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What To Do When You're Angry | Matthew Brensilver, Vinny Ferraro, Kaira Jewel Lingo
25 september 2024 · 1 uur 12 min
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A deep dive on one of the thorniest and most destructive states of mind.
For this episode, Executive Producer DJ Cashmere interviewed a trio of brilliant Dharma teachers to get their advice about how to handle anger. This is the first in a series of 'correspondent' episodes, in which DJ identifies a pain point in his life and meditation practice, then goes out into the world to report on the best ways to address it.
Kaira Jewel Lingo is a former nun in the Plum Village tradition started by Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh. Vinny Ferraro teaches at the Insight Meditation Society and Spirit Rock, and also in prisons. Matthew Brensilver teaches at many of the same retreat centers, and spent many years working in the field of addiction pharmacotherapy.
Related Episodes:
3 Buddhist Strategies for When the News is Overwhelming | Kaira Jewel Lingo
How to Keep Your Relationships On the Rails | Kaira Jewel Lingo
Three Buddhist Practices For Getting Your Sh*t Together | Vinny Ferraro
Why Self-Hatred Makes No Sense | Matthew Brensilver
How to Actually Be Present | Matthew Brensilver
The Voice in Your Head | Ethan Kross
I Just Went Through A Career Earthquake: This Is What's Next.
How to Repair the Damage After a Fight | Dr. Becky Kennedy
Get Happier Without Losing Your Edge | Kamala Masters
Best of the Archives: Making it RAIN | Tara Brach
Kryptonite for the Inner Critic | Kristin Neff
Also, the teachers' sites:
https://vinnyferraro.org/
https://legacy.spiritrock.org/a-year-to-live
https://www.kairajewel.com/
https://www.matthewbrensilver.org/
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Dr. Sanjay Gupta On The 5 Pillars Of Brain Health
23 september 2024 · 1 uur 14 min
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Dr. Sanjay Gupta is the multiple Emmy Award-winning chief medical correspondent for CNN and host of the CNN podcast Chasing Life. Gupta, a practicing neurosurgeon, plays an integral role in CNN's reporting on health and medical news for all of CNN's shows domestically and internationally. In addition to his work for CNN, Gupta is an associate professor of neurosurgery at Emory University Hospital and associate chief of neurosurgery at Grady Memorial Hospital in Atlanta. He is the author of four New York Times best-selling books, "Chasing Life" (2007), "Cheating Death" (2009), "Monday Mornings" (2012), and "Keep Sharp: Building a Better Brain" (2020).
In this episode we talk about:
Sanjay's origin story and how he got interested in the brain in the first place
The mysteries of consciousness
We dive into his five pillars of brain health
How you can grow new brain cells by moving the body (but in certain ways)
Key skills for challenging your brain
We hear about some meditation tips Sanjay picked up from the Dalai Lama
Whether we should worry alone or with other people
And lastly, why it's so important for men to have vulnerable conversations with each other
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#230: The Power of Rest | Alex Soojung-Kim Pang
#614. Your Brain on Food | Dr. Uma Naidoo
The Science Of Memory: How To Get Better At Remembering And Be Okay With Forgetting | Charan Ranganath
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Tara Brach Has A Counterintuitive Strategy For Navigating Tumultuous Times
18 september 2024 · 1 uur 5 min
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A (potentially challenging) Buddhist recipe handling anxious times.
Tara Brach, a legendary meditation teacher, psychologist, and frequent flier on this show. She is the founder of the Insight Meditation Community of Washington and has been active in bringing meditation into schools, prisons and underserved populations. She has also written several books including Radical Acceptance, Radical Compassion and Trusting the Gold.
In this episode we talk about:
A Buddhist tradition known as the Bodhisattva teachings… which are quite radical… and which Tara thinks can vastly improve your life… and the health of democracy.
We also talk about: why some people might think this stuff is too soft
4 practices to develop compassion
A mindfulness technique known as RAIN
How mindfulness can help you see what is beneath your anger
Letting distress be a portal—and the amazing phrase, "action absorbs anxiety"
How to get active when you have limited time
And how to counteract the tendency to numb out
Tara also recorded a guided meditation based on this conversation, which you can find on www.DanHarris.com.
Related Episodes:
The Dalai Lama's Guide To Happiness
Vitamin E: How To Cultivate Equanimity Amidst Political Chaos | Election Sanity Series | Roshi Joan Halifax
A Counterintuitive Source of Hope | Sebene Selassie
Best of the Archives: Making it RAIN | Tara Brach
Can You Handle This? | Tara Brach
How to Stop the War Against Yourself | Tara Brach
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The Harvard Scientist Who Says You Can Use Your Thoughts To Improve Your Health | Ellen Langer
16 september 2024 · 1 uur 8 min
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The connection between your psychology and your health, and how to work with it.
Ellen J. Langer is the author of eleven books, including the international bestseller
Mindfulness, which has been translated into fifteen languages, and Counterclockwise:
Mindful Health and the Power of Possibility. Most recently, she is the author of The
Mindful Body: Thinking Our Way to Chronic Health.
Langer is the recipient of, among other numerous awards and honors, a Guggenheim
Fellowship, the Award for Distinguished Contributions to Psychology in the Public
Interest from the American Psychological Association, the Award for Distinguished
Contributions of Basic Science to the Application of Psychology from the American
Association of Applied and Preventive Psychology, and the Adult Development and
Aging Distinguished Research Achievement Award from the American Psychological
Association.
She is the author of more than 200 research articles and her trailblazing experiments in
social psychology have earned her inclusion in The New York Times Magazine's "Year
in Ideas" issue. A member of the psychology department at Harvard University and a
painter, she lives in Cambridge, Massachusetts.
In this episode we talk about:
The power of placebos
Why she isn't a fan of positive thinking as it is talked about in new age circles
Her version of mindfulness, which is quite different from the version we usually talk about here on the show, which comes out of Buddhism
Psychological treatments for chronic illness
Smart strategies for reframing aging.
Why the world would be boring if you knew it all
What she means by her concept of a "mindful utopia"
And her favorite one liners
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A Reformed Skeptic Leads A Loving-Kindness Meditation | A Meditation Party Retreat Bonus with Dan Harris
15 september 2024 · 26 min
Recorded live at the Omega Institute, Dan leads us through a loving-kindness meditation, followed by discussion with retreat co-leaders Jeff Warren and Sebene Selassie. Lees meer
For more information on the next upcoming Meditation Party retreat, including scholarships available for BIPOC participants, visit Omega Institute.
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Natasha Rothwell (White Lotus, How To Die Alone) On: Loneliness, Envy, People Pleasing, And Finding Your "Hell Yes"
13 september 2024 · 1 uur 3 min
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Natasha Rothwell created, executive produced, and stars in the highly anticipated series How To Die Alone.
Natasha is best known for her Emmy Nominated performance in HBO's The White Lotus and is set to reprise her role as Belinda Lindsey in the third season of the series currently in production.
She is also known for her critically acclaimed work as a series regular, writer, director, and producer on HBO's Insecure, for which she has won a Peabody Award and received the 2022 NAACP Image Award for Best Supporting Actress in a Comedy.
