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  1. Ep. 281 Grief & Letting Go

    15 december 2023 · 1 uur 3 min

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    In this episode, Lacy, Jessica, and Dr. Tara delve into the profound landscapes of grief, unveiling how it intertwines with blind spots, manifestation, and healing. Grief and loss come in all forms: from experiencing a loved one passing on, to the end of an era in your life, to the end of a friendship or romantic relationship. Grief is something we all go through as we experience life’s journey, and this episode serves to remind you that you’re not alone – as well as offering helpful tools and resources for you to better understand and navigate your unique path through grief and loss. Join us as we unravel the intertwined tapestry of grief, manifestation, and self-discovery, empowering you to navigate life's inevitable transitions with resilience and grace. Lees meer

    Trigger Warning: This episode explores themes of grief, loss, shock, and trauma.

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    What is grief and what does it mean to let go?

    Examples of grief and “the change curve”

    The Kubler-Ross model of grief and why understanding phases can be helpful to process traumatic events

    How not fully healing can keep you in an unproductive loop

    Why acceptance sets the stage for moving forward

    Types of grief including anticipatory, shock, ambiguous, cumulative, complicated, and collective grief

    Manifestation and letting go as two sides of the same concept

    How grief relates to blind spots, letting go, and shadow work

    The importance of self-worth and reflection can be important in processing the end of relationships

    How even these “crucible moments” can create a new phase or way of being

    Mindset shifts around grief and loss

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Experiences and life shifts that may harbor grief and trauma (00:10:12)

    Tools and pillars that can be supportive during times of grief (00:33:40)

    How self-worth and self-awareness can help navigate low points (00:49:30)

    Resources:

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  2. Ep. 280 Double Your Income, Jump Off The Corporate Cliff, and Create Your Dream Career: The Process with Allie Carr

    8 december 2023 · 1 uur 17 min

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    Meet the TBM Copywriter, Content Strategist, and Manifestation Extraordinaire, Allie Carr. She’s been behind the scenes at TBM for a while, but today we’re bringing Allie on to tell you everything – all the *insane* things she’s manifested, how she started working with TBM, and most importantly, the full play-by-play of how she manifested her dream life into reality. The career path that Allie has carved out for herself is wildly inspiring – from working up the corporate ladder as an advertising creative to jumping off that cliff, starting a freelance business, and working directly with brands she loves. She has manifested an aligned career and lifestyle that proves to us all that it. is. so. possible. If you’re feeling stuck in career, unfulfilled in life, or simply want to hear all the incredible things that are possible to manifest using this work, this episode is gonna rock your world. You have everything you need to make your dream life your actual life in 2024. Listen to find out how Allie did it, and get a look into her world on IG at @theburlingtoncoatfactory! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Manifesting a career that is aligned with your values & passions

    The play-by-play of exactly how to jump off a career cliff

    How last year’s Manifestation Challenge set the stage for Allie’s success

    Why becoming self-aware should be your priority

    How subconscious beliefs in career may be keeping you in a stress pattern

    Developing an understanding of your authenticity and finding core elements of joy

    Trusting the universe and walking through fear

    Believing that you can design your dream life and make it real

    How the TBM work can be a valuable lens and perspective on life’s challenges

    Manifesting insane things (like a lake to swim in?!)

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Allie’s path to manifesting an aligned career (00:17:20)

    Tuning into her Authentic Code and manifesting happy spaces (00:35:4…

  3. Ep. 279 - How to Unblock & Find Your Manifestation Blind Spots

    1 december 2023 · 1 uur 14 min

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    Just because you have blocks doesn’t mean that YOU are “blocked.” Today, Janelle, Lacy, and Jessica are peeling back all the layers to talk about blocks, shadows, and blind spots — a comprehensive guide to illuminating the path towards healing, manifestation, and your authentic self. If you feel like you have done everything and are still awaiting your manifestations, it might be time to investigate blocks and blind spots–they’re called that for a reason, and this episode may help you find a path forward. Join us for a soul-nourishing sesh where our hosts will share some of their personal blocks as well as their insights into certain Blind Spot archetypes and how a person can approach their blocks as more of a roadmap to their manifestations. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    What is a block and how do we get to the root of it

    Why blocks, shadows, and blind spots can actually represent a roadmap for healing and manifestation

    Working through subconscious negative thought loops and limiting beliefs

    Childhood blocks, abandonment wounds, and shadows

    Tips from Janelle on what to keep in mind as you work through the root of shame and shadow

    How strong reactions and triggers may be pointing to a subconscious block or blind spot

    Understanding your own archetype when approaching blocks and blind spots

    Stepping through ego and status towards your authentic self

    Question from the community on archetypes–Janelle, Lacy, and Jessica dive in!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Why blocks are a pillar of the manifestation journey (00:10:20)

    Protection archetypes: The Dreamer, The Discerner, The Empathizer (00:34:30)

    Breaking down an archetype question from a community member (01:02:20)

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  4. Ep. 278 - Releasing Fear and Stepping Into Your Worth: The Process with Tess Palma-Martinez

    24 november 2023 · 1 uur 21 min

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    This week we are sharing a pretty epic story from one of our members, Tess! Tess Palma-Martinez is a sound healer and podcaster who is here to share how she used TBM methods towards creating boundaries, building self-knowledge, and establishing a foundation of trust in the universe to start making gutsy leaps of faith. One of the major lessons in this episode is that when it comes to manifesting a partner, sometimes it feels like it can’t happen fast enough. But sometimes relationships are tests and even expanders – ultimately it’s about doing the work to know yourself so that you can know how to navigate bumpy roads and even let go if you need to. Tess is a shining example of what it means to connect to your authentic self and to truly align yourself with what is meant for you. Come along on an epic journey where manifestation meets the science of frequencies, and where fear gets a divine makeover. Join us as we crack open The TBM secrets, revealing the keys to unleashing your true self! Lees meer

    Trigger warning: Mention of sexual abuse at 00:21:30 -00:26:15

    *Please note that Tess does not offer voice frequency testing

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    The science of missing frequencies and vocal tones

    Holding the divine energy to find balance amid fear, abandonment, and isolation

    How the TBM work can complement traditional talk therapy and vice versa

    How to move through fear to become your most authentic self

    Parts of the TBM work and DIs that helped Tess navigate her healing journey

    How work around boundaries and self-trust helped Tess pass tests and make an aligned leap of faith

    How manifestations may eventually become a test

    Why making space for yourself can help you do the work that leads to manifestation

    Manifesting career and relationships in tandem–and why not everything comes through at once

    Recognizing patterns, attachment styles, anxiety, and red flags in relationships

    Tun…

  5. Ep. 277 Best In Class: Finding Clarity & Manifesting Your Dream Life

    17 november 2023 · 1 uur

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    In this Best in Class episode, we have rounded up some of our favorite moments to give you a mini-master class on how to find clarity and manifest your dream life! We revisit a couple of our favorite episodes with Dr. Tara on the subject and explore topics like social media's impact on self-belief, destigmatizing career pivots, and why embracing curiosity can help call in those manifestations that are meant for you. Join us for tools, exercises, and insights that cut through the noise, providing clarity and actionable steps to propel you in your journey of personal growth. You might not always know what your best next step is, and sometimes hyper-specificity might be standing in your way–but this episode is a gentle reminder that there is always time to embrace your dance with the universe. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    How to find clarity among information overload

    Social media's impact on self-belief and personal growth

    Embracing surrender and curiosity rather than hyper specificity for manifestation

    Overcoming resistance, fear, and uncertainty through self-awareness

    How clarity can help us identify what aligned actions are necessary

    How to reconnect to the sacred energy to find your magic

    Allowing for creativity and curiosity, and embracing your dance with the universe

    How stress and cortisol may be blocking your intuition

    Destigmatizing career hop and pivots, and getting clarity around career

    Discussing exercising in navigating uncertainty, neurodivergence, and aligned action

    How authenticity and self-awareness can help guide you in times of uncertainty

    The importance of “being your own guru”

    Clarifying between real danger and anxiety

    How accountability and action are scientifically related to manifestation

    Tools, insights, and exercises to help you achieve more clarity and accountability

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    Defining clarity and navigating information overload (…

  6. Ep. 276 - What Is the Universe Trying to Teach You?: A Lesson on Self-Awareness

    10 november 2023 · 1 uur 13 min

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    Today is a mini masterclass in patterns, self-awareness, and manifestation magic! Dive deep into the roots of your patterns, gaining valuable insights on unblocking, integration, self-awareness, aligned actions, and manifestation. Lacy and Jessica share real-life examples from the community, breaking down common patterns and offering guidance on becoming unstuck. It’s the season of magic and uncovering the connections between pings, tests, expanders, and other elements of this transformative work as you unravel the secrets of the universe's messages. Plus, as we gear up for the end-of-year Manifestation Challenge, this episode reminds us of the power of accountability buddies and how they can illuminate your blind spots on the path to manifestation. This is the perfect time to learn where to find supportive allies and how community can play a pivotal role in reaching your manifestation goals. Strap in for an empowering episode that will leave you inspired and ready to manifest. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    What it really means to be self-aware

    Integrating from shadow and wounds, and getting back to your authentic code

    What it might feel like to be operating from integration and consciousness

    How getting to a place of consciousness can allow us to navigate triggers from a more neutral and balanced space

    Why accountability buddies can be so helpful in exploring your blind spots with compassion and curiosity

    Where to find those accountability buddies to help you reach your manifestation goals

    “Finding the thread” and how pings, tests, expanders, and other elements of this work all connect and work together

    Understanding what a test from the universe might look like

    How unblocking, integration, self-awareness, aligned actions, and manifestation are all connected

    How finding your pattern is the most direct path to the root of the thing that is blocking your manifestations

    How t…

  7. Ep. 275 - The Science & Spirituality of Manifestation with Dr. Tara

    3 november 2023 · 1 uur 5 min

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    If you didn’t catch Jessica and Lacy’s episode on Dr. Tara’s podcast series, ‘Reinvent Yourself’, we are thrilled to be sharing this amazing conversation here in the TBM world just for you. With the wonderful Dr. Tara hosting, Lacy and Jessica share an enlightening conversation that delves into the power of manifestation and the intersection of spirituality, religion, mysticism, and the science of manifesting your desires. They also break down the concept of the "shadow" and discuss what it means to integrate those hidden aspects of self. If you’ve ever been curious about what exactly your “shadow” is or if you have found yourself intimidated by the concept of shadow work, this is a conversation you’ll want to tune in to. Plus, Jessica, Lacy, and Dr. Tara herself are gearing up for this year’s end-of-year Manifestation Challenge. Strap in! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    How Lacy and Jessica first started understanding the power of manifestation

