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How to make a woman hate you | EP 70 | We Were Fighting Before This
5 november 2026 · 1 uur 16 min
Toast teaches us questionable dating tactics, Yvonne gets way too excited about Worlds, and somehow we end up debating men vs. women. Just another day of arguing about absolutely everything. Lees meer
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Timestamps:
00:00 Intro00:34 What We've Been Watching03:00 Love Is Blind04:40 Dating Strategies & Love Bombing10:27 Blind Dates & Family Setups12:50 Yvonne's Worlds Experience15:46 Favorite Teams at Worlds18:42 How DSG Started20:48 Toast's Thoughts on Worlds22:44 Esports Player Salaries24:22 The State of Esports26:48 Cheating in Esports30:04 Women in Gaming36:00 Going to Worlds Finals40:00 What Makes a High-Value Man?42:00 Dating Standards45:12 Are Men or Women More Sensitive?47:04 Loneliness & Emotional Support51:06 Bachelor & Bachelorette Parties53:30 Wedding Experiences57:08 Who Should Pay for Weddings?59:07 The Cost of Being in a Wedding01:02:00 Yvonne's Dating Life01:04:00 Finding Yvonne a Boyfriend01:07:09 Romantic Movies01:10:03 Games We've Been Playing
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Everyone Was Fighting Before This | EP 69 | We Were Fighting Before
29 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 14 min
Boo! Halloween is here and we have internet drama to address... Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
1:04 H3h3 DRAMA
7:25 Ned Fulmer tweet
8:55 Content creator come back from cheating?
10:50 Ludwig and QT wedding drama
13:43 Women getting hate farmed
16:10 The Uber situation
17:10 Yvonne’s thoughts on Leslie
20:15 Toast’s thoughts on speaking up
23:08 If Yvonne was late to Toast’s wedding
25:31 The Scarra situation
28:21 H3h3 podcast staff environment
30:04 Halloween episode! Scary or Haunted?
53:00 Halloween costumes
55:13 Sexy Halloween costumes
56:30 Chelsea’s situation w/ costumes
59:26 Forced to watch the Starwars
1:01:02 Yvonne’s experience with Starwars
1:06:10 Toast likes Chelsea’s fiance
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Is it ok to ask your friends for money? | EP 68 | We Were Fighting Before This
24 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 15 min
Pickleball recap, dealing with haters, and should you let friends borrow money? Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:30 Pickleball video thoughts
15:35 Dealing w/ online stalkers
20:21 Being hyper aware as a woman
22:24 Getting pepper sprayed
24:30 Riding in Ubers by yourself
26:11 Yvonne’s Ultrasound appointment
29:25 Seeing yourself in the mirror
31:16 Asking a friend for money
32:10 Toast lending a friend money
36:54 Why Toast pays in group settings
39:11 Why Toast is pissed at his friends
41:20 The Vegas dinner re-explained
45:46 Toast getting upset with an employee
47:35 Calgary trip
49:50 What would happen if Toast did nothing
51:55 Chelsea’s Miami trip
53:57 Toast’s autistic comments
55:32 Women paying for men
1:02:10 Toast’s dating experience with $
1:07:03 High value man? High value woman?
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We're setting Yvonne up on a blind date | EP 67 | We Were Fighting Before This
15 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 1 min
The big 6 7 episode is here... Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 EPISODE 6 7
1:01 Yvonne’s bday!
3:50 Happier in your 30’s or 20’s?
4:55 Yvonne’s bday present prank
8:10 Scarra’s bday present for Yvonne
10:05 Congrats to DSG!
11:44 Getting affected by comments
13:15 Life of esports player
16:45 Yvonne’s NFL trip
19:40 Reflecting on the bro podcast
21:27 Thoughts on Nate
22:50 Chelsea calls out Nate
24:03 Dissecting Chelsea
28:55 Who’s the biggest ragebaiter in OTV
30:20 How Yvonne feels deals with Toast
32:10 Did Scarra cross the line?
35:01 Crossing the line with friends
37:45 Toast judges Chelsea
40:21 WWFBT book club?
43:35 Raw dogging activities
46:01 Taking business vs first class
49:10 Pickleball video coming soon!
53:16 Blind dating for Yvonne!
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THE BRO EPISODE ft.Toast, Scarra & Nate | EP 66 | We Were Fighting Before This
8 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 30 min
The boys take over! A full episode of Toast and Scarra and Nate chatting about life and it's changes and challenges. Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
1:35 Male friendships
6:01 Men and sports
8:28 DSG wins in Riftbound!
12:01 Toast and Scarra’s thoughts about events
15:12 Scarra’s favorite thing about Chelsea
16:40 Toast “celebrates” Chelsea
21:03 The boys thoughts on Yvonne….
21:22 Why is Chelsea stressed
23:43 Reading mean comments
24:45 Toast’s thoughts on being alone
25:55 Growing up as a man
27:30 Living alone and being ok being alone
32:45 Benefits of being dragged out
34:15 It’s hard to ask for help
37:45 Leaving the door open for others
39:00 Scarra doesn’t ask Toast to hangout
42:44 Being thankful for hangouts
44:47 Trauma dumping on strangers
49:42 You can tell when your friends are struggling
51:00 The Knicks game breakup
54:02 Validating someone’s feelings
56:30 Are men jealous of other men
58:45 Yvonne’s friends that she invites
1:00:35 Toast recognizes he’s hard on Yvonne
1:06:39 Toast wants to be alone but he still cares
1:09:22 Is Leslie and Nate extroverted?
1:12:30 The art of putting together a content friend group
1:17:00 Finding the right balance between friends
1:19:45 Would Chelsea and Toast be friends on the outside?
1:20:10 Chelsea and her brother
1:21:45 Pickleball video coming up!
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Hookup mistakes you should never make | EP 65 | We Were Fighting Before This
1 oktober 2026 · 1 uur 34 min
Toast is back in town and we have a lot to catch up on... Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
1:01 Toast is back in town
4:36 Is life different without Toast?
9:15 Yvonne’s apartment is cozy
10:10 Is Yvonne family?
11:47 Yvonne questions Toast…
13:03 Toast doesn’t want Chelsea to help him
15:05 Chelsea’s HOT questions for Toast
17:36 Is Yvonne an ally to men?
22:02 How many times have we hooked up
24:44 Yvonne lists five men she respects
25:30 Has Yvonne ever helped out Toast
29:25 Setting boundaries with fans
32:05 How can Yvonne celebrate Toast more
33:21 AAPI months thoughts
36:00 Toast can’t make it to Yvonne’s BDAY
38:20 Why do asians go to raves?
43:12 Toast and Scarra have the same bday
45:32 Introvert vs Extrovert personalities
46:45 Eating alone at a restaurant
49:50 Chelsea’s alone alot
51:16 Toast likes to sleep on the floor ALONE
54:50 Sleeping in separate rooms
56:34 Who has the higher social battery?
1:01:00 Toast hasn't made a new friend
1:03:21 Chelsea has a friend for Toast
1:05:51 Yvonne’s first date ettiequte
1:08:34 Google-ing Yvonne on the first date
1:10:41 How much $ would it take to be a stay at home mom/dad
1:17:55 Leaving mean comments online
1:20:13 Who’s ragebaiting who??
