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Ep. 156: Oppositional And Defiant Behavior- Part 1
10 oktober 2023 · 42 min
What if oppositional behavior is a normal response to feeling unsafe? In this episode, we unfold the layers of oppositional behavior and its roots in the nervous system. We look into the diagnostic complexities of Oppositional Defiant Disorder and dive into how our own state of the nervous system is important in helping our children navigate their Watchdog and Possum pathways. Lees meer
In this episode you’ll learn:
That even oppositional behaviors make total sense
Spending a lot of time in protection mode is hard on the body
Changing the behavior is not the goal- regulation, connection, and felt safety is
The diagnosis of Oppositional Defiance Disorder is just a label- we have to stay curious about the causes for treatment
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Start Here Podcasts - robyngobbel.com/starthere
When Your Nervous System Is Fried {Ep 139}
Focus On The Nervous System To Change Behavior {Ep 84}
Connection or Protection {Ep 7}
Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/oppositional1
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Ep. 155: Match the Energy, NOT the Dysregulation
3 oktober 2023 · 45 min
This latest episode unpacks the advanced parenting strategy of 'Match the Energy, but not the Dysregulation', a technique rooted in insights from polyvagal theory and interpersonal neurobiology. It’s a nuanced approach that requires resilience and patience, but when applied consistently, it can offer a remarkably accurate emotional mirror for your children and pave the way for improved connection. Lees meer
In this episode you’ll learn:
The advanced parenting strategy of ‘Matching The Energy, But Not The Dysregulation’
To better identify how far down the Watchdog or Possum pathway your child is
Advanced techniques and strategies need practice, you won't be an expert at them immediately
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Lisa Dion Podcast - Regulated Does Not Equal Calm {Ep 31}
The Club - robyngobbel.com/theclub
Start Here Podcasts - robyngobbel.com/starthere
Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/matchtheenergy
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Ep. 154: (BONUS) Let me Tell You About The Club
28 september 2023 · 44 min
If you're thinking about joining The Club (between now and October 3), let me fill you in on some of the details! Lees meer
In this bonus episode you'll learn:
The real reason The Club works
What you get when you join The Club
Club bonuses
How The Club could help your family
How easy it is to leave The Club when you're ready
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Ep. 153: Marshall Lyles & Robyn Gobbel Talk about Writing #RKB3
26 september 2023 · 1 uur 3 min
Marshall Lyles is here with me today to help me reflect on the journey of bringing Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors into the world. Lees meer
I knew Marshall was just the person to ask to help me with this. He asked questions I was so grateful to reflect on.
Thank you for witnessing this experience for me and allowing me to accompany your journey.
Book!!!-
Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors released September 21. CLICK HERE to order now!Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/talkaboutwriting
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Ep. 152: BONUS - A little snippet from the Book #RKB3 (BOOK RELEASE Day)
21 september 2023 · 25 min
Happy happy birthday to Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors. Lees meer
I wanted to celebrate with you! Y'all mean soooo much to me and resonating in the excitement of the book with you felt really important.
This episode contains a short reading from the book that I hope you enjoy!
If you've received the book already and have had a chance to read it, will you take a moment to leave a review on Amazon? Even if you didn't buy it there!
It's the #1 way to help Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors reach the folks who really need it. A lost, struggling, hopeless parent. An educator who is open to new ways of being in the classroom. A play therapist looking for a new way to be with parents and kids.
You can CLICK HERE if your podcast app lets you or just head to Amazon and search for Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors.
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Ep. 151: Loving your OWN Watchdog and Possum Brain (IT'S BOOK RELEASE WEEK!)
19 september 2023 · 47 min
The best way to love your child’s watchdog and possum parts is by loving your own. Lees meer
Today, as I move toward wrapping up this writing-and-publishing-a-book chapter in my life, let’s talk a little more about the neuroscience of owls, watchdogs, and possums, why the science matters, and how my work has surprisingly become more about helping the grown-ups love their own owl, watchdog, and possum brains.
Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors uses metaphor, story, and science to strengthen your owl brain (ventral vagal complex) and increase your window of stress tolerance. It is my hope that in reading this book, you will feel held by my owl brain.
Thankfully, I have owl wings wrapped around my watchdog and possum brain, too. You can read about those folks in my acknowledgments.
I have so many owls who have knit themselves into my neurobiology and strengthened my own owl self so that I can offer compassionate gratitude and nonjudgmental presence to you and your child.
In this episode you’ll learn:
The science of the owl brain through the lens of Interpersonal Neurobiology
The science of the owl brain through the lens of polyvagal theory
The best way to strengthen YOUR owl brain
How strengthening your owl brain is the best way to strengthen your child’s
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors released September 21. CLICK HERE to choose from a variety of pre-order bonuses, including a signed copy or 20% off.
Free Resources! - robyngobbel.com/freeresourcesRead the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/lovingyourwatchdog
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Ep. 150: Why You Can Know What to Do and Still Not Do It?!
