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  1. Rachel Krantz on Non-Monogomy and Spiritual Growth

    27 juli 2022 · 1 uur 15 min

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    Rachel Krantz is one of the three founding editors of Bustle, the recipient of the Peabody Award, the Robert F. Kennedy Center for Justice and Human Rights International Radio Award, The Investigative Reporters and Editors Radio Award, and The Edward R. Murrow Award for her work as an investigative reporter for YR Media. Rachel is also the host of Help Existing, a new interview podcast offering help with different aspects of existence.
    In this episode, Eric and Rachel discuss her book, Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogomy.
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    Her book, Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogomy
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    The difference between Non-Monogomy from Polyamory
    What made her want to try a polyamorous relationship
    The key insights her teacher, a Buddhist monk, helped her realize about her attachment tendencies
    What it means to have compassion with boundaries
    Her surprising experience with jealousy and how it encapsulates so many of the things that humans struggle with
    When leaning into difficult emotions turns from being helpful to masochism
    The questions – What are the symptoms of the love you have in a relationship?
    How important rest is in the pace of life
    The difference between intuition and fear
    Asking will this decision cause more or less suffering?
    Defining gaslighting
    How she learned to love herself
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  2. Mary O'Malley on How to Fall in Love with You

    22 juli 2022 · 1 uur 8 min

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    Mary O’Malley is the author of many books and a speaker and has studied with Patricia Sun, Steven Levine, Jack Kornfield, Pema Chodron, Adyashanti, and more! Since the early 1980’s she has been writing books, speaking to groups, leading retreats, and working with people all over the world.
    In this episode, Eric and Mary O’Malley discuss how to bring awareness and attention to our heart and learn to fall in love with ourselves.
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    Mary O’Malley and I Discuss How to Fall in Love with You and …
    Learning to embrace the difficult makes it lose its power
    Noticing what is here brings awareness and openness
    Our minds are a tool for maneuvering reality, but are not reality
    How our challenges will be our teachers if we let them
    Understanding that our heart is connected to everything and is the doorway to freedom
    Her course, “Falling in Love With You”
    How your home is your heart
    The pathways back to YOU
    What you try to control, controls you
    One of our core addictions is fixing ourselves
    The difference between meeting and feeling our feelings
    How attention heals
    The importance finding curiosity in your immediate experience
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  3. Kute Blackson on The Magic of Surrender

    20 juli 2022 · 1 uur 6 min

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    Kute Blackson is an inspirational speaker and transformational teacher. Born in Ghana, West Africa, Kute’s multicultural upbringing as the child of a Japanese mother and a Ghanaian father has spanned four different continents. His unique lineage lay the foundation for his approach to breaking down barriers and unlocking an individual’s true gifts and greatness. He now speaks at countless events around the world, is a member of the Transformational Leadership Council, and was the winner of the 2019 Unity New Thought Walden Award.
    In this episode, Eric and Kute Blackson discuss his book, The Magic of Surrender: Finding the Courage to Let Go.
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    Kute Blackson and I Discuss The Magic of Surrender and …
    His book, The Magic of Surrender: Finding the Courage to Let Go
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    The importance of connecting with who we really are underneath the patterns and stories we’ve built as we grow up
    Is what I believe about myself and what I believe about life fact or a story?
    The value of a guide or coach to help you see things about yourself that you may not be seeing
    How all lessons are repeated until learned
    That meeting ourselves with compassion allows us to let go of outdated coping mechanisms
    The difference between surrendering and succumbing to our feelings
    All feelings remain present until fully felt
    When you take the label off the feeling, it’s an energy and sensation that can be experienced in your body
    How grief can actually break our hearts open to a new way of being, a new dimension of love and strength
    What surrender is and isn’t
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  4. Carl Erik Fisher on The History of Addiction

    15 juli 2022 · 1 uur 8 min

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    Carl Erik Fisher is an addiction physician, bioethics scholar, and author He is an assistant professor of clinical psychiatry at Columbia University and also hosts the podcast “Flourishing After Addiction”
    In this episode, Eric and Carl Erik Fisher discuss his book, The Urge: Our History of Addiction.
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    Carl Erik Fisher and I Discuss The History of Addiction and …
    His book, The Urge: Our History of Addiction.
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    Recognizing the paradigm of disordered choice in addiction
    The different approaches to understanding choices for addicts
    Psychological flexibility and how
    Society’s categorical views of treatment approaches to addiction
    Placebo effects in treating addiction
    The dangers of labeling “good” drugs and “bad” drugs
    Drug policies and why there is no simple formula for treating addiction
    How addiction is part of the human condition
    Defining recovery capital
    Understanding there are many different pathways to recovery
    The step care model and one size fits all model of recover
    The spiritual practice that he developed in recovery
    Knowing that the key to overcoming addiction is to try
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    Recovery Through Buddha's Teachings with Valerie Mason-John

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  5. Debbie Millman on Why Design Matters

    13 juli 2022 · 1 uur 6 min

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    Debbie Millman is a writer, designer, educator, artist, brand consultant and host of the podcast, Design Matters. Debbie was named one of the most creative people in business by Fast Company Magazine and one of the most influential designers working today by Graphic Design USA. She is the author of 7 books, including her most recent, Why Design Matters: Conversations with the World’s Most Creative People
    In this episode, Eric and Debbie Millman have an interesting discussion about why design matters in every aspect of your life..
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    Debbie Millman and I Discuss Why Design Matters and …
    Her book, Why Design Matters: Conversations with the World’s Most Creative People
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    Her slow process of shedding shame from her traumatic past
    Finding her way back to creative work after pursuing security
    Taking small steps and practicing every day can bring forth hope
    Design is about intention and decision making about everything
    Learning to deal with rejection and to perseverance
    How confidence comes after you do something many times
    Expecting things to be hard and messy
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    How to Stay Creative with Austin Kleon
    Creative Thinking and Action Through Designs with Sarah Stein Greenberg
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  6. Christian Jarrett on The Science of Personality

    8 juli 2022 · 48 min

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    Christian Jarrett is the author, editor or contributor to ten books, spanning psychology, neuroscience, self-help and productivity. He is recognized as a chartered psychologist and associate fellow of the British Psychological Society. and is the Deputy Editor of Psyche, a global digital magazine that illuminates the human condition through psychology, philosophical understanding and the arts.
    Eric and Christian discuss his latest is Be Who You Want: Unlocking The Science of Personality Change.
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    Christian Jarrett and I Discuss The Science of Personality and …
    His book, Be Who You Want: Unlocking The Science of Personality Change
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    How some traits are genetic but don’t entirely influence our personality
    Deliberate actions can short circuit our innate tendencies
    How cognitive and physical exercise builds confidence and encourages open mindedness
    The link between mood and personality
    Defining mood as the temporary state of how you feel
    How extroversion and introversion personalities are affected by habit
    The 5 main traits of personality: openness to experience, conscientiousness, extroversion, agreeableness, neuroticism
    The maturity principle and how personality traits change as we age
    How those who are more open and resilient are less prone to dementia
    Social investment theory refers to how the roles we take on in life shape our personality
    Will power and the ego depletion theory
    The importance of being realistic and honest with ourselves when wanting to change
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  7. Martha Beck on The Path to Your True Self

