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Episode 101: How Do Our Beliefs Affect Human Sex Trafficking?
20 mei 2021 · 53 min
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We have a fantastic guest joining us today! With real experience on the mission field, Meghan Tschanz is in a great position to share her thoughts and add her voice to this conversation. Thank you for joining us and listening in today, and thank you again to Meghan for being on our podcast!
Things Mentioned in This Podcast:
Meghan Tschanz's book Woman Rising: Learning to Listen, Reclaiming Our Voice
The study about Calvinist/complementarian beliefs and their correlation with domestic violence myths
The Twitter thread by Branden Henry talking about books and research
The article Meghan mentioned by Lyn Yonack about power and sexual abuse
The Wipe Every Tear charity
The Great Sex RescueTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
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And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 100: Is Premarital Sex Dehumanizing?
14 mei 2021 · 1 uur 5 min
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We made it to 100 episodes! Thank you to all our listeners for sticking with us, whether from day one or last week, we SO appreciate you being here! And thank you to all those who sent in messages for us to listen to in this episode!
Links to things mentioned:
Great Sex Rescue!
Michael John Cusick's Site, his book Surfing for God, and his Restoring the Soul podcast
Tim Keller's Twitter Thread
Focus on the Family article about consent
The Honeymoon CourseTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 99: Don't Let Your Voice be Small Just Because You're a Woman
6 mei 2021 · 1 uur 8 min
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Thank you to our WONDERFUL guests this week! We have 3 different people joining in on the discussions today!
Links to things mentioned:
Timothy Thomas' articles, Part 1 and Part 2
Bruce C.E. Fleming's Eden podcast and Book of Eden book. The podcast walks through many of the Genesis verses regarding gender and shows us a beautiful picture of wholeness and freedom
Shannon Ashley's article about our interaction with Mark Gungor
The Great Sex RescueTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Do You Know What Your Wife Has Been Taught About Sex? - Start Your Engines 17
29 april 2021 · 49 min
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Here we are with another 'Start Your Engines' edition of the podcast! Join Keith and Sheila as they discuss some strange things your wife might believe about sex, and Rebecca and Sheila as they break down an interesting perspective on how the men's lust message can mess up women too!
Links to things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue: Our new book, that looks at how harmful some of these messages have been
Support our research by joining our Patreon group! Even for as little as $5 or $8 a month!
Our "Do All Men Struggle with Lust" podcast
Our open letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect (at the bottom of this post is links to all of the other things we've said about this book)
The study on complaining and maladaptive worry and statusTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 97: That Weird 70s Sex Era
22 april 2021 · 49 min
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We've been going back in time on the blog and looking at how different eras viewed sex, so this week on the podcast we're bringing more of that conversation! Listen in as Sheila, Connor, and Rebecca break down what led to the sexual revolution and how the church responded to it at the time.
Links to things mentioned:
Come support our peer-reviewed research and getting into more social media channels!
Connor's review of the 1970s sex book
My review of The Act of Marriage
Our sexuality through the ages series--start here and then follow the links at the bottom
Our rubric and scorecard of all the books we looked at for The Great Sex RescueTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 96: Let's Turn Toxic Church Cultures into Goodness Cultures! ft Scot McKnight & Laura Barringer
15 april 2021 · 51 min
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We've got some AMAZING guests joining us on the podcast today, authors/father-daughter duo Scot McKnight and Laura Barringer! We hope you enjoy this discussion on church cultures, and can find your own church that is 'tov'!
Links to things mentioned:
Scot & Laura's book! https://amzn.to/2OP4Nb9 (A Church Called Tov)
Our rubric and scorecard
The Great Sex RescueTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 95: How to Talk about Sex with Your Teens so You Don't Scar Them for Life
8 april 2021 · 48 min
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This week's episode is going out to all the parents of teens out there. We know that sex and puberty can be a tough topic to navigate with your children as they grow up, so we wanted to really delve into that topic and hopefully help further healthy messages for the future generations!
The Whole Story: Our puberty & sex course for moms/daughters or dads/sons (or single parents & opposite sex child!)
