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  1. How Are You Contributing To What Is Not Working In Your Love Life? Hard Truths From Relationship Coach Jillian Turecki.

    10 februari 2025 · 1 uur 7 min

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    Why self-inquiry is the first ingredient to a healthy relationship. Lees meer

    Jillian Turecki is a renowned relationship coach, teacher, author, and host of the podcast, Jillian On Love. Fueled by an insatiable curiosity about what makes a relationship thrive, Jillian has helped thousands over the last 20 years through her teachings, courses, and writing to revolutionize their relationship with themselves so that they transform their romantic relationships.

    In this episode we talk about:

    The difference between lust and love

    How to make the idea of self love more than an empty cliché

    How to be honest with your partner

    The myth of finding "the one"

    How to be your best self even after you've exited the honeymoon stage

    And why, if you want a successful relationship, you have to make peace with your parents

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  2. How Not To Torpedo Your Relationships | Dan Solo Episode

    7 februari 2025 · 27 min

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    Data-driven, dharma-informed, Dan-tested strategies for improving relationships of all kinds. Lees meer

    In this episode we talk about:

    The value of having platonic friends in addition to your spouse or partner

    A key communication skill that Dan picked up from the writer and researcher Brené Brown

    How humor can help your relationships – and how it can hurt

    A cognitive reframe from couples therapist Esther Perel

    How to manage conflict in a healthy way

    And one of Dan's favorite Saturday Night Live sketches: Man Park

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  3. The Science of Emotion Regulation: How It Impacts Health, Performance, and Relationships. | Ethan Kross

    5 februari 2025 · 1 uur 18 min

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    Practical strategies for managing our emotional lives. Lees meer

    Dr. Ethan Kross, author of the international bestseller Chatter, is one of the world's leading experts on emotion regulation. An award-winning professor in the University of Michigan's top ranked Psychology Department and its Ross School of Business, he is the Director of the Emotion and Self-Control Laboratory.

    In this episode we talk about:

    What an emotion actually is

    The myth that we should only experience positive emotions

    Why sometimes avoidance is a smart strategy

    The six emotional "shifters" we can use to regulate our emotions

    The role of our senses

    How to use mental time travel to shift perspective

    And the role of our surroundings, relationships, and culture

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  4. 9 Ways To Break Free From the Habits That Are Holding You Back | Dr. Rangan Chatterjee

    3 februari 2025 · 1 uur 20 min

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    How your reliance on being liked, being comfortable, and being perfect is blocking you from making the change you want. Lees meer

    Dr. Rangan Chatterjee is one of the most influential doctors in the UK with over two decades of experience. He now hosts Europe's biggest health podcast, Feel Better, Live More, he is the author of 5 Sunday Times bestsellers, he regularly appears on BBC television, national radio and his TED talk, How To Make Disease Disappear, has almost 6 million views.

    In this episode we talk about:

    Why we have an overreliance on experts and perfection

    Barriers and solutions to long term change

    How to stop people pleasing (or become a "people pleaser in recovery")

    Tips for neutralizing emotional discomfort and stress

    The "life is an escalator" myth, and our relationship with complaining

    How to adapt to adversity without feeding our bad habits

    Escaping the trap of busyness

    And much more

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  5. Buddhist Strategies For Reducing Everyday Addictions (To Your Phone, Food, Booze, And More) | Sister Dang Nghiem

    29 januari 2025 · 1 uur 11 min

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    A Buddhist doctor/nun on how we're all addicted to something—and how to reduce craving. Lees meer

    Sister Dang Nghiem, MD, ("Sister D") was born in 1968 in Vietnam during the Tet Offensive, the daughter of a Vietnamese mother and an American soldier. She lost her mother at the age of twelve and immigrated to the United States at the age of seventeen with her brother. Living in various foster homes, she learned English and went on to earn a medical degree from the University of California – San Francisco. After suffering further tragedy and loss, she quit her practice as a doctor to travel to Plum Village monastery in France founded by Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh, where she was ordained a nun in 2000, and given the name Dang Nghiem, which means adornment with nondiscrimination. She is the author of a memoir, Healing: A Woman's Journey from Doctor to Nun (2010), and Mindfulness as Medicine: A Story of Healing and Spirit (2015).

    This episode is part of our monthlong Do Life Better series.

    We talk about:

    Sister D's Buddhist version of the 12 step program, which is a combination of two canonical buddhist lists: the 4 Noble Truths and the Eightfold Path

    How willpower doesn't fit into the Buddhist path of understanding and working with addiction

    How to change addiction at its root

    Practical applications of mindfulness

    Self-compassion

    The importance of social support

    Her thoughts on our relationships to our phones

    And more

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  6. Buddhist Neuroscientist On: How To Quit Bad Habits And Why You're Not Keeping Your Resolutions | Dr. Judson Brewer

    27 januari 2025 · 1 uur 16 min

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    How to use your innate mindfulness to turn the volume down, or even uproot, your everyday addictions. Lees meer

    Dr. Judson Brewer is the Director of Research and Innovation at the Mindfulness Center and professor in Behavioral and Social Sciences and Psychiatry at the Schools of Public Health & Medicine at Brown University. He is the author of several books, including The Craving Mind, Unwinding Anxiety, and The Hunger Habit.

    This episode is part of our monthlong Do Life Better series.

    We talk about:

    Jud's definition of addiction

    The difference between the scientific view and the Buddhist view on addiction

    The buddhist concept of Dependent origination

    Dopamine and dopamine fasting

    A three gear plan for sticking to your resolutions

    Judson's disenchantment with the term "mindfulness"

    What we need to know about willpower

    The two types of stress – and its impact on our behavior

    What makes us resilient – and why it matters

    How community plays a role in making habit changes

    And finally, a friendly debate on whether there is such a thing as healthy anger?

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    Why We're All Suffering from Racial Trauma (Even White People) -- and How to Handle It | Resmaa Menakem

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  7. The Psychology Of Success | Guy Raz

    24 januari 2025 · 1 uur 5 min

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    A podcast pioneer on failure, resilience, luck, work/life balance, and the power of questions. Lees meer

    Guy Raz has been instrumental in creating some of the most iconic podcasts in the world, including Wondery's How I Built This, Wow in the World and TED Radio Hour. The New York Times has described him as "one of the most popular podcasters in history."

    This episode is part of our monthlong Do Life Better series.

    We talk about:

    The challenge–and gift–of failure

    Getting comfortable with discomfort and risk

    The notion of luck

    The balance between your relationships and your work

    Why scale isn't always the answer

    Success vs. happiness

    And much more

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    #321 The Joy of Being Wrong | Adam Grant

    Rethinking Success | Mia Birdsong

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  8. Buddhist Executive Coach On: Professional Anxiety, Workplace Conflict, And The Power Of Mindfulness | Nolitha Tsengiwe

    22 januari 2025 · 1 uur 8 min

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    How to be less stressed and more productive. Lees meer

    Nolitha Tsengiwe, a Dharma teacher and board member at Dharmagiri Retreat Center, in South Africa. She is also a graduate of Insight Meditation Society teacher training.

