner sleeping soundly while you are crying next to him?” It’s a message Margarita gets often, and one she lived herself in her twenties. The internet’s answer is usually just “leave him,” but Margarita argues that skips the most important part: understanding what is actually happening. In this episode, she breaks down the pursue-withdraw dynamic, why men and women experience conflict so differently, and how anxious and avoidant partners are both trying to feel safe in opposite ways. She gets candid about emotional sovereignty, rumination, and handing your emotional weather to someone else. She also explains how to tell a healthy break from stonewalling, emotional overwhelm from emotional punishment, and the one simple test that shows whether it really is time to leave him. Lees meer
In this episode:
1. Three separate reasons this could be happening and they are all different
2. The pursue withdraw dynamic and why it is so painful
3. Anxious versus avoidant attachment and why these two always find each other
4. Sleep does not prove emotional indifference
5. Why women ruminate and men shut down during conflict
6. Emotional invalidation versus nervous system overload
7. Stonewalling versus taking a healthy break
8. Why women carry the emotional labour of the whole relationship
9. Contempt and emotional punishment disguised as withdrawal
10. What the next day actually tells you about everything
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186: Stop Chasing. See What Happens When You Let Go.
11 oktober 2026 · 35 min
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Welcome back to Being Her, where today it’s getting juicy, spicy and real life. Margarita is launching her new Substack, Unfiltered with Margarita, and using a viral moment from her recent appearance on The Bossticks to unpack why so many women feel burnt out, frazzled and in constant conflict with the people they love. When a clip about her husband forgetting the diapers in Las Vegas blew up online, the comment section revealed something bigger: women are carrying loads that were never theirs to carry. In this episode, Margarita breaks down the psychology of over-functioning, the difference between caring and controlling, and why stepping back and letting natural consequences play out can transform your relationships. She gets candid about her own over-functioning roots as the child of an immigrant, the mental load, catastrophizing, and why being unbothered means knowing exactly what deserves your energy. As always, 10 takeaways and 10 actionable steps.
In this episode:
1. Stop turning inconveniences into emergencies
2. You are not an emergency service for every adult in your life
3. The psychology of over functioning in a family system
4. Stop confusing caring with controlling
5. Consequences are often the best teacher, stop removing them
6. Your nervous system does not know you are arguing about small things
7. Stop treating every mistake as evidence of something bigger
8. Women are exhausted from monitoring everything
9. You cannot complain about carrying everything while refusing to put it down
10. Being unbothered means knowing what actually deserves your energy
If you do everything and nobody notices, if you correct how everyone else does things because …
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185: You Already Know What You Need to Do.
4 oktober 2026 · 31 min
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You already know what you need to do. You are just scared of what it is going to cost you.
Margarita is back from her book tour in America, freshly moved into a half renovated house with two small children, and she has things to say.
In this episode she shares the 10 mindset shifts that came up for her on the trip, the permissions she had to stop waiting for, and why the life you want is already inside you and has been the whole time.
In this episode:
1. You are probably not confused you are just scared of the consequences
2. Stop collecting advice you already have the answer
3. Distance tells you things proximity cannot
4. Your next life requires disappointing someone from your current one
5. Stop waiting to feel ready confidence only comes after evidence
6. When you transform the old identity will fight back hard
7. Stop making permanent decisions based on temporary emotions
8. Your life changes when you stop negotiating with what you know
9. There is no future version of you coming to save you
10. Give yourself until the end of the year to prove you can do hard things
If you know what you need to do but cannot bring yourself to do it, if you keep asking everyone else what you should do with your life, or if you are waiting to feel ready before you start, this one is for you.
This is your sign. Lock in.
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184: The Woman Who Started Her Biggest Success At 52 — And Has Zero Regrets
27 september 2026 · 30 min
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She was a fashion editor at GQ and Allure. She built a fashion line that dressed every A list celebrity. Then covid shut it all down.
And at 52 years old she started over. And built the biggest success of her entire career.
In this episode Margarita sits down with Mary Alice Haney in Hollywood and has the conversation every woman in her thirties, forties and fifties needs to hear. About reinvention. About the why not me mentality. About what it actually costs to build something.