The problem with Shaunti Feldhahn's survey question where she said that 82% of boys had little ability or felt little responsibility to stop the sexual progression
That study about teenagers and masturbation rates
The Great Sex Rescue: Our new book with lots of great research about lust, etc.To Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 94: Logical Fallacies in our Marriage Advice! The Power & Statistics Episode
1 april 2021 · 1 uur 6 min
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This is a jam-packed episode of the Bare Marriage podcast! We hope you enjoy listening in this week!
Links to things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue! And remember to rate and review!
Last week's long post on Emerson Eggerichs gaslighting abuse victims--and the podcast that went with it
The blog post where Emerson Eggerichs uses the stat both correctly & incorrectly at the same time
10 reasons rushing forgiveness ruins intimacy
Our Open Letter to Focus on the Family (that our letter writer referred to)
The Duty Sex Isn't Sexy podcast (that our letter writer referred to)
Why Unconditional Respect Isn't A Thing (where we looked in detail at Shaunti Feldhahn's survey question regarding respect)To Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Start Your Engines Ep. 16: Can We Be a Church that Doesn't Gaslight Abuse Victims and Bounce our Eyes?
25 maart 2021 · 1 uur 5 min
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We simply must change the way we talk about women in the church, because what is happening is dangerous.
Links to things mentioned:
The post yesterday where we discussed Emerson Eggerichs' sermons in detail
Last week's post on the Atlanta shootings and seeing women as dangerous
Study showing that non-fatal strangulation increases the odds of a woman being killed by seven-fold
The original sermon series by Emerson Eggerichs on YouTube--Part 1 and Part 2To Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 92: All about Orgasms!
18 maart 2021 · 40 min
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Let's discuss orgasms this week, shall we?! We're thrilled to announce our new Patreon!
Links to things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue
The Orgasm Course
The Honeymoon Course
The Orgasm SeriesᐧTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 91: The Thalidomide Test: What Makes a Marriage Book Good?
11 maart 2021 · 59 min
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Another week where we're discussing sex and marriage here on the Bare Marriage Podcast!
Links to things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue — it's doing wonderfully and selling wonderfully! Thank you so much--and help us out by leaving a review on Amazon or Goodreads once you've read it!
Our survey methodology
Books that we liked--How We Love by the Yerkovichs; Boundaries and Boundaries in Marriage by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
10 Ways to Know if Your Church is Toxic
Our Open Letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect
The story of ThalidomideTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 90: The book launches, Becca breaks down... and should you kiss before marriage?
4 maart 2021 · 1 uur
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We planned to do a bit of a victory lap, and it did start out that way.
We’re just really raw with you about how demoralizing it is to see people just love our book and say what an amazing impact it’s had on them– and then have the powers-that-be still not care about hurting women.Links to things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue
Our survey methods
Dr. Camden Morgante: And check out her "which purity culture myth affected you" quiz!
Our Podcast from last week discussing how children are not sexual
Our Honeymoon Prep Course (where we help people prepare for sex on the honeymoon--and how not to rush intercourse!)
Our correspondence with Focus on the Family around Love & Respect and abuseTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 89: Can we please not be weird about sex?
25 februari 2021 · 49 min
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Sometimes the way we talk about sex is just plain, well, icky and weird.
We go back to basics and ask for a healthy way to talk about sex that isn’t weird!Links to the things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue
Andrew BaumanTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 88: Self-Fulfilling Prophecies and Sex
18 februari 2021 · 54 min
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What happens when women are told: “If your husband is typical, he has a need you don’t have?”, as Love & Respect put it.
If you hear that your whole life that women need affection while men need sex, and women don’t actually need that much. Well, should it be a surprise if we grow up believing that sex is not for us?Links to things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue
Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin's Imago Marriage Counseling.
You can schedule a free consultation now--or check out his retreats.
My viral Twitter thread
Last week's post: How The Act of Marriage impacted me
Our libido seriesTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 87: Duty Sex isn't Sexy
11 februari 2021 · 57 min
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This week were talking all about duty sex and consent! Thank you to our guests that joined us, it's so encouraging to hear other voices out there with a heart to share this hopeful message of what healthy sex looks like in marriage.