    This episode is part of our monthlong Do Life Better series.

    In this episode we talk about:

    How to weave mindfulness into your day without requiring a big formal sit

    How to have healthy conflict in the workplace

    Our attempts to explain the ineffable

    And much more

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    Full Shownotes: https://www.meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/nolitha-895

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    Listen to Nolitha's talks on DharmaSeed

  9. The Science Of Burnout — And How To Recharge From Stress | Kristin Neff and Christopher Germer

    20 januari 2025 · 1 uur 13 min

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    Burnout is on the rise. Two experts show us how to combat it. Lees meer

    Dr. Kristin Neff is an Associate Professor of Educational Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. She is a pioneer in the field of self-compassion research, conducting the first empirical studies on self-compassion more than twenty years ago.

    Christopher Germer is a clinical psychologist and lecturer on psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. He also co-developed a highly impactful program called Mindful Self-Compassion, which has been taught to over 100,000 people across the world.

    This episode is part of our monthlong Do Life Better series.

    We talk about:

    How to know if you are burnt out

    The three main symptoms of burnout, their causes, and their health consequences

    The three components of self-compassion and how they can help

    The inner critic and why we kick our own asses

    How to draw appropriate boundaries with your boss

    The difference between tender and fierce self-compassion

    Tools for dealing with perfectionism without letting go of high standards

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    For the Burned Out, Fried, and Exhausted | Emily & Amelia Nagoski

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    Full Shownotes: https://meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/neff-germer-894

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  10. How To Be Less Anxious And Awkward About Money | Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren

    15 januari 2025 · 1 uur 3 min

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    A candid conversation about money: How much is enough? How to find real security? Lees meer

    Sebene Selassie, an author and meditation teacher. She writes the popular newsletter Ancestors to Elements and her first book is called, You Belong.

    Jeff Warren is also an author and meditation teacher. He writes the popular Substack newsletter Home Base and is the coauthor, along with me, of a book called Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics. And he is the co-host of the mind/bod adventure pod.

    This episode is part of our monthlong Do Life Better series.

    We talk about:

    How much is enough

    The illusion of security

    The importance of being able to talk to your friends about this stuff

    The power of identifying your own money story, in other words, finding the point of origination for your own neuroses on the subject

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    Full Shownotes: https://www.meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/meditation-party-892

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  11. Rewire Your Relationship With Money | Wendy De La Rosa

    13 januari 2025 · 1 uur 14 min

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    A Wharton professor shares practical tips on increasing your financial security, and eradicating the taboo around financial conversations. Lees meer

    Dr. Wendy De La Rosa is an Assistant Professor at The Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania. She focuses on behavioral science to improve consumers' financial well-being.

    This episode is part of our monthlong Do Life Better series.

    We talk about:

    Psychological and technological tools for taking control of your finances

    How to get a handle on small frequent purchases

    The relationship between our environment and our finances

    Financial shame

    How our parents relationship with money impacts us as adults

    The G.I. Joe Fallacy, and the misconception that "knowing is half the battle" when it comes to our financial health

    10 financial questions to ask your romantic partner

    How to eliminate the taboo of financial conversations

    And much more

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    Full Shownotes: https://www.meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/de-la-rosa-891

  12. Rewire Your Relationship To Food | Brother Pháp Lưu

    8 januari 2025 · 1 uur 3 min

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    The science and dharma of mindful eating. How it can stop over eating—and how to actually make the habit. Lees meer

    Brother Pháp Lưu is an ordained monk in the Plum Village tradition started by Zen Master Thích Nhất Hạnh. He's worked with scientists at Dartmouth College and the Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health to develop research on the effect of Plum Village mindfulness practices on children.

    This episode is part of our monthlong Do Life Better series.

    We talk about:

    The health benefits of mindful eating

    The line between moderation and restriction

    The five contemplations before eating

    The basic steps of mindful eating

    How to ensure mindful eating doesn't feel like a chore or burden

    Fasting and our culture's dysregulated relationship to food

    Mindful consumption in general

    The four nutriments

    And much more

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    Full Shownotes: https://www.meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/phap-luu-889

  13. The Neuroscience Of Exercise | Wendy Suzuki

    6 januari 2025 · 1 uur 13 min

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    What exercise does to your brain—and how to actually do it regularly. Lees meer

    Wendy Suzuki is a Professor of Neural Science and Psychology at New York University, where she is also the first Asian-American Dean of the College of Arts and Science. She is the author of two books, Good Anxiety and Healthy Brain, Happy Life.

    This episode is part of our monthlong Do Life Better series.

    We talk about:

    How exercise not only enhances cognitive function but also protects against age-related cognitive decline and neurodegenerative diseases.

    The difference between cardio and strength training

    Whether it matters if you track your steps

    How to sustain your motivation to exercise

    And practical tips on how to start, restart or increase an exercise habit

    We also talk about the brain benefits of sleep, meditation, and healthy eating (with a detour into ways to counteract the potentially unhealthy obsession with being healthy)

    And finally, we talk about the counterintuitive benefits of anxiety

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    Full Shownotes: https://www.meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/wendy-suzuki-888

  14. How To Actually Keep Your New Year's Resolutions | Dan Solo Episode

    3 januari 2025 · 25 min

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    Dan briefly whittles down his top 10 takeaways from the science of behavior change. Lees meer

    In this episode we talk about:

    How our brain's evolution for short-term survival makes long-term goals harder

    Picking the right goals

    Making it easy

    Leveraging fresh starts

    How to make goals a team sport

    The crucial role of mindfulness and self-compassion

    This episode is part of our monthlong Do Life Better series.

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    Full Shownotes: www.meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/dan-solo-habit-formation

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  15. A Radical Buddhist Approach To Making This The Best Year Of Your Life | Vinny Ferraro

    1 januari 2025 · 1 uur 7 min

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    Contemplating your own death can feel like a massive bummer at first, but there's good news: how you react to that inescapable fact really matters. Lees meer

    Vinny Ferraro has practiced insight meditation (vipassanā) since the mid-90s. He's the Guiding Teacher of the Big Heart City Sangha in San Francisco and has led a weekly sitting group for almost two decades.

    As a fully empowered Dharma Teacher thru Spirit Rock/IMS, he has taught residential retreats at Spirit Rock, Insight Meditation Society, and the Esalen Institute. Currently, he leads Spirit Rock's Year to Live course and teaches retreats and daylongs through Big Heart City and meditation centers across the country.

    He is a respected leader in developing and implementing interventions for at-risk populations. leading groups in schools, juvenile halls and prisons since 1987. He has led emotional intelligence workshops for over 100,000 youth on four continents.

    In this episode we talk about:

    Why it's important to think about your own death even if you're not expecting it anytime soon

    The distinction between the actual conditions of your life and how much you suffer

    A practice called the five Daily Remembrances, which Dan started doing himself right after we recorded this — and which has made a real difference for him

    And some of other practices they do in the class, including the "life review" and "housekeeping"

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  16. How To End The War With Your Body | Sonya Renee Taylor

    23 december 2024 · 1 uur

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    "Radical self-love" — what it is and how to do it.