We talk about how Mary went from fashion editor to founder to podcaster, why confidence is not something you wait for it is something you fake until it becomes real, what nobody tells you about balancing motherhood and ambition, why your biggest success might still be ahead of you, and why your age and your children are not the excuses you think they are.
If you have ever thought you are too old, too busy, too far behind, or that the window has closed, this episode will change your mind.
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183: If This Video Doesn’t Heal Your Relationship Anxiety, Block Me.
20 september 2026 · 18 min
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If there is one episode you listen to this year on anxious attachment, fear of abandonment, and why you can never fully relax in a relationship, let it be this one.
Your gut is not a wise little oracle. It is a nervous system shaped by everything that has ever happened to you. And if most of your experiences with love have involved pain, your gut has been calibrated to a setting that does not serve you when you are finally safe.
In this episode Margarita breaks down the real difference between anxiety and intuition, why trusting your gut is damaging advice for anxiously attached women, and what to do in the moment when you genuinely cannot tell which one is speaking.
In this episode:
Why anxiety and intuition feel exactly the same from the inside
Why trusting your gut is dangerous advice for anxious women
How your nervous system scans for danger even when you are safe
Why reassurance is a leaky bucket that will never fill
The three question framework to tell anxiety from intuition
What real intuition actually feels like vs anxious spiraling
What hyper independent women do when they finally feel something real
How to regulate before you react and ruin something good
When to stay and when the signal is actually real
What changes when you finally learn to tell the difference
If you can never fully relax no matter how much he shows up, if you need certainty just to feel okay, or if you are exhausted by your own spiral and just want it to stop, this one is for you.
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182: Master Secure Attachment So Fast It Feels Like Cheating
13 september 2026 · 18 min
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If you have been trying to step into your feminine energy but everything you have followed so far has felt like a performance, doing all the right things, not texting first, being soft, letting him lead, and still feeling the same anxiety underneath because nothing you were taught actually changed how you feel on the inside, this episode is for you.
In this episode I break down why the mainstream version of feminine energy is keeping you stuck in a cycle of performing for an outcome instead of actually embodying who you are, the real definition of feminine energy that no one is talking about, and the specific practices that shift you from managing every outcome to being so anchored in yourself that you never lose her again.
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181: 5 Brutal Truths About Why He Lost Interest (And What To Do About It)
6 september 2026 · 20 min
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You are not going to like this one. And if it makes you angry, that is probably a sign you need to hear it.
In this episode Margarita breaks down five things women do completely unintentionally, usually with the best intentions, that quietly push men away. Not the obvious stuff every relationship coach has already told you. The things nobody is saying.
In this episode:
1. Narrating every internal state the second you feel it
2. Mothering him and collapsing the polarity without realising it
3. Making yourself too agreeable, too easy, too cool girl
4. Manufacturing jealousy instead of actually building a full life
5. Needing his validation vs valuing his opinion
Whether you are in the talking stage, a long term relationship that has lost its spark, or a marriage that feels more like flatmates,
one of these five is going to hit home.
This is not about blame. It is about understanding why the dynamic shifts without either of you realising, until he pulls back and you have absolutely no idea what happened.
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180: Why Every Good Girl Needs an Ice Queen Era
30 augustus 2026 · 26 min
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You have been warm to everyone. And it has exhausted you.
In this episode Margarita brings back an ancient Slavic wisdom she nearly lost to western society and makes the full case for your
ice queen era. Not cold for the sake of it. Not emotionally shut down. Just deeply discerning about where your warmth actually goes.
Because warmth given to everyone is worth nothing.
And warmth given to the right people changes everything.
In this episode:
1. Warmth is valuable because it is limited
2. Coldness gives you enough distance to see reality
3. An ice queen does not react on impact
4. Being colder means you stop explaining the verdict
5. Stop mothering people who disappoint you
6. You can love someone without giving them access
7. Colder women are harder to manipulate
8. Protected softness is intimacy, unprotected softness is self abandonment
9. The cool girl and the ice queen are not the same thing
10. The goal is not to be Elsa forever, it is to be discerning
If you give your warmth to everyone and get nothing back, if you over explain every boundary until it loses its power, or if you keep
performing warmth even when you are genuinely hurt, this one is for you.
Welcome to the ice queen era.
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179: Stop Being the Good Girl. Become BOSSY.