Links to things mentioned:
Andrew Bauman: his book The Sexually Healthy Man
Benjamin Young's Twitter Thread
Benjamin Young's ministry Guard the Gift
The Great Sex Rescue
Our Previous Podcast on Marital Rape and ConsentTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 86: You are NOT methadone for your husband's porn use!
4 februari 2021 · 59 min
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This week Sheila and Rebecca are digging deep into just how bad some of the advice out there is for Christians dealing with porn use in their marriage. We need to talk about this better, everyone!
Thank you to Michael John Cusick for stopping by to help give us an even better look at what healing and recovery can look like for the many people struggling with pornography.
Links to things mentioned:
Our Porn series in April (read the first; the rest are linked from there)
Our Porn Habits Podcast: How most porn use predates the marriage (my response to Focus on the Family telling women that men watch porn because their wives don't have sex enough)
Michael John Cusick Website, Podcast, and book: Surfing for God, about discovering the divine desire beneath the sexual struggleRestoring the Soul
Restoring the Soul podcastAndrew Bauman, author of The Sexually Healthy Man
The Great Sex Rescue
To Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Start Your Engines Ep. 15: What if Lust ISN'T Every Man's Battle?
28 januari 2021 · 57 min
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And we're back with a new 'Start Your Engines' episode! The whole team is practically here today, as Sheila, Keith, Joanna, AND Rebecca all join in to discuss this all too common teaching that 'ALL men will struggle with lust!'
Links to things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue
Twitter thread we readBlog posts:
Noticing is Not Lusting
12 Things Churches Can Do to Help Men Overcome Lust
Why Bouncing Your Eyes Doesn't Honor Women
Keith's epic post on lust
To Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 84: On Sexual Boundaries and Rape Culture in the Church ft. Ruth Everhart
21 januari 2021 · 50 min
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Joining us on the podcast this week is Ruth Everhart, author of the book 'The #MeToo Reckoning'. We hope you find today's podcast a helpful step in the larger conversation in how we need to handle and address sexual assault situations in the church.
Links to things mentioned:
Last spring we had a number of posts and podcasts on the problem with the gatekeeping message--namely that it can hinder arousal. Some of them are: Arousal: The missing piece podcast; And the let's bring back making out post.
Why Unconditional Respect isn't a thing: Our podcast where we looked at the survey question that was used to justify the claim that men choose respect while women choose love.
9 Signs of Grooming Behaviour you need to understand
Ruth Everhart's post on The #MeToo Reckoning
Ruth Everhart's book The #MeToo ReckoningFollow Sheila on Instagram: @sheilagregoire
The Great Sex RescueTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 83: Talking Back to Purity Culture ft. guest Rachel Joy Welcher
14 januari 2021 · 53 min
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This week we are joined by author Rachel Joy Welcher, as we discuss all things purity culture - and where it went wrong! We so appreciate Rachel joining us and giving her insight!
Links to things mentioned:
Follow Sheila on Instagram: @sheilagregoire
The Great Sex Rescue
Rachel's book: Talking Back to Purity Culture
Rachel's Twitter
Why arousal can be difficult for women if they don't understand the sexual progression
More information on women and porn
Rebecca's book: Why I Didn't RebelTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 82: Stripping Everything Bare (New Year, New... Name?!)
7 januari 2021 · 44 min
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Welcome back! We are excited as we begin our rebranding process from To Love, Honor, and Vacuum to… *drumroll* Bare Marriage! Listen in as we discuss what led to this new name choice and our thoughts on how we see 2021 going, as we focus on a Jesus-centered marriage!
Links to things mentioned:
Follow Sheila on Instagram: @sheilagregoire
The Great Sex Rescue
Sheila's post on the Harvard Study
More info on the Harvard Grand Survey
The article on 'Mediocre Leaders'
Our response to Emerson EggrichsTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 81: 'Churchianity' vs Christianity - Our Year of Feeling Homeless
17 december 2020 · 56 min
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2020 has been a wild year for everyone. As we close off this year, we want to reiterate how much we appreciate everyone who has taken the time to read the blog, listen to the podcast, buy the books, buy the courses and just be a part of our TLHV family. We hope you've enjoyed learning lots along with us this year, and we can't wait for the release of our book in March as we enter a new era on To Love, Honor, and Vacuum, (and hopefully a more joyful era at that!)
