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  1. Culadasa on How the Mind Works Part 2

    18 juli 2018 · 40 min

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    Culadasa is a meditation master with over 4 decades of experience in the Tibetan and Theravadan Buddhist traditions. He taught classes in neuroscience and psychology at the Universities of Calgary and Brittish Columbia. He now lives in the Arizona wilderness and leads the Dharma Treasure Buddhist Sanga. His book on meditation, The Mind Illuminated, is the book Eric calls the best book on meditation he's ever read. This is a two-part interview. In this episode, part one, Eric and Culadasa talk about how the mind and brain works - knowledge that is essential to understand before one can successfully implement the meditation techniques that will be discussed in part two. These techniques have the very real potential of transforming your meditation experience. So listen up in this episode and get ready to radically re-understand this thing we call the mind. Lees meer

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    In This Interview, Culadasa and I Discuss...

    His book, The Mind Illuminated

    The power of setting an intention for meditation

    Getting all of the mind on board for meditating

    Accepting whatever comes up

    Trying to enjoy your meditation, celebrating the times you come back to the present moment vs scolding yourself

    Roadmap of the stages of meditation over time

    How knowing the developmental nature of things over time can be problematic

    The difficulties of being a beginner at anything

    Looking for the pleasure and joy in wherever you are

    The 4 step process of settling in to meditate

    Feeling your breath at the nose

    The Mindful Review

    Being aware of the motivation behind your thoughts and speech

    What could I have done d…

  2. Culadasa on How the Mind Works

    11 juli 2018 · 49 min

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    Culadasa is a meditation master with over 4 decades of experience in the Tibetan and Theravadan Buddhist traditions. He taught classes in neuroscience and psychology at the Universities of Calgary and Brittish Columbia. He now lives in the Arizona wilderness and leads the Dharma Treasure Buddhist Sanga. His book on meditation, The Mind Illuminated, is the book Eric calls the best book on meditation he's ever read. This is a two-part interview. In this episode, part one, Eric and Culadasa talk about how the mind and brain works - knowledge that is essential to understand before one can successfully implement the meditation techniques that will be discussed in part two. These techniques have the very real potential of transforming your meditation experience. So listen up in this episode and get ready to radically re-understand this thing we call the mind.
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    In This Interview, Culadasa and I Discuss...

    His book, The Mind Illuminated

    How the mind and the brain works

    The basic distinction between attention and awareness

    How when we give labels to something we can know and understand it better

    The moments of consciousness model

    Non-perceiving moments of consciousness

    The dullness of meditation

    Sleepiness in meditation

    The goal of vipassana is to increase the total power of our cognitive abilities

    The mind system model (how the mind works)

    The conscious and unconscious mind

    Sensory sub-mind (taking in info through senses)

    Discriminating sub-mind (cognitive thinking/feeling)

    These sub-minds are competing for attention

    The conscious…

  3. Amoda Maa on Living Your Awakening

    4 juli 2018 · 43 min

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    Amoda Maa is a contemporary spiritual teacher and author. You may recognize the titles of some of her books: How to Find God in Everything, Change Your Life Change Your World and Radical Awakening. Her new book, Embodied Enlightenment: Living Your Awakening In Every Moment, is a powerful look at what awakening means, looks like and feels in your everyday life. She stresses that you can't think your way into awakening but that rather you feel your way into it. During this interview she talks about what that means and how to do it. Lees meer

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    In This Interview, Amoda Maa and I Discuss...

    Her new book, Embodied Enlightenment: Living Your Awakening In Every Moment

    Awakening

    Waking up out of the dream of separation

    Waking up out of the dream of thinking that we are our thoughts and feelings

    Awakening not dependant on or a precursor to one's psychological health

    Surrendering the need to uphold oneself

    Surrendering the psychological self

    The need for psychological safety giving rise to egoic tendencies

    The defense and attack found in righteousness

    The verticality of being

    Not having an agenda of the outcome when opening ourselves to our experience and meeting it as it is

    How to be free from suffering

    The strength of life's intelligence

    The ripening that happens within oneself when you've finally had enough of running away from pain

    No real relief from pain and no final freedom from pain when all you're doing is running away from it

    Am I willing to meet this exactly as it is?

    Trying not to try

    True fulfillment is the emptying of the spiritual shopping basket

    The paradox of trying not to try

    Accumulating agendas = committing to a particular spiritual path an…

  4. Johann Hari on Depression and Lost Connections

    27 juni 2018 · 1 uur 6 min

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    Johann Hari is an author and a journalist. His previous book was a New York Times Best Seller and his newest, Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression and the Unexpected Solutions, is no doubt on its way to share the same status. It proposes a more holistic, societal look at the causes and treatment of depression - more than the singular chemical imbalance explanation we traditionally consider. The core principal of getting our needs met is a thread that runs throughout this discussion and the deep dive that Johann Hari does on the subject will fascinate you and cause you to stop and think very differently than you have before on this topic that affects so many people in this world. Lees meer

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    In This Interview, Johann Hari and I Discuss...

    His new book, Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression and the Unexpected Solutions

    The two kinds of human connection

    Intrinsic (internal) and extrinsic (external) motivations

    "Junk" values

    The more you're driven by extrinsic values, the more likely you'll suffer from anxiety and depression in your life

    Our society drives us to live in this extrinsic way

    The whole point of advertising is to make us feel inadequate and our problems can be solved by buying

    Extrinsic motives can crowd out the more fulfilling intrinsic motives

    The 9 causes of depression and anxiety

    The need to look more holistically at anxiety and depression than just a chemical imbalance

    That the book is NOT saying not to take medications that help with anxiety and depression

    The loneliest culture that has ever been

    The importance of addressing the deep environmental factors/reasons why we're so depressed and anxious

    Our sense of home and se…

  5. Andrew Solomon Re-Release (Originally Ep #50) The Atlas of Depression

    20 juni 2018 · 45 min

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    This week on The One You Feed we have Andrew Solomon.
    Andrew Solomon is a writer and lecturer on politics, culture and psychology.
    Solomon’s recent book, Far From the Tree: Parents, Children, and the Search for Identity, published on November 13, 2012, won the National Book Critics Circle award for nonfiction among many other awards. The New York Times hailed the book, writing, “It’s a book everyone should read… there’s no one who wouldn’t be a more imaginative and understanding parent — or human being — for having done so… a wise and beautiful book.” People described it as “a brave, beautiful book that will expand your humanity.”
    Solomon’s previous book, The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression (Scribner, 2001), won the 2001 National Book Award for Nonfiction, was a finalist for the 2002 Pulitzer Prize, and was included in The Times of London‘s list of one hundred best books of the decade. A New York Times bestseller in both hardcover and paperback editions, The Noonday Demon has also been a bestseller in seven foreign countries, and has been published in twenty-four languages. The New York Times described it as “All-encompassing, brave, deeply humane… a book of remarkable depth, breadth and vitality… open-minded, critically informed and poetic all at the same time… fearless, and full of compassion.”
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    In This Interview Andrew and I Discuss…

    The One You Feed parable.

    Using work to make the world a better place.

    The urgent business of living a moral life.

    How to decide what we should change and what we should accept.

    How hope can become the cornerstone of misery.

    The challenges and joys of parenting disabled children.

    The perfectionism of privilege.

    The importance of the choice to celebrate what is versus wishing it to be different.

    How we can grow through difficult circumstances.

    The poison of comparison.

    The idea of the “psychological supermodel”.

    Layering feelings of failure onto depression and how damaging that is.

    Learning to celebrate our difficu…

  6. Susan Piver on The Four Noble Truths of Love

    13 juni 2018 · 54 min

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    Susan Piver is a New York Times bestselling author of 9 books and a renowned Buddhist teacher. This is Susan's second time on the show because we love her and her work so much. Her new book, The Four Noble Truths of Love: Buddhist Wisdom for Modern Relationships walks us through the Four Noble Truths of Buddhism as they apply to relationships. You don't have to be a Buddhist or study Buddhism to get a lot out of this conversation and her new book. She teaches universal pieces of wisdom that, when applied, will grow and deepen and enrich your relationships to a whole new level. Lees meer

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    In This Interview, Susan Piver and I Discuss...

    Her book, The Four Noble Truths of Love: Buddhist Wisdom for Modern Relationships

    The emotions underneath fear, hatred and greed

    Depression being a calcified sadness

    Turning towards sadness

    The four noble truths of love: Relationships are uncomfortable, Thinking that they should be comfortable contributes to that uncomfortableness, Meeting the discomfort and instability together IS love, There's a threefold path to do all of this

    Feeling your feelings without the story - what does it feel like in your body? In the environment?

