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Episode 196: New Research on the Effects of Obligation Sex! (It's Bad...)
15 juni 2023 · 58 min
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Sign up for our FREE webinar on June 21!
https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_odcOvC0uTzugaA7JvnUe1wOur book The Great Sex Rescue!
Join our Patreon and support our work for as little as $5 a month. Plus gain access to our exclusive Facebook group, exclusive merch, and more!
Our research methods for The Great Sex Rescue, with FAQs, and a Twitter thread analying our methods by someone we don't even know!
Article from The Journal for Sex Research on the motivations for sex and the effects of obligation sex
Article on the emotional work done by women during sex--The Other Third Shift? Women's Emotion Work in their Sexual Relationships
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Episode 195: How To Support Your Wife in an Equal Relationship feat. Todd Korpi
8 juni 2023 · 50 min
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Our Patreon! Get free merch, access to our Facebook group, discounts on courses, and more!
Todd Korpi's book Your Daughters Shall Prophesy: Amplifying the Voice and Place of Christian Women (https://amzn.to/3MWkPtH)
Follow Todd on Twitter and Instagram
Our new "She Should Know" merch based on empowering sayings from our book, She Deserves Better
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She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 194: Male-Centric Sex vs. the Female Sexual Response Cycle
1 juni 2023 · 1 uur 7 min
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Our Patreon community! It's super fun, and it helps fund our research! Join us for as little as $5 a month.
Our book The Great Sex Rescue, plus our two books that look into the sexual response cycle in detail: The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex.
Emerson Eggerichs: His podcast where the clips were taken from, plus the podcast where we analyzed his advice to the woman crying the shower; the post where we went into this in detail; and the podcast featuring the woman who wrote in to Eggerichs.
Dr. Laura Robinson's critiques of Beautiful Union. Here's Part 6 with links to everything (so go here, but then start at post 1 that is linked at the top and work your way through). In this podcast we focused on parts 3 and 4.
My original Twitter thread about the visceral reaction that women have to sex advice.
An article earlier this week about how pastors aren't necessarily the experts; lots of links to other well thought out critiques of Beautiful Union by Joshua Butler.
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Episode 193: Tell Her Story: The Forgotten Women of the Bible with Nijay Gupta
25 mei 2023 · 1 uur
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Our Patreon! Join us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to exclusive content while also supporting our research.
Nijay's new book Tell Her Story
Our podcast looking at how Emerson Eggerichs mishandles Scripture, featuring Nijay Gupta
The audio version of She Deserves Better is now available! https://amzn.to/43tbmkp
Our new She Deserves Better merch!
Amazon Prime's new series Shiny Happy People (coming June 2)
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 192: How 'Every Young Man's Battle' Makes Everything Worse ft. Andrew Bauman & Zachary Wagner
18 mei 2023 · 1 uur 19 min
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Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and join our exclusive Facebook group, plus help support our research!
Our new book She Deserves Better--the audio has now launched!
Our one-sheet download of the problems with Every Young Man's Battle
Our podcast with Zachary Wagner, his new book Non-Toxic Masculinity, and his Twitter
Andrew Bauman's book The Sexually Healthy Man and his Facebook
Our Whole Story puberty course to tell your kids about sex & puberty!
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
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Episode 191: Finding a Healthy Church with Beth Allison Barr
11 mei 2023 · 59 min
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Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our unfiltered podcasts and more. Your donations help support our next big survey coming this summer!
Our new book She Deserves Better
Beth Allison Barr's book The Making of Biblical Womanhood, plus follow Beth on Twitter
Our books that are awesome for couples about to get married--The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
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Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 190: 'Pink' and 'Blue' Faith -- Plus we take a submission quiz! ft. Aimee Byrd
4 mei 2023 · 55 min
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Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our exclusive Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more!
Our new book She Deserves Better!
Aimee Byrd's book Recovering from Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, and her new book The Sexual Reformation
Aimee Byrd's story of the bullying she went through in her denomination, and some more recent thoughts on the aftermath.