    6 juli 2022 · 1 uur 10 min

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    Martha Beck is a bestselling author, life coach, and speaker who specializes in helping individuals and groups achieve greater levels of personal and professional success. She is the author of nine nonfiction books and one novel, and has been a longtime contributor to O, The Oprah Magazine. Her most recent book is The Way of Integrity: Finding the Path to Your True Self
    Eric and Martha discuss how to live in integrity and find the path to your true self.
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    How what we often want is influenced by our culture
    Asking ourselves what we yearn for as opposed to what you want
    The repetitive cycle of thoughts that cause fear
    How our culture reinforces the fear
    Learning to move from fear to curiosity
    How humor and using your senses can turn down our fear
    The dilemma of when our nature conflicts with our culture
    Psychological suffering comes from the thoughts we choose to believe
    Why suffering is needed to make us pay attention and can actually be our ally
    Understanding that we have different “internal parts” that make up our whole self (Ref. to Richard Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems
    Her New Year’s resolution to not lie for a year and the healing that she found
    Navigating her way out of the Mormon religion
    How switching our identity to a material self to a limitless state of being brings joy
    Learning to imagine the good that will come from facing our discomfort
    The power of small, incremental, and repetitive actions to change your life
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  8. Oliver James on Breath and Body Work Practices

    1 juli 2022 · 1 uur 2 min

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    Oliver James is a body-led psychotherapist and breathworker known for integrating breath, movement, and body work to support personal transformation and self exploration.
    Eric and Oliver discuss his book, 21 Breaths: Breathing Techniques to Change Your Life
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    Oliver James and I Discuss Breath and Body Work Practices and …
    His book, 21 Breaths: Breathing Techniques to Change Your Life
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    Defining body led psychotherapy and how it connects breath and movement
    How our bodies hold trauma and stress
    Discovering a practice that works for you
    The importance of patience and slowing down
    Learning to notice discomfort and remembering to practice breathwork
    His trademarked “Geometric Breathing” of visualizing shapes as you breathe
    The importance of nose breathing as opposed to mouth breathing
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    Wellness and Breathwork Practices with Josh Trent
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  9. Michael Unbroken on How to Overcome Childhood Trauma

    29 juni 2022 · 1 uur 2 min

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    Michael Unbroken is an entrepreneur, best-selling author, coach, speaker, and advocate for survivors of childhood trauma. He is the host of The Think Unbroken Podcast that features experts, researchers, psychologists, therapists, and change-makers in the trauma and CPTSD healing space.
    In this episode, Eric and Michael discuss his book, Think Unbroken: Understanding and Overcoming Childhood Trauma,
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    Michael Unbroken and I Discuss How to Overcome Childhood Trauma and …
    His book, Think Unbroken: Understanding and Overcoming Childhood Trauma,
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    The day he decided to change his life and stop being the victim
    Taking radical responsibility for who you are and your choices
    How it takes doing difficult things to build confidence
    When he realized he was letting himself down just as others had let him down
    The greatest tool to have is the mindset of no excuses, just results
    Learning to discover your identity after childhood trauma
    The importance of writing down who you want to be
    Gaining clarity on your values guides your choices
    Challenging the narrative of who you believe you are
    His willingness to try the many tools and modalities to see what worked for him
    The benefits of hiring a coach in addition to therapy
    The power of finding and being part of a community
    Being kind to ourselves and learning from our mistakes
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  10. Lauren Zander on How to Work with Your Inner Dialogue

    24 juni 2022 · 51 min

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    Lauren Zander is a life coach, university lecturer, public speaker and co-founder and chairwoman of The Handel Group. Her book, Maybe It’s You: Cut the Crap. Face Your Fears. Love Your Life, is what she and Eric discuss in this episode. Lauren has an incredibly useful approach to uncovering your limiting inner dialogue so that you can truly catapult yourself forward in life.
    In this episode, Eric and Lauren discuss several strategies to work with your inner dialogue.
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    Getting conscious of the unconscious parts of yourself
    Her life-changing moment at 19
    How much of what is plaguing us is our inner dialogue
    Recognizing the strategist in your head
    How over 80% of our thoughts are negative and are on repeat
    The chicken, the brat, and the weather reporter within us
    How your linneage, beliefs and theories create our inner dialogue
    Steps to managing thought patterns
    Learning to make and keep promises to yourself
    Giving ourselves consequences to change our behavior
    How helpful having an accountability partner is
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  11. David Whyte on The Art of Poetry and Prose

    22 juni 2022 · 1 uur 4 min

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    David Whyte is a poet and author who also leads the Many Rivers Organization and Invitas, the Institute for Conversational Leadership, which he founded in 2014. David is the author of many poetry collection and prose books, including his newest book, Still Possible
    In this episode, Eric and David discuss several of David’s beautiful poems from his latest collection, as well as some of his older work.
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    His book, Still Possible
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    His poem, Your Prayer
    The metaphor of a doorway, and how it can be a barrier or an opening in your life
    Beautiful forgetting and how we can get out of and then into ourselves
    How depression is a form of stuckness
    Asking yourself how invitational you are to the people in your life
    His book, The Three Marriages

    How poetry is the art of saying things you didn’t know you knew
    His poem, The Road to Santiago
    How our reluctances are doorways to connection to other people
    Anxiety and how it is a kind of staticness
    How not knowing is great intimacy
    The importance of silence and rest
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  12. Radhule Weininger on Heart Medicine to Find Peace and Freedom

    17 juni 2022 · 59 min

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    Radhule Weininger, MD, PHD, is a clinical psychologist, psychotherapist, and meditation teacher. She leads meditation groups in Santa Barbara and retreats globally, at La Casa de Maria Retreat Center, Spirit Rock, Insight LA, the Esalen Institute, and the Garrison Institute. She is the author of HeartMedicine: How to Stop Painful Patterns and Find Peace and Freedom. Lees meer

    In this episode, Eric and Radhule discuss psychological and spiritual healing of LRPPs (Long-standing Recurrent Painful Patterns that stem from trauma.

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    Her book, HeartMedicine: How to Stop Painful Patterns and Find Peace and Freedom.

    "LRPP's" Long-standing Recurrent Painful Patterns of hurt.
    How LRPPs often originate from trauma in our past
    Understanding that there are no shortcuts to healing, it takes constant tending
    How LRPPs can also find meaning and purpose in our lives
    The obsessive and habitual components of LRPPs
    Learning to tap into the different types of awareness
    Psychological and spiritual healing and how they go hand in hand
    The steps to begin healing our LRPPs
    Finding a self compassion practice and making it a new habit
    Allowing mystery into the healing process
    How our heart can become the doorway to the great mystery
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  13. Richard Schwartz on Internal Family Systems