    The difference between anger and irritation in the body

    The enormous space that opens up when we drop the expectation that when we solve "this" problem, the relationship will stabilize and we'll be happy

    Look at the problem itself as a team in relationships rather than blaming one another

    The threefold path: Precision, Openness, Going beyond

    The role an…

  7. Michael Pollan on the New Science of Psychedelics and Consciousness

    6 juni 2018 · 41 min

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    Michael Pollan is a writer whose books have topped the New York Times bestseller list time and time again. He teaches writing at Harvard and The University of California Berkley. In 2010, Time magazine name Michael Pollan one of the most influential people in the world. His books and essays have historically focused on our interaction with nature and this new book takes that theme to a whole other level. Its title gives you a great idea of what it's about: How to Change your Mind: What the New Science of Psychedelics Teaches Us About Consciousness, Dying, Addiction, Depression, and Transcendence. No matter how many interviews you've heard of Michael Pollan talking about his new book, our interview will offer you a fresh perspective, things he has not previously discussed and things that you may not have previously considered. The very last concept discussed in Eric's conversation with Michael Pollan will for sure leave you thinking anew.
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    In This Interview, Michael Pollan and I Discuss...
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    His book, How to Change your Mind: What the New Science of Psychedelics Teaches Us About Consciousness, Dying, Addiction, Depression, and Transcendence

    How fear is a big motivator in people's action and inaction

    That your obstacles are all between your ears

    How consciousness is a big mystery

    What the newest science tells us about psychedelics

    The way psychedelics affect us by allowing us to look at normal, everyday consciousness in new ways

    The default mode network going quiet during a psychedelic trip

    The ego, idea of self in the brain and our life

    Psychedelics impact on the sense of self

    The experience of the dissolution of the ego

    The mind-expanding power of mystical experience

    The theory of the entropic brain

    How the brain works to reduce uncert…

  8. Austin Channing Brown: On the Advancement of Racial Justice

    30 mei 2018 · 54 min

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    Austin Channing Brown is a writer, speaker, and practitioner who helps schools, nonprofits, and religious organizations practice genuine inclusion. She is passionate about the advancement of racial justice and reconciliation and her words will most certainly move you to action. In her work, she shares her experiences as a black woman who "navigates whiteness on a regular basis". After listening to this interview and reading her book, your mind and heart will be broadened towards understanding and inclusion - regardless of where you are on that spectrum today. Lees meer

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    In This Interview, Austin Channing Brown and I Discuss...

    Her book, I'm Still Here: Black Dignity in A World Made for Whiteness

    The importance and value of anger

    How we can fight the monsters without becoming the monsters

    That anger reveals something is wrong

    White fragility - sadness and anger

    Naming the things that can come in the way of a discussion, before the discussion happens

    Realising racial bias

    Transformation comes after a moment of realization

    The idea of "whiteness being normal"

    Books to read to gain an understanding of racial injustice

    Disunity in Christ

    Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria?: And Other Conversations About Race

    How to look for opportunities to talk with others about topics of racial injustice

    Check out "Be the Bridge"

    The white confessional being a shortcut to true reconciliation

    Skipping the confessional story and moving straight to the action step you'll take next

    What reconciliation means to her

    Racial justice and reconciliation

    Radical Reconciliation

    How reconciliation should revolutionize the relationships we have with each other

    The celebration of blackness that is throughout the book

    Cultural misappropriation

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  9. Reissue: Frank Turner

    23 mei 2018 · 28 min

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    This week on The One You Feed we have Frank Turner.
    In honor of Frank's new record we are re-releasing one of Eric's favorite interviews. This was the 22nd interview of all time for The One You Feed.
    We will be back with a new episode next week.
    Frank was a singer in a hardcore band, Million Dead. When they broke up he started out on his own with an acoustic guitar. He has released five solo albums, two rarities compilation albums, one split album and five EPs. His seventh studio album Be More Kind was recently released
    In This Interview Frank and I Discuss…
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    The One You Feed parable.

    The feeling that there is never enough time.

    The importance of friendship in feeding your good wolf.

    His role as a CALM Ambassador.

    Building a community around music.

    What punk rock meant to him as a kid.

    Staying connected to his values of openness and community as he gets more famous

    Music as a refuge for those that don’t fit in.

    Music that he turns to to feed his good wolf.

    Writing the press release for John K Samson’s latest record.

    The challenges of alcohol and drugs.

    Getting older and the changes in identity that come with that.

    His love of dogs and his amazing “dog policy” at shows

    His forthcoming record.

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  10. Adyshanti Part 2

    16 mei 2018 · 57 min

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    Adyashanti is a renowned and gifted spiritual teacher. He's written many books, hosts meditation retreats and speaks around the world to large audiences at a time. With such a wide audience, it's amazing that when you experience Adya's teaching, it's as if he's speaking directly to you - to your very heart. Whatever your experience with or preconceived notions of spiritual awakening, allow yourself to re-engage with the idea through this interview. As you turn the inquiry towards yourself this time, you may be surprised, moved and/or transformed by what you find - if you are brutally honest in the process.

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    In This Interview, Adyashanti and I Discuss...

    Self-Inquiry

    Starting with I am not _____

    Starting with all inclusiveness - I am _____

    Being open to being wrong about things

    Experiencing an "uncaused" sense of well being

    Self-transcendent values

    It works best in life to ______

    When you have less internal conflict you treat the world in a different way than if you have more internal conflict

    Removing the religious and cultural compass removes the moral north star

    We reorient ourselves to comfort being the north star

    Nothing mattering AND everything mattering

    That Adya is oriented towards truth and love

    Activities are neutral - it's what we bring to it that gives it meaning

    What is it about awakening that you want?

    What is meaningful moment to moment and day by day

    At every moment, we are giving expression to what we value

    How nothing shuts down awakening faster than judgment

    The spiritual persona of "I'm going to get out of this human game" or "I'm going to be here but not really be here"

    The importance of coming to grips with the human experience of imperfection...

    ...without turning it into an excuse for unwise behavior

    Be aware of your human limitations and don't see them as "wrong"

    The problematic experience of…

  11. Adyashanti on the Process and Experience of Awakening (part 1)

    9 mei 2018 · 52 min

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    Adyashanti is a renowned and gifted spiritual teacher. He's written many books, hosts meditation retreats and speaks around the world to large audiences at a time. With such a wide audience, it's amazing that when you experience Adya's teaching, it's as if he's speaking directly to you - to your very heart. Whatever your experience with or preconceived notions of spiritual awakening, allow yourself to re-engage with the idea through this interview. As you turn the inquiry towards yourself this time, you may be surprised, moved and/or transformed by what you find - if you are brutally honest in the process.our inner life.
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    In This Interview, Adyashanti and I Discuss...

    Eric's awakening experience

    The awakened state in perpetuity

    The shift in perception that happens with awakening

    The paradox of wanting something like awakening yet wanting it stands in the way of having it

    Will gets you to the cushion and once there, it's important to let go of it

    Does one need a spiritual teacher when seeking awakening?

    The teacher evoking something from vs the teacher giving something to the student

    How people work with unconscious patterns

    How you can't not be awakened - even if you don't feel it, it's there

    Emotional conflict

    Paying attention to what's recurring in you

    Anything that's happened to us that was too big for us to remain conscious while we experienced it, gets trapped in our system - turned into some other emotion or it just gets stuffed and is now just there waiting for you. The universe is now asking, "can you experience this now?"

    Being fine with being sad

    Let everything be exactly the way it is

    How dealing with life's experiences as they come transforms you

    A clinched fist vs an open hand metaphor

    "Let" vs "Let go"

    If you can't let it go, can you let it be

    Failure as part of triumph

    Failing your way through something …

  12. Mark Epstein on the Intersection of Buddhism and Psychotherapy

    2 mei 2018 · 49 min

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    Mark Epstein is a psychiatrist in private practice in NYC and the author of many books about the intersection of Buddhism and psychotherapy. He's currently the clinical assistant professor in the postdoctoral program in Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis at New York University. His most recent book, Advice Not Given; A Guide to Getting Over Yourself is what he talks about in this episode. His wisdom is so incredibly practical, applicable, and helpful. Ideas like whether or not naming your feelings would be a helpful strategy for you and how to work with clinging in its many forms - even the clinging to inner peace - abound in this discussion. Take a listen and enrich your inner life.
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    In This Interview, Mark Epstein and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His book, Advice Not Given; A Guide to Getting Over Yourself

    The duality that we all struggle with

    Freud and the Buddha's nearly identical conclusion

    What it means to take personal responsibility for our selfish concerns

    The clinging to that which gives us a sense of control over life

    The clinging to that which nurtures our ego

    The eightfold path of the Buddha

    The conversation with his terminally ill father that inspired this book

    Right View - being realistic about one's self and the nature of things

    How change and death is happening all of the time, moment to moment

    Trying not to try as it relates to meditation

    "Take the backward step" in meditation

    FInding balance in "right effort"

    Exploring the feelings that we are otherwise afraid of through psychotherapy

    The link between being with uncomfortable feelings and empathy to others

    How anything that's happening in the body or mind can be the object of meditation

    How useful it is to name a feeling

    Making a feeling "intelligible" by naming it

    How useful it can be to find where feelings show up in the body

    When your mind is not …

  13. Barbara Bonner on Inspiring Generosity and Courage

    25 april 2018 · 41 min

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    Barbara Bonner started as an art historian and then went on to spend much of her professional career in nonprofit management, fundraising and philanthropy. Most relevant to this show, Barbara is the author of two books; Inspiring Generosity and Inspiring Courage. In this episode, she talks about both, using beautiful poetry, powerful quotes, and illustrative real-life stories. If you've ever wanted to cultivate these two qualities in your life, then this episode is for you. If there's one thing Barbara does through her work, it's inspiring action towards both of these qualities in the lives of everyday people.