23 augustus 2026 · 24 min
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They called you bossy. They called you demanding. They called you difficult.
Good.
In this episode Margarita makes the full case for being self led, why women are trained from childhood to outsource their own lives to
other people's comfort, and why the burnout, brain fog and confusion so many women are feeling right now is coming from one place.
You have stopped leading yourself.
In this episode:
1. Self led women know what they want and are not afraid to say it
2. We are taught as little girls that being easy is rewarded
3. Being self led is not controlling others it is running your own life
4. Indecisiveness is one of the most expensive things you can do to yourself
5. Confidence looks bossy when people are not used to it
6. Women apologize before they even finish the thought
7. The fear is not of being bossy it is the fear of rejection
8. Every successful woman has been called bossy at some point
9. Someone is always steering your life if it is not you
10. What would you do if nobody was watching and nobody cared
If you say I do not mind so often you have forgotten what you do mind, if you apologize before you even finish the thought, or if you feel like you are living someone else's version of your life, this one is for you bossy girl.
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178: Emotional Independence Will Change Your Life
16 augustus 2026 · 16 min
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Every man's ex is crazy. Have you noticed that?
In this episode Margarita reclaims the word crazy and breaks down why emotional sovereignty is one of the most powerful things a woman can develop, why the cool girl performance is slowly killing you, and why feeling your emotions deeply is not your weakness.
It is your greatest asset.
In this episode:
1. Emotions are information not instructions to act
2. Emotional independence means stopping expecting others to regulate you
3. A regulated woman still cries and still gets angry
4. Stop treating every feeling like an emergency
5. Femininity is not emotional chaos it is leading your own emotions
6. Learn the difference between intuition and activation
7. Peace is not something a man gives you it is something you build
8. Stop outsourcing your self worth
9. Emotional maturity is the most attractive thing you can develop
10. The goal is not crazy amounts of happiness it is stability and joy
If you have been called crazy for having a completely valid reaction, if you suppress your emotions just to seem cool, or if you are handing your emotional regulation to everyone around you, this one is for you.
Welcome to emotional sovereignty.
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177: Stop Being Low Maintenance. It’s Making You Easy to Ignore.
9 augustus 2026 · 22 min
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You have been trying so hard to be easy. Easy going. Easy to love. No requirements. No fuss.
And yet here you are.
In this episode Margarita makes the full case for being high maintenance and why the women who know what they want, ask for it unapologetically, and refuse to shrink themselves are the ones who get everything.
In this episode:
1. High maintenance is just a person who knows themselves
2. We are taught as little girls that being easy is rewarded
3. Low maintenance often becomes emotional dishonesty
4. How can a man meet the needs he does not know exist
5. Stop confusing standards with entitlement
6. The psychology of self silencing and why it kills relationships
7. Your needs are not problems, they are preferences
8. The fear of being high maintenance comes from a scarcity mindset
9. The healthiest women are actually quite specific
10. Stop trying to be easy to love because it does not exist
If you have been making yourself small so people will like you more, pretending to be fine when you are not, or following him around and forgetting to have preferences of your own, this one is for you.
Welcome to the high maintenance club.
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176: The More Useful You Are, The Less You’re Valued
2 augustus 2026 · 20 min
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The more you do for him the more he will love you. That is what they told you. That is wrong.
In this episode Margarita breaks down the psychology of why making yourself useful is actually costing you the love, respect and value you are trying to earn.T his one is going to change how you show up in every relationship in your life.
In this episode:
1. Women are taught that love is earned through usefulness
2. The IKEA effect and why effort creates value
3. Stop robbing men of the chance to contribute
4. Useful is not memorable, it just fades into the background
5. Being needed and being loved are not the same thing
6. Every yes teaches people what to expect from you
7. Difficulty creates investment, not manipulation
8. Being low maintenance becomes self abandonment
9. Make people earn access to you through standards not games
10. Become unforgettable, not indispensable
If you do everything and still do not feel valued, if you have made yourself so convenient you have disappeared, or if you are needed but not truly chosen, this one is for you.
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175: You’re Not Lazy. You’re Exhausted From Proving Yourself.
26 juli 2026 · 22 min
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In this episode, Margarita makes a full unapologetic case for laziness. Why the pressure on women to be endlessly productive is not ambition. It is performance. And it is running you into the ground.