Take the submission quiz yourself! It starts on p. 30 of this download, but you can also find the "bellies are intoxicating" on p. 24.
The modesty podcast where we talked about the "bellies are intoxicating" statement.
Our Hazardous Materials stickers to put on books you're concerned about
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 189: Non-Toxic Masculinity ft. Zachary Wagner
27 april 2023 · 1 uur 19 min
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Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to our exclusive Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more!
Our new book She Deserves Better!
Zachary Wagner's book Non-Toxic Masculinity, plus find Zachary on Twitter
Our Hazardous Materials stickers to put on books you're concerned about
The Instagram Reel from thatdarnchat
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 188: What We're Fighting For: A Glimpse 20 Years Down the Road
20 april 2023 · 56 min
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Our new book She Deserves Better:
https://baremarriage.com/she-deserves-better/Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group, and more. Join our Patreon!
https://patreon.com/baremarriageThe Instagram Reel from 247 Marriage:
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnetOgDhM1S/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_linkThe podcast where we discussed "Girls Talk Too Much":
https://baremarriage.com/2023/03/do-women-talk-more-than-men-podcast/The podcast where we were talking about how boys had to be superheroes:
https://baremarriage.com/2023/04/podcast-on-nice-guy-syndrome-and-boundaries/If you're going to pull something out of your butt, it's probably crap merch:
https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/out-your-butt/Anti-Rape Raccoon Merch:
https://sheilawraygregoire.com/product-category/rabid-racoon/Other Merch:
https://sheilawraygregoire.com/shop/Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 187: 'Nice Guy' Syndrome & Drawing Boundaries: What Girls Need to Know
13 april 2023 · 59 min
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THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST
Our new book She Deserves Better
Support us for as little as $5 a month, and get access to unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group, and more. Join our Patreon!
Article on the problem with “Nice Guy” behavior when it’s rooted in entitlement
Our episode of Theology in the Raw with Preston Sprinkle (the interesting parts are from 30 minutes on)
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Check out her books:
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The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 186: Shame, DARVO & Spiritual Bypassing - Let's get to the bottom of it! ft. Jasmine Holmes
6 april 2023 · 54 min
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Things mentioned in our Podcast!
Our Patreon! Thank you for supporting us and helping us fund our research. You can join us for as little as $5 a month!
Jasmine Holmes’ new book Never Cast Out! Plus find her on Instagram.
Jasmine on our podcast a few months ago talking about her book Carved in Ebony.
Our book She Deserves Better! Pre-order it and get access to our bonuses.
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 185: Trauma, EMDR, and 'Himpathy' ft. Jenna Mountain
30 maart 2023 · 1 uur 8 min
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Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month!
Our new book She Deserves Better! Send in your pre-order receipts for lots of pre-order bonuses.
Study on Himpathy on what makes people sympathize with perpetrators rather than victims
Jenna Mountain's counseling center Aspen Haus
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The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 184: Why do WOMEN also push the Modesty Messages? plus Why Churches Need to Recognize Date Rape
23 maart 2023 · 1 uur 13 min
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Pre-Order She Deserves Better and join our launch team! The Launch Team closes on Tuesday, March 28, so get your pre-order receipts in now!
Help support our research, plus get access to unfiltered podcasts, an amazing Facebook group, and more, by joining our Patreon
Last week's podcast where we looked at the problems with one of Shaunti Feldhahn's survey questions around modesty
A podcast where we walked through another issue with Shaunti Feldhahn's survey questions where she spreads rape culture myths, and a post that lays out her survey question that enables date rape
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
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Episode 183: What Modesty Messages Did to Us
16 maart 2023 · 58 min
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THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST
She Deserves Better–our new book! Preorder on Amazon, or here are other places to get it (Baker Books has 40% off and free shipping within the U.S.!).
Join the launch team if you’re willing to write a review!