    How spirituality, religion, mysticism, and manifestation can all co-exist

    Lacy and Jessica’s personal and material manifestations

    Shifting the collective consciousness for the next generation

    Embracing the rhythm and cyclical nature of manifestation

    Jessica’s breakdown of “shadow” and what it means to integrate those parts of self

    How to get involved with the end of year Manifestation Challenge and why this community can really make a difference

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    The ancient and historical origins of manifestation (00:22:25)

    Jessica and Lacy’s insights on understanding the shadow (00:42:40)

    The upcoming end of year Manifestation Challenge! (00:56:25)

    Resources:

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  8. Ep. 274 - Healing the “Witch Wound” & Stepping into Your Power with Taylor Paige

    27 oktober 2023 · 1 uur 9 min

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    This week we welcome the extraordinary Taylor Paige, angel reader and intuitive guide. In this conversation, Taylor guides us through the labyrinth that is exploring our intuition and psychic abilities, urging us to trust ourselves and embrace our inner wisdom. She unpacks the common struggle so many of us have with self-doubt and negative self-talk, helping us conquer insecurities and connect more deeply to our authentic selves, our angels and guides, and most importantly our own intuition. Throughout the episode, Taylor and Jessica explore the enigmatic "witch wound" and the impact of the witch archetype on our lives today. This episode is packed with inspiration, empowerment, and the magic of self-discovery as we explore intuition, spirituality, and embracing our inner witch. Taylor even shares a TBM-specific ritual that we can’t wait to try out–let us know if you integrate this practice! Lees meer

    Trigger Warning: mention of an abusive relationship at (51:45 - 57:25)

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Developing intuition and psychic abilities

    Leaning into self-trust and inner wisdom

    Overcoming self-doubt and negative self-talk

    Moving through insecurities and fears to tap into joy and curiosity

    How attachment to a certain outcome may be blocking true intuition

    Understanding our astrological moment, Plutonian energy, and processing turmoil, shifts, and calls

    Understanding the witch wound and how the archetype of the witch impacts us today

    Radical honesty, embracing inner power, and listening to the call towards spirituality and witchcraft

    How “if-then” thinking and being too attached to outcome may be blocking our energy flow and spiritual connection

    Moving through intense feelings of rage to arrive at a place of accountability, self-compassion, and healing

    Taylor Paige shares a TBM-specific ritual integrating your authentic code

    Connecting with your inner witch by tapping into your …

  9. Ep. 273 - Attachment Styles, Expanding, and Manifesting Your Dream Life - The Process with Hiwa

    20 oktober 2023 · 1 uur 16 min

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    From rock bottom to reaching new levels in both her relationships and career, returning Process guest, Hiwa’s story is a rollercoaster of transformation and authenticity. From relying on the ‘cool girl’ act and relationship games to becoming the most authentic version of herself and manifesting a lasting and loving relationship, Hiwa has truly learned to use her voice and shed old patterns. Join Hiwa and Jess as they delve deep into attachment styles, unearthing patterns that hold us back from our true desires, and uncovering the magic of using our skills and self-worth to bring our dreams to life. And as she looks back on her journey, Hiwa sends a message of love and wisdom to her younger self, celebrating the transformative ride and reflecting on all the DIs and challenges that have helped propel her forward. Consider this your weekly dose of motivation to keep putting in the work and seeking out those empowering and expansive support systems. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Reflecting on Hiwa’s past relationship behaviors and how she came to understand and transform those patterns

    How the work through TBM connected Hiwa to her authentic desires

    Hiwa’s reflections on passing the one test she didn't want to face

    Reframing attachment styles as being descriptive and on a spectrum rather than an permanent diagnosis

    On finding expanders and tapping into IRL expanders to uplevel

    How using her voice in relationships translated into career manifestations

    How Hiwa tracks pings, tests, and triggers and useful ways to use TBM DIs to process and move forward

    How managing physical stress and achieving gut health has helped clear a way for Hiwa’s manifestations coming in

    Hiwa’s message to her past self, and how she learned to love the journey

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    How Hiwa learned that being the “cool girl” and playing games wasn’t yielding the results she wanted in relationships (00:09:…

  10. Ep. 272 Becoming An ‘Emotional Athlete’ with Flynn Skidmore

    13 oktober 2023 · 1 uur 24 min

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    If you haven’t had the pleasure of seeing one of Flynn Skidmore’s viral videos on social media or listening to his incredible podcast, let us introduce you: Flynn is a therapist trained in Internal Family Systems and somatic experiencing. And let’s just say it like this, Flynn + TBM = total power couple. Today he and Jessica dive into so many compelling rabbit holes, like exploring your internal landscape in order to regulate your nervous system, becoming more emotionally “athletic,” and starting to get in tune with your body about what clues it may be giving you regarding your relationship dynamics. Also! if you’ve been manifesting a ticket to the LA stop of the TBM speaking tour, you might wanna listen in… Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here ->

    https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Narcissism and scarcity mindsets in relationships

    Tapping into expressing feelings to navigate interpersonal relationships and process past wounds

    How love, safety, and belonging are abundant and available and how to attain and cultivate the feelings you want in a relationship

    Reframing relationships to be “co-creative” dynamics

    How Flynn arrived at a place of joy and abundance from the inside out using energy and self-sufficiency.

    Building relationship foundations from the energy we want to ultimately experience

    Flynn’s perspective around ADHD and tailoring a helpful process in order to achieve goals

    Learning to allow yourself to have the life you want and setting yourself up for the abundance available

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Understanding narcissism and processing past wounds (00:17:50)

    Mindset shifts surrounding ADHD and using multiple tools and pathways to understanding ourselves (00:55:00)

    Self love, compassion, and choosing to give yourself the love you desire (01:08:10)

    Resources:

    Get your Tickets for The Magnetic Self Speaking Tour with Lacy & Jessica

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  11. Ep. 271 What Manifestation Phase Are You In Right Now: Rut, Rock Bottom, Next Level or Magic Dark?

    6 oktober 2023 · 58 min

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    Before TBM: “WTF is going on in my life?” After TBM: “Oh, I’m in a rut and i just need to reconnect with my authenticity!” One of the most valuable aspects of the TBM work is that it brings massive amounts of clarity. That’s why we talk so much about the basic energetic phases of manifestation: the rut, the rockbottom, the next level/uplevel, and the magic dark. Learning these phases is going to help you understand what the universe is asking you to learn in this season of your life which is absolutely crucial for connecting with the manifestations you have been asking for. Today’s episode is a mini masterclass in these energetics. Lacy and Jessica dive deep into each one, covering the hallmark indicators and the medicine to help you navigate. No matter what phase you are in right now, shedding a light on it and learning about why it might be happening is one of the most empowering, exciting aspects of this brand. Strap in! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here ->

    https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    How to know if you’re in a rut vs a magic dark

    How you can manifest even if you find yourself feeling a little stuck

    What the purpose of a rut is, and how to move through it

    Finding internal security and solid sense of self in an uplevel

    Embracing periods of collecting and getting clear in order to manifest

    How “crickets” may be signaling a rut

    What magic dark, tests, and upleveling may feel like

    Transitions, patterns, and integrating the lessons of the universe

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Defining a rut and a rock bottom (00:07:45)

    Upleveling and what it feels like to live in that energy (00:16:20)

    Spiritual bypassing and other ways a person might be sitting in a rut and helpful tips to navigate forward (00:45:50)

    Resources:

    Get your Tickets for The Magnetic Self Speaking Tour with Lacy & Jessica

    New York SEPT 16th - SOLD OUT

    Vancouver BC NOV 4th - more tickets added!

    Los Angeles DEC 2nd - NEW Venue + more tickets added!

    …

  12. Ep. 270 How Lacy Manifested To Be Magnetic: The Origin Story

    29 september 2023 · 1 uur 12 min

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    Welcome to one of the most highly requested Expanded Podcast Episodes of all time. If you’ve ever wondered how Lacy manifested this whole TBM thing into existence, this one’s for you, cause you’re about to hear every step of how this brand came to be in the world. We’re starting at the beginning of Lacy’s story– and of course at TBM that means we’re starting at childhood. You’re going to hear the raw, unfiltered challenges and blocks that Lacy navigated throughout to get to this point of authentic life alignment. You’re going to hear about the vulnerability that comes with doing something you truly believe in, not putting pressure on your passion to be your main source of income, the people who drop off your path when you start living in true integrity, the constant wrestle with ego, and so much more. If Lacy has helped expand you in any way, shape, or form, this episode is going to take that expansion to the next level. Because she has served as the ultimate expander for so many of us in this community as someone who is living a truly authentic, aligned life, her story is here to tell your subconscious one thing: if she can do it, you can do it. So press play, and let your practical magic era begin. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here ->

    https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Lacy’s background and growing up in an unstable environment

    Healing childhood trauma and manifesting a stable and fulfilling life

    Lacy’s experience in making career leaps from blogging to cheffing to TBM

    How Lacy learned that her gifts and methods could be expanded and applied for more than just herself

    Manifesting a career without ego

    Letting go of a relationship and manifesting true love

    Overcoming limiting beliefs and achieving financial success

    Understanding the feeling and sensation of being your authentic self

    Community and manifesting support systems

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Lacy’s childhood, upbringing, and early relationships (00:06:15)

    Fin…

  13. Ep. 269 Manifesting During a Rock Bottom - The Process with Simone

    22 september 2023 · 1 uur 10 min

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    It’s true. No matter where you are in life, no matter where you come from, no matter who you are, you can manifest. Even if you’re at the lowest of lows right now. And if you don’t believe us, let this episode with TBM member, Simone, expand you. In fact, Simone is in the midst of a rock bottom right now and is still seeing incredible manifestations come through. Jess and Simone are about to give you all the details in this episode, not to mention they dive into so many other avenues – being magnetic as an introvert, chosen family, glass ceilings, pings vs “shoulds”, showing up authentically on social media and so much more. Today’s episode is a warm hug – a reminder that no matter what, you are the architect of your own reality. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Meeting new people and finding comfort in a magnetic space with like-minded individuals

    Rock bottoms, navigating fear, and trusting the process

    Discerning between "shoulds" and aligned pings

    Self-worth, career growth, glass ceilings, and bridging the gap

    How fear of success can hold us back from manifesting our true potential.