We talk about why your body is not a machine, why the 9 to 5 was literally built around male hormones and not yours, why productivity can become a sneaky way of avoiding yourself, and why the women who are actually winning are the ones who know when to stop.
In this episode:
Why a busy woman is not always a good woman
Why laziness and efficiency are a lot closer than you think
Why productivity can become a way of avoiding yourself
Why your 28 day cycle means the 9 to 5 was never built for you
Why nature does not rush and neither should you
Why women carry two shifts and still get called lazy
The difference between performative busyness and productive ambition
Why slower is not smaller and your ambition is yours to define
If you have ever felt guilty for resting, constantly busy but not actually going anywhere, or like you are performing productivity
rather than actually creating, this one is for you. Lazy cow.
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174: You Need To Risk Being Disliked
19 juli 2026 · 24 min
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They taught you that being mean would get you ostracised. They taught you that having boundaries made you difficult. They taught you that disappointing people made you a bad person.
They were wrong.
In this episode, Margarita breaks down why the fear of being called mean is keeping you stuck, small, and silently resentful and why direct, honest, boundaried women aren't mean at all.
They're just no longer convenient.
In this episode:
1. Causing discomfort is not the same as causing harm
2. Mean usually just means you're no longer convenient
3. Niceness without limits becomes unpaid labour
4. Nice girls use niceness to control how people see them
5. Over explaining is fear dressed as communication
6. Women who avoid being mean often become it anyway, through resentment
7. Anger is not a flaw it's a service announcement
8. Kindness without limits becomes slavery
9. The difference between power and cruelty
10. Freedom means you will eventually disappoint someone, choose whose
If you've ever said yes when you meant no and then resented it, over explained yourself just to be liked, or become passive aggressive without meaning to.. this episode is for you.
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173: Why Vain Women Win
12 juli 2026 · 21 min
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They told you vanity was shallow.
They told you caring about how you look made you stupid.
They told you self beautification was selfish and vain and bad.
They were afraid of what would happen if you started liking yourself.
In this episode, Margarita breaks down the truth about beauty, vanity and self adornment, why it's never been about men, why it's one of the most powerful things a woman can do, and why the women who invest in themselves get more of everything.
In this episode:
1. Everyone cares what they look like, drop the pretense
2. Pretty privilege is real — use it strategically
3. Looking good changes how you behave, and that changes everything
4. The word bimbo was invented to keep you from investing in yourself
5. Vanity is self investment and self sacrifice is not love
6. Your appearance is your first communication
7. If you're a mother, being vain is your duty
8. Vanity and self hatred are completely different things
9. To be desired, you have to desire yourself first
10. Beauty and youth are temporary. Self adornment doesn't have to be
If you've ever felt guilty for caring how you look, disconnected from your femininity, or like you're waiting to glow up after something
instead of right now, this episode is for you.
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172: Selfish Girl Blueprint: Stop Being Nice and Get The Life You Want
5 juli 2026 · 25 min
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Your nice girl personality has got you this far. But it's also why you're exhausted, resentful, and running on empty.
In this episode, Margarita breaks down why selfishness isn't a flaw it's the missing ingredient keeping you from the life you actually want.
– Nice girls abandon themselves before anyone else can
– The world rewards agreeable women until it doesn't
– Selfless women become resentful — and it poisons everything
– People don't respect women who don't respect themselves
– Being needed is not the same as being loved
– Stop auditioning — you already have the role
– Selfish women ask for more and get more
– Boundaries don't lose good people — they expose bad ones
– Stop managing everyone else's emotions
– Every successful woman disappoints someone
– Selfish women actually give more — that's the paradox
– Becoming your own favourite person
If you've ever felt like you give everything and still feel invisible, resentful but unable to explain why, or like your whole identity is
built around being useful — this episode is for you.
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171: How to Deal With Jealous People
28 juni 2026 · 18 min
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Not everyone in your life is going to like you. Your mother in law. Your colleagues. People online. And the harder you try to convince them otherwise, the worse it gets.
In this episode, Margarita breaks down exactly what to do when you're surrounded by people who don't like you, are jealous of you, or quietly resent you and why trying to be "enough" for them will never work.
