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1. 624 | The Rules of College Have Changed | Brian Eufinger

   2 november 2026 · 1 uur 12 min

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   The college your teenager attends today could be the difference between an eight-figure net worth by age 30 and six figures of crushing debt. One student turned down MIT for a full ride at Georgia Tech, used the savings to buy rental properties, and achieved financial independence before most people finish paying off their loans. That's the stakes—and the rules just changed. Key Topics Discussed 00:00:00 Introduction and Landscape ChangesBrad Barrett introduces Brian Eufinger from Edison Prep to discuss sweeping changes in college admissions, financial aid, and why assumptions from even five years ago are now dangerously outdated. 00:03:45 The Test Optional ReversalThe pendulum has swung back hard. Seventy-five of the top 100 colleges now require or strongly prefer SAT/ACT scores, reversing the COVID-era test-optional trend. At Duke, 93% of admitted students submitted scores. For merit aid especially, testing matters more than ever. 00:06:30 Grade Inflation and Course RigorGrade inflation has reached absurd levels. The bottom 25% of UCLA admits held a 3.95 unweighted GPA. The average University of Georgia applicant now completes nine AP courses by graduation—up from 4-7 being exceptional just years ago. Taking rigorous courses (AP, IB, dual enrollment) isn't optional for competitive schools. 00:09:15 The UC System Math CrisisA UCSD report revealed that 25% of students couldn't solve elementary problems like "6+3=7+?" Brian's seven-year-old daughters aced the same quiz. California professors are now demanding the return of mandatory testing because test-optional policies masked profound skill gaps. 00:15:20 Merit Aid Grids and Automatic ScholarshipsMerit aid remains alive and well. Many universities publish automatic scholarship grids: if your GPA is X and test score is Y, you're guaranteed specific amounts. Check meritaidgrids.com for comprehensive lists. Schools are also expanding need-based aid for families earning under $200K-$250K. 00:18:40 Financial Aid for FI… Lees meer

2. 623 | 20 Things to Do Before You Retire | Fritz Gilbert

   26 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 3 min

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   Most people treat retirement as a numbers game. Hit your target, claim victory, and coast into the sunset. But 85% of retirees crash into a wall of disorientation two years in—not because they ran out of money, but because they never planned for what comes after the paycheck stops: identity, purpose, structure, relationships. The spreadsheet can't solve those problems. Key Topics Make Your Numbers Real (3 Years Out) 00:05:30 Track every dollar for a full year to capture one-off expenses spreadsheets miss. Project retirement costs with granularity—model RV trips, healthcare scenarios, travel frequency. Build cash flow projections to age 95, not just to retirement day. The goal: eliminate guesswork and replace fear with data. Start to Experiment (3 Years Out) 00:18:45 Test potential retirement activities now. Don't wait until you retire to discover what you actually enjoy versus what sounds good in theory. Experimentation builds identity beyond work before the structure disappears. Most retirees skip this step and pay the price in phase two disorientation. Prepare for Withdrawals (2 Years Out) 00:28:20 The psychological shift from accumulation to spending is brutal after decades of saving. Build liquidity buckets to handle sequence of return risk. Develop a drawdown strategy that accounts for market volatility. Practice spending before you retire—buy the RV or boat while you still have paycheck confidence. Schedule a Mini-Retirement and Build Your Dream (2 Years Out) 00:38:10 Take a week-long break with your partner to envision retirement together. Discuss "he time, she time, we time"—how much individual versus shared activity each person wants. Align expectations before conflicts arise. This conversation prevents the retirement disappointment that ends marriages. Pursue Your Four C's (1 Year Out) 00:48:00 Dan Hallett's framework: Contribution (being needed), Creation (making things instead of consuming), Curiosity (exploring and learning), Connection (relationships)… Lees meer

3. 622 | Before Burnout Makes You Quit, Know About FMLA | Leah Kaylor, Alison & Em