12 september 2023 · 42 min
You’ve probably wondered how you can know the neuroscience of behavior and have a toolbox full of tools…and still struggle to actually USE those tools. Lees meer
Most parents have the thought “If I know what to do, why aren’t I actually doing it???”
It’s not because you’re a bad parent.
It’s because you’re dysregulated, have a sensitized stress response system, and probably have some implicit memories that leave you vulnerable to being triggered.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How very little of our behavior comes from conscious thought
Why your sensitized stress response system leaves you vulnerable
Why regulated, connected parents who feel safe parent the way they want to
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors released September 21. CLICK HERE to choose from a variety of pre-order bonuses, including a signed copy or 20% off.
When Parenting is Traumatic {EP 95}
Beginning of the memory series: Trauma, Memory, & Behavior Part 1 {EP 90}
Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/knowwhattodo
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Ep. 149: "Fix" Behaviors by Calming the Watchdog & Possum Brain
5 september 2023 · 44 min
Instead of responding or reacting to challenging behaviors, think about it as calming the watchdog or the possum brain. Once you understand how your child’s behaviors correspond to their level of dysregulation and lack of felt safety, you’ll be able to use strategies (for regulation, connection, and felt safety) that really work. Lees meer
In this episode we’ll discuss:
How challenging behaviors are the result of the stress response system
Why some kids have sensitized stress responses that lead to baffling behaviors
Strategies to calm the watchdog and possum brain
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors released September 21. CLICK HERE to choose from a variety of pre-order bonuses, including a signed copy or 20% off.
Free Resources! - robyngobbel.com/freeresourcesRead the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/calmwatchdogpossum
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Ep. 148: "Fix" Behaviors by Growing the Owl Brain
29 augustus 2023 · 37 min
Wondering how to tackle your child's baffling behaviors effectively? Join me as I share insights from my comprehensive framework, as well as practical tools and an understanding of your own nervous system. We'll break down how three elements interweave to address complex behaviors and also discuss the subtitle behind my book, "Brain-body-sensory Strategies That Really Work." Lees meer
In this episode you’ll learn:
Why the approach in Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors is an approach that ‘really works’
Why Growing the Owl Brain is a more important place to focus than Responding to Watchdog and Possum Brain behavior
The three things to address to Grow the Owl Brain
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors released September 21. CLICK HERE to choose from a variety of pre-order bonuses, including a signed copy or 20% off.
Scaffolding Is A Form Of Co-regulation {EP 82}
The Connected Therapist by Marti SmithRead the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/growtheowlbrain
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Ep. 147: What Behavior Really Is
22 augustus 2023 · 49 min
Understanding what behavior really is helps us: Lees meer
Stop playing behavior whack-a-mole
Use strategies and tools that really work
Stay more regulated so we can use our thinking brain to make good choices about what to do next
We’re going back to basics with today’s podcast episode with a short exploration of the neuroscience of behavior- especially the most baffling behavior.
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Book pre-order/order: robyngobbel.com/book
Read the full transcript at:RobynGobbel.com/whatbehaviorreallyis
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Ep. 146: Parenting When Your Partner is Not On Board
15 augustus 2023 · 44 min
Are you struggling to find common ground with your partner when it comes to parenting? This episode will shed light on this common dilemma as we discuss understanding behavior, creating a support plan, and cultivating authenticity and honesty within the family. We'll explore the reasons behind resistance to paradigm shifts and dive into the intricacies of the owl, watchdog, and possum metaphor. You'll learn how curiosity and connection can bridge differences with your parenting partner, even when they seem insurmountable. Lees meer
In this episode you’ll learn:
The importance of addressing underlying issues and supporting your partner with parenting struggles
How having different parenting styles or philosophies doesn’t mean you can’t be a successful partnership
About tools needed to navigate these challenges and strengthen the relationship with your parenting partner
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Has Trauma Informed Become A Behavior Modification Technique? {Ep 54}
What if Trauma Informed…Isn’t? {Ep 134}
But- What About A Consequence?!?! {Ep 56}
When Your Nervous System Is Fried {Ep 139}
Self-Compassion Will Change Your Brain {Ep 8}
Q&A! What Do I Do When My Kid Gets Stuck And Ends Up Flipping Her Lid? {Ep 74}
Focus On The Nervous System To Change Behavior {Ep 84} (Podcast)
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Ep. 145: Calm the Chaos- a Transformative Framework for Parenting
8 augustus 2023 · 50 min
Ever found yourself struggling to understand and support a child who simply doesn’t fit the mold? Dayna Abraham's way to Calm the Chaos might be just what you're looking for. Dayna's journey from being a sibling to a challenging brother, to teaching dysregulated kids, and then parenting a unique child herself, offers a wealth of wisdom and practical strategies. Dayna has taken everything she's learned from supporting her son and now helps struggling families all around the world. Lees meer
In this episode you’ll learn:
How Dayna’s personal experiences have led her to develop her Calm the Chaos framework for parents
The importance of seeing kids uniqueness as something to be celebrated, not changed