Having previously written for Saturday Night Live, and after penning screenplays for Netflix, Paramount, and HBO Max— Natasha's original screenplay Black Comic-Con was selected for the 2021 Sundance Screenwriters Lab.
Her genre-bending feature, along with several other projects, are in development at her production company, Big Hattie Productions—founded in 2020 to focus on creating, producing, and developing projects that champion marginalized voices in subversive ways.
In this episode we talk about:
Being alone vs being lonely
How she handles her own tendencies toward people-pleasing and burnout
Working with doubt, faith and the venerable cliche of "trusting in the universe"
Envy (and how it's a partner to the scarcity mindset)
Therapy
Meditation
Why she loves RomComs — and her issues with them
And we go Behind the scenes in a TV writer's room — and why it's even tougher when the character is you
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Kryptonite for the Inner Critic | Kristin Neff
Self-Compassion Ain't Always Soft | Kristin Neff
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I Just Did A 10-Day Silent Meditation Retreat With Joseph Goldstein. Here's What I Learned
11 september 2024 · 1 uur 19 min
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Meditation retreats are the object of much intrigue and even suspicion. So today, we're going to take you inside a 10-day silent meditation retreat that Dan recently did with his teacher, Joseph Goldstein. You'll also hear from Senior Producer, Marissa Schneiderman, who was fresh off a retreat of her own, with meditation teachers Alexis Santos and Andrea Fella.
In this episode we talk about:
The ups and downs of retreats
Some famous Buddhist listicles, including the five hindrances
The importance of repetition
We'll hear snippets of Joseph answering Dan's questions
We find out what "cowboy dharma" is
What it feels like to wear shit colored glasses
How to stop getting caught in a mind trap
And lastly, we listen to voicemails and answer audience questions!
Related Episodes:
Joseph Goldstein On: How Not To Try Too Hard in Meditation, Why You Shouldn't "Waste Your Suffering," and the Value Of Seeing How Ridiculous You Are
#377. A More Relaxed Way to Meditate | Alexis Santos
Everything You Wanted To Know About Meditation Retreats But Were Afraid To Ask | Spring Washam (And Dan's Close Friend, Zev Borow)
#327 Uprooting Your Delusions | Andrea Fella
How to Take Risks (an Experimental Episode) | Marissa Schneiderman
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I Just Went Through A Career Earthquake. Here's What I Learned About Anger, Insomnia, And Bouncing Back | Dan Harris
10 september 2024 · 34 min
In which Dan gets candid about a major life struggle, the practical takeaways, and a big new project. Lees meer
In this episode:
Dan shares news about what's next for him
His strategies and lessons from a big career change including how to deal with conflict, anger and insomnia
What he's learned about the power of self-compassion, the value of failure and how to gain perspective when you need it most
If you'd like to be a member of Dan's new community but a subscription isn't affordable for you, write to free@danharris.com, and we'll hook you up, no questions asked.
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How To Sleep Better | Diane Macedo
Kryptonite for the Inner Critic | Kristin Neff
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Modern Life Numbs You. Here's The Neuroscience Of Waking Up | Tali Sharot
9 september 2024 · 50 min
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It's so easy, especially these days, to numb out. To get bored. To move through life on autopilot. There is even a scientific term for this: habituation.
Today we're talking to a researcher who co-authored a new book about the neuroscience of habit and how to wake up again. To make things exciting. Or as she says, to "re-sparkle".
Tali Sharot is a professor of cognitive neuroscience at University College London and MIT. She's written several books including The Optimism Bias and The Influential Mind. Her latest, co-written with Cass Sunstein, is called Look Again: The Power of Noticing What Was Always There.
In this episode we talk about:
What habituation is and what's going on in the brain when it happens
How it negatively impacts the joy we feel in life – and inversely – how it can make us stop noticing the bad stuff
Key strategies for disrupting habituation and introducing change and variety into your life
The interesting relationship between creativity and people who habituate slowly
How habituation impacts our relationships
Why it's important to break up the good experiences, but swallow the bad whole.
How to wake up from a "technologically induced coma"
How people emotionally habituate to dishonesty and lying
And lastly, we talk about the dangers of habituating to a slow, incremental rise in tyranny – and how dis-habituation entrepreneurs can help
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How Turning Habits Into Rituals Can Help You At Home, At Work, And When You're Anxious | Michael Norton
Making and Breaking Habits, Sanely | Kelly McGonigal
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How to Avoid the Toilet Vortex of Anxiety | Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren
6 september 2024 · 1 uur 1 min
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We also talk about: whether it is possible to be a failed meditator; grief versus mourning; and meditation tips for parents.
Sebene Selassie is a writer, teacher, and speaker who leads meditation, creativity, and nature-based practices for personal & collective liberation. Using ancient wisdom and modern science mixed with her own relational and relatable style, Sebene helps spiritually curious people explore the profound and sacred truth of belonging. She is trained as a meditation teacher, an integral coach, a practitioner of Indigenous Focusing Oriented Therapy for Complex Trauma (IFOT), and is a licensed hiking guide in New York State. She has taught classes, workshops and retreats online and in person for almost fifteen years. Sebene is a devoted student of mystic traditions, including astrology, and writes the popular newsletter Ancestors to Elements. Her first book, You Belong: A Call for Connection, is published by HarperOne.
Jeff Warren is a meditation instructor and writer, known for his dynamic and accessible style of teaching. He is the co-author of The New York Times best-selling Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics, founder of the nonprofit Consciousness Explorers Club, and co-host of the Mind Bod Adventure Pod. Jeff's Do Nothing Project streams for free every Sunday night on YouTube; his guided meditations reach millions of people through the Ten Percent Happier and Calm apps, as well as through his Substack, Home Base.
Jeff's mission is to empower people to care for their mental health, through the realistic, intelligent and sometimes irreverent exploration of meditation and personal growth practices. As someone with both ADHD and bipolar, he is big on destigmatizing mental health issues, and championing a neurodiverse outlook on life and practice.
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Exploring What It Means To "Pay Attention" | A Meditation Party Retreat Bonus With Jeff Warren
6 september 2024 · 44 min
Recorded live at the Omega Institute, Jeff guides us through two different approaches to being attentive to our experience — followed by a discussion with Dan and Sebene. Lees meer
About Jeff Warren:
Jeff makes meditation and practice accessible to diverse audiences in order to help people live more fulfilled and connected lives. He's taught meditation to suspicious journalists, US Army cadets, burned-out caregivers, Arizona cops, formerly-incarcerated youth, virtuoso popstars, distractible teens, and every other conceivable demographic of freethinker, including squirmy six-year old kids. He tries to do this in a way that's rigorous and clear and adventurous. You can find out more about him at jeffwarren.org.
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How And Why To Avoid The Siren Call Of Cynicism | Dr. Jamil Zaki
2 september 2024 · 1 uur 14 min
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This Stanford psychologist has evidence that being a cynic is bad for your health, and offers a non-corny alternative.
Dr. Jamil Zaki is a professor of psychology at Stanford University and the director of the Stanford Social Neuroscience Lab. He's the author of The War for Kindness: Building Empathy in a Fractured World, and his new book is called Hope for Cynics: The Surprising Science of Human Goodness.