In this episode:
— Stop trying to convince people who've already decided who you are
— Jealousy is usually not about you, it's about them
— Not everyone deserves access to you
— Never shrink yourself to make others comfortable
— Success reveals people
— The opposite of jealousy is inspiration
— Never complain, never explain
— You don't have to attend every argument you're invited to
— Stop making peace your responsibility alone
If you've ever felt exhausted from trying to explain yourself to people who won't listen, or like your success makes certain people uncomfortable this episode is for you.
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170: Why Selfish Women Get The Life You Want
21 juni 2026 · 21 min
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You were taught that selfishness is a bad word for a woman to be.
Margarita disagrees and she's about to prove it.
In this episode, Margarita breaks down why selfishness is the missing ingredient in your manifestation, your relationships, your boundaries, and your life and why self-sacrifice has been quietly running you dry.
05:46 – #1: Selfish women ask for what they want
08:04 – #2: Selfish women don't volunteer for self sacrifice
10:23 – #3: Selfish women are not afraid to disappoint people
12:11 – #4: Selfish women spend money on themselves
14:56 – #5: Selfish women protect their energy
16:24 – #6: Selfish women have higher standards
17:39 – #7: Selfish women understand the irony of life
If you've ever felt depleted from doing everything for everyone, resentful in your relationships but unable to say why, or afraid to
ask for what you actually want this episode is for you.
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169: 7 Things Unbothered Women Never Do
14 juni 2026 · 23 min
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Chasing clarity from someone who won't give it to you?
That's just begging with extra steps.
In this episode, Margarita breaks down the 7 things unbothered women never do — the habits, patterns, and behaviours that keep you stuck, small, and auditioning for a life that should already be yours.
02:38 – #1: They never chase clarity (it's just begging)
08:16 – #2: They never make men the centre of their lives
11:37 – #3: They never audition for love
13:18 – #4: They never let anxiety make decisions
16:43 – #5: They never confuse being chosen for being valuable
18:26 – #6: They never over function
21:28 – #7: The unbothered mindset — I want this, not I need this
If you've ever felt anxious, overlooked, and exhausted in love and life, this episode is going to hit.
Because an unbothered woman isn't a woman who cares less. She's a woman who trusts herself more.
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168: From Anxious to Unbothered
7 juni 2026 · 26 min
Unbothered is no longer just a word. It's a book. It's a movement. It's on morning TV. And honestly? It's blowing my mind. Lees meer
In this episode, Margarita takes you behind the scenes of the Unbothered book launch and answers the questions from her sold-out book signing event — so whether you're in America, Lithuania, or Uganda, you're in the room.
We get into what being unbothered actually looks like in real life, how the detachment movement started, the two characters at the heart of the book, why self sacrifice will never get you the love you're looking for, and what it means to truly be seen rather than just advised.
Plus the story of recording an audiobook with a newborn, why intimacy will always beat a studio setup, and what is coming next including a US trip that may or may not be happening.
This episode is for everyone who wanted a seat at the book signing but couldn't get one. Consider this your invite.
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167: 10 Unhinged Truths I Wish I Knew In My 20s
31 mei 2026 · 36 min
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Your 20s are one of the most psychologically violent decades of your life. You're insecure but pretending you're not. You think every decision is permanent. You think everyone else has it figured out.
They don't.
In this episode, Margarita shares 10 unhinged truths she genuinely wishes she knew earlier.. the ones that would have saved her years of being extremely bothered. Because nobody sat you down and told you the truth.
So here it is.
This episode covers the 10 truths nobody told you in your 20s from why your anxiety is lying to you, to why your next glow up has nothing to do with your appearance, and everything to do with your nervous system.
Plus Margarita answers your voice messages on how many kids to have, what to do when your partner hasn't worked in years, and how to stay grounded when the people in your life are used to you putting them first.
If you've ever felt like everyone else had a manual you never received, stuck in anxiety you mistook for intuition, afraid of aging, being alone, or starting over, or like you've been living for everyone except yourself — this one is for you.
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166: How To Be A Mother Without Losing Yourself, Your Femininity, Or Your Ambition
24 mei 2026 · 40 min
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Your identity, ambition, femininity, relationship, peace, dreams.