Why parents deserve exactly what our kids deserve- safety and connection and understanding
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Lemon Lime Adventures
Calm the Chaos Book
Calm the Chaos PodcastRead the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/CalmtheChaos
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Ep. 144: Enabling vs Low-Demand Parenting
1 augustus 2023 · 46 min
Parenting a child with a vulnerable nervous system can feel like navigating a maze blindfolded. But what if we told you that understanding the balance between enabling and co-regulation could be your guiding light? This week, we break down this crucial contrast, demystifying the term 'enabling', often misconstrued in the mental health field, and venture into the science behind lowering demands - a strategy that can bolster your child’s stress response system. Lees meer
In this episode you'll learn:
The importance of being self-attuned to whats hard vs. too hard
How to determine between lowering demands for your own comfort and doing it because it is genuinely too arduous for your child
The difference between enabling/codependent behaviors and co-regulation
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Connection or Protection??? {7}
What to do after We Mess up {80}
Stress Response System {94}Read a the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/Enabling
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Ep. 143: Building Safe Spaces: The Crucial Role of Adults in Children's Recovery from Trauma
25 juli 2023 · 57 min
Ever wondered how to build resilience in children who have suffered trauma? Our guest for today's episode, Ginger, Program Director for the Attachment and Trauma Network, gives a fresh perspective on it. Ginger's personal journey is inspiring, and her experience as a former child abuse investigator, an adoptive parent, and a survivor of postpartum and postadoption depression has shaped her approach to helping others. She shares her road to recovery, and how she found her calling in assisting families and children dealing with trauma and attachment issues. Lees meer
In this episode you'll learn:
Transitioning from traditional behavior plans to focusing on the child's nervous system
The importance of an adult's role in creating safe spaces
Practical co-regulation strategies for educators and parents
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Regulation and Co-Regulation: Accessible Neuroscience that Brings Calm into the Classroom
The Attachment & Trauma Network
Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/BuildingSafeSpaces
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Ep. 142: Exploring Low Demand Parenting: Shifting Power Dynamics and Nurturing Trust
18 juli 2023 · 1 uur 4 min
What if I told you that there's a revolutionary approach to parenting that's shifting the traditional power dynamics and nurturing stronger relationships of trust and understanding? My latest conversation with Amanda Diekman, author of the groundbreaking book "Low Demand Parenting", explores this very concept. Together, we tread into the challenging terrain of parenting children with highly sensitive nervous systems, sharing insightful strategies and breakthrough research work of Ross Green, Mona Delahooke, and Stuart Shanker. Lees meer
In this episode you’ll learn:
What is low-demand parenting
How to create a post-meltdown plan for parents
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Low Demand Parenting- Released July 21, 2023
https://us.jkp.com/products/lowdemand-parenting?_pos=1&_sid=b80ccd227&_ss=r
***For 20% off and free shipping, use code: BafflingBehaviors20Find Amanda on Instagram: @LowDemandAmanda
Find Amanda online: https://www.amandadiekman.com
Post Meltdown Plan for Parents on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/Ctgv-B1OjtE/Read a the full transcript at: https://RobynGobbel.com/lowdemand
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Ep. 141: Peaceful Discipline & Story Teaching with Sarah R. Moore
11 juli 2023 · 57 min
In this podcast episode, Robyn Gobbel interviews Sarah R. Moore, the author of Peaceful Discipline: Story Teaching, Brain Science & Better Behavior, and founder of Dandelion Seeds Positive Parenting. Sarah was working a corporate job when as a new mom, a conversation with a pediatrician who discouraged her from responding to her baby's cries ignited a fire in her to research and understand the importance of responsive parenting. This experience led her to empower parents and caregivers by providing evidence-based information and support. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
The basics of conscious parenting
The importance of curiosity and grace
Sarah's HUG process (Holding reactions, Understanding perspectives, and Granting grace
The power of story teaching
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Sarah's book: Peaceful Discipline: Story Teaching, Brain Science & Better Behavior
Website: https://dandelion-seeds.com/Read a the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/responsive
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Ep. 140: This Mom's Story: Marna Pacheco's Innovative Way of Supporting Vulnerable Nervous Systems
4 juli 2023 · 1 uur 6 min
Marna Pacheco, the creator of Capeable Weighted Products, started her journey due to the needs of her daughter. Marna's devotion to her family and her relentless pursuit of research led to the development of SmartWeight-Technology, a different approach to weighted products, wrapped up in a sweet little pink cape - the first Capeable product. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
The Three C’s of Smartweight Technology
Conform
Compress
Constant Contact
How this innovation leads to such a positive impact on the nervous system
How Marna was able to use her experiences to create change for thousands of kids and families
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Rising Tide Conference
Capeable
The Connected Therapist by Marti Smith
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Ep. 139: When Your Nervous System is Fried
27 juni 2023 · 1 uur 2 min
Looking for practical strategies to nourish a fried nervous system? Lees meer