Links to things mentioned:
Dr. Cynthia Long Westfall's book
Dr. Cythina Long Westfall
Marg MowczkoTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 80: Unconditional Respect is NOT a Thing.
10 december 2020 · 55 min
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Another week, another episode of the TLHV podcast! A special thank-you to our guest Dr. Westfall for helping shed more light and give new perspectives on a passage in scripture that we read so often! We hope you enjoyed today's episode, and while we know we got pretty technical with some context and vocabulary, we believe it is very important that we look at these topics as clearly as possible to gain the best understanding.
Links to things mentioned:
Follow Sheila on Instagram: @sheilagregoire
Dr. Cynthia Long Westfall's book
Dr. Cynthia Long Westfall
The Great Sex Rescue
Psychology Today articleTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 79. Can We Stop Talking about Girls Being Stumbling Blocks and Causing Men to Lust?
3 december 2020 · 55 min
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We always love tackling tough subjects on the To Love, Honor, and Vacuum Podcast and we hope you enjoyed our passionate discussion today.
Links to things mentioned:
4 Stages of Porn Recovery
The Bell-curve Modesty Rule
The Whole Story
The Great Sex Rescue
Andrew Bauman's websiteTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Start Your Engines Ep. 14 Guys and Emotions: They're Not Polar Opposites ft. Andrew J. Bauman
25 november 2020 · 44 min
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Alright, gentlemen, we're here again for another Start Your Engines episode! Thank you to Andrew Bauman for joining us today for this important conversation and being a great voice advocating for emotional health.
We apologize for the slightly muffled audio, we did our best to clean it up, and we appreciate your grace with us as we begin to invite guests onto the show and work out new technical challenges.Links to things mentioned:
Andrew J Bauman's Surveys
Andrew J Bauman's Website
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Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 78. What Does Emotional Maturity Look Like? ft. Marc Alan Schelske
19 november 2020 · 47 min
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We want to give a special welcome this week to our first non-family-member guest, Marc Alan Schelske! We hope you enjoy our discussions today all about emotional intelligence and emotional maturity.
Links to things mentioned:
Marc Alan Schelske's book
Marc Alan Schelske's website
Marc Alana Schelske's Podcast
Workbook mentionedTo Support Us:
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 77. Why It's Hard For Victims to Share Their Stories of Abuse
12 november 2020 · 39 min
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Sheila and Rebecca decided to take the time this week to further flesh out a podcast topic addressed a few weeks ago, that was perhaps not portrayed in the best way. Thank you for making the 'To Love, Honor, and Vacuum' podcast part of your week!
Links to things mentioned:
The Blog: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/
"Rushing Forgiveness Ruins Intimacy": https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/08/10-reasons-why-rushing-forgiveness-ruins-intimacy/
Pre-Order 'The Great Sex Rescue': https://www.amazon.ca/Great-Rescue-Sheila-Wray-Gregoire/dp/1540900827
Be a part of 'The Great Sex Rescue' Launch Team!: https://forms.gle/A9ZLMdgMR37uK8rQA
Natalie Hoffman Post: https://www.flyingfreenow.com/message-baptist-church-preached-death-women/
https://leslievernick.com
Please check the blog post that accompanies this podcast for further links to things mentioned.
Support the show
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Check out her books:
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The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Start Your Engines Ep. 13: On Arousal Non-Concordance and the Sexy Sex
29 oktober 2020 · 35 min
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It's time for our monthly 'Start Your Engines' podcast, with special guest Keith! We hope you enjoyed this conversation all about the sexy sex!