   19 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 10 min

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   When your Apple Watch alerts you that your heart rate is spiking while simply parking outside your workplace, your body is screaming a message you can't ignore. For high-achievers in the financial independence community, burnout often manifests physically before we acknowledge it mentally—and pushing through can cost far more than taking a strategic pause. What Is FMLA and How Does It Protect Mental Health? 00:00:00 Introduction to FMLA and Mental Health FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act) provides up to twelve work weeks of job-protected leave during a twelve-month period while maintaining your health insurance. Unlike quitting or suffering in silence, it creates a legally protected pathway to address mental health challenges without torpedoing your career. 00:05:30 FMLA Basics: Eligibility and Benefits To qualify, you must have worked for your employer for at least twelve months, logged 1,250 hours in that period, and work for a company with 50+ employees within a 75-mile radius. The leave is generally unpaid but can run concurrently with vacation time, sick leave, or short-term disability benefits. 00:12:00 Mental Health as a Qualifying Reason Mental health conditions that interfere with essential job functions qualify for FMLA—and you don't need a formal diagnosis, years of treatment history, or prescription medication. Just documentation from a healthcare provider that mental health is impacting your work performance. Continuous vs. Intermittent Leave 00:18:00 Leave Structure Options Continuous leave means taking twelve weeks consecutively. Intermittent leave allows smaller blocks of time—perhaps working reduced hours, taking specific days off, or scheduling around therapy appointments. The structure should match what supports your recovery, not what seems least disruptive to your employer. Real Stories: When FMLA Became Essential 00:25:00 Em's Story: From Concussion to Burnout Recovery Em first used FMLA for a concussion, then later for severe burnout. The sc… Lees meer

4. 621 | The Math Says You're Fine. Why Don't You Feel Fine? | Cody Garrett

   12 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 18 min

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   You've reached financial independence. The spreadsheet says you're ready. But you still can't pull the trigger on retirement—or spending. A couple with $10 million sits paralyzed, unable to retire despite every calculator saying they're fine. What's happening isn't a math problem. It's a psychology problem. Key Topics Discussed 00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Background Cody Garrett shares his journey from musician to CFP® and his deep dive into financial psychology, including CBT, ACT, motivational interviewing, and financial therapy—exploring why people who've reached FI still can't enjoy it. 00:08:30 The Paradoxical Pattern: Objective Reality vs. Subjective Identity Case study of a couple with $10 million who feel paralyzed about retiring. Your financial reality can change much faster than your identity, and more information often makes the problem worse rather than better. 00:15:00 Five Sources of Information-Seeking Behavior Why FI-minded people default to seeking better analysis, conservative assumptions, hiring authorities, optimization, and indefinite research when stuck—and when learning becomes postponement rather than progress. 00:24:00 What Creates Ambivalence: Seven Push-Pull Factors Permission, control, identity, responsibility (the invisible balance sheet), protection, values and time (the values vacuum), and flexibility—how these factors create decision paralysis even when the numbers work. 00:35:00 The Invisible Balance Sheet and Open-Ended Obligations Most people carry invisible obligations to family members that create endless anxiety. Cody asks: would the people you feel responsible for actually agree with your obligations? Brad reflects on responsibilities to his kids and parents. 00:45:00 Six Therapeutic Approaches That Actually Help Values clarification, decisional balance, acceptance and willingness, behavioral experiments (exposure therapy), mechanical devices (systems and structures), and hiring support without outsourcing agency. 00:55:00… Lees meer

5. 620 | Book Club: Happy Money — When Is Enough, Enough? | Jillian Johnsrud & Ginger

   5 oktober 2026 · 56 min

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   Your FI number is a calculation. "Enough" is a feeling. They're not the same thing—and confusing them keeps people working years past their actual financial independence. Ginger and Jillian Johnsrud unpack this crucial distinction while discussing Ken Honda's Happy Money, a book that frustrated both of them yet yielded surprising insights. Key Topics Discussed Introduction and Book Overview (00:00:00) Mixed reactions to Happy Money's structure and how to extract value from challenging reads. Separating Money and Emotions (00:08:00) Why spreadsheet numbers and emotional security don't move in tandem, illustrated through examples of wealthy clients paralyzed by spending anxiety. The Concept of Enough (00:15:00) How "enough" operates as an emotional state rather than a mathematical calculation, and why paying off debt creates profound shifts that incremental net worth increases don't. Challenging Passages and Mindset (00:22:00) Critical examination of the book's claims about energy and money manifestation, separating mindset work from wealth building. Practical Applications and Mini Steps (00:30:00) Testing freedom assumptions through mini retirements, flexible work arrangements, and small experiments before major life transitions. Generosity, Morrow, and Creating Your Environment (00:42:00) Positive takeaways including the concept of morrow (selflessness), generosity practices, and the "yellow smoke bomb" metaphor for shaping your desired environment. Notable Quotes "Freedom can't be bought with money. Even if you have all the money in the world, if your mind is not free you lose the real advantages of that wealth." — Ken Honda "The numbers on the spreadsheet and how you feel about the numbers on the spreadsheet are two separate works." — Ginger "If you were scared at eight hundred thousand, you're probably going to be pretty scared at nine hundred thousand." — Jillian Johnsrud "Confidence and clarity come in doing, doing the thing." — Ginger "You don't receive what … Lees meer