Living with someone who has significant vulnerability in their nervous system can lead to a sensitized stress response system, resulting in unpredictable and sometimes unsafe behaviors. This can leave our own nervous systems in a state of distress. While we often discuss secondary trauma in parenting kids with trauma histories, the truth is that living with someone who has significant dysregulation is trauma in itself. Understanding this perspective allows us to acknowledge the challenges we face without criticizing ourselves or others.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
The impact of parenting on your nervous system
The consequences of burnout and lack of support
Signs of a fried nervous system
Practical strategies for nourishing a fried nervous system
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Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Previous episode recommendations:Connection vs. Protection (7)
Self Compassion (8)
Understanding Behavior is Not Excusing Behavior (109)
Grief in Parenting Kids with Vulnerable Nervous Systems (129)
Scaffolding (82)
When Parenting is Traumatic (95)
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Ep. 138: Stealing- Behavior is Just a Clue
23 juni 2023 · 48 min
An episode that explores the behavior of stealing and the underlying factors that contribute to it. Lees meer
Stealing is a frequent concern among parents and professionals, yet there is a lack of comprehensive resources on the subject. The goal is to provide a single source that explores the behavior of stealing in depth, taking into account the underlying factors that contribute to it.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
The underlying causes of stealing
What to do about stealing
What it takes to help your child be successful at not stealing
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Previous episode on the Stress Response System: https://robyngobbel.com/stressresponse/Read a the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/stealing
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Ep. 137: Disappointment: A Sneaky Cause of Baffling Behaviors
13 juni 2023 · 48 min
An episode exploring the feeling of disappointment as an underlying cause of many baffling behaviors. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why and how we avoid feeling disappointment
The neurobiology of disappointment
Behaviors associated with avoiding disappointment
The importance of embracing disappointment
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
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Ep. 136: Making Sense of Baffling Behaviors
6 juni 2023 · 37 min
An episode all about the evolution of the podcast and how the name change will reflect the vast audience of families with children who have baffling behaviors. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
The origins of the podcast
The huge impact of the podcast
Why we're renaming the show
Who the podcast is for
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbook
The Neuro Immune podcast series: http://RobynGobbel.com/NeuroimmuneSeriesRead a the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/bafflingbehaviorshow
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Ep. 135: You Aren't Doing it Wrong
30 mei 2023 · 39 min
You aren’t parenting wrong. It’s not your fault. Asking “What am I doing wrong?” is the wrong question! Here’s what be curious about instead. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
That you’re not doing it wrong (well, not any more wrong than anyone else)
A more helpful to question to ask ourselves when our kids are struggling
Why having kids who are never dysregulated isn’t the goal
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbook
Influence Behaviors, Not Control https://robyngobbel.com/influencebehaviors/Read a the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/notdoingitwrong
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Ep. 134: What if Trauma Informed... Isn't?
23 mei 2023 · 43 min
We cannot be trauma informed without changing our beliefs about human behavior. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How staying focused on behavior is objectifying and dehumanizing
Why we cannot heal vulnerable nervous systems with objectifying approaches
How our culture sets parents up to believe good parents are in control of their kids behaviors
How to begin deconstructing these beliefs so we can stay in our owl brain
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbook
Has Trauma Informed Become A Behavior Modification Technique? https://robyngobbel.com/traumainformed/
Influence Behaviors, Not Control https://robyngobbel.com/influencebehaviors/
Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior webinar https://robyngobbel.com/webinar
Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/trulytraumainformed
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Ep. 133: School Refusal with Eliza Fricker
16 mei 2023 · 1 uur 5 min
This is NOT an episode about how to make your kid go to school. Lees meer
What you WILL learn in this episode:
What is pathological demand avoidance, or PDA?
Schools valuing attendance above all is not helpful
You are a good parent even if your kid doesn’t go to school
That sometimes, all we have to do is be nice
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Can’t Not Won’t by Eliza Fricker
The Family Experience of PDA by Eliza Fricker
The Educator's Experience of PDA by Eliza Fricker
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Read a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/SchoolRefusal
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Ep. 132: Screen Time & Mental Health with Debbie Steinberg Kuntz
9 mei 2023 · 57 min
In this episode, you’ll learn: Lees meer
Healthy use and overuse when it comes to screen time
Consuming screen time with mindful intentionality
Helpful tips for transition time away from screens
Power with instead of power over and having collaborative conversations
What do we do now that the screens are turned off?
Screen Time & Mental Health Summit
The Bright & Quirky Screen Time & Mental Health Summit runs May 15 - 19.
