We Were Fighting Before This

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1. How to make a woman hate you | EP 70 | We Were Fighting Before This

   5 november 2026 · 1 uur 16 min

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   Toast teaches us questionable dating tactics, Yvonne gets way too excited about Worlds, and somehow we end up debating men vs. women. Just another day of arguing about absolutely everything. Lees meer

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   Timestamps:

   00:00 Intro00:34 What We've Been Watching03:00 Love Is Blind04:40 Dating Strategies & Love Bombing10:27 Blind Dates & Family Setups12:50 Yvonne's Worlds Experience15:46 Favorite Teams at Worlds18:42 How DSG Started20:48 Toast's Thoughts on Worlds22:44 Esports Player Salaries24:22 The State of Esports26:48 Cheating in Esports30:04 Women in Gaming36:00 Going to Worlds Finals40:00 What Makes a High-Value Man?42:00 Dating Standards45:12 Are Men or Women More Sensitive?47:04 Loneliness & Emotional Support51:06 Bachelor & Bachelorette Parties53:30 Wedding Experiences57:08 Who Should Pay for Weddings?59:07 The Cost of Being in a Wedding01:02:00 Yvonne's Dating Life01:04:00 Finding Yvonne a Boyfriend01:07:09 Romantic Movies01:10:03 Games We've Been Playing
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2. Everyone Was Fighting Before This | EP 69 | We Were Fighting Before

   29 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 14 min

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   Boo! Halloween is here and we have internet drama to address... Lees meer

   Timestamps:

   00:00 Intro

   1:04 H3h3 DRAMA

   7:25 Ned Fulmer tweet

   8:55 Content creator come back from cheating?

   10:50 Ludwig and QT wedding drama

   13:43 Women getting hate farmed

   16:10 The Uber situation

   17:10 Yvonne’s thoughts on Leslie

   20:15 Toast’s thoughts on speaking up

   23:08 If Yvonne was late to Toast’s wedding

   25:31 The Scarra situation

   28:21 H3h3 podcast staff environment

   30:04 Halloween episode! Scary or Haunted?

   53:00 Halloween costumes

   55:13 Sexy Halloween costumes

   56:30 Chelsea’s situation w/ costumes

   59:26 Forced to watch the Starwars

   1:01:02 Yvonne’s experience with Starwars

   1:06:10 Toast likes Chelsea’s fiance
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3. Is it ok to ask your friends for money? | EP 68 | We Were Fighting Before This

   24 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 15 min

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   Pickleball recap, dealing with haters, and should you let friends borrow money? Lees meer

   Timestamps:

   00:00 Intro

   00:30 Pickleball video thoughts

   15:35 Dealing w/ online stalkers

   20:21 Being hyper aware as a woman

   22:24 Getting pepper sprayed

   24:30 Riding in Ubers by yourself

   26:11 Yvonne’s Ultrasound appointment

   29:25 Seeing yourself in the mirror

   31:16 Asking a friend for money

   32:10 Toast lending a friend money

   36:54 Why Toast pays in group settings

   39:11 Why Toast is pissed at his friends

   41:20 The Vegas dinner re-explained

   45:46 Toast getting upset with an employee

   47:35 Calgary trip

   49:50 What would happen if Toast did nothing

   51:55 Chelsea’s Miami trip

   53:57 Toast’s autistic comments

   55:32 Women paying for men

   1:02:10 Toast’s dating experience with $

   1:07:03 High value man? High value woman?

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4. We're setting Yvonne up on a blind date | EP 67 | We Were Fighting Before This

   15 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 1 min

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   The big 6 7 episode is here... Lees meer

   Timestamps:

   00:00 EPISODE 6 7

   1:01 Yvonne’s bday!

   3:50 Happier in your 30’s or 20’s?

   4:55 Yvonne’s bday present prank

   8:10 Scarra’s bday present for Yvonne

   10:05 Congrats to DSG!

   11:44 Getting affected by comments

   13:15 Life of esports player

   16:45 Yvonne’s NFL trip

   19:40 Reflecting on the bro podcast

   21:27 Thoughts on Nate

   22:50 Chelsea calls out Nate

   24:03 Dissecting Chelsea

   28:55 Who’s the biggest ragebaiter in OTV

   30:20 How Yvonne feels deals with Toast

   32:10 Did Scarra cross the line?

   35:01 Crossing the line with friends

   37:45 Toast judges Chelsea

   40:21 WWFBT book club?