    Embracing “gray areas” as bridges to help manifest

    Examining external validation

    Attachments that may be blocking abundance and authenticity in creative pursuits

    Why a rock bottom is not a punishment

    Inner alignment, self-care, and dating during a rock bottom

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    How rock bottoms may cloud our vision of our true self and navigating fear (00:17:00)

    Examining our blocks and pivoting to receive your flow abundance (00:36:45)

    Dating, reassessing, and calling in your true soul partner (01:00:40)

    Resources:

    Get your Tickets for The Magnetic Self Speaking Tour with Lacy & Jessica

    New York SEPT 16th - SOLD OUT

    Vancouver BC NOV 4th - more tickets added!

    Los Angeles DEC 2nd - NEW Venue + more tickets added!

    Our New York Tour Stop is sponsored by Bohemian & Bouj - received 15% wit…

  14. Ep. 268 - Rejection Is Redirection

    15 september 2023 · 58 min

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    Rejection. It is undeniably one of the most painful experiences we endure in life. But if you think back on the times you got rejected, it usually worked out for the better…isn’t that funny? It’s almost as if the universe was secretly guiding you without you even realizing it 😏So we’ve decided it’s time to give rejection the reframe it deserves, and that’s what today’s episode is. It’s official – rejection isn’t really the slap in the face we think it is – it’s actually protection! Redirection! Introspection! Today’s episode with Lacy and Jessica is one you’re going to want to save and come back to whenever you’re up against this, cause at some point, we all are! No ego is safe! Get ready to hear about handling rejection with grace, stepping into your **royalty**, how you might be getting in your own way, and why getting rejected creates the most powerful portals of magnetism! Cause guess what? If you got rejected, we have good news: your manifestation is orbiting you right now. Press play to find out why. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    The energetics of ghosting with Lacy and Jessica!

    Why rejection is protection

    How rejection can mean that your manifestations are close

    Our brain’s wiring and the neuroscience behind human connection

    The trust muscle and its relationship with manifestation

    Using ghosting as a tool for self-growth

    Finding magnetism through rejection and breakups

    Grace energy, self-compassion

    Jessica’s recent dog manifestation!

    Lacy’s passion for familiars, psychic connection with pets

    The healing power of animals

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Why rejection can mean that your manifestations are close (00:06:45)

    Using ghosting as a tool for self-growth (00:16:45)

    Pet manifestation stories from Jessica & Lacy! (00:38:40)

    Resources:

    Get your Tickets for The Magnetic Self Speaking Tour with Lacy & Jessica

    New York SEPT 16th - SOLD OUT

    Vancouver BC NOV 4th - more ti…

  15. Ep. 267 - How To Find Your Manifestation Blind Spots

    8 september 2023 · 1 uur 5 min

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    Manifestation blind spots. They’re aspects of yourself and your personal patterning that you’re still unaware of. And more often than not, these are the self-sabotaging beliefs and behaviors that are blocking your manifestation from coming through. This episode is about becoming fully aware of these aspects– where are you still not being honest with yourself? In fact, the wisdom you’re about to hear from Lacy and Jessica comes from this month’s monthly check-in live call, a special offering inside the TBM membership. ICYMI, every single month the TBM community comes together on a Q&A live call to check in on the themes that are coming up for everyone. Some of the best TBM wisdom is shared on these calls, and this one was so powerful we’re airing it for the whole Expanded Podcast community to tune into. You’re about to hear Lacy and Jessica at their best, diving into all things blind spots – fear of rejection, building confidence, overcoming cringe, trust issues, getting ghosted, and more. If you’re trying to unblock a fear of being seen, if you’re learning to regulate your emotions, or if you’re navigating ego and the struggle of societal programming, this episode has tangible wisdom channeled for YOU. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    A monthly check-in with our TBM community!

    Current energetic and astrological trends

    Questions from Pathway members around love, money and career!

    The healing power of nature

    How to regulate when in heightened, overwhelming states

    Unblocking the fear of being seen

    The importance of finding your blind spots

    What to do when manifestations aren’t coming through

    Navigating ego and societal programming

    The energetic motivation behind love and money

    Ghosting! What it means and how you can learn from it

    Updates on the TBM Speaking Tour!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Unblocking the fear of being seen (00:18:20)

    How to find your blind spots! (00:34:40)

    The e…

  16. Ep. 266 - How To Break Low Self-Worth Habits with Nicole Neuroscience

    1 september 2023 · 1 uur 6 min

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    Look, it’s not you. It’s your brain. Seriously! Breaking a low self-worth habit isn’t as easy as deciding to stop. Because behind the scenes of everyday life, your brain and its symphony of neurons are actually running the show. So what would happen if you decided to work with your brain instead of against it? That’s what today’s episode is all about with Nicole Vignola, or as many might know her – @nicolesneuroscience on IG. Today, she and Jessica nerd out on the neuroscience of some pretty juicy (and highly requested) topics – burnout, building a routine, procrastinating the TBM work, how overcoming adversity is good for your brain, and so. much. more. Learn the simple magic of a big, long *sigh*, how to recover from doom scrolling, and why you should embrace boredom (your brain likes it). This is the magic-meets-science conversation that is basically every TBMer’s dream convo. Get ready for actionable, easy wisdom that actually changes your day. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    All things neuroscience and psychology with guest Nicole Vignola, aka Nicole’s Neuroscience!

    How her cultural upbringing informed her current career path

    Growth mindset, survival mode, neuroplasticity!

    Navigating procrastination when it comes to self-care work

    Conscious vs. subconscious brain activity

    How to habit stack in order to create lasting change

    Managing burnout and self-interruption

    The energetics of dopamine, reward cycles, adrenaline

    Positive reinforcement and strengthening neural pathways

    How to regulate screen time in a healthy way

    Inner child work, nervous system regulation!

    The science behind the creative process

    The importance of maintaining hobbies!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Navigating procrastination when it comes to self-care work (00:17:15)

    The energetics of dopamine (00:24:15)

    Science behind the creative process (00:47:00)

    Resources:

    Get your Tickets for The Magnetic Self Spe…

  17. Ep. 265 - People Pleasing, Dating Apps, & Manifesting Self Love – Unblocking: Love & Partnership

    25 augustus 2023 · 43 min

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    There’s nothing more inspiring than listening to someone find out what their block is in real-time. Feeling their energy shift when they see that bigger picture and know exactly what they need to do in order to connect with their manifestation. That’s exactly what today’s episode is. This unblocking episode with Pathway Member, Sydney, reveals the true magic of the TBM process. Listen to Lacy channel in real time as she, Jessica and Sydney cover so much ground in the realm of love – dating apps, old manifestation lists, unavailable partners, TV show expanders, ~the people-pleasing block~, and so much more. Whether you’re manifesting in love, money, career, home, or beyond, this episode will grant you the higher perspective you might be missing in your own manifestation process. It is truly *chefs kiss*. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Another Unblocking episode with a special guest, Pathway member Sydney!

    Working through Sydney’s major block: love and finding a partner

    Her manifestations in other areas of life and how she can use them to unblock love

    The importance of finding relationship expanders

    Parents as mirrors for your adult relationship

    Dating apps do’s and don'ts

    Manifesting with your inner child

    Sydney’s manifestation list and what has already come through

    The connection between love and money

    Real-life examples from Lacy & Jessica

    How to navigate people-pleasing, insecurity

    Finding self-love first!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Sydney’s block with love and relationship (00:06:15)

    The importance of manifesting with your inner child (00:16:00)

    Applying career manifestations to love (00:30:00)

    Resources:

    Tickets for The Magnetic Self Speaking Tour with Lacy & Jessica are LIVE!

    New York SEPT 16th - SOLD OUT

    Vancouver BC NOV 4th - more tickets added!

    Los Angeles DEC 2nd - NEW Venue + more tickets added!

    Join our Pathway membership to get access The Magnetic Self Chal…

  18. Ep. 264 - How Everything Is Connected & How You Have the Potential to Change - The Process with Lisa

    18 augustus 2023 · 1 uur 19 min

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    Every now and then you’ll hear someone tell their story, and you’re reminded of that big, grandest truth of life – everything is connected. Your blocks, your limiting beliefs, the traumas you experienced, your relationship dynamics, your authenticity, your path to healing. It’s all related. And to take it one step further, we’re all connected to each other. Your healing is collective healing. That’s the vibe of this episode with Pathway member, Lisa. This episode is the reminder we all need that there’s a bigger story playing out here, every single day of our lives. Lisa and Jess cover all kinds of topics, from trust issues to integrating feedback you don’t want to hear to doing conscious business to cutting off a parent to manifesting animals! It’d probably be easier to list what they don’t talk about tbh. If you need expansion around launching a business, getting paid to do the things you love, or cultivating abundance (physically and emotionally), this healing conversation was recorded for you. Because remember: we are all connected. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    The remarkable manifestation story of Pathway member Lisa!

    How she manifested her own business, closure with toxic family members, improved health and much more!

    Lessons that Lisa learned in childhood that she applies today

    Working through anger and resentment to emerge more magnetic on the other side

    Lisa’s TBM story! How she found the brand at the perfect time

    Shedding subconscious weight, regulating the nervous system

    The difficult dynamic Lisa had with her dad

    Lisa’s major uplevel story of successfully launching her own international business!

    The energetic power of women helping women

    Her love of animals and the kismet way she found her new pets!

    The relationship between her and her parents today

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Lessons that Lisa learned in childhood that she applies today (00:09:35)

    Lisa’s major u…

  19. Ep. 263 - Best In Class: Manifesting During Uncertain Times

    11 augustus 2023 · 58 min

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    A lot has happened over the past several years – a global pandemic, a recession, layoffs, strikes, and so much more! These upheavals influence us all in different ways, which begs the question – can you still manifest during times like this? Good news: the answer is YES (an all caps yes!) – in fact, there is no better time to buckle down in your manifestation practice and figure out what your authentic self is really desiring in this next chapter. So here’s a best-in-class episode for you to dive right into – a compilation of our best teachings that pertain to manifesting during uncertain times, in the hope that you can use it as a resource any time you are facing uncharted waters. Lacy and Jess go into it all – rejection, unemployment, FU funds, finances, building that trust muscle, and more. And if you know anyone who’s being affected by the strike right now – send this episode to them! Our tools are made to support everyone, no matter where you’re at in your manifestation journey. Happy manifesting! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Another Best In Class episode - this week on all things navigating uncertainty!

    How to manifest in uncertain times

    The energetics around current events, actor strike, economic upheaval

    Overcoming the fear of rejection, embracing uncharted territory

    The importance of taking conscious action steps

    Ruts, rock bottoms, magic darks!