    15 juni 2022 · 1 uur

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    Richard Schwartz began his career as a systemic family therapist and an academic and has developed Internal Family Systems (IFS) in response to clients’ descriptions of various parts within themselves. He focused on the relationships among these parts and noticed that there were systemic patterns to the way they were organized across clients. Dr. Schwartz found that when the clients’ parts felt safe and were allowed to relax, they would spontaneously experience the qualities of confidence, openness, and compassion that he came to call the Self. He also found that when in that state of Self, clients would know how to heal their parts. Richard is a featured speaker for national professional organizations and has published many books and over fifty articles about IFS.
    In this episode, Eric and Richard discuss his book, No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
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    Defining Internal Family Systems (IFS)
    Understanding that we all have multiple “parts” within us
    The parallels of family therapy work to internal family systems
    Identifying the “Self” among our different parts
    IFS work is trying to understand what burdens each of our parts is carrying
    How the Self can take an active leadership role over our parts
    The roles that our parts take on: exiles, managers, firefighters
    How our parts can transform into powerful allies to bring healing
    Four goals of IFS: Transforming, Restoring Trust, Bringing Harmony, Becoming more Self
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  14. Meghan O'Rourke on The Challenges of Chronic Illnesses

    10 juni 2022 · 1 uur 7 min

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    Meghan O’Rourke is a journalist, poet, and New York Times Bestselling author. Her work often tackles challenging subjects like grief, illness, and more. Her previous books include the best-selling memoir The Long Goodbye, and the acclaimed poetry collections Sun in Days, Once, and Halflife. Meghan is passionate about advocating for those living with chronic illness and is the recipient of Guggenheim Fellowship and many other awards.
    Today, Eric and Meghan discuss her book The Invisible Kingdom: Reimagining Chronic Illness
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    Her book, The Invisible Kingdom: Reimagining Chronic Illness
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    Her experiences of illness and various diagnoses
    The importance of validating a diagnosis of chronic illness
    How diagnosis is just the small part of chronic illness
    The common stigma of "invisible" illnesses
    Her fears of her illnesses being in her head
    The many complex factors that make up autoimmune illnesses
    How different bodies will react to diseases in very different ways
    Her frustrations and problems with conventional medicine
    The different type of care from alternative medicine practitioners
    The challenges of functional or alternative medicine
    The role of emotions and how they interact with physical illness
    Understanding how expectations can shape our biology
    How the world responds to those suffering with chronic pain and illness
    The role of fear and how it accompanies chronic …

  15. Cory Allen on Mindfulness and Understanding Identity

    7 juni 2022 · 1 uur 14 min

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    Cory Allen is a writer, musician, and the creator of the podcast, The Astral Hustle. He focuses on how to live better with leading experts in mindfulness, neuroscience, and philosophy. In Cory’s first appearance on the show, he discussed his book Now is the Way.
    Today, Cory and Eric discuss mindfulness, identity, and much more!
    In this episode, Eric and Cory Allen discuss
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    How we are always reacting to our situations
    Mistaking our reactions for who we are
    Understanding our identity and where it comes from
    What we’re really looking for when we seek material wealth
    The pull of not feeling satisfied and constantly seeking satisfaction
    Differentiating our identity and our wanting
    Overwhelm is what leads to difficulty overwriting our impulses
    The value of meditation and mindfulness to calm the body
    The importance of exercise and nourishing the body
    How exercise and meditation complement each other
    The power of assertiveness when facing the challenge of change
    Self discipline is about giving yourself freedom from being controlled
    His work creating binaural beats and the effects of the vibrational sounds
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  16. Sarah Stein Greenberg on Creative Thinking and Action Through Design

    3 juni 2022 · 1 uur 1 min

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    Sarah Stein Greenberg is the Executive Director of the Hasso Plattner Institute of Design. Sarah helps lead the d. school, an interdisciplinary institute at Stanford that nurtures innovators and spreads design thinking.
    In this episode, Eric and Sarah Stein Greenberg discuss her book, Creative Acts for Curious People: How to Think, Create, and Lead in Unconventional Ways.
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    How design includes systems and experiences in both personal and professional realms
    The importance of tuning in to the emotional needs and signals when addressing problems or issues
    The curse of knowledge or expertise
    Keeping an open mind and not jumping to the first solution
    Being open to feedback as opposed to seeking validation
    An important tool in design is seeking feedback early and often
    Starting with a “beginner’s mind” is critical in design
    Learning to see things in a new and different way
    How reflecting on our experiences can unlock new insights
    The exercise: “What?, So What?, Now What?”
    The practice of blind contour portrait to locate and turn off the inner critic
    Learning to suspend judgment in the generative process
    How creative work involves trying new ideas knowing they’re not good
    “I Like, I Wish” practice allows us to reflect and reframe an experience
    The “tether” pra…

  17. Eric Johnson on The Elements of Choice

    1 juni 2022 · 1 uur 5 min

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    Eric Johnson is the Director of the Center for Decision Sciences, Columbia Business School at Columbia University. His research examines the interface between behavior decision research economics and the decisions made by consumers, managers, and their implications for public policy, markets, and marketing.
    In this episode, Eric and Eric Johnson discuss his book, The Elements of Choice: Why the Way We Decide Matters
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    How are choices are influenced
    Choice architecture is how choices are structured for people
    How we often don’t realize we are affected by choice architecture
    “Sludge” is bad nudging or dark patterns of choices
    A plausible path is making a better choice easier to make
    How the order of options can affect our decisions
    The role of memory when it comes to making decisions
    Screening and how it’s used in choice architecture
    Default options and how they may affect decisions
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  18. The Practices of Daily Life with Dan Millman

    27 mei 2022 · 44 min

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    Dan Millman is a former world champion gymnast, university coach, martial arts instructor, and college professor. He is the author of 13 books, including The Way of the Peaceful Warrior which was made into a feature film starring Nick Nolte. His most recent book written with his daughter Sierra is The Creative Compass: Writing Your Way from Inspiration to Publication. Lees meer

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    His book, The Way of the Peaceful Warrior

    How to get moving in the right direction
    The importance of starting small
    The danger of an all-or-nothing mentality
    How daily life is a practice
    Wisdom is gaining insight into the consequence of our actions that guide our life
    The four purposes of life
    How life is like school with lessons to learn
    The conventional and transcendental realms
    His book The Creative Compass that he co-wrote with his daughter
    The importance of trusting the process of your life unfolding
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  19. Bayo Akomolafe on Finding a Home

    25 mei 2022 · 1 uur 6 min

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    Bayo Akomolafe is a widely celebrated international speaker, post-humanist thinker, poet, teacher, public intellectual, essayist, and the author of two books – one of which he and Eric discuss in this episode.
    In this episode, Eric and Bayo discuss These Wilds Beyond Our Fences: Letters To My Daughter On Humanity’s Search For Home.
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    His book, These Wilds Beyond Our Fences: Letters To My Daughter On Humanity’s Search For Home

    The most beautiful thing in the world to him right now

    His observations of his young autistic son

    The limitations created when we name something

    The way insanity is viewed in his Nigerian culture

    Finding home in the middle of the mess of life

    How everything is “becoming” in every moment

    Why he describes himself as a recovering psychologist and a fugitive

    The healing journey

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  20. Jonice Webb on Childhood Emotional Neglect

    20 mei 2022 · 54 min

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    Jonice Webb is the pioneer of Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN)™ awareness. She is a licensed psychologist and has enriched and kindled the discussion of this overlooked and under addressed topic by writing the first self-help book dedicated to CEN recovery titled “Running on Empty: Overcoming Your Childhood Emotional Neglect”
    In this episode, Eric and Jonice discuss Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN), how it affects us as adults, and how to heal ourselves.
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    Her book, “Running on Empty: Overcoming Your Childhood Emotional Neglect”

    Defining and understanding what Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN)

    How it’s not your fault, but it is your responsibility to find healing

    The subtle layers of emotional neglect from childhood that we may not remember

    CEN isn’t about what parents did, but rather what they didn’t do

    Symptoms and signs of CEN include discomfort and confusion with feelings and emotions

    Her work is trying to get people to reconnect with their feelings

    I.A.A.A. – Identify, Accept, Attribute, Act are the steps to process or deal with a feeling

    How writing can be a powerful coping technique when processing emotions

    Vertical and horizontal questioning

    The first step to healing is owning and understanding emotional neglect

    The Emotional Neglect Questionnaire

    Learning to change your relationship with your emotions

    Applying your newfound skills in your relationships

    The difference between minimizing and managing your feelings

    The importance of positive self-talk

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  21. 500th Episode: Feeding Your Good Wolf with Listeners of the Show!

