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Tired of Christian pat answers about marriage? The podcast that goes in-depth into marriage, parenting, and even sex--to see how we can live the passionate life we were meant for. Paired with Bare Marriage--the blog!
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Episode 346: Carl Lentz Has a New Book on Overcoming Infidelity. Should He Have a Platform?
29 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 28 min
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Can a pastor bounce back from scandal and reclaim the spotlight? Sheila and Rebecca unpack Carl & Laura Lentz’s book Overcoming Infidelity, exploring the difference between forgiveness and accountability, the privilege of celebrity pastors, and what genuine healing after betrayal requires. We also ask some bigger questions about evangelical celebrity culture, who deserves a platform, and why supporting the betrayed partner matters just as much as believing in redemption.
BARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS
Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book
Our Spanish Site is live!TO SUPPORT US:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko Foundation
Join our email list!
LINKS MENTIONED:
People Magazine article on Carl Lentz
Carl & Laura Lentz’s book, “Overcoming Infidelity”
The Whole Story puberty course
Daniel Silliman’s book analysis article on Roy’s Report
Jay Mallow substack article
Carl's convo with Lauren DeMoss
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 345: Why is the Old Testament So Cavalier about Abuse of Women? feat. Dr. Helen Paynter
22 oktober 2026 · 48 min
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What do we do with Bible passages that seem to portray God as indifferent to violence against women? Sheila sits down with Dr. Helen Paynter of the Centre for the Study of Bible and Violence to explore disturbing Old Testament stories, the historical context of biblical laws, and the difference between describing violence and endorsing it. Together, they consider how reading Scripture through the lens of Jesus can help us wrestle honestly with difficult questions, take survivors' experiences seriously, and rediscover God's care for the vulnerable.
BARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS
Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book
Our Spanish Site is live!TO SUPPORT US:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko Foundation
Join our email list!
LINKS MENTIONED:
Journal for the Study of Bible & Violence
Rev. Dr. Helen Paynter’s bio
Dr. Helen’s book on Judges 19
Dr. Helen’s blog post on Judges 19
Bare Marriage Podcast Episode 299 with Dr. Helen Paynter
The Miss.Judged study on marginalized women of the Bible
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 344: Do Only Wives Have to Act Like Jesus in Marriage? (A Look at Kathy Keller)
15 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 1 min
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Is Philippians 2 a biblical argument for male headship, or is it a call for ALL Christians to give up status and power in the way Jesus did? In this episode we unpack Kathy Keller’s teaching in “The Meaning of Marriage,” examining the assumptions behind complementarianism, the difference between sacrificial love and unequal authority, and what it really means to take Scripture seriously. Join us as we ask whether our ideas about gender roles reflect the upside-down kingdom of Jesus - or preserve the very power structures He came to challenge.
BARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS
Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book
Our Spanish Site is live!TO SUPPORT US:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko Foundation
Join our email list!
LINKS MENTIONED:
CBE International Paper
N.T. Wright podcast
Mr. Jambo reel
The Marriage You Want, our book with a study guide, small group resources, premarital curriculum, and more!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 343: Called to Serve - Are We Burying Women's Talents in the Ground?
8 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 13 min
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What happens when women who simply want to serve Jesus keep running into barriers to ministry? First, Hannah Hunt joins us as we hear the remarkable stories behind Called to Serve. Then we talk with Dr. Adam Harbaugh about what it actually takes for churches to rethink theology, history, bylaws, and leadership structures around women in ministry. It's an episode about calling, courage, disruption, and the hopeful possibility of a church where women and men can serve side by side - with Jesus at the center.
BARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS
Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book
Our Spanish Site is live!TO SUPPORT US:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko Foundation
Join our email list!
LINKS MENTIONED:
Called to Serve book
Called to Serve website
Called to Serve stories & podcast
The Whole Story Sex and Puberty Course
Dr. Adam Harbaugh’s dissertation
Dr. Adam Harbaugh’s website
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 342: Mica Miller’s Death and “The Sex Is For Men” Problem
1 oktober 2026 · 47 min
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Mica Miller’s Death and “The Sex Is For Men” Problem
The tragic Mica Miller documentary The Death of a Pastor’s Wife reveals a deeply evil pastor husband with entitled, misogynistic views about sex. But those views didn’t come out of nowhere. In this interview that Sheila did with Called to Peace Ministries, she connects the dots of how evangelical teaching around sex centers the male experience, feeds entitlement, and creates breeding grounds for abuse.
BARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS
Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book
Our Spanish Site is live!TO SUPPORT US:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko Foundation
Join our email list!
LINKS MENTIONED:
Called to Peace Ministries
Called to Peace on Facebook
Called to Peace on Instagram
The Whole Story Sex and Puberty Course
Friday Roundup on the Miller case
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 341: What’s the Dignity Line? Feat. Dawn from The Minimal Mom
24 september 2026 · 1 uur 13 min
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In this episode, we sit down with Dawn from The Minimal Mom to talk about the “dignity line,” a simple framework for recognizing if our relationships are characterized by respect, accountability, trust, and safety - and why patterns matter more than labels. We also dig into the complicated reality of marriage advice, boundaries, divorce, and the pressure Christian women can feel to keep trying no matter what. Then Rebecca joins in for a fiery discussion of a pastor’s sermon on sex and asking whether Christian conversations about sexual generosity actually account for women’s experiences. This week is a wide-ranging conversation about dignity, discernment, healthy relationships, and why sometimes the most important question isn’t “How do we save this marriage?” but “How do we help people become safe and whole?” This is one you don’t want to miss!
