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Episode 150: Escaping a Sex Cult: Alyssa Wakefield's Story Part 2
16 juni 2022 · 1 uur 3 min
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Let’s face the fact that fundamentalist Christianity in North America is basically a sex cult.
That’s Alyssa Wakefield’s conclusion in Part 2 of her story on the Bare Marriage podcast!Links to things mentioned:
Part 1 of Alyssa's story
Wendy Snyder's FREE Parenting Workshop Registration
TraumaMAMAS app
Sarah McDugal:
Instagram
Facebook
Natalie Hoffman's book Is It Me?To Support Us:
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Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 149: Groomed for an Abusive Arranged Marriage: Alyssa Wakefield's Story Part 1
9 juni 2022 · 1 uur 1 min
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What if you grow up in what you now call a sex cult, and you marry because your dad told you to?
Did you really consent to that marriage? And how does it even happen in North America today that girls are being pushed into arranged marriages?
Today's podcast sounds more like one of those True Crime documentaries.Links to things mentioned:
Our podcast on the Gothard movement with Emily Elizabeth Anderson
Our podcast on positive parenting with Wendy Snyder
Register for our free webinar with Wendy!To Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 148: Is Sex a Yes Space For Men? And What Does That Do to a Woman's Libido?
2 juni 2022 · 58 min
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Have we made sex–and marriage–into a “Yes Space” for men?
And if so, how does this affect libido?Links to things mentioned:
The Orgasm Course
Podcast where we talked about postpartum sex
Review of Married Sex
Mental Load PodcastTo Support Us:
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Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 147: The Porn Triage
26 mei 2022 · 1 uur 1 min
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Can we have a nuanced discussion about porn and the likelihood of recovery?
One of our goals for what we do is to help people have “informed consent”–in other words, before they make a decision, they need to know all the facts. We can’t be afraid of data and evidence.Links to things mentioned:
Find Sarah!
Trauma Mamas App
Sarah's full Noticing vs. Lusting video
Knix in the U.S.
Knix in Canada
The Great Sex RescueTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
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And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 146: Let's Talk Attachments Styles and Marriage with guests Milan & Kay Yerkovich
19 mei 2022 · 55 min
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How do our attachment styles–or love styles–affect our marriage?
So often we think that our marriage problems are about communication, or habits, or normal conflicts. But what if they’re rooted in how we learned to connect with people?Links to things mentioned:
Yerkovich's Website
How We Love
The Orgasm Course
Our Post on the 5 Love Styles
Knix in the U.S.
Knix in Canada
The Great Sex RescueTo Support Us:
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Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 145: Connection Not Punishment: A Better Way to Parent feat. Wendy Snyder
12 mei 2022 · 58 min
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What if discipline and spanking aren’t synonyms?
What if there was a much more effective way of disciplining your kids where you connect with their heart and it actually BUILDS your relationship?Links to things mentioned:
Fresh Start Family Podcast
Episode 122
Episode 123
Wendy's site
Discipline Class
Strong Willed Kids help
Logical Discipline Planning Guide
Jesus the Gentle Parent
Heartfelt Discipline
The Mask You Live in Documentary
The Whole Story Puberty and Sex Course
Angry Me by Sandra Feder
Knix in the U.S.
Knix in Canada
The Great Sex RescueTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
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Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 144: How To Misuse Statistics for Dummies - feat Wendy Snyder
5 mei 2022 · 55 min
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In the last of our three podcasts with Joanna where we talk stats, we tackle a few more ways that research is often handled poorly, using the research around spanking as one example.
And then we bring on Wendy Snyder from Fresh Start Families to talk about how to use discipline that connects with your child!Links to things mentioned:
Find Wendy!
Our articles on Spanking Babies and the research on spanking
The Gershoff Meta-Analyses of Spanking
The problems with the book Love & Respect
The problems with how Focus on the Family talks about divorce and kids
Knix in the U.S.
Knix in Canada
The Great Sex RescueTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 143: Do You Know Your Attachment Style? (Start Your Engines)
28 april 2022 · 59 min
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Attachment research is the science of how we relate to others. We can all have different attachment styles, based on whether we’ve got insecure attachment or secure attachment with our primary caregivers or loved ones (or even God!)