In this episode we talk about:
What cynicism is, and why it's so appealing
His own history as a "recovering cynic,"
How to know if you yourself are a cynic
A step-by-step guide to start developing the "hopeful skeptic" mindset
How to get better at disagreeing with other people, including some rules of engagement
And how to encourage kids not to become cynical
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How (and Why) to Hack Your Empathy | Jamil Zaki
Reversing the Golden Rule | Jamil Zaki
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A Buddhist Recipe for Handling Turmoil | Kaira Jewel Lingo
28 augustus 2024 · 50 min
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We all know that change is inevitable and impermanence is non-negotiable. But somehow it can feel surprising, maybe even wrong, when we personally hit turbulence. The Buddha had a lot to say about this, and so does our guest.
Kaira Jewel Lingo is a Dharma teacher who has a lifelong interest in blending spirituality and meditation with social justice. Having grown up in an ecumenical Christian community where families practiced a new kind of monasticism and worked with the poor, at the age of twenty-five she entered a Buddhist monastery in the Plum Village tradition and spent fifteen years living as a nun under the guidance of Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh. She received Lamp Transmission from Thich Nhat Hanh and became a Zen teacher in 2007, and is also a teacher in the Vipassana Insight lineage through Spirit Rock Meditation Center. Today she sees her work as a continuation of the Engaged Buddhism developed by Thich Nhat Hanh as well as the work of her parents, inspired by their stories and her dad's work with Martin Luther King Jr. on desegregating the South.
In addition to writing We Were Made for These Times: Skilfully Moving through Change, Loss and Disruption, she is also the editor of Thich Nhat Hanh's Planting Seeds: Practicing Mindfulness with Children. Now based in New York, she teaches and leads retreats internationally, provides spiritual mentoring, and interweaves art, play, nature, racial and earth justice, and embodied mindfulness practice in her teaching. She especially feels called to share the Dharma with Black, Indigenous, and People of Color, as well as activists, educators, youth, artists, and families. Her newest book, co-written with Marisela B. Gomez and Valerie Brown, is Healing Our Way Home: Black Buddhist Teachings on Ancestors, Joy, and Liberation.
In this episode we talk about:
waking up to what's happening right now
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The Science of Handling Uncertainty | Maya Shankar
26 augustus 2024 · 1 uur
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Cognitive scientist Maya Shankar talks about how to get comfortable with uncertainty in an ever-changing world.
It seems like a design flaw in our species that we live in a world of constant change yet most of us are not comfortable with uncertainty.
In this episode, we talk to Maya Shankar about how to get better at dealing with change and to stop seeking what scientists call "cognitive closure."
Shankar is a former Senior Advisor in the Obama White House, where she founded and served as Chair of the White House Behavioral Science Team. She also served as the first Behavioral Science Advisor to the United Nations, and is currently a Senior Director of Behavioral Economics at Google. She is the host of the Pushkin Industries podcast A Slight Change of Plans, which was named Best Show of the Year in 2021 by Apple.
In this episode we talk about:
Why humans are so uncomfortable with uncertainty and change
What a behavioral scientist actually does in the world
Why even the host of a podcast about change isn't immune to the uncertainties of life
The benefits of cultivating a more malleable sense of self
Why humans are such bad forecasters
The importance of auditing yourself when you're undergoing a big change
How to take advantage of big reset moments
The concept of cognitive closure and why encouraging an open mind can make us more resilient
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Where to find Maya Shankar online:
Website: mayashankar.com
Social Media:
Twitter
Facebook
Instagram
Books Mentioned:
The Language Instinct: How the Mind Creates Language
Nudge: Improving Decisions about Health, Wealth, and Happiness
Stumbling on Happiness
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From Wild Card with Rachel Martin: Taylor Tomlinson
23 augustus 2024 · 31 min
There's a great podcast we want to introduce you to today, hosted by our friend Rachel Martin at NPR. It's her new show, called Wild Card, which she describes as "part-interview, part-existential game show." It's a different way of approaching a celebrity interview, with a special deck of cards that helps shape the conversation. It's a really fun show, and she talks to some really big names, including David Lynch, LeVar Burton, Issa Rae, and US Poet Laureate Ada Limon. Lees meer
Rachel was also a guest on this very podcast recently, and we had a great conversation and even played a little bit of the card game, so go back in your podcast feed and check that out. You can also listen to it here.
The Wild Card episode we're sharing with you today features Taylor Tomlinson, who has found the kind of success many comedians dream about, with multiple Netflix specials and a late-night hosting gig — After Midnight on CBS. She tells Rachel that part of the secret to her success is fear. They also swap stories about their Christian upbringings, the search for validation and getting things stuck up their noses.
So enjoy this episode, and check out Wild Card wherever you find your podcasts.
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A Buddhist Recipe For Confidence | Ethan Nichtern
21 augustus 2024 · 1 uur 11 min
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Cultivating resilience in the face of whatever comes up.
Ethan Nichtern is the author of Confidence: Holding Your Seat through Life's Eight Worldly Winds and several other titles, including the widely acclaimed The Road Home: A Contemporary Exploration of the Buddhist Path. A renowned contemporary Buddhist teacher and the host of The Road Home Podcast, Nichtern has offered meditation and Buddhist psychology classes at conferences, meditation centers, yoga studios, and universities, including Brown, Yale, and NYU. He has been featured by CNN, NPR, the New York Times, Vogue, and Business Insider and has written for the Huffington Post, Beliefnet, Lion's Roar, Tricycle, Buddhadharma, and more. He lives in Brooklyn. Visit him online at http://www.EthanNichtern.com.
In this episode we talk about:
Authentic vs performative confidence
The line between humility and confidence
A Buddhist list called the Eight Worldly Winds
A slew of little practices you can do in order to boost your confidence (or resilience or equanimity)
The meaning of self-confidence in a tradition that argues the self is an illusion
Related Episodes:
A Buddhist Approach to Money Worries | Ethan Nichtern
The Dharma of the Princess Bride | Ethan Nichtern
How To Get Ahead At Work, Buddhist-Style | David Nichtern
#574. Do You Feel Like an Imposter? | Dr. Valerie Young (Co-Interviewed by Dan's Wife, Bianca!)
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Why Your Brain Turns The Miraculous Into The Mundane—And How To Fix It | Maria Popova
19 augustus 2024 · 1 uur 12 min
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Smart and practical strategies for living, in Maria's words, wonder-smitten by reality.
Maria Popova thinks and writes about our search for meaning — sometimes through science and philosophy, sometimes through poetry and children's books, always through the lens of wonder. She is the creator of The Marginalian (born in 2006 under the name Brain Pickings), which is included in the Library of Congress permanent digital archive of culturally valuable materials, author of Figuring, and maker of the live show The Universe in Verse — a charitable celebration of the wonder of reality through stories of science winged with poetry, which is now also a book.
In this episode we talk about:
Wonder as a tool for improving all of your relationships
The tyranny of the word should
How the hardest thing in life is not getting what you want, it's knowing what you want
Why she doesn't believe in making meditation a tool, even though she's been practicing for 14 years
The illusion of certainty
The immense value of intellectual humility
Strategies for outgrowing your old habits
Her new book, The Universe in Verse, which is a combination of science and poetry
From The Marginalian: How to Love the World More: George Saunders on the Courage of Uncertainty
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The Science Of Getting Out Of Your Head | Annie Murphy Paul
George Saunders on: "Holy Befuddlement" and How to Be Less of a "Turd"
The Profound Upside of Self-Diminishment | George Saunders
A Radical Approach to Productivity, Self-Compassion Series | Jocelyn K. Glei
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NPR's Rachel Martin On: Surviving The News, Making A Huge Career Pivot, And Hosting A Metaphysical Game Show
14 augustus 2024 · 1 uur 12 min
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The radio stalwart addresses life's biggest questions.
