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  1. How to Make Lasting Changes in Your Life with John Norcross

    13 januari 2023 · 46 min

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    In this episode you'll learn:
    Why motivation and will power are overrated when trying to make lasting changes
    Why you must understand the 5 stages behavior change and match your activity to the proper stage
    How slips up are inevitable and are perfect opportunities to learn
    How to use conflicting energy sources -the pushing away from unwanted behavior and pulling toward a desired behavior
    Why self monitoring and tracking progress increases your chances of success
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  2. How to Calm Your Mind and Be Productive with Chris Bailey

    11 januari 2023 · 1 uur 13 min

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    In this Episode, you'll learn:
    How we often feed the wrong wolf without even realizing it
    What some of the hidden sources of stress are in modern day society
    How many stressors have become so familiar, we don't even recognize the stress they cause
    How we can learn to bring more calm into our lives by practicing being present
    Why calming our minds leads to more productivity and less anxiety
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  3. Special Episode: 4 Different Journeys to Sobriety

    6 januari 2023 · 1 uur 5 min

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    In this special collaborative episode with Eric Zimmer, Gillian Tietz, Casey McGuire Davidson, and Dave Wilson (aka Sober Dave), they each share...
    1. The reasons they kept drinking and why they weren't ready or felt they could give it up.
    2. The strategies or methods they used to get started on their recovery journey and how that evolved during the different stages of their recovery.
    3. The importance of finding a supportive community, either in person or online, and understanding that recovery is not one size fits all- you must find what works for you and in your life.
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  4. How to Make Lasting Changes in Eating and Exercise with Michelle Segar

    4 januari 2023 · 1 uur 10 min

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    1. How can having conscious awareness of our thoughts related to eating well and exercise enable us to make different choices?
    2. What is a motivation bubble and how can it lead to lasting changes in behavior?
    3. How the “POP” decision tool works and strategically guides attention from decision traps and leads to making the Joy Choice!
    “The Joy Choice is the perfect imperfect option that let’s us do something instead of nothing and harmonizes exercise and eating within our full self. ” – Michelle Segar
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  5. How to Overcome Procrastination with Tim Pychyl

    30 december 2022 · 47 min

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    In this episode, you will learn:1. What is the connection between procrastination and health?2. How can we use implementation intentions to deal with self regulation failure?3. What is the importance of not wasting our lives with procrastination?
    “It is in the getting on with life that makes our lives and that procrastination, in a very real sense, is an existential issue of not getting on with life itself.” - Tim Pychyl
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  6. How to Work with the Craving Mind with Dr. Jud Brewer

    28 december 2022 · 48 min

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    Key Concepts:
    The roles of rewards and punishments and the importance of understanding how the habit loop cycle works in adjusting behavior.
    Understanding cravings and addictions and strategies that can be used to work through our habitual behavior patterns.
    How bringing awareness and curiosity is a crucial component in training our mind to deal more effectively with cravings.
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  7. How to Create Atomic Habits for a Better Life with James Clear (Part 2)

    23 december 2022 · 38 min

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    Key Concepts in This Episode:
    1. Physical environment plays a huge role in supporting the habit(s) we are trying to create or eliminate. We can improve our environment by making the habit more obvious and reducing friction (or making it less obvious and increasing friction for those we are trying eliminate).
    2. Social environment is also an important factor in how it affects our behavior when it comes to creating good habits. By finding a social environment that provides a sense of belonging and friendship, we can increase the attractiveness of habits that leads to more motivation and better outcomes.
    3. The best place to start is making new habits easy and convenient by scaling them down to something very small, such as the "2 minute rule". The goal is to establish the habit by first showing up and doing the small action consistently. Once the habit is established, it can then be improved and becomes easier to maintain
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  8. How to Create Atomic Habits for a Better Life with James Clear

    21 december 2022 · 40 min

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    Key Concepts in This Episode:
    1. Habits are the compount interest of self improvement in that the positive effects compound over time. You may not see change right away, but consistent effort is what brings lasting results and real change.
    2. More important than goals, your systems are what lead to your success or failure when trying to change your behavior. Systems are a collection of habits leading to every outcome so paying attention to the process rather than the final goal is a critical component
    3. True behavior change is an identity change. (I want _____ as opposed to I am ____). Identity and behavior are closely linked and taking small consistent actions is the best method for shaping identity and becoming the person you want to be.
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  9. Why You Need to Connect with Your Future Self with Dr. Benjamin Hardy

    16 december 2022 · 1 uur 15 min

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    In this episode, we discuss:
    1. How our thoughts and actions can shape our lives
    2. The importance of paying attention to what we feed our mind
    3. How our personality is not as fixed as we may think
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  10. How Identity Can Affect How You Deal with Depression or Mental Illness with Kimi Culp

    14 december 2022 · 1 uur 8 min

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    In this episode, Eric and Kimi discuss her journey to healing and how the role of identity can be helpful (or not so helpful) when dealing with depression or mental illness.
    Kimi Culp is a TV and film producer and is the host of the award winning ALL THE WISER podcast. Kimi’s unique specialty is identifying and developing stories with soul. She has traveled the world interviewing hundreds of people and creating content that motivates people to live a happier, more fulfilling life.
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    How Identity Can Affect How You Deal with Depression with Kimi Culp
    How her internal narrative shifted when she started talking about her mental illness
    The power of knowing we’re not alone in our struggles
    Owning the truth of who we are and also not letting it be your entire identity
    Understanding that we are many parts of the whole being
    The healing journey and how identity can take a more prominent role at the beginning
    The nuances of identifying what is depression
    How labeling depression can be helpful, but overidentifying with that label can be harmful
    The importance of adult friendships
    Comparative suffering
    Gratitude and how it is a powerful tool
    Her collaborative book, A Letter to My Dog
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    Gabe Howard on Mental Illness
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  11. How to Meet Yourself with Dr. Nicole LePera

    9 december 2022 · 1 uur 17 min

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    Dr. Nicole LePera is an author and clinical psychologist in private practice. She was trained in clinical psychology at Cornell University, The New School for Social Research, and the Philadelphia School of Psychoanalysis. She i the author of the #1 New York Times Bestselling Book, How To Do The Work.
    In this episode, Eric and Nicole discuss her latest book How to Meet Yourself: The Workbook for Self-Discovery
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    Dr. Nicole LePera and I Discuss How to Meet Yourself and…
    Her book, How to Meet Yourself: The Workbook for Self-Discovery
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    Her personal and professional journey of getting and helping others get “unstuck”
    Understanding the power of our unconscious mind and our habitual nature
    How logic will not override the comfort and familiarity of our habits
    The critical step of setting an intention for a small manageable change
    How we can move from self betrayal to self trust by starting small and being consistent
    The importance of taking responsibility for yourself rather than blaming outside circumstances
    The shared human experience of shame of not being good enough that we often carry
    Becoming conscious of our habits and patterns
    How we need to tune into the body to find our intuition to find clarity
    Discovering our values and knowing what’s important to us
    The integral part of safety in beginning your journey
    Breathwork as a foundational practice to get to safety
    Grounding in the present moment is about paying attention and honoring our reactions
    The different ways of grounding ourselves such as being in nature, moving our body, or listening to music
    The “Daily Consciousness Check-In” as a foundational practice to activate conscious awareness
    Self witnessing is learning how to li…