1:22:30 Playing your attractive cards
1:23:27 Flexing your car
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How Yvonne went on an accidental date | EP 64 | We Were Fighting Before This
24 september 2026 · 1 uur 4 min
Yvonne's accidental date might have been a blessing in disguise... This week, Toast forces the pod to play pickleball, stay tuned... Lees meer
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Timestamps:
00:00 intro
1:13 The podcast lives on
3:01 Toast thinks Yvonne is going through it
4:28 Does Toast have friends for Yvonne?
5:50 Guys going for the same girl…
8:03 Yvonne and Leslie hypotheticals
11:00 Can a woman or man be bumped up to a 10
12:01 Rewatching older clips
13:20 Chelsea reviews if she is biased
16:35 Fighting women on a public platform
19:22 Fighting men on a public platform
21:42 Yvonne’s rude date
25:02 Creators feeling privileged
27:11 Being direct
30:28 Chelsea’s animation friend
31:33 Who’s the funniest OTV member
37:40 What Toast is consuming these days
38:52 Peak OTV days
40:20 Creative rut
44:45 Predicting life
45:55 Toast wants to play pickleball
48:44 Toast comments on Yvonnes weight
53:10 Yvonne’s been working out!
55:04 Chelsea invites Scarra to play pickleball…
57:20 Tune in when we all play pickleball…
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Toast is being squished into a little ball again | EP 63 | We Were Fighting Before This
17 september 2026 · 1 uur 2 min
The trio is back together and Toast and Yvonne need to address the past couple of episodes... Lees meer
Timestamps: 00:17 Intro 1:04 Singapore trip + tournament drama7:06 Is AI more accepted in Asia?8:32 Toast’s mom watches the podcast9:24 Is Toast being “squished into a ball”?10:38 Does Toast need more backup?12:56 Toast admits to rage baiting15:04 How Toast & Yvonne handle tension18:23 Chelsea is scared of the YouTube comments20:05 Nate is secretly rage baiting??21:11 Content creators vs pro gamers24:22 Toast's Collab with Yunjin28:50 OTV x SB19 Fear Pong34:25 Team Toast vs Team Yvonne in Singapore36:28 Pickleball + badminton in Singapore37:37 Traveling with Toast’s mom38:58 What relationships have taught us50:21 Dating app openers 51:48 Our upcoming blind dating episode…53:44 Has the podcast affected our relationships?57:02 Outro
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Chelsea’s master plan for Scarra’s dating life | EP 62 | We Were Fighting Before This
10 september 2026 · 1 uur 36 min
Scarra and Chelsea are back together for round 2! This time Chelsea needs answers. Lees meer
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Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:45 Scarra’s here!! Again…
2:18 Are Chelsea and Scarra friends now?
3:10 Getting Scarra to play tennis
5:32 Chelsea on the courts…
7:30 How Scarra REALLY felt playing tennis again
16:04 Being a tennis influencer…
18:17 Updates on Scarra’s dating life
20:12 When did Scarra know he was straight
21:45 Female allies
25:55 Is Chelsea an ally to Scarra?
29:43 Chelsea proposes a NEW friend!
32:27 Are streamers socially awkward?
34:15 Scarra loves pickleball
37:28 Finding Scarra’s perfect woman
49:00 Scarra doesn’t think Yvonne is a pro gamer
53:12 Intelligent dream woman?
54:25 Paying your therapist to laugh
55:10 Having a close family
1:01:25 Complimenting a guy
1:05:48 Chelsea is here to help Scarra
1:10:27 Toast and Scarra’s relationship
1:14:31 Why Chelsea became friends with Scarra
1:21:20 Fakefans is back!
1:24:20 The don and the diva…
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How Leslie and Nate reconnected after 30 years | EP 61 | We Were Fighting Before This
3 september 2026 · 1 uur 20 min
The Fu siblings are here! Leslie and Nate share how they reunited as siblings and past memories they had apart from each other. Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
1:20 the Fu Siblings!
1:55 Who is Nate Fu
4:54 Toast is being squished…
8:10 Does Toast needs backup?
10:10 The reality of Yvonne and Toast
11:22 Leslie’s OG streaming days
14:35 Nate’s streaming POV
16:25 Being a female streamer
20:40 OTV parties
24:34 Leslie on Ryan Higa’s Influence
26:15 Nate Films with Ryan Higa in Hawaii
29:54 The Canceled HyperX Commercial
32:08 Leslie and Nate Discover Similarities
37:49 Leslie and Nate’s 30-Year Estrangement 40:13 Lost Hamster Story
41:46 How Leslie and Nate Reconnect
48:54 Leslie on Being Vulnerable Online
52:04 Yvonne's 4D Movie Date
1:03:56 Nate’s First Time Going Live
1:08:50 Nate Makes Aluminum Trophies
1:12:53 Icing Toast in Calgary
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OTV's most expensive purchase ever 💸 | EP 60 | We Were Fighting Before This
27 augustus 2026 · 1 uur 17 min
Streamers are low maintenance, and we're here to prove it to you. Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
1:20 Big 60th episode
2:42 Toast doesn’t want to be on a team with Yvonne
8:01 Toast is a yapper
10:43 Chelsea ranked in Brawl Stars
12:27 Faker of Brawl Stars
12:48 Craziest purchases by streamers
17:03 Streamers are low maintenance
20:08 Toast loves to sleep on the floor
23:40 Yvonne is in with the kids
24:58 Toast has a gripe with OTV
26:03 Scarra like it COLD
30:10 OTV master bedroom…
32:12 Toast’s bedroom makeover
33:07 Chelsea’s interaction with Jeremy
35:31 Yvonne is getting back into League
36:52 Can you lose and still be happy?
41:34 Toast’s role as a uncle
45:01 Having kids as content creators
48:10 Giving kids balance
49:58 Nepo babies
52:12 Child cheat code
57:01 Yvonne’s school bullies
59:55 Going to Chinese school
1:07:52 Asian culture being more celebrated
1:10:55 Netflix Avatar the Airbender was a flop?
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This OTV video wasn't supposed to come out | EP 59 | We Were Fighting Before This
20 augustus 2026 · 58 min
Yvonne runs into a dilemma in the early dating stage and Chelsea makes an apology.. Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00:00 Intro
00:00:26 Chelsea's Brawl Stars Update
00:01:27 Gaming and ranked anxiety
00:03:51 Drake vs 20
00:05:30 Scrapped Yvonne vs 10 video
00:12:04 Love is Blind: Yvonne edition
00:13:55 Age appropriate..
00:15:33 Chelsea is setting up the dating game
00:16:53 Dating exclusivity
00:17:15 When to disclose you're seeing other people
00:24:17 You should tell em
00:34:30 Best places to cry
00:35:43 Dont be afraid to hurt their feelings
00:37:32 They might be watching..