On Modesty: We shouldn’t sacrifice teens’ well-being for adult men’s comfort
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
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Episode 182: 'Do Girls Talk Too Much?' Another claim that was made up
9 maart 2023 · 52 min
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Our book She Deserves Better! Pre-order it now (it helps us a ton), and then on Monday I'll give you information on how you can join the launch team.
Sign up for my email list so you don't miss out on joining the launch team
A study of gender differences in children and number of words spoken (hint, not much of a difference)
An article explaining the issue of faulty claims, and giving the results of a study inspired by these faulty claims.
The Mendelberg and Karpowitz study of gendered speech in mixed groups with decision-making
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 181: How Does Dating Affect Teens? Let's look at the data!
2 maart 2023 · 55 min
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Should we kiss dating good-bye? In purity culture, we made dating a sin. But what does the data actually say about how dating affects teen girls? In today's Bare Marriage podcast, we share our findings from our survey of 7000 women!
Things Mentioned in the Podcast:
Our new book She Deserves Better, which launches April 18! It helps us immensely when you pre-order!
Sign up for my email list to be notified about how you can join the launch team!
Our book The Great Sex Rescue
The University of Georgia study on teens who don’t date
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 180: Exodus Cry: What We Need to Know about Sex Trafficking
23 februari 2023 · 55 min
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Our Patreon that helps support our podcast! You can join for as little as $5 a month! There's unfiltered podcasts, our exclusive Facebook group (it's really active!), merch, and more!
Exodus Cry. Check out the organization and see what they're doing!
See how to get involved (it's easy!). Join the fight against PornHub, sign petitions, read their articles, and more!
Watch Exodus Cry's documentaries. They're so well done and hard hitting.
Follow Benjamin and Exodus Cry on Instagram!
Our podcast last week with the woman who was put under church discipline when she wanted to get to safety from marital rape.
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 179: Why Did a Church Put a Marital Rape Victim under Church Discipline?
16 februari 2023 · 1 uur 7 min
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Today I want to tell you the story of an amazing woman who was the victim of her marriage AND her church that knew all the gory details, and yet chose to put her under discipline when she decided to end the marriage.
TRIGGER WARNING
In the first half of the podcast there is graphic descriptions of what her husband did to her. I did mention during the podcast when this was about to occur, so that people could fast forward if they chose to. But the description is horrendous. I wanted people to know what she was facing, and to understand her pastor knew this too.
NOTE ON NEURODIVERGENCE
Part of this woman’s story, she believes, is her husband’s lack of diagnosis for autism, which she believes contributed to his inability and unwillingness to see things from her perspective.
Plenty of autistic people are able to relate emotionally with their spouses, even if they do it in different ways. And they value connecting.
What is shared in this podcast is merely her story, and we understand that it is not the case with many neurodivergent people, who can have loving marriages.
THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST
Our new Fixed It for You Workbook! It’s selling so well, and it’s still on for just $4.99–until Monday!
The marital rape posts in our original series: The 2 kinds of rape; what to do if you’re a victim of marital rape; 5 next steps if you realize you’ve coerced your wife into sex
Kate Shellnutt’s article in Christianity Today about John MacArthur’s church’s further abuse of women, and Julie Roys’ account about Eileen Gray that broke the story.
My commentary from last week about the John MacArthur situation
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Check out her books:
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She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social me…
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Episode 178: Fixing Conversations Together! ft. Ngina Otiende & Philip Payne
9 februari 2023 · 49 min
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Our Patreon! Our research relies on your support, and we're doing two huge new research projects this year. Join us on Patreon!
Ngina Otiende: https://intentionaltoday.com/ https://twitter.com/NginaOtiende
Philip Payne's new book The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood (available for pre-order now!)
Other books by Philip Payne, including Man and Woman, One in Christ: An Exegetical and Theological Study of Paul's Letters, and Mutual by Design (where he has written a chapter on headship)
Philip Payne's Twitter
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 177: The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood ft Philip Payne
2 februari 2023 · 57 min
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Our Patreon! Our research relies on your support, and we're doing two huge new research projects this year. Join us on Patreon!