Links to things mentioned:
Knix in the U.S.
Knix in Canada
The Great Sex Rescue
Attachment Theory in Religion, Current Opinions in Psychology (2021)To Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
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Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 142: No, Christians Don't Always have Better Marriages and Sex Lives--a response to Josh Howerton
21 april 2022 · 1 uur 11 min
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Last month Josh Howerton, lead pastor at Lakepointe Church in Dallas, wrote a Twitter thread sharing research with 5 reasons Christians are doing better than the media gives us credit for. Matt Chandler, head of The Acts29 Network and lead pastor at The Village Church, retweeted it.
The problem? The research he uses doesn’t say what he says it says.Links to things mentioned:
Josh Howerton's article
The Institute for Family Studies report that he references
Knix in Canada
The Great Sex Rescue
The Gilad study that found that religious women had difficulties with domestic violence
The Life Saving Divorce analyzing what the Institute for Family Studies found about religiosity and abuse
The Whole Story Sex and Puberty course for parents and preteensTo Support Us:
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Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 141: The Most Misunderstood Women in the Bible - and Research! ft Mary DeMuth
14 april 2022 · 55 min
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We misunderstand women in the Bible–and we misunderstand gender aspects of research!
Links to things mentioned:
Mary DeMuth
The Most Misunderstood Women of the Bible
Our podcast on the problems with the original Love & Respect question:
The podcast with the problems with For Young Women Only’s question on 82% of boys going too far, and our post fixing that question
The Podcast exploring the problems with misusing neuroscience research
The Great Sex Rescue
Here is the link with Knix.comTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
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And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 140: A Victim of Bill Gothard's Story: Escaping a Cult & Finding Freedom with Emily Elizabeth Anderson
7 april 2022 · 59 min
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Today Emily Elizabeth Anderson from Thriving Forward joins us to tell her story, and to tell what she’s passionate about now. And especially how she found the actual Jesus after she left what she now sees as a cult.
Links to things mentioned:
Emily's blog Thriving Forward
Emily on Facebook
Stories about the lawsuit against Bill Gothard:
New charges allege religious leader, who has ties to the Duggars, sexually abused women
Where’s Justice For Bill Gothard and IBLP’s Victims?
Knix.com and Knix.caTo Support Us:
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Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 139: How Many Men Are Sexually Safe?
31 maart 2022 · 51 min
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We talked about the findings from our survey, as described in this post last week on how many Christian guys are sexually safe.
Links to things mentioned:
Keith's post
The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
The Good Girl's Guide to Great SexTo Support Us:
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Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 138: Echoes of Menstruation (...really, Focus on the Family?!)
24 maart 2022 · 1 uur 1 min
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Rebecca noticed that in Focus on the Family’s PluggedIn movie review for Turning Red, they had put references to menstruation under “sexual content”, including cramps and pads. And they warned that some people may hear an “echo of menstruation” in the title of the film.
Links to things mentioned:
Side by side screenshot of original review and edited review
Current review of Turning Red
The Whole Story Puberty Course
Our Period Series
Kyle Howard on TwitterTo Support Us:
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Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 137: New Research Blows Away the Evangelical Idea About Lust
17 maart 2022 · 57 min
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We saved some of our most important findings from our men’s survey for this special podcast!
Andrew Bauman, a licensed counselor and author of the new book How Not to Be an *ss, and Carl Thomas, who runs xxxchurch.com, come on to talk about our new stats. And then Keith and I tackled two reader questions about libido issues!Links to things mentioned:
The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
Our patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our exclusive Facebook Group
Andrew Bauman
Carl ThomasTo Support Us:
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Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 136: The Uncomfortable Truth About Waiting for Marriage for Sex
10 maart 2022 · 1 uur 2 min
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Does waiting for marriage really guarantee a great sex life? Sheila, Rebecca, and Keith weigh in on this week's podcast!
Links to things mentioned:
Our patreon! Suport us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our exclusive Facebook Group
The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex and the all new Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
The podcast on the Sexual Response Cycle
This week's post on vaginismus and wedding night sex
Here is the link with Knix.comTo Support Us:
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Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 135: How Much Sex Have We Rescued? Plus, Elizabeth Fisher Good!