Rachel Martin is the co-creator and host of the podcast Wild Card, an interview game show about life's biggest questions. She invites notable guests to play a card game that lets them open up about the memories, insights, and beliefs that have shaped their lives.
Martin spent six years as a host of Morning Edition, and was the founding host of NPR's award-winning morning news podcast Up First. She previously hosted Weekend Edition Sunday. She served as National Security Correspondent for NPR, where she covered both defense and intelligence issues, and also worked as a NPR foreign correspondent. Martin also previously served as NPR's religion correspondent.
In this episode we talk about:
How to survive the news
How to make a huge career pivot
What it's like to become an orphan as an adult
Insomnia and meditation
How to decide what matters in your life
We play the game Wild Card!
We talk about how good we are at being wrong
And lastly, something light… mortality and the infinite universe.
Related Episodes:
3 Buddhist Strategies for When the News is Overwhelming | Kaira Jewel Lingo
How To Find Meaningful Work in a Rapidly Changing World | Bruce Feiler
Why We Panic: A Journalist Investigates Anxiety, Fear, and How To Deal With It | Matt Gutman
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The Gulf Between Your Internal Life And How The World Sees You | Anna Marie Tendler
12 augustus 2024 · 1 uur 5 min
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Lessons learned from the psychiatric hospital
We've got a fascinating and very personal discussion today about the often very painful gap between the way you feel on the inside and the way the world perceives you. We also cover the urgency and difficulty of sitting with your own discomfort.
Anna Marie Tendler is an artist and writer. She is also the author of a new memoir called 'Men Have Called Her Crazy'.
In this episode we talk about:
The circumstances of her checking into a psychiatric hospital in 2021
The difference between our interior emotions and our exterior selves
The help she found through Dialectical Behavior Therapy – DBT
We dive into a very specific theme of the book – and its title – the insidious ways in which men have impacted her life.
And lastly, how she found a way to sit with discomfort and pain, while showing up in the world authentically to herself.
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The Science Of Speaking Up For Yourself | Elaine Lin Hering (Co-interviewed by Dan's wife Bianca!)
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Eight Things I'm Doing To Stay Sane During Election Season | Dan Harris
9 augustus 2024 · 27 min
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We're dropping a special/experimental pod today, because we know a lot of you are freaking out about the election — so Dan's going to talk through some strategies he is personally using to keep it together during this turbulent time.
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Podcast episode with Bill Doherty (Braver Angels)
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Jeff Tweedy (From Wilco) On: Music As A Lifeline, Shame, Schadenfreude, And Freaking Out On Weed
9 augustus 2024 · 42 min
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Dan dweebs out with a dad rock icon.
Jeff Tweedy is the lead singer and songwriter of the Grammy award winning rock band, Wilco. The band have put out 13 albums… and shortly after this interview was conducted, the band put out a new EP. Jeff has released two solo albums and has written three books, including his latest, which is called World Within A Song: Music That Changed My Life And Life That Changed My Music.
This interview is part of an occasional series we do called Boldface, where we talk to well known people who are willing to go there. We've already dropped two Boldface episodes this week: the rapper and author Common and the actress, activist and author Goldie Hawn.
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A Candid Conversation With The Rapper Common On: Self-Worth, Fitness, Trauma, And The Evolution Of Vulnerability In Hip-Hop
7 augustus 2024 · 55 min
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This multi-hyphenate opens up about his four pillars of health and success
Common is an Oscar, Golden Globe, Emmy, and Grammy Award–winning music artist. He is an actor and producer, and has appeared in numerous critically acclaimed films, as well as hit TV series. He is the author of One Day It'll All Make Sense and Let Love Have the Last Word, which were both New York Times bestsellers. He was raised in Chicago and currently resides in Brooklyn.
In this episode we talk about:
Common's relationship with self esteem growing up, and where he eventually found his own self worth.
What it's like dealing with rejection as an artist
His book 'And Then We Rise'
The four different wellness pillars in his book; food, the body, the mind, and the soul
The positive impact that therapy has had on his life
What his meditation practice looks like
The evolution of vulnerability in hip hop
The evolution of vulnerability in his life
And his relationship with spirituality
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#311 Karamo: How To Actually Do Self-Love
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Goldie Hawn On: "Brain Breaks," Curiosity, And How To Make A Romantic Relationship Last For 30 Years
5 augustus 2024 · 1 uur 4 min
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Don't be fooled by the bubbly public persona.
Goldie Hawn is an Academy Award winning actress, producer, director, and best-selling author. She's written two best-selling books, a memoir called A Lotus Grows in the Mud and then, more recently, 10 Mindful Minutes, which is for kids and parents. She is also the Founder of MindUP, a charity that equips children with mental fitness.
In this episode we talk about:
How she got interested in meditation — a story that, like Dan's, involves panic attacks
The power of curiosity
What she means when she talks about God
What it means to take a "brain break"
Why jealousy has never really been part of her repertoire
And how to make a romantic relationship last.
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What It's Like To Do A Year-Long Silent Meditation Retreat—By Yourself | Cara Lai
31 juli 2024 · 1 uur 17 min
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Cara Lai has worked as an artist, wilderness guide, social worker, and therapist before becoming a full time meditation teacher. She teaches teens and adults at Spirit Rock, Insight Meditation Society, and Ten Percent Happier.
To find out more about what Cara does, you can go to her website, www.caralai.org – where she's got some online meditation classes, including one called Meditate Your Face Off. She also has a monthly class for parents, co-led by Ofosu Jones-Quartey and Jess Morey, both of whom have been heard on this podcast.
Speaking of podcasts, Cara also co-hosts a podcast called Adventures in Meditating (For Parents), along with Jess Morey and Jon Roberts.
Cara will also be a core teacher for a 14-week residential semester program for youth ages 18-32 this Fall in Marlboro VT. The program is called the Contemplative Semester, and there are many folks who will be teaching who have been in the TPH orbit, including Joseph Goldstein, Sharon Salzberg, Jessica Morey, Kaira Jewel Lingo, and more. You can find more info at www.contemplativesemester.org
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How Turning Habits Into Rituals Can Help You At Home, At Work, And When You're Anxious | Michael Norton
29 juli 2024 · 1 uur 15 min
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A Harvard professor on how to elevate everyday activities in order to lift your mood, improve your relationships and rise to new challenges.
Michael Norton is the Harold M. Brierley Professor of Business Administration at the Harvard Business School. He has studied human behavior as it relates to love and inequality, time and money, and happiness and grief. He is the author of The Ritual Effect: From Habit to Ritual, Harness the Surprising Power of Everyday Actions.