Links to things mentioned:
10 Things Husbands Who Are Great Lovers Do: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/10/10-things-husbands-who-are-great-lovers-do/
The Orgasm Course: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/the-orgasm-course/
Some articles from the blog talking about dealing with Pornography addiction:
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/motivation-for-men-to-fight-pornography/
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/how-to-break-the-stronghold-of-porn/
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/4-stages-of-porn-recovery-what-porn-recovery-in-marriage-looks-like/Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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The One MAJOR Roadblock to Orgasm
15 oktober 2020 · 39 min
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Join us for another week of the To Love, Honor, and Vacuum Podcast, where Sheila explores some of your comments on how the beliefs we internalize affect a couple's sex life.
Link to the blog:
http://www.tolovehonorandvacuum.comLink to Pre-Order The Great Sex Rescue:
https://www.amazon.com/Great-Sex-Rescue-Recover-Intended/dp/1540900827Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 74. Having Troubles with Orgasm? You are NOT Broken!
8 oktober 2020 · 39 min
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This month on the blog we're going to be talking lots about orgasms! Do you struggle with having orgasms? Do you see your body as something working against you, not for you? We're here to help talk about these things!
And today we have Sheila, Rebecca AND Connor all hopping on the podcast to give some great thoughts about how we talk about women's sexuality, how we view our sexual needs, and how we can increase the likelihood of orgasming!
Blog post mentioned from Monday: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/10/you-are-not-broken-if-you-cant-reach-orgasm/
Blog post for this podcast: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/Support the show
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The Great Sex Rescue
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The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 73. Questions on Sexual Abuse and the Road to Recovery
1 oktober 2020 · 40 min
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Join us this week as Sheila Wray Gregoire and Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach discuss some important topics -- sexual abuse and when to seek professional help.
Links to things mentioned in the podcast:
The need for licensed counselling : https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/03/question-your-biblical-counsellor/Dan Allender's book: https://www.amazon.com/The-Wounded-Heart-Dan-B-Allender-audiobook/dp/B01ATOK6H8
"98 Ways You Could Be Sinning Against Your Husband": https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/06/sinning-against-husband/
Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Start Your Engines Ep. 12: On Frequency and Feeling Sex-Starved
24 september 2020 · 35 min
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Thank you for tuning in to the September edition of the 'Start Your Engines Podcast'!
Links mentioned in the episode:
Blog Post on Frequency: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/09/how-much-sex-should-you-have-every-week/
Email List Sign-up: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.us7.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=7dab5e96bfaeb6aaa1503b481&id=5b44e4e8aa
Link for the Blog: http://tolovehonorandvacuum.com
Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 72. What if Frequency and Libido Differences AREN'T the Real Issue?
17 september 2020 · 45 min
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This month on the blog we’re discussing all things ‘Libido’! Listen in to hear Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach and Sheila Wray Gregoire talk about what could possibly be the key to unlocking your spouses’ low libido, and perhaps make you rethink how you see 'frequency' in relation to healthy sex!
Blog Posts Mentioned in this Podcast:
How frequently should a healthy couple have sex?:
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/09/how-much-sex-should-you-have-every-week/
How to see Every Man’s Battle Differently: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2017/06/every-mans-battle-is-wrong/
How to see Sex from a Different Perspective: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/07/understanding-sex-from-a-womans-perspective/
Why We Need to See Sex as Mutual: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/03/godly-sex-is-mutual-sex/
Support the show
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The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 71. Are Sex and Talking Really the Same Thing?
10 september 2020 · 36 min
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This week Sheila is flying solo on the podcast, and getting a bit more controversial!
Listen in to hear her discuss the concept of how being content with your sex life can perhaps cause it to flourish even more, how sex and talking are NOT equivalent, and how Christians should better handle speaking about divorce.Links for Things Mentioned:
Free Sex Pep-Talk Course! https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/sex-pep-talk-course/
This week's mentioned post: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/09/libido-can-high-drive-spouses-be-content-with-sex-frequency/
My Post on "Are you to blame if your husband has an affair?" https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/07/are-you-to-blame-if-your-spouse-cheats-on-you/
Book Recommendation: Marc Alan Schelske's "The Wisdom of your Heart" https://www.amazon.com/Wisdom-Your-Heart-Discovering-God-Given/dp/0781414512/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=marc+alan+wisdom&qid=1599678760&sr=8-1
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 70: How To Handle Complicated Engagements
3 september 2020 · 39 min
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How do you handle it when tough conversations come up and loved ones are making decisions you don't agree with? Especially when marriage and engagements are the starting point for those hard conversations?