  12. Why We Need to Find Awesome with Neil Pasricha

    7 december 2022 · 1 uur 16 min

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    Neil is the the author of nine books and journals including: The Book of Awesome, a spinning rolodex of simple pleasures based on his 100-million-hit, award-winning blog 1000 Awesome Things, The Happiness Equation, originally written as a 300-page love letter to his unborn son on how to live a happy life,
    He also hosts an Apple “Best of” award-winning podcast called 3 Books where he is on an ‘epic 15-year-long quest to uncover the 1000 most formative books in the world. and he also shares his current writing on this blog and in a series of newsletters.
    In this episode, Eric and Neil discuss his latest book, Our Book of Awesome: A Celebration of the Small Joys That Bring Us Together
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  13. How to Embrace the Important Elements of Life with Nickolas Butler

    2 december 2022 · 1 uur 5 min

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    Nickolas Butler is the author of many novels, including the internationally best-selling and prize-winning Shotgun Lovesongs, which has been optioned for film development and has been translated into ten languages. Nickolas is the recipient of many literary prizes and commendations and has published articles, reviews, short stories, and poetry in publications such as: Ploughshares, Narrative, and The New York Times Book Review, to name a few.
    Eric and Nickolas discuss a few of his novels as well as how we can learn to embrace the important elements of life.
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    His novels, Godspeed and Shotgun Lovesongs
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    The fear and doubt he faces in his creative life
    Comparing our lives to others
    How we take for granted the basic things that previous generations worked hard for
    His relationship with his father and grandfather
    The differences in generations and what he hopes to teach his kids
    Trying to find empathy and understanding with those you don’t agree with
    The complexities of parent-child relationships
    Why he writes essays for his local newspaper
    His idea of choosing a tree and practicing gratitude for that tree
    How friendships are special and unique human relationships
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  14. How to Find Hope and Kinship with Father Greg Boyle and Fabian Devora

    30 november 2022 · 1 uur

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    Father Gregory Boyle is an American Jesuit priest and the founder of Homeboy Industries in Los Angeles, the largest gang-intervention, rehabilitation, and reentry program in the world. He has received the California Peace Prize and been inducted into the California Hall of Fame. In 2014, the White House named Boyle a Champion of Change. He received the University of Notre Dame’s 2017 Laetare Medal, the oldest honor given to American Catholics. He is the acclaimed author of Tattoos on the Heart, Barking to the Choir, and his latest book, Forgive Everyone Everything.
    Fabian Debora is the artist and illustrator of the book, Forgive Everyone Everything. His work has been showcased in solo and group exhibitions throughout the US and abroad. Fabian served previously served as a counselor and the Director of Substance Abuse Services & Programming and a mentor at Homeboy Industries in Los Angeles and is now the Executive Director of Homebody Art Academy.
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    Father Greg Boyle & Fabian Debora and I Discuss How to Find Hope and Kinship
    His book, Forgive Everyone Everything
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    The organization he founded, Homeboy Industries, to rehabilitate gang members
    Hope and how our focus must not be on outcomes
    How life is about removing the blindfold to see the goodness within us
    Joy is the love of being loving
    Equanimity and learning to not grasp at our pain
    Defining kinship as deep connection with others
    How we need to acknowledge privelege
    Fabian’s journey of recovery and his work with Homeboy Industries
    How his art represents his journey and lived experiences
    How he tells a story through his art
    His responsibility of an artist to combat stereotypes
    How he maintains hope amidst tragedy
    The legacy that…

  15. Welcome to The One You Feed Podcast!

    29 november 2022 · 4 min

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  16. Why We Need to Rethink Mental Health with Eric Maisel

    25 november 2022 · 49 min

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    Eric Maisel, PhD, is the author of more than 40 books, including Why Smart People Hurt, Making Your Creating Mark, The Future of Mental Health, The VanGogh Blues, Mastering Creative Anxiety, and Creativity for Life. Dr. Maisel is at the forefront of the movement to rethink mental health. He writes the Rethinking Psychology blog for Psychology Today.
    Eric and Dr. Maisel discuss his books Overcoming Your Difficult Family: 8 Skills for Thriving in Any Family Situation and The Future of Mental Health
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    Eric Maisel and I Discuss Why We Need to Rethink Mental Health and …
    His books, Overcoming Your Difficult Family: 8 Skills for Thriving in Any Family Situation and The Future of Mental Health
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    Defining the skills needed to understand and deal with family dynamics
    Learning the best anxiety management tool for you, such as deep breathing or visualization
    The powerful device of visualizing the “calmness switch” within you
    Understanding that there is one of many possibilities to deal with challenges
    His book, Mastering Creative Anxiety
    Depression
    The importance of identifying what’s important to us and living our life purposefully
    Stigmatization of mental health and how it promotes pharmaceutical
    Understanding there is more help to treat depression than just medication and psychiatry
    His models of personality: Original Personality, Formed Personality, Available Personality
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  17. How to Practice Gratitude for Year-Round Benefits

    23 november 2022 · 1 uur 6 min

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    We are thrilled to welcome Dr. Nicole LePera, A.J. Jacobs, Martha Beck, Susan Cain and Cory Allen as our guests on this special “Thanksgiving” episode all about gratitude!
    Research from Harvard Medical School shows that “gratitude is strongly and consistently associated with greater happiness. Gratitude helps people feel more positive emotions, relish good experiences, improve their health, deal with adversity, and build strong relationships." We know that it’s good to give thanks but so many of us struggle to make it a regular practice and this episode will teach you how to do so and why it is worth prioritizing!
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    Dr. Nicole LePera – how she defines gratitude and why it’s important
    How verbally stating or writing can activate feelings of appreciation
    Our tendency to pay attention to what we lack rather than what we have
    Shifting from “I have to” to “I am grateful for the opportunity”

    A.J. Jacobs – how practicing gratitude is a way to not take things for granted
    The hedonic treadmill and the “I’ll be happy” when trap
    His active practice of texting his mom every day what he’s grateful for
    How the more specific the better when it comes to expressing gratitude