    How to become more magnetic through hardships

    Getting into the flow of creativity

    Manifestation lists and when to revise them

    Unemployment, FU funds, finances

    Surrendering to build your trust muscle

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    How to manifest through uncertainty (00:06:10)

    Navigating creative blocks and getting into flow (00:31:05)

    Deep dive into creating financial magnetism through hard times (00:42:10)

    Resources:

    Tickets for The Magnetic Self Speaking Tour with Lacy & Jessica are LIVE!

    New York SEPT 16th - SOLD OUT

    Van…

  20. Ep. 262 - Being Your Most Magnetic Self in Relationship with Mark Groves

    4 augustus 2023 · 1 uur 13 min

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    MARK GROVES IS BACK. And there’s a reason this is the third time we’ve invited this man back on the pod: Because every time he comes on, he deepens our understanding of how to be in conscious relationships. And in this episode, Mark is back with even more fresh wisdom, tools, and perspectives that you’ll be able to implement toward your relationships right away. Whether you’re happily single, single and calling in a relationship, or partnered up, this episode is chock full of insight about how we relate to one another in love. Jess and Mark go into so many juicy avenues of conversation – taking radical responsibility, should you stay or should you go?, twin flames, the deeper meaning and roots of marriage…yeah. Lots of good stuff here. If you’re in need of expansion around healthy, communicative, deep relationships, press play on this one. Thanks for the never-ending expansion, Mark. We (clearly) love you! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    All things relationship dynamics with return guest Mark Groves!

    Life updates from Mark since his last appearance on the podcast

    Radical responsibility in relationships

    Mark’s separation from his partner and how they got back together

    Feeling worthy of love before being able to accept it

    How to know whether or not to leave a relationship

    Navigating the energetics of a breakup

    How we mirror the partnership dynamics of our parents in adulthood

    The importance of fighting fair, regulating the nervous system

    Tips for reigniting intimacy and sex life after being together for many years

    Unconditional self-love!

    How our own unrealistic standards can keep us from finding partnership

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Mark’s relationship journey with his partner Kylie, how they broke up and got back together (00:10:10)

    The importance of regulating your nervous system (00:27:16)

    Tips for reigniting intimacy after being together for many years (00:42:30)

    Resourc…

  21. Ep. 261 - Financial Tests, IVF, and Family Boundaries - Unblocking: Magic Dark

    28 juli 2023 · 50 min

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    If you’ve been doing this work for a while, you’ve probably asked yourself the question “Am I in a magic dark?” If so, today’s episode will help give you some clarity. Today TBM member, Parker, is on the pod for an unblocking episode with Lacy and Jessica where he discovers that he’s in (drum roll, please) The Magic Dark! This convo goes into all kinds of rabbit holes – financial tests, family boundaries, IVF, sexuality. Together, Jessica and Lacy get to the energetic root that needs unblocking, and it’s pretty fun to listen as they sleuth it out. The Magic Dark is tricky, so if you think you might be in one, listen to this episode and get a feel for the energetics. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Another Unblocking series with return guest, Pathway member Parker!

    Parker’s manifestation updates since his last episode

    The current challenges he’s facing and real-time advice from Lacy and Jessica

    Navigating uplevels with career, relationships and family

    Financial tests Parker is facing: unexpected bills, job uncertainty, real estate investments

    Rock bottom and magic dark energy and how to emerge more magnetic

    Owning and embracing his sexuality

    Setting boundaries with family members

    His IVF journey with his partner and calling in a child

    Finding energetic roots that need unblocking

    TBM Workshop recommendations

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    An update on Parker’s manifestations since his last appearance on the podcast! (00:09:45)

    Setting boundaries with his family regarding his sexuality (00:19:20)

    Parker’s IVF journey with his partner (00:32:40)

    Resources:

    Tickets for The Magnetic Self Speaking Tour with Lacy & Jessica are LIVE!

    New York SEPT 16th - SOLD OUT

    Vancouver BC NOV 4th - more tickets added!

    Los Angeles DEC 2nd - NEW Venue + more tickets added!

    Join our Pathway membership to get access The Magnetic Self Challenge!

    Six weeks to High self-worth & true confidence (Join an…

  22. Ep. 260 - Rock Bottoms: How To Navigate When The Rug Is Pulled From Beneath You

    21 juli 2023 · 1 uur 9 min

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    Who here has had the rug pulled out from beneath them? 🙋‍♀️Maybe it’s a relationship ending, you’re having to exit a job, a house, or a friend dynamic. Maybe you’re knee deep in financial struggles. That, my friends, is what we at TBM call “a rock bottom.” And lord knows they come in all shapes and sizes! So here’s the thing. Life is not about avoiding rock bottoms (you can’t). It’s about learning to see them for what they truly are, and that’s a gift. You might hate to hear it, but it’s true. And this episode is here to hold your hand through the worst of it. Who better to do that than Lacy, Jess, and Janelle, as they explain the difference between perceived fear and actual fear, how your fear is pointing you toward your manifestation, how to let go, how to find your footing during this time, and so much more. Send this episode to the person who needs it and save this episode for yourself. It’s full of timeless wisdom that we all could stand to hear no matter where we are in our process. If you’re ready to befriend your fear, press play. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    How to navigate when the rug is pulled out from under you with Lacy, Jessica and Janelle!

    Energetic and psychological perspectives

    Dealing with worst-case scenarios, rock bottoms, unexpected tests

    The importance of facing your fears and the magnetism on the other side

    Safety, security, self-worth!

    Perceived fear vs. actual fear

    Specific life examples from the TBM team

    Debunking the shame around fear

    Using triggers and negative emotions as roadmaps for manifestation

    Nervous system regulation

    How to gain control by letting go

    Deep dives into new Workshop and DI’s

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    The energetic background of having the rug pulled out from under you (00:10:52)

    How to gain magnetism through rock bottoms, worst case scenarios (00:17:20)

    Nervous system regulation! (00:57:38)

    Resources:

    Tickets for The Mag…

  23. Ep. 259 - Closing Chapters & Jumping Off Cliffs with Amanda Blair

    14 juli 2023 · 1 uur 7 min

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    It’s hard to imagine TBM without the illustrious Amanda Blair, our first TBM coach and relationship extraordinaire. Though Amanda has flown from the nest, she is back on the pod to give us another dose of wisdom. Because change and growth are never ending pursuits! And funny enough, that’s what this episode is about. Her lesson for us today is about learning to tune into those intuitive whispers that are asking you to grow, with actionable advice on how to take inventory of your life to ensure that you’re still in alignment. Jess and Amanda cover the ever-shifting goalpost of growth, impostor syndrome, personal glass ceilings, the energetics of moving out of an old manifestation, and they even give tangible resources for jumping off these cliffs. Are you ready to turn inward and ask yourself the important questions? How are you being asked to grow right now? Is that old manifestation still really aligned for you? No one gets to the heart of it all like Amanda does. We love you, Amanda! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Our bon voyage conversation with Amanda Blair!

    Her life updates, including leaving TBM and starting her own coaching business

    The energetics of growing out of something you manifested

    Resources for jumping off cliffs in career

    The importance of pursuing growth in the face of fear and self-doubt

    Prior cliffs that Amanda has jumped off: traveling the world, moving from NYC

    Glass ceilings and how to navigate them

    The energetic power of being YOU!

    Growth edges, boundaries, building your trust muscle

    How to recognize when your inner child shows up

    FU Funds and bridge jobs!

    Navigating ego when shifting careers

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Amanda’s updates and exciting next step! (00:07:30)

    The energetics of glass ceilings and how to navigate them (00:17:08)

    Financials! FU Funds and bridge jobs (00:45:15)

    Resources:

    Join our Pathway membership to get access The Magnetic…

  24. Ep. 258 - Best In Class: From External Validation to True Self-Worth

    7 juli 2023 · 56 min

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    You’ve probably heard people use the term ‘self worth’ before, but do you really know what it means? It’s one of those ethereal self-help concepts that can be challenging to truly comprehend. Do I have high self-worth? How can I tell? What’s the difference between self-worth, confidence, and self-esteem? When is it high self-worth and when is it ego? All these questions and more are answered inside this episode – a best-in-class of all the TBM wisdom we have for you around self-worth. By the time you’re done with this episode, you’ll get it. So if you, like so many of us, are on the never-ending journey of cultivating true internal deservingness, trying to renegotiate your relationship to external validation, and are looking for tangible tips you can implement to start building true self-confidence and worth, this episode is for you. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    A Best Of collection of conversations surrounding all things self-worth!

    Energetic and neuroscientific definitions of self-esteem and worthiness

    Self-worth’s relationship with manifestation

    How to build confidence, deservingness, and authenticity!

    Tangible tips from Lacy, Jessica and Dr. Tara

    The brain activity behind self-esteem

    Deservingness as a choice

    The importance of cultivating a creative space

    Maintaining self-worth through pregnancy and parenting

    The two ways you can build your self-worth

    TBM DI and Workshop recommendations!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    The psychological and energetic background of self-worth! (00:11:10)

    Cultivating deservingness as a choice (00:23:14)

    The two ways you can build your self-worth (00:53:35)

    Resources:

    To Be Magnetic Summer Sale is LIVE! (Open until July 4th 12m PST)

    Join our Pathway membership to get access The Magnetic Self Challenge!

    Six weeks to High self-worth & true confidence (Join anytime!)