Philip Payne's new book The Bible vs. Biblical Womanhood (available for pre-order now!)
Other books by Philip Payne, including Man and Woman, One in Christ: An Exegetical and Theological Study of Paul's Letters, and Mutual by Design (where he has written a chapter on headship)
Philip Payne's Twitter
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 176: Bring Back 'Vanilla' Sex!
26 januari 2023 · 51 min
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Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month, and you can get access to our awesome Facebook group, our unfiltered podcasts, and more!
This is the LAST WEEK to get the ebook for The Great Sex Rescue for just $2.99! On February 1 it goes up to its regular price!
The Orgasm Course! If this is a struggle for you, we can help. https://baremarriage.com/the-orgasm-course/
Our new book She Deserves Better is out in April! You can pre-order it now.
My post Bring Back Vanilla Sex, that a lot of this podcast was based on.
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 175: How Emerson Eggerichs Misuses Scripture in Love & Respect ft. Nijay Gupta
19 januari 2023 · 1 uur 13 min
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Links to things mentioned:
Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to unfiltered podcasts, while supporting our work counteracting harmful messages of marriage in the evangelical church
OUR LOVE & RESPECT ONESHEET: Download our new resource
Nijay Gupta's upcoming book Tell Her Story. Follow Nijay on Twitter!
Our post on Baby Bibles distorting the Genesis account
Our original Love & Respect post, followed by our Open Letter to Focus on the Family, Our look at how Emerson Eggerichs gaslights women in a sermon series, and how he brushes off a case of marital rape.
Our rubric and scorecard to see why Love & Respect scored 0/48.
Support the show
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She Deserves Better
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 174: Why You CAN Trust Your Emotions ft. Becky Castle Miller
12 januari 2023 · 1 uur 7 min
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Links to things mentioned:
Patreon:
https://patreon.com/baremarriage
She Deserves Better (our new book coming in April; you can pre-order it now!)
https://amzn.to/3ZGFs2P
The Great Sex Rescue (on for just $2.39 on ebook this month, and the paperback is on sale too!)
https://amzn.to/3GV4aou
Becky Castle Miller
Website: https://www.beckycastlemiller.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/bcastlemiller
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@beckycastlemiller
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wholeemotion/
Marc Alan Schelske's podcast on emotional maturity:
https://baremarriage.com/2020/11/what-is-emotional-maturity-podcast/
Scot McKnight's and Becky Castle Miller's New Testament books:
https://amzn.to/3X3nB4l
Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 173: The Strike at Putney: What Would Happen if Women Just Stopped?
5 januari 2023 · 1 uur 13 min
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Links to things mentioned:
Our Patreon! Support our work for as little as $5 a month, including all the amazing things that are coming in 2023, including two new big surveys, one sheets of harmful books to give to your churches, and scholarships as others continue the research!
Our podcast on finding new church homes
The Strike at Putney by Lucy Maud Montgomery
Our podcast with Beth Allison Barr
The research study finding that churches with gender hierarchy produce worse health outcomes for women, plus a shorter article describing this research by Dr. Camden
Information on the Iceland’s Women’s Day Off
Pre-Order She Deserves Better–our new book out in April!
The Harvard study including what SBC men and women think of female pastors:
The top Bare Marriage podcast episodes from 2022
The Great Sex Rescue! It’s on sale in ebook form across all platforms for the month of January, at only $2.99, and it’s on for $5 off in paperback on Amazon, too!
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 172: We Are Not Spiritually Homeless Anymore! A Personal Christmas Update
22 december 2022 · 40 min
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THINGS MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST
Our Patreon! They’ve supported some amazing projects this year, and you can join us for as little as $5 a month!
The original podcast on feeling spiritually homeless
Last year’s update on feeling so disappointed by faith leaders (plus the podcast on how the authors we critiqued responded to The Great Sex Rescue)
Support the show
Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!
Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 171: Identifying Spiritual Abuse and Trauma ft Dr. Foluso and Johnna Harris
15 december 2022 · 1 uur 23 min
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Links to things mentioned:
Our patreon community! Join for as little as $5 a month, and get access to our exclusive Facebook group, merch, and more!
https://patreon.com/baremarriageThe Bodies Behind the Bus podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bodies-behind-the-bus/id1601586078
and Johnna Harris' Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/bbtbpod/
Me as a guest on the Bodies Behind the Bus podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/guest-sheila-gregoire/id1601586078?i=1000555692110Dr. Foluso's counseling practice
https://skillsetcounseling.com/and Dr. Foluso's YouTube channel
https://www.youtube.com/@UC0ogPtE3KqsiLXngwEboM8ABefore you sign a church membership covenant:
https://noedenelsewhere.com/before-you-sign-what-you-need-to-know-about-membership-covenants/How to resign from a membership covenant
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Episode 170: Does God Hate Divorce? plus The Women Carved in Ebony
8 december 2022 · 57 min
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Winston Bosch’s Sermons: What God Hates More than Divorce (Mal. 2:16): Jesus and Divorce; and Paul and Divorce
Jasmine Holmes’ book Carved in Ebony, plus find Jasmine on Instagram!
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Episode 169: Learned Helplessness & Sex ft. Sam Tielemens
1 december 2022 · 56 min
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A brief synopsis of the learned helplessness experiments with dogs, and then a run down on the learned helplessness experiment in the classroom. Plus you can watch a video of the classroom experiments here! (great to watch with teens).
Our orgasm course for women struggling with orgasm
Sam Tielemans’ couples counseling
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Episode 168: The Myth of the Magical Penis
17 november 2022 · 52 min
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The Great Sex Rescue:
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Our series on our 4 step recovery plan when sex has become a major issue:
https://baremarriage.com/2022/11/the-sex-recovery-series-4-point-plan-to-rebuild-your-sex-life/
One story on what recovery looks like:
https://baremarriage.com/2022/11/heres-what-recovery-from-sexual-problems-looks-like/
Article by Matthew Fray on Safety for Women:
https://matthewfray.com/2017/04/11/safety-and-trust-in-relationships-those-words-dont-mean-what-you-think-they-mean/
Article by XO Marriage on the Four Needs of a Man:
https://xomarriage.com/articles/the-four-major-needs-of-a-man/
Last week's podcast featuring Jay Stringer:
https://youtu.be/QWpfqtr7PK4
Our podcast looking at postpartum sexual favors:
https://baremarriage.com/2021/11/the-sexual-favors-postpartum-podcast-can-we-please-stop-being-selfish/
Nathaniel Jolly's take on rape (major trigger warning):
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Episode 167: 'Unwanted' - Discovering our Route to Sexual Healing ft. Jay Stringer
10 november 2022 · 1 uur
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https://amzn.to/3DOvJgoJay’s website:
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https://www.instagram.com/jay_stringer_/Emily Nagoski’s book Come As You Are
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Episode 166: A Deep Dive into Ephesians 5 - Why Hierarchy in Marriage Doesn't Work
3 november 2022 · 1 uur 1 min
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Episode 165: The 3 Types of Libido
27 oktober 2022 · 1 uur 5 min
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How our hormones and our cycle affect libido
Our post on how the sexual debut affects libido later
Our post on how mental load and division of labor affects libido
Our Love AND Respect Merch
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Episode 164: Scary Body Language & Telling on Yourself
20 oktober 2022 · 1 uur 7 min
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The study on Who Cheats More: https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america
The Dennis Prager Facebook Video: https://www.facebook.com/prageru/videos/868111834352628/
The Great Sex Rescue: https://baremarriage.com/great-sex-rescue/
The podcast with Alyssa Wakefield https://baremarriage.com/2022/06/groomed-for-an-abusive-arranged-marriage-alyssa-wakefields-story-podcast/
The podcast with Natalie Hoffman https://baremarriage.com/2022/09/podcast-how-christian-marriage-books-set-up-for-failure-with-natalie-hoffman/
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Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 163: Let's Talk Ogling and Dressing for Attention - Research Deep Dive Episode!