3 maart 2022 · 57 min
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It’s the one year anniversary since The Great Sex Rescue was published!
Rebecca and I want to talk about what we’ve rescued and how it’s been rescued–plus Elizabeth Fisher Good joins us to talk about fighting sex trafficking.Links to things mentioned:
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Knix.com
Elizabeth Fisher Good
The Great Sex Rescue
Articles this week about men and how the teachings affected them:
How Can Men Fix Their Sex Lives if They've Gone Downhill
Who Believed the Toxic Sex Teachings More: Husband or Wife?To Support Us:
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 134: What Guys Can Do If They've Messed Up
24 februari 2022 · 1 uur 4 min
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Because our church culture teaches guys that they need sex the way newborn babies need to be fed in the middle of the night or the way an invalid needs water brought to them, men often don’t realize that they are being the selfish ones. They’re taught this is an absolute need they have, a life and death need, and so if she doesn’t want sex, that must mean she’s being selfish.
Links to things mentioned:
When Shame Gets Real by Carl Thomas
XXX ChurchTo Support Us:
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 133: Birth Control & Lust Control
17 februari 2022 · 57 min
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Special thank you to our guest Patrick Weaver for joining us today! We look forward to having him on the podcast again in the future!
Links to things mentioned:
Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and help us get our research into peer reviewed journals. Plus you can join our rocking Facebook group and get unfiltered podcasts!
The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex
Our original birth control series plus the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility
Patrick Weaver’s Facebook Page and his InstagramTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 132: All About the Sexual Response Cycle
10 februari 2022 · 1 uur 3 min
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Too many people don’t understand the sexual response cycle–so let’s spell it out and figure out why this lack of info has become so prevalent in evangelicalism!
Links to things mentioned:
The Intimately Us app!
The podcast where we dissected Emerson Eggerichs’ reply to the woman crying in the shower; and the podcast where the woman crying in the shower responds
The Dunning Kruger Effect: Article 1 and Article 2
The Good Guy’s and The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
The 990 Tax Forms for Emerson Eggerichs’ non-profit for 2019To Support Us:
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Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 131: The woman who was crying in the shower is here!
3 februari 2022 · 59 min
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We are so honoured to have on the podcast today the woman who wrote that letter we discussed back in episode 129. She joins us to share her story, give some updates, and shed some light on what toxic teachings in practice actually resulted in.
Links to things mentioned:
The Intimately Us App! Download the free version right now–and there are special sexy challenges for Valentine’s Day!
CT Article about Domestic Violence in Brazil
Podcast about Emerson EggerichsTo Support Us:
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Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 130: It's Time to Jump out of the Boiling Water
27 januari 2022 · 46 min
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At what point do we realize that something is terribly off with the way the evangelical church sees women?
Keith talks about his manifesto from yesterday and encourages men to see what is happening and jump out of the boiling water.Links to things mentioned:
Research study about remarriage after divorce
Great Sex Rescue
Keith's article on the boiling water
Owen Strachan's tweetTo Support Us:
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Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 129: The Podcast Where Emerson Ignores Marital Rape
20 januari 2022 · 1 uur 3 min
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Our wonderful sponsor the Intimately Us app! A-so-much-more-than-foreplay app. Helps you communicate about sex, have awesome bedroom games, discover what you like (and communicate about it), and more! Clean and totally non-creepy too.
Our Patreon--support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to unfiltered podcasts and help support our research!
Connor's post detailing all our problems with Emerson Eggerichs' podcast episode
Our Open Letter to Focus on the Family about Emerson Eggerichs and Love & Respect
Our original series about Love & Respect
Pre-order The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex and the new and revamped Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex--with tons of detail about the sexual response cycle (and, no, housework is not an element of the sexual response cycle, Emerson Eggerichs).
The Great Sex Rescue--the book we were inspired to write when we saw how toxic Love & Respect was
Our Love AND Respect merchandise (mugs, stickers, tote bags, T-shirts, and more--because healthy people need both love AND respect).