In this episode we talk about:
The difference between habits and rituals
How rituals impact various spheres of life, including creativity, grief and politics - and how not all rituals are beneficial
how to transform your everyday activities into rituals and how they can inject meaning into your life and give a boost to your relationships
How to introduce rituals into your workplace without falling back on cliché (like trust falls)
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How to Change Your Habits | Katy Milkman — Ten Percent Happier
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From Ted Talks Daily: The Benefits Of Not Being A Jerk To Yourself
26 juli 2024 · 15 min
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After over two decades as an anchor for ABC News, an on-air panic attack sent Dan Harris's life in a new direction: he became a dedicated meditator and, to some, even a guru. But then an anonymous survey of his family, friends and colleagues turned up some brutal feedback -- he was still kind of a jerk. In a wise, funny talk, he shares his years-long quest to improve his relationships with everyone (starting with himself) and explains the science behind loving-kindness meditation, and how it can boost your resiliency, quiet your inner critic and simply make you more pleasant to be around.
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A Buddhist Antidote To Fear And Anxiety | Devin Berry
24 juli 2024 · 1 uur 8 min
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The two practices that helped turn this self described scowling, sarcastic skeptic into an expert meditator
Since 1999, Devin Berry has been a dedicated meditation practitioner, his practice is deeply rooted in the metta and vipassana teachings of the Insight Meditation tradition. He spent nearly five years in silent, intensive retreats, cultivating his practice and understanding. Devin is deeply committed to the personal and collective liberation of marginalized communities, believing that integrating reflection and insight leads to clarity and wisdom, which in turn fosters wise action.
Devin is a dharma teacher at Spirit Rock and the Insight Meditation Society (IMS), where he serves as a guiding teacher. He also shares his teachings through Sounds True and at various sanghas and centers across the country.
In this episode we talk about:
Why mindfulness alone is not enough
How metta is part of four related mental skills, called the brahma viharas—and how to practice those
The story of how and why the Buddha invented the Metta practice.
The role and practice of Dana – generosity.
Devin's year long Metta/Dana experiment
And lastly, how these practices can help us on and off the cushion
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Mike D On: The Value of Failure, the Addictive Power of Adrenaline, and How a Beastie Boy Got Into Lovingkindness
Everything You Wanted To Know About Meditation Retreats But Were Afraid To Ask | Spring Washam (And Dan's Close Friend, Zev Borow)
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The Science Of Manifestation: Can This Stanford Neuroscientist Convince A Skeptical Dan To Give It A Shot? | Dr. James R. Doty
22 juli 2024 · 1 uur 16 min
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Our guest today is James R. Doty, a neurosurgeon who has just written a whole book about the science of manifestation – although, as you'll hear him admit, there's very little 'magic' involved in his process.
James R. Doty, M.D. is a Stanford neurosurgeon, neuroscientist, compassion researcher, inventor, entrepreneur, author and philanthropist. He's the founder and director of the Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education (CCARE) at Stanford University.
In this episode we talk about:
Doty's six steps to manifest
His very interesting backstory
The art and science of intention setting and the role of our neural pathways.
How caring can ignite our Parasympathetic nervous system, which in turn can help us manifest better
Practical tips for embedding an intention into our subconscious.
The keys to understanding what we want vs. what we need
And how to 'alert the bloodhound' to harness the full power of your mind
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#425. Compassion Is the Ultimate Tool for the Truly Ambitious | Paul Gilbert
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Mindfulness Without All The Effort | Loch Kelly (Co-Interviewed By Matt Harris)
17 juli 2024 · 1 uur 15 min
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Loch Kelly is an author, psychotherapist, and nondual meditation teacher. Loch has Master's Degrees from both Columbia University and Union Theological Seminary. He has his own app, called Mindful Glimpses. Loch is also a very popular teacher on the Waking Up app, run by friend of show, Sam Harris.
Free 30 days of the Waking Up meditation app: https://www.wakingup.com/tenpercent
Free training and guided meditation pack from Loch Kelly: https://lochkelly.org/cycle-of-dissatisfaction
Related Episodes:
Sam Harris on: Vipassana vs. Dzogchen, Looking for the Looker, and Psychic Powers
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The Science Of Memory: How To Get Better At Remembering And Be Okay With Forgetting | Charan Ranganath
15 juli 2024 · 1 uur 16 min
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A neuroscientist's strategies to help you remember what really matters, and how mood, multitasking and other people can impact our memories
Charan Ranganath is a professor at the Center for Neuroscience and Department of Psychology and director of the Dynamic Memory Lab at the University of California at Davis. He is the author of the New York Times bestselling book Why We Remember: Unlocking Memory's Power to Hold on to What Matters.
In this episode we talk about:
The different kinds of memory that help us function day to day
The impact mood has on memories - not just making them, but recalling them
Why forgetting is not only useful but essential - even if it doesn't always feel like it
Practical tips to help us remember better, including distinctiveness, meaning & organization, planting cues, and chunking
Why making errors is actually one of the best things you can do for learning and memory
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How to Actually Be Present | Matthew Brensilver — Ten Percent Happier
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The Science Of Crying: Evolutionary Roots, Benefits, And Why So Many Of Us Are Uncomfortable With It | Benjamin Perry (Co-hosted By Dr. Bianca Harris)
10 juli 2024 · 1 uur 11 min
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Reverend Benjamin Perry, is the author of Cry, Baby: Why Our Tears Matter. He's the editorial director at Garrett Seminary, Consulting Minister for Public Theology at Middle Church, and editor of the Queer Faith photojournalism series. He has a masters in divinity from Union Theological Seminary.
In this episode we talk about:
Why Doty got interested in this subject, and the rather extraordinary exercise he put himself through
The gender differences on this issue
How vulnerability can be misused or weaponized
The issue of interpersonal relationships when it comes to tears (Bianca and Dan delve into this in regards to their relationship)
How we replay childhood patterns in grownup relationships
The deep connection between crying and shame
The messages we share with our children about crying
How we can reconnect to the emotional parts of ourselves
Related Episodes:
#361 Why Men Armor Up | Daniel Ellenberg
#441. A Thing Most Men Won't Talk About
Vulnerability: The Key to Courage | Brene Brown
The Science Of Speaking Up For Yourself | Elaine Lin Hering (Co-interviewed by Dan's wife Bianca!)
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Why You Always Want More, And How To Fix It | Michael Easter
8 juli 2024 · 1 uur 9 min
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Learning how to thrive with enough.
Michael Easter is the New York Times bestselling author of Scarcity Brain and The Comfort Crisis. He travels the world to uncover practical ideas that help people live healthier, happier, and more remarkable lives. His ideas have been adopted by institutions ranging from the military to professional sports teams to Fortune 500 companies. He also shares his ideas on his popular newsletter, 2% with Michael Easter.
In this episode we talk about:
The evolutionary roots of overconsumption
The challenges of having an ancient brains in a modern world
The Scarcity mindset vs. the abundance mindset
Understanding what Michael calls the "scarcity loop" – and how to apply it to daily life
Tactical ways to work with habits and cravings
Understanding the scarcity loop, how it hooks us, and then how you can unhook using that same loop
And How's Michael's life changed after researching this book
Toward the end, we talk about Michael's previous book, the comfort crisis—and some Practical steps for embracing discomfort
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Abby Wambach On: Grief, Addiction, And Moving From External To Internal Validation
Glennon Doyle is Rethinking Her Relationship to Social Media, Hustle Culture, Intuition, Her Body, and Her Parents
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The Things Nobody's Talking To Jada Pinkett Smith About
5 juli 2024 · 44 min
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On hitting Rock Bottom, de-armoring, and worthiness.