    18 mei 2022 · 1 uur 7 min

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    This is our 500th episode (!!!) and to celebrate the milestone, we decided to do something a bit different. In this episode, Eric and Chris reminisce about the very first episode of the show, and then we hear from many listeners of the show! We hear what the parable means to them, stories of their struggle and transformation, and what the show has meant to them. We would not still be doing the show if not for you, our dear listeners, and we thought it would be wonderful to feature you in this special episode.
    Let us know what you think about this special episode – if you like it, we’d love to do more!
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  22. Caroline Williams on The Science of Movement

    13 mei 2022 · 1 uur 10 min

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    Caroline Williams is a science journalist and editor. She’s a consultant for and a regular contributor to New Scientist. Her new work has also appeared in The Guardian, the Boston Globe, BBC Future, and BBC Earth among others.
    In this episode, Eric and Caroline discuss her book, Move: How the New Science of Body Movement Can Set Your Mind Free.
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    Her book, Move: How the New Science of Body Movement Can Set Your Mind Free

    How moving our bodies can affect the many parameters that affect how we feel

    Meditation is a way to tune in to our body and how we’re feeling

    How our brains were originally meant to inform us how and where to move in the world

    How physical activity positively affects our brains and mental health

    Interoception is the sense of the internal state of our body

    The powerful effects of physical movement on our thoughts and feelings

    Walking at a moderate pace turns down the thinking brain and increases creativity

    Having a strong core and good posture can improve the way we feel

    Strength training and its powerful effect on self-esteem

    The benefits of dancing

    Breathwork and how breathing exercises affect the body

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  23. Kevin Mitchell on The Genetics of Personality

    11 mei 2022 · 1 uur 2 min

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    Kevin Mitchell is an author and an Associate Professor of Genetics and Neuroscience at Trinity College Dublin. His research is aimed at understanding the genetic program specifying the wiring of the brain and its relevance to variation in human faculties. Kevin is also the author of the science blog, Wiring the Brain, and a number of books and publications.
    In this episode, Eric and Kevin discuss his book, Innate: How the Wiring of Our Brains Shapes Who We Are.
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    His book, Innate: How the Wiring of Our Brains Shapes Who We Are

    The missing third component in the Nature vs. Nurture debate

    Innate Underlying Traits in the Brain: Extroversion, Neuroticism, Conscientiousness, Agreeableness, Openness to Experience

    The relationship between genetics and neurobiology

    What “neurons that fire together, wire together” actually means

    The difference between Personality Traits and Character Traits

    The impact of parenting on underlying Personality Traits

    How people differ in the amount of “free will” that they have

    The connection between genetics and addiction

    That we become ourselves throughout lifetime

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  24. Carlin Quinn on Education for Racial Equity

    6 mei 2022 · 1 uur 10 min

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    Carlin Quinn is the founder and current director of Education For Racial Equity. She is also a coach, facilitator, therapist, equity consultant to organizations, communities, and individuals interested in dismantling systems of oppression and co-creating cultures of equity, mutual liberation and rooted in compassion and non-violence.
    In this episode, Eric and Carlin discuss her important work in bringing awareness to and helping others to engage in racial equity work.
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    Understanding internalized and unconscious racism

    Moving out of our good/bad binary into curiosity keeps us open to learning

    How our ignorance of systemic racism is incredibly harmful

    The importance of white people tending to their own trauma and also staying present in racial equity work

    Becoming aware of what we are triggered by and asking who we become when triggered

    Her program with Resmaa Menaken, “Foundations in Somatic Abolitionism“

    Defining “bodies of culture” as identified by Resmaa

    The fear and ambivalence in engaging in racial equity work

    Choosing to engage in equity practices in your life, with your children, and with your friends

    The need for educating ourselves both individually and communally

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  25. Massimo Pigliucci on How to Live a Happy Life

    4 mei 2022 · 1 uur 2 min

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    Massimo Pigliucci is a Professor of Philosophy at the City College of New York, former co-host of the Rationally Speaking Podcast, and former editor in chief for the online magazine Scientia Salon. His research interests include the philosophy of science, the relationship between science and philosophy, the nature of pseudoscience, and the practical philosophy of Stoicism. He’s the author and editor of many books, including the one discussed in this episode: A Field Guide to a Happy Life: 53 Brief Lessons for Living.
    In this episode, Eric and Massimo discuss what Stoicism teaches us about how to live a good and happy life.
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    His book, A Field Guide to a Happy Life: 53 Brief Lessons for Living

    What the term Stoicism means

    The Cardinal Virtues of practical wisdom, courage, justice, and temperance

    Origins of the Serenity Prayer

    How the judgments we have are ultimately in our control

    Coming to acceptance with our own death and then continuing on with life in the present moment

    The Dichotomy of Control

    The Discipline of Desire and Aversion in Stoicism

    The most important characteristic of a person in life

    Philosophical Journaling

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  26. Emily White on How to Deal with Loneliness

    29 april 2022 · 45 min

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    Emily White is a former lawyer turned writer. She is the author of Lonely, Learning to Live With Solitude. She has written for the Daily Mail, the New York Post, the Huffington Post, and The Guardian. Her latest book is called Count Me In: How I Stepped Off the Sidelines, Created Connection, and Built a Fuller, Richer, More Lived-in Life.
    In this episode, Eric and Emily discuss how to deal with loneliness and strategies for finding belonging.
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    Her book, Count Me In: How I Stepped Off the Sidelines, Created Connection, and Built a Fuller, Richer, More Lived-in Life.

    Understanding loneliness and the difference between depression

    How “social depression” lifts when you connect with others

    Belonging is feeling welcome and needed

    How it takes time and effort to find belonging

    Finding belonging in something you value

    The difference between public belonging and private belonging

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  27. Liz Fosslien on How to Cope with Big Feelings

    27 april 2022 · 1 uur 1 min

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    Liz Fosslien regularly leads interactive, scientifically-backed workshops about how to create a culture of belonging, help remote workers avoid burnout, navigate different work styles and effectively harness emotion as a leader. Her work has been featured by The New York Times, Ted, The Economist, and NPR. She is also the co-author and illustrator of The Wall Street Journal bestseller, No Hard Feelings along with the book discussed in this episode, Big Feelings: How to Be Ok When Things Are Not Ok.
    In this episode, Eric and Liz discuss really specific, practical ways to cope with various Big Feelings.
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    Her book, Big Feelings: How to Be Ok When Things Are Not Ok

    The myths of Big Feelings

    Myths about Uncertainty

    Tools to help cope with Perfectionism

    Emotions are often a response to stimuli we’re taking in and a result of our brain chemistry

    How to stop “anxious fixing”

    The helpful phrase “I’m a person learning to….”