    It is incredibly common for many of us humans, whatever our gender, to be at war with our bodies -- trying to live up to the people we see in the movies, on social media, or even the versions of ourselves in old pictures. This never-enough-ness can lead to an ambient level of self-loathing that can be incredibly destructive. That's where "radical self-love" comes in.

    Our guest today is Sonya Renee Taylor. She is the author of three books, including The Body is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love. She is the Founder and Radical Executive Officer of The Body is Not An Apology. She has come to this work as a result of her own personal pain, as a Black woman inhabiting a body that she says does not conform to societal norms.

    In this conversation, we talk about defining radical self-love (and why she believes it's our natural state), tools for cultivating radical self-love, and the connection between being OK with yourself and the larger society.

    Full Shownotes: www.meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/sonya-renee-taylor-rerun

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    Download the Happier Meditation app today.

  17. Sitting with Chaos | Zenju Earthlyn Manuel

    20 december 2024 · 52 min

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    Very few of us relish chaos and disruption, but they are facts of life, given the nonnegotiable nature of change. In this episode with Zenju Earthlyn Manuel, we're going to talk about how to tune into the value of disruption, and learn how to sit with the chaos.

    Zenju Earthlyn Manuel is an ordained Zen priest, holds a Ph.D., and worked for decades as a social science researcher and development director for non-profit organizations. She is also a prolific author.

    In this conversation we'll explore:

    what to do with the unknown and not having any answers

    the power of a "sip of silence" (her term)

    what she means by the phrase "death as a doorway to tenderness"

    how she defines tenderness - a word that can easily get bogged down in sloppy sentimentality

    and what she meant when she wrote "I'm not advocating love as an answer to all of the ills of the world. Then again, it is just that simple to be love."

    Content Warning: There are brief mentions of assault; spiritual, sexual, and substance abuse; and racism, including an incident Zenju experienced herself.

    Full Shownotes: www.meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/zenju-earthlyn-manuel-rerun

    This episode was originally published in October 2021.

  18. How To Be Less Judgmental (Of Other People – and Yourself) | La Sarmiento

    18 december 2024 · 54 min

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    Can mindfulness really pull you out of a spiral of self-judgment? Don't you need to be judgmental sometimes? What's the difference between being discerning and judgmental?

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    Meditation and mindfulness doesn't uproot your capacity to be judgmental, but it can help you see the value in being judgmental by learning how to work with the judging mind.

    La Sarmiento has been practicing Vipassana meditation since 1998. La is a mentor for the Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program, a teacher with Cloud Sangha, and a contributor to the Happier Meditation app.

    In this episode we talk about:

    How mindfulness can help us identify when we're being judgmental

    The difference between discernment and judgment

    How it can be so delicious to be judgmental of others – but why it's actually harmful to ourselves and others

    The four questions to ask when we notice ourselves going into judgment mode

    How to operationalize the phrase "am I suffering right now?"

    Investigating the motivations behind striving for success

    Why owning up to being a jerk is sometimes the exact right answer

    Full Shownotes: www.meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/la-sarmiento-rerun-2024

    Where to find La Sarmiento online:

    Website: www.lasarmiento.com

    Additional Resources:

    Download the Happier Meditation app today.

  19. How To Be Okay No Matter What | Kamala Masters

    16 december 2024 · 1 uur

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    Equanimity: what it is, what it isn't, and how to get it.

    Guest Kamala Masters was one of the teachers at Dan's first ever meditation retreat. In this episode she dives into how to develop equanimity and shares her story of learning how to practice meditation during her everyday life while raising three children on her own.

    Kamala Masters has been meditating since the 1970s, first with Anagarika Munindra, who was Joseph Goldstein's first teacher, and then with the Burmese master Sayadaw U Pandita with whom she twice temporarily ordained as a Buddhist nun. More recently, she's been training with another Burmese master we've talked about here on the show, Sayadaw U Tejaniya. She is a Guiding Teacher at the Insight Meditation Society, and the co-founder of the Vipassana Metta Foundation, which developed the Maui Dharma Sanctuary.

    In this conversation we talk about:

    What is equanimity?

    The most common misconception about equanimity

    The near and far enemies of equanimity

    The power and limitations of setting intentions

    Full Shownotes: https://meditatehappier.com/podcast/tph/kamala-masters-rerun

    Where to find Kamala Masters online:

    Website: Vipassana Metta on Maui

    Additional Resources:

    Download the Happier Meditation app today.

  20. Behind The Scenes Of The 10% Happier Podcast + A Sneak Preview Of Something Big

    13 december 2024 · 36 min

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    Dan and Executive Producer, DJ Cashmere, pull back the curtain on what we do, how we do it—and what's coming next.

    In this episode we talk about:

    An exciting New Year's series reveal and upcoming meditation challenge

    What goes into making the show–and why we do it

    The ins and outs of starting a new business

    And much more

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  21. How To Unsubscribe From The Negative Stories You Tell About Yourself And Others | Anu Gupta

    11 december 2024 · 1 uur 6 min

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    How your blindspots hurt your decision-making— and how to fix it.

    Anu Gupta is an educator, lawyer, scientist, and the founder and CEO of BE MORE with Anu, an education technology benefit corporation that trains professionals across corporate, nonprofit, and government sectors to advance DEIB and wellness by breaking bias. His work has reached 300+ organizations training more than 80,000 professionals impacting over 30 million lives. Gupta holds a JD from NYU Law, MPhil in Development Studies from Cambridge University, and BA in International Relations and Middle Eastern & Islamic Studies from NYU. As a gay immigrant of color, he came to the work of breaking bias after almost ending his life due to lifelong experiences with racism, homophobia, and Islamophobia. The realization that bias can be unlearned helped lead him out of that dark point and inspired a lifelong mission to build a global movement for social healing based on principles of mindfulness and compassion. A peer-reviewed author, he has written and spoken extensively, including on the TED stage, the Oprah Conversation, Fast Company, Newsweek, and Vogue Business. He is the author of Breaking Bias: Where Stereotypes and Prejudices Come From—and the Science-Backed Method to Unravel Them.

    In this episode we talk about:

    The 5 causes of bias

    The dis-utility of shame

    What has – and hasn't – been working in DEI trainings

    Contemplative practices, on and off the cushion, for breaking bias

    And his response to skeptics

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  22. What Evolutionary Psychology Teaches Us About How To Influence People | Michael Morris

    9 december 2024 · 1 uur 2 min

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    The upside of the often misunderstood "tribalism".

    Michael Morris is the Chavkin-Chang Professor of Leadership at Columbia Business School as well as a Professor in its Psychology Department. Outside of academia, Professor Morris has consulted with and conducted executive training workshops for hundreds of clients across the globe, including Fortune 100 firms, governments, and the Obama and Clinton campaigns. He lives in New York City. His latest book is called Tribal: How The Cultural Instincts That Divide Us Can Help Bring Us Together.