In this deeply honest episode, we're talking about motherhood, mum guilt, burnout, identity loss, feminine energy, ambition, relationships after kids, and how to raise children without completely abandoning yourself in the process.
Because somewhere along the way, women were sold the idea that being a "good mother" means self-sacrifice, exhaustion, over-functioning, and quietly disappearing.
I disagree.
In this episode, I'm sharing my honest thoughts on:
- how to be a present mother without losing your identity
- mum guilt and why it can quietly run your life
- balancing motherhood, business, ambition, and family
- feminine energy after children
- why burnout is not a badge of honour
- over-functioning, resentment, and emotional exhaustion
- relationships after children and why standards matter more, not less
- asking for help, support systems, and why support is not failure
- how to stay connected to yourself while raising young children
- why your children benefit from a mother who is emotionally regulated,
fulfilled, and alive
If you've ever felt overwhelmed as a mother, guilty for wanting more, scared of losing yourself after kids, emotionally exhausted from doing everything, anxious about balancing motherhood and ambition, or like becoming a mother meant losing the woman you used to be.. this episode is for you.
Motherhood should expand you. Not erase you.
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165: Decenter Men & Watch Your Entire Life Change
17 mei 2026 · 27 min
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What happens when you stop making men the emotional centre of your life?
In this episode, we’re having a very honest conversation about what changes when you stop obsessing over dating, relationships, texting, validation, and what men think and start putting that energy back into your own life.
Because the truth is, many women don’t actually have a “man problem” they have a focus problem.
We’re talking about:
✨ why obsession is not femininity
✨ how over-focusing on men creates anxiety, overthinking, and emotional dependence
✨ why male validation can quietly become an addiction
✨ how to stop making relationships your identity
✨ what actually makes a woman magnetic
✨ why decentering men doesn’t mean becoming cold, bitter, or anti-love
✨ how to become more secure, grounded, and genuinely attractive
If you constantly find yourself:
- overthinking texts
- checking his social media
- needing reassurance
- making dating your main emotional focus
- feeling anxious in relationships
- losing yourself when you like someone
…this episode is for you.
The most magnetic women are not the women obsessing over men. They’re the women deeply engaged in their own lives.
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164: How To Stop Overthinking Your Relationship
10 mei 2026 · 18 min
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If you constantly overthink your relationship, analyse every text, question his tone, or feel anxious even when you’re with a genuinely good man… this episode is for you.
Because relationship anxiety isn’t always a sign that something is wrong with the relationship.
Sometimes, it’s a sign that your nervous system doesn’t yet know how to feel safe in love.
In this episode, we’re talking about:
- why reassurance never fixes anxiety long-term
- why healthy love can feel unfamiliar (and even boring) at first
- how overthinking creates distance in relationships
- anxious attachment, emotional regulation, and self-trust
- how to stop spiraling and actually feel secure in love
If you’ve ever:
• over-analysed a delayed text
• needed constant reassurance
• felt anxious in a healthy relationship
• struggled with anxious attachment
• found it hard to relax in love
…this will explain exactly why.
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163: 10 Unhinged Truths About Men No One Tells You
3 mei 2026 · 28 min
If you’ve ever felt confused, over-invested, or like you’re doing everything in your relationships… this episode is going to clear things up very quickly. Lees meer
In today’s episode, I’m sharing some unhinged truths about men that most women only learn the hard way. Not because you’re doing something wrong, but because no one actually tells you how men think, what they value, and why certain patterns keep repeating.
We’re talking about:
– why a man’s behaviour matters more than his words
– why you feel confused when he’s not serious about you
– why over-giving and over-functioning actually backfires
– how to stop chasing, overthinking, and losing yourself in relationships
– and what actually makes a man value and choose you
These are the kinds of truths that shift how you date, how you show up, and who you choose.
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162: How to Level Up So Fast It Scares People
26 april 2026 · 25 min
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If you feel like you're doing everything right but still not moving, this episode is for you.
In this episode I walk you through the seven things that are quietly keeping you stuck, and why the women who level up fast aren't doing more than you, they've just stopped doing these specific things without even realising it.