    How extreme language produces extreme emotions

    Naming your inner perfectionist

    Finding a non-perfectionist role model

    The red flag of thinking “I’ll be happy when…”

    How envy can reveal what you value, and then thinking about your willingness to live the life that leads to that

    How to just make it through when you’re in the worst of it in life

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  28. Laura McKowen on Community and Support in Sobriety

    22 april 2022 · 1 uur 2 min

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    Laura McKowen Founder and CEO of The Luckiest Club, a global sobriety support organization, and host of Tell Me Something True podcast. Laura has been published in The New York Times, and her work has been featured in The Atlantic, The Wall Street Journal, the TODAY show and more and is the bestselling author of We Are The Luckiest: The Surprising Magic of a Sober Life,
    In this episode, Eric and Laura discuss her important work in building a sobriety support community.
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    Her tendency for people pleasing

    The use of fawning as a coping mechanism

    Recognizing codependency in relationships

    Why she loves reading fiction

    Her creation of “TLC” – The Luckiest Club as a sobriety support community

    How there’s sanity and discernment in community

    Understanding that it’s not your fault, but it is your responsibility

    Living your own values versus someone else’s values and choosing your actions accordingly

    Taking on the mission of learning the role we are meant to play in life

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  29. William Irvine on Applied Stoicism

    20 april 2022 · 1 uur 1 min

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    William Irvine, a professor at Wright State University, thinks, teaches, and writes about philosophy. He is the author of many books and publications including the one he and Eric discuss in this episode, The Stoic Challenge: A Philosopher’s Guide to Becoming Tougher, Calmer, and More Resilient.
    In this episode, Eric and Bill discuss what it means to live and practice Stoicism.
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    His book, The Stoic Challenge: A Philosopher’s Guide to Becoming Tougher, Calmer, and More Resilient

    Three sources from which your desires can arise

    The limitations of our rational brain

    Techniques for harnessing negative emotions and using them for good purposes

    The practice of stoicism

    That as humans, no matter what we have we will take it for granted

    Remembering that for everything we do, there will be a last time

    A better goal in life than being happy

    The role and benefit of having a grand goal

    The trichotomy of control

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  30. La Sarmiento on Suffering to Acceptance

    15 april 2022 · 54 min

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    La Sarmiento has been practicing Vipassana meditation since 1998. They are the guiding teacher of the Insight Meditation Community of Washington’s BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ Sanghas, a mentor for the Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program and Cloud Sangha, a contributor to the Ten Percent Happier app, and a graduate of Spirit Rock’s Community Dharma Leader Training Program.
    In this episode, Eric and La discuss how to move from suffering to acceptance and belonging through mindfulness practices.
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    Finding connection and acceptance with someone who has very different beliefs
    Their feeling of not belonging in the dominant culture
    When they decided to claim their belonging
    Their important work helping teens
    How they intentionally doesn’t prepare her Dharma talks ahead of time
    The questions to ask when suffering
    How being mindful doesn’t mean doing it right, it’s being aware of what you’re doing
    Taking refuge in the Buddha, the Dharma, and Sangha helps them to remember to mindful
    The practice of learning to be more comfortable with being uncomfortable
    How the dominant culture needs to better understand inclusion and assimilation
    How their dog Casey opened her heart
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  31. Alex Riley on Emerging Perspectives on Depression

    13 april 2022 · 1 uur 5 min

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    Alex Riley is an award-winning science writer. In 2019 he received a Best Feature award from the Association of British Science Writers for his reporting on the Friendship Bench, a project that began in Zimbabwe in 2006. Alex’s articles have been published by New Scientist, Mosaic, Nautilus Magazine, the BBC, and others.
    In this episode, Alex and Eric talk about his new book, A Cure for Darkness: The Story of Depression and How We Treat It.
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    A Cure for Darkness: The Story of Depression and How We Treat It

    Eric’s telltale sign he’s in a depressive episode

    The cause of Alex’s most recent depressive episode

    Eric and Alex’s experiences taking SSRIs for depression

    How he makes the decision to come on and off antidepressants

    His experience of psilocybin treatment for depression

    The role of nutrition in supporting his mental health and wellness

    A working definition of depression

    The connection between depression and “thinking too much”

    The “P” factor – an idea that all mental illnesses are fundamentally connected at their root

    The winners curse

    Eric’s experience with LSD earlier in life

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  32. Maggie Smith on Poetry and Life Lessons

    8 april 2022 · 57 min

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    Maggie Smith is a poet and author of the national bestsellers Goldenrod and Keep Moving: Notes on Loss, Creativity, and Change, as well as Good Bones, The Well Speaks of Its Own Poison, and Lamp of the Body. Maggie’s poems and essays are widely published and anthologized, appearing in Best American Poetry, The New York Times, The New Yorker, The Paris Review, the Washington Post, The Guardian, and elsewhere.
    In this episode, Maggie Smith joins Eric and Ginny for a conversation about her poetry and learning about ourselves through life’s experiences
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    Allowing feelings to come and waiting them out

    Her black and white thinking and working with her judgment

    Asking what’s really at stake and what is the cost of saying yes instead of no

    Keeping our inner critic in check

    How we can learn to parent ourselves

    The suffering that comes from judging our feelings that come up

    Her Keep Moving Journal with many writing prompts

    The lessons we can only learn from living through the tough times

    Her poem, Goldenrod

    Her desire to capture what she’s observing by writing it down

    How she processes and gets at things on paper

    Her poem, The Hum

    The importance of turning up the self-compassion and turning down the self-criticism

    Her poem, Wild

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  33. Brandon Beachum on Different Perspectives on Spiritual Growth

    6 april 2022 · 1 uur 14 min

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    Brandon Beachum is a podcaster, entrepreneur, writer, philosopher, and truth seeker. He’s the host of the Positive Head podcast which has amassed over 20 million downloads and reached #2 in the Spirituality category in Apple Podcasts. Brandon recently launched a new late-night style consciousness-elevating talk show called Optimistic, as well as his first book, The Golden Key: Modern Alchemy to Unlock Infinite Abundance.
    In this episode, Eric and Brandon discuss various perspectives on and avenues towards profound spiritual growth and how they show up in our everyday lives.
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    His book, The Golden Key: Modern Alchemy to Unlock Infinite Abundance

    Unpacking the idea of toxic positivity

    How we won’t always be happy with what is happening, but we can feel at peace with it

    The different views Eric and Brandon have about The Law of Attraction

    How we co-create our reality

    The growth that can come from our struggles

    The role and importance of intention in one’s life

    How incremental steps can have a big impact over time

    The importance of supportive conditions in order for us to grow

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  34. Max Lugavere on Genius Foods to Protect Your Brain