    BITE Toothpaste Bits - 20% off your first order with code MAGNETIC

    Fresh mi…

  25. Ep. 257 - How Your Shadow is Creating Your Reality

    30 juni 2023 · 58 min

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    Your “Shadow” is pretty hard to wrap your mind around. But it’s in there – you have one. And it’s contributing to your sense of reality right now. It’s that part of you that thinks you’re not good enough, not cool enough, not smart enough. It’s the part of you that creates a narrative around why people don’t like you, why someone might be mad at you, why you might never have the things you want in life. We’ve got good news, though. Your shadow can be healed and integrated so that it’s no longer running your show. And a big part of that is simply educating yourself on this idea of “shadow work.” That’s what this episode is for. And no matter if you heard this episode when we originally aired it or it’s your first time listening, the more you learn about your shadow, the less it power it has over you. Lacy, Jess, and Dr. Tara break it all down from the perspective of manifestation, clinical psychology, and everything in between. You’ll hear personal stories from all three of them about overcoming their shadow aspects, specific signs that can point you toward your own shadow blocks, how this all plays into manifestation, and so much more. Remember: becoming self-aware means being willing to know all parts of you. Press play, and don’t be afraid to look 🙂 Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    The definition of shadow and its relationship to manifestation

    The neurological explanation of shadow

    Specific signs that show you need to do shadow work

    Why shame and guilt are survival emotions

    Teachings of Freud, Jung, Eckhart Tolle, Marianne Williamson

    How we pick up pain and shame programming throughout life

    Personal stories from Lacy, Jessica and Dr. Tara about overcoming shadow aspects

    Shadow work in relation to consciousness and Buddhism

    Interacting with others’ shadow

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Definition and energetic background of shadow! (00:10:13)

    Specific signs that show you need to do s…

  26. Ep. 256 - What It Feels Like To Meet Your Magnetic Self - The Process with TBM Member Marina

    23 juni 2023 · 58 min

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    If your memory serves you, you might recall a mini-unblocking episode we did with a Pathway member named Marina a few weeks back. She did a session with Lacy and Jess where they helped her navigate a dwindling savings account in her career as an illustrator. Well, folks. Marina’s story has come full circle, and she’s back on the pod today to make you say “DANG I need to get back into this work!” You’re about to be mind-blown by the TBM magic all over again when you hear how Marina has fully embraced this lifestyle. Cause that’s really what this work is! It’s a never-ending practice of self-reflection, and for Marina that practice means letting go of perfectionism, getting radically honest with herself, and learning to identify and work with her ego. You’re gonna hear about how Marina discovered TBM, her “Great Uplevel of 2021”, and a list of all the absolutely insane things she’s manifested with us. And listen, if you really want to feel amazed, go check out her first episode, ‘Expanded x Ep. 244 - What To Do When Your Career Flow Dries Up: Unblocking Ego’. You’ll see how your own manifestation journey is playing out in real-time – like, right now – and you can start to daydream about your own manifestations you’ll connect with when you start to get into the flow of this practice. We love Marina’s story because she has captured the essence of what it means to be a true TBMer and get really good at manifestation. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    A catchup conversation with Pathway member Marina!

    Manifestation updates since her last appearance on the podcast

    Marina’s recent manifestations, including: a new aligned studio space, uplevels in career and relationship, increased salary, new friends and MUCH more!

    The energetics of the higher and magnetic selves

    How she initially discovered TBM

    Tips on unblocking limiting beliefs

    Letting go of perfectionism

    Why we need to face and suppor…

  27. Ep. 255 - How To Be Magnetic

    16 juni 2023 · 1 uur 7 min

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    What does it really mean to be magnetic? It’s our namesake, so we’re gonna define it for you right here, right now. And more importantly, we’re gonna teach you how to become it. In this episode with Lacy, Jess, and Janelle, we go over the 6 pillars that every magnetic person embodies, your first step to getting there, and the connection between magnetism and manifestation. We talk about detaching from outcomes, honoring the inherent magnetism of children, and reclaiming your self worth by sourcing it internally (rather than externally). Being magnetic is one of the most exciting parts of the TBM process – once you feel what it’s like to step into your unique magnetic self, you’re immediately on the journey towards embodying it more and more every day. If you’re ready to start this journey, press play. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    How to become your most magnetic self with Lacy, Jessica & Janelle!

    The energetics and Psychology behind magnetism

    Background on how Lacy developed the branding behind TBM

    A deep dive into self-worth and its relationship with manifestation!

    Not settling for what you used to in the past

    Why you should never dim your own light

    Subconscious neuroplasticity, nervous system regulation

    Honoring our own magnetic selves and those of our children

    The pillars of high self-worth

    Reclaiming our inner child in a sacred way

    TBM DI and Workshop recs!

    The power of letting go of control

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Background on the energetics of magnetism (00:14:30)

    A deep dive into self-worth (00:17:20)

    Our new Magnetic Self Challenge! (00:59:45)

    Resources:

    To Be Magnetic Summer Sale is LIVE! (Open until July 4th 12m PST)

    Join our Pathway membership to get access The Magnetic Self Challenge!

    Six weeks to High self-worth & true confidence (Kicking off June 16th)

    Ned -15% off with code TBM15

    Magnesium Superblends

    Lavenderberry

    Naked Blend

    Osea - 10% off wit…

  28. Ep. 254 - Vienna Pharaon - Finding & Healing Your Core Wounds

    9 juni 2023 · 1 uur 3 min

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    Right now, today, in this very instant, your childhood wounds are playing out – in your communication style, in your anxieties, in all your conflicts with friends, family, coworkers, romantic partners, and more. That’s how powerful our wounds are. And simply becoming aware of them makes us that much more powerful! So we brought one of NYC’s best and brightest LMFTs, Vienna Pharaon, onto the Expanded Podcast to help us do just that. And her new book, The Origins of You, is our new instruction manual. In this episode, Vienna gives us an overview of the book and introduces us to the 5 core wounds that may be running your show. Jess and Vienna talk all things coping strategies, being the black sheep of the family, perfectionism, “unconditional love” that is actually conditional – you know, all the good childhood trauma stuff. But the difference is Vienna cuts through the overwhelming existentialism that comes with the healing journey and gives us the inspiration to start. To continue! To press onwards in this lifetime pursuit of healing for the sake of our own authenticity. We’re all on this path together! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    A powerful conversation on all things healing with our guest, LMFT & author Vienna Pharaon!

    The five core wounds and a deep dive into how to navigate them all

    Wounding, pain, trauma

    How childhood experiences affect you as an adult

    Vienna’s own life experience and how it informed her book

    Using pain as a tool for expansion

    How to maintain authenticity within group and family dynamics

    Love, connection, validation!

    The difference between stimulus and response

    Core narratives, worthiness wounds

    Healing as a process, not a destination

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    The five core wounds and how to navigate them (00:17:40)

    How to use pain as a tool for healing (00:34:35)

    A deep dive into trust & safety! (00:52:10)

    Resources:

    To Be Magnetic Summer Sale is L…

  29. Ep. 253 Navigating Big Transitions with Lacy & Jessica

    2 juni 2023 · 54 min

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    OK you’ve quit the toxic job, ended the situationship, moved cities, left the old, unaligned friend group. You’re doing all the right things. But the next big chapter of your life still hasn’t started. It’s like you’re sitting in the waiting room of life. What is going on?! Is everything falling apart or are you about to take over the world? Fear not, friends. This is the great “in-between”, the transition period, maybe for you it’s a rock bottom or an uplevel, or a fan favorite TBM term, The Magic Dark. Jessica and Lacy are here to break down the energetics of the community right now for us – what is happening, what it means, what the universe is asking you to do, and how we can speed things up a bit. And this big episode all about transition is actually pretty timely… because we also announce the next chapter of all things TBM for the rest of the year 👀You might have thought you knew how the rest of 2023 was gonna go, but strap in.. Cause it’s about to be even more magical than you could’ve ever dreamed. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Embracing the energetics of the unknown with Lacy & Jessica!

    Upleveling through transitional phases

    Protocols for navigating the in-between

    The power of embracing the unknown

    How to create instant magnetism

    Manifesting within partnership

    The magnetic self - how to find and cultivate it

    Navigating ego and trauma

    New TBM updates!

    The importance of embracing your own magnetism

    Shedding of the old self and stepping into the new

    Grace, humility, peace!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Overview of the energetics of the transitional phase (00:06:20)

    Manifesting within partnership (00:24:45)

    New TBM updates! (00:47:00)

    Resources:

    To Be Magnetic Summer Sale is LIVE!

    Join our Pathway membership to get access The Magnetic Self Challenge!

    Six weeks to High self-worth & true confidence (Kicking off June 16th)

    Seed - 30% off your first month’s supply of See…

  30. Ep. 252 - When Will You Be Good Enough? - The Price Women Pay To Be Good - Elise Loehnen

    26 mei 2023 · 1 uur 7 min

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    If you don’t already know Elise Loehnen, here’s all you need to know – every time Elise speaks, we understand ourselves better. The powerhouse thinker, author, and podcaster is back on the Expanded Pod with some things to say that you’ve probably been waiting a long time to hear. The energetics of “cringe”, the endless quest for validation from our parents, the reason our culture takes some sick joy in watching women get “taken down a peg”, the power of alchemizing envy into expansion. It gets real juicy. And obviously, we went into Elise’s new book, On Our Best Behavior, in which talks about the seven deadly sins and how these deeply embedded cultural “rules” have us stuck in a place where we are psychologically denying our own needs?… Yeah – if you’re already mindblown just reading this, know that this is BUT A SAMPLE of how you will feel listening to this convo between Jess and Elise. Hearing Elise, especially through the lens of TBM, reminds us that we are all on this path together – as a TBM community, as women, as a society at large – striving for self-awareness and full self-acceptance at the highest degree. Thank you for sharing your well of intellect with us, Elise. You are a gift. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    All things femininity and power with return guest author Elise Loehnen!

    The seven deadly sins and how to navigate them in everyday life

    Celebrating, supporting and uplifting women

    The power of turning envy into expansion

    Elise’s new life updates and what inspired her new book

    The balance between feminine and masculine energy

    Nurturance, self-care, creativity!

    The energetics of “cringe” and how it can give insight into yourself

    Societal programming, social media, patriarchy

    Inner child work, why we seek validation from our parents

    Narcissism, how to spot it and navigate through

    The creative process and embracing being an artistic vessel

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS…

  31. Ep. 251 - The Power of Being Seen, Heard, & Validated By An Accountability Buddy with Lisa & Laura - The Process

    19 mei 2023 · 1 uur 20 min

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    Get ready for our very first dual process episode with two TBM accountability buddies, Lisa and Laura! If you’ve been wanting someone to talk healing, growth, manifestation, and all things TBM with, these two are about to expand you BIG TIME. This is manifestation bestie gooooals right here! Their episode is all about the power of having someone to talk to about this work. There is deep healing that comes with being seen, heard, and validated by someone who is in a growth mindset and speaks your language. Hence why were always telling you to go out and find a TBM accountability buddy! We go into all the juicy topics like reciprocal friendships, manifestation remodels gone wrong, and more. If you go out and buy something, is it still manifesting? What is the burnt toast predicament? Is my self-worth tied up in a physical item? This episode will answer all these questions and more. Your new friendship expanders have officially arrived! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Pathway Members Lisa & Laura and their beautiful accountability buddy friendship!

    How they connected and bonded over their TBM work

    The importance of community throughout your manifestation journey

    Attachment styles, human design, astrology!