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  23. Tricky Questions About Grief: Is There A Right Way To Do It? What To Say To People In Grief? And Can You Grieve For Things? | Sloane Crosley

    6 december 2024 · 54 min

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    A famed author and humorist takes a deep dive into grief (with Dr. Bianca Harris as co-host).

    Sloane Crosley is the author of The New York Times bestselling books Grief Is for People, How Did You Get This Number, and I Was Told There'd Be Cake. She is also the author of Look Alive Out There, Cult Classic and The Clasp, both of which have been optioned for film. She served as editor of The Best American Travel Writing series and is featured in The Library of America's 50 Funniest American Writers, The Best American Nonrequired Reading, Phillip Lopate's The Contemporary American Essay and others. She was the inaugural columnist for The New York Times Op-Ed "Townies" series, a contributing editor at Interview Magazine, and a columnist for The Village Voice, Vanity Fair, The Independent, Black Book, Departures and The New York Observer. She is a contributing editor at Vanity Fair. She has taught at Columbia University and The Yale Writers' Workshop.

    In this episode we talk about:

    A series of consecutive losses that Sloane endured

    The concept of cumulative grief

    Sloane's version of the five stages of grief

    Her beef with acceptance

    Bibliotherapy as a source of healing

    And much more

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  24. How To Talk To Yourself When Things Suck | Sam Sanders

    4 december 2024 · 1 uur 6 min

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    Smart strategies that emerged from a brutal year.

    Sam Sanders is an award-winning reporter, radio host and podcaster. He co-hosts the podcast Vibe Check with Zach Stafford and Saeed Jones. He also currently hosts The Sam Sanders Show from KCRW. Check out the album he mentioned in the episode, Caroline Rose's The Art of Forgetting.

    This is part 2 in a 3-part series we're running on grief.

    In this episode we talk about:

    The fact that there is no right way to deal with grief

    The value of feeling your feelings — even though it sucks

    Why it can be helpful to take breaks from your grief without guilt

    The importance of joy and play

    The changing nature of grief

    What it means to be "anointed" by grief

    And what it looks like to maintain a relationship with someone even after they've died

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  25. The Science Of Grief: What Helps, What Doesn't, And Why We Don't Talk About It Enough | Cody Delistraty

    2 december 2024 · 1 uur 13 min

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    A journalist explores one of humanity's most brutal and unavoidable experiences.

    Cody Delistraty is a writer and speechwriter, most recently working as the culture editor at the Wall Street Journal Magazine. He has written for The New York Times, The New Yorker, The Atlantic, and was the European arts columnist for The Paris Review. He has degrees in politics from New York University and in history from the University of Oxford. British Vogue named him a best young writer of the year, and he has given talks about art and creativity to companies like PwC. He lives in New York City.

    In this episode we talk about:

    Why our culture is so repressed when it comes to grief

    We dive into the many experiments that Cody launched to help cope with loss; from book and laughter therapy, to psilocybin and AI

    The concept of grief as an addiction

    The importance of rituals

    The scientific possibility of deleting our memories to avoid pain

    And how to live along side of grief when there is no cure

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  26. The Science Of Walking: The Benefits Of Walking In Nature, Walking Meetings, And Walking Meditation | Dacher Keltner

    29 november 2024 · 34 min

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    This scientist says that walking is one of the best things you can do for yourself. Here are some ways you can incorporate it into your life.

    Today we're going to talk about something so obvious, but so incredibly powerful. Walking. This is the third of a three part mini-series we're doing focused on the benefits of spending time outdoors.

    Dr. Keltner is one of the world's foremost emotion scientists. He is a professor of psychology at UC Berkeley and the director of the Greater Good Science Center. He has over 200 scientific publications and six books, including Born to Be Good, The Compassionate Instinct, The Power Paradox, and Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life. He has written for many popular outlets, from The New York Times to Slate, and has consulted extensively for Google, Apple, and Pinterest, on issues related to emotion and well-being. He also hosts the podcast The Science of Happiness.

    In this episode we talk about:

    The practice of "awe walks"

    The ritualizing of walking

    How it can help your concentration and anxiety levels

    Walking meetings

    And walking meditations

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  27. Joseph Goldstein + Mark Epstein On: How To Handle Unwanted Experiences, How Not To Waste Your Suffering & The Overlap Between Buddhism + Therapy

    27 november 2024 · 1 uur 7 min

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    Buddhist megastars in conversation.

    Today, we're dropping a recording of a live event we held earlier this year, during which Joseph Goldstein and Dr. Mark Epstein came on stage for a fascinating set of conversations. We did this event to celebrate the tenth anniversary of Dan's first book, also called 10% Happier.

    The night was structured like a late night show, so there was a monologue, and live music with the band Mates of State.

    Dr. Mark Epstein is a psychiatrist in private practice in New York City, and is the author of a number of books about the interface of Buddhism and psychotherapy, including Thoughts without a Thinker, Going to Pieces without Falling Apart, Going on Being, Open to Desire, Psychotherapy without the Self, The Trauma of Everyday Life and Advice Not Given: A Guide to Getting Over Yourself, and The Zen of Therapy: Uncovering a Hidden Kindness in Life. He received his undergraduate and medical degrees from Harvard University. He has been a student of vipassana meditation since 1974.

    Joseph Goldstein is a cofounder of the Insight Meditation Society and the Barre Center for Buddhist Studies, both in Barre, Massachusetts. He is the author of Mindfulness: A Practical Guide to Awakening, A Heart Full of Peace, One Dharma: The Emerging Western Buddhism, Insight Meditation and The Experience of Insight: A Simple and Direct Guide to Buddhist Meditation. Joseph has studied and practiced meditation since 1967 under the guidance of eminent teachers from India, Burma, and Tibet and he leads Insight Meditation retreats around the world.

    In this episode we talk about:

    The three month solo silent meditation retreat Joseph had just finished

    How to not suffer in the face of unwanted experiences

    Three exercises for slowing down

    Pragmatic applications of retreat practice for life in the real world

    How to see outside yourself

    How…

  28. The Massive, Underappreciated Power Of Apology | V (Formerly Eve Ensler) (Co-Interviewed By Dr. Bianca Harris)

    25 november 2024 · 1 uur

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    How learning to apologize can upgrade your life.

    V (formerly Eve Ensler) is the Tony award-winning playwright, author, and activist. Her play The Vagina Monologues is an Obie award-winning, Olivier-nominated theatrical phenomenon that has been translated into 48 languages and performed in 140 countries. She is the author of numerous books, including the recently released bestseller Reckoning (2023), heralded by the Washington Post as "gutting and gorgeous." Other best-selling books include The Apology (2019), translated into 20 languages, In the Body of the World, and The New York Times bestseller I Am an Emotional Creature. She starred on Broadway in The Good Body and, most recently Off-Broadway at Manhattan Theatre Club in the critically acclaimed In the Body of the World. She helped create That Kindness: Nurses in Their Own Words, presented by the Brooklyn Academy of Music in collaboration with theaters across the US, as a tribute to nurses during the COVID-19 pandemic. V is currently writing the story and co-writing lyrics for the musical Becoming (formerly WILD), which made its world premiere in December 2021 at The American Repertory Theater. She recently wrote This is Crazy, a play about mental illness commissioned by the National Alliance on Mental Illness. Her film credits include The Vagina Monologues (HBO), What I Want My Words to Do to You (Executive Producer, Winner of the Sundance Film Festival Freedom of Expression Award, PBS), Mad Max: Fury Road (Consultant), and City of Joy documentary (Netflix). She is the founder of V-Day, the 26-year-old global activist movement that has raised over 120 million dollars to end violence against women, gender-expansive people, girls, and the planet—and founder of One Billion Rising, the largest global mass action to end gender-based violence in over 200 countries, as well as a co-founder of …

  29. How To Get The Physiological And Psychological Benefits Of Nature If You Don't Live Near Nature | Dacher Keltner

    22 november 2024 · 27 min

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    Practical tips for accessing the healthcare of nature no matter where you live.