   43:35 Raw dogging activities

   46:01 Taking business vs first class

   49:10 Pickleball video coming soon!

   53:16 Blind dating for Yvonne!

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5. THE BRO EPISODE ft.Toast, Scarra & Nate | EP 66 | We Were Fighting Before This

   8 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 30 min

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   The boys take over! A full episode of Toast and Scarra and Nate chatting about life and it's changes and challenges. Lees meer

   Timestamps:

   00:00 Intro

   1:35 Male friendships

   6:01 Men and sports

   8:28 DSG wins in Riftbound!

   12:01 Toast and Scarra’s thoughts about events

   15:12 Scarra’s favorite thing about Chelsea

   16:40 Toast “celebrates” Chelsea

   21:03 The boys thoughts on Yvonne….

   21:22 Why is Chelsea stressed

   23:43 Reading mean comments

   24:45 Toast’s thoughts on being alone

   25:55 Growing up as a man

   27:30 Living alone and being ok being alone

   32:45 Benefits of being dragged out

   34:15 It’s hard to ask for help

   37:45 Leaving the door open for others

   39:00 Scarra doesn’t ask Toast to hangout

   42:44 Being thankful for hangouts

   44:47 Trauma dumping on strangers

   49:42 You can tell when your friends are struggling

   51:00 The Knicks game breakup

   54:02 Validating someone’s feelings

   56:30 Are men jealous of other men

   58:45 Yvonne’s friends that she invites

   1:00:35 Toast recognizes he’s hard on Yvonne

   1:06:39 Toast wants to be alone but he still cares

   1:09:22 Is Leslie and Nate extroverted?

   1:12:30 The art of putting together a content friend group

   1:17:00 Finding the right balance between friends

   1:19:45 Would Chelsea and Toast be friends on the outside?

   1:20:10 Chelsea and her brother

   1:21:45 Pickleball video coming up!
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6. Hookup mistakes you should never make | EP 65 | We Were Fighting Before This

   1 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 34 min

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   Toast is back in town and we have a lot to catch up on... Lees meer

   Timestamps:

   00:00 Intro

   1:01 Toast is back in town

   4:36 Is life different without Toast?

   9:15 Yvonne’s apartment is cozy

   10:10 Is Yvonne family?

   11:47 Yvonne questions Toast…

   13:03 Toast doesn’t want Chelsea to help him

   15:05 Chelsea’s HOT questions for Toast

   17:36 Is Yvonne an ally to men?

   22:02 How many times have we hooked up

   24:44 Yvonne lists five men she respects

   25:30 Has Yvonne ever helped out Toast

   29:25 Setting boundaries with fans

   32:05 How can Yvonne celebrate Toast more

   33:21 AAPI months thoughts

   36:00 Toast can’t make it to Yvonne’s BDAY

   38:20 Why do asians go to raves?

   43:12 Toast and Scarra have the same bday

   45:32 Introvert vs Extrovert personalities

   46:45 Eating alone at a restaurant

   49:50 Chelsea’s alone alot

   51:16 Toast likes to sleep on the floor ALONE

   54:50 Sleeping in separate rooms

   56:34 Who has the higher social battery?

   1:01:00 Toast hasn't made a new friend

   1:03:21 Chelsea has a friend for Toast

   1:05:51 Yvonne’s first date ettiequte

   1:08:34 Google-ing Yvonne on the first date

   1:10:41 How much $ would it take to be a stay at home mom/dad

   1:17:55 Leaving mean comments online

   1:20:13 Who’s ragebaiting who??

   1:22:30 Playing your attractive cards

   1:23:27 Flexing your car

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7. How Yvonne went on an accidental date | EP 64 | We Were Fighting Before This

   24 september 2026 · 1 uur 4 min

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   Yvonne's accidental date might have been a blessing in disguise... This week, Toast forces the pod to play pickleball, stay tuned... Lees meer

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   Timestamps:

   00:00 intro

   1:13 The podcast lives on

   3:01 Toast thinks Yvonne is going through it

   4:28 Does Toast have friends for Yvonne?