    Martha Beck – how she was impacted when she first read about the benefits of gratitude
    How engaging in your senses is a good way to practice gratitude
    Her 3:1 gratitude practice – for every negative experience, think of 3 positive ones
    Reveling in what the soul yearns for sharpens a gratitude practice

    Susan Cain – how she notices and savors beautiful things
    How we need to both accept the beauty and the difficult realities of our existence
    The best gateway t…

  18. How to Manage Emotional Eating

    18 november 2022 · 50 min

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    Julie Simon is a licensed psychotherapist, life coach and certified personal trainer with over 30 years of experience in helping overeaters and imbalanced eaters mend their relationship with their feelings and ultimately themselves. She’s also the founder of the popular Los Angels based 12-week emotional eating recovery program.
    Eric and Julie discuss her book, When Food is Comfort: Nurture Yourself Mindfully, Rewire Your Brain and End Emotional Eating.
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    Julie Simon and I Discuss How to Manage Emotional Eating …
    Her book, When Food is Comfort: Nurture Yourself Mindfully, Rewire Your Brain and End Emotional Eating.
    The most common cause of emotional overeating is difficulty regulating our emotions, moods, thoughts, and behaviors
    When we disconnect from our emotions, we don’t learn necessary skills to regulate
    Attunement and attachment in early childhood that create neural pathways
    When we’re under the influence of emotional part of the brain, we’re not capable of reasoning
    The 7 skills involved in inner nurturing
    The importance of exploring our emotions and bodily sensations
    Our tendency to move away from unpleasant emotions by focusing on our thoughts
    How emotions present in the body first (before we have words for them)
    Real recovery is experiencing and moving through emotions
    Learning to practice soothing behaviors to restore ourselves to calm
    The goal is not to distract ourselves, but to calm ourselves enough to work on regulation skills
    How self validation is not condoning the behavior, but acceptance and self compassion
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  19. How to Find Meaning and Live a Good Life with Jonathan Fields

    16 november 2022 · 1 uur 6 min

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    Jonathan Fields is a father, husband, award-winning author, executive producer, and host of one of the top-ranked podcasts in the world, The Good Life Project. He also speaks globally to groups and organizations and his work has been featured widely in the media including The New York Times, The Washington Post, Oprah Magazine, and many others.
    Eric and Jonathan chat about a few different topics relating to how we can bring more meaning and fulfillment into our daily activities that lead to living a good life.
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    Jonathan Fields and I Discuss How to Find Meaning and Live a Good Life …
    How people can bring more meaning and enjoyment to their day job
    The challenges and importance of setting boundaries for work time
    Learning to shift focus on how to be more effective rather than putting in more time
    The idea of investing in yourself when considering career or other life changes
    Jonathan’s “sparketype” framework
    Asking the question “How can I be a light in other people’s lives” in both professional and personal lives
    The process of change and how we can equip ourselves to handle forced change
    Finding the sweet spot of what motivates us and our approach to behavior change based on our personality
    How identifying our values can make behavior change more effective and sustainable
    Building flexibility and creating tolerance in your goals knowing perfection isn’t possible
    Knowing why we want to change is a critical component to making change and understanding
    Dealing with low moodspath to personal change
    Learning to be happy love yourself in your current state while you can also look to change
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  20. How to Embrace Sobriety with Gillian Tietz

    11 november 2022 · 1 uur 12 min

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    Gillian Tietz is the host of Sober Powered, a top 50 mental health podcast, and the founder of Sober Powered Media, a podcast network of top mental health shows. She has a master’s in biology and worked in research labs in the Boston area. Getting sober in 2019 inspired her to start her podcast to help others understand why addiction happens and how to develop the coping skills they need to stay sober. After 2 years of consistent, hard work she left her career in biochemistry to start her network.
    Eric and Gillian discuss her journey to sobriety and how she shares what she has learned with others on her podcast, Sober Powered.
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    Gillian Tietz and I Discuss How to Embrace Sobriety and …
    Her podcast, Sober Powered
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    How she learned that watching TV did not support the life she wanted
    The start of her journey to sobriety
    Struggling with emotions that lead her to destructive habits
    Her struggles with body image
    Realizing how drinking caused her mental health to deteriorate
    How alcohol enhanced the problems she was trying to hide from
    Learning to accept that moderating drinking wasn’t possible
    The idea of harm reduction and the controversial opinions
    Finally seeking professional help when at the start of the quarantine
    How she wanted to start the podcast to share what she had learned to help others
    The value of finding support from sober communities on social media
    How we often don’t see the cause and effect of drinking when you’re in it
    The effects that alcohol has on the brain and mental health
    Post acute withdrawal and how the brain needs to learn to re-regulate without alcohol
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  21. What We Can Learn By Thinking Like a Kid with Scott Hershovitz

    9 november 2022 · 1 uur 10 min

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    Scott Hershovitz is the Thomas G. and Mabel Long Professor of Law and Professor of Philosophy at the University of Michigan. He directs the University’s Law and Ethics Program and he co-edits Legal Theory. Scott writes about law and philosophy. His academic work has appeared in the Harvard Law Review, The Yale Law Journal, and Ethics, among other places. In addition, he writes occasional essays about philosophy for the New York Times. Before joining the Michigan faculty, he served as a law clerk to Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg of the United States Supreme Court and an attorney-advisor on the appellate staff of the Civil Division of the United States Department of Justice.
    Eric and Scott discuss his new book, Nasty, Brutish, and Short: Adventures in Philosophy withMy Kids
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    His book, Nasty, Brutish, and Short: Adventures in Philosophy with My Kids
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    Defining philosophy as the art of thinking
    How kids are natural philosophers and ask interesting questions
    Learning to think critically about our own ideas
    Distinguishing between what we think we should do and what we want to do
    The story of the Ship of Theseus and how we can compare it to our own identity
    How identity can be used as a tool in how we see ourselves in the world in both a negative and positive way
    Relativism and how we each get our own truth
    Epistemic bubbles and echo chambers
    What we can learn when we talk to people who think differently than us
    How we can look at other people with both objective or participant attitudes, depending on the circumstances
    Tempering our perspectives when we learn about others’ circumstances
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  22. How to Stay Motivated with Ayelet Fishbach