    1 april 2022 · 1 uur 9 min

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    Max Lugavere is a filmmaker, health and science journalist and the author of the New York Times best-seller Genius Foods: Become Smarter, Happier, and More Productive While Protecting Your Brain for Life, published in 8 languages around the globe. He is also the host of the #1 iTunes health podcast The Genius Life. Max appears regularly on the Dr. Oz Show, the Rachael Ray Show, and The Doctors. He has contributed to Medscape, Vice, Fast Company, CNN, and the Daily Beast, has been featured on NBC Nightly News, The Today Show,and in The New York Times and People Magazine. He is an internationally sought-after speaker and has given talks at South by Southwest, TEDx, the New York Academy of Sciences, the Biohacker Summit in Stockholm, Sweden, and many others.
    In this episode, Eric, Ginny, and Max discuss his book, Genius Foods: Become Smarter, Happier, and More Productive While Protecting Your Brain for Life
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    His book, Genius Foods: Become Smarter, Happier, and More Productive While Protecting Your Brain for Life

    His mom’s diagnosis of dementia in her late fifties

    His focus on learning and discovery of “genius foods” that help to protect the brain

    The health benefits he experienced after eliminating grains from his diet

    How evidence shows that “genius foods” are crucial for brain health

    Genius foods include extra virgin olive oil, fatty fish, berries, grass-fed beef, and dark leafy greens

    This healthy diet leads to improvement in cognitive processing speed and executive function

    The common overconsumption of sugar and its negative health effects

    How fiber isn’t an essential nutrient but still offers …

  35. Danté Stewart on Faith, Identity, and Finding a Voice

    30 maart 2022 · 57 min

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    Danté Stewart is a speaker and a writer whose work in the areas of race, religion, and politics has been featured on CNN and in The Washington Post, Christianity Today, Sojourners, The Witness: A Black Christian Collective, Comment, and elsewhere. He received his BA in sociology from Clemson University and is currently studying at the Candler School of Theology at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia.
    In this episode, Eric and Dante discuss his book, Shoutin’ in the Fire: An American Epistle
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    His book, Shoutin’ in the Fire: An American Epistle

    Learning to care for ourselves as a whole person and not just the individual parts of us

    How it’s easy to allow our work to mask who we really are

    His experience of spending time in and assimilating to the predominantly white church and culture

    The tension he felt between his different social identities

    The paradox of being visible and invisible when you’re a marginalized person

    How he needed to learn to give voice to his psychological pain, struggle, and rage

    The issue with current value systems and social constructs that view white dominance as the norm

    How he has learned that there isn’t just one answer, but many answers to how we can become a better version of ourselves both as individuals and communities

    His CNN article, “We Redefined Blackness as a World and a Gift”

    Art is about taking intangible dreams and making them tangible out in the world

    Finding wholeness is about trying to make sense of the past in order to create a better future

    How his writing is how he can give voice to what he’s feeling

    Comparison is the thief of creativity

    The importance …

  36. Tara Mohr on How to Lessen Fear and Self Doubt

    25 maart 2022 · 46 min

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    Tara Mohr is an expert on women’s leadership and well-being. She helps women play bigger in sharing their voices and bringing forward their ideas in work and in life. Tara is the author of Playing Big: Practical Wisdom for Women Who Want to Speak Up, Create, and Lead, named a best book of the year by Apple’s iBooks and now in paperback. In the book, she shares her pioneering model for making the journey from playing small–being held back by fear and self-doubt–to playing big, taking bold action to pursue what you see as your callings.
    In this “From the Archive” episode, Eric and Tara discuss strategies to deal with our inner critic and live a bigger, more meaningful life.
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    Her book, Playing Big: Practical Wisdom for Women Who Want to Speak Up, Create, and Lead

    How the inner critic often shows up differently for men and women

    Learning to witness but not take direction from the inner critic

    Finding your inner mentor by visualizing your future wise self

    Asking “what am I making this mean?”

    The hiding strategies we often use

    Instead of asking if you’re ready, ask what life is asking of you right now?

    The 6 criteria of the “The Leap”

    Sustainable change is not about willpower

    Success architecture is how we set up our lives with routines to support the change we want to make

    Thinking that being hard on ourselves is the way to change behavior

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  37. Mark Coleman on Mindfulness in Nature

    22 maart 2022 · 1 uur 8 min

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    Mark Coleman is an author and senior meditation teacher at Spirit Rock Meditation Center. Mark holds a MA in Clinical Psychology and draws on his extensive experience in working with people as a therapist and coach. He is also an unabashed nature lover and, through his organization Awake in the Wild, he shares his passion for integrating meditation and nature. Mark leads wilderness meditation retreats from Alaska to Peru, taking people on inner and outdoor adventures.
    In this episode, Eric and Ginny talk with Mark about his book, Awake in the Wild: Mindfulness in Nature as a Path of Self-Discovery.
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    His book: Awake in the Wild: Mindfulness in Nature as a Path of Self-Discovery

    The shift in his life after discovering meditation

    How he finds refuge in nature

    His first experiences of noticing that being in nature was his happy place

    Discovering that being in nature was a similar experience to meditating

    How connecting with nature can be a powerful anecdote to modern life imbalances

    How our brains are less stressed in nature

    Being outside engages our attention but doesn’t stress it

    Nature brings our senses alive and provides connection to living things around us

    Learning to be present in nature

    How we can let nature hold the immensity of difficult emotions, such as grief

    How silence is a doorway into presence and deep connection

    Working with our inner critic and inner atmosphere of heaviness

    How the inner critic prevents us from learning

    Noticing when we’re judging and believing our negative thoughts and stories

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  38. Dr. Amishi Jha on Peak Mind and Attention Training

    18 maart 2022 · 54 min

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    Dr. Amishi Jha is a professor of psychology at the University of Miami. She serves as the Director of Contemplative Neuroscience for the Mindfulness Research and Practice Initiative, which she co-founded in 2010. She received her Ph.D. from the University of California–Davis and postdoctoral training at the Brain Imaging and Analysis Center at Duke University. Dr. Jha’s work has been featured at NATO, the World Economic Forum, and The Pentagon. She has received coverage in The New York Times, NPR, TIME, Forbes, and more.
    In this episode, Eric and Dr. Amishi Jha discuss her new book, Peak Mind: Find Your Focus, Own Your Attention, Invest 12 minutes a Day
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    Her book, Peak Mind: Find Your Focus, Own Your Attention, Invest 12 minutes a Day

    Defining "peak mind" and the distinction between thinking and doing

    The doing mode and being mode

    The being mode is being observant and receptive to what is happening

    Wisdom is both reflection and action

    The different modes of the brain and their functions

    How we prioritize information based on our goals that then guide how we interact with our mind and environment

    How our attention itself isn't the problem, but rather how we monitor our attention that is problematic

    The effectiveness of 12 minutes of a mindfulness practice every day

    S.T.O.P. practice: Stop, Take a breathe, Observe, Proceed

    Understanding our framework and how we can reframe and deframe our experiences

    The problem with positive psychology tactics when you're depleted

    How negative feelings or conflict is an opportunity to observe and course correct

    The various microstates of the mind and their contin…

  39. Sarah Fay on The Challenges of Mental Health Diagnoses

    15 maart 2022 · 1 uur 11 min

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    Sarah Fay is an author and activist. Her writing appears in many publications, including The New York Times, The Atlantic, Time Magazine, The New Republic, Longreads, The Michigan Quarterly Review, The Rumpus, The Millions, McSweeney’s, The Believer, and The Paris Review, where she served as an advisory editor. She is currently on the faculty of the English departments at Northwestern University and DePaul University.
    In this episode, Eric and Sarah discuss her book: Pathological: A True Story of Six Misdiagnoses
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    Her book, Pathological: A True Story of Six Misdiagnoses

    Defining mental illness and how mental health diagnoses come from the book, “Diagnostic & Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders” (DSM).