13 oktober 2022 · 1 uur 9 min
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Links to things mentioned:
See the study!
Want an easier way to read a summary of the study? Read yesterday's post.
Previous podcast: are men and women's brains really that different?
Previous podcast: Let's talk MODESTY.
Follow Meghan Tschanz on Instagram
Learn more about The Great Sex Rescue
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Episode 162: Why We Need a New Standard for Healthy Teaching Today
6 oktober 2022 · 54 min
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Episode 161: Should Pastors be Expected to Give Sex Advice?
29 september 2022 · 1 uur 12 min
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The other times we've talked about Josh Howerton, specifically with Josh Howerton plagiarizing others; and Josh Howerton misrepresenting research.
Download our rubric of healthy sexuality teaching that we used to score the books--and this Instagram Live!
Listen in to the podcast where we talked about how other authors have responded to The Great Sex Rescue, including the Tim and Kathy Keller anecdote
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Episode 160: How Marriage Advice can be Misdiagnosed
22 september 2022 · 59 min
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Our Patreon! Our patrons have helped us have the time and flexibility to write She Deserves Better (out in April), along with the stats for The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex. Right now Joanna is working on two different peer-reviewed papers, and our next big project we'd like to fund is creating a database of good and bad books. You can support us for as little as $5 a month, and get behind-the-scenes access! Support us here.
Our Merch! Check out our merch, including our Be a Biblical Woman merch, and you'll help support us too!
Our Marriage Misdiagnosis Series. Start here, and then you can follow the links on the bottom of the posts for everything else.
Our rubric and scorecard of how the different books fared, including The Power of a Praying Wife.
My Instagram post of John Piper's horrible advice. Follow me there for more Fixed it For Yous!
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Episode 159: How Christian Marriage Books Set Me Up For Failure ft. Natalie Hoffman
15 september 2022 · 1 uur 5 min
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Links to things mentioned:
Natalie’s Flying Free site, and Natalie’s awesome Facebook Page, Instagram, and YouTube channel. Plus listen in to her podcast!
Natalie’s book “Is It Me”?
The terrible books Natalie mentioned: Our post about Created To Be His Helpmeet; Julie Anne Smith’s review of The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace
The book that helped Natalie: Leslie Vernick’s Emotionally Destructive Marriage
Patrick Weaver’s I Hate Divorce t-shirts
Patrick Weaver on the Malachi verse that is too often translated “God hates divorce”
My post on how marriage was made for us, not us for marriage
Support us on Patreon! Or check out our awesome merch!
Our Marriage Misdiagnosis series! My mental load series: With thanks to Eve Rodsky and Fair Play!
Emily Nagoski’s book Come As You Are
Krispin Mayfield’s podcast on attachment, and his book Attached to God
The awesome men who have helped my thinking on sexual habits and the pornified style of relating–Andrew J. Bauman and Michael John CusickᐧSupport the show
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 158: Pastors Plagiarizing: An Example Using Josh Howerton--with Scot McKnight's commentary
8 september 2022 · 1 uur 1 min
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Should pastors be allowed to plagiarize in their sermons?