    It's very possible that you've heard the long list of physiological and psychological benefits that one can derive from getting out into nature. Those benefits include improved mood, boosted immune system, lowered blood pressure and more. That being said, 80 percent of Americans live in urban areas. So today, we're going to talk to an expert about how to derive the many benefits of nature, no matter where you are.

    Dr. Keltner is one of the world's foremost emotion scientists. He is a professor of psychology at UC Berkeley and the director of the Greater Good Science Center. He has over 200 scientific publications and six books, including Born to Be Good, The Compassionate Instinct, The Power Paradox, and Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life. He has written for many popular outlets, from The New York Times to Slate, and has consulted extensively for Google, Apple, and Pinterest, on issues related to emotion and well-being. He also hosts the podcast The Science of Happiness.

    In this episode we talk about:

    The importance of opening our senses to nature

    The power of birdsong

    The science of street trees and their impact on depression

    How taking pictures of our local environment can enhance focus and productivity

    And lastly, how we can harness the power of our imagination

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  30. Six Buddhist Strategies for Getting Along Better with Everyone | Sister True Dedication

    20 november 2024 · 1 uur 7 min

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    A journalist-turned-Buddhist-nun shares six phrases – or mantras – to help keep your relationships on the rails.

    Relationships can be tricky. Especially if you find yourself upset with someone, and instead of talking it through, you let it fester until one moment you completely lose it and end up having to apologize. If you've ever felt like you had friction with the people in your life, or that you've been taken for granted, today's episode offers you solid strategies to cope.

    Sister True Dedication is a Zen Buddhist nun and teacher ordained by the great meditation teacher and author, Thich Nhat Hanh. She edited several of Thich Nhat Hanh's books, including The Art of Living and Zen and the Art of Saving the Planet. She was born in the United Kingdom, studied history and political thought at Cambridge University, and worked for BBC News before ordaining as a nun at the age of 27.

    In this episode we talk about:

    The six phrases – or mantras – that Thich Nhat Hanh recommended people use in their relationships

    Keeping misunderstandings "dust free"

    Taking action to make sure anger doesn't fester

    The importance of recognizing that our understanding of the world is always partial

    Bringing mantras to work

    How Sister True Dedication went from journalism to the monastery

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    Where to find Sister True Dedication online:

    Website: Plum Village Teacher Page

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  31. How To Survive The Holidays: Advice For Political Conversations, Overeating, And The Indignities Of Travel | Dan Solo Episode

    18 november 2024 · 1 uur

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    A compendium of expert advice on handling all the complications — and pleasures — that the holiday season brings.

    I have whipped up a holiday survival guide for you, a series of evidence-based strategies for navigating what can be a tricky time of year.

    During the course of this episode, I'm going to talk about nine pain points, including navigating political differences around the dinner table, overeating, overwhelm, travel indignities, social anxiety, difficult family members, etc. I'm going to share with you a bunch of strategies pulled from ancient wisdom and modern science.

    In this episode we talk about practical strategies for dealing with nine pain points of the holiday season:

    The expectation of perfection

    Overwhelm

    Difficult family dynamics

    Grief

    Loneliness

    Social anxiety

    Overeating

    Holiday travel

    Financial worries

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  32. The Science Of How Nature Changes Your Brain—From Sleep To Cognition To Your Nervous System | Dacher Keltner

    15 november 2024 · 35 min

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    Scientific evidence that spending time in nature has profound impacts on your physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

    We've got something special planned for you today. We're talking about the massive psychological and physiological benefits of being in nature.

    Nature impacts your mood. It has a whole long list of positive benefits for your nervous system, and even changes how you are with other people. In fact, as you'll hear today's guest say, "nature is healthcare".

    Dr. Dacher Keltner is one of the world's foremost emotion scientists. He is a professor of psychology at UC Berkeley and the director of the Greater Good Science Center. He has over 200 scientific publications and six books, including Born to Be Good, The Compassionate Instinct, The Power Paradox, and Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life. He has written for many popular outlets, from The New York Times to Slate, and has consulted extensively for Google, Apple, and Pinterest, on issues related to emotion and well-being. He also hosts the podcast The Science of Happiness.

    This is the first of a three-part series we're doing focused on the benefits of spending time outside. Today we talk about how it impacts sleep, cognition, memory, your nervous system, and your relationships. Next week, we address the 80% of Americans who live in urban areas—how do you derive these benefits? And in week three, we take a deep dive on the science of walking.

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  33. The Antidote To Not-Enoughness | Robin Wall Kimmerer

    13 november 2024 · 1 uur 7 min

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    Radical strategies for the scarcity mindset.

    Robin Wall Kimmerer is a mother, scientist, decorated professor, and enrolled member of the Citizen Potawatomi Nation. She is the author of Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge and the Teachings of Plants, which has earned Kimmerer wide acclaim. Her first book, Gathering Moss: A Natural and Cultural History of Mosses, was awarded the John Burroughs Medal for outstanding nature writing, and her other work has appeared in Orion, Whole Terrain, and numerous scientific journals.

    Her new book, The Serviceberry, is about a plant whose behavior is a model not only for our individual lives, but potentially for rethinking the global economy.

    In this episode we talk about:

    Nature as a model for the economy

    How to reclaim our stolen attention

    Practices of gratitude

    Counterintuitive advice on wealth and security

    How to change your relationship to the living world

    The science of biomimicry

    Plants as persons, and the study of plant cognition

    And the importance of recognizing both Western science and the indigenous worldview

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  34. The Science Of Journaling: How Writing Reduces Overthinking, Rumination, And Anxiety | Dr. James Pennebaker (Co-Interviewed By Dr. Bianca Harris)

    11 november 2024 · 1 uur 6 min

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    Evidence from the guy who pioneered the science.

    James Pennebaker is Professor Emeritus of Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. He is known for his early research on expressive writing and health. More recently, he has pioneered ways to study people's personalities and behaviors through the analysis of their language use. His text analysis program LIWC is used across disciplines. Author of over 300 scientific articles and 8 books, his research has affected our understanding and treatment of mental and physical health of people dealing with upheavals in their lives.

    In this episode we talk about:

    The specific form of journaling, called expressive writing or therapeutic journaling, that he invented and studied.