Jada Pinkett Smith is a multifaceted artist whose career spans over 30 years. Raised in Baltimore, she studied dance and theater at the Baltimore School for the Arts before moving to Los Angeles to pursue acting. Her breakthrough came in with the NBC series A Different World, followed by her first feature film, Menace II Society. From there, Pinkett Smith became a global star, appearing in numerous films like The Nutty Professor, Set It Off, The Matrix franchise and the comedic hit Girls Trip.
In addition to her acting work, Pinkett Smith has also executive produced projects such as Karate Kid, Free Angela and All Political Prisoners, The Queen Latifah Show, Red Table Talk, Red Table Talk: The Estefans, as well as Queen Cleopatra and Queen Njinga for Netflix. She expanded her skills further as the host of the Emmy award-winning talk show, Red Table Talk, where she engages in multigenerational discussions about social and cultural issues with her daughter, Willow Smith, and mother, Adrienne Banfield-Norris. She is now heading out on a worldwide book tour to promote her memoir, Worthy (a NYT Bestseller).
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RuPaul On: Surviving Your Family, Overcoming Addiction, And How To Have Fun (Including "Dirty Charades")
3 juli 2024 · 1 uur 21 min
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The Queen of Drag discusses his new memoir, The House of Hidden Meanings, and makes Dan play an R-rated game.
RuPaul Charles became famous in 1993 with the song "Supermodel." Since then, he's put out 18 albums, he's been in more than 50 films and TV shows, including his global hit, "RuPaul's Drag Race." He's put out four books, including his latest, the number one New York Times best seller The House of Hidden Meanings. He's won fourteen Primetime Emmy Awards, and he won a Tony in 2022 for producing the Broadway show A Strange Loop.
In this episode we talk about:
His daily spiritual practices
Talking to his inner child
The challenging family he grew up in
His incredible business idea for a daytime disco for the over-40 set
His definition of wealth, and why he says he's always been rich, even when he had no money
And he ropes Dan into a game of Dirty Charades – which gets a little spicy, so heads-up if you're listening with kids around or have sensitive ears
Other resources mentioned:
RuPaul's Allstora book shop and book club
Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life by Dr. Susan Forward with Craig Buck
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A Star, Utterly Unguarded | Brett Eldredge
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There's No Part Of Your Life You Can't Make More Awesome | Jeff Warren
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Abby Wambach On: Grief, Addiction, And Moving From External To Internal Validation
1 juli 2024 · 52 min
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Plus her definition of the oft-dismissed yet game-changing notion of self-love.
We caught up with Abby Wambach at a really interesting time. She's experiencing grief, for reasons we'll let her explain. And for the first time in her life, she's grieving while sober—which, in itself, is an interesting story, which she will also tell.
As you know, we only talk to famous people on this show if they're willing to really go deep. And it's why we call this recurring series Boldface. And Abby is bolder than most.
We also talk about: moving from external to internal validation, her definition of self-love (a concept in which Dan have a lot of interest, because it's both cheesy and life-changing), the one question that changed her life, how every experience can turn into something positive, and on a related note, why getting arrested for drunk driving was one of the best things that ever happened to her.
Abby Wambach is a two-time Olympic gold medalist, FIFA World Cup Champion, and six-time winner of the U.S. Soccer Athlete of the Year award. She is the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Wolfpack. And, together with her wife Glennon Doyle and sister Amanda Doyle, co-hosts the award-winning, critically acclaimed We Can Do Hard Things podcast.
Related Episodes:
Doing "The Work," Byron Katie
Glennon Doyle is Rethinking Her Relationship to Social Media, Hustle Culture, Intuition, Her Body, and Her Parents
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How to Disentangle from Toxic People | Lindsay C. Gibson
26 juni 2024 · 1 uur 14 min
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Emotionally immature people can wreck your life. One of our most popular guests returns to teach you how to make sure they don't.
Description:
Our relationships are the most important variable in our health and happiness, but they may also be the most difficult. This is especially true when those closest to us turn out to be emotionally immature people.
Lindsay C. Gibson is a clinical psychologist and bestselling author who specializes in helping people identify and deal with emotionally immature people, or EIP's. Her first appearance on our show was one of our most popular episodes of 2022. Now she's back to offer concrete strategies for handling the EIP's in your life, wherever you may find them. Her new book is called Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People.
In this episode we talk about:
A primer on the cardinal characteristics of emotionally immature people (EIP's), how to spot them, and why you might want to
What Lindsay means by "disentangling" from EIP's, and how to do it
What often happens to your own sense of self when you're in relationship (or even just in conversation) with an EIP
How to interact with an EIP
How to prevent brain scramble when you're talking with someone who isn't making any attempt to understand what you're saying
How she reacts when she comes across EIP's in her everyday life
Whether it's possible to have some immature characteristics without being an EIP
Handling your own emotionally immature tendencies
Whether or not EIP's can change
The limits of estrangement
Why she encourages "alternatives to forgiveness"
Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/tph/podcast-episode/lindsay-gibson-791
Book Mentioned:
Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People
Other Resources Mentioned:
Lindsay's first appearance on the Ten Percent Happier Podcast
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How to Deal With Emotionally Immature People (Including Maybe Your Own Parents) | Lindsay C. Gibson
24 juni 2024 · 1 uur 7 min
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Today's guest, Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson, gives advice for dealing with emotionally immature people— whether they are your parents, boss, spouse or childhood friend, she offers practical tools to help navigate these difficult relationships.
Description:
Emotionally immature people (EIP's) are hard to avoid and most of us, if not all of us, have to deal with them at some point in our lives. These interactions can range from mildly annoying to genuinely traumatic, especially if the emotionally immature people in question are our own parents, which is true for an awful lot of us.
Today's guest, clinical psychologist Lindsay C. Gibson, gives advice for dealing with emotionally immature people, whether they're your parents or not. She has written a sleeper hit book on the subject called, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents.
In this episode we talk about:
The signs of emotional immaturity
Whether or not I'm emotionally immature
What happens to children who are raised by emotionally immature parents, including their signature coping strategies
Why adult children of EIP's turn to healing fantasies, and how to let them go
How to cope with emotionally immature parents as an adult
What role compassion should and should not play in your relationship with EIP's
How to heal
Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/lindsay-gibson-2022-rerun
Books Mentioned:
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents
Who You Were Meant to Be: A Guide to Rediscovering Your Life's Purpose
Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents: Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy
Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: Honor Your Emotions, Nurture Your Self,…
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Ted Danson On: Meditation, Marriage, Grief, Joy, And Doing Shrooms With The Cast Of "Cheers"
21 juni 2024 · 1 uur 2 min
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A self-described "silly man" tells us about what's really important in life.
Ted Danson has an acting career spanning over four decades. He rose to prominence in the 1980s with his iconic portrayal of Sam Malone in the long-running sitcom "Cheers," earning him critical acclaim and multiple awards. Danson's charisma and acting prowess have since led him to a myriad of diverse roles, including his Emmy-nominated performances in "Damages" and "Fargo." Most recently, he starred in the existential comedy "The Good Place." Beyond his acting career, Danson is also celebrated for his environmental activism and philanthropy, demonstrating a commitment to making a positive impact beyond the screen. His next venture? A podcast with his old "Cheers" buddy, Woody Harrelson.