   5:50 Guys going for the same girl…

   8:03 Yvonne and Leslie hypotheticals

   11:00 Can a woman or man be bumped up to a 10

   12:01 Rewatching older clips

   13:20 Chelsea reviews if she is biased

   16:35 Fighting women on a public platform

   19:22 Fighting men on a public platform

   21:42 Yvonne’s rude date

   25:02 Creators feeling privileged

   27:11 Being direct

   30:28 Chelsea’s animation friend

   31:33 Who’s the funniest OTV member

   37:40 What Toast is consuming these days

   38:52 Peak OTV days

   40:20 Creative rut

   44:45 Predicting life

   45:55 Toast wants to play pickleball

   48:44 Toast comments on Yvonnes weight

   53:10 Yvonne’s been working out!

   55:04 Chelsea invites Scarra to play pickleball…

   57:20 Tune in when we all play pickleball…
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8. Toast is being squished into a little ball again | EP 63 | We Were Fighting Before This

   17 september 2026 · 1 uur 2 min

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   The trio is back together and Toast and Yvonne need to address the past couple of episodes... Lees meer

   Timestamps: 00:17 Intro 1:04 Singapore trip + tournament drama7:06 Is AI more accepted in Asia?8:32 Toast’s mom watches the podcast9:24 Is Toast being “squished into a ball”?10:38 Does Toast need more backup?12:56 Toast admits to rage baiting15:04 How Toast & Yvonne handle tension18:23 Chelsea is scared of the YouTube comments20:05 Nate is secretly rage baiting??21:11 Content creators vs pro gamers24:22 Toast's Collab with Yunjin28:50 OTV x SB19 Fear Pong34:25 Team Toast vs Team Yvonne in Singapore36:28 Pickleball + badminton in Singapore37:37 Traveling with Toast’s mom38:58 What relationships have taught us50:21 Dating app openers 51:48 Our upcoming blind dating episode…53:44 Has the podcast affected our relationships?57:02 Outro
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9. Chelsea’s master plan for Scarra’s dating life | EP 62 | We Were Fighting Before This

   10 september 2026 · 1 uur 36 min

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   Scarra and Chelsea are back together for round 2! This time Chelsea needs answers. Lees meer

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   Timestamps:

   00:00 Intro

   00:45 Scarra’s here!! Again…

   2:18 Are Chelsea and Scarra friends now?

   3:10 Getting Scarra to play tennis

   5:32 Chelsea on the courts…

   7:30 How Scarra REALLY felt playing tennis again

   16:04 Being a tennis influencer…

   18:17 Updates on Scarra’s dating life

   20:12 When did Scarra know he was straight

   21:45 Female allies

   25:55 Is Chelsea an ally to Scarra?

   29:43 Chelsea proposes a NEW friend!

   32:27 Are streamers socially awkward?

   34:15 Scarra loves pickleball

   37:28 Finding Scarra’s perfect woman

   49:00 Scarra doesn’t think Yvonne is a pro gamer

   53:12 Intelligent dream woman?

   54:25 Paying your therapist to laugh

   55:10 Having a close family

   1:01:25 Complimenting a guy

   1:05:48 Chelsea is here to help Scarra

   1:10:27 Toast and Scarra’s relationship

   1:14:31 Why Chelsea became friends with Scarra

   1:21:20 Fakefans is back!

   1:24:20 The don and the diva…

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10. How Leslie and Nate reconnected after 30 years | EP 61 | We Were Fighting Before This

    3 september 2026 · 1 uur 20 min

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    The Fu siblings are here! Leslie and Nate share how they reunited as siblings and past memories they had apart from each other. Lees meer

    Timestamps:

    00:00 Intro

    1:20 the Fu Siblings!

    1:55 Who is Nate Fu

    4:54 Toast is being squished…

    8:10 Does Toast needs backup?

    10:10 The reality of Yvonne and Toast

    11:22 Leslie’s OG streaming days

    14:35 Nate’s streaming POV

    16:25 Being a female streamer

    20:40 OTV parties

    24:34 Leslie on Ryan Higa’s Influence

    26:15 Nate Films with Ryan Higa in Hawaii

    29:54 The Canceled HyperX Commercial

    32:08 Leslie and Nate Discover Similarities

    37:49 Leslie and Nate’s 30-Year Estrangement 40:13 Lost Hamster Story

    41:46 How Leslie and Nate Reconnect

    48:54 Leslie on Being Vulnerable Online

    52:04 Yvonne's 4D Movie Date

    1:03:56 Nate’s First Time Going Live

    1:08:50 Nate Makes Aluminum Trophies

    1:12:53 Icing Toast in Calgary

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