    Other kinds of journaling such as to-do lists and gratitude lists.

    Why writing things down helps shift our perspective on our stress or trauma.

    How that can lead to a cascade of benefits, from improved sleep to improved working memory

    And why Pennebaker, who's a very laid-back dude, is so laid-back about how often we need to journal in order to derive its benefits

    Dump It Here journal is available now. https://shop.danharris.com/

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  35. An Episode For The Over-Thinkers and The Stressed | Matthew Brensilver, Vinny Ferraro, Kaira Jewel Lingo

    6 november 2024 · 1 uur 8 min

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    A crucial (and often misunderstood) concept in Buddhism: letting go.

    For this episode, Executive Producer DJ Cashmere interviewed a trio of brilliant Dharma teachers to get their advice about how to handle surrendering or letting go. This is the fourth in a series of 'correspondent' episodes, in which DJ identifies a pain point in his life and meditation practice, then goes out into the world to report on the best ways to address it.

    Kaira Jewel Lingo is a former nun in the Plum Village tradition started by Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh. Vinny Ferraro teaches at the Insight Meditation Society and Spirit Rock, and also in prisons. Matthew Brensilver teaches at many of the same retreat centers, and spent many years working in the field of addiction pharmacotherapy.

    *Find the Soft Belly Meditation here

    *Check out Sebene Selassie's website and newsletter, Ancestor to Elements. Plus, her 'Let It Be' guided meditation on DanHarris.com

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    Want to study and practice with today's guests? Please check out these Spirit Rock offerings:

    Matthew Brensilver, Buddhist Psychology Training (Begins in January)

    Vinny Ferraro: A Year to Live; Discovering What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully (Begins in January)

    Kaira Jewel Lingo: Healing Our Way Home (Oct. 20); Insight Meditation Retreat (April 9-16; opens Dec. 11)

    All 10% Happier listeners receive a discount code for our December Insight Retreat (Dec. 8-18) with the code TENPERCENT

    Vinny and Kaira Jewel will also teach at the Insight Meditation Society:

    Kaira Jewel Lingo, Strength to Love: Honoring Dr. Martin Luther King: Jr. (Jan 17 - Jan 20), and Return to Wholeness: Opening to Wisdom & Love (online) (Mar 23 - Mar 29)

    Vinny Ferraro, Peace in Presence: A Four-Night Retreat for All (Jan 31 - Feb 4)

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  36. Stoicism 101 | Nancy Sherman

    4 november 2024 · 1 uur 7 min

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    What ancient Greeks and Romans figured out about stress reduction.

    You may have heard about stoicism, in the common parlance, as having a stiff upper lip, sucking it up, grinning and bearing it, suppressing your emotions, etcetera. Or you may have heard of Stoicism, the ancient Greco/Roman philosophy, that has become the de rigeur set of life hacks among millennial self-optimizers.

    In this episode, guest Nancy Sherman argues that Stoicism is way deeper than any of that. She will argue that, in fact, Stoicism is kind of the opposite of all the above. It's a way to truly know your patterns of thought and emotion.

    Nancy Sherman is a Professor of Philosophy at Georgetown University. She is an expert in ethics, the history of moral philosophy, moral psychology, military ethics, and emotions. Her most recent book is called Stoic Wisdom: Ancient Lessons for Modern Resilience.

    This episode is a rebroadcast from 2021: it's one of our most-listened episodes, and we thought it might be particularly useful in this time of election-related stress.

    In this conversation, we:

    cover the basics of Stoicism,

    how and why capital "S" Stoicism is often misinterpreted,

    a meditation practice called "premeditation of evils," which is far more practical than it may sound,

    and another practice designed to make you feel "at home in the world".

    Content Warning: There is a brief reference to suicide.

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  37. How Mindfulness Can Fix Pretty Much Anything—And How To Be Consistent Without Self-Criticism | Alexis Santos

    30 oktober 2024 · 1 uur 1 min

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    How to get the practice into your molecules—not in some militaristic way, but in a way that feels easy and natural.

    Alexis Santos has been in the field of mindfulness and meditation since 2001. After graduating from Harvard University in 1995, he spent several years in medical school before leaving his chosen career as a doctor to seek out a different path. It was while traveling in India that he was introduced to insight meditation.

    Since that time, Alexis has practiced in many meditative styles and traditions, including with Sayadaw U Tejaniya, the Thai Forest tradition with Ajahn Sumedho, the Tibetan tradition with Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche and within the lay Western insight community where he continues to learn from the growing diversity of voices.

    Alexis's primary teacher has been Sayadaw U Tejaniya, from the Burmese Theravada tradition, and with whom he ordained as a Buddhist monk from 2003 - 2005. Sayadaw encouraged Alexis to teach in 2012. Alexis also completed the Spirit Rock/IMS four-year teacher training program with Jack Kornfield and others, including mentors Joseph Goldstein and Carol Wilson.

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    Alexis teaches meditation at retreat centers around the world. He is featured on the Ten Percent Happier meditation app and is co-founder of Open Door Meditation Community in Portland, Maine where he is a guest teacher.

    Alexis's teaching style is natural and uncrafted. He brings a practical, intuitive and compassionate approach to the development of wisdom.

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    Want to study and practice with Alexis? Visit his website at alexissantos.io where you can join his freely offered online practice sessions.

    He will also be teaching at the Insight Meditation Society from March 5 - 12. When Awareness Becomes Natural: An U Tejaniya-style Insight Meditation Retreat

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  38. If You're Stressed, Anxious, Or Depressed, This Is Your Counterintuitive Medicine | Rabbi Sharon Brous

    28 oktober 2024 · 56 min

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    How optimizing this skill can change your life – and the world.

    Rabbi Sharon Brous has some extremely practical tips for how to improve what psychologists call your social health. She is the senior and founding rabbi of IKAR, a Jewish community in LA. Her new book, a bestseller, is called The Amen Effect: Ancient Wisdom to Heal Our Hearts and Mend Our Broken World.

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  39. The Hidden Secret To Smarter Decision-Making, Better, Relationships, And Lower Stress | Matthew Brensilver, Vinny Ferraro, Kaira Jewel Lingo

    23 oktober 2024 · 1 uur 3 min

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    The Buddhist case — and toolkit — for "don't-know mind."

    For this episode, Executive Producer DJ Cashmere interviewed a trio of brilliant Dharma teachers to get their advice about how to handle being wrong. This is the third in a series of 'correspondent' episodes, in which DJ identifies a pain point in his life and meditation practice, then goes out into the world to report on the best ways to address it.

    Kaira Jewel Lingo is a former nun in the Plum Village tradition started by Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh. Vinny Ferraro teaches at the Insight Meditation Society and Spirit Rock, and also in prisons. Matthew Brensilver teaches at many of the same retreat centers, and spent many years working in the field of addiction pharmacotherapy.