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    In This Interview, Barbara Bonner and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    Her books, Inspiring Generosity and Inspiring Courage

    The power of putting ourselves in the way of inspiration

    How we're different at the end of a book than at the beginning

    Reframing how we look at generosity

    How generosity flows from a sense of abundance

    How a sense of abundance flows from being generous

    That generosity and courage are action verbs

    The fact that you should feel a pinch when you act generously

    That saying the loving-kindness meditation can be generous

    What it means to lead a courageous life

    How no one who was courageous seems to claim courage

    The spontaneity of courage

    How authenticity seems to coincide with courage

    That you see a pattern of courage throughout people's lives

    Post-traumatic growth

    How a strong childhood isn't necessary in order to lead a full life

    The role of listening in generosity and courage

    How important listening is in all of life

    The correlation between generosity and courage

    Practicing generosity and courage and growing the ability to act on these qualities over time

    How to live a life of meaning you…

  14. Ulrich Boser on How to Get Better at Learning

    17 april 2018 · 42 min

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    Ulrich Boser is a best selling author and senior fellow with The Center for American Progress. He has been a contributing editor for US News and World Report and his work has appeared in the NY Times, Wall Street Journal, and Huntington Post. His latest book, Learn Better: Mastering the Skills for Success in Life, Business or School - or - How to Become an Expert in Just About Anything, will equip you with actual skills to get better at what some have called the ultimate survival tool: learning how to learn. This topic is relevant to literally everyone. To be alive is to learn and grow and change (whether we're aware of it at times or not!) so it's important to sharpen our skills in order to get better at getting better. What is discussed in this episode will confirm some of what you know about how people learn, challenge some beliefs you might have about this topic and teach you a few things in the process that will make you a better student of life.

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    In This Interview, Ulrich Boser and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His book, Learn Better: Mastering the Skills for Success in Life, Business or School - or - How to Become an Expert in Just About Anything

    Learning how to learn

    Getting better at getting better

    The ultimate survival tool

    Being actively engaged in the learning process

    Making meaning out of something

    The hypercorrection effect

    Giving our brain time to make sense of the information, reflection

    How critical it is to understand relationships between things

    Varying the circumstances in which we learn/apply information

    How it's easier to remember something new if you can hang it on to something old

    A systematic approach to learning something

    Value: valuing what you're learning

    Target: learning small pieces of info at a time

    Develop: practice & get feedback

    Extend: elaborating on something, looking at it from…

  15. Tim Freke on the Evolution of the Human Psyche

    11 april 2018 · 51 min

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    Tim Freke is a truly pioneering philosopher. His many books, talks, and retreats have touched the lives of hundreds of thousands of people worldwide. Tim is the author of 35 books, the newest being Soul Story: Evolution and the purpose of life. As you listen to this interview, your ah-ha moments will grow in scope and scale throughout the conversation. He is a radical thinker and one of the great minds of our time. His big view of where we've been, where we are and where we're going will hit you as perhaps surprising, remarkably realistic and fundamentally inspiring. Listen and see for yourself.

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    In This Interview, Tim Freke and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His book, Soul Story: Evolution and the Purpose of Life

    The deeper level of evolution going on inside of ourselves

    The evolution of the psyche

    Perhaps it's all one evolutionary journey: physical evolution, biological evolution and then an evolution of the psyche or soul

    What if rather than the concept of God creating the universe, we've evolved such that we've created a god

    Maybe God is where we're going towards

    In life - the deepest things happen at the end

    An arriving of conscious oneness

    The point of view that life in the world is getting better over time

    Creativity is the heart of the universe

    The great religions of the world were created at a time when people still thought the world is flat. We've moved on and so can our recognition of spirituality

    The ark of time pointing towards a better world now

    Rather than the passing of time, perhaps it's the accumulation of the past meeting the possible.The past meeting the possible

    The weight of the past that can limit us and pull us back

    Paralogical thinking: both AND (not either or)

    Transcend and Include

    How he teaches others to have the experience of "deep awake"

    Allowing vs. Pushing Away

    Being pulled towards the bette…

  16. Cheri Huber On the Impact of Our Mind on Our Direct Experience

    4 april 2018 · 54 min

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    Cheri Huber is the author of 20 books and has been a student of zen for 35 years. She founded the Mountain View Zen Center and the Zen Monastery Peace Center, both in California, where she and other monks teach workshops and hold retreats. She is also a truth telling, light hearted delight to listen to. In this interview, she talks all about what is going on in our mind and how we can better work with it to produce a better experience in life. Her wisdom is so practical and so powerful. See for yourself in this transformative episode.
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    In This Interview, Cheri Huber and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    Her book, I Don't Want To, I Don't Feel Like It: How resistance controls your life and what to do about it

    How the process IS the outcome

    That now is the only moment there is

    How the quality of your life is determined by the focus of your attention

    Everything comes into being, together

    She doesn't believe that there's anything that ISN'T God

    Our dualistic thinking

    All of the ways to refer to the ego

    The unique ability that humans have to experience themselves as other than life

    The ego is a survival system

    Believing we are not connected to life

    Everything is a verb! A gerund

    The illusion of being separate from life

    My ego is the no to life's yes

    Always asking what's lacking, what's missing, what's wrong keeps the ego as the center of the universe

    How we are deeply conditioned for negativity

    Awareness being able to watch the conditioned mind

    I hear it in my head, it sounds like me, it must be me, it's who I am

    Approach the stuff that's going on inside our heads by imagining that it's somebody next to you saying it

    Recording and Listening

    Make recordings of what's true, what I appreciate, what I love

    Hearing what's true for you in your own voice

    Talking ourselves into a life that's true

    How …

  17. Rick Hanson on Growing Positive Qualities

    27 maart 2018 · 50 min

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    Rick Hanson, PhD is a Neuropsychologist, teacher and author of many books. He is the founder of the Wellspring Center for Neuroscience and Contemplative Wisdom and an affiliate of the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkley. This is the 2nd time Dr. Hanson has been a guest on the show and we invited him back because of how great his work really is. In this episode, he talks all about the fact that who we become is a result of what we grow inside of ourselves. Using the analogy of tending a garden, he teaches us very practical ways to grow and enrich ourselves through the experiences in our lives. Get a pen and paper - you'll probably want to take notes on this one!

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    In This Interview, Rick Hanson and I Discuss...

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    His book, Resilient: How to grow an unshakable core of calm, strength, and happiness

    Who we become is a result of what we grow inside ourselves

    How you manage your challenges, protect your vulnerabilities, Increase your resources: out in the world, in the body, and in the mind

    Growing resources in our mind is a good focus

    Converting an experience into lasting change

    Slowing down content delivery so that the nervous system in our brains has a chance to receive it and rewire accordingly

    5 ways to enrich a beneficial experience:

    Extend the experience (make it longer)

    Intensify the experience (really lean into it)

    Embody the experience (how does it feel in your body and your mind)

    Freshen the experience (see what's novel about it? Bring a beginners mind)

    Value the experience (see the relevance to you)

    Asking what is the challenge? What resource would be the most beneficial?

    The mind is like a garden - to grow things, focus on:

    Mindful witnessing

    Mindful releasing of what's negative

    Mindful receiving (replace what we release or simply receive what would be beneficial)…

  18. Questions to Ask Yourself About Stress

    25 maart 2018 · 7 min

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  19. Jeff Warren on How to Meditate with a Busy Brain

    21 maart 2018 · 51 min

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    Jeff Warren is a former journalist and more recently is a researcher, writer, and teacher of meditation and personal growth practices. His most recent book, written with Dan Harris, is called, Meditation for Fidgitty Skeptics: A 10% Happier How to Book. Jeff is a likable, relatable guy who carries a lot of practical wisdom in his conversational style of communicating. If you've ever felt like you're not good at meditating or that meditation just isn't for you because your brain never turns off, this interview is for you because that's how Jeff would describe himself, particularly at the beginning of his practice years ago. We all know that meditation is good for us but for many, it just feels inaccessible and out of reach. If that is how you feel, what Jeff has to share in this interview will make that gap shrink in size so much so that you can hop right over it and try again.
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    In This Interview, Jeff Warren and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His book with Dan Harris, Meditation for Fidgitty Skeptics: A 10% Happier How to Book

    The role of meditation in living with depression

    The voice in our heads

    Not identifying with the voices in our heads

    Coming out of the conversation in our heads

    The idea of "I can't meditate"

    Thinking we're supposed to stop thinking when we meditate

    Changing the relationship with your thoughts

    Focusing on an anchor, getting lost in thought, realizing you're lost in thought and coming back to your anchor = mediation

    How quick we are to conclude that meditation isn't for us

    That meditation is a practice

    Celebrating the coming back from thought in meditation

    Training affability during meditation

    Finding enjoyment and curiosity during meditation

    Asking "What's the attitude in my m…

  20. Robert Wright on Why Buddhism is True

    14 maart 2018 · 56 min

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    Robert Wright is an author and a scholar. His most recent book, Why Buddhism is True, is an analytical look comparing the ancient concepts of Buddhism and the more recent findings of modern science. The title of his book may be a bit provocative, but we challenge you to hear him out before assuming what he writes about in his book on the topic. We think you'll find this interview thought provoking and interesting as well as instructive and helpful. Whatever your reaction to the episode, we'd love to hear about it.