Our Duty Sex isn't Sexy podcast, all about obligation sex and marital rape
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 128: How YOU Can Make the Church a Healthier Place for Marriage
13 januari 2022 · 57 min
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Should you stay in such a church? Some people should, because the church is changing, and you feel called to be a “missionary” of sorts there. But maybe more should leave. I know I stayed too long, and Rebecca shares some passionate thoughts about her opinion on going to a church “because it has a good kids’ program” or “because it has a good youth program.”
Links to things mentioned:
Open Letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect
Download our scorecard and rubric for how we scored the books
Ngina Otiende's blog, Intentional Today
My post about Christopher
The Great Sex Rescue
Lucy Maud Montgomery’s short story The Strike at PutneyTo Support Us:
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Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 127: Putting the 'Christ' back in Christian Marriage
6 januari 2022 · 1 uur 15 min
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Welcome to a new year with the Bare Marriage podcast! We're glad you're joining us again after our break for the holidays!
Links to things mentioned:
Scott Coley Tweet
The Great Sex RescueTo Support Us:
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Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 126: The Disease That Must Be Named + feeling less homeless!
16 december 2021 · 53 min
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Today on the podcast we hear Rachel Perry’s story of vaginismus, and then I get cozy in my yellow chair where I work and just tell you how I see the Christmas story interacting with our own (and yours!).
Links to things mentioned:
The Emotional Journey with VaginismusTo Support Us:
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Episode 125: Why is Marriage Advice Mostly Aimed at Women?
10 december 2021 · 1 uur 6 min
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Ever noticed that most marriage books center the majority of their advice on women?
And most instructions for how to get marriages to change focus on what women can do differently.Links to things mentioned:
Our sponsor Femallay!
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Our New Merch! Check out all of our merch, and our Be a Biblical Woman collection
Nicole Parker's Tales of Exodus book series
The Great Sex Rescue
Our Mental Load and Emotional Labor series
How Christian Resources teach women to be passive aggressive
Barbara Rainey's article on spiritual leadership
Our FREE Video Book Study for The Great Sex Rescue
Dora on TikTok about raising orphansTo Support Us:
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 124: Does Your Vagina Have a Brain? The Mind-Body Connection
2 december 2021 · 56 min
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How do we live our feelings through our bodies? How do we learn to inhabit our bodies more? Join us as Rebecca and I jumpstart this series, and then Keith and I get all scientific about arousal non-concordance and mindfulness!
Links to things mentioned:
Our wonderful sponsor Femallay. Check out their vaginal melts, and their innovative menstrual cups that allow you to empty them while they're still inserted.
The Great Sex Rescue!
The Orgasm Course
Post on Arousal Non-Accordance
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Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 123: Let's talk Sexual Favours Postpartum
25 november 2021 · 1 uur 5 min
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Rebecca’s postpartum! So we thought it was the perfect time to look at the postpartum advice given in evangelical circles to women.
Links to things mentioned:
Our wonderful sponsor Femallay. Check out their vaginal melts, and their innovative menstrual cups that allow you to empty them while they're still inserted.
The Great Sex Rescue! Especially chapter 11 where we talk about postpartum sex and the advice given to women
The Italian study Keith and I referenced
The Facebook post where women shared their stories
Our previous posts on postpartum sexual favors and the podcast Rebecca and Joanna did about resuming sex postpartumTo Support Us:
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The Great Sex Rescue
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 122: The Making of Biblical Womanhood ft Beth Allison Barr
18 november 2021 · 59 min
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The amazing Beth Allison Barr is joining me today to talk about women and the history of the church.
It seems like people who buy The Great Sex Rescue really like Beth’s book–and they really like Kristin Kobes Du Mez’s book too (and she was on the podcast earlier this year!).Links to things mentioned:
Link to the Webinar with Sheila, Kristin, and Beth!
The Making of Biblical Womanhood
L. M. M. story mentioned
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 121: Finding Your Own Path ft hosts of NeuroDiverse Christian Couples Podcast
11 november 2021 · 1 uur 2 min
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We’ve got two different segments on today’s podcast, both regarding what it means to make your own way as a couple:
Another look at how to read science–and what it SHOULDN’T be used for
and a visit with Stephanie and Dan Holmes, the hosts of the Neurodivergent Christian Marriages podcast!Links to things mentioned here:
Dan and Stephanie's podcastTo Support Us:
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 120: Why Too Many Can't Let Go of the 'Obligation Sex' Message
4 november 2021 · 1 uur
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What if the reason authors can’t give up the obligation sex message is that they fear women won’t have sex otherwise?