00:41:50 Yvonne’s standards
00:42:08 Yvonne's dating standards and the Android debate
00:43:52 Chelsea apologizes to Android users
00:46:14 Scarra and Chelsea go to Tennis
00:48:32 Yvonne's board game night
00:50:38 Toast's reflections on his family
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Is this cheating or just being too nice? | EP 58 | We Were Fighting Before This
13 augustus 2026 · 59 min
Give a man a break sometimes or maybe not... 👀 Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro01:00 - The competitive card game grind02:51 - Yvonne's sushi date10:04 - Dating seriously for marriage12:42 - Trying to set up Yvonne13:45 - Stop trying to train your boyfriend14:46 - The perilla leaf debate19:52 - Giving your company prize to another girl25:33 - Would you take a free trip to Hawaii?26:18 - Driving your coworker home29:20 - Building furniture for a random girl35:29 - Buying personalized souvenirs for coworkers40:38 - What would your death row meal be?46:08 - Would you want to know when you’re going to die?47:19 - Using fame to skip the line51:33 - Why celebrities get special treatment52:26 - The fake acting career prank54:16 - Outro
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Testing our dating standards | EP 57 | We Were Fighting Before This
6 augustus 2026 · 57 min
Yvonne and Toast are back and this week they're finding out how high and low some of their dating standards are 👀 Lees meer
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Timestamps:
00:00 Intro00:23 Recap of previous episode (Scarra & Chelsea)03:23 Yvonne's Collective Con experience07:37 Scarra’s raffle and booth10:28 Selling cards and cash management12:13 Fan interactions and giving back14:41 Yvonne's dating update16:32 "He's a 10 But..."40:48 Getting scammed on MapleStory and Neopets42:28 The tea scam43:49 Street scams, CDs, and mascots44:33 Valorant tournament recap47:22 League of Legends Classic tournament51:57 Discussing League ranks52:37 Wrap-up and tea for next week
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Chelsea helps find Scarra love | EP 56 | We Were Fighting Before This
30 juli 2026 · 1 uur 28 min
Yvonne and Toast are away this week but Chelsea continues to fight to find Scarra love! Lees meer
00:00 Intro
1:28 Are Scarra and Chelsea friends?
2:30 Scarra’s podcast
4:30 Did Chelsea sabotage Scarra?
6:31 Scarra’s belief and plan for dating
10:48 Chelsea wants to set Scarra up
14:45 Hypothetical first date
20:35 The “perfect” date
23:17 Dating a fan?
26:51 Deal breakers for Scarra
28:15 She’s a 10 BUT….
45:14 Is living in LA actually worth it?
46:20 Introvert vs extrovert
50:42 Life is short
52:50 Scarra wants a crazy ex
53:10 We want love for Yvonne
55:21 Meeting a girl at the club?
56:30 Do we believe in love at first sight?
57:56 Learning how to set boundaries
1:04:20 How do you stay hopeful?
1:07:00 Dealing with hate online
1:11:10 The truth about creator burnout
1:17:23 Toast’s content strategy
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Would we survive Streamer University? | EP 55 | We Were Fighting Before This
23 juli 2026 · 59 min
Should we join Stream U next year? 👀 Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:45 Toast plays pickleball
7:20 Yvonne’s Pokémon passion
10:05 Toast is triggered by someone…
11:20 Womens intuition
12:55 Toast didn’t want to be on the same team as this person
14:45 Valorant tournament thoughts
19:10 Yvonne is killing at Valorant
20:38 Yvonne kills s0m
23:31 Toast isn’t doing as hot
25:30 Streamer university thoughts
33:04 Toast become a professor at Streamer U
35:01 Would we apply to Streamer U
41:03 Is Toast chopped?
42:20 What makes someone “chopped”
49:51 Hi from Faker
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Our friends were betting we'd date... | EP 54 | We Were Fighting Before This
16 juli 2026 · 55 min
We've heard crazy rumors and even crazier ones from our own friends... Lees meer
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Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:23 Yvonne rates her own trip
2:45 Thoughts on the Calgary trip
3:03 Yvonne forced Toast to go raving
6:28 Toast takes over Yvonne’s hometown
8:44 Meeting Yvonne’s mom
9:53 Yvonne’s friends defend her from Toast
12:40 The craziest things they saw in Calgary
15:17 Who has more pull?
18:36 Toast gets iced for the first time
20:58 Meeting Yvonne’s childhood friends
23:04 Peak Asian Canadian childhood
28:05 The craziest rumors about Toast and Yvonne
28:49 Lily thought Toast would date Yvonne
30:22 How rich is Toast actually?
31:14 The truth about the podcast’s money
32:30 Did Yvonne and Brodin date?
32:52 Would Yvonne date someone in the friend group?
33:33 Chelsea went to an all girls college
34:44 Love and Deepspace
42:28 What race would you choose to be?
50:31 Would they ever move back home?
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Do women ACTUALLY understand men? | EP 53 | We Were Fighting Before This
9 juli 2026 · 1 uur 2 min
This week we're asking if men actually know what women want? Do women know what women want? Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:40 Toast is into Love Island
3:25 Testing men
5:18 Big SO fight
7:30 Complimenting another’s partner
12:24 Badminton Open
14:15 Yvonne has PULL
19:12 LIVE PODCAST SHOW!
21:32 Toast is Ryan Higa...
22:54 Toast doesn’t want Yvonne on his team
26:38 PRO VS JOE
31:20 Toast breaks it down for Chelsea
34:25 Marvel Rivals drama
36:00 Tournament dynamics
39:18 Recovering from losing
45:35 Is “NORMIE” derogatory
47:06 When did we realize we were straight
50:02 Would you love me if I was a worm
52:45 Experience with he opposite gender
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Yvonne's dad reaches out | EP 52 | We Were Fighting Before This
2 juli 2026 · 59 min
Yvonne finds messages from her dad 🥺 Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:30 Pickleball movie…
3:10 Yvonne Dad reaches out
9:02 Yvonne’s thoughts on her dad :(
17:50 Reconnecting and getting clarity
26:11 Abg and abb event
30:34 Toast’s is insecure about his hair
33:55 Yvonne’s hairdresser
36:30 Meccha Chameleon
40:31 Toast doesn’t want to give up
45:00 How long Mecca Chameleon will last
47:23 Taking bets
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The time OTV and 100 Thieves wanted the same creator | EP 51 | We Were Fighting Before This
25 juni 2026 · 1 uur
TGC Cafes, Disney Adults, and finding Scarra true love? Lees meer
Timestamps: 00:00 Fighting Before This.... 2:15 Toast vs Yvonne's 50/50 Debate5:18 Chelsea Gets Dragged Into It8:12 Who Actually Owns the Podcast?11:50 Brodin Interrupts Another Argument12:42 The Creator OTV Couldn't Get16:25 OTV vs 100 Thieves19:08 The Robert Downey Jr. Incident21:35 Being Known as "OTV" Instead of Yourself24:55 Yvonne's Imposter Syndrome28:45 Yvonne Finds Her Footing31:30 The New OTV Camping Video34:20 Toast's Worst Camping Experience36:55 Doomscrolling Has Gone Too Far39:30 Toast's ChatGPT Sessions42:10 Yvonne's Dream TCG Cafe45:25 Adult Hobbies After 3048:30 Would Yvonne Go Camping With Her Future Boyfriend?50:15 Red Flag or Green Flag?55:10 Chelsea Tries Setting Up Scarra Again55:36 Will We Get A Scarra Date Update?56:17 Outro
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The worst brand we’ve ever worked with | EP 50 | We Were Fighting Before This
18 juni 2026 · 1 uur 6 min
To celebrate 50 episodes of WWFBT, we're eating the spiciest chip in the world while answering the spicy questionable questions Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:22 Yvonne’s million dollar idea
2:21 is “nerd” derogatory?