    Acting without fear of rejection or judgment

    How Lisa & Laura manifested career, home improvements, elevated self-worth

    Expanders! Demystifying public images and intentional takeaways

    Trust and surrender

    The dynamics of their friendship and how they support each other

    Giving yourself grace to say “no”

    Compassionate authority and protecting your own peace

    Self-love through TBM work

    Workshop and DI recs from Jessica, Lisa and Laura!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    The story of how Lisa and Laura first connected to become accountability buddies (00:12:10)

    Their manifestation lists and what came through (00:30:50)

    Dynamics of their friendship and how they support each other (00:56:55)
    …

  32. Ep. 250 - EXPLAINED Clearing Space: How To Let Go Of Outdated Versions Of Yourself

    12 mei 2023 · 1 uur 14 min

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    If you’ve listened to this podcast for a while, you’ve probably heard us use the phrase “clearing space” which refers to clearing or letting go of anything that is not in alignment with your authenticity to give space for your manifestation to come through. Clearing space can look like everything from saying goodbye to old clothes (looking at you, 2010s body con dress), to cleaning up your social media feed, to breaking up with unaligned friends. This is a crucial aspect of manifestation, so it’s about time we sat down with Lacy, Jess, and Janelle to really dig into this topic of letting go. Why is it so hard? How do I know when I’m actually ready? If you feel stuck, need a change, or want to boost your manifestation process, strap in. Cause they go into all this in the episode. Plus, they talk DI suggestions, witchy shit, and personal anecdotes. All the good stuff! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    All things clearing space with Lacy, Jessica & Janelle!

    Why clearing space is a crucial step in the manifestation process

    Jumping off cliffs, aligned action, setting boundaries

    How to navigate upheavals and transitions to emerge more powerful on the other side

    The energetics and psychology behind clearing space

    Grief periods while moving through chapters in life

    How TBM differs from other manifestation practices

    Tools and practices for clearing energy

    Getting to the root of your wishes and desires

    Corrective experiences, trauma, nervous system regulation!

    The magnetism that is on the other side of facing fears

    How to build your trust muscle!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Why clearing space is a crucial step in the manifestation process (00:10:00)

    How to create magnetism! (00:54:34)

    Tools and practices for clearing energy (01:04:47)

    Resources:

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  33. Ep. 249 - Is It Your Manifestation or Is It a Red Flag: Unblocking Tests

    5 mei 2023 · 38 min

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    The Unblocking Series is back with a part 2! In this episode real Pathway Members are sitting down with Lacy and Jessica to explain where they’re stuck in their manifestation process. Then, in real-time, we’re helping them nail down what they might be missing, where their block is, and how they can focus their efforts and start manifesting again. Imagine asking your TBM accountability buddy to help you navigate a block. Now, imagine doing it with Lacy and Jessica— That’s what these quick snippet episodes are all about! Lees meer

    Today we sat down with a Pathway Member to help her navigate the energetics around the relationship she’s calling in. Barbora was perpetually in a magic dark, always getting dumped and when she FINALLY thought her manifestation had come through– she had to walk away after discovering 3 red flags that were non-negotiables. Lacy and Jessica break down how to pass the shinest tests, how to strengthen your trust muscle, and how to make sure all the steps are in motion for your manifestation to come through.

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    A brand new series with Lacy and Jessica all about real-time unblocking!

    Pathway member Barbora’s current blocks in her manifestation journey

    Blocks in dating, self-worth and relationships

    What to do if you’re doing the work but nothing is coming through

    Real-time energetic channeling from Lacy!

    Breaking up with shiny dating carrots

    How to integrate your trust muscle

    Navigating the trifecta: the three steps of manifestation

    Magic darks, tests, red flags!

    What shows up for you when you choose yourself

    The importance of sitting in stillness

    TBM Workshop and DI recommendations!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    A background on where Barbora is on her current manifestation journey (00:12:55)

    Lacy’s real-time channeling on Barbora’s dating blocks (00:15:55)

    Takeaways and tips from Jessica! (00:28:55)

    Resources:

    Ready to Start Your Manifest…

  34. Ep. 248 - How To Know When To Start A New Chapter with Heather Whitaker

    28 april 2023 · 1 uur 6 min

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    Heather Whitaker has always had the special gift of making this work feel doable, accessible, and inspiring. If you don’t know the story, Heather started as a TBM-er just like many of us. She stood up to speak at a live TBM event, and her grasp and devotion to the TBM work made her shine so bright, she eventually became a beloved TBM coach. Now, Heather’s journey continues into a new chapter of motherhood, family, and career. Today, we got to put her in the hot seat to talk about her own process, blocks, fears, and manifestations. She is truly a pro at navigating this work, so just listening to her talk about it really helps you wrap your mind around what it looks when someone lives it – not dabbles or toe dips, but deeply commits. Heather and Jessica get into topics like learning how to get out of your own way, how to maximize and enjoy your free time in an authentic way, shifts in identity, and knowing when it's time to say goodbye. Heather has always had interesting tips and tricks for DIs and inner child work, so you won’t want to miss those! She’s been an expander in every sense of the word, and we are so grateful for every ounce of wisdom she’s given to TBM. We love you, Heather! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    An inspiring announcement from TBM Coach Heather Whitaker!

    Her next steps on her manifestation journey

    Stepping through fear, jumping off cliffs, running into the fire!

    How to manifest empowerment, confidence and self-fulfillment

    Thriving versus surviving

    Career crossroads and alignment in jobs

    The balance between motherhood and your own needs

    Authentic code and how it can evolve over time

    The relationship between ego and job title

    Identity shifts, inner child, aligned action!

    The importance of creating space for yourself

    Tips from Heather on DI’s, workshops and journaling

    How TBM work can help you get to the roots of your fears

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    TBM Coac…

  35. Ep. 247 - Transforming and Pivoting At Any Age - The Process with Barby White

    21 april 2023 · 1 uur 15 min

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    “Old” is not a bad word. Getting older is not scary. Forget college! 50+ is the real-time of your life! This episode is about to blow up all the preconceived notions you have about getting older. Process guest, Barby White, a member of our wise community, is coming on the podcast to inspire the hell out of every single one of us. When she started unapologetically putting herself first, her life transformed. Barby and Jessica cover topics we’ve never had the chance to discuss on this podcast. How do you transition from being a stay-at-home mom with 3 kids into being an empty nester who finds fulfillment in the role of being a mom? How do you find expanders who are over 50 (and probably not on social media)? How do you navigate the pervasive guilt of motherhood? They even talk about the ways ego may be secretly driving your manifestation, how being over 50 is actually awesome, and how pings can be delivering what seems to be the most mundane message (like: clean out your storage closet!). Everyone of all ages will get deep expansion from this episode. Huge thank you to Barby for opening her world to us! This is a good one, y’all. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    The remarkable manifestation of Pathway and Wise member Barby!

    How Barby used TBM work to reinvent herself later in life

    Her cultural upbringing and how it informs her viewpoint today

    The transition from raising children to focusing on your own needs

    Pings, tests, breakthroughs!

    The importance of being realistic with your first manifestations

    Barby’s manifestation list & authentic code and how they have evolved

    Finding expanders in their 50’s and 60’s

    The secret of manifestation

    Boundaries with family members

    The energetic power of the word “no”

    Embracing the magic of later chapters in life!

    Clearing space, navigating regret, valuing time

    TBM workshop and DI recommendations from Barby!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    How Barb…

  36. Ep. 246 - From a Rock Bottom To Finding Your Purpose with Lewis Howes

    14 april 2023 · 1 uur 18 min

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    Lewis Howes was an awkward kid born in a small town in Ohio. He didn’t grow up with many friends, and he, like most of us, was faced with some pretty challenging family dynamics. So how did he become the New York Times best-selling author, keynote speaker, industry-leading show host, and former pro-athlete we know today? You’ll just have to listen to find out. And we’ll tell you what– this story is nothing short of magical. If you’ve ever wondered “What’s the point of a rock bottom?” or “how the hell do I find my purpose?” or “what does successful inner child work actually feel and look like?”, then this episode is for you. Lacy and Lewis go deeply and vulnerably into Lewis’ healing journey– physically, emotionally, and mentally. They talk masculinity, blindspots, spontaneous healing, purpose, reparenting, and how navigating professional, emotional and financial setbacks is what ultimately shapes you into your most magnetic, authentic version of self. It’s not every day that we get to bring on such an aligned, authentic, powerful male voice to amplify for the community, so this episode is pretty special. Lees meer

    Trigger Warning: SA mention at (26:30 - 27:15) (30:15 - 33:28) (36:10 - 42:46)

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    All things abundance and gratitude with our guest, author and podcaster Lewis Howes!

    Lewis’ personal healing journey and how he emerged from a rock bottom

    The importance of knowing your own strengths and weaknesses

    Finances and real estate

    Christian Science and how it has impacted Lewis’ life

    Navigating professional, emotional and financial setbacks

    Three fears that cause us to doubt ourselves

    Parenting our inner child across different ages

    Tips on finding purpose in your life

    The energetic power of accountability

    Embracing discomfort and rejection as tools for growth

    Different definitions of success!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Lewis’ background with Christian Science…

  37. Ep. 245 - How To Be Honest with Yourself: Why Self-Awareness is Everything in Manifestation

    7 april 2023 · 1 uur 13 min

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    Okay, it’s time to get real. Why aren’t you manifesting, really? That’s right– it’s honesty hour over here at TBM. This episode is a breakdown for how to actually be truly, radically honest with yourself about how you’re standing in your own way right now. Today. This level of self-awareness is no walk in the park, but it is a crucial element of manifestation. In fact, self-awareness is what this work really all comes down to. We know– easier said than done. That’s why we’re breaking it down for all of us with Lacy, Jessica, and LMFT Janelle with actionable, loving advice from the manifestation/psychology pros. And a topic like this leads to all the good convo– ego death, coping mechanisms, radical acceptance of your current reality, and how the key to self-awareness is (drumroll, pls) curiosity! This means getting curious about what our patterns, coping & defense mechanisms are, what they mean, and how you can shift them. Why? Because our manifestations are on the other side of all our self-sabotaging behaviors! This episode is the high vibe, energetic reality check we all need– a boost to help you really look in the mirror and kickstart your manifestation process again. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcas

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    A roundtable convo with Lacy, Jessica & Janelle about how to get honest with yourself!

    Energetic and psychological insight and background

    Why honesty can lead to unblocking, expansion and manifesting

    A checklist to cross reference if you need to be honest with yourself

    Coping mechanisms, avoidance, validation!

    The connection between curiosity and shame

    How your ego could be blocking manifestations from coming through

    A step-by-step roadmap for aligned action

    Specific examples from the TBM community!