    4 november 2022 · 1 uur 3 min

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    Ayelet Fishbach, PhD, is the Jeffrey Breakenridge Keller Professor of Behavioral Science and Marketing at the University of Chicago, Booth School of Business . She is the past president of the Society for the Science of Motivation and the International Social Cognition Network. She is an expert on motivation and decision making. Dr. Fishbach’s groundbreaking research on human motivation has won the Society of Experimental Social Psychology’s Best Dissertation Award and Career Trajectory Award, and the Fulbright Educational Foundation Award.
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    Ayelet Fishbach and I Discuss How to Stay Motivated and …
    Her book, Get It Done: Surprising Lessons from the Science of Motivation
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    The myth of motivation is that we are failures
    Changing our situations is the most important step in staying motivated
    Setting goals for our real life situations, not our ideal situations
    Finding empathy for our future self
    Intrinsic motivation predicts sustained engagement
    Choosing powerful goals that seem exciting and not a chore
    Approach goals as opposed to avoidance goals
    How assigning numbers to goals can be powerful
    The importance of framing our goals
    Why will power alone does not work
    Strategies for managing competing goals
    Remembering that we don’t have to act on our thoughts or ideas
    The middle problem when it’s hard to see progress and stay motivated
    Using time brackets for your goals
    Why some goals never become habit
    The role of incentives in achieving goals
    How important it is to track progress
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  23. What We Can Learn From Our Bad Wolf with Matthew Quick

    1 november 2022 · 1 uur

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    Matthew Quick is the New York Times bestselling author of The Silver Linings Playbook—which was made into an Oscar-winning film—and eight other novels. His work has been translated into more than thirty languages, received a PEN/Hemingway Award Honorable Mention, was an LA Times Book Prize finalist, a New York Times Book Review Editors’ Choice, a #1 bestseller in Brazil, a Deutscher Jugendliteratur Preis 2016 (German Youth Literature Prize) nominee, and selected by Nancy Pearl as one of Summer’s Best Books for NPR. The Hollywood Reporter has named him one of Hollywood’s 25 Most Powerful Authors.
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    What drew him to Jungian analysis and his ideas on synchronicity
    His healing journey and what he learned about himself
    Learning to face his pain from a sober light
    Losing access to a creative part of him when he stopped drinking
    How his work with his analyst replaced the alcohol in his life
    The importance of community
    What the term “father hunger” means
    His unique relationship with his analyst
    How he learned to redeem his father
    The important themes he covers in his latest novels
    Doing the hard work in the second half of life
    The respect he has developed for the craft of novel writing
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  24. How to Begin Your Journey to Wholeness with Parker Palmer

    28 oktober 2022 · 1 uur

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    Parker J. Palmer, is the founder and Senior Partner of the Center for Courage & Renewal. He is a world-renowned writer, speaker and activist who focuses on issues in education, community, leadership, spirituality and social change. He has reached millions worldwide through his nine books, including Let Your Life Speak, The Courage to Teach, A Hidden Wholeness, and Healing the Heart of Democracy.
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    His book, Hidden Wholeness: A Journey Towards an Undivided Life
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    What the idea of “the Soul” means to him
    His experiences with depression and the lesson he’s learned from it
    What “the divided life” is
    The importance of having both community and solitude
    The idea of “The Circle of Trust”
    The importance of letting another person work their way to the answer themselves
    His book, Healing the Heart of Democracy

    The important role that conflict brings to our form of government
    The Five Habits of the Heart
    Eustress is the positive effect of tension
    The two ways that the heart can break
    How those with different viewpoints can find common ground
    The Courage and Renewal Center
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  25. How to Find Wellness in Indigenous Wisdom with Chelsea Luger & Thosh Collins

    26 oktober 2022 · 1 uur 15 min

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    Chelsey Luger is a writer and wellness advocate originally from North Dakota, an enrolled member of the Turtle Mountain Band of Chippewa and descendant of the Standing Rock Sioux Tribe. She got her undergraduate degree at Dartmouth College, concentrating on comparative histories of global Indigenous cultures, and later earned an M.S. in Digital Media at Columbia University's Graduate School of Journalism. She is the co-founder of Well For Culture. Her writing has appeared in the Atlantic, Huffington Post, Yes! Magazine, and other outlets.
    Thosh Collins is a photographer, board member for the Native Wellness Institute, and co-founder of Well For Culture. He is On Akimel O'odham, Seneca-Cayuga, and Osage, born and raised on the Salt River Reservation. He serves on the Salt River Pima-Maricopa Land Board, and remains politically and culturally active within his community.
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    Beginning everything with gratitude is a key to our wellness journey
    Accepting the challenges and finding balance
    Chelsea's story of the dust storm and teaching resilience
    Focusing on solution based thinking for indigenous cultures to heal and thrive
    Expanding the common narrative of indigenous cultures to show resilience rather than brokenness
    Understanding the harm of cultural appropriation
    Keeping their cultural and spiritual practices private and sacred
    The seven circles include our connections to food, sleep, movement, ceremony, sacred space, community, and land.
    How the symbol of the medicine wheel represents interconnectedness of mental, physica…

  26. How to Bring Zen Into Everyday Life with Shozan Jack Haubner

    22 oktober 2022 · 1 uur 8 min

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    Shozan Jack Haubner is the pen name of a Zen monk whose essays have appeared in The Sun, Tricycle, Buddha, Dharma, and The New York Times, as well as in the best Buddhist Writing series. Jack is the winner of a 2012 Pushcart prize and is the author of Zen Confidential Confessions of a Wayward Monk and Single White Monk. He is also the host of the YouTube channel Zen Confidential.
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    His transition from monastic life to real world life
    Realizing that his growth has taken a different path after leaving the monastery
    Trusting in life, even when it’s really challenging
    The differences between the personal and intimate
    Noticing the moments of waking up that happen in daily life
    The challenges he experienced when in a leadership role
    His relationship with his dad
    Understanding the meanings of self and no self
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  27. How to Discover Your Way of Being Through the Enneagram with Susan Piver

    19 oktober 2022 · 56 min

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    Susan Piver is the New York Times bestselling author of many books, including the award-winning “How Not to Be Afraid of Your Own Life”, “The Wisdom of a Broken Heart”, “Start Here Now: An Open-Hearted Guide to the Path and Practice of Meditation”, and “The Four Noble Truths of Love: Buddhist Wisdom for Modern Relationships”. Susan has been a practicing Buddhist since 1993 and graduated from a Buddhist seminary in 2004. She is an internationally acclaimed meditation teacher, known for her ability to translate ancient practices into modern life. Her work has been featured on the Oprah show, TODAY, CNN, and in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal and others. In 2013, she launched the Open Heart Project, the largest virtual mindfulness community in the world with 20,000 members. Her newest book is “The Buddhist Enneagram: Nine Paths to Warriorship.”
    In this episode, Eric and Susan discuss her newest book, The Buddhist Enneagram: Nine Paths to Warriorship
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    Defining the enneagram as 9 paths or ways of being
    How the enneagram can be used in a variety of ways based on the person
    Defining warrior as one who is not afraid of oneself
    How it’s best to take multiple tests to best determine your enneagram type
    The subtypes of the enneagram and how they’re often easier to identify
    Patience is required to utilize the deep system of the enneagram
    How the enneagram defines our “cocoon” and also our way out of it
    The arc of transformation that includes the passions and the virtues
    How the enneagram leads us to compassion for ourselves and others
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  28. How to Work Through Fear and Depression with Paul Gilmartin