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    In This Interview, Robert Wright and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His book, Why Buddhism is True

    Evolutionary Psychology

    That according to Evolutionary Psychology we're wired to do what's best to propagate our genes into the next generation

    And how sometimes doing that might not be what's best for ourselves or the world

    That we're wired for a recurring dissatisfaction or discontented so we'd keep doing the things that would move us toward our goal of passing our genes on to the next generation

    Craving and Aversion

    Not following craving and aversion as guides are central to Buddhism

    According to Buddhism if we don't run from unpleasant feelings like sadness, anxiety etc, they will actually become less painful over time

    That the Buddha intuited a lot of things that we now know to be true according to modern science and evolutionary psychology

    How our thoughts can sometimes subtlely influence us - ex Cognitive Bias

    Cognitive Bias being driven by emotion rather than being rational & Buddhism teaches that

    The Buddhist conception of the mind/brain and modern psychology's conception of the mind/brain are very aligned

    In the cognitive battle for attention, the thought that "wins" is the one that has the most feeling attached to it

    How medita…

  21. Living the Questions

    10 maart 2018 · 9 min

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  22. Catherine Gray on the Joy of Being Sober

    7 maart 2018 · 51 min

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    Catherine Gray is an award-winning writer and editor. Her most recent book is called, The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober. What a brilliant title and what a brilliant book. In it - and in this interview - Catherine offers so many good ideas, phrases, and pearls of wisdom to take away and keep close by. She shares a bit about her journey to and through sobriety with Eric and the critical "ah ha" moments along the way that really helped her build the life she's living today. If you don't have a revelatory moment when listening to her in this interview, we'll be surprised.

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    In This Interview, Catherine Gray and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    Her book, The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober

    The challenge of training our brains to look for the good stuff in life

    The question: Would my life be better sober? instead of Am I an alcoholic?

    Rock bottom being a different place for different people at different times

    The challenge of moderation

    The beautiful clarity of zero

    The limbic system in distress with indecision

    Controlling vs Enjoying drinking

    Alchohol being like a cheat code in a video game when it comes to inhibition

    That no one regrets being sober

    The awful feelings at the beginning of getting sober are what you feel like because of the drinking, not the getting sober

    Learning the skills to enjoy life sober

    Addictive voice recognition

    Negative Thought Patterns:

    B&B

    Children in a car

    Bird watching

    That there are many different ways to get sober

    How expectations are resentments under construction

    Day counting in being sober

    I don't vs I can't

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  23. Paul Dolan on Designing Your Life for Happiness

    28 februari 2018 · 37 min

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    Paul Dolan is a Professor of Behavioral Science at the London School of Economics and Political Science. He's an expert on human behavior and happiness. Paul is also the author of the best selling book, Happiness By Design: Change What You Do Not What You Think. We all want happiness in our lives yet happiness is something that so often eludes most people. It seems like a feeling that happens to us rather than a feeling that we can cultivate with intention. In this interview, Paul teaches some really practical, research-based, action-oriented approaches to life that we can take today to increase our feelings of happiness. The first step? Listen to this informative and interesting interview.
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    In This Interview, Paul Dolan and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His book, Happiness By Design: Change What You Do Not What You Think

    The power of designing your environment

    Find a balance of purpose and pleasure and you have a happy life

    How a large part of how you feel is connected to what you do

    The role of attention in happiness

    What we think would make us happy vs what does make us happy

    That we're not very good at predicting what will make us happy

    The AREA model

    How we must make sense of what's happened in order to adapt to it

    Key to happiness is also to pay more attention to what makes you happy and less attention to what doesn't make you happy

    Why somethings that are so obvious are so often overlooked

    If you can't change what you do, change what you pay attention to in the experience

    If you want to do something, make it easy for yourself to do it

    Less about willpower and more about design power

    Habit loops

    Queuing your environment, commitment and norm

    Deciding, Designing and Doing

    If you want to do something, make it easy. If you don't want to do something make it hard

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  24. Ellen Bass: Ellen Bass on the Power of Poetry in Your Life

    21 februari 2018 · 46 min

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    Ellen Bass is a Chancellor of the Academy of American Poets. Her work has won award after award and rightly so - there's something so powerful, beautiful, true and often times darkly funny in her work. She says that writing poetry - as well as reading it - is an inquiry more than a description. Isn't that an interesting perspective to consider? In this episode, you'll hear her read some of her work, share her insights and experiences in life, talk about the process of writing poetry and offer some ideas that perhaps you had not considered before - especially in the way she does. Regardless of whether or not you think of yourself as a lover of poetry, you'll be touched by this episode.
    She is the author of Like a Beggar, The Human Line, Mules of Love, and The Courage to Heal

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    In This Interview, Ellen Bass and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    Her book, Like a Beggar

    That poetry is an inquiry more than a description

    Discovering something about oneself when writing and reading poetry

    Her poem, Relax

    Tasting life

    Thinking about how you are "right now"

    The role of finding similarities in disparate things when using metaphor

    The oneness of the world

    Working hard in the chair to be a poet

    How no one would expect a person to pick up a saxophone and immediately be able to play and the same is true for writing poetry

    Her poem, Asking Directions in Paris

    Using God in her poetry

    Her poem, If You Knew

    How because of mortality, one day, we as individuals are going to lose everything

    That poetry helps us to see deeply into the beauty of things that are right in front of us

    Introducing poetry to others as you would a novel

    The important role of humor

    Poets she mentioned:

    Marie Howe

    Jericho Brown

    Natalie Diaz

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  25. Will Schwalbe: On the Love of Reading Books

    14 februari 2018 · 49 min

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    Will Schwalbe is an author, entrepreneur, and journalist. He is also perhaps the most delightful, interesting and thoughtful person you've come across in a while. His love of books is infectious and as you know, Eric is a bibliophile himself so when the two talk about books and reading as they do in this episode, the result is one blissful experience. Do you love reading? Did you used to love reading but it's moved out of the spotlight of your life? Have you wanted to cultivate a love of reading? Are you looking for some really wonderful books to read? Are you alive and breathing? If your answer to any of these questions is yes, then this interview is for you.
    He is the author of Thoughts on Reading, Reflecting and Embracing Life, The End of Your Life Book Club and SEND: Why People Email So Badly and How to Do It Better

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    In This Interview, Will Schwalbe and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His book, Books for Living, Some Thoughts on Reading, Reflecting and Embracing Life

    The importance of reading

    That reading isn't binary

    That every time we read, we become better at reading

    How reading can promote empathy

    How we connect through books

    The practice of "visiting your books"

    How he chooses which book to read next

    The way books can be a bio of your life

    The primary emotion he has at the beginning of reading a book

    Live to work vs work to live

    The freedom to quit

    The freedom of mediocrity

    Good being the enemy of great

    You write the books you need

    That our devices allow us to rob ourselves of silence

    How reading is an art

    The "can't you tell I'm reading" face

    His favorite books that he's read recently that were written recently

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  26. David Loy on the Intersection of Buddhism and Modern Culture

    7 februari 2018 · 38 min

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    David Loy is a professor, prolific writer, and teacher in the Japanese Zen Buddhism tradition. Much of his work has to do with what has happened as Buddhism has encountered modern western culture and vice versa. In this episode, we dive into this topic via a discussion of his book, A New Buddhist Path: Enlightenment, Evolution, and Ethics in the Modern World. David presents us with a different lens through which to look at this intersection of cultures which will also thereby change the way you look at yourself.
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    In This Interview, David Loy and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His book, A New Buddhist Path: Enlightenment, Evolution, and Ethics in the Modern World

    Buddhism in the West today

    The mindfulness movement

    The play between Buddhism and Psychotherapy

    The role of the self

    The danger of spiritual by-pass

    The delicate line of feeling our difficult emotions and foregoing our emotions

    Transcend the world? Adapt to the world? or See the world differently?