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Topics this episode covers: how to level up your life fast, how to stop being stuck, why you self sabotage, nervous system and personal growth, neuroception explained, how to stop playing it safe, how to stop waiting to feel ready, how to build confidence, confidence before action, behavioural activation, how to stop people pleasing, how to stop being addicted to situationships, dopamine and situationships, why you're attracted to unavailable people, why you lose interest in stable relationships, how to stop outsourcing your identity, social mirroring, how to know what you want, how to stop shapeshifting around people, self concept and success, cognitive consistency, how to stop self sabotaging, how to change your self concept, identity shift, how to make a decision, how to stop waiting for a sign, decision fatigue, how to trust yourself, how to stop over preparing, how to stop people pleasing, how to get your standards back, how to stop being low mai…
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161: Stop Being THE GOOD GIRL — Inconvenient Women Actually Win (Here’s How)
19 april 2026 · 23 min
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If you were taught that being easy, agreeable, and low maintenance made you more loveable but you're starting to realise it's actually made you invisible — this episode is for you.
In this episode I walk you through the ten shifts that take you from the good girl who gets overlooked and taken for granted, to the inconvenient woman who is magnetic, grounded, and impossible to replace.
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Topics this episode covers: how to stop being a good girl, good girl syndrome, how to stop people pleasing, how to stop being agreeable, how to have standards in relationships, how to stop shrinking yourself, how to stop over explaining yourself, how to say no without guilt, how to set boundaries, how to stop apologising for your needs, how to stop being available all the time, how to become the inconvenient woman, inconvenient woman, how to stop being easy to have, what makes a woman magnetic, feminine energy in relationships, how to stop managing other people's emotions, how to let people be uncomfortable, how to develop an opinion, how to stop performing, how to stop being invisible in relationships, how to be chosen for the right reasons, how to stop over giving in relationships, how to stop abandoning yourself, self abandonment, how to build self worth, how to stop seeking approval, a…
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160: Become The Woman He's Terrified To Lose (Do This)
12 april 2026 · 29 min
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If you are tired of showing up in relationships feeling like you are always giving more than you’re getting, always the one who cares more, always the one adjusting, shrinking, and making yourself easier to love, and are finally ready to become the woman who naturally inspires devotion without having to chase, prove, or earn it, this episode is for you.
In this episdoe I walk you through the five qualities that make a woman genuinely magnetic to a high quality man, why most men cannot even articulate what it is about her that they cannot stop thinking about, and the specific daily practices for developing each specific quality.
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159: Release Your Fear Of Losing Him And Watch What Happens (Here's How)
5 april 2026 · 32 min
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If you are exhausted from second guessing every text before you send it, replaying every conversation after it happens, and never being able to just enjoy what you have because some part of you is always waiting for it to go wrong, this episode is for you.
In this episode I walk you through why no matter how hard you try, how much you communicate, or how perfectly you show up, the fear will keep following you until you address what it is actually rooted in, and the four specific steps that will finally free you from this pattern so you can be present, secure, and genuinely at peace in love without constantly bracing for everything to fall apart.
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Topics this episode covers: fear of losing him, how to stop being afraid of losing someone, relationship anxiety, how to release relationship anxiety, how to stop fearing abandonment, fear of abandonment in relationships, anxious attachment, anxious attachment style, how to fix anxious attachment, how to heal anxious attachment, how to feel secure in a relationship, how to stop needing reassurance, reassurance seeking in relationships, nervous system and relationships, nervous system regulation, how to regulate your nervous system, how to feel safe in relationships, how to stop overthinking in relationships, overthinking in relationships, how to stop self abandonin…
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158: Give Me 25 Minutes And I’ll Heal Your Anxious Attachment For Good
29 maart 2026 · 25 min
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If you know what it feels like to be happy and terrified at the same time, to finally have something good and spend every day waiting for it to be taken away, this episode is for you
In this episode I break down why you can have something genuinely good right in front of you and still feel paralysed by the fear of losing it, why nothing he does or says will ever be enough to make that feeling go away for good, and exactly what needs to shift inside you so that it finally does.