    15 oktober 2022 · 49 min

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    Paul Gilmartin is a stand-up comedian, podcast host, and television personality best known as the long time host of TBS’ Dinner and a Movie. Since 2011, Paul has been the host and executive producer of the podcast, Mental Illness Happy Hour.
    In this episode, Eric and Paul discuss his strategies and practical approaches to deal with fear and depression.
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    How we all have something that we worship that orients our actions
    Learning to be truly and deeply vulnerable
    How there is no instant gratification in spirituality
    Living a fear based life and addictive behaviors
    Reconnecting with the body’s instincts
    Getting curious about the thoughts that come up during meditation
    The difference between self reflection and self obsession
    Strategies for moving away from self obsessing
    Finding himself stuck in the paralysis of perfection
    The importance of taking a break from the world when you need it
    The opposing forces of fear and hope
    Moving through his fears and depression
    How acting according to his values keeps him connected to his higher power
    His spiritual growth includes facing his everyday fears
    Learning to see past our mental barriers and realize what we’re capable of
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  29. How to Lead a Happier Life with Dr. Laurie Santos

    12 oktober 2022 · 1 uur 12 min

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    Dr. Laurie Santos is Professor of Psychology and Head of Silliman College at Yale University. She is the host of the podcast The Happiness Lab and is an expert on human cognition and the cognitive biases that impede better choices. Her course, “Psychology and the Good Life,” teaches students what the science of psychology says about how to make wiser choices and live a life that’s happier and more fulfilling. Dr. Santos has been featured in numerous news outlets including the New York Times, NBC Nightly News, The Today Show, CBS This Morning, and more. She has won numerous awards both for her science and teaching from institutions such as Yale and the American Psychological Association.
    In this episode, Eric and Dr. Laurie Santos discuss the psychology of happiness and strategies on how to lead a happier life.
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    The research she does with dogs
    How animals are excellent guides on how to be present
    The power of doing little things and doing them often
    Focusing on the small things can help keep our “stories” accurate and positive
    Gratitude and delight practices are useful strategies to create happiness
    The impact of sound and learning to notice pleasant sounds
    Shifting our attitude of how we spend our time (get to rather than have to)
    Understanding the scientific benefits can provide motivation to change behavior
    Self compassion helps to find the happy medium of being too harsh or easy on yourself
    Getting curious about our resistance to creating good habi…

  30. What Creation Spirituality Means with Matthew Fox

    8 oktober 2022 · 1 uur 7 min

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    Matthew Fox is an internationally acclaimed spiritual theologian, Episcopal priest, and activist. He holds a doctor in the History and Theology of Spirituality
    In this episode, Eric and Matthew discuss his book: Matthew Fox: Essential Writings on Creation Spirituality.
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    Creation spirituality is about the sacredness of nature and our existence
    Dualism as the fall of humanity
    How it’s easy to forget to savor the beauty of existence
    Accepting the “both/and” rather than “either/or:
    Learning to fall in love the world around us
    The 4 paths of creation spirituality
    Creativity is what distinguishes postmodern from modern science
    The importance of cultivating creativity in a spiritual journey
    How art can be a meditation
    How both creating and taking in art is being an artist
    Compassion is about sharing both the joy and sorrow with one another
    Hildegard’s tent of wisdom
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  31. How to Feel Lighter with Yung Pueblo

    5 oktober 2022 · 1 uur 7 min

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    Diego Perez is a meditator and New York Times bestselling author who is widely known on Instagram and various social media networks through his pen name Yung Pueblo. Online he has an audience of over 2.7 million people. His writing focuses on the power of self-healing, creating healthy relationships, and the wisdom that comes when we truly work on knowing ourselves.
    In this episode, Eric and Yung Pueblo discuss his latest book, Lighter: Let Go of the Past, Connect with the Present, and Expand the Future
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    Yung Pueblo and I Discuss How to Feel Lighter and …
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    Human Habit vs. Human Nature
    What it means to live from compassion and self-awareness
    The anxiety and sadness that grew in him, starting in his childhood in poverty
    The life-changing moment that caused him to turn everything around
    That your initial reaction is usually your past trying to work its way into your present
    How he has gone about burning away the patterns that cause him misery
    His motto of “if this is helping you heal yourself, do it”
    Repetition in the positive sense
    The impact of gambling with his life in order to avoid his emotions
    What to do and not do when you find yourself in a low mood
    The power of first letting whatever is happening to just be
    Why it’s important to notice when a goal is slipping into a craving
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  32. How to Create Emotional Agility with Susan David

    30 september 2022 · 49 min

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    Susan David is a psychologist on faculty at Harvard Medical School. She’s also the co-founder and co-director of The Institute of Coaching at McLean Hospital and is CEO of Evidence-Based Psychology. Have you ever gotten hooked by a difficult emotion? In other words, have you ever felt compelled to act on a strong feeling without having any space to think about your action first? If so, you will find really helpful wisdom in this episode that you can take, apply today and live a more skillful, open-hearted life.
    In this episode, Eric and Susan David discuss her book, Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life
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    How emotions are a guidance system and aren’t good or bad
    Learning
    That emotions can help us adapt and thrive
    The thinking “unless I’m happy all the time, something is wrong”
    Emotional agility is when we connect with our values and move forward in action
    Emotional rigidity is when we believe the negative voice in our head and are reactive or on autopilot
    How we get “hooked” when we accept our thoughts as facts
    Strategies for getting “unhooked”
    Recognizing our patterns and being curious and compassionate about how we’re reacting
    Understanding that tough emotions are part of life
    Shifting thing from “I am ____ ” to “I notice that I’m feeling_____”
    Choice points: do I move towards or away from my values?
    Our values are quality of action
    Social contagion describes how we catch other peoples’ behaviors and emotions
    The power of keeping our values front of mind
    A meaningful life comes with discomfort
    How our difficult emotions are signposts…