4:18 Chelsea plays League…
5:37 Present for Toast!
7:16 Knicks in 5!
12:43 Spending for sports teams
14:30 Sports betting and morals…
16:22 Toast at the Richmond night market
18:56 Toast really wants to be mayor
23:10 Online vs Offline filming
29:05 SPICY CHIP CHALLENGE QUESTION GAME
51:31 the FAKER QUESTION…
54:55 Chelsea crashes out again
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Responding to our haters... | EP 49 | We Were Fighting Before This
11 juni 2026 · 1 uur 5 min
We're mad and we all have something to say! Lees meer
Timestamps:00:00:00 Intro00:00:30 The Pickleball Problem00:04:15 Why Pickleball Took Over00:05:18 Is Pickleball Actually Hard?00:06:43 When the New Thing Replaces the Old Thing00:09:30 Chelsea Tries Pickleball00:12:04 Men vs. Women: Who Has It Worse?00:13:00 Is It Easier to Be a Woman Content Creator?00:14:40 The DEI Conversation00:16:15 The Reality of Being a Woman00:17:35 How Do You Support Your Partner on Their Period?00:19:15 Why Couples Rage Bait Each Other00:21:30 Do Women Start Arguments on Purpose?00:24:13 How Much Fighting Is Normal?00:26:00 Is Checking Your Partner's Instagram Toxic?00:28:08 50 Episodes Later...00:29:16 Why Everyone Thinks We're Fence Sitters00:32:48 People Pleaser or Just Nice?00:37:32 Toast Explains His Face Reveal00:40:16 The Insecurity Toast Can't Shake00:43:18 Learning Confidence the Hard Way00:44:59 We Need to Leave Our Comfort Zone00:46:15 Toast's 100-Day Streaming Challenge00:47:38 Why Being Real Beats Being Negative00:49:15 Why Outdoor Boys Wins Every Time00:52:42 We Wouldn't Last a Week in Alaska
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we made our producer CRASH OUT 👀 | EP 48 | We Were Fighting Before This
4 juni 2026 · 1 uur 26 min
Toast gets 2v1'd again? Chelsea's back and she breaks down. Lees meer
timestamps:
00:00 Chelsea's Return & The "2v1" Dynamic
03:05 Reflecting on the past episodes
04:28 Chelsea breaks down
11:43 Asian Canadian Identity
12:55 Thoughts on FOB’s
16:40 Toast and Yvonne road trip
22:06 Empathy & Podcast Dynamics
34:08 The Reality TV "Male vs. Female Gaze"
38:16 The "Club Comment" Incident
40:48 Flight Reimbursement
45:21 Road trip to vancouver
46:27 Vegas trip
51:23 OTV "PR Training" Tier List
54:49 Gambling Sponsorship Ethics
1:05:00 Online Thirst Traps
1:09:20 Ethics of Leaking Information
1:12:03 Yvonne's Gaming Performance
1:18:23 Forced Compliments & Outro
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Being annoying is an art, and we've mastered it | EP 47 | We Were Fighting Before This
28 mei 2026 · 1 uur 27 min
Are war movies sexy? And how did Toast trick Yvonne to be her sidekick...? Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:51 Nate’s last thoughts on Yvonne
3:03 Toast questions Yvonne
4:41 Yvonne’s behavior gets her into trouble
7:02 Bid for attention?
9:05 War movies
12:50 Doing it during war movies…
13:35 Toast blames Yvonne on deflecting
17:38 “I’m Ugly”
22:24 Yvonne believed she was ugly
28:01 Toast’s POV on being unattractive
29:55 When Toast locks in
36:02 Dream physique
38:38 Pivoting lifestyles
42:44 Is Yvonne a supporting character?
44:42 Thoughts on OTV
50:25 Being consistent
54:04 How willing are you to clip farm
56:24 How do you have a friendship with an EX
1:00:42 Who’s the better league player
1:10:00 Still fighting over league….
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The Perfect Relationship Doesn't Exist | EP 46 | We Were Fighting Before This
21 mei 2026 · 59 min
Dating is HARD. It's even harder when you're oldge Lees meer
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 Intro
00:00:34 Toast is late..?
00:02:03 Coconut
00:02:27 We read the incel comments
00:05:14 Reading comments as a streamer
00:08:39 Toast looked for these comments
00:09:59 Unbiased Nate pt 2
00:10:48 Clocking each other’s tea
00:12:26 Nate does the intro jingle
00:13:35 Yvonne’s dating update
00:15:29 Would Yvonne date any of her peers?
00:17:33 Should Yvonne lower her standards?
00:18:49 When ur partner isn’t that self-aware
00:22:00 The 90/10 rule
00:23:04 What have we learned from each other?
00:24:42 What we thought when starting this pod
00:27:24 Toast strat of finding topics
00:28:24 Perfect relationships don’t exist
00:32:05 Yvonne’s vibecheck
00:34:02 Nate’s dating life
00:35:57 Dating when you’re getting older
00:39:09 James Charles tea
00:41:22 Fans asking for money
00:42:35 Celebrities not getting cancelled
00:44:06 Kick streamers going to jail
00:46:47 Prank era of YouTube
00:47:44 How to get attention on social media
00:49:47 Streamer fatigue
00:53:05 Unlimited guests on the pod
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This Podcast Broke our Friendship | EP45 | We Were Fighting Before This
14 mei 2026 · 1 uur 33 min
What are actual good compliments, why you should lie to your friends, and did this podcast actually make or break Toast and Yvonne's friendship? Lees meer
Timestamps:00:00:00 We Were Really Fighting Before This00:00:24 NATE IS HERE00:04:05 Yvonne is a Labubu00:06:14 Chelsea’s projecting questions00:07:39 Receiving compliments00:09:32 Totally unbiased moderator00:11:23 S Tier compliments00:15:17 Repeating Questions to a Stranger00:16:40 Lucky Girl Syndrome00:20:08 How Guys Become Friends00:23:40 Describing their relationship to an outsider00:25:26 Did the pod improve their relationship 00:30:22 Acknowledging feelings00:32:01 Liking other girls’ photos..00:34:57 What even is a good guy00:37:36 How to tank your attractiveness00:41:15 The Male Heroic Fantasy00:43:22 Giving your life for someone else00:45:48 Raising a child is hard00:47:08 Toast’s existential hospital encounter00:49:30 The Amazing traits of Disguised Toast00:52:00 Receiving Compliments & Self-sabotage00:55:19 Reading Comments as a Streamer00:56:59 Food Vloggers are FAKE00:58:32 Lie to your friends 01:01:13 People think Toast is mean01:03:46 What is Misandry?01:08:59 Toast’s Deleted Sykkuno Tweet01:13:05 Things clipped out of context01:14:26 Taking the Centrist POV01:18:12 The incels are not gonna like this one01:19:28 How Internet Drama evolves01:21:50 Hello Millenials01:23:00 Creator Labels01:25:00 Toast is scaring away the Patreon members
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Nice guys finish last, and Toast is here to prove it | EP 44 | We Were Fighting Before This
7 mei 2026 · 1 uur
Toast reveals his ultimate revenge plan against his friend group while Yvonne and Chelsea are tricked into Toast's mind games. Lees meer
00:00 Intro
1:05 Tomodachi Life
2:25 Is being nice an advantage or disadvantage?