In this episode we talk about:
meditation
marriage
hypochondria
grief
what he means when he calls himself a joy junkie
what he learned from being on the TV show "The Good Place"
and that time he did shrooms with his fellow cast members on "Cheers"
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Can You Get Fit Without Self-Loathing? | Cara Lai
19 juni 2024 · 1 uur 6 min
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Practical tips to stop judging yourself, chill out about exercise, and start taking better care of your body – from a Buddhist teacher who learned the hard way.
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It's an urgent question for so many of us: Can we exercise, can we take care of our bodies, without being driven by shame, self-loathing, or noxious comparison to other people?
Our guest today has a unique perspective on this. Cara Lai is a former social worker and psychotherapist who is now a Buddhist teacher. She also used to be a marathoner. But in the last few years, her body has undergone some radical changes, leading her to some hard-won, fascinating, and deeply useful insights about how to strike the balance between taking care of your body and staying sane.
In this episode we talk about:
Practices for that moment when you're getting out of the shower, see yourself in the mirror, and engage in a festival of self-judgment
The surprising things that happened when Cara was forced to stop exercising
A counterintuitive mindfulness practice suggestion for those with exercise routines
When and why you should purposely do things you know are bad for you
Why we often resist 'being in our bodies,' why that's OK, and how to lower the bar on this contemplative cliché–without giving it up
A body-related Buddhist practice she finds to be totally not useful
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Other Resources Mentioned:
The Upside of Desire | Cara Lai
The Anti-Diet | Evelyn Tribole
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The Buddhist Case For Laziness (And How It Can Make You More Productive) | Brother Chân Pháp Hữu
17 juni 2024 · 1 uur 4 min
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What if one of the often overlooked keys to being productive is being lazy? That's the case you will hear made today by Brother Pháp Hữu, a very impressive young zen Buddhist monk.
Brother Pháp Hữu is a senior Dharma teacher in Thich Nhat Hanh's International Plum Village Community and abbot of Upper Hamlet, the monks' community in Plum Village Monastery, a practice center founded by Thich Nhat Hanh in southwest France. Born in Vietnam, he emigrated to Canada as a child. He began training with Thich Nhat Hanh at the age of thirteen when he first entered the monastery to become a monk. Thich Nhat Hanh gave him the name Chân Pháp Hữu, which means "True Dharma Friend." For more than ten years, he accompanied Thich Nhat Hanh on his international teaching tours as his attendant and assistant. Today, Brother Pháp Hữu is deeply committed to building community and continuing Thich Nhat Hanh's legacy, bringing his teachings in particular to businesspeople, families, and young adults. Brother Phap Huu is passionate about basketball, music, and developing new approaches to teamwork, leadership, mentoring and coaching, and is a beloved co-host—with journalist, leadership coach, and workshop facilitator Jo Confino--of the Plum Village podcast, The Way Out is In.
In this episode we talk about:
The origin and purpose of something called Lazy Day
What doing nothing looks like in practicality
Why doing nothing is so hard for people
How you can integrate the wisdom of lazy days into your life, even if you can't carve out a whole day
How laziness in and of itself can be productive and how it allows for a re-examination of our own happiness.
And The geopolitical case for being vs. doing
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Weighing The Extraordinary Benefits And Disturbing Risks Of The New Weight Loss Drugs | Johann Hari
12 juni 2024 · 1 uur 10 min
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On this show, we talk a lot about ways to stop the interpersonal and intrapersonal violence of obsessing about thinness. Today's episode, though, is a bit of a departure… because this whole dynamic and debate has been deeply disrupted by the advent of Ozempic and other new weight loss drugs, which are technically called GLP1s. This is a controversial and touchy subject, to say the least.
Journalist and best-selling author Johann Hari discusses his latest book Magic Pill: The Extraordinary Benefits and Disturbing Risks of the New Weight-Loss Drugs. He believes drugs like Ozempic are the equivalent of the invention of the iPhone – and will impact all of our lives, whether we like it or not, and whether we take them or not. And in Magic Pill, Hari – who somewhat ambivalently takes Ozempic himself – marinates in the complexity of all of this.
This is Hari's third time on the show. He has come on before to discuss his books on distraction and depression—entitled Stolen Focus and Lost Connections.
This is the latest episode of our Get Fit Sanely series. This is the third time we've done Get Fit Sanely, and in this go-round, we'll be covering longevity, exercise, and the Buddhist case for laziness.
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Why You Can't Pay Attention - And How to Think About It | Johann Hari
Fighting Depression with Social Connection | Johann Hari
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The Last Podcast You Ever Need To Hear About Exercise | Shannon Palus
10 juni 2024 · 1 uur 16 min
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Five takeaways from a year's reporting on fitness, and why this journalist says it's time to go easier on yourself.
Shannon Palus is a features editor at Slate covering heath, science, and human interest. In 2023, she edited Slate's year-long fitness column, Good Fit, about exercise. Her writing has also appeared in the New York Times' Wirecutter, Scientific American, and the Atlantic.
In this episode we talk about:
How this conversation changed the way Dan thinks about exercise
Why you shouldn't drive yourself crazy following the latest trends about health and fitness
Why tracking your workouts isn't always helpful - and remembering that there is always the option to "go slow."
The importance of remembering that exercise is not one-size-fits-all
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Can You Get Fit Without Self-Loathing? | Cara Lai — Ten Percent Happier
How to Stop Obsessing Over Your Body and Eat Sanely in a Toxic Culture | Virginia Sole-Smith — Ten Percent Happier
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The Science Of Motivation: How To Make Habits That Actually Stick | T. Morgan Dixon and Dr. Gary Bennett
5 juni 2024 · 1 uur 1 min
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How to overcome inertia and research-backed plans that actually work.
Dr. Gary G. Bennett is Dean of the Trinity College of Arts & Sciences at Duke University. He is also a professor of psychology & neuroscience, global health, medicine, and nursing, and is the founding director of the Duke Digital Health Science Center. He has authored nearly 200 scientific papers and is a past president of the Society of Behavioral Medicine.
T. Morgan Dixon is the co-founder and CEO of Girl Trek, the largest health movement in America for Black women– with over one million members.
Also check out Jeffrey Walker's podcast, System Catalysts, where they did an episode on Morgan and Dr. Bennett.
This is the latest episode of our Get Fit Sanely series. This is the third time we've done Get Fit Sanely, and in this go-round, we'll be covering not only longevity but also ozempic, exercise, and the Buddhist case for laziness.
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The Dharma of Harriett Tubman | Spring Washam
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Longevity Secrets (And Controversies) From The Blue Zones | Dan Buettner
3 juni 2024 · 1 uur 14 min
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Insights from the places on the planet where people apparently live the longest and healthiest lives.
Dan Buettner is an explorer, National Geographic Fellow, and journalist. He has written a series of bestselling books, including The Blue Zones of Happiness and The Blue Zones Kitchen: 100 Recipes for Living to 100. He is also the host of the Netflix show, Live to 100: Secrets of the Blue Zones.