Links to things mentioned:
Femallay! We love what they're doing to help women experience more pleasure and more comfort in our own bodies. Please check them out.
The Great Sex Rescue!
The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex!
Amie Latta's counseling and coaching practice
Our podcast where we talked about neuroscience researchTo Support Us:
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Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Start Your Engines Ep. 17: How To Be Sex Positive Without Being Creepy
28 oktober 2021 · 58 min
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We try to show how men and women may approach sex information differently.
And how there’s a serious creepy factor for many women that we all need to understand a little bit better!Thanks to our sponsor Femallay! Check out their vaginal melts, and my post on how your vagina changes as you age
The Great Sex Rescue–Chapters 5 and 6 cover the lust issue and porn issue, and try to do so in a non-shaming way, focused on actual research
Our Sexy Dares
The Intimately Us App
Our Orgasm Course
Keith’s post on sexually confident men
Our podcast with Marc Alan Schelske about emotional maturity
Andrew Bauman’s post about the pornographic style of relating
Today's Blog PostTo Support Us:
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Check out her books:
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 118: What Are Christian Resources NOT Telling You About Abuse? ft. Gretchen Baskerville
21 oktober 2021 · 1 uur
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We are thrilled to have a wonderful guest joining us this week! We hope you enjoy Sheila's conversation with author Gretchen Baskerville, as they discuss some extremely important points we need to include in our conversations around divorce in the Christian church.
Links to things mentioned:
The blog post that goes along with this podcast
Gretchen Baskerville's Site
Gretchen's book The Lifesaving Divorce
Gretchen's article on the 12 Half Truths in Focus on the Family's Article about Divorce and Kids
Gretchen's Video on Love & Respect
My Open Letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect
Gretchen's Social Media:Twitter
Instagram
Facebook
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Check out her books:
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
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Episode 117: All about BOOBS!
14 oktober 2021 · 55 min
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We have a VERY special guest joining later today! For the first time ever we have Sheila's mother, Elizabeth, here to share all her wisdom! We hope you enjoy today's episode all about boobs, and breast cancer awareness!
Links to things mentioned:
Link for breast self-exam
Married Sex on Amazon--many of the reviews refer to the breast problem
Femallay
Our puberty course The Whole Story
Post on Developing Bust EarlyTo Support Us:
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Check out her books:
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She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 116: Why Teenagers SHOULD know lots about Sex!
7 oktober 2021 · 43 min
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For this special edition of the Bare Marriage Podcast we created an episode that you can listen to WITH your teenagers! Rebecca and Connor walk through their own 'Sex-Ed' experiences, and discuss how they plan to talk to their own children about sex and sexual health one day.
We hope this episode can be a great jumping off point for important parent/teenager conversations that may happen throughout these teen years, to help you equip your children in making wise decisions as they go through high school.
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Check out her books:
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 115: Are 'Pink Brains' and 'Blue Brains' Real?
30 september 2021 · 49 min
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Today it's Rebecca and Connor coming to you, to discuss some neuropsychology! We know, it's a lot, but bare with us! We hope you enjoy this ramble through some statistical and psychological studies that can give us all a clearer picture on how we should be talking about the differences between men and women's brains.
Links to things mentioned:
Check out Femallay's products
2021 Meta-analysis of gender differences in the brain
2019 Meta-analysis of gender differences in neural responses to sexual stimuli
Critiques of Brizendine's work that have been available for over 10 years
Nature Article on the Female BrainTo Support Us:
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The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 114: Life Hacks to Help Know Which Christian Book are Toxic
23 september 2021 · 1 uur
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Many of you have asked for a step by step guide to clarify how to gauge whether a book is harmful or helpful. So today, we thought we'd do just that, and help walk everyone through the process we use when critiquing Christian resources we see being used today.