6:50 Toast is a hater of the word NICE
8:51 Guys don’t want to be called nice
11:45 Would you rather be nice or funny
13:05 Respecting mean individuals?
15:20 Showing your mean side to your SO
17:00 Yvonne’s patience in a relationship
18:55 Yvonne pisses Toast off…
21:20 Toast wants Yvonne to admit when she was mean
24:32 Do we forgive easily or HOLD ON to things
26:07 Seeking revenge
28:00 Toast’s evil plan of vengeance
30:02 Toast’s plays mind games with us…
34:28 Is Toast a feminist?
37:44 Tost’s confession
38:48 Rapid fire questions
42:36 What we do before we sleep
45:00 Toast loses sponsorships
48:50 America’s Next Top Model and documentaries
53:32 50cent a #1 hater
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Let's talk about Sykkuno | EP 43 | We Were Fighting Before This
30 april 2026 · 1 uur 1 min
We found out the same way you did… Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:50 Toast wants updates on Yvonne
1:07 Sykkuno drama
31:52 Growing together
38:02 Reflection
41:17 Life / Dating / Work Advice
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Lilypichu PROMISED Yvonne she wouldn't do this... | EP 42 | We Were Fighting Before This
23 april 2026 · 1 uur 4 min
Our girl Lilypichu is back on the pod and this time she is making Yvonne uncomfortable for an hour straight.... Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Lilypichu Intro
1:01 What Lily would do for Yvonne
2:23 Self sabotage
6:00 Love languages
8:38 Michael Reeves learning Chinese
11:22 Learning another language
13:20 Lily wants to IMPROV…
19:20 Lily and Yvonne FIGHT
21:43 Lily continues to make Yvonne uncomfortable…
23:55 Lily reflects on her fight with Toast….
23:41 How Lily feels about OTV
27:30 Lily got her drivers license
31:54 Lily’s perspective on improv
32:57 Picking our Mt. Rushmore
38:20 How Lily become friends with Toast
39:55 Writing letters to our future self
42:20 Lilys present vocaloids in college
43:50 Lily makes Yvonne uncomfy again
46:30 Memories in the old OTV house
47:40 Mi fan the cat
49:45 KISS MARRY KILL YVONNE EDITION
59:17 Coachella FOMO
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We got SWATTED and it didn't end well... | EP 41 | We Were Fighting Before This
16 april 2026 · 59 min
Today we're revealing our secret reddit accounts and sharing the times OTV got swatted... Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 intro
00:30 Chappell Roan drama…
5:09 Production on P**N shoots
6:44 Choosing a career of fame
9:01 Feeling bad about fan interactions
12:21 Genz phrases
15:50 Yvonnes stays over at Toast’s place
18:28 Do we have an ALT account
19:51 The dark side of clip farming
21:38 Toast and car accidents
23:45 Yvonne’s car accident
25:30 If you get hit by a WAYMO
28:18 Chelsea’s car accident
32:03 Do women have it easier on the road
33:55 Toast’s sisters accident
35:28 Is pretty privilege real?
36:37 We got SWATTED
39:52 Do guys get “pretty privilege”?
43:57 Is EVERYONE pretty?
45:47 Age of attraction
48:43 Toast has advice from his relationship
51:46 Are we settling?
54:33 Yvonne will give us updates!
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Why Toast Left LA | EP 40 | We Were Fighting Before This
9 april 2026 · 1 uur 8 min
Toast opens up about leaving his friendships in LA, Yvonne reconnects with an ex, and we tackle the hard question of if we could actually be sugar babies or OnlyFans creators? Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:30 Saddest time in Yvonne’s life
5:15 Toast breaks down
9:18 Toast on leaving his friends
12:06 Yvonne on reconnecting with her ex
15:05 Putting in effort in friendships
16:20 Does Chelsea understand Toast
17:05 Toast’s shows effort for others
21:41 Does Yvonne honored?
23:10 People think Toast hates them
26:21 AMOG of OTV
30:24 How females perceived online
34:17 Switching genders
36:00 Upsides of being a woman
38:15 Toast’s niece
39:20 Trad wives & girl boss
46:00 Could Toast be a “trad wife”
49:38 When your SO doesn't help you
51:21 Could we be sugar babies
56:45 If your SO is on OF
1:01:36 How much would you pay for our OF
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Setting up Scarra with his DREAM girl | EP 39 | We Were Fighting Before This
2 april 2026 · 1 uur 13 min
The Don returns! Scarra is back on the pod and this time we're on a mission to find his DREAM girl ✨ Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:45 Scarra started this podcast
5:53 Toast doesn’t consume Asian media
6:28 Internal racism
7:25 Hard love on kids
11:30 Spoiled kids
13:45 When does Scarra want kids
15:55 Chelsea’s friends for Scarra
20:10 Tennis date for Scarra
21:45 Rejection therapy
22:23 Yvonne and Leslie’s double date
23:18 Apps are a humiliation ritual
24:48 Breaking norms
27:05 Polycules / 3 sums
29:58 Kiss, Mary, Kill !!!
47:00 Scarra on being judged
49:32 First dates and ending it
54:02 Cannot stay friends
54:55 Scarra’s price as a Sugar baby
59:03 More expensive to have a GF or a sugar baby?
1:00:02 Sugar baby experiences
1:02:27 Sexy clubs
1:05:27 Falling in love with a stripper
1:06:42 The setup…
1:07:40 Helping Yvonne out
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How to get cancelled PROPERLY | EP 38 | We Were Fighting Before This
26 maart 2026 · 1 uur 18 min
We're back and we moved to a new studio! This week we're seeing which one of us has the potential to get cancelled and if Yvonne would box Toast for $1 Million... Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Yvonne is hungover
2:11 Do we accept lateness
5:40 New studio !
7:50 The wrong Among Us plushie…
9:50 Looks maxing
14:25 Clavicular mindset
16:55 How does Yvonne looks max
18:20 Yvonne’s YOUNG new date?
23:42 Chelsea’s reads hate comments
27:55 Double down on being cancelled
28:35 Taylor Frankie Paul
31:08 The internet downfall and morals
33:35 Boxing each other for $1M
35:30 Losing your big toe for $1M
36:44 Which streamer would we let date our sister
38:12 No streamer is getting married
39:07 Hotpot saga…
42:41 Pokopia
44:21 Leslie and her pokemon journey
48:10 Toast preys on his friends downfall..
49:30 Dating a successful girl dynamic
53:38 Toast’s situation with his girlfriend
55:10 Yvonne’s thoughts on power dynamics
57:42 Insecurities
1:00:31 If we gained some weight…
1:06:21 Relationship weight
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XPOT owner FIRES BACK after our $30K meal | EP 37 | We Were Fighting Before This
12 maart 2026 · 1 uur 11 min
Hotpot owner claps at us and things got worse… Lees meer
Timestamps
00:00 Intro
1:35 Xpot owner RESPONDS
8:30 Toast’s thoughts
10:55 Mr.Charlies and Wayne Dang
12:43 Over charging
13:00 5v5?