    *Matthew's Dharma talk on Knowing And Not-Knowing

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    Want to study and practice with today's guests? Please check out these Spirit Rock offerings:

    Matthew Brensilver, Buddhist Psychology Training (Begins in January)

    Vinny Ferraro: A Year to Live; Discovering What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully (Begins in January)

    Kaira Jewel Lingo: Healing Our Way Home (Oct. 20); Insight Meditation Retreat (April 9-16; opens Dec. 11)

    All 10% Happier listeners receive a discount code for our December Insight Retreat (Dec. 8-18) with the code TENPERCENT

    & if you'd like to study with these guests on the East Coast, check out these retreats at the Insight Meditation Society:

    Kaira Jewel Lingo, Strength to Love: Honoring Dr. Martin Luther King: Jr. (Jan 17 - Jan 20), and Return to Wholeness: Opening to Wisdom & Love (Mar 23 - Mar 29)

    Vinny Ferraro, Peace in Presence: A Four-Night Retreat for All (Jan 31 - Feb 4)

    Related Episodes:

    Listen to all of DJ's correspondence episodes here

    3 Buddhist Strategies for When the News is Overwhelming | Kaira Jewel Lingo

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  40. How To Move Into The Future With Optimism Instead Of Anxiety | Frederik Pferdt

    21 oktober 2024 · 1 uur 9 min

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    A Stanford innovation expert shares practical tips on future-proofing your mind.

    Frederik Pferdt was Google's first Chief Innovation Evangelist, where founded Google's Innovation Lab. He's also taught classes on innovation and creativity at Stanford University for more than a decade. His new book is called What's Next Is Now: How to Live Future Ready.

    In this episode we talk about:

    Why we are so resistant to change

    How to embrace the unknown

    Why and how to develop compulsive curiosity

    The value of experiments and why we shouldn't fear failure

    What it means to have expansive empathy, and why that can help you develop a future-ready mindset

    And how to identify what he calls your Dimension X—your own unique capacities

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    Book: What's Next Is Now: How to Live Future Ready

    NextLetter (newsletter signup): https://www.frederikgpferdt.com/#nextletter

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/frederikgpferdt/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/fgpferdt/?locale=en_US

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  41. Judd Apatow On: Panic Attacks, His Creative Process, And Why Comedians Are Often So Neurotic

    18 oktober 2024 · 1 uur 18 min

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    Why the man behind "The 40-Year-Old Virgin" is a self-help junkie.

    Judd Apatow is one of the most prolific comedic minds in the industry. Recently, Apatow produced Peacock's buddy comedy Please Don't Destroy: The Treasure of Foggy Mountain and Universal's romcom, Bros, starring and co-written by Billy Eichner. Apatow also directed, produced, and co-wrote with Pam Brady, the Netflix comedy The Bubble and produced and co-directed HBO Films' Emmy®-winning documentary George Carlin's American Dream with Michael Bonfiglio. His Netflix comedy special, Judd Apatow: The Return, released in 2017 and premiered to critical acclaim. Previous director credits include the Emmy®-award-winning documentary, The Zen Diaries of Garry Shandling, The 40-Year-Old Virgin, Knocked Up and The King of Staten Island. He produced Academy Award®-nominated The Big Sick and Bridesmaids, as well as Superbad, Pineapple Express and Anchorman. For television, he executive produced Crashing, Girls, and Freaks and Geeks. Off screen, Apatow authored Sicker in the Head, a follow-up to his New York Times best-seller Sick in the Head.

    In this episode we talk about:

    The role of his parents' bitter divorce in his life and work

    The balance between creativity and ambition

    Why so many comedians are so neurotic

    His creative process, including some gems from the TV writer David Milch

    His relationship to panic, and a hilarious story about freaking out on weed

    The way he's started to understand the different voices inside of him

    His recent experiment with ayahuasca, and what he learned

    And the role of comedy when it feels like the world is on fire

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  42. From "Impolitic With John Heilemann" | Dan Harris: Meditation, Mental Health, Six-Peckered Goats & The 2024 Election

    18 oktober 2024 · 1 uur 13 min

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    Last month, Dan appeared on Impolitic With John Heilemann — the two guys are old friends — to talk through Dan's strategies for staying sane in the homestretch of this anxiety-fueled, agitation-inducing, existentially unnerving election; why failure is often more productive and profitable (mentally, emotionally, spiritually) than success; how to maintain a sense of calm, balance, and serenity while working harder than, in Dan's phrase, a "six-peckered goat;" and the career earthquake that's led to the big recent changes you've all heard about in the 10% Happier empire. Dan thought that the conversation was terrific, so he asked John if he could offer it to his followers—et voila, here it is! If this taste of John whets your appetite for more, please follow Impolitic With John Heilemann for a twice-weekly all-you-can-eat buffet of fresh, candid, no-holds-barred conversations with the people who shape our politics and culture. Thanks for listening, hope you enjoy, and namaste. Lees meer
  43. Resisting What You Don't Want To Feel Just Makes It Worse. Here's A Different Strategy. | Ofosu Jones-Quartey and Cara Lai

    16 oktober 2024 · 58 min

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    What you resist persists. Buddhist strategies for acceptance and equanimity.

    Ofosu Jones-Quartey, a meditation teacher, author, and musician hailing from the Washington DC area brings over 17 years of experience in sharing mindfulness, meditation and self-compassion practices with the world. Holding a bachelor's degree from American University and certified by the Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program, Ofosu is a graduate of the Teleos Coaching Institute and is the male voice on the Balance meditation app, reaching over 10 million subscribers.

    Ofosu leads meditation classes and retreats nationwide, having taught and led retreats at the Insight Meditation Community of Washington, The Insight Meditation Society, Spirit Rock, Brooklyn Zen Center, Cleveland Insight, Inward Bound Mindfulness and more.

    As an accomplished hip hop artist under the name "Born I," Ofosu released the mindfulness-themed album "In This Moment" in 2021. His most recent album is "AMIDA", a spiritual, Lo-Fi Hip Hop album exploring life, death and his Buddhist faith.

    Beyond music, Ofosu is an author. His self-published children's book "You Are Enough" debuted in 2020 and his next work "Love Your Amazing Self" via Storey Publishing in 2022. Ofosu's latest book: "Lyrical Dharma: Hip Hop as Mindfulness" will be released in 2025 via Parallax Press.

    Ofosu lives in Rockville, Maryland, with his wife and four children.

    Cara Lai has worked as an artist, wilderness guide, social worker, and therapist before becoming a full time meditation teacher. She teaches teens and adults at Spirit Rock, Insight Meditation Society, and Ten Percent Happier.

    To find out more about what Cara does, you can go to her website, www.caralai.org – where she's got some online meditation classes, including one called Meditate Your Face Off. She also has a monthly class for parents, co-l…

  44. How To Feel Less Enraged And Hopeless When You Consume The News | Sharon McMahon

    14 oktober 2024 · 1 uur 19 min

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    "America's Government Teacher" has smart tips for staying calm in turbulent times.

    After years of serving as a high school government and law teacher, Sharon McMahon took her passion for education to Instagram, where more than a million people (who affectionately call themselves "Governerds") rely on her for non-partisan, fact-based information.