We'd also like to thank our guest Neil Schori for joining us today with such a wonderful discussion on how to talk to pastors about the harm found in resources. We can't wait to have him back on the podcast again soon!
Links to things mentioned:
Sign up for our email list!
Our big post on the two tests for whether or not a speaker or resource is safe
The Great Sex Rescue
Find Neil Schori on Twitter, and join his Facebook Page for his spiritual direction and domestic violence prevention ministry
Our Open Letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect
Our Rubric for Healthy Sexuality Teaching--and our report of our findings from The Great Sex Rescue (you can download both at the same place)To Support Us:
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 113: Are You Doing Sex on Hard Mode?
16 september 2021 · 49 min
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We are thrilled to bring you another weekly edition of the Bare Marriage podcast, with a special guest appearance by friend of the show Andrew Bauman for a short segment today. Please remember to read the blog post that accompanies this podcast for more context into the topics we discussed.
Links to things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue
Join our email list!
Andrew Bauman's website, his article on the pornographic style of relating, and his book The Psychology of Porn
Your Sexually Addicted Spouse by Barbara Steffens--has information about betrayal trauma
Gary Thomas' article "My spouse can't cure me, but can help me"
2 Hour Facebook Live with betrayal trauma experts talking about the problems with the idea that more sex can help his porn addictionTo Support Us:
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 112: You're Supposed to be a TEAM!
9 september 2021 · 1 uur
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Thank you to our lovely guest Micah for joining us today! You can find her online here.
Links to other things mentioned:
On Elisabeth Elliot’s Terrible Courtship–and Dating Men “Sold Out for Jesus”
The Most Fun FREE Book Study Ever–The Great Sex Rescue! (with video)To Support Us:
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She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
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Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 111: Are We Making Christian Marriage Harder Than It Needs To Be?
2 september 2021 · 58 min
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Join us this week as we discuss the idea of how our expectations of marriage highly affect how we experience it-- and how expectations might not always be the problem! And thank you again to Bruce for joining us today for another deep dive into scripture!
Links to things mentioned:
Find more from Bruce on his website
Camden's article
Original study about health effects of churches where women aren't in leadership positionsTo Support Us:
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
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Why Do Christian Books Make Men Sound So Fragile?! - Start Your Engines Ep. 19
26 augustus 2021 · 56 min
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We have the guys back for today's 'Men's Edition' of the podcast!
And thank you to Michael John Cusick for joining us today for our Reader Question!Links to things mentioned:
Michael John Cusick
Restoring the Soul Podcast
Our Direct Communication Series (check out the links at the bottom for all of the posts)
The Research on Cognitive LaborTo Support Us:
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
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Episode 109: A Journey of Faith (Special BTS look at our 'Unfiltered Podcast!)
19 augustus 2021 · 46 min
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This week we're bringing you something different. This 'unfiltered podcast' that aired with our Patrons in July was an episode that we ended up feeling was worth being shared on a larger scale. We hope you enjoy this honest, vulnerable look into Rebecca and Joanna's faith thought processes, and that it may spark some discussion for yourself.
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Episode 108: Direct Communication 101
12 augustus 2021 · 54 min
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This week's episode is ALL about communicating! Both with our spouses, and with our kids!
Links to things mentioned:
Brett Ullman's website where he collates amazing parenting stuff, plus his book Parenting: Navigating Everything
The Great Sex Rescue
Our Direct Communication Series: Why it's hard; what direct communication looks like; why it's not mean; why women struggle with it; why men struggle with it.
How to Eliminate Nagging for Good (from our Emotional Labor and Mental Load series)
Subscribe to our emailsTo Support Us:
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 107: Sex and the Sixth Reformation (Or Fourth. Or Second?)
5 augustus 2021 · 1 uur 14 min
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Aaaaand we're back! Thank you for all being gracious while we took a much needed one-month break in July.
Links to things mentioned:
Subscribe to the email list!
The Great Sex Rescue--and the package you can download to show to your church
Our definitive podcast on lust & modesty (because I didn't want to rehash everything when we talked about Modest is Hottest)
The Mars Hill podcast episode--The Things We Do to Women
Laura Robinson's Twitter Thread
The Jezebel Article about The Great Sex Rescue
Our article on Elisabeth Elliot and unhealthy dating relationships and the problem with Friendationships when you can't define the relationship
Can Christians use sex toys?