15:30 What would old Disguised Toast
17:04 Being recognized in public
19:14 Yvonne’s boyfriend inquires
21:25 Craziest celebrity DM
24:00 Bella Poarch drama
28:41 Toast is the Jeremy Lin of Taiwan…
31:30 Do Waisan kids have it better?
34:35 Being compared to others
36:40 Yvonne tries to compliment Toast
38:55 Team Alyssa Liu or Eileen Gu
42:25 Which country would we represent?
47:02 Toast on the prettiest woman in the world
50:03 Biggest lie women tell men
52:30 Yvonne’s lying to herself
55:22 “I’m Fine.”
56:52 Is it ok to use AI in your relationship
1:00:03 Speaking at colleges
1:04:10 We need to film in Canada…
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Why Lesbians Love Toast | EP 36 | We Were Fighting Before This
5 maart 2026 · 1 uur 10 min
To be loved or feared? We're ranking the funniest OTV&Friends and playing would you rather. Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:35 Does Toast look like a lesbian
3:32 Toast believes he’s funny
6:55 Reliving Toast’s best moments
9:35 Does Toast feel bad
10:27 Funniest member of OTV&friends
14:20 Studying humor
19:00 Being the butt of the joke
20:05 Making jabs at Toast
20:55 Favorite comedy duo
26:30 Toast’s creative juices
29:15 What opened the gates to humor
32:05 Twitter era
34:10 Uncle Roger
37:30 Playing Would You Rather
42:25 Rich and Evil or Poor and good
53:48 To be loved or feared
58:10 Feminist or Mens right activist
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The WORST place we've done it 👀| EP 35 | We Were Fighting Before This
26 februari 2026 · 56 min
Just because you can doesn't mean you should... This week we're seeing how fragile the male ego really is and dissecting asian dating cultures. Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
01:00 Worst place to do it
2:39 Best place to do it
5:18 Doing it on the beach / parks
6:20 Other public areas
7:45 What are men too defensive about
11:05 Does size matter?
15:35 Using Viagra
18:20 East coast vs West Coast guys
18:54 Fastest way to hurt a guys ego
20:06 Singing in front of someone
24:30 Bro code
26:12 Leslie and Yvonne fighting over the same guy
30:48 How does Yvonne chase after a guy
36:55 Toast explains bro code
37:20 Scarra dating Yvonne…….
40:18 Men talking about their feelings
42:53 Ranking toxic Asian women
46:50 Is Korea toxic?
47:28 Ranking toxic Asian men
49:18 Scarra ranks toxic asian women
51:18 Toast is Korean?
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Yvonne LOSES Toast A LOT of money | EP 34 | We Were Fighting Before This
19 februari 2026 · 1 uur 9 min
Yvonne has some explaining to do this episode, while Toast explains why he paid 5 figures for the same dinner, TWICE. Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:30 How Yvonne lost Toast $$$
8:40 Toast proceeds to insult Yvonne
11:12 Toast saves the day?
13:20 Working on Toast’s execution
16:00 Yvonne’s perspective of negotiating
17:44 Raising kids with the same standards
21:03 Yvonne’s thoughts on having kids
23:44 Toast’s thoughts on having kids
27:00 CNY / Lunar New Year!
30:41 Chinese zodiac signs story
33:28 Reading our zodiac predictions
37:25 Companies capitalizing off of CNY
39:40 Giving red envelopes
42:21 Are Toast’s kids sitting in business?
45:26 Picking up the bill
47:46 CNY new year foods
51:00 Chinese medicine
52:28 What to bring to the Chinese cookout
53:30 Chinese games
55:55 Toast HATES vegas
56:55 Toast’s EXPENSIVE dinners
1:00:38 Pokimane and Toast gambling
1:02:00 Toast swears off Vegas
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Toast tries to help Yvonne find a Valentine 👀💌 | EP 33 | We Were Fighting Before This
12 februari 2026 · 1 uur 2 min
Love is in the air? Or so we'll find out 👀 This week we're unpacking what Toast said that made Yvonne almost CRY, and discussing what makes Valentine's day so special and how much money should we ACTUALLY spend on our dates... Lees meer
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Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:30 Love is in the air?
2:30 Defensive over Valentine’s day
3:25 Toast wants Yvonne to speak about the positives
5:40 Welcome back Toast
6:45 Confronting Toast with the “species” comment
8:55 Yvonne goes non-verbal
11:52 Toast thought about apologizing
14:43 Toast almost made Yvonne cry
17:20 Scarra wonders if he made Yvonne feel bad
20:11 Everything stacking up
20:55 Is Valentine’s Day commercial?
21:30 Yvonne’s ideal Valentine’s day
24:08 Guessing Chelsea’s Valentine’s day plans
27:05 Should you lump together a birthday and a holiday?
28:40 Do not propose on a holiday
29:18 Toast tries to read Chelsea
31:38 Do you need to ask your girl to be your Valentine
32:10 How much do we spend on our Valentine?
36:20 What if the partner doesn’t give you a present…
37:44 Toast’s Valentine’s day story
39:05 Valentine’s day is on the Super Bowl day
41:50 Chelsea’s passionate about the Seahawks
44:55 How to choose a restaurant on Valentine’s day
48:30 Should you ask a girl out before Valentine’s day
51:45 Advice for single guys
54:30 Yvonne’s & Toast’s advice for the everyone
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Chelsea speaks her truth | EP 32 | We Were Fighting Before This
5 februari 2026 · 1 uur 2 min
The long awaited Chelsea episode is finally here! She's speaking up for herself and exposing her friendship with Toast... Lees meer
00:00 Intro
00:35 Chelsea’s background
3:25 How Chelsea met Yvonne
5:10 Chelsea POV of meeting Yvonne
6:30 How Chelsea came to work with Toast and Yvonne
8:24 Chelsea’s first interaction with Toast
10:18 Chelsea’s first episode of WWFBT…
13:10 Toast’s humor and intention
15:41 Chelsea is concerned
16:48 What impresses Chelsea the most about Toast
18:20 Chelsea feels like the divorced kid
21:09 Toast is like a brother
24:00 Toast flaming Chelsea…
25:20 Yvonne and Scarra??
26:21 Chelsea is evolving
28:51 Brawl stars and mobile games
32:26 Online relationships
35:30 Changing cities to find your soulmate
39:25 Patreon Questions
39:50 How Chelsea met her fiance
44:24 Chelsea’s bad dates…
50:45 Dating apps have evolved
51:55 Who does Chelsea usually side with
52:36 Chelsea’s life lessons
54:24 Ranking in Brawl Stars?
55:10 Chelsea’s fashion brand
55:40 Chelsea on an HBO show
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Talking trash behind Toast's back ft. FUSLIE | EP 31 | We Were Fighting Before This
29 januari 2026 · 1 uur 25 min
We replaced Toast this week with the one and only, FUSLIE! We're having a girly pop episode this week, we're talking all things girl code, cool girls, and of course MEN. Lees meer
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00:00 Intro
1:00 Fuslie intro!