  33. How to See the Dharma in Western Literary Classics with Dean Sluyter

    28 september 2022 · 1 uur 4 min

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    Dean Sluyter is an award-winning author who has taught meditation since 1970, from maximum security prisons to the Guatemalan rainforest. He’s a student of Eastern and Western sages from multiple traditions and has completed numerous pilgrimages and retreats in India, Tebet, Nepal, and the West.
    In this episode, Eric and Dean discuss his latest book, The Dharma Bums Guide to Western Literature: Finding Nirvana in the Classics, which reflects his lifelong exploration of the awakening process as well as his years as a prep school English teacher.
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    The role (or lack thereof) of efforting in meditation
    The difference between awareness and mind
    What it means to “relax your grip” or “let it be” during meditation
    The Dharma and the Infinite in The Cat and the Hat
    That dualism is the way the world appears to us when viewed through the thinking mind
    How to find the fragrant emptiness at the core of our minds, beyond all thoughts
    That only the infinite can give us infinite joy, in the finite world – having can’t match our yearning.
    The nature of desire is that it replicates itself
    Kindness in Huckleberry Finn
    That the kingdom of heaven is spread upon the earth, within and all around us
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  34. How to Have Healthier Relationships with Yourself and Others with Jillian Turecki

    23 september 2022 · 1 uur 8 min

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    Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher, and writer who for the last 20 years has taught others how to transform their relationship with themselves and others. Jillian is also the host of the podcast, Jillian on Love.
    In this episode, Eric and Jillian discuss her work coaching and teaching people how to develop healthier relationships with themselves and others.
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    Recognizing that our minds create stories that we can easily get caught up in.
    The importance of understanding issues in a relationship aren’t just about the other person, but as much about yourself
    Taking responsibility for your love life is not about blaming yourself
    How we need to love ourselves before we can love others well
    Important medicine for relationships: accountability, forgiveness, and truth
    The biggest problems in a relationship is trying to change the other person and relying too much on the other person to make you happy
    Asking “how can I change to help you change?”
    When a relationship is failing, we often go into survival mode and neglect to see our role in the relationship
    How we need to keep acknowledging our appreciation to our partners
    Our “emotional home” is the pattern of what we do when we’re stressed
    How all of our emotional patterns come from fear
    The critical role of cC\ommunication in relationships
    Remem…

  35. How to Free Yourself from the Inner Critic Through Mindfulness with Ginny Gay

    21 september 2022 · 1 uur 1 min

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    Ginny Gay is a Certified Mindfulness Teacher and has worked with Eric to create content here at The One You Feed for the past 8 years. Prior to that, she spent 13 years in the corporate world where she thought climbing the corporate ladder equated to success in life. Instead, that approach ultimately led her to a place of severe burnout, addiction, anxiety, and depression. Now, she knows that for her, success in all aspects of life comes from living from a place of authenticity and integration where meaningful work and relationships are the fruit and contribution to the world.
    Ginny loves creating courses, programs, workshops, and written content to help people live life more skillfully and help them navigate the difficulties that come from the inherent challenges of being human so that they can experience more peace, purpose, and joy in their daily lives.
    In this episode, Eric and Ginny discuss her story of struggle and growth, how to work with the inner critic and what it means to practice mindfulness.
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    The way not wanting to experience internal pain can drive us to act in potentially harmful, problematic ways
    Her experience in a fundamentalist Christian church
    Her experience hitting the glass ceiling in the corporate pharmaceutical industry
    The circumstances surrounding her addiction and burnout
    How she was able to believe in growth through difficulty during the worst time in her life
    The key learnings that helped her transform her life from the ground up
    The radical shift she made that saved her life
    The power of naming things as they show up inside of us
    The corrosive impact of th…

  36. How to Find Healing From Trauma with Dr. Gabor Mate

    16 september 2022 · 1 uur 8 min

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    Dr. Gabor Maté is a highly sought expert on a wide range of topics such as addiction, stress, and childhood development. He has written many books, of which several are best-sellers, including the award-winning “In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts” , “Close Encounters with Addiction”, and “When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Culture.” Gabor’s work has been published internationally and in more than 30 languages.
    In this episode, Eric and Dr. Maté discuss his book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture
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    Defining the myths of normal
    How the increasing anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues are a result of toxic culture
    Stress and trauma can begin for a child in utero, at childbirth, and throughout childhood
    The modern stresses of our world contributes to a toxic culture
    How parents pass down their traumas to their children
    Defining trauma as a psychic wound that happens inside of you
    The healing process is the recovery of self
    Understanding the clash between attachment and authenticity
    How emotions and immune systems are part of the same system
    The importance of understanding the important link between emotions and physical health
    Trauma imposed self beliefs are the main obstacles of healing
    Remembering that healing is a lifelong process
    The 4 A’s of healing: authenticity, agency, acceptance, and anger (healthy)
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  37. How to Choose Growth with Scott Barry Kaufman & Jordyn Feingold

    14 september 2022 · 56 min

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    Scott Barry Kaufman, Ph.D., is a cognitive scientist and humanistic psychologist exploring the depths of human potential. He is a professor at Columbia University and director of the Center for Human Potential. Dr. Kaufman has authored 10 books and is host of The Psychology Podcast. In 2015, he was named one of “50 groundbreaking scientists who are changing the way we see the world” by Business Insider.
    Jordyn H. Feingold, MD, MAPP, MSCR is a resident physician in psychiatry at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai in NYC, well-being researcher, and positive psychology practitioner. Her research and clinical interests involve protecting and promoting health care worker and patient well-being and incorporating positive psychology approaches into health care delivery.
    In this episode, Eric talks to Scott and Jordyn about their book, Choose Growth: A Workbook for Transcending Trauma, Fear, and Self-Doubt
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    How practicing what is uncomfortable will lead to growth
    Understanding the relationship between security and growth
    The importance of the word “yet” and how it creates a belief that change is possible
    How growth is about finding the balance between doing and being
    Healthy transcendance includes fusing the connection of self with the world
    The self actualization process and getting in touch with our potential
    Learning to embrace our character strengths as our super powers
    How we can improve our weaknesses by using our top strengths
    The importance of defining our values and what matters most to us
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  38. How to Build Resilience with Steve Magness

    9 september 2022 · 1 uur 9 min

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    Steve Magness is a world-renowned expert on performance, well-being, and sustainable success.He is coauthor of the best selling Peak Performance and The Passion Paradox. In his coaching practice, Steve works with executives, entrepreneurs, and athletes on their performance and mental skills. He also serves as a consultant on mental skills development for professional sports teams, including some of the top teams in professional sports.
    In this episode, Eric and Steve discuss his book, Do Hard Things: Why We Get Resilience Wrong and the Surprising Science of Real Toughness.
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    Asking ourselves if our inner voice is fair, rather than good or bad
    How we handle difficult things better when we feel secure and supported
    Defining toughness as navigating discomfort to make the best decision you can
    Understanding the importance of confidence in toughness
    Quiet internal confidence is about being realistic in our ability and the difficulty of the task at hand.
    How doubt is a necessary component of confidence
    A central component of internal confidence and motivation is seeing progress
    How consistency and taking small steps is what matters most
    Accurate appraisal of both the challenges we face and our internal feelings
    Understanding that feelings are the body’s communication system
    The importance of awareness and contextualization when dealing with feelings and emotions
    Dealing with the two types of inner dialogue – integrated and confrontational
    Learning to shift your self talk to 2nd or 3rd person voice
    How stress narrows our perspecti…