    That the sense of self that we think we have is not as solid or real as we think

    How meditation helps us let go of delusional perceptions of the world

    Our true nature

    The true nature of the world

    Buddhism and emptiness

    The sense of self is obscuring the nature or our minds which in themselves have no form or characteristics in and of themselves

    Liberating our awareness from being stuck on things we're thinking about

    A collection of psychological processes that are happening within us

    The process of trying to find the self

    Realizing the truth of "that which is looking is that which we are looking for"

    Non-dualism

    The illusion perpetuated by a sense of lack

    Pursuing "things" to deal with the sense of lack because we don't really know what else to do to deal with it

    Consumerism

    Greed

    Ill will

    Our militarized society

    The institutionalized systems that are…

  27. Are You Too Easy or Too Hard on Yourself

    4 februari 2018 · 9 min

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  28. Leah Weiss on the Power of Mindfulness in the Workplace

    31 januari 2018 · 49 min

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    Leah Weiss wears many hats: she's a researcher, professor, consultant, and author. Much of her work to date has surrounded cultivating compassion in the workplace. Her upcoming book, to be released in March 2018, ventures into the realm of bringing mindfulness into the workplace. It turns out, it's not only possible to do so, but it completely transforms the way people experience their work for the better. Hate your job? This interview is PERFECT for you. But you don't have to hate your job to get a lot out of it. Leah Weiss can help you elevate your experience at work no matter your starting point of happiness.
    In This Interview, Leah Weiss and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    Her book How We Work: Live Your Purpose, Reclaim Your Sanity and Embrace the Daily Grind

    The importance of and impact of our experience at work

    Mindfulness: the intentional use of attention

    The illusion of multitasking

    Looking differently at what we're already doing vs doing something differently

    Taking all of your life onto the path

    How mindfulness helps you transform the experience

    The importance of directing our attention to something we've been avoiding because it's painful

    How the strategy of avoidance or resistance leads us to be more unhappy

    The three types of mindfulness training that we can bring to work

    Being in your body

    Metacognition

    Focus

    The Pomodoro Technique

    Our crazy streams of consciousness

    Eudaimonic happiness vs Hedonic happiness

    A helpful strategy for dealing with people who annoy you - in life and at work

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  29. Andy Couturier on Increasing your Happiness by Simplifying Your Life

    24 januari 2018 · 43 min

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    Andy Couturier lived in rural Japan many years ago and it changed his life. As he lived alongside people who were living profoundly satisfying lives, he learned what they were doing (or not doing!) to achieve this level of satisfaction and then he wrote about it in his book, The Abundance of Less: Lessons in Simple Living from Rural Japan. In this interview, Andy shares this wisdom and his experiences in such a way that you can apply the concepts in a practical manner in your life starting today. Lees meer

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    In This Interview, Andy Couturier and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His book, The Abundance of Less: Lessons in Simple Living From Rural Japan

    His time living in rural Japan

    That the people in rural Japan do not use money to entertain themselves

    Their way of life is slow, humble, connected to their community and time for individual contemplation

    How they don't suffer from "time poverty"

    That all life is connected in rural Japan

    Because there is less to do, the garner more enjoyment from each task

    The consumerism and busy characteristics of the industrialized west

    How "convenience speeds you up"

    Ways to make meaningful strides towards living a lifestyle inspired by the lifestyle in rural Japan

    Simplify simplify simplify

    Travel less, know your home city better

    Make meaningful connections with friends by spending more time together

    Diving deeper into things in your life in a methodical, thoughtful way

    I love doing _____. Wouldn't it be wonderful to spend more time doing it?

    Ways to make time for what we care about

    How they live profoundly satisfying lives in rural Japan

    That you don't have to "go back in time" to live this kind of life

    Building his house entirely with hand tools

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  30. Dillan Digiovanni on Activism and Identity

    17 januari 2018 · 41 min

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    Dillan Digiovanni used to be a really angry activist. He believed his anger was an important driver to fuel his work to inspire change in the world. Then he had a revelation: His anger wasn't working. It was driving other people away and it was toxic to himself. Where his path led him from there has turned out to be quite an adventure. He's now an activist without the energy of anger and he now identifies as a man. This interview will inspire you to live your truth. It will inspire you to examine your own life and be better because of it. This important conversation is not only relevant to the issues of today, but it proves to be perennially relevant to how we decide to live our lives in the skin we're in.

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    In This Interview, Dillan DiGiovanni and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    How, as an activist, his anger was driving people away

    That there's no right way to do anything

    If you're angry all of the time you're constantly looking for the threat

    His gender identity transition

    That anger can be a healthy thing

    Searching for the feeling that's underneath the anger

    The harm in being angry at people for being ignorant about an issue

    The way anger impacts your perspective on life and other people

    The harm in saying "they did this because..." when what you're working with is an assumption

    His relationship to anger now that he's awake to it

    The power of "allowing" vs "resisting"

    His story of transitioning his gender identity

    Resilience

    How to live in the world when no one person understands all of you

    The anger that arises when your expectations about how other people should behave aren't met

    The power of meeting people where they really are

    How to work with your vision about how the world should be

    The power of the serenity prayer

    What happened when he let go of his anger as an …

  31. Elissa Epel on Telomeres and How our Choices Affect Them and our Health

    10 januari 2018 · 40 min

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    Dr. Elissa Epel knows a lot about the science of stress. As a health psychologist, she specializes in research surrounding the role Telomeres and their length play in our body's response to stress. In this episode, she explains how the choices we make emotionally, about our thought patterns, our lifestyle etc directly affects our biology in a very clear and measurable way. It turns out, our thoughts and our behavior have a measurable impact on our biology at a cellular level and there are things that we can do to make that impact a positive one. When it comes to telomeres, in most cases, the longer the better and you can do things to impact that variable of length starting today. She is the coauthor with Nobel winner Dr. Elizabeth Blackburn of the book The Telomere Effect: A Revolutionary Approach to Living Younger, Healthier and Longer Lees meer

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    In This Interview, Elissa Epel and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    Her book, The Telomere Effect: A Revolutionary Approach to Living Younger, Healthier and Longer

    That genes load the gun and environment pulls the trigger

    How at least 50% of the variance of whether we die early, get sick etc is our behavior, which is shaped by our psychological experience

    What a telomere is and their role in aging

    Keeping them long, and sturdy and stable throughout our lives

    That in mid-life, shorter telomeres predict getting diseases of aging, earlier (cancer is an exception)

    That telomere length can be epigenetic

    The role of inflammation in our health

    Inflamm-aging

    An anti-inflammatory diet

    Depression and telomere length

    The challenge response

    That not ruminating on a stressor can lead to a quicker psychological recovery which leads to a quicker physiological recovery

    Linguistic Self Distancing = improved stress resilience

    It's not about avoiding stress, it's about coping with stress in a way that doesn't amplif…

  32. Steve Hagen on Perception, Conception, and Enlightenment

    3 januari 2018 · 41 min

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    Steve Hagen is the founder and teacher of the Dharma Field Zen Center in Minneapolis, MN and the author of several books on Buddhism, including Buddhism Plain and Simple which is one of the top five best selling books on Buddhism in the United States. In this episode, Steve teaches us about several Buddhist concepts that are often misunderstood: Wholeness vs Unwholesomeness, Perception vs Conception and Belief vs Knowledge. Knowing the true meaning of these ideas will give you great freedom as you seek the enlightenment that is your true nature.
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    In This Interview, Steve Hagen and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His book, Buddhism Plain and Simple

    The Horse and the Farmer parable

    Wholeness vs Unwholesome

    Consider the welfare of other beings in all you do

    Awareness

    Perception (the immediate, direct experience) vs Conception (our construct of things)

    Belief vs Knowledge

    That we can't arrive at truth through conception

    That enlightenment is with us all of the time, we're just not aware of it

    That enlightenment is our natural state

    The idea of "stream" as self, the Buddha said

    That the way things appear to be is more of a construct than a reality

    How picking and choosing is the mind's worst disease

    Noticing how the mind leans a certain way

    That a Buddha is a person who is awake

    The power of simply observing something about ourselves rather than trying to put a stop to it or judging it

    The Story about the 84 Problems

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  33. Johann Berlin on Living a Fulfilling Life

    27 december 2017 · 39 min

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    Johann Berlin has worked with some of the world's greatest leaders, Fortune 500 companies, has spoken at a Ted conference and is in the process of writing a book about what it means to live a fulfilling life. Have you ever found yourself hating your day job? Wishing you could do the thing you truly love? Not sure what would make you happy at work but you know what you're doing now isn't helping? In this episode, Johann shares really helpful and practical approaches that you can start applying today in order to bring more meaning and fulfillment into your daily life - both at work and otherwise.
    Johann Berlin is the CEO of TLEX U.S. Johann has grown TLEX nationwide and into leading institutions and Fortune 500 companies. Prior to joining TLEX, Johann scaled boutique triple bottom line and social sector companies from concept to high-impact with a special focus on innovative and disruptive wellness, leadership, innovation initiatives with the project being mentioned in Harvard Business Review, New York Times, and Wharton Journal.
    Johann has participated as a speaker/facilitator at TEDx London, Stanford Center for Compassion, Harvard Executive MBA Alumni Summit, Wharton School of Business, UC Berkeley’s Leadership Symposium, Yale School of Management, Impact Investor Sustainatopia Conference, GE HealthCare’s Health Ahead Summit Paris, and Dartmouth on Purpose.
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    In This Interview, Johann Berlin and I Discuss...