CLICK HERE to register for FREE!Resources mentioned in this podcast:
The Good Life by Robert Waldinger
Atomic Habits by James Clear
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/brightandquirky
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brightnquirky/
Read a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/screentime
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Ep. 131: Knot Parenting with Carrie Contey
2 mei 2023 · 1 uur 1 min
A deep and touching conversation with Carrie Contey, PhD. about the profound human work of being in relationship with another developing human and remembering their essence in the midst of challenging behaviors and chaos. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
What does Carrie Contey mean by Knot Parenting
What it is to be human and care for humans as they grow
A bigger container for holding the work of parenting
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Website: https://www.carriecontey.com/
Podcast: https://www.carriecontey.com/podcast
Email: hello@carriecontey.com
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/carrieconteyphd
Instagram: @carrieconteyphd https://www.instagram.com/carrieconteyphd/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@carrieconteyphd
Freebies: https://www.carriecontey.com/resourcesRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/knotparenting
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Ep. 130: More About Blocked Care- Friday Q&A
28 april 2023 · 43 min
Can you please talk more about blocked care? Lees meer
This Friday Q&A is a follow up to Episode 123- Healing Blocked Care.
If connection is a biological imperative, how can I be experiencing blocked care?
How does blocked care fit into the owl, watchdog, and possum approach to the nervous system?
What are some more tips for parents experiencing blocked care?
This is a Friday Q&A episode, where I answer a listener’s question.
Mentioned Resources:
Healing Blocked Care episode: https://robyngobbel.com/blockedcare/
Reclaim Compassion by Lisa Qualls and Melissa Corkum: https://www.amazon.com/Reclaim-Compassion-Adoptive-Overcoming-Neuroscience/dp/B0BW344WQ8
Brain Based Parenting by Dan Hughes: https://www.amazon.com/Brain-Based-Parenting-Neuroscience-Interpersonal-Neurobiology/dp/0393707288
Start Here private podcast: RobynGobbel.com/StartHere
Read the transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/BlockedCare2
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Ep. 129: Grief in Parenting
25 april 2023 · 39 min
Robyn explores the grief in parenting kids with vulnerable nervous systems Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
The relationship between trauma and grief
Why it's important to make space for grief in our kids and in ourselves
The role of self-compassion
How a lack of media representation of your parenting journey causes grief
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbookRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/grief
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Ep. 128: My Child Hates Having their Feelings Validated- Friday Q&A
21 april 2023 · 21 min
Why does my child hate having their feelings validated? Lees meer
In this episode, I talk about the top 5 reasons I see about why kids don’t like their feelings validated:
It feels too vulnerable
It feels intrusive
You’re getting it wrong
You’re on the watchdog or possum pathway
They are too far down the watchdog & possum pathway
This is a Friday Q&A episode, where I answer a listener’s question.
Additional Resources:
Regulated Does Not Mean Calm https://robyngobbel.com/lisadion
Toxic Shame Series https://robyngobbel.com/toxicshame
Has Trauma Informed Become another Behavior Modification Technique? https://robyngobbel.com/traumainformed/Read the transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/ValidatedFeelings
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Ep. 127: Surviving the Mother Load of Parenting with Meredith Ethington
18 april 2023 · 1 uur 13 min
A conversation with Meredith Ethington, author of The Mother Load: Surviving the Daily Grind without Losing Your Ever Loving Mind about mental health and the mental load of parenting. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why authentic storytelling about parenting is so important
Why being honest about mental health struggles in parenting matters
How to hold space for our children's vulnerability and our own
How the mental load impacts parents
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Meredith's blog: Perfection Pending
Meredith's new book: The Mother LoadRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/motherload
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Ep. 126: What Does this Look Like with Teens- Friday Q&A
14 april 2023 · 22 min
What does this way of parenting look like with teens? Lees meer
In this episode, I:
Reassure you that teens want to be parented with playfulness and connection, too
Explore what’s hard about realizing we don’t have control over anyone’s behavior- including our teens
Remind you that the behavior you want to see from your teen are all owl brain skills, so keep using regulation, connection, and felt safety to grow their owl brain
This is a Friday Q&A episode, where I answer a listener’s question.
Additional Resources:
Parenting in the Eye of the Storm by Katie Naftzger
Brainstorm by Dan Siegel
How to Talk to Your Teen About Anything by Katie Malinski
Podcast episode with Katie Malinski: https://robyngobbel.com/talktoyourteen/Read the transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/ParentingTeens
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Ep. 125: When you Feel Like a Parenting Failure
11 april 2023 · 22 min
For the mom and dad or grandma or grandpa or caregiver who is worried they are making things worse because of how they are parenting. Lees meer
You have tried so hard to be the parent you want to be.
You have tried so hard to break cycles. To not parent the way you were parented.
And I’ll bet that sometimes, you end up parenting or behaving in exactly the way you are trying not to.
And maybe sometimes it’s actually really bad.
This episode is for you.
Read a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/ParentingFailure
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Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
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Ep. 124: Should My Child be in Individual or Family Therapy? Friday Q&A
7 april 2023 · 23 min
Should my child- who has a history of attachment trauma- be only doing family therapy? Or is it OK for them to do individual therapy? Lees meer
In this episode, I:
Reassure you that this is a nuanced decision with no clear answer
Describe when individual therapy might be most appropriate
Describe when family therapy might be most appropriate
This is a Friday Q&A episode, where I answer a listener’s question.