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Thanks to Brazos Press for sponsoring this podcast, so we could tell everyone about the amazing book Look Like a Lady!
Listen to our podcast with ElissaBARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS
Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book
Our Spanish Site is live!CHECK OUT OUR OCTOBER SIMULCAST EVENT
We're doing our sex talk and a one-day marriage conference! Check it out for more information.
Find the church info page here!
TO SUPPORT US:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko Foundation
Join our email list!
LINKS MENTIONED:
Dawn’s Website, “The Minimal Mom”
Dawn’s Dignity Line Resources
The Big Reasons For Divorce - Podcast Episode 212
The Power of a Praying Wife Review - Podcast Episode 197
Our Love & Respect Deep Dive Series
Elissa Yukiko Weichbrodt’s book, “Look Like a Lady”
Friday Roundup on Ryan Visconti
Ryan Visconti full sermon
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She D…
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Episode 340: Live, Laugh, Love with Kristin Du Mez
17 september 2026 · 1 uur 26 min
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What if many of the ideas we’ve been taught about “biblical womanhood” have a much stranger history than we realized? We sit down with historian & author Kristin Du Mez to unpack the fascinating—and sometimes surprising—story behind Christian womanhood, from Hannah Whittall Smith and Elisabeth Elliot to Christian fiction, publishing, blogging, and today’s influencer culture. What happens when we stop sanitizing the past, let go of formulas that promise happiness, and make room for a faith that can actually grapple with reality? Let’s find out together!
BARE MARRIAGE ANNOUNCEMENTS
Preorder Fawn, Sheila's New Book
Our Spanish Site is live!CHECK OUT OUR OCTOBER SIMULCAST EVENT
We're doing our sex talk and a one-day marriage conference! Check it out for more information.
Find the church info page here!
TO SUPPORT US:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko Foundation
Join our email list!
LINKS MENTIONED:
Kristin Du Mez’s book, "Live, Laugh, Love"
Kristin’s Website
Kristin’s Substack
Elissa Yukiko Weichbrodt’s website
Elissa’s book, “Look Like a Lady”
The Whole Story
Holding It Together: How Women Became America’s Safety Net
Episode 104: Jesus & John Wayne
Katharine Bushnell Episode
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 339: Look Like a Lady--the 5 Visual Tropes of Womanhood that Keep Us Small
10 september 2026 · 1 uur 20 min
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What if some of the messages we've absorbed about “what it means to be a woman” have less to do with the Bible and more to do with centuries of art, culture, and storytelling? Today we have a fascinating conversation with art historian Elissa Yukiko Weichbrodt about five powerful visual tropes—the Venus, Maiden, Vessel, Mother, and Monster—and the surprising, life-giving counter-stories that have been there all along. Together, we explore what happens when we stop seeing women as objects, prizes, symbols, perfect mothers, or threats, and start seeing them as whole people invited to witness, move, create, cultivate, and partner in God's kingdom.
CHECK OUT OUR OCTOBER SIMULCAST EVENT
We're doing our sex talk and a one-day marriage conference! Check it out for more information.
Find the church info page here!
TO SUPPORT US:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko Foundation
Join our email list!
LINKS MENTIONED:
Elissa Yukiko Weichbrodt’s website
Elissa’s book, “Look Like a Lady”
Elissa’s Instagram
Elissa’s Substack
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 338: What if God is Like a Mother Too? (Love Like a Mother)
3 september 2026 · 1 uur 2 min
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What if the Bible has been giving us maternal pictures of God all along—and we've simply been overlooking them? Today we talk with Elizabeth Berget, author of “Love Like a Mother,” about God's compassion, childbirth, motherhood, grief, protection, exhaustion, and the surprising ways women's embodied experiences can illuminate the character of God. Together, we explore how seeing God as both Father and Mother can offer women a deeper sense of belonging, challenge unhealthy ideas about motherhood and spiritual performance, and invite the church into a fuller, more expansive theology.
CHECK OUT OUR OCTOBER SIMULCAST EVENT
We're doing our sex talk and a one-day marriage conference! Check it out for more information.
Find the church info page here!
TO SUPPORT US:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko Foundation
Join our email list!
LINKS MENTIONED:
Elizabeth Berget’s Website
Elizabeth’s book, “Love Like a Mother”
Elizabeth’s Substack
Elizabeth’s Instagram
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 337: Why Do Evangelicals Ask Women to Do Such Risky Things if They Say They Protect Women?
27 augustus 2026 · 1 uur 2 min
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What happens when “protecting women” actually leaves them with fewer choices, less financial security, and nowhere to go when a marriage becomes unsafe? Today we unpack the hidden risks behind certain conservative Christian teachings about gender, money, work, and submission before sitting down with Sally Hope to talk about abuse, faith, anger, healing, and her survivor resource "No Visible Scars." It’s a thoughtful - and occasionally fiery - conversation about what genuine protection looks like when the goal is not female dependence, but healthy partnership, autonomy, justice, and healing.
CHECK OUT OUR OCTOBER SIMULCAST EVENT
We're doing our sex talk and a one-day marriage conference! Check it out for more information.
Find the church info page here!
GET NO VISIBLE SCARS here
TO SUPPORT US:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work (and get access to the book club!)
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Give to the Good Fruit Faith Initiative of the Bosko Foundation
Join our email list!
LINKS MENTIONED:
CortneyGetsFit TikTok
Dynamics of Abusive Relationships Study
Sally Hope’s Website
Sally’s book “No Visible Scars”
Sally’s Always Hopeful program
Download the One-Sheet on The Empowered Wife
Bare Marriage ToolKit
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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