  39. How to Discover New Ways of Living with Shauna Niequist

    7 september 2022 · 58 min

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    Shauna Niequist is the New York Times Best Selling author of many books such as Present Over Perfect, Bread and Wine, Cold Tangerines, and others. She lives in New York City with her husband and two sons.
    In this episode, Eric and Shauna discuss her book, I Guess I Haven’t Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ones Stop Working.
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    Why the word hospitality is important to her
    What self-compassion means to her and how she practices it
    Seeing out beauty as an act of prayer, worship, and resistance
    Putting herself in the path of joy and beauty, giving herself the greatest chance to find them
    How to practice being easily delighted
    It’s ok for the joy of something to be that it feels like play
    Seeing people different from you is a reminder that you can change and find a new way of being
    How radical and freeing it is to consent to the reality of the way things are
    The value of adding to our toolkit of ways we can help ourselves when we are struggling
    What it means for her that sometimes saying no is in service to a much better yes
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  40. How to Write Haiku and Other Spiritual Practices with Clark Strand

    2 september 2022 · 1 uur 12 min

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    Clark Strand is an American author and lecturer on spirituality and religion. He is a former Zen Buddhist monk and was the first Senior Editor of Tricycle: The Buddhist Review. He is also the author of many books including The Way of the Rose: The Radical Path of the Divine Feminine Hidden in the Rosary and Seeds of a Birch Tree: Writing Haiku and the Spiritual Journey
    In this episode, Eric and Clark discuss a few of his books in addition to his exploration of the many spiritual traditions.
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    His exploration of many spiritual traditions
    Self power and other power
    The circular notion of spiritual life rather than linear notion of progress
    How a bead/rosary practice represents the circular nature of spirituality
    The “hour of God” or “hour of the wolf” when awake in the night
    Haiku and the tradition and forms of this type of poetry
    Translation of haiku is “playful verse”
    How profound meanings can come through from this playful art from
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  41. What is Wellness Culture with Fariha Roisin

    31 augustus 2022 · 57 min

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    Fariha Roisin is an Australian Canadian writer whose work frequently covers her identity as a queer, south Asian Muslim woman as well as self-care and pop culture. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, Al Jazeera, The Guardian, Vice, Village Voice,and other publications. She has written a book of poetry (How To Cure A Ghost), a journal (Being In Your Body), and a novel (Like A Bird).
    In this episode, Eric and Fariha discuss her non-fiction book, Who Is Wellness For? An Examination of Wellness Culture and Who It Leaves Behind.
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    The way her severe childhood trauma has shaped her entire life
    That we are shaped by the trauma of our families and ancestors
    The factors that weave into how we need to heal
    The importance of looking at and into the darkness for ourselves
    Being alive IS the journey of self-discovery to show up as a fairer, kinder version of yourself
    How discomfort is undervalued
    That unraveling is the nexus for change in life
    The difficult path of healing will give you your life if you follow it
    How achieving or ascension can be a trauma response
    What it means to become a more whole version of yourself – where every part of you is allowed
    The idea of taking only what you give
    How healing requires being present with yourself
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  42. How to Cultivate Lovingkindness with Sharon Salzberg

    26 augustus 2022 · 45 min

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    Sharon Salzberg is one of the worlds best know Buddhist teachers and a leader in meditation retreats worldwide since 1974. She teaches both intensive awareness practice (vipassana or insight meditation) and the profound cultivation of lovingkindness and compassion (the Brahma Viharas). She is a co-founder of the Insight Meditation Society in Barre, Massachusetts and The Barre Center for Buddhist Studies.
    In this episode, Eric and Sharon discuss her book Real Happiness At Work: Meditations for Accomplishment, Achievement, and Peace.
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    Lovingkindess is the fundamental sense of connectedness to ourselves and each other
    Compassion is recognizing the universal vulnerability of ourselves and each other
    The fundamental teaching of “everyone wants to be happy“
    Remembering that it’s never to late to make a change
    How the mind is naturally radiant and pure
    The “visitors” that obscure our mind
    The essential question of asking what we really need to be happy
    How mindfulness is about training to find “the place in the middle”
    Balancing repression and indulgence in our emotions
    Whether Buddhism teaches that desire is the core problem
    Making decisions from a “climate of wisdom”
    The four types of enemies (outer, inner, secret, and most secret)
    How to deal with these enemies
    The importance of setting intentions
    Watching our thoughts like an elderly person watches children in a park
    How the difference between happiness and misery depends on where we place our attention.
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  43. How to Embody Awareness with Martin Aylward

    24 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 7 min

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    Martin Aylward has practiced meditation intensively since the age of 19, spending four years in Asian monasteries and with Himalayan hermits. He’s been teaching worldwide since 1999, leading retreats and courses in mindfulness, meditation, and inner freedom. Martin co-founded the Mindfulness Training Institute with Mark Coleman, which runs year-long professional mindfulness teacher training in Europe and the U.S.
    In this episode, Eric, Ginny, and Martin discuss his book, Awake Where You Are: The Art of Embodied Awareness.
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    The habits of “Grabby Mind”, “Resistant Mind”, and “Check Out Mind”
    The good news that can learn to meet our experience more kindly and more spaciously
    How aging can be humiliating or humbling depending on how much we try to hold on to our younger self-image
    The distinction between what is true vs. what is useful to focus on
    How to recognize and work with the deficient age gap
    The way our life experiences are stored in our bodies
    Sometimes meditation isn’t quite psychological enough. It can help dissolve inner states in the moment but further understanding is needed in order for them to really resolve
    Waking up, growing up, showing up, cleaning up
    No rehearsal, No replay
    Inhabiting this moment is the best way to prepare for the next moment
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  44. How to Lose Regret and Choose Fulfillment with Marshall Goldsmith

    19 augustus 2022 · 57 min

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    Marshall Goldsmith is the only two-time Thinkers 50 Award for #1 Leadership Thinker in the World. He has been ranked as the world’s #1 Executive Coach, a Top Ten Business Thinker for eight years, and was chosen as the inaugural winner of the Lifetime Award for Leadership by the Harvard Institute of Coaching. Marshall is the author or editor of 41 books, that have sold over 2.5 million copies, translated into 32 languages, and listed as bestsellers in 12 countries.
    In this episode, Eric and Marshall discuss his book, The Earned Life: Lose Regret, Choose Fulfillment
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    The every breath paradigm in learning to lose regret
    Understanding the importance of asking for helping
    Some of the barriers that hold us back
    Differences between being comfortable and being fulfilled
    Problems that arise when we are too attached to outcomes
    The 3 A’s: action, ambition, aspiration
    How both finding meaning and enjoying the process leads to happiness
    Obligations and how they relate to our values
    The practice of daily questions that takes 3 minutes
    Remembering that aking change is easier when you have support
    The value in asking”Did I do my best to….”questions as they force you to take responsibility
    How it’s more challenging to make the effort in our personal life than our professional life
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  45. How to Become Whole Through the Bittersweet with Susan Cain