I’ll be frank: I think evangelicalism has a problem with celebrity, as we talked about on last week’s podcast. And I think plagiarism is part of that celebrity. It’s rampant among pastors and authors in evangelicalism, and it allows people to give a false sense of themselves to others to boost their status. It needs to stop.Links to things mentioned:
Scot McKnight's book A Church Called TOV
Scot McKnight's New Testament Everyday Bible Study Series
Scot McKnight's previous podcast with us
Warren Throckmorton on Mark Driscoll's apparent plagiarism
David Dzimianski on Tim Keller's apparent plagiarism
Aaron New on Tim Clinton's history of Plagiarism
Christine Caine's plagiarism
Josh Howerton's Twitter Threads
Original Twitter Thread (long) about how plagiarism by pastors is fine
More recent Tweet about ethics of using someone's material without naming them if you disagree with them
Articles on Controversy with Josh Howerton and Andy Wood
Article Explaining Andy Wood controversy with Mark Driscoll
Andy Stanley's book The New Rules of Love, Sex and Dating
YouTube sermon where Andy Stanley goes over the central points of this book, which Josh Howerton seems to have used
(start at around 22:00)
Steven Furtick sermon with "two halves don't make a whole"
(start around 6:30)
Josh Howerton sermon where he says arguing with him is like arguing with God
(start around 12:20)Note: The sermon we're referring to I originally saw because it was listed on this page. That sermon has since been removed. It is the only sermon from 2022 that can no longer be found on the Lakepointe Church site, on YouTube, and on their podcast archives. It was there a few weeks ago; it's now gone. I have no idea why, unless he got wind of what we were doing (some people did know, and there have been "breadcrumbs" in the last few podcasts). I hope to see a public statement from Lakepointe and Josh Howerton apologizing for plag…
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Episode 157: Celebrities for Jesus -- Who should we follow? ft Katelyn Beaty
1 september 2022 · 53 min
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Evangelicalism has a problem with celebrity culture.
I mean, everyone has a problem with celebrity culture. But it can be worse in the church because we’re supposed to put Jesus front and centre, and too oten we’re protecting celebrity and ignoring the way of Christ.Links to things mentioned:
Our Patreon! Support us for as little as $5 a month and get access to an awesome Facebook group, unfiltered podcasts, and more. Or if you don’t want to support long term, considering leaving something in our tip jar!
Katelyn Beaty’s book Celebrities for Jesus! Plus find Katelyn on Twitter ! That’s where I got to know her.
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 156: How The Authors We Critiqued Responded to The Great Sex Rescue
25 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 19 min
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One of the most frequent questions I’ve had since The Great Sex Rescue was published has been: “Have any of the authors responded to your critiques?”
People want to know–has anyone owned their mistakes and made changes?
And the quick answer is no.
I wanted to have a central place where I can show you what the authors who HAVE said something have said.
And I need to say something.
This is a personal podcast.Links to things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue
Download our rubric and scorecard!
The blog post where I include links for everything I talked about, plus write out the email we sent to Gary ThomasTo Support Us:
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Episode 155: The Rise of Lonely Men - Plus How to be Inspiring!
18 augustus 2022 · 55 min
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We’ve got some wonderful inspiring stories to share with you today–plus a new research study with implications for dating.
Today Rebecca and I tell you about two modern day heroes, plus two young women using the gifts God gave them to try to change their world!
Then we analyze that Psychology Today article we told you about–the rise of lonely, single men. Listen in!Links to things mentioned:
Patreon
Our Whole Story Sex & Puberty course
An article about Chief Theresa Kachimondoto
The All the Books YouTube video
The Rise of Lonely, Single Men
Pew Research Study they cite
Study on loneliness in men
Our emotional maturity seriesTo Support Us:
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Episode 154: Katharine Bushnell: Another Hero you NEED to know ft. Kristen Kobes Du Mez + Julie Coleman
11 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 2 min
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Time for another hero of the faith! Well, three, actually!
This month we’re telling amazing stories of women that God used in history to fight against injustice and show that God values women. This week Kristin Kobes Du Mez, the author of Jesus and John Wayne, joins us to talk about her biography of Katharine Bushnell.Links to things mentioned:
The New Gospel for Women: Katharine Bushnell and the Challenge of Christian Feminism
On Purpose: Understanding God's Freedom for Women Through Scripture by Julie Zine Coleman
The Great Sex RescueTo Support Us:
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Episode 153: Josephine Butler: The Hero You Never knew
4 augustus 2022 · 1 uur 8 min
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Have you ever heard the name Josephine Butler?
If you were alive in London in 1880 you likely would have. In her time, she was as well-known as Florence Nightingale, but history has largely forgotten her.
Joanna and I sat down and read Josephine Butler: Patron Saint of Prostitutes, and discussed it today!Links to things mentioned:
Josephine Butler, Patron Saint of Prostitutes (it's a great read for the summer!)