6. 619 | The Student Loan Rulebook Was Rewritten | Travis Hornsby

   28 september 2026 · 1 uur

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   The federal government just split student loan borrowers into two groups: those who borrowed before July 2026 keep access to income-driven repayment and forgiveness strategies, while everyone after gets strict caps, fewer options, and tax bills on forgiven debt. If you're on the wrong side of that line—or helping someone navigate it—the math on graduate school, Parent PLUS loans, and even retirement contributions just changed. The July 2026 Dividing Line – 00:05:30 The One Big Beautiful Bill Act created two distinct classes of borrowers. Pre-July 2026 borrowers retain access to Income-Based Repayment (IBR) with payments at 10-15% of discretionary income and forgiveness after 20-25 years. Post-July 2026 borrowers get the new Repayment Assistance Plan (RAP) with 1-10% payments based on income but forgiveness only after 30 years. Anyone who takes out even one loan after the cutoff loses access to the old system entirely. New Borrowing Limits – 00:12:00 Federal loans are now capped at approximately $65,000 total for undergraduates (via Parent PLUS), $20,500 per year for graduate students, and $50,000 per year for professional programs like medical, dental, and law school—with a $200,000 lifetime cap for professional degrees. These limits fundamentally change which graduate programs remain financially viable without substantial family wealth or private loans. The Death of Parent PLUS Loans – 00:35:00 Parent PLUS loans have become a loan of last resort. They now carry roughly 9% interest rates, offer zero income-driven repayment options, and place all legal responsibility on parents alone. Students are morally but not legally obligated. For parents with good credit, private loans offer better rates and the option to cosign, putting responsibility on both parties. Private Loans About to Surge – 01:10:00 With federal borrowing caps forcing graduate students to seek alternative funding, the private loan market is poised for massive growth. Rate spreads can reach 7 percentag… Lees meer

7. 618 | You Learned How to Save. Now Learn How to Spend | Jesse Mecham

   21 september 2026 · 51 min

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   Every dollar you save is just money you're planning to spend later—so why does no one talk about the skill of spending well? Jesse Mecham, founder of YNAB, couldn't justify buying a fifty-cent donut despite being objectively "good at money," and that moment of extreme frugality sparked a crisis that would reshape how he thinks about every financial decision. Key Topics Discussed What's Money For? 00:02:30 Jesse explains why the fundamental question "What is this money for?" is more important than any budgeting technique, and why "for investing" isn't a sufficient answer. The Fifty Cent Donut Story 00:08:45 The pivotal moment when Jesse couldn't justify buying a donut despite financial stability, revealing how extreme frugality becomes suffocating and leads to a financial crisis of meaning. The Evolution of YNAB 00:15:20 Twenty years from selling a spreadsheet for $9.95 to building a comprehensive budgeting philosophy, including key business decisions and inflection points. The Skill of Spending 00:25:00 Why spending is actually the core skill with money, not saving, and how to develop intentionality around spending decisions through naming what money is for. Breaking the Paycheck to Paycheck Cycle 00:35:15 The concept of asymmetric stress and how creating breathing room between earning and spending can eliminate the unnecessary financial anxiety that 80% of Americans carry. What Is Enough? 00:42:30 Brad and Jesse explore the definition of "enough" from both minimalist and abundance perspectives, discussing health, safety, comfort, and the role of external possessions in happiness. Extravagances and the Tuesday Project 00:48:00 Jesse shares his current extravagances including building a wood shop and creating outdoor sanctuaries, while Brad discusses his minimalist experiment and the concept of building a remarkable Tuesday. Advice to Your Younger Self 00:58:00 Jesse reflects on what he would tell his 25-year-old self, praising his willingness to take risks while of… Lees meer