Our Churchianity vs. Christianity podcastTo Support Us:
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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The Slippery Slope of Putting Men in Charge of Women - Start Your Engines Ep. 18
24 juni 2021 · 42 min
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Keith summarizes yesterday’s post on the slippery slope of believing in men’s hierarchy over women, and we address mental load and more.
Links to things mentioned:
Keith's post on the slippery slope of male-only leadership
The Emotional Labor and Mental Load Series, with a podcast describing the issue
The Let's Go to the Beach Revisited post
The Great Sex Rescue
Pastors: Preach what you practice! About how pastors often say that husbands should make the final decision, though that's not what they actually do.To Support Us:
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 105: The Pelvic Floor Episode! (Plus, can you say 'vulva'?)
17 juni 2021 · 54 min
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What fun episode this week! With our wonderful guest Dr Bethany Peterson joining us, we talk all things pelvic floor and how we as women can improve our lives dramatically with more information on this topic!
Links to things mentioned:
Bethany Peterson and Well-Core Physiotherapy. You can also find Bethany on Instagram.
Bethany's post on why we need to explore our pelvic floors
The FemFusion Guided Meditation for Pelvic Floor Relaxation video
The Great Sex Rescue--and our FREE Video Group Study that goes along with it
The 4 Main Causes of VaginismusTo Support Us:
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She Deserves Better
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 104: Jesus and John Wayne -- the bits about sex!
10 juni 2021 · 57 min
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Jesus and John Wayne--order it this week!. And follow Kristin on Twitter like I do. She's awesome.
Links to things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue: A great companion to Jesus and John Wayne
Katie's awesome video and our awesome romance novels we made up, plus Katie's Instagram where you can see all the covers on her story highlights
Our podcast on feeling spiritually homelessTo Support Us:
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 103: Great Sexpectations and Birthing Babies
3 juni 2021 · 53 min
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Let’s talk expectations for childbirth, sex, orgasm, and more!
As you’ll hear from the two interviews we did, we were enjoying ourselves immensely talking about how to make different aspects of our lives awesome.Links to things mentioned:
Jenn Riedy
'Intimately Us' app!To Support Us:
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Do You Know What the #1 Marriage Speaker in the US Military teaches about Sex?
27 mei 2021 · 57 min
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Mark Gungor claims to be the #1 marriage teacher in the U.S. military, and I think it’s important to know what he is teaching.
Links to things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue, our new book that has upset everyone
The audio between Mark and Lexi. You can also read a transcript of the audio by Shannon Ashley, or a transcript with abuse tactics analysis by Sarah McDugal.
My article about the audio, and how I felt
The video we analyzed: The Sex/Love portion of A Tale of Two Brains and The Difference Between Men's Brains and Women's Brains. In this clip Mark Gungor also refers to women as "chicks." (around the 10 minute mark and then again afterwards). (This clip was actually sent to me two years ago, before I even really looked into him, because someone was concerned about the derogatory way he referred to women).
Our emotional labor/mental load series
The podcast where we looked at the problems with Shaunti Feldhahn's research that Emerson Eggerichs used to claim that men need respect while women need love.
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Episode 101: How Do Our Beliefs Affect Human Sex Trafficking?
20 mei 2021 · 53 min
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We have a fantastic guest joining us today! With real experience on the mission field, Meghan Tschanz is in a great position to share her thoughts and add her voice to this conversation. Thank you for joining us and listening in today, and thank you again to Meghan for being on our podcast!
Things Mentioned in This Podcast:
Meghan Tschanz's book Woman Rising: Learning to Listen, Reclaiming Our Voice
The study about Calvinist/complementarian beliefs and their correlation with domestic violence myths
The Twitter thread by Branden Henry talking about books and research
The article Meghan mentioned by Lyn Yonack about power and sexual abuse
The Wipe Every Tear charity
The Great Sex RescueTo Support Us:
Join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month to support our work
For tax deductible donations in the U.S., support Good Fruit Faith Initiative through the Bosko Foundation
And check out our Merch, or any of our courses!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.