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Topics this episode covers: how to heal anxious attachment, relationship anxiety, how to fix relationship anxiety, anxious attachment, anxious attachment style, how to fix anxious attachment, how to stop relationship anxiety, how to feel secure in a relationship, nervous system and relationships, nervous system regulation, how to regulate your nervous system, how to feel safe in relationships, secure attachment, how to become securely attached, why can't I be happy in my relationship, overthinking in relationships, how to stop overthinking in relationships, reassurance seeking in relationships, why do I need constant reassurance, fearful avoidant attachment, anxious avoidant relationship, how to stop needing reassurance, internal security, how to trust yourself in relationships, how to stop self abandoning, self abandonment in relati…
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157: Why You Keep Attracting Men Who Will Never Commit To You
22 maart 2026 · 26 min
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If you are tired of being the girl who always ends up with the man who will not commit, who already knows the red flags and still falls anyway, and who is sick of blaming herself for a pattern she never chose, this episode is for you.
In this episode I break down why you keep falling for the same kind of man even when you know better, why the good guy keeps feeling like the wrong guy, why your heart and brain are in a constant war, and what actually has to change so that this stops being your story.
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156: How To Actually Make Him Obsessed With You
15 maart 2026 · 25 min
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If you've ever felt like you're pouring everything into a relationship and still not getting the devotion, consistency, or effort you actually deserve, this video is for you.
In this video I break down what actually makes a man genuinely obsessed with a woman, why most relationships become imbalanced and how to fix it, the difference between attracting a man through anxiety versus attracting him through self-possession, and what it actually takes to become the woman a high quality man cannot get out of his head.
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155: Why You're Addicted To Someone Who Hurts You
8 maart 2026 · 32 min
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If you've ever felt completely powerless to walk away from someone who keeps leaving you feeling empty, confused, and never quite enough no matter how much you give, this video is for you.
In this podcast I break down why smart, self-aware women get addicted to emotionally unavailable and inconsistent men, what is actually happening in your nervous system when you can't stop going back, why simply knowing your worth will never be enough to break the cycle, and what identity-level transformation actually looks like and why it's the only thing that breaks this pattern for good.
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154: 15 Truths That Will Break Your Heart But Set You Free
1 maart 2026 · 24 min
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153: Stop Acting Like The Man In Your Relationship
22 februari 2026 · 25 min
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152: It’s your fault they did not give you Valentine’s Day flowers
15 februari 2026 · 17 min
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151: How to win at life
8 februari 2026 · 19 min
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150: Why Some Women Don’t Grow With You (And How to Let Go Without Becoming Bitter)
1 februari 2026 · 14 min
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149: Feminine Business Principles I Live By & You Should Too
25 januari 2026 · 17 min
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148: The 5 Mistakes Anxiously Attached Women Make When They’re Trying to Heal
18 januari 2026 · 22 min
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147: Why Feminine Energy Changed My Career (Not Just My Relationships)
11 januari 2026 · 24 min
I did something different in this episode. Lees meer
Instead of a solo monologue or a traditional interview, I let ChatGPT co-host my podcast and interview me in real time. No script. No prep. Just a conversation.
We talked about the things I don’t usually unpack in one place.
Why I built my business the way I did.
Why I stopped chasing success the way I did in my 20s.
How feminine energy actually changed my career, not just my relationships.
Why I recorded this podcast in my car for years.
And why I am fiercely protective of the women who listen to this show.
This episode is part behind the scenes, part philosophy, and part very honest reflection on work, motherhood, ambition, sovereignty, and what it means to stop playing by rules that were never designed for women.
If you’ve ever felt like hustle culture doesn’t quite fit.
If you’ve ever wondered why pushing harder made you feel emptier.
If you’re navigating work, identity, family, or power as a woman.
This conversation is for you.
Listen in.
Love you lots like jelly tots,
Margarita
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146: 26 RULES FOR 2026: The Year You Stop Shrinking
4 januari 2026 · 26 min
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145: 10 Feminine Energy Rules I Used To Build My Business
28 december 2025 · 22 min
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144: 10 Things Secure Women Do When He Pulls Away
21 december 2025 · 15 min
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143: How To Go From Anxious To Secure (Without Leaving Your Relationship)
14 december 2025 · 25 min
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142: 10 Steps To Stop Caring What People Think (Without Turning Cold Or Weird)
7 december 2025 · 27 min
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141: You kept asking … so I finally went there
30 november 2025 · 25 min
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140: Detachment vs Distance: The Shift That Makes Men Step Up
23 november 2025 · 12 min
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