    Her many diagnoses of mental health disorders in her lifetime

    How DSM diagnoses lack validity and reliability

    How chemical imbalance theory has been debunked and cannot be proven

    The problems with primary care physicians diagnosing psychiatric conditions and overprescribing

    How mental illness diagnoses can often become our identity

    The different schools of thought on treating mental health conditions with medication

    Emotions are vibrations in our bodies and responses to our thoughts

    Pathological: The Movement and the three important questions to ask yourself

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  40. Jonny Miller on Nervous System Mastery

    11 maart 2022 · 58 min

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    Jonny Miller is best known for hosting the Curious Humans Podcast and for his TEDx talk on “The Gifts of Grief” Jonny coaches ambitious founders to scale themselves and runs an online cohort-based training called Nervous System Mastery. He is also the co-founder of Maptia, a global visual storytelling platform.
    In this episode, Eric and Jonny discuss his important work with Nervous System Mastery
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    His podcast, Curious Humans

    His tragic story of the death of his fiance that led to his TEDx Talk

    Learning to surrender and getting curious about his grief and pain

    His program, Nervous System Mastery

    Interoception is the journey to becoming aware of everything in your body

    How physical sensations may correlate with certain thought patterns

    How the nervous systems stores the traumatic experiences

    “Emotional debt” occurs when trauma isn’t processed in the body and leads to burnout

    The more interoception we have, the more we can recognize our emotional debt

    Self-regulation is about up-regulating or down-regulating our nervous system

    Breathwork is a powerful tool in downregulating our nervous system

    Other tools, such as bellows breathing, for energizing and stimulating our nervous system

    How our nervous system is neuroplastic and we can increase or decrease our tolerance

    The common barriers and the practices for emotional resilience

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  41. Tony Rezac on Healthy Masculinity

    9 maart 2022 · 1 uur 2 min

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    Tony Rezac is an author, men’s coach, and the creator and host of the podcast, Basecamp for Men. Basecamp seeks to be a resource for men looking to live more courageously, authentically, and from the heart. Tony participated in The Mankind Project’s New Warrior Training in May 2004 and has been a leader in the field of men’s personal development ever since.
    In this episode, Eric and Tony discuss his book, Body and Soul: The Essential Handbook for Men.
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    His book, Body and Soul: The Essential Handbook for Men.

    Why he focuses so much of his work on and for men

    The importance of including both the masculine and feminine parts of yourself

    How he works with archetypes within men

    The Warrior Archetype

    The Magician Archetype

    The Lover Archetype

    The King Archetype

    Why it can be hard for men to get feedback from other men

    His podcast, Basecamp for Men

    His program, The Life Renewal Program for Men

    How to go about managing your energy

    Bodywork, like rolfing or the Alexander Technique

    The barriers of embracing forgiveness

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  42. Florence Williams on How to Heal From Heartbreak

    4 maart 2022 · 55 min

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    Florence Williams is a journalist, author, and podcaster. She is a contributing editor at Outside Magazine and a freelance writer for the New York Times, New York Times Magazine, National Geographic, The New York Review of Books, Slate, Mother Jones and numerous other publications.
    In this episode, Eric and Florence discuss her new book, Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey.
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    Her book, Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey

    Her experience of heartbreak when her marriage of 25 years ended

    How our bodies are physically affected by emotional pain

    How some personality types may be more severely affected by heartbreak

    The healing effects of being open to experiencing beauty and awe during difficult times

    Using A.W.E. (attention, wait, exhale) as a mindfulness practice

    Her 30 day journey in wilderness both with others and alone

    How she learned to be alone and also discovered the value of connection with other people

    The negative effects of loneliness

    How research shows that immune systems are stronger in those who feel like their lives have meaning

    The antidote to loneliness is beauty + connection + purpose

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  43. Brad Stulberg on The Practice of Groundedness

    2 maart 2022 · 1 uur 10 min

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    Brad Stulberg researches, writes, and coaches on health, well-being, and sustainable performance. His work has been featured in The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, New Yorker, Atlantic, Los Angeles Times, Time Magazine, Forbes, and more. In his coaching practice, he works with executives, entrepreneurs, and physicians on their performance and well-being. He is bestselling author of the new book, The Practice of Groundedness: A Transformative Path to Success That Feeds-Not Crushes-Your Soul
    In this episode, Eric and Brad Stulberg discuss several tools to develop a practice of groundedness.
    Sign up NOW for the next Spiritual Habits Group Program! This 8-week program begins on March 20, 2022. Let Eric teach you how to establish simple daily practices that will help you feel more at ease and fulfilled in your life. Enrollment ends on March 7 so sign up today!
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    His book, The Practice of Groundedness: A Transformative Path to Success That Feeds-Not Crushes-Your Soul

    Defining groundedness and the metaphor of a mountain

    The importance of not letting the outcome supersede the process in our minds

    Bridging the gap of knowing versus doing

    How community is one of the most influential factors of doing hard things

    Heroic individualism is the constant game of one-upmanship and is the opposite of groundedness

    Learning to accept “good enough” rather than perfect

    Patience is having the restraint to slow down for sustainable progress long term

    His experience with OCD of repetitive thoughts that started with a panic attack

    His work with exposure and prevention therapy and his meditation practice

    Working with your though…

  44. Brigid Schulte on Strategies for When You're Overwhelmed

    25 februari 2022 · 48 min

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    Brigid Schulte is an award-winning journalist for the Washington Post and Washington Post magazine. She was part of a team that won the Pulitzer Prize. She is also a fellow at the New America Foundation. Brigid is a regular contributor to the She The People blog and has written for Style, Outlook, and other outlets. She writes about work-life issues and poverty, seeking to understand what it takes to live a good life across race, class, and gender. Her recent book is called “Overwhelmed: How to Work, Love, and Play When No One Has the Time“.
    In this episode, Eric and Brigid discuss the common struggles and strategies for dealing with being overwhelmed.
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    Her book, Overwhelmed: How to Work, Love, and Play When No One Has the Time

    Defining “The Overwhelm”

    How our perception of time and stress negatively affect the brain

    The internal and external pressures to do too much.