Additional Resources:
https://robyngobbel.com/childintherapyRead the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/IndividualOrFamilyTherapy
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eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 123: Healing from Blocked Care with Lisa Qualls and Melissa Corkum
4 april 2023 · 1 uur 3 min
A conversation with Melissa Corkum and Lisa Qualls, authors of Reclaim Compassion: The Adoptive Parent's Guide to Overcoming Blocked Care with Neuroscience and Faith about blocked care- what it is, what causes it, and how families can begin to recover. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
What is blocked care
What are the symptoms
How can you overcome blocked care
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Blocked Care Assessment: theadoptionconnection.com/parentingaftertrauma
Website: Reclaimcompassion.com
Book: Reclaim Compassion
Read a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/blockedcare
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Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
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Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 122: What does "Vulnerable Nervous System" mean?
28 maart 2023 · 31 min
What is a vulnerable nervous system and how do you know if your child has one? Understanding what is meant by "vulnerable nervous system" can help you support your child with big, baffling behaviors. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
What do I mean by vulnerable nervous system
How to know if your child has a vulnerable nervous system
What causes nervous system vulnerability
How to support a child who has a vulnerable nervous system
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Robyn's Book: https://robyngobbel.com/book/
Attachment Series ebook: Robyngobbel.com/ebook
The Club: RobynGobbel.com/TheClubRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/vulnerable
We can't wait to review your application for the BBTI's Immersion Program for Professionals.
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RobynGobbel.com/immersion for every detail about the program you could be curious about!
Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book
Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion
Follow Me On:
Facebook
InstagramOver on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 121: How Toxic Shame Heals
21 maart 2023 · 41 min
Part 3 of a 3 part series on toxic shame discusses how toxic shame heals and gives parents a map for how to be with kids who experience toxic shame. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
There is no technique or tool to heal shame
What toxic shame really needs in order to heal
The role of memory reconsolidation in healing toxic shame
Why holding the truth for our kids matters
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Robyn's Book: https://robyngobbel.com/book/
The Club: RobynGobbel.com/TheClubPrevious Podcast Episodes:
Trauma, Memory, and Behavior Part 1
Trauma, Memory, and Behavior Part 2 (includes a F R E E download)
What Our Kids Really Need (and Us, Too): Moments of HealingRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/toxicshame3
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Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book
Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion
Follow Me On:
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Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 120: What Does Toxic Shame Look Like?
14 maart 2023 · 46 min
Understanding how your child's - or your - behaviors protect against re-experiencing toxic shame and what it looks like will help you along the way to healing toxic shame. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
What behaviors might you see that are related to toxic shame
How and why behaviors protect us from re-experiencing toxic shame
How Internal Family Systems helps us make sense of these behaviors
How toxic shame can protect us from experiencing the grief of aloneness
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Robyn's Book: https://robyngobbel.com/book/
The Club: RobynGobbel.com/TheClub
Ilyse Kennedy's book: The Tender Parts: A Guide to Healing Trauma through Internal Family Systems Therapy.Read a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/toxicshame2
We can't wait to review your application for the BBTI's Immersion Program for Professionals.
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RobynGobbel.com/immersion for every detail about the program you could be curious about!
Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book
Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion
Follow Me On:
Facebook
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Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 119: The Neurobiology of Toxic Shame
7 maart 2023 · 46 min
Understanding the neurobiology of toxic shame helps us understand how to begin to change this for our kids. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
What is the difference between shame and toxic shame
What is the neurobiology of toxic shame
How does toxic shame develop?
Why do good things trigger shame for some people?
Robyn's book is available for pre-order!!!
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Robyn's Book: https://robyngobbel.com/book/
The Club: RobynGobbel.com/TheClubRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/toxicshame
We can't wait to review your application for the BBTI's Immersion Program for Professionals.
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Applications are already streaming in and registration is starting to fill up!
We are waiting to read your application for the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals!
RobynGobbel.com/immersion for every detail about the program you could be curious about!
Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book
Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion
Follow Me On:
Facebook
InstagramOver on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 118: How Can The Club Help my Family? Q&A
3 maart 2023 · 41 min
The Club is currently welcoming new members and I know you have questions- questions that ultimately boil down to: Lees meer
Is The Club right for me and my family?
How can The Club help?
I also answer very practical questions like:
What’s Included in The Club? (so much!)
How much direct interaction do I get with Robyn (lots!)
Is it easy to quit when I’m ready? (YES!)
Welcome to the Friday Q&A series! I’m answering listener questions every Friday on the podcast.
For all the details about The Club and to join us, head to https://RobynGobbel.com/TheClub
We can't wait to review your application for the BBTI's Immersion Program for Professionals.
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Applications are already streaming in and registration is starting to fill up!
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RobynGobbel.com/immersion for every detail about the program you could be curious about!
Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book
Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion
Follow Me On:
Facebook
InstagramOver on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 117: How I've Strengthened my Psychological Boundaries
28 februari 2023 · 55 min
Robyn shares her personal journey with strengthening her own psychological boundaries. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Robyn’s experience as a client in a therapy setting
Allowing others to have their own emotional journeys without interfering
Caring for your watchdog and possum brains with your owl brain
The title for Robyn’s book coming out September 2023!!! Pre-order HERE
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Being With Directory: RobynGobbel.com/BeingWithDirectory
Parent Course Directory: RobynGobbel.com/ParentCourseDirectory
The Club: RobynGobbel.com/TheClub
Podcast with Juliane Taylor Shore: https://robyngobbel.com/boundaries3/Read a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/myboundaries
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RobynGobbel.com/immersion for every detail about the program you could be curious about!
Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book
Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion
Follow Me On:
Facebook
InstagramOver on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 116: Why does my child demand constant attention? Friday Q&A
24 februari 2023 · 18 min
My four-year-old is relentless in their demand for constant attention. But especially when I’m doing something like checking a text message, watching something on my phone, or talking to someone else- even just their dad! If I don’t pay attention immediately, he freaks out. How do I get this under control? Lees meer
In this episode, I:
Reassure you that the need for connection is totally normal!
Describe the neurobiology processes that make a lack of connection feel like danger
Recommend resources for how to help your child be able to tolerate disconnection
Welcome to Fridays in February Q&As! I'll be answering one question every Friday in February.
Additional Resources:
Scaffolding Podcast: https://robyngobbel.com/scaffolding
Bottomless Pit podcast: https://robyngobbel.com/bottomlesspitWe can't wait to review your application for the BBTI's Immersion Program for Professionals.
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Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book
Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion
Follow Me On:
Facebook
InstagramOver on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 115: Boundaries with Verbal Aggression with Juliane Taylor Shore: Boundaries with Connection Part 3 of 3
21 februari 2023 · 1 uur 6 min
In part 3 of this series on Boundaries with Connection, Juliane Taylor Shore talks us through how boundaries work in relationships with our children - relationships where we have to show up every day - and why it is so important for us to have good psychological boundaries when our children are verbally aggressive. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
What are psychological boundaries
How do psychological boundaries help us
Why good psychological boundaries are important when a child is verbally aggressive
How to create space between your mind and another's mind
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Juliane Taylor Shore's website: https://www.cleariskind.com/
Juliane's boundaries course: https://therapywisdom.com/neurobiology-of-feeling-safe/
Jules' Relationship Podcast : https://whydoesmypartner.com/FREE
One-page PDF infographic on Boundaries with Connection!
CLICK HERE to get the download sent to your inboxRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/boundaries3
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Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
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Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 114: Can I teach my child about their brain? Friday Q&A Series
17 februari 2023 · 22 min
I’ve been listening for a while and the watchdog and possum brain ideas have really helped me. Is it OK to teach this to my kids too? I’m worried they’ll start using it as excuses. Lees meer
I get this question all the time! If we teach our kids about the watchdog and possum brain are they going to start saying things like “My watchdog brain made me hit my sister!”
In this episode, I:
Outline the benefits of teaching our kids about their brain (there are lots)
Teach you what to do if your child uses it as an excuse
Recommend resources for how to teach your child about their brain
Welcome to Fridays in February Q&As! I'll be answering one question every Friday in February.
Additional Resources:
Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior Podcast: https://robyngobbel.com/changebehavior
Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior FREE Webinar: https://robyngobbel.com/webinar
The START HERE podcast: https://robyngobbel.com/starthereWe can't wait to review your application for the BBTI's Immersion Program for Professionals.
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Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book
Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion
Follow Me On:
Facebook
InstagramOver on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 113: Boundaries that Create Success: Boundaries with Connection Part 2 of 3
14 februari 2023 · 39 min
In part 2 of this series on Boundaries with Connection, we explore how to set boundaries that create success by providing structure and containment that offers safety, connection, and co-regulation. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How boundaries can create physical and emotional safety
How to create the kind of boundaries your child really needs for continued development
How to set boundaries with the intent of increasing regulation
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Previous podcast episode https://robyngobbel.com/scaffolding
FREE
One-page PDF infographic on Boundaries with Connection!
CLICK HERE to get the download sent to your inboxRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/boundaries2
Follow Me On:
Facebook
InstagramOver on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 112: The Problem with a RAD diagnosis- Friday Q&A series
10 februari 2023 · 26 min
"I’m so confused about the RAD diagnosis. My son’s therapist suggested it but everything I read online is scary and hopeless. Help!" Lees meer
When parents get a diagnosis of RAD (or it even gets suggested!) they head straight to Google.
What they find is terrifying!
That's the problem with RAD as a diagnosis!
In this episode, I give a new framework for considering what's underneath the behavioral symptoms that lead to a diagnosis of RAD- and why this reframe is crucial to treatment.