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    That what you put your attention on grows

    What love means in a corporate environment

    The difference between a question and a wonder

    Moving from desire to finding things that bring you contentment

    It's not always what you do but that you have meaningful relationships at work

    "Do service", doing things with honor, treating things as special

    How if you hate your job, you don't have the energy to do the things you love

    What you resist, persists

    Suppressing your thoughts

    How hating your job causes yo…

  34. Andrea Lieberstein on Mindful Eating to Nourish our Whole Selves

    20 december 2017 · 45 min

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    Andrea Lieberstein can teach you how to nourish your whole self so that you can have a healthier relationship with food. What does that mean? Well, often, we turn to food to nourish parts of our lives that it is not equipped to nourish. Have you ever turned to food to soothe anxiety or stress? This is a really common way that we ask food to do something that it's not meant to do. In this episode, Andrea teaches specific strategies for how to bring mindfulness into the act of eating. These practical, multi-pronged approaches are ones that you can bring to your very next encounter with food.
    Andrea Lieberstein is a mindfulness-based registered dietitian nutritionist, mindful eating (MB-EAT) and mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) instructor and coach, trainer, and registered yoga instructor has specialized in helping people transform their lives for over 25 years. She leads mindfulness meditation and mindful eating trainings and retreats at retreat centers across the country and internationally. Her individual coaching sessions are accessible to anyone through phone or a virtual video office. She utilizes Mindfulness-Based Eating Awareness Training (MB-EAT), MBSR, MSC (Mindful Self-Compassion) and other mindfulness-based and mindful eating practices in her private practice working with individuals on a wide range of disordered eating, healthy weight management, body image and stress-related issues and health concerns.
    Her latest book is called: Well Nourished: Mindful Practices to Heal Your Relationship with Food Feed Your Whole Self, and End Overeating
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    Her book, Well Nourished: Mindful Practices to Heal Your Relationship with Food Feed Your Whole Self, and End Overeating

    The importance of what we pay attention to

    The 8 bodies that we can nourish

    Being "fully resourced"

    Identifying your intention to have a better relationship with food

    Bringin…

  35. Bonus: The Why Try Effect with Dr. Jon Mills

    18 december 2017 · 20 min

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    Dr. Jon Mills is back and in this episode we discuss a paper that talks about self stigmatization and the "why try" effect.
    Self-stigma and the “why try” effect: impact on life goals and evidence-based practices
    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2694098/
    Many individuals with mental illnesses are troubled by self-stigma and the subsequent processes that accompany this stigma: low self-esteem and self-efficacy. “Why try” is the overarching phenomenon of interest here, encompassing self-stigma, mediating processes, and their effect on goal-related behavior. In this paper, the literature that explains “why try” is reviewed, with special focus on social psychological models. Self-stigma comprises three steps: awareness of the stereotype, agreement with it, and applying it to one’s self. As a result of these processes, people suffer reduced self-esteem and self-efficacy. People are dissuaded from pursuing the kind of opportunities that are fundamental to achieving life goals because of diminished self-esteem and self-efficacy. People may also avoid accessing and using evidence-based practices that help achieve these goals. The effects of self-stigma and the “why try” effect can be diminished by services that promote consumer empowerment.
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  36. Peter Block: Freeing Yourself from Consumer Culture

    13 december 2017 · 46 min

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    Peter Block pursues the big questions in his life. What does that mean? Well, after listening to this episode, you'll know and I'll bet you'll do it, too. Peter has such a way with words that when he chooses them and puts them together, deep, profound wisdom is conveyed. It may be 4 words he speaks, but the truth behind them humans have experienced since the beginning of time. In this episode, he introduces you to perspectives on the free market consumer ideology that will set you free. Does it sound like I'm overpromising? You be the judge. (Hint: I'm not). Lees meer

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    Peter Block is an author, consultant and citizen of Cincinnati, Ohio. His work is about empowerment, stewardship, chosen accountability, and the reconciliation of community.
    Peter is the author of several best selling books. The most widely known being Flawless Consulting: A Guide to Getting Your Expertise Used. In addition, he has published Community: The Structure of Belonging, The Abundant Community: Awakening the Power of Families and Neighborhoods, and The Answer to How Is Yes: Acting on What Matters
    The books are about ways to create workplaces and communities that work for all. They offer an alternative to the patriarchal beliefs that dominate our culture. His work is to bring change into the world through consent and connectedness rather than through mandate and force.
    He is a partner in Designed Learning, a training company that offers workshops designed by Peter to build the skills outlined in his books. He received a Masters Degree in Industrial Administration from Yale University in 1963; he performed his undergraduate work at the University of Kansas.
    Peter serves on the Boards of Directors of Cincinnati Classical Public Radio; Elementz, a Hip Hop center for urban youth; and LivePerson, a provider of online engagement solutions. He is on the Advisory Board for the Festival in the Workplace Institute, Bahamas. He is the first Distinguished Consultant-in-Resi…

  37. Shozan Jack Haubner: Living with Leonard Cohen and a Zen Sex Scandal

    6 december 2017 · 45 min

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    Shozan Jack is a fascinating guy. He grew up in a Catholic home, studied philosophy, has been a stand-up comedian and has authored two books and many essays. He's got the gift of striking your funny bone in one sentence and then in the very next sentence, striking the center of your heart and mind in a profound way. In this episode, which is part 2 of a two-part interview, you'll hear him talk about his experience living as a monk inside of a Buddhist monastery, being a monk alongside Leonard Cohen, dealing with a sex scandal at his monastery, and what it has been like to transition into living his life back in the world and the many teachings with great wisdom along the way.
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    Shozan Jack Haubner is the pen name of a Zen monk whose essays have appeared in The Sun, Tricycle, Buddhadharma, and the New York Times, as well as in the Best Buddhist Writing series. The winner of a 2012 Pushcart Prize, he is also the author of Zen Confidential: Confessions of a Wayward Monk.
    His latest book is called: Single White Monk: Tales of Death, Failure, and Bad Sex (Although Not Necessarily in That Order)

    In This Interview, Shozan Jack Haubner and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His new book, Single White Monk: Tales of Death, Failure, and Bad Sex (Although Not Necessarily in That Order)

    How Leonard Cohen spent his time as a Buddhist monk in the monastery

    The union of contrary things

    His take on Leonard Cohen's last album

    The opposite of despair for Leonard Cohen isn't happiness, it's clarity

    The sex scandal involving his teacher

    His experience leaving the monastery

    What's next for him in his life

    His conversation with a Christian priest about fighting demons

    Suffering = pain + resistance

    Letting feelings come and go

    He calls himself the "middle manager of the middle way"

    The middle way involves dissolving the distance between self and other, in complete giving, in either receiving or initiating.…

  38. Shozan Jack Haubner- No Self, an Opium High and a Death Sentence

    29 november 2017 · 40 min

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    Shozan Jack is a fascinating guy. He grew up in a Catholic home, studied philosophy, has been a stand-up comedian, has authored two books and many essays, was a screenwriter and poet and currently lives as a Zen monk and priest. He's got the gift of striking your funny bone in one sentence and then in the very next sentence, striking the center of your heart and mind in a profound way. In this episode, which is part one of a two-part interview, you'll hear him explain the Buddhist concept of "no-self" in such a way that it finally makes sense, hear how even Zen monks chase success and yes - his experience with an opium high and being given a death sentence (spoiler alert: he's still alive).
    Shozan Jack Haubner is the pen name of a Zen monk whose essays have appeared in The Sun, Tricycle, Buddhadharma, and the New York Times, as well as in the Best Buddhist Writing series. The winner of a 2012 Pushcart Prize, he is also the author of Zen Confidential: Confessions of a Wayward Monk.
    His latest book is called: Single White Monk: Tales of Death, Failure, and Bad Sex (Although Not Necessarily in That Order)
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    In This Interview, Shozan Jack Haubner and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His new book, Single White Monk: Tales of Death, Failure, and Bad Sex (Although Not Necessarily in That Order)

    How it's not about good and evil but rather, where do each come from?

    The idea of no self

    Who am I vs. Where am I?

    That the self is not fixed and it's not solid

    The self is porous, co-dependent arising through relationships with our surroundings

    That the worship of success thwarts true fulfillment

    "No attachment to an outcome"

    An opium high and a death sentence

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  39. Tasha Eurich on Gauging and Growing our Self-Awareness

    22 november 2017 · 49 min

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    Tasha Eurich is an organizational psychologist who is passionate about researching self-awareness and translating that research into practical, actionable information to aid in our discovery and improvement of our own self-awareness. In this interview, you'll be introduced to fascinating scientific research about self-awareness and you'll end up being equipped with some very helpful tools to gauge and grow your own. Since research shows that 95% of people think that they're very self-aware but in reality, only 10% actually are, statistically speaking, you're probably going to want to listen to this episode. Lees meer

    Tasha Eurich is a workplace psychologist, speaker, author, and principal of The Eurich Group. She helps organizations succeed by improving the effectiveness of their leaders and teams. She works with executives in Fortune 500 organizations and serves on the faculty of the Center for Creative Leadership. Her articles have appeared in several magazines and journals including Chief Learning Officer Magazine, The Journal of Business Psychology, and The Work Style Magazine. Her first book, Bankable Leadership: Happy People, Bottom-Line Results, and the Power to Deliver Both, was published in 2013.