    The history of leisure and idleness and how it is now

    The two qualities of leisure: choosing the activity and having control of your time

    Contaminated time is when you’re caught up in your thoughts

    Mindfulness as a powerful tool to deal with overwhelm

    The challenges and learning to handle ambiguity

    Broadening our perspective when managing time

    The importance of planning the most important tasks in our life first…

  45. Yoni Ashar on Neuroplastic Pain

    23 februari 2022 · 55 min

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    Yoni Ashar is a clinical psychologist and neuroscientist. Yoni’s research uses brain imaging and other tools to understand how beliefs and emotions influence health, especially pain, and to develop novel neuroscience-based treatments for chronic pain. Yoni is a post-doctoral associate at Weil-Cornell Medicine and completed his doctorate at the University of Colorado.
    In this episode, Eric and Yoni Ashar discuss the indicators of and evidence-based treatment for Neuroplastic Pain.
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    The indicators of Neuroplastic Pain

    The difference between Short Term vs Chronic Pain

    Where the body pain lives in the brain

    The evolutionary role of pain in life

    The #1 thing that drives the Neuroplastic Pain network

    How you can eliminate pain by changing various mind-brain pathways

    The 3 habits that trigger fear and exacerbate pain

    Evidence-based ways to treat Neuroplastic Pain

    The problems that come from the brain’s misperception of threat to the body

    Somatic Tracking

    Ways to pay attention without fear

    Corrective Experience

    Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT)

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  46. Josh Trent on Wellness and Breathwork Practices

    18 februari 2022 · 1 uur 3 min

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    Josh Trent is the Founder of Wellness Force Media, host of the Wellness Force Podcast and the creator of the BREATHE: Breath & Wellness Program Josh has spent the past 19+ years as a trainer, researcher, and facilitator discovering the physical and emotional intelligence for humans to thrive in our modern world. The Wellness Force Mission is to help humans heal mental, emotional and physical health through podcasts, programs, and a global community that believe in optimizing our potential to live life well.
    In this episode, Eric and Josh Trent discuss how to implement his powerful wellness and breathwork practices.
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    His personal story that led to creating Wellness Force podcast and business.

    The important scientific and spiritual aspects of breathwork

    Box breathing and circular breathing

    How breath is the autonomic lever that we can pull for modulating stress

    Understanding the default mode network and how it can be deemed good or bad

    The 3 phases of breathwork

    Acute breathing practice is when you're stressed or reactive

    Proactive or meditative breathing is what allows long term changes over time (neuroplasticity)

    Catharsis breathing is a deeper level that requires training

    The importance of breathing horizontally (expanding your diaphragm) and not vertically

    Beginning a breathwork practice requires you to start where you are without judging yourself

    The difference between breathwork and meditation

    How breathwork primes your nervous system and is your best ally for meditation

    Investigating the inner critic by becoming curious rather than judging it

    The balancing of our awareness and lack of awarene…

  47. Leah Weiss on Workplace Burnout

    16 februari 2022 · 1 uur 3 min

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    Leah Weiss is a researcher, lecturer, consultant, and author. She teaches compassionate leadership at the Stanford School of Business and is a principal teacher and founding faculty member of Stanford’s Compassion Cultivation Program, conceived by the Dalai Lama. In 2019, she co-founded Skylyte, a company that specializes in using the latest neuroscience and behavior change to empower high-performing leaders and managers to prevent burnout for themselves and their teams.
    In this episode, Eric and Leah Weiss discuss workplace burnout: the definition, signs, causes of, and treatment for this debilitating condition.
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    Her story of suffering workplace burnout

    The definition and signs of burnout

    The individual, team, and corporate level causes of burnout

    The difference between burnout and depression or anxiety

    The difference between burnout and compassion fatigue

    The role of boundaries in compassion and empathy

    How to know when you need to change your external circumstances

    How to know when it’s internal work within you that need to do

    Ways to go through the process of life change without blowing everything up

    Tools and questions to use for discernment about elements of change within your life

    The role and value of other people who you can turn to for support and guidance

    Paths to make work more meaningful

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  48. Steve Hagen on What We Know But Don't Believe

    11 februari 2022 · 52 min

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    Steve Hagen was ordained a Zen priest in 1979 and in 1989 he received Dharma Transmission (formal endorsement to teach) from Jikai Dainin Katagiri Roshi. He is the author of several books on Buddhism, science, and philosophy. These include Buddhism Plain and Simple, his most popular book. In his most recent book, The Grand Delusion, he applies breakthrough Eastern insights to seemingly indelible problems in Western science and philosophy. In 1997, he founded Dharma Field Meditation and Learning Center in Minneapolis, where he continues to serve as senior teacher.
    In this episode, Eric and Steve Hagen discuss his book, The Grand Delusion: What We Know But Don’t Believe
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    His book, The Grand Delusion: What We Know But Don’t Believe

    Defining grand delusion: our belief in non-emptiness or substantiality

    The dichotomy of understanding that if there is something, there must not be nothing

    How there are two truths that coexist

    Understanding that it’s in the mind where reality occurs

    Realizing that we can’t actually hold anything is the beginning of awakening

    Why understanding this concept is important in our day to day life

    Peace and present mind comes by seeing that the questions are misunderstanding the experience of life

    How we can’t resolve or answer the question of what’s the meaning of life

    We don’t need to answer the questions to bring freedom

    Trying to find a logical answer to meaning of life isn’t possible

    How we are acting and seeing things in terms of wholeness

    Perception is what we process through our senses

    Conception is the meaning we give to what we perceive

    Our suffering is tied up in the way we c…

  49. Michael Bungay Stanier on Starting Well to Finish Well

    9 februari 2022 · 1 uur 2 min

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    Michael Bungay Stanier is the author of 6 books that have, between them, sold more than a million copies. He’s perhaps best known for his self-published book, The Coaching Habit, which is the best-selling book on coaching this century and is already recognized as a classic. He founded the training and development company, Box of Crayons, which has taught coaching skills to hundreds of thousands of people around the world and he created a book in partnership with Seth Godin which raised $400,000 for Malaria No More.
    In this episode, Eric and Michael Bungay Stanier discuss his new book, How to Begin.
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    His book, How to Begin

    Tools to deal with fear and anxiety when they arise

    Sitting with the tension of ambition and contentment

    The secret is, once you have a goal, the key is to stop worrying about the goal

    That we unlock our greatness by working on the hard things

    The three steps that make up the foundation of actually beginning

    The key of beginning well that helps you stick with a project

    How to set a Worthy Goal

    The ways Worthy Goals can evolve

    How to the prizes and punishments of various commitments

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  50. Taylor Jacobson on Tools to Find Focus and Accountability

    4 februari 2022 · 57 min

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    Taylor Jacobson is the CEO and Founder of Focusmate (www.focusmate.com), a virtual coworking community with a mission to help everyone do their best work. Thousands of people in 193 countries worldwide sit side-by-side, via video, to keep each other company, cheer each other on, and hold one another accountable. Taylor is a passionate voice on creating soulful work and workplaces and has been featured in The New Yorker, CNN, The Guardian, NPR, Fast Company, Bloomberg Businessweek, and more.
    In this episode, Eric and Taylor discuss his company, Focusmate, along with many useful ideas for designing the life you want to live.
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    His company, Focusmate, that he started to help himself and others to become more productive

    The importance of feeling safe in a community in helping to accomplish your goals

    Procrastination is an expression of feeling unsafe

    How it’s difficult to focus when you’re feeling stressed or anxious

    How having a morning routine is grounding and signals our body we’re safe and able to get started

    Designing a life that demands what you want to give

    Noticing when you need to make a shift and reinvent yourself

    The ability to focus and the correlation to our nervous system

    Fight or flight impulses

    Learning to experience and release these energy forces

    His choice to find the optimal environment to do the important inner work he desired

    Spiritual practices and choosing and trusting your inner truth

    Understanding that our experiences inform the gifts that we can give to the world

    How living in fear limits our ability to share our unique gifts

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