    16 augustus 2022 · 56 min

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    Susan Cain is an author who has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, The Wall Street Journal, and many other publications. Her record-smashing TedTalk has been viewed over 30 million times and was named by Bill Gates as one of his all-time favorite talks. Susan is the author of the book, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can’t Stop Talking, which spent seven years on the New York Times Best Selling List and has been translated into 40 languages..
    In this episode, Eric and Susan discuss her new book, Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole.
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    Why some people really love sad music
    How brokenness points in the direction of transcendence
    How to know if you tend towards a bittersweet state of mind
    Why do some people turn pain into something beautiful and in other cases people are broken by life’s difficulties
    The way of “even so”
    Union between souls when sorrow is shared
    Understanding the messiness and unpredictability of grief
    The mystery of bittersweet
    The divine nature of longing
    How longing is different from craving
    Being open to great states of transition as gateways in our life
    Moving on vs. Moving forward
    Poignancy
    What it means to turn in the direction of beauty
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  46. What's Next? Our Future Stories with David Christian

    12 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 6 min

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    What does the future hold? And how do we make sure we're making the best decisions for ourselves? In today's episode with David Christian, you will discover answers to these questions and much more!
    "What are the skills involved in trying to think about the future? To construct future stories that are closer to the truth than other future stories? Because if we don't do that. We die." - David Christian
    David Christian is a distinguished Professor of History at Macquarie University and Director of the school's Big History Institute. David co-founded the Big History Project with Bill Gates and has delivered keynotes at conferences around the world, including the Davos Economic Forum. His Ted Talk has been viewed millions of times and he is the author of many books and articles.
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    The questions leading him to write about the future
    How we are always thinking about and telling ourselves stories about the future
    Thinking about the philosophy and science of time
    The two metaphors of time being like a river and a map
    How time is an important concept for complex entities
    Punctuated equilibrium refers to trends from the past to predict changes in the future
    How time is experienced in 3 ways: natural, psychological, and social time
    The best predictions of the future depend on finding the most powerful trends of the past
    The four possible scenarios for the future of humanity
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  47. How to Overcome Unconscious Bias with Jessica Nordell

    10 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 1 min

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    Jessica Nordell is an award-winning author, science writer, and speaker known for blending rigorous science with compassionate humanity. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, and many others. She is the recipient of a Gracie Award from American Women in Radio and Television, was named a Best New Poet by Tracy K. Smith, and was a 2022 featured speaker at SXSW.
    In this episode, Eric and Jessica discuss her book, The End of Bias: A Beginning: The Science and Practice of Overcoming Unconscious Bias.
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    What bias is and how prevalent it is
    Her personal experience being on the receiving end of another person’s bias
    Homophily
    The implecations of prejudice being a habit and a result of conditioning
    How labels and categorizing plant seeds of bias
    Ways to lessen the impact of categories on our perspectives
    Why being “color blind” can be so harmful to people (despite the well-meaning approach)
    Taking on more and broader perspectives helps us better understand the world
    Seeing the groups we don’t belong to as just as complex as our own group
    The fundamental attribution error
    The role of empathy in dissolving biases
    Hyper-objects
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  48. The Challenges of Searching for Happiness with Josh Peck

    5 augustus 2022 · 52 min

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    Josh Peck is an actor, comedian, podcast host and author who began his career as an actor in the late 90s, originally rising to prominence for his role in the sitcom Drake and Josh. He has had a successful acting career ever since, appearing in films like The Wackness and 13. He is also the voice of Eddie in the Ice Age franchise.
    In this episode, Eric and Josh discuss his book, Happy People are Annoying
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    How we can be self centered even when we don’t think highly of ourselves
    How any asset in excess can become a defect
    Learning to let go of the thing that feeds your ego
    His unhealthy relationship with food
    What doing drugs felt like to him
    Learning there was nothing from the outside world that would fix his inner self
    Entering the twelve step community
    How addiction creates suffering for the entire family unit
    Religion and spirituality is about reimagining ancient truth
    The challenge of learning to enjoy things fully,even if it doesn’t work out
    Asking what are you willing to let go of that stands between you and happiness
    Why he titled the book “Happy People are Annoying
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  49. Fierce Love with Sonya Curry

    3 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 4 min

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    Sonya Curry is an entrepreneur, educator, founder of the Christian Montessori School of Lake Norman, as well as the co-host of the Raising Fame Podcast. She is the mother of Stephen, Sydel, and Seth Curry and often speaks of her experiences as a mother, educator, and Christian, sharing testimony about her faith in parenting and education.
    In this episode, Eric and Sonya discuss her book, Fierce Love: A Memoir of Family, Faith, and Purpose.
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    The phase of her life when she was sure she didn’t want to get baptized in the Christian church
    How she had “everything” as the wife of an NBA player, and still wasn’t fulfilled
    What brought her to a relationship with God
    Looking at her life as a series of chapters
    The Montessori pillars she carries with her today that informs how she lives
    The subtle ways unhealthy comparison starts in us very early in life
    How she handles the rivalry that comes up between her sons from time to time
    She shares her story of having an abortion and why she did that largely for her daughter
    Her experience as an empty-nester
    The experience she had at a vegan meditation and yoga center
    That God delivers us through things, rather than out of them
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  50. Become 10% Happier Through Meditation with Dan Harris

    29 juli 2022 · 40 min

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    Dan Harris is best known for his work on ABC News, Nightline and Good Morning America. He is the author of the book, 10% Happier: How I Tamed the Voice in My Head, Reduced Stress Without Losing My Edge, and Found Self-Help That Actually Works–A True Story
    In this episode, Eric and Dan discuss his original skepticism of meditation and the benefits he discovered from developing a regular meditation practice.
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    How the mind can be trained for compassion and happiness
    Exercising the brain just like the body
    The science of meditation
    How we all have an inner voice or narrator in our head
    The scientifically proven benefits of meditation
    Our tendency to focus on the bad things and ignore the good.
    Finding the line of when to push forward or back down
    The happiness set point theory.
    Motivation coming from happiness versus pain
    How a certain amount of stress is necessary
    Dealing with failure and setbacks
    His experience of discovering awareness in the present moment
    Meditation as a mechanism of learning mindfulness
    The practice of meditation is about remembering
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