Today Sheila Wray Gregoire and Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach from To Love, Honor and Vacuum talk through different Reader Questions and come up with some tips on communicating and how to discuss issues such as pornography and past trauma with your fiance!
Some links mentioned in this podcast:
The Honeymoon Course!
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/the-honeymoon-course-start-your-marriage-and-your-sex-life-off-well/Our 'Love & Respect' Blog Posts:
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/01/love-and-respect-review-how-sex-portrayed/Should you marry someone who uses porn?
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/01/should-you-marry-porn-user/BOOKS MENTIONED:
Why I Didn't Rebel: https://www.amazon.com/Why-Didnt-Rebel-Twenty-Two-Year-Old-Narrow/dp/0718090004/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=why+i+didn%27t+rebel&qid=1599102064&sr=8-1
Discipline That Connects with Your Child's Heart: https://www.amazon.com/Discipline-that-Connects-Childs-Heart/dp/0984994203
Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Start Your Engines Ep. 11: How NOT to Flirt With Your Wife
27 augustus 2020 · 37 min
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What if, when flirting, your signals keep getting crossed and for some reason your wife doesn't respond well to your advances? In today's episode, Sheila and Keith, (plus Rebecca and Connor!), sit down to break down why flirting and groping are different things, as well as how to optimize your timing and context when flirting!
Check out the blog for so much more on this topic, and fun challenges to do with your spouse!
http://tolovehonorandvacuum.comSupport the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 69: Let's Talk Sexual Favours... and Pain?
20 augustus 2020 · 36 min
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What do you do if you can't/don't want to have intercourse, but other forms of sex are actually uncomfortable?
Some Christian books tell women they should give sexual favors, because they're "simple" and take a "minimum of effort."
Today Sheila Wray Gregoire and Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach from To Love, Honor and Vacuum look at the complete picture--what this should look like in a healthy relationship, and how to think about it if one of you actually is physically uncomfortable.
Because, as always, sex is supposed to be MUTUAL.
Some links mentioned in this podcast:
All my Audio books--and the free book studies that go along with my books:
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/08/audio-books-free-video-studies-and-more/
My Boost Your Libido course!
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/boost-libido-course/
Our marital rape/consent/obligation sex podcast:
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/podcast-marital-rape-consent/
And for more discussion on this podcast, check out the post that goes along with it!
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/08/podcast-when-oral-sex-manual-sex-hurt
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 68: Are Women Responsible For Their Own Orgasms?
13 augustus 2020 · 30 min
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Another Thursday, another episode of our podcast!
It's Sheila Wray Gregoire and Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach from the To Love, Honor and Vacuum blog, discussing expectations of the effort we put into sex and making one another feel good!
And yes, we're still filming from Sheila's closet because the sound is best there! :)
Check out the posts mentioned in the podcast:
The Honeymoon course:
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/the-honeymoon-course-start-your-marriage-and-your-sex-life-off-well/Rebecca's blog post:
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/08/can-christians-please-stop-talking-about-disciplining-babies/Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 67. TMI: All about PERIODS!
6 augustus 2020 · 36 min
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Why do we feel such shame? How can we help men be more sensitive to women--without being creepy? And how can we as women be empathetic towards each other? These are questions Rebecca and I tackle in this week's podcast.
Plus we'll discuss why using tampons does not impact your virginity (why do we even think that's a thing? Sheesh!).
Check out the posts mentioned in the podcast:
Our Whole Story puberty course!
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/the-whole-story/
And our period series--check out our first post. The rest are included!
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/08/periods-going-to-beach-teenager/
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Start Your Engines Ep. 10: How Husbands can be Sex Heroes!
30 juli 2020 · 35 min
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Today Keith joins me for yet another episode of our ‘Start Your Engines’ edition of the podcast to discuss how husbands and wives approach to sex can vary greatly, but how neither one is wrong!