4:00 PMSing
9:52 Leslie’s relationship with Toast
14:13 Leslie’s POV of Yvonne and Toast
16:05 Girl code
18:42 Pick me girls
21:55 Men will come and go
23:12 Leslie and Yvonne’s favorite memories
28:35 Going to the strip club together
30:20 Strip club bachelor party scenario
34:05 Why men are confusing
35:30 Setting boundaries
37:05 Moving on from a relationship
39:30 Following your girlfriends crush on IG
44:15 Leslie’s first Ex
53:35 Yvonne’s encounter in Vegas
55:10 Being a cool girl
1:01:00 Leslie made excuses for her ex
1:05:00 Micro cheating and boundaries
1:10:00 After Leslie and Edison broke up
1:11:50 Questionable choices
13:30 Boring and stable or exciting and unreliable?
1:16:35 He’s not good in bed…
1:19:00 Don’t poke people
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Spicy questions we SHOULDN’T have asked 🥵🌶️ | EP 30 | We Were Fighting Before This
22 januari 2026 · 1 uur 1 min
This week we’re turning up the heat 🥵 Asking the spicy questions, are desirable partners? Growers vs showers? And are we ok with being a sugar mama or daddy? Lees meer
00:00 Intro
00:27 Does Yvonne know men?
2:24 Showers vs growers…
4:28 Men’s egos
7:13 Girl math
11:30 Spending money on going out
13:22 Paying with coupons on a date
18:15 Etiquette for a first date
21:26 When it makes sense to split the bill
22:25 Have we been taken advantage of financially?
24:05 Relationship imbalance due to money
26:25 Chelsea’s relationship imbalance
28:24 Are looks enough?
30:00 A guy buying Yvonne a drink
33:38 Positive male flirting experience at club
35:45 Yvonne’s type
37:24 Which asian race is more toxic
39:40 4B movement
40:50 Fierce Chinese women
41:16 POWER OUTAGE !!
41:35 Picking between two friend groups
44:40 How well does Toast know women?
45:30 How do you know when a woman is mad
48:35 How well does Yvonne know men?
50:45 Are we desirable partners?
54:12 When will Yvonne find a BF
55:48 WAGER PLUS PRIZE
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We're going to regret saying this... | EP 29 | We Were Fighting Before This
15 januari 2026 · 1 uur 19 min
Have we peaked? Are we peaking? This week we're talking Streamer Awards drama, staying relevant in the creator world, and our billion dollar company ideas all in one episode. Lees meer
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00:00 Intro
00:38 Thoughts on Streamer awards
7:40 Twitch Culture
9:10 Staying relevant
10:50 Representing your community
11:43 Thinking highly or Ryan Higa
14:20 Speaking to other creators
16:50 REAL INTRO
18:00 Peaking
21:10 Yvonne’s thoughts on Toast’s brain
23:20 Is streaming in our future?
27:40 Second chances
31:10 Billion dollar ideas
32:30 Mid life Crisis
37:10 Creator space is changing
39:45 Restarting our career?
42:35 Creators like Pink guy / Joji / Addison Rae / Kai Cenant
47:37 Yvonne’s music career
48:30 Chelsea’s career
52:01 Having pushers as friends / co-workers
54:40 Burntpeanut giving motivation
57:28 Having values
57:45 Who pushes Yvonne forward
59:30 Toast isn’t proud
1:06:30 TFT rankings
1:09:10 Playing League everyday
1:10:10 Celebrating your wins
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The future of OTV | EP 28 | We Were Fighting Before This
8 januari 2026 · 1 uur 11 min
We're getting real and candid this episode and discussing the future of the Disguised Toast, Yvonne, and OTV. Lees meer
00:00 Intro
1:00 Going to the gym…
3:28 Toast watches Yvonne lie
6:20 New Years resolutions
9:34 Yvonne’s music journey
13:10 Chelsea’s Braw Stars journey….
18:30 Toast’s journey with Among Us
22:00 Capitalizing off of streamer fame
25:47 Future of OTV
28:55 Toast looks into investing into games
29:55 Yvonne looks forwards to new projects
31:55 Aging up
34:40 Burnt Peanut
37:50 Mentoring someone
41:02 Becoming an adult
45:15 Doing things we haven’t done before
48:50 Toast wants to interact with more non-asian people…
50:10 Goodbye to Disguised Toast?
55:45 Are we happy?
1:01:10 Exercising more
1:02:30 Taking drugs…?!
1:04:20 Go to drink
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Scarra starts beef with Toast and Yvonne | EP 27 | We Were Fighting Before This
1 januari 2026 · 1 uur 22 min
Welcome to the first episode of 2026! We have a very special guest today…. William Li or better known as Scarra! Today Toast and Yvonne ask the important questions, if Scarra is a hater, and if Scarra has a type or not… Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
1:50 Introducing Scarra
3:50 Scarra zones out Yvonne and Toast
4:51 Stereotypes of Paris
6:25 Toast flames Scarra
7:30 Sydney’s thoughts on Paris
9:24 French etiquette
11:20 Scarras experience at the airport
13:50 Perks of being a guy…
14:42 Would you rather be a R*cst or S*xst (ugh)
15:50 TFT Tournemt in Paris
18:08 Toast’s take on European buildings
19:20 Scarra is sick of Europeans being elitist
21:55 Staying at the same hotel with other TFT players
25:05 Yvonne moves in with Leslie and Brodin
27:15 Male sigma grind mindset
31:27 People think Scarra is mean
34:34 Chelsea calls outs Kory
35:15 Scarra doesn’t remember peoples names
36:48 Toast thinks Yvonne got too comfortable
37:40 Scarra breaks down Toast
40:40 When Scarra first met Toast
42:50 Scarra is a hater now
47:20 First time Yvonne and Scarra met
49:00 Top 10 friends
50:00 Scarra expands on being introverted
51:10 OTV was going to move to Japan…!
54:12 Scarra’s issue during his travels
56:14 Scarra ADDRESSES why he can’t date Yvonne
1:01:02 Scarra has a type....
1:02:00 Yvonne introduces a guy to Toast and Scarra
1:04:15 Integrating an SO into your friend group
1:07:40 Scarra recalls Toast brings over Frodan
1:10:00 Toast has to sus out Yvonne’s friends
1:12:34 People think Toast hates them
1:15:05 Ragebaiting to end the pod…
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This might be the end of Disguised Toast | EP 26 | We Were Fighting Before This
18 december 2025 · 1 uur 7 min
Is this the end of an era? Will Toast run for Mayor? Should we actually meet our haters? This week's episode we're covering all christmas plans, family dynamics, fan encounters, and if Yvonne would date Scarra... Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro1:00 Making the name of the podcast1:50 Leading questions2:12 Yvonne’s miscarriage5:10 Yvonne wishes she had a sibling5:49 Chelsea’s brother is a fan of Toast6:20 Toast wants to run for mayor8:50 Contrast between Toast and his sister12:46 Toast being the youngest sibling13:54 Sibling conversations with dates
15:51 Google Gemini
17:14 Toast tries to set Yvonne on a date20:57 Yvonne dating Scarra??22:34 Single guys don’t stay single for long23:13 Christmas plans23:41 Toast wants to give back27:06 Toast’s plans as mayor30:51 Would Yvonne join Toast in politics32:57 Streamer awards nominations34:31 Meeting your haters35:24 Bad fan interactions36:36 Remembering fans37:24 Fan’s negative experience with Toast39:09 Flight attendant stories42:04 Toast loves the Outdoor Boys47:49 Toast getting his license49:56 Yvonne’s Christmas wish50:41 Toast going to Paris51:34 Chelsea wants to set Yvonne up52:44 Going on back to back dates55:39 Convincing Yvonne to go to Paris56:12 Toast and Yvonne fighting59:19 Toast vouches the guy
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Exposing our MESSY dating history... | EP 25 | We Were Fighting Before This
11 december 2025 · 1 uur 4 min
We're getting candid this week... We're talking about our past relationships, pick me girls and pick me guys, and if we're the jealous type... Lees meer
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:58 Reading things on Reddit
5:20 Jeremiah from Love Island is banned from Toast’s chat
6:41 Reading reddit threads
7:20 Girl on girl comments
8:05 Hoemgirl drama
10:02 Crabs in the bucket mentality
12:43 Being a pick me girl
15:35 Rank being used against women
17:15 Pick me guy
23:14 Being left alone with a guy
25:42 Asian vs American culture
27:45 Would we survive a asian fraternity
28:55 Do girls think about being more attractive?