8. 617 | The Hidden Assumption in Every Retirement Calculator

   14 september 2026 · 1 uur

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   Most retirement calculators assume your money needs to last until age 95. But if you're 55 years old today, average life expectancy is actually 79 for men and 82 for women. This single hidden assumption could mean the difference between retiring five years earlier or leaving millions unspent. Key Topics Discussed 00:00:00 - Introduction: The Hidden Assumption Brad introduces the concept that retirement calculators make an invisible assumption about longevity—typically planning to age 90-95—and explains why this matters for financial independence planning. 00:05:30 - Why Planning to 95 Is the Default Dr Bobby Dubois and Aubrey Williams explain why financial advisors default to age 95, the fear of running out of money, and how this ignores the risk of over-saving and under-living. 00:12:00 - Layers of Financial Conservatism Brad discusses multiple layers of conservative assumptions in retirement planning: lower returns, lower withdrawal rates, zero Social Security, and now longevity assumptions. 00:15:45 - Real Life Expectancy Numbers Dr Bobby provides actuarial data showing average life expectancy from birth (71-76) versus age 55 (79-82), and the probability of reaching age 90. 00:21:00 - The Financial Impact of Longevity Aubrey presents modeling showing how nest egg requirements change dramatically based on longevity assumptions—from $714K at age 79 to 41% higher at age 90. 00:28:30 - Dynamic Planning and Annual Updates Discussion of how mortality-adjusted planning changes over time and why annual plan updates are essential rather than lock-and-load strategies. 00:35:00 - Tools to Estimate Your Longevity Dr Bobby outlines practical methods: actuarial calculators, family history, cardiovascular risk calculators like the AHA Prevent tool, and genetic testing including APOE for dementia risk. 00:45:00 - Biological Age vs Chronological Age Discussion of biological clock testing and why these tests aren't ready for prime time, despite heavy marketing in the longevity sp… Lees meer

9. 616 | How Should You Give Money to Your Kids? | 529s, UTMAs, Trump Accounts & More

   7 september 2026 · 1 uur 9 min

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   Most parents rush to open 529 plans for newborns, convinced they're building their child's future. But here's what financial experts won't tell you: that decision might be destroying more value than it creates. The accounts marketed most aggressively to new parents often provide minimal benefit while eliminating the flexibility you'll actually need. Topics Discussed Introduction and Episode Framework (00:00:00) Brad Barrett sets the stage with Sean Mullaney and Cody Garrett for a discussion on gifting to children, account options, and the critical importance of maintaining optionality in financial planning. Motivations for Saving for Children (00:03:15) Cody Garrett presents ChooseFI community research revealing four primary motivations: giving children more options, helping them avoid debt struggles, protecting from hardship, and developing healthy money habits. Parental Financial Sufficiency First (00:10:30) The oxygen mask principle—parents must secure their own financial stability before transferring wealth to children. Parental financial instability creates burden for adult children. Three Objections to Early Transfers (00:15:45) Sean Mullaney outlines three major objections: profile mismatch between parent and child needs, destruction of option value, and the superiority of the step-up in basis alternative at death. Gift Tax and Estate Tax Framework (00:22:00) Discussion of the annual gift tax exclusion ($19,000 per recipient), lifetime exclusion ($15 million), and how the step-up in basis works to eliminate capital gains tax at death. 529 Plans Deep Dive (00:28:30) Cody Garrett explains 529 mechanics, qualified expenses, restricted use, and flexibility options. Sean Mullaney identifies optimal profiles: financially successful parents of teens, grandparents, or state tax benefit scenarios. Trump Accounts Overview (00:42:15) Sean Mullaney details the new Trump accounts: $1,000 government seed for 2025-2028 births, $5,000 annual contribution limit, domestic equ… Lees meer

10. 615 | How to Get More Years of Freedom | Fritz Gilbert

    31 augustus 2026 · 1 uur 17 min

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    Eight years into financial independence, Fritz Gilbert discovered something surprising: learning to spend money is harder than learning to save it. After decades of optimizing every dollar toward early retirement, he found himself in a 90-minute internal debate over whether to spend an extra $3,500 on a better e-bike—despite being financially secure and ahead of his retirement projections. The Starting Line, Not the Finish 00:08:15 - Fritz introduces his core philosophy that FI isn't the finish line but the starting line. The accumulation phase requires one set of skills—discipline, frugality, optimization—but thriving in retirement demands completely different capabilities: curiosity, experimentation, and the ability to design an unscripted life. 00:12:45 - The two favorite words for post-FI life: curiosity and experimentation. Fritz explains how continuously trying new activities, volunteer opportunities, and ways of spending time creates a fulfilling retirement that evolves over time. 00:18:20 - Freedom for Fido charity work provides purpose and fulfillment. Fritz shares how his wife started a 501(c)(3) that builds free fences for low-income families with dogs on chains. They've completed 225 fences helping over 700 dogs with 200 volunteers, and Fritz offers mentorship to anyone wanting to start similar chapters. 00:32:10 - The natural shift from obsessing over numbers to focusing on non-financial aspects of life. Fritz describes how the financial planning that dominated pre-FI thinking fades into the background, replaced by questions about meaning, purpose, and how to spend time well. Fitness: The Other Side of the Freedom Equation 00:36:45 - A paradigm-shifting connection between saving and fitness. Fritz explains that while saving money buys years of freedom on the front end of life, physical fitness buys healthy years of freedom on the back end. Brad calls this "one of the most consequential ideas ever shared on ChooseFI." 00:45:30 - Learning the surprisingl… Lees meer

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