This is the kickoff official interview of our Get Fit Sanely series. (If you missed it, go back and check out the informal chat I posted on Friday with lead producer, DJ Cashmere). This is the third time we've done Get Fit Sanely, and in this go-round, we'll be covering not only longevity but also ozempic, exercise, and the Buddhist case for laziness.
In this episode we talk about:
The origin story of the Blue Zones
The nine common denominators, or Power Nine, to longevity.
The surprising information about much maligned foods such as pasta and bread
Why trying to pursue good health can actually work against you
Why the single most important factor in longevity isn't advertised on instagram
Tips for integrating Blue Zones wisdom into your daily life, including designing a life where you move more naturally
And some of the critiques and controversies surrounding his work
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Our Top Takeaways From A Year Of Trying To Get Fit Sanely | Behind The Scenes with 10% Producer DJ Cashmere
31 mei 2024 · 49 min
Editor's Note (March 2026): This episode contains a brief reference to Peter Attia. Since this episode was published, documents released by the Department of Justice have revealed Peter Attia's connection to Jeffrey Epstein. We find these revelations deeply troubling and do not condone any association with Epstein or his activities. Please know that we have removed our interviews with Peter Attia from our library. Lees meer
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How to pursue fitness without succumbing to the "subtle aggression of self-improvement."
The kickoff episode for the latest installment of an occasional series we do here on the show, called Get Fit Sanely (listen to past – and future – episodes here).
In this candid conversation, managing producer DJ Cashmere talks with Dan about how they manage their mindsets on these issues, and how the interviews we're doing on the subject have and have not impacted them. We'll also preview the guests for this fresh round of Get Fit Sanely, where we cover longevity, Ozempic (and related weight loss drugs), the latest science on exercise, and the Buddhist case for laziness.
The cost of getting lean infographic.
Related Episodes:
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The Science of Self-Compassion | Serena Chen
The Anti-Diet | Evelyn Tribole
3 Buddhist Strategies for When the News is Overwhelming | Kaira Jewel Lingo
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How To Escape Your Brain's Default Mode Network | Zindel Segal and Norman Farb
29 mei 2024 · 1 uur 4 min
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Using your senses to reduce overthinking, turn down the voice in your head, and get out of what these scientists call "the house of habit."
Dr. Zindel Segal is Distinguished Professor of Psychology in Mood Disorders at the University of Toronto Scarborough and a cofounder of Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy. Professor Norman Farb, PhD, is an Associate Professor of Psychology at the University of Toronto Mississauga, where he directs the Regulatory and Affective Dynamics laboratory.
In this episode we talk about:
How the brain's default mode network is essential to our survival but also can keep us stuck in rumination and overthinking
Segal and Farb's simple practice of "sense foraging" and why they say it can help break patterns and thoughts that aren't serving us
The differences and the similarities between sense foraging and mindfulness
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Depression and Anxiety: Your Old Enemies, Your Best Friends | Zindel Segal
Gretchen Rubin on: How To Use Your Five Senses To Reduce Anxiety, Increase Creativity, and Improve Your Relationships
Why You Can't Pay Attention - And How to Think Deeply Again | Johann Hari
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This Neurobiologist Wants You To Ask One Question To Reframe Anxiety, Depression, And Trauma | Dr. Bruce Perry (Co-Interviewed by Dan's Wife, Bianca!)
27 mei 2024 · 1 uur 16 min
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The radical shift in perspective that can come when we change our question from "what's wrong with you" to "what happened to you?"
Dr. Bruce D. Perry, M.D., Ph.D. is the Principal of the Neurosequential Network and a Professor (Adjunct) at the School of Allied Health, Human Services and Sport, La Trobe University, Melbourne, Victoria Australia.
Over the last thirty years, Dr. Perry has been an active teacher, clinician and researcher in children's mental health and the neurosciences holding a variety of academic positions. His work on the impact of abuse, neglect and trauma on the developing brain has impacted clinical practice, programs and policy across the world. Dr. Perry is the author, with Maia Szalavitz, of The Boy Who Was Raised As A Dog, a bestselling book based on his work with maltreated children and Born For Love: Why Empathy is Essential and Endangered. Dr. Perry's most recent book, What Happened to You? Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing (2021), co-authored with Oprah Winfrey, has been translated into 26 languages and has been on the New York Times Bestseller list for over 100 weeks after becoming #1 on the list in April of 2021.
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Deep Genealogy | Spring Washam
Deep, Provocative Success Strategies From the "Yoda of Silicon Valley" | Jerry Colonna
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Rethinking Success | Mia Birdsong
22 mei 2024 · 1 uur 6 min
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Radical advice on rethinking success, individualism, and the American dream.
Mia Birdsong is a pathfinder, culture change visionary, and futurist. She is the founding Executive Director of Next River, a think tank and culture change lab for interconnected freedom. In her book How We Show Up: Reclaiming Family, Friendship, and Community, Mia maps swaths of community life and points us toward the promise of our collective vitality.
In this episode we talk about:
How to build community
What it looks like in her own life
Mutuality vs reciprocity
How to work with resentment and rejection
The etymological connection between friendship and freedom
The transformative power of asking for help
And why she thinks the idea of bootstrapping—or going it alone—is a kind of self-hatred
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What Happened When A Skeptical Reporter Decided To Investigate The Afterlife | Sebastian Junger
20 mei 2024 · 1 uur 12 min
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The surprisingly common experience of near death experiences and what science still can't explain about them.
Sebastian Junger is the #1 New York Times Bestselling author of The Perfect Storm, Fire, A Death in Belmont, War and Tribe, and In My Time of Dying. As an award-winning journalist, a contributing editor to Vanity Fair and a special correspondent at ABC News, he has covered major international news stories around the world, and has received both a National Magazine Award and a Peabody Award.
In this episode we talk about:
Junger's near death experience and the impact it had on him
The conclusions he came to after investigation the possibilities of an afterlife
The mysteries of quantum physics and what they might tell us about life and death
How he believes we can all experience awe on a daily basis
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The Science Of Speaking Up For Yourself | Elaine Lin Hering (Co-Hosted By Dan's Wife, Bianca!)
15 mei 2024 · 1 uur 10 min
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How to find your voice when you need to be heard, learn when it's smart to choose silence, and communicate better with the people who matter most.
Elaine Lin Hering is a former Lecturer on Law at Harvard Law School. She works with organizations and individuals to build skills in communication, collaboration, and conflict management. She has served as the Advanced Training Director for the Harvard Mediation Program and a Managing Partner for Triad Consulting Group. She has worked with coal miners at BHP Billiton, micro-finance organizers in East Africa, mental health professionals in China, and senior leadership at the US Department of Commerce. She is the author of the forthcoming book Unlearning Silence: How to Speak Your Mind, Unleash Talent, and Live More Fully.
In this episode we talk about:
How we learn silence and self-editing
How we often miscalculate the cost-benefit when it comes to speaking up or staying silent
Elaine's four steps to learn how to speak up and find your voice
How we can unintentionally silence others, especially those closest to us, and what to do about it
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Do You Feel Like an Imposter? | Dr. Valerie Young (Co-Interviewed by Dan's Wife, Bianca!)
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