Blog posts mentioned in this episode:
“Should I Tell My Husband if I Fake Orgasm or Fantasize During Sex?”
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/07/should-i-tell-my-husband-if-i-fake-orgasm-or-fantasize-during-sex/
“Understanding Sex from a Woman’s Perspective”
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/07/understanding-sex-from-a-womans-perspective/
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 66: The WEIRD Sex Questions!
23 juli 2020 · 43 min
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This week--how do you untangle sex problems, especially because there's usually not just one problem? And how to tell if there are red flags that something's really wrong!
Thanks to our sponsor Ann Mainse, whose wonderful devotional Coffee with Him helps any woman walking through rough times--whether cancer or betrayal or heartache or disillusionment--find peace. Raw and real, Ann shows how we can be honest with God in the darkness.
https://amzn.to/30CfBLA
Posts mentioned in this podcast:
The 5 Step Plan for Untangling Sex Problems:
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/07/why-are-so-many-sex-problems-in-marriage-so-hard-to-solve/
We Need a New Definition of Sex
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/03/new-definition-sex/
We Read Act of Marriage--So You Don't Have to!
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/act-of-marriage-lahaye-christian-sex-book-review/
And don't forget to check out 31 Days to Great Sex to help you connect again and step-by-step rebuild your sex life!
https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/books-2/31-days-to-great-sex/
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 65: Awkward Newlywed Sex Questions
16 juli 2020 · 44 min
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 64: Sometimes a Vagina is Just a Vagina!
9 juli 2020 · 45 min
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Support the show
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The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 63: Sex Questions You Can't Ask Your Pastor
2 juli 2020 · 38 min
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We often go to our pastors for marital advice and answers to tough questions. But what about the questions you can't ask them? In preparation for my Sex Questions You Can't Ask Your Pastor tomorrow at 9:00 PM Eastern Time.
If you want to sign up, just follow the link to buy your ticket, which comes with a FREE copy of my book 31 Days to Great Sex, and a FREE copy of Spicy Dares
Sign Up for the Webinar Here
Blog Post ExtrasSupport the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Start Your Engines Ep.9: Honey, Just Give Me a List!
25 juni 2020 · 45 min
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We have been talking about the concept of mental load and the emotional burden of taking care of kids and the household. And when your wife is feeling overburdened bu all the things she needs to track, it's hard for her to get invested in the bedroom. It's so important, then, for husbands to get invested in the household, but is asking her to make a list really going to help the problem? Let's discuss!
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She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 62: Are We Man-Bashers Now?
18 juni 2020 · 37 min
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I've been talking on the blog about the mental load of housework and how it often falls on the wives, even when they are the one who works outside the house. I have also been saying that men can step up more because being a man doesn't make them less capable. Curiously, that sentiment has earned me the title of man-basher from some of my male commenters. So Let's talk about that.
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She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 61: Are Your Standards for Housework Unreasonable?
11 juni 2020 · 56 min
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Let's talk about minimum community standards and how they can be used to reduce your mental load and get you and your spouse on the same page in terms of housework!
Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 60: Splitting the Mental Load of Housework
4 juni 2020 · 48 min
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This month we are doing our series on emotional labour. In keeping with that trend, today's podcast is all about how much of a mental load it is to be solely in charge of housework, and how to find a healthier balance with your spouse.
Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Start Your Engines Ep.8: What About Gender Differences?
28 mei 2020 · 40 min
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What are the differences between men and women, and how important are they actually? Have we been focusing on the wrong thing?
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 59: Should Women be the Gatekeepers of Sex?
14 mei 2020 · 18 min
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So much of the teachings out there for young women is that when they are dating, they must be the gatekeeper and stop physical interactions from reaching their boyfriend's 'point of no return.' Let's talk about how this mentality often ends up holding women back from enjoying sex once they are married.
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The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 58: Quarantine with Your Spouse
7 mei 2020 · 43 min
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Today we talk about about how to handle being cooped up in the house spending all day every day with your spouse. It's not just something to get through, but something you can even grow to love!
Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.