    Radical acceptance of your current reality

    The energetics of attachment styles

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    A checklist to cross reference if you need to be honest with yourself (00:11:3…

  38. Ep. 244 - What To Do When Your Career Flow Dries Up: Unblocking Ego

    31 maart 2023 · 39 min

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    Say hello to our new podcast series! In these new “Unblocking” episodes, real Pathway Members are sitting down with Lacy and Jessica to explain where they’re stuck in their manifestation process. Then, in real-time, we’re helping them nail down what they might be missing, where their block is, and how they can focus their efforts and start manifesting again. Imagine asking your TBM accountability buddy to help you navigate a block. Now, imagine doing it with Lacy and Jessica— That’s what these quick snippet episodes are all about! Lees meer

    In the first episode of the series, we sat down with a Pathway Member to help her navigate a dwindling savings account in her career as an illustrator. Pretty quickly we got to the root, which led to a fascinating discussion about the relationship between manifestation and ego, navigating neurodiversity (ADHD), and transforming victim/blame mentality into an empowered/action-oriented mindset. If you’re unable to see your own patterns, these episodes are MADE for you. You’ll start to recognize yourself in these stories and apply this same advice and wisdom to your own process. We are excited to connect with you guys in this fresh new offering. Shout out to Marina for kicking us off! Enjoy!

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    A brand new series with Lacy and Jessica all about real-time unblocking!

    Pathway member Marina’s current manifestation journey, including tips on navigating career, creativity and finances

    How to identify your own patterns and unblock faster

    Marina’s TBM process and manifestations

    Navigating burnout and setbacks in her illustration career

    How ADHD affects her work and career

    Sharing finances with a romantic partner

    Ego & Inner Child!

    The energetic relationship between having children and abundance

    Tips and takeaways from Marina’s story

    The importance of embracing grief

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Marina’s unblocking journey and tips fro…

  39. Ep. 243 - How to Deal With Challenging Family Dynamics w/ Nedra Glover Tawwab

    24 maart 2023 · 1 uur 3 min

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    Give a warm welcome back to Therapist, NYT Bestselling Author, and Relationship Expert, Nedra Glover Tawwab—with another beautiful conversation. Family dynamics are complicated, but Nedra and Jessica’s inspirational conversation will give you advice for identifying dysfunctional family patterns and choosing the best path to breaking the cycle and move forward. Whether that’s in your own family relationships, in-laws, or, blended familes. They go deep into breaking generational trauma and enmeshment and understanding what we can learn about adverse childhood experiences (ACEs). If you’re ready to hear actionable advice and game-changing reframes on exactly how you can start to strengthen your own family systems, this episode was recorded for you. We’re talking about taking accountability for your own behavior, using anger as a healthy emotional tool, the ways in which we’re all always mirroring each other, and more mind-blowing familial concepts. Nedra even gives us an overview on her new book that goes way deeper into managing family relationships. Nedra, we are so thrilled to have you back. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    A beautiful conversation about healthy relationships, change and authenticity with return guest Nedra Glover Tawwab!

    How to develop and maintain healthy family dynamics

    Generational trauma, enmeshment, emotional maturity

    Adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) and what we can learn from them

    Making shifts to stand in your own boundaries

    How relationships with parents and partners mirror each other

    Focusing on our own behavior as opposed to changing others

    The power of friendship & mentorship

    Breaking cycles in family dynamics

    Reframing anger into a healthy emotional tool

    The energetics of ghosting

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    An overview of Nedra's new book and how to manage unhealthy family relationships! (00:08:25)

    Generational trauma and how it can affect us in…

  40. Ep. 242 - How to Stop Settling for People Who Don’t Choose You - The Process with Meagan

    17 maart 2023 · 1 uur 9 min

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    From single to dating, then marriage to motherhood, today’s process episode is going to take you through every stage of how Meagan manifested it all with TBM as her secret weapon. Meagan and Jessica talk all things attachment styles, dating apps, dream wedding planning, choosing the “right person,” pregnancy– all the juicy love stuff. Meghan gives fantastic insight into an unexpected outcome of manifestation– the discomfort that can arise when your manifestation actually comes through. She even gives her personal DI and workshop recommendations to anyone who’s manifesting partnership. Meagan and Jessica’s kismet, manifestation-based friendship, makes her story on the podcast that much more special. Strap in! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    The remarkable manifestation journey of Pathway member Meagan!

    Her recent manifestations, including aligned partnership, a dream wedding and motherhood

    Meagan's kismet friendship with Jessica and how she discovered TBM!

    Attachment styles - how they arise while dating

    Growing up with an alcoholic parent and healing inner child wounds

    Tests, magic darks and expanders!

    Energetics of dating apps, wedding planning, and more

    The connection between love and money

    DI and Workshop recommendations for manifesting a partner

    Trust & surrender

    Tips for navigating discomfort when you begin receiving manifestations

    Magnetic Meetups!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Meagan’s introduction to TBM and her favorite Workshops (00:08:05)

    Her manifestation list and how she achieved each one (00:23:40)

    The energetic connection between love and money (00:52:40)

    Resources:

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  41. Ep. 241 - How to Release Control with Psychological Astrologer Dani Beinstein

    10 maart 2023 · 1 uur 15 min

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    Our queen of astrology is back with the astrological forecasts of 2023 and beyond! This episode is full of absolute gold because it’s not just straight astrology facts– it's all about how astrology ties into manifestation and how these incredible tools are to be used for growth as opposed to feeding our addiction to control. Jessica and Dani dive into some heavy-hitting themes like breaking our addiction to control, pain as an integral part of growth, and the importance of self-compassion in using these modalities. However, if you’re a tried and true astrology lover, you will also not be disappointed. Of course, we couldn’t help but talk about astrocartography, the characteristics of the signs and planets, the differences between fixed, mutable, and cardinal signs– you know, all the good star stuff. Thank you for another amazing episode, Dani (this is her 4th time on Expanded)– we love you! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    All things astrology and energetics with our return guest Dani Beinstein!

    Astrological forecasts for 2023 and beyond

    The relationship between astrology and manifestation

    Astrocartography and the energetics of moving cities

    Breaking the addiction to control, embracing uncertainty

    Characteristics of signs and planets!

    Opportunities for changing patterning and habits

    Community, synchronicity, abundance

    Limiting screen time and different effects of technology

    Differences between fixed, mutable and cardinal signs

    Pain as an integral part of growth

    Astrology vs. intuition

    The importance of self-compassion

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Astrocartography and the energetics of moving cities (00:08:30)

    Breaking our addiction to control (00:17:43)

    Astrological forecasts for 2023 and beyond (00:40:43)

    Resources:

    Text Us: +1-213-423-5226 - (texting is only for US, Canada, & Puerto Rico)

    Alexis Smart x TBM EXPANDED Flower Remedy

    TBM Manifestation Journal

    Looking To Star…

  42. Ep. 240 - EXPLAINED Pings - How Intuition Can Impact Our Manifestations

    3 maart 2023 · 1 uur 8 min

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    Your intuition is speaking to you (yes, you) every single day, sending you messages that are guiding you towards your manifestation. At TBM, we call these messages “Pings”, and today’s episode with Lacy, Jessica, and Janelle, is a round table discussion of how pings really work. They cover the energetics, psychology and science behind pings, the difference between a ping and an urge/compulsion, and how pings lead to manifestations. They even go into clairvoyance, claircognition, other psychic intuitive gifts! Understanding pings and how your intuition speaks to you is an instrumental part of the manifestation process, and this episode will give you all the info you need to understand how pings are showing up in your life. Plus…you’ll definitely want to hear about the new TBM workshop that officially dropped today 👀 Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Explaining the energetics of pings with Lacy, Jessica & Janelle!

    How pings help us connect with our intuition and manifestations

    Overview, background and explanation of the term “ping”

    Energetic gifts and listening to your own voice

    How TBM differs from other manifestation processes

    Pings versus urges

    How pings lead to tangible manifestations and examples from the TBM team

    Clairvoyance, claircognition, other psychic gifts!

    The importance of self-compassion

    Trauma mapping and trauma responses

    Navigating the manifestation process with a partner

    Therapy and science behind pings and intuition

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Overview of pings and their connection with intuition (00:10:44)

    Psychic senses and how to recognize your own (00:27:14)

    Therapeutic and neurological deep dive behind pings (00:40:41)

    Resources:

    Text Us: +1-213-423-5226 - (texting is only for US, Canada, & Puerto Rico)

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  43. Ep. 239 - Why Wonder Might Be the Most Important Emotion & How It leads to Expansion With Monica C. Parker

    24 februari 2023 · 1 uur 9 min

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    When was the last time you let yourself feel pure, childlike wonder at the world? Monica C. Parker, world-renowned speaker, writer, and author of The Power of Wonder, explains how actively seeking out the emotion of wonder will change how you experience life. She and Jessica discuss the intersection of wonder and neuroplasticity, using wonder as a love language, and the importance of identifying your own “wonder-bringers” in life. They talk about how wonder is actually the science behind expansion and the ways we can transform how we learn, develop new ideas, and love each other using this insanely powerful emotion. This conversation will actually reframe how you move through the world, inspiring you to become an active seeker of wonder in your day to day life, whether that is by learning to seek it outside of your phone or inside the people you see every single day. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    The fascinating topic of wonder with our guest, author Monica C. Parker!

    How we can use wonder to create more openness, curiosity and awe in our lives

    The benefits of wonder, including more creativity, better work performance, less stress

    Ways we can transform the way we learn, develop new ideas

    Nature vs. nurture

    Happiness, how to define and find it

    Endorphins, dopamine, brainwave states!

    Social media and why we should avoid too much screen time

    The neuroscience and psychology behind wonder

    Childhood learning and encouraging wonder from a young age

    Communication and perspective

    Why time seems to speed up or slow down in certain situations

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Happiness and how we can define and find it (0012:22)

    An energetic definition of wonder (00:14:38)

    The importance of avoiding too much screen time (00:36:10)

    Resources:

    Text Us: +1-213-423-5226 - (texting is only for US, Canada, & Puerto Rico)

    Alexis Smart x TBM EXPANDED Flower Remedy

    TBM Manifestation Journal

    Look…

  44. Ep. 238 - How to Find Your Voice & Be Seen with Salwa Kyobe

    17 februari 2023 · 1 uur 14 min

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    Salwa Kyobe has been a beloved TBM coach for awhile now, but she’s moving on from TBM and stepping into her next adventure! So before she goes, we had to get one more episode in with her to capture the wisdom and insight she’s given this community over the years– and she did not disappoint. This episode is chock full of actionable advice on how to “find your voice”– something you hear a lot in the self help world– but Jessica and Salwa break down what that actually looks like. They touch on topics like external validation, allowing yourself to be seen, having a healthy relationship with your anger, inner child wounds, people pleasing, and more. Salwa even gives us a peek behind the curtain on the blocks and triggers she faced in her journey of becoming a TBM coach. You also won’t want to miss a bonus exercise from Jessica at the end of the episode where she really explains how to move past the blocks that are standing in the way of you using your authentic voice. HUGE thank you to Salwa for her years of wisdom and dedication to the TBM community! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    The power of finding your voice with TBM Coach Salwa Kyobe!