Welcome to Fridays in February Q&As! I'll be answering one question every Friday in February.
Additional Resources
Brilliance of Attachment eBook by Robyn Gobbel
Developmental Trauma Close Up by Beacon House (this is an EXCELLENT resource on Developmental Trauma)
We can't wait to review your application for the BBTI's Immersion Program for Professionals.
Go now to RobynGobbel.com/apply .
Applications are already streaming in and registration is starting to fill up!
Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book
Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion
Follow Me On:
Facebook
InstagramOver on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 111: Boundaries with Connection Part 1 of 3: Boundaries You can Control
7 februari 2023 · 38 min
Focusing on understanding what's driving behavior can sometimes make it feel like we aren't addressing the behavior at all. It can feel as if we are boundaryless and permissive. This episode sheds light on what boundaries really are and how focusing on regulation, connection and felt-safety increases compassionate boundaries in response to behaviors. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
What boundaries really are
How they are different than punishment and rules
Examples of boundaries
What to do when your child violates a boundary
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Previous podcast episode "But What about a Consequence?"FREE
One-page PDF infographic on Boundaries with Connection!
CLICK HERE to get the download sent to your inboxRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/boundaries1
Follow Me On:
Facebook
InstagramOver on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 110: Does my child get dysregulated on purpose? Friday Q&A Series
3 februari 2023 · 16 min
"Sometimes it feels like my child escalates and gets physical or has a tantrum- almost on purpose. Like- they want to get out of control. Is this possible?" Lees meer
It's totally possible, but it's not because they are manipulative or because they don't want to feel better.
Let me help this behavior make more sense to you so you can stay more regulated and present for your child during this baffling behavior.
Welcome to Fridays in February Q&As! I'll be answering one question every Friday in February.
See you next week!
Read the transcript: https://robyngobbel.com/dysregulatedonpurpose/
We can't wait to review your application for the BBTI's Immersion Program for Professionals.
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Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book
Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion
Follow Me On:
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Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 109: Is Understanding Behavior Just Excusing It?
31 januari 2023 · 40 min
Understanding behavior helps us actually solve the problem, leads to compassion, and actually helps behavior to change, but first we must understand why we are so afraid that understanding behaviors means we are excusing "bad" behaviors. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
The difference between understanding behavior and excusing behavior
Why understanding behavior is important
What are our fears about understanding behavior
What leads to behavior change
The importance of compassionate boundaries
Read a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/understandingbehavior
We can't wait to review your application for the BBTI's Immersion Program for Professionals.
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RobynGobbel.com/immersion for every detail about the program you could be curious about!
Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book
Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion
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Ep. 108: It's Me! Hi! My 2022 Reflections
24 januari 2023 · 1 uur 6 min
An episode of sharing, connecting, and reflecting on all the goodness and intensity of 2022, celebrating this community, and looking forward to the year ahead on the podcast and more. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
The huge and impactful undertaking of Being With
News about my upcoming book!
What's been happening in The Club
The most vulnerable thing I did in my business in 2022
What's ahead for 2023
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) Directory: https://robyngobbel.com/immersionprogramgraduate/
Read a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/reflections
We can't wait to review your application for the BBTI's Immersion Program for Professionals.
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Applications are already streaming in and registration is starting to fill up!
We are waiting to read your application for the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals!
RobynGobbel.com/immersion for every detail about the program you could be curious about!
Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book
Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion
Follow Me On:
Facebook
InstagramOver on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LOTS of FREE Resources
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) -
Ep. 107: Helping Kids Discover their Superpowers with Dr. Chaitra Wirta Leiker
17 januari 2023 · 43 min
An interview with Dr. Chaitra Wirta-Leiker about empowering children to be the boss of their own stories and how to find therapists who can hold those stories with curiosity and resonance. Lees meer
In this episode, you’ll learn:
We all get to decide how we want our stories to be shared, and why it's especially important for adoptees to have tools for responding to intrusive questions
The powerful connection of finding a therapist who is an adoptee
How to find the right therapist for your child
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
Dr. Wirta-Leiker's book: https://growbeyondwords.com/adoptees-like-me/
National Adoptee Therapist Directory: https://growbeyondwords.com/adoptee-therapist-directory/
Screening Questions: https://growbeyondwords.com/2015/08/screening-questions-when-seeking-an-adoption-competent-therapist/
Read a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/superpowers
Connect with Dr. Chaitra Wirta-Leiker here:
Website: https://growbeyondwords.com/
Instagram: @growbeyondwords
Facebook: @BeyondWordsPsychologicalServicesWe can't wait to review your application for the BBTI's Immersion Program for Professionals.
Go now to RobynGobbel.com/apply .
Applications are already streaming in and registration is starting to fill up!
We are waiting to read your application for the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals!
RobynGobbel.com/immersion for every detail about the program you could be curious about!
Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/book
Join us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClub
Sign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/Immersion
Follow Me On:
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InstagramOver on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
LOTS & LO…