30:55 Chelsea’s POV
32:42 Being compared to other girls
33:51 Retroactive jealousy
35:20 Body count…
37:28 Does Toast get jealous?
39:11 Toast’s experience with her exes…
40:53 MESSY dating stories…
44:04 Do girls like it when guys are jealous?
45:40 Phone etiquette
51:20 After finishing the podcast….
52:42 Toast being called out for phone etiquette
54:08 No moments of silence
56:40 Negative content better headspace
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Lilypichu finally clears the air | EP 24 | We Were Fighting Before This
4 december 2025 · 1 uur 14 min
We have our first ever WWFBT guest, Lilypichu! On this week's episode Lily spills the tea with Toast and Yvonne and gets candid on her life updates. And yes she even joins in on the fight with Yvonne and Toast. Lees meer
TImestamps: 00:00 Intro
00:50 Sweet n Sour on hiatus
1:30 Lily replaces Yvonne
2:30 Lily doesn’t watch WWFBT
4:00 Lily’s favorite thing about Yvonne
6:03 Favorite thing about Toast
8:45 Biggest fight with each other
11:15 Yvonne and Lily’s friendship
12:51 Complimenting Lily
13:40 Addicted to Social Media
15:22 Toast flames Lily on Street Fighter
17:20 Lily reflects on the Jacksepticeye comment
19:20 Chelsea’s first impression of Toast
20:10 Nina update
22:15 What lane is Lily in
23:22 Toast is a real one
24:20 Yvonne stands up for Lily
25:15 Worst cook in OTV
26:10 Lily thinks about joining WWFBT
27:15 Toast invites Lily to Paris
29:40 Sykkuno
31:32 Who’s the most aggressive out of the 3
33:28 Toast fights with Valkyrae
34:54 Lily forgives and forgets
37:42 Lily stance with Albert
39:34 Lily wants to get invited to the club
41:48 A guy trying to talk to Lily
43:20 Toast doesn’t think Yvonne has game
44:40 Lily made Yvonne do a combo trail
45:10 Who’s a bigger people pleaser
50:23 Pico Park and Chained together
52:35 Rage baiting
53:48 Who was the worst roommate
56:40 High on caffeine
58:30 Planning Canada trip…
1:01:30 Toast almost hit another car
1:03:32 Lily team for BoxJam slam
1:05:38 Lilys teeth
1:07:20 Lily’s new music video
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We turned Thanksgiving into a total disaster | EP 23 | We Were Fighting Before This
27 november 2025 · 1 uur 7 min
Gobble gobble! Happy Thanksgiving! In this Thanksgiving special, we’re sharing what we’re thankful for, who we're inviting to the cookout, and the moment we almost called 911 at our Thanksgiving dinner... Lees meer
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro0:50 Yvonne didn’t stay the night1:45 Thanksgiving special !3:20 Toast’s birthday !4:40 Controversy of Thanksgiving…8:55 Terms Toast talks about controversial words10:25 What we’re thankful for11:30 All you can eat buffet13:20 Thanksgiving plans14:02 Toast doesn’t like celebrating his birthday16:10 Who are we inviting to the cookout?23:03 Our Thanksgiving disaster29:27 What we’re cooking at Thanksgiving33:13 Ants on a log34:50 Health grind41:46 Yvonne’s mom says Yvonne is average44:35 Our Glow ups48:22 Toast comes clean49:50 Who would we not trust to cook53:00 What we’re thankful for56:20 Yvonne’s parents side they were on58:03 What Chelsea is Thankful for58:40 Toast wants to go to Chelsea’s wedding
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Toast gaslights Yvonne for 56 minutes | EP 22 | We Were Fighting Before This
20 november 2025 · 59 min
Toast gaslights Yvonne for 56 minutes | EP 22 | We Were Fighting Before This Lees meer
Are we snitches? This week we're discussing the Oxford study, travel pet peeves, and if Toast knows Yvonne more than Yvonne knows herself...
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
1:00 Going to the clubs and getting a life
3:20 Toast has tinnitus
4:22 Yvonne’s go to drink at the club
5:55 Toast got drunk
6:22 Going to Olive Garden
7:30 Fans never ask about Yvonne ?
9:00 Characters in the Marvel Universe
10:05 Yvonne goes to China
11:11 Travel pet peeves
12:20 “I don’t remember”…
13:40 Where’s Disguised Toast
16:15 The Oxford study
19:20 Yvonne’s crushes
20:19 Fox and the grapes
23:04 Who do we like and not like
29:30 Picking sides during breakups
33:46 Would we snitch on each other?
40:52 Would we be friends in high school?
43:10 Toast doesn’t think Yvonne is hot commodity
45:50 Toast wants Yvonne to meet a guy
47:40 Making a new Hinge profile?
49:15 Does Toast know Yvonne more than she knows herself?
54:01 Still fighting….
55:25 Patreon
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We're back and a lot has happened... | EP 21 | We Were Fighting Before This
13 november 2025 · 1 uur 11 min
We made it to season 2, and the fights keep coming. Today's episode we're catching you up on life, unpacking Twitch drama, and Toast contemplating how often to do laundry. Lees meer
Episode 21 Timestamps (Spotify):
00:00 Welcome back01:10 Toast comes at Chelsea02:44 Catching up on Yvonne’s dating life04:00 Lowering the bar05:43 Twitchcon Emiru drama09:20 Scarra speaks up10:25 CEO of Twitch12:10 Streaming is becoming messy13:02 Toast’s and Nina situation21:40 Twitch and politics23:08 Mizkif interaction and thoughts28:55 Yvonne reflects on her ex32:07 Toast and Yvonne reflect on difficult situations35:30 Yvonne arguing with a guy37:40 Toast cries when raising his voice39:05 Toast firing his agent40:20 Raising your voice42:05 Toast tries to shake his exes hand42:55 Toast’s thoughts on Love is Blind44:45 The Asians on Love is Blind49:00 Internalized racism / Ashamed of being Asian?51:05 Asian masculinity and Asian stereotypes52:50 Toast reflects on his lifestyle55:35 Toast’s Ubereats bill58:00 Yvonne’s grocery shopping routine59:30 Doing laundry1:01:50 Toast’s shower on the floor1:03:00 Toast’s gatorade bottle story…
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