    Authenticity, validation and identity

    Navigating criticism and the energetics of acceptance

    How to find, develop and use your own authentic voice

    Salwa’s personal evolution and manifestation journey!

    Personal boundaries with sharing on social media

    Jessica’s journey with finding her voice on the podcast

    Prioritizing self-validation and self-acceptance

    Doing Inner Child work and loving all versions of yourself

    Anger as a healthy emotion and tool

    Finding your voice while growing in partnership

    Imposter syndrome, people-pleasing, perfectionism

    Not letting the opinions affect your decisions

    Salwa’s next career move!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    The energetics of finding your voice and purpose (00:16:45)

    Salwa’s personal evolution and how she found …

  45. Ep. 237 - The Power of Self Compassion - The Process with Emily Fraser

    10 februari 2023 · 1 uur 31 min

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    Are you ready to meet a superstar pathway member who’s going to blow your mind? Meet Emily Fraser. She’s about to take you on her remarkable health and manifestation journey that began after the accident that changed her life. In this episode, you’ll even be able to hear the authenticity and magnetism ring through Emily’s voice as she and Jessica go deep into topics like overachieving for validation, rest as an aligned action, fully feeling into pain, the innate wisdom of the body to heal and so much more. Emily’s experience will be incredibly expansive for anyone who is or has suffered with chronic illness, is looking to start their own business, or simply needs that surge of inspiration to dive back into the TBM work. Because Emily is living proof of the power of Neural Manifestation, and you can’t help but be inspired by her story. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    The remarkable manifestation story of Pathway member Emily!

    How she manifested her own business, a reclaimed health journey, higher income, aligned partnership and more!

    Emily’s journey overcoming health issues and the magnetism that followed

    Reprogramming roles picked up in childhood family dynamics

    Gratitude that follows traumatic experiences

    Meditation, self-love, radical accountability!

    How she found TBM and her favorite DI’s and workshops

    The magic of the subconscious mind

    Doing TBM work alongside a partner

    Entrepreneurship and knowing your worth when charging clients

    The importance of rest as an aligned action

    Authentic code!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Emily’s remarkable manifestations! Including her powerful health journey (00:29:22)

    Doing TBM work alongside a partner (00:53:07)

    How she navigated the energetics of starting her own business (01:03:50)

    Resources:

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  46. Ep. 236 - Best in Class The Love/Money Connection

    3 februari 2023 · 1 uur 4 min

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    Love and Money– they’re the two things every person wants. But here’s what most people don’t realize: love and money are connected. Deeply, energetically connected. This means that your relationship to finances and your relationship to love and partnership are linked, and the lessons you’re learning about one are mirroring the lessons you’re learning about the other. While we’ve talked about this connection before, every single person–TBM vets and newbies alike– will greatly benefit from this episode. It is a grand culmination of all of our wisest insights on the love/money connection. Some things you’ll learn about…what to do if you’re succeeding in one area and not in the other. Ways to start unblocking and understanding your personal relationship with finances. Finding the root themes beneath your material manifestations. Of course, we wouldn’t leave you without actionable steps to take – so don’t miss the specific DI and workshop recommendations for these powerful themes. This episode will uplevel your understanding of love and money, as you get wise on the energetics beneath both. Strap in! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    A Best Of compilations of all things love & money!

    How love and money are energetically linked

    What to do if succeeding in one area and not in the other

    Specific DI and Workshop recommendations from the TBM team!

    Unblocking and understanding your relationship with finances

    Finding the root themes below your material manifestations

    Boundaries, tests, expanders!

    Navigating money dynamics with a partner

    Upleveling as a byproduct of high self-worth

    Never settling, following pings!

    Staying on the same page as your partner concerning financial decisions

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Clarifying the energetic link between love and money (00:07:14)

    A deep dive into attachment and self-worth around love and money with EMDR therapist Janelle! (00:35:55)

    Actionable tip…

  47. Ep. 235 - How to Have Magnetic Friendships

    27 januari 2023 · 1 uur 20 min

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    Ever been ghosted by a friend? Ever felt angry with a friend and didnt know how to bring it up? Should you keep that one friendship alive or is it time to just let it fizzle? Say hello to the ultimate friendship episode with Jessica and TBM Marketing Director, Grace Abbott. Listen and learn as the two break down all kinds of friendship dynamics– best friends, coworker friends, couple friends, friend groups, new friends, old friends, acquaintances, friend break ups, friend conflict, and more. This insanely illuminating conversation will immediately make you cognizant of how you are showing up in your own friendships. Are you doing an ego dance? Are you looking for validation? Are you being truly supported and loved by the friends you have chosen? We even have TBM coaches Heather and Amanda pop in throughout the episode to give us some tips on creating healthy friendship dynamics. This episode will give you a total mental reset on how you think about your chosen family. Get ready to feel 🤯! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    Manifestation tips on how to have magnetic friendships with Jessica and TBM Marketing Director Grace Abbott!

    How to make and develop aligned friendships as an adult

    Friend breakups and assessing relationships that are no longer serving you

    How your parents’ friendship styles affect your own

    The importance of taking inventory of the close relationships in your life

    Parallels between romantic and platonic connections

    Tips from TBM Coaches Heather Whitaker and Amanda Blair!

    Dynamics with co-workers, friend groups, other couples

    The energetic investment required to have authentic friendships

    Navigating unrealistic expectations portrayed in social media and pop culture

    Friendships in different phases of life!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Parent friendship modeling and how it affects your own (00:13:08)

    Friendship breakups and how to navigate (00:44:50)

    Making friends …

  48. Ep. 234 - Learn What Your Nervous System is Telling You with Dr. Nicole LePera

    20 januari 2023 · 1 uur 13 min

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    Get ready for a podcast episode that feels more like a much-needed therapy appointment, because Dr. Nicole LePera, aka the widely beloved Holistic Psychologist, is back! And it’s another brilliant conversation where she and Jessica go into all things psychology, emotional regulation, and empowerment. If you’re navigating difficult family dynamics, neurodivergence, hypervigilance, or resentment, this is the episode for you. We go into all the unmet childhood needs we can now fulfill in adulthood to get a deep, true healing. And you’ll definitely want to catch Dr. LePera’s top tips on how to create real, lasting change in your life. If you’re ready to get back on track, pop in your headphones, and settle in. This is a good one! Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    A brilliant conversation with return guest Dr. Nicole LePera!

    All things empowerment, psychology and emotional regulation

    Childhood needs that we can now meet in adulthood

    The importance of labeling emotions and compassionate observance of self

    Tips and tools for navigating projection, resentment and anger

    New habits - do’s and don'ts for creating lasting change

    How Dr. LePera defines the authentic self

    Neurodivergence and hypervigilance!

    Not putting your self-worth in the hands of others

    Boundaries, balance, grounded calm

    How to navigate difficult family dynamics and patterns

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    The importance of labeling your emotions (00:11:22)

    Tips on navigating projection, resentment, anger (00:18:21)

    How Dr. LePera defines the authentic self! (00:56:52)

    Resources:

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  49. Ep. 233 - From Settling in Career to Seven-Figure Entrepreneurship - The Process with Holly Conti

    13 januari 2023 · 1 uur 18 min

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    Meet Holly Conti: Entrepreneur, Mother, Pathway Member. Jessica and Holly go deep as Holly shares her personal story of navigating a complicated relationship with her biological father– how she healed core childhood wounds, enmeshment, and more. She even shares with us the story of how she refused to settle for a lower salary, passed bridge tests, and jumped off a cliff from a well-paying job to starting her own business. You’ll learn how all of this eventually culminated in remarkable recent manifestations–success with her own business, her first seven-figure year, and more. If she sounds like a superstar, that’s because she is. But don’t worry– she covers exactly how to balance TBM work with motherhood, self-care, career, and partnership. Don’t miss the recommended TBM Workshops & DI’s that have made Holly such a success story. Lees meer

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    The remarkable recent manifestations of Pathway member Holly! Including a higher salary, starting her own marketing firm, Inner Child healing and much more

    Astrology’s relationship with shadow

    Her unique background and healing wounds from childhood

    Holly’s story of navigating a complicated relationship with her biological father

    The importance of discovering and supporting your authentic self

    How she got over settling in salary and career

    Understanding core wounds, bridge tests, enmeshment!

    Not allowing your self-worth to lie in how others view you

    The story of her jumping off a cliff from a well-paying job to starting her own firm

    Balancing TBM work with motherhood, career and partnership

    The roots of certain physical and financial manifestations

    Prioritizing self-care to show up better as a parent

    TBM Workshops & DI’s that Holly recommends!

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    How Holly navigated a complicated relationship with her biological father (00:17:55)

    Her TBM journey and the path she took to her career manifestations …

  50. Ep. 232 - Find What Is Blocking Your Manifestation

    6 januari 2023 · 1 uur 10 min

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    “You know what you want to manifest… but is your subconscious blocking you from connecting with it?” Get ready, because today we’re getting to the heart of this manifestation process. This episode is about all things BLOCKS. Lees meer

    If you’ve struggled to identify what your blocks actually are or are in the process of moving through a big one, this episode is for YOU. Jessica and Lacy talk through the power of inner child work and unblocking old, childhood memories, and go on to provide incredible advice and tangible resources to help you get to the root of your own blocks in order to create real change. They go deep into sharing their personal stories about their own unblocking journeys and give us an expert breakdown on how tests can actually reveal what your blocks are.

    Plus, you won’t want to miss the updates from both Jessica and Lacy on their progress with the Manifestation Challenge– including manifesting property and aligned travel!

    Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

    In This Episode We Talk About:

    A deep dive into the blocks between you and your manifestation!

    Energetic overview of the term “block” and how it correlates to TBM work

    The power of inner child work and unblocking childhood memories

    Tips on finding the subconscious root of your blocks

    Navigating core wounds, limiting beliefs, societal programming

    Personal stories from Lacy & Jessica on their own unblocking journeys!

    Tests - how they can reveal blocks

    Honoring your own needs first and foremost

    Getting too comfortable in our struggle

    TBM Workshop and DI recommendations for results

    Lacy’s & Jessica’s tangible progress with the Manifestation Challenge, including property and aligned travel!

    Self-worth, gratitude, core essence

    THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

    Overview of the term “block” and how it correlates to manifestation (00:13:41)

    Lacy’s unblocking journey and recent manifestations (00:20:41)

    Jessica’s recently manifested winter trip and the tests sh…