    Her latest book is called: Insight: Why We're Not as Self-Aware as We Think, and How Seeing Ourselves Clearly Helps Us Succeed at Work and in Life

    In This Interview, Tasha Eurich and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    Her book, Insight: Why We're Not as Self-Aware as We Think, and How Seeing Ourselves Clearly Helps Us Succeed at Work and in Life

    How self-awareness is the single most important but least examined determinate of success and failure

    The meta-skill of the 21st century

    That it took a year to review 800 studies and subsequently define self-awareness

    How self-awareness is made up of 2 types of knowledge of ourselves: internal self-awareness (how we see ourselves) and external self-awareness (how others see us)

    That 95% of people think that they're very self-aw…

  40. Bonus: Thanksgiving Binge

    16 november 2017 · 7 min

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    Eric chats with Anne Bogel of What Should I Read Next? about their favorite episodes on each other podcasts!
    Feast on these shows @ www.Wondery.com/Thanksgiving
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    The One You Feed Binge:

    Good Life Project - Interview with Dani Shapiro

    Hardcore History - Blueprint for Armageddon

    Buddha at the Gap Pump - Culadasa

    On Being - John O’Donohue

    Sound Opinions - Ep 606 The Year That Punk Broke

    What Should I Read Next? Binge:

    The Popcast with Knox and Jamie - Ep 212 The Nos of Social Media

    Sorta Awesome with Megan Tietz - Ep 121 Boundaries for the holidays

    The West Wing Weekly - Ep 1 Pilot

    Another Round - Ep 55 #1000BlackGirlBooks

    Note to Self - I Didn't See Your Text

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  41. Scott Kiloby on Awareness and Non-Duality

    15 november 2017 · 53 min

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    Scott Kiloby is a non-dual teacher who wants to help you and others experience awareness and no self in this lifetime. He helps people recover from addiction and has published a powerful book, the contents of which he discusses In this interview. Specifically, he describes portals to recognizing awareness that you can try immediately. It's a different way of approaching a transformational way of life and you won't want to miss it.
    Scott Kiloby is a noted author and international speaker on the subject of freedom through non-dual recognition (authentic spiritual awakening as it is taught in the East).
    He is the author of seven books and has traveled the world extensively giving lectures, workshops and intensives on spiritual awakening and the healing of addiction, anxiety, depression and trauma.
    Scott is the co-founder of the Kiloby Center for Recovery in Palm Springs California, the first addiction, anxiety, depression, and trauma Intensive Outpatient Program to focus primarily on mindfulness. Scott is also the co-owner of the Natural Rest House, a detox and residential center in La Quinta, California.
    His books include Living Realization: A simple, plain English guide to non-duality, Natural Rest for Addiction: A Radical Approach to Recovery Through Mindfulness and Awareness and The Unfindable Inquiry: One Simple Tool to Overcome Feelings of Unworthiness and Find Inner Peace
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    In This Interview, Scott Kiloby and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His book, Living Realization: A simple, plain English guide to non-duality

    The definition of non-duality

    Non-dual awakening

    That the ego is a suffering mechanism

    The false self

    The possibility of waking up from a separate self mentality

    How we are not our thoughts, we are the thinker of our thoughts

    The necessity of experiencing awareness

    Portals to recognizing awareness

    Let all appearances be as they are

    The power of not resisting what is happening

    Suffering = Pain + Resistance

    Seeing that all appearances are ins…

  42. Eric Maisel: Rethinking Mental Health

    8 november 2017 · 51 min

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    Dr. Eric Maisel is a prolific writer, to say the least. His numerous publications span the human experience and explore how to interact with the various situations that one may encounter. In this interview, he discusses a couple of his books and spends a great deal of time explaining how he thinks depression should be treated vs how it is currently being diagnosed and treated. It's a different way of thinking about this subject and if it's a topic you're interested in, you owe yourself a listen. Lees meer

    This week we talk to Eric Maisel
    Eric Maisel, Ph.D., is is the author of more than 40 books. His titles include, Why Smart People Hurt, Making Your Creative Mark, The Van Gogh Blues, Mastering Creative Anxiety, and Creativity for Life
    In addition, Dr. Maisel is at the forefront of the movement to rethink mental health. He writes the Rethinking Psychology blog for Psychology Today and among his books in this area are Rethinking Depression and The Future of Mental Health.
    His latest book is called Overcoming Your Difficult Family: 8 Skills for Thriving in Any Family Situation.

    In This Interview, Eric Maisel and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    His book, Overcoming Your Difficult Family: 8 Skills for Thriving in Any Family Situation

    His book, The Future of Mental Health

    The smartness to understand what's going on with your family

    The strength to make the changes that you need to make

    The strength to be calm, or have a difficult conversation

    Having clarity about what's going on

    Awareness of the situation

    The courage to make change because change has consequences

    The skill of presence

    Being resilient - family members, especially siblings, don't go away like other relationships

    Visualizing the "calmness switch" within you

    The importance of learning one anxiety management tool because you will have anxiety in life

    How you name the problem often directs you to the situation

    The importance of language

    The importance of knowing the causes of things regarding your healt…

  43. Maia Szalavitz: A New Lens on Addiction

    1 november 2017 · 52 min

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    Maia Szalavitz is an American reporter and author who has focused much of her work on the topic of addiction. In this paradigm-shifting interview, she explains what she means by claiming that addiction is a learning disorder, a developmental disorder. It's a different way of thinking of addiction than it being a disease or a moral failing. As a result, it has different implications for how it should then be treated. Some of what Maia has to say is polarising and some will immediately make intuitive sense and you'll ask yourself why you haven't thought that way before. Take a listen to what she has to say and let us know what you think.
    Maia Szalavitz is one of the premier American journalists covering addiction and drugs. She is co-author of Born for Love and The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog, both with Dr. Bruce D. Perry. Her book, Help at Any Cost is the first book-length exposé of the “tough love” business that dominates addiction treatment. She writes for TIME.com, VICE, the New York Times, Scientific American Mind, Elle, Psychology Today and Marie Claire among others.
    Her latest book is Unbroken Brain: A Revolutionary New Way of Understanding Addiction
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    In This Interview, Maia Szalavitz and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    Her book, Unbroken Brain: Why Addiction is a Learning Disorder and Why it Matters

    That your brain becomes what it does - that the more you repeat an activity, the easier it becomes

    How addiction is a developmental disorder

    That learning is critical to addiction

    The problems with discussion about addiction as a disease

    Arguing that addiction is a disease and then treating it like a moral failing

    How addiction resets your priorities and therefore you'll make very different decisions

    Addiction = compulsive behavior that continues despite negative consequences

    How illogical it is then to try and address addiction by focusing on implementing additional negative consequences

    The complexity of addiction, genes + culture + timing

    The developm…

  44. Lewis Howes on the Masks of Masculinity and Healing His Childhood Wounds

    25 oktober 2017 · 49 min

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    Lewis Howes is a lot of things. He's been an athlete, a podcast host, an author. He's worn a lot of masks, you could say. In fact, that's exactly what he says in his new book and in this episode. He talks about how wearing these masks has not served him well in his life. In this interview, you'll hear him talk about the various types of masks men wear to protect themselves from being vulnerable, from showing their true selves. While it might "work" on the outside, it destroys them on the inside and we see the manifestations of it in our society today.
    Before Lewis Howes became a media sensation for empowering people and sharing 'Greatness' across the globe, he had his share of obstacles to overcome. From having a learning disability, which led to being alone and bullied in school, to being sexually abused as a child, to being injured and broke on his sister’s couch, Lewis’s story is the perfect example of how anybody can overcome the obstacles in their life and achieve greatness. Fast forward a few short years, and Lewis is a New York Times Bestselling author of the hit book, The School of Greatness and author of his latest book, The Mask of Masculinity. He is a lifestyle entrepreneur, high performance business coach and keynote speaker. A former professional football player and two-sport All-American, he is a current USA Men’s National Handball Team athlete. He hosts a top 100 podcast in the world, The School of Greatness, which has over 40 million downloads since it launched in 2013. He was recognized by The White House and President Obama as one of the top 100 entrepreneurs in the country under 30. Lewis has been featured on Ellen, The New York Times, People, Forbes, Inc, Fast Company, ESPN, Sports Illustrated, Men’s Health, The Today Show and other major media outlets.
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    The Wolf Parable

    His book, The Masks of Masculinity: How Men Can Embrace Vulnerability, Create Strong Relationships and Live Their Fullest Lives…

  45. Poe Ballantine

    18 oktober 2017 · 41 min

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    Poe Ballentine is a great writer. Thank goodness for that because it's through his gift and skill of writing that we get a glimpse into the experiences of his life which reach us at a moving level of beauty, truth, humility, and struggle. In this interview, you'll hear him talk about these things and the gift you'll get as a result is the knowledge and comforting feeling of knowing you are not alone in your struggles through life. You'll learn through hearing what he's learned about self-growth and self-improvement. Give yourself the gift of listening to this episode. You won't be sorry. Lees meer

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    Poe Ballantine is a fiction and nonfiction writer known for his novels and especially his essays, many of which appear in The Sun. One of Ballantine’s short stories was included in Best American Short Stories 1998 and two of his essays have appeared in the Best American Essays series. His essays and short stories have also appeared in the Coal City Review, Kenyon Review, and Atlantic Monthly. Tom Robbins said " Poe Ballantine is the most soulful, insightful, funny, and altogether luminous “under-known” writer in America"
    His books include Love and Terror on the Howling Plains of Nowhere, Guidelines for Mountain Lion Safety, 501 Minutes to Christ: Personal Essays and Things I Like About America: Personal Essays

    In This Interview, Poe Ballantine and I Discuss...