    Sharon is also the host of the award-winning podcast, Here's Where It Gets Interesting, where, each week, she provides entertaining yet factual accounts of America's most fascinating moments and people. In addition, she is the author of The Preamble, a Substack newsletter about politics and history.

    In this episode we talk about:

    How to avoid being 'confidently wrong'

    How we often get confused between our opinions and our identity—which makes it very hard to change our opinions

    The importance of having a diverse media diet

    Tips for consuming the news without driving yourself nuts

    How to have compassion for people who we completely disagree with

    How history can be a balm for hopelessness—an antidote for when we're tempted to conclude that things have never been worse

    How everyday people have way more power than we think

    And why hope is a choice.

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  45. From The Happiness Lab: World Mental Health Day with The Titans of Happiness

    10 oktober 2024 · 1 uur 2 min

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    October 10th is World Mental Health Day - and to mark the event, Yale professor Dr Laurie Santos of The Happiness Lab podcast has assembled a crew of fellow hosts from the top wellness shows, a group we're calling The Titans of Happiness. Lees meer

    Dr Joy Harden Bradford is a clinical psychologist and host of the podcast Therapy for Black Girls.

    Gretchen Rubin is the OG of wellbeing experts. She's written many best-selling happiness books - most recently Life in Five Senses and hosts Happier with Gretchen Rubin.

    Dan Harris was a TV news anchor who - after having a panic attack live on air - promoted mindfulness meditation practices on his hit show 10% Happier.

    And since she wanted this to be an extra special episode, Dr Laurie invited one extra, extra special guest, Sesame Street's Elmo. Elmo's only three and half, so Samantha Maltin (Chief Branding and Marketing Officer at Sesame Workshop) came along with him.

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  46. What To Do When When Someone's Pissed At You | Matthew Brensilver, Vinny Ferraro, Kaira Jewel Lingo

    9 oktober 2024 · 1 uur 9 min

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    How to handle other people's anger—and the anger that their anger might trigger in you.

    For this episode, Executive Producer DJ Cashmere interviewed a trio of brilliant Dharma teachers to get their advice about how to handle anger. This is the second in a series of 'correspondent' episodes, in which DJ identifies a pain point in his life and meditation practice, then goes out into the world to report on the best ways to address it.

    Kaira Jewel Lingo is a former nun in the Plum Village tradition started by Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh. Vinny Ferraro teaches at the Insight Meditation Society and Spirit Rock, and also in prisons. Matthew Brensilver teaches at many of the same retreat centers, and spent many years working in the field of addiction pharmacotherapy.

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    How to Keep Your Relationships On the Rails | Kaira Jewel Lingo

    Three Buddhist Practices For Getting Your Sh*t Together | Vinny Ferraro

    Why Self-Hatred Makes No Sense | Matthew Brensilver

    How to Actually Be Present | Matthew Brensilver

    How to Speak Clearly, Calmly, and Without Alienating People | Dan Clurman and Mudita

    Brené Brown Says You're Doing Feelings Wrong

    Dolly Chugh, How Good People Fight Bias

    The Many Benefits of a "Paradox Mindset" | Dolly Chugh

    Also, the teachers' sites:

    https://vinnyferraro.org/

    Vinny Ferraro's Course, A Year To Live

    https://www.kairajewel.com/

    https://www.matthewbrensilver.org/

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  47. Conflict Is Normal. Here's How To Keep It Healthy And Avoid Disaster. | Amanda Ripley

    7 oktober 2024 · 1 uur 12 min

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    Amanda Ripley is a New York Times bestselling author, a Washington Post contributing columnist, and the co-founder of Good Conflict, a media and training company that helps people reimagine conflict. She has written three award-winning, nonfiction books about three very different subjects: High Conflict, The Smartest Kids in the World, and The Unthinkable.

    In this episode we talk about:

    The key differences between healthy conflict and high conflict

    Five key steps for getting out of or avoiding high conflict

    Why it's a golden age for so-called conflict entrepreneurs; and how to spot them in your orbit

    'Looping' – a key technique that changed Amanda's life (and Dan's)

    How to set good boundaries while not giving up on people

    One of the most reliable antidotes to all forms of bias, something called contact theory

    Thoughts on how to interact with the news and social media during a presidential election

    The very good reasons to avoid humiliating your opponent. She calls humiliation the nuclear bomb of emotions

    And much more

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  48. Six Buddhist Practices To Stay Calm In A Tumultuous World | Kaira Jewel Lingo, Valerie Brown and Marisela Gomez

    2 oktober 2024 · 54 min

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    This stuff can be done by anyone, anywhere, anytime.

    Kaira Jewel Lingo, a frequent flier on this show, was an ordained Buddhist nun for 15 years. Now she lives in New York, writes books, and teaches meditation all over the world. Valerie Brown is a former lawyer and lobbyist who traded in her high-pressure job to teach the dharma. She also works as an executive coach. And Marisela Gomez is a physician, public health scholar and longtime meditator.

    All three guests come out of Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh's Plum village tradition. They also are the co-authors of the new book Healing Our Way Home: Black Buddhist Teachings on Ancestors, Joy, and Liberation.

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  49. Optimize This: If You Care About Mental And Physical Health, This May Be The Missing Piece | Kasley Killam

    30 september 2024 · 1 uur 10 min

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    Up until now, in our culture, we've generally talked about physical health and mental health–but there's an emerging consensus that the missing piece is social health.

    But what can you actually do to improve your social health? Today we're going deep with the scientist who has thought a lot about this, and has a ton of good advice.

    Kasley Killam, MPH, is a leading expert in social health and the award-winning author of The Art and Science of Connection: Why Social Health is the Missing Key to Living Longer, Healthier, and Happier. As a graduate of the Harvard School of Public Health, sought-after advisor and keynote speaker, and founder of Social Health Labs, Killam has been improving global well-being through connection for over a decade. Her collaborations with organizations like Google, the US Department of Health and Human Services, and the World Economic Forum contribute to building more socially healthy products, workplaces, and communities. Killam's insights can be found in outlets such as The New York Times, Forbes, NPR, Scientific American, Psychology Today, and The Washington Post.

    In this episode we talk about:

    Why social health is so important, and how it impacts our physical and mental health

    How to figure out what your social style is

    Tips for strengthening your social muscles

    What you can do to boost your social health muscles

    How much vulnerability is appropriate

    How to have a healthy relationship with yourself

    How legislation could help with social health

    Emerging industries for social fitness

    And lastly, how we can work towards creating a society that cultivates connection

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  50. From "Good Inside with Dr. Becky": If You Think You're Bad at Meditation, Dan Harris Says You're Doing it Right

    27 september 2024 · 40 min

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    Even if you don't consider yourself an anxious person, once you become a parent, it is easy to start worrying about the health and wellbeing of your child. But parents need to learn to manage their anxiety for themselves and their kids. To celebrate the 10th anniversary of his book, 10% Happier, Dan Harris joins Dr. Becky to dispel some of the myths about meditation and to show parents how meditation can be a practical strategy in their everyday lives.

    Check out Dr. Becky's appearance on the 10% Happier Podcast here.