Join our Patreon and support the podcast transcription--and all the research we're doing!
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Do You Know What Your Wife Has Been Taught About Sex? (Rerun Summer Episode)
28 juli 2022 · 49 min
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What if your wife has been taught toxic things about sex–and you don’t even realize it?
Links to things mentioned:
The Great Sex Rescue: Our new book, that looks at how harmful some of these messages have been
Support our research by joining our Patreon group! Even for as little as $5 or $8 a month!
Our "Do All Men Struggle with Lust" podcast
Our open letter to Focus on the Family about Love & Respect (at the bottom of this post is links to all of the other things we've said about this book)
The study on complaining and maladaptive worry and statusTo Support Us:
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
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Duty Sex isn't Sexy! (Rerun Summer Episode)
21 juli 2022 · 57 min
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Links to things mentioned:
Andrew Bauman: https://andrewjbauman.com/
And his book The Sexually Healthy Man: https://amzn.to/3p4JmyF
Benjamin Young's Twitter Thread: https://twitter.com/BJYoung1990/status/1353521004073652224
Benjamin Young's ministry Guard the Gift: https://guardthegift.com/
The Great Sex Rescue: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/great-sex-rescue/
Our Previous Podcast on Marital Rape and Consent: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/podcast-marital-rape-consent/
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Check out her books:
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Can We Stop Talking About Girls Being Stumbling Blocks and Causing Men to Lust? (Rerun Summer Episode)
14 juli 2022 · 53 min
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Links to things mentioned:
The Blog: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com
4 Stages of Porn Recovery: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/4-stages-of-porn-recovery-what-porn-recovery-in-marriage-looks-like/
The Bell-curve Modesty Rule: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2019/03/new-look-at-christian-modesty-guidelines/
The Whole Story: https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/the-whole-story/
The Great Sex Rescue: https://www.amazon.com/Great-Sex-Rescue-Recover-Intended/dp/1540900827
Andrew Bauman: https://andrewjbauman.com/
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Unconditional Respect is NOT a Thing! (Rerun Summer Episode)
7 juli 2022 · 56 min
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Unconditional respect isn’t a thing.
And yet we’re often told that men need unconditional respect, just like women need unconditional love.Links to things mentioned:
Follow Sheila on Instagram: @sheilagregoire
Dr. Cynthia Long Westfall
Paul and Gender: Reclaiming the Apostle's Vision for Men and Women in Christ
The Great Sex Rescue
Psychology Today articleTo Support Us:
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Check out her books:
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She Deserves Better
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The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
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Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 152: What is Killing Women's Libido?
30 juni 2022 · 1 uur 2 min
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We wrap up what can cause women’s libidos to plummet–and what men can do about it!
Because it isn’t always men’s fault (in fact, it’s often not). But guys can still be a big part of the solution. And if libido differences are a huge issue in your marriage, it doesn’t mean that there’s nothing that can be done.
Asking the hard questions can really help!Links to things Mentioned in This Podcast:
The Great Sex Rescue
Our totally revamped Boost Your Libido course
Elora Dodd on Instagram , plus her Reel on Men’s Purity books and Women’s Purity Books
Our What’s Killing Women’s Libido seriesTo Support Us:
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Support the show
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Check out her books:
The Great Sex Rescue
She Deserves Better
The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex
And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!
Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.
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Episode 151: Why John Piper Should Stop Speaking on Marriage -- and turning the other cheek!
23 juni 2022 · 59 min
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Recently John Piper had a podcast telling a woman how to deal with a “harsh” husband.
It was atrocious advice–especially since women in emotionally abusive relationships would listen to this advice and think that it pertained to them (since most women in abusive relationships would describe their husbands as harsh).Links to things mentioned:
John Piper article on harsh husbands
Our original Facebook Live (expanded content from this podcast, extra 13 minutes on end)
Our article talking about John Piper and harsh husbands
Dr. Alison Cook on Turning the Other Cheek
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