    The Wolf Parable

    Finding himself or becoming someone else

    The Moral Mechanism of the Molecule

    Asking, in your own experience - rather than simply in ideas, what do you know?

    How he found his way out of despair

    Doing enough work to exonerate yourself

    How important it is as an artist, creator to be hyper-aware of your life and environment

    The price of individualism in America

    How he loves to take care of his wife and son

    How difficult it is to be married

    That marriage is the molecular foundation of our society

    His book - a true crime story, Love and Terror on the Howling Pl…

  46. Robert Thurman- Buddhism and the Dalai Lama

    11 oktober 2017 · 37 min

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    Robert Thurman is the leading American expert on Tibetan Buddhism and he has recently written a book called Man of Peace: The Illustrated Life Story of the Dali Lama of Tibet. Whether you embrace the teachings of Buddhism or not, this episode will educate you on powerful approaches to growing in wisdom and it will also paint a beautiful picture of how the concepts of Tibetan Buddhism apply in today's world. More than meditation and mindfulness, Robert Thurman gets to the heart of what the Dali Lama is working to achieve for all beings to have peace and enlightenment. This week we talk to Robert Thurman Robert Thurman is Professor of Indo-Tibetan Buddhist Studies in the Department of Religion at Columbia University, President of Tibet House US, a non-profit organization dedicated to the preservation and promotion of Tibetan civilization, and President of the American Institute of Buddhist Studies. The New York Times recently hailed him as "the leading American expert on Tibetan Buddhism." The first American to have been ordained a Tibetan Buddhist monk and a personal friend of the Dalai Lama for over 40 years, Professor Thurman is a passionate advocate and spokesperson for the truth regarding the current Tibet-China situation and the human rights violations suffered by the Tibetan people under Chinese rule. Professor Thurman also translates important Tibetan and Sanskrit philosophical writings and lectures and writes on Buddhism, particularly Tibetan Buddhism; on Asian history, particularly the history of the monastic institution in the Asian civilization; and on critical philosophy, with a focus on the dialogue between the material and inner sciences of the world's religious traditions. Popularizing the Buddha's teachings is just one of Thurman's creative talents. He is a riveting speaker and an author of many books on Tibet, Buddhism, art, politics and culture, including Essential Tibetan Buddhism, The Tibetan Book of the Dead, Infinite Life: Seven Virtues for Liv… Lees meer
  47. Bonus: Eric talk with Dr. Jon Mills about the effects of trauma on current behavioral patterns

    7 oktober 2017 · 32 min

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    In the first of a new series, Eric talks with good friend and Ph.D. Jon Mills. Today we talk about a seminal paper in our understanding of how adverse childhood experiences can influence our lives decades later. We first explored this work in the conversation with Gabor Mate. More about the study can be found here.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  48. Tim Urban Part Two

    4 oktober 2017 · 41 min

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    Tim Urban writes a pretty famous blog called Wait But Why - have you read it? Whether you have or you've never heard of it before, this episode will not only thoroughly entertain you but it will also help you implement a playful yet powerful approach to growing in wisdom. When it comes to concepts like "the consciousness staircase" or mindfulness about your moment to moment tasks, nothing helps your self-confidence more than reaping the benefits of making good decisions, "out of the fog", in the clarity of awareness. In this episode, Tim Urban teaches you hacks to do just that and you'll chuckle a lot along the way. This week we talk to Tim Urban Tim Urban has become one of the Internet’s most popular writers. With wry stick-figure illustrations and occasionally epic prose on everything from procrastination to artificial intelligence, Urban's blog, Wait But Why, has garnered millions of unique page views, thousands of patrons and famous fans like Elon Musk His recent Ted talk has been watched almost 15 million times. His articles have been regularly republished on sites like Quartz, The Washington Post, The Atlantic, TIME, Business Insider and Gizmodo. In 2015, Fast Company wrote that “Wait But Why is disproving the notion that thoughtful, long-form content and virality are mutually exclusive.” Urban has gained a number of prominent readers as well: authors Sam Harris and Susan Cain, Twitter co-founder Evan Williams, TED curator Chris Anderson and Brain Pickings’ Maria Popova. Recently, Urban received a call from Elon Musk, who told Urban he liked his writing and asked Urban if he’d like to interview him and write about his companies. Urban accepted, and spent the next six months writing a thorough blog series that Vox’s David Roberts called “the meatiest, most fascinating, most satisfying posts I’ve read in ages.” Since then, Urban’s relationship with Musk has continued: Musk invited him to host SpaceX’s launch webcast, solicited Urban’s input and slide illustrati… Lees meer
  49. Tim Urban: Wait but Why

    21 september 2017 · 42 min

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    Tim Urban writes a pretty famous blog called Wait But Why - have you read it? Whether you have or you've never heard of it before, this episode will not only thoroughly entertain you but it will also help you implement a playful yet powerful approach to ending procrastination and augmenting your productivity on a daily basis. When it comes to things like building habits or mindfulness about your moment to moment tasks, nothing helps your self-confidence more than following through on something you told yourself or others that you were going to do. In this episode, Time Urban teaches you lots of hacks to do just that and you'll chuckle a lot along the way. Get ready to meet these cast of characters: the rational decision maker, the instant gratification monkey, and the panic monster. This week we talk to Tim Urban Tim Urban has become one of the Internet’s most popular writers. With wry stick-figure illustrations and occasionally epic prose on everything from procrastination to artificial intelligence, Urban's blog, Wait But Why, has garnered millions of unique page views, thousands of patrons and famous fans like Elon Musk His recent Ted talk has been watched almost 15 million times. His articles have been regularly republished on sites like Quartz, The Washington Post, The Atlantic, TIME, Business Insider and Gizmodo. In 2015, Fast Company wrote that “Wait But Why is disproving the notion that thoughtful, long-form content and virality are mutually exclusive.” Urban has gained a number of prominent readers as well: authors Sam Harris and Susan Cain, Twitter co-founder Evan Williams, TED curator Chris Anderson and Brain Pickings’ Maria Popova. Recently, Urban received a call from Elon Musk, who told Urban he liked his writing and asked Urban if he’d like to interview him and write about his companies. Urban accepted, and spent the next six months writing a thorough blog series that Vox’s David Roberts called “the meatiest, most fascinating, most satisfying posts I’… Lees meer
  50. Florence Williams: How Spending Time In Nature Has a Scientific, Measurable Impact on improving our health and mood - especially depression!

    20 september 2017 · 42 min

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    Florence Williams shares the scientific research behind the benefit to our mood and our health when we spend time in nature as part of our daily lives. Her book, The Nature Fix: Why Nature Makes Us Happier, Healthier and More Creative is full of practical, intuitive wisdom that can be applied regardless of your lifestyle or circumstances. To that point, you'll be surprised at how little time it takes to have a significant impact on things like depression, anxiety, and stress as well as things like blood pressure and cortisol levels. You may have noticed feeling better after a walk in the woods; this episode will explain why by way of some fascinating research. This week we talk to Florence Williams Florence Williams is a contributing editor at Outside Magazine and a freelance writer for the New York Times, New York Times Magazine, National Geographic, The New York Review of Books, and numerous other publications. She is also the writer and host of the new Audible Original series, Breasts Unbound. She is fellow at the Center for Humans and Nature and a visiting scholar at George Washington University, her work focuses on the environment, health and science. Her first book, BREASTS: A Natural and Unnatural History received the Los Angeles Times Book Prize in science and technology. Her latest book is called: The Nature Fix: Why Nature Makes Us Happier, Healthier and More Creative. In This Interview, Florence Williams and I Discuss... The Wolf Parable Her book, The Nature Fix: Why Nature Makes Us Happier, Healthier and More Creative. The research that supports the fact that when we spend time in nature it can boost our mood That 15 minutes in a forest environment can reduce our cortisol levels Natural Killer Cells (T-cells) The roll of Cypress aerosols Taking in nature as a whole as the benefit That the benefit of nature as a whole being greater than the sum of its parts Nature Deficit Disorder and trying to fill it with other more modern-day